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Step 1, 2, 3
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Good Morning: I am on my 6th day of not drinking. The first step for me was easy to admit that I am an alcoholic and that my life is completely unmanageable. I think I don't have much of a problem with step 2. I know that there is a power greater than myself and that is god. Step 3.... Wow... I have had this...
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Jenna-1974
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Florida Bound!
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In God's grace we fly out at noon to Florida.!..Will check in tonight and see how all are doing.Got some meeting places lined up (some at beach) and looking forward to some FACE-TO FACE with my wife,,,,no work(job) no kids,no schedule(except meetings)How blessed is that!!! Anyway,keep us in your p...
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mikef
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Daily Reflections 9/13...on amends.
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This was part of the topic for this mornings meetings and by listening I was caused to remember how the amends process expanded as I listened, learned and practiced our program. I share with the group one of the amends perspectives that didn't seem to be included with direct and indirect amends makin...
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Jerry F
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Daily Reflections ~ We Stand-Or Fall-Together & 24hrs a Day
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. . . no society of men and women ever had a more urgent need for continuous effectiveness and permanent unity. We alcoholics see that we must work together and hang together, else most of us will finally die alone. Alcoholics Anonymous, p.563 Just as the Twelve Steps of A.A. are written in a specific se...
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Listening
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Listening The girl walks to the meeting in the rain with a cold wind at her back. The cigarette she tries to smoke keeps going out. She flicks her Bic in a few vain attempts before throwing the half-drenched cigarette in the gutter. She looks down and sees the puddles forming on the sidewalk. She ad...
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jennamia
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Can't find my Big Book and can't find want I'm looking for in the 12 & 12??
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Hello - Hope all are well. I cannot reach my sponsor, and am in a very rural area (i.e. no one available in this extremely small town to turn to at the moment). I am trying to help a Friend who is struggling, and cannot find my Big Book, nor can I find that which I am trying to share with this person in the 12 and...
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Glenn
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Daily Reflections ~ Peace of Mind & 24hrs a Day
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Do we lay the matter before our sponsor or spiritual adviser, earnestly asking God's help and guidance--meanwhile resolving to do the right thing when it becomes clear, cost what it may? TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p p. 86-87 My belief in a Higher Power is an essential part of my work on Step Ni...
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Hmmm, endless drunk jokes...
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http://www.aagrapevine.org/da/grabbag.php (Each time you refresh your browser, you get a new joke.)
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FlyingSquirrel
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Prayers for my son
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Over the past several weeks it's starting to look like my son may have asthma. He's been put on a few meds, but things aren't a whole lot better. Growing up with severe asthma myself, it breaks my heart that he may suffer from it too. I know the panic of not being able to breath, and the feeling of helples...
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Reffner
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anonymous
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can any one tell me if having a alanon group meeting going on in a different room of the same building while a open a.a. meeting is going on breaks someones anonmity thank you bigdog
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bigdog
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~ As Bill Sees It: Morning Thoughts ~
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p. 243 On awakening, let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. We ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity and from dishonest or self-seeking motives. Free of these, we can employ our mental faculties with assurance, for God gave us brains to use. ...
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FlyingSquirrel
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I'm new here and wondering what a dry drunk is!
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Hi i'm new on here and just looking for more words of wisdom really! I'm 31 mum of 3 kiddies. I'm just over 3 months sober now, have a sponser and on step 9. I'm not doing anywhere near enough meetings and i've been feeling a bit odd the last 2 weeks. 'Dry drunk' has been mentioned to me. Any thoughts on this? T...
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fallen angel
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Chicken Soup...
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LOL!! I rarely if ever get physically ill especially with flus or colds or the like and am now experiencing what that feels like again. I've been blessed for such a long time that this brings up gratitude for all of the past years I've been free of bugs. My spouse offered to make me some chicken soup and I...
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Jerry F
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But for the grace of God.
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I went out for dinner tonight with my 2 children and my wife. These were things we could not do when I was drinking. It was my daughter's 28th birthday. She was just over 5years old when I came into AA. A year before I came into AA. In one of my drunken sprees I would have lost my entire family. I had driven duri...
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gonee
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Beautiful!
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Thats all! Just a beautiful day to be sober! Oh and fit. Went for my run today. 4miles today 9 tomorrow! Training for my 8th half marathon here in Michigan! Don't think I would be doing this if I was still out in the madness. Very grateful
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SUSIE
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I Can't Prove I'm Sober
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Well I guess that's the other side of the coin. Again a medical test could determine I haven't had any alcohol in the past few days. And other medical tests would show that my body doesn't show damage from heavy drinking. But the quality and length of my sobriety are truly known by no one but me. And ev...
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barisax
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To recover means to learn who we are,
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: She had trouble defining herself independently of her husband, tried to talk to him about it, but he said nonsense, he had no trouble defining her at all. --Cynthia Propper Seton To recover means to learn who we are, independent of friends, children, parents, or int...
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Larry_H
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Letting Go Is Hard..
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So im new at this so sorry if i dont explain this too well. Im 17 and have been drinking since i was 12 I am an alcoholic I crave it all the time, i live in a small town and there is surrounding me is drugs and alcohol. My father and stepmom are both in recovery theve been clean for a year, ive been through alot wit...
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TaylorKk
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Feeling a little blue!
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I found out this morning that my childhood best friend's father has only a few days left to live. Growing up they lived next door to me. They moved in when I was about 5 years old and I immediately became friends with the whole family! Their father was an alcoholic and there were many times when he would...
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jazzyblue
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I Can't Prove I'm an Alcoholic
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There isn't any proof. I suppose if I had continued to drink the way I had been, a doctor could look at my liver or other vitals and say, this guy is an alcoholic. But other than circumstantial after the fact evidence, there's really no proof. We say we're like the man who lost his legs and can't grow new...
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barisax
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~ As Bill Sees It: Let Go Absolutely ~
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p. 242 After failure on my part to dry up any drunks, Dr. Silkworth reminded me of Professor William James's observation that truly transforming spiritual experiences are nearly always founded on calamity and collapse. "Stop preaching at them," Dr. Silkworth said, "and give th...
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~ As Bill Sees It: When and How to Give ~
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p. 239 Men who cry for money and shelter as a condition of their sobriety are on the wrong track. Yet we sometimes do provide a new prospect with these very things -- when it becomes clear that he is willing to place his recovery first. It is not whether we shall give that is the question, but when and how to...
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FlyingSquirrel
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OK, St Pete Dean, Biker Bill, Ago time to come back!!!
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turninggrey
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Daily Reflections ~ Recovery By Proxy? & 24hrs a Day
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They [the Promises] will always materialize if we work for them. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS p. 84 Sometimes I think: "Making these amends is going too far! No one should have to humble himself like that!" However, it is this very humbling of myself that brings me that much closer to the sunlight...
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Winning the Battles = Winning the War
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When I was going through a divorce at 5 years sober, I had to face the fact that either it was my fault or I was powerless. If I caused this, then it meant I was unfit and unworthy of love - my best efforts got me to this point. If she had done it to me, and was in the wrong, then I was powerless over that. Of the t...
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barisax
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Complacency breeds old behavior and unnecessary problems
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Complacency breeds old behavior and unnecessary problems. "The Promises," as suggested in the Big Book, clearly indicate that we have work to do if we want the rewards that are guaranteed in this program of recovery. Getting complacent, not using the t...
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Larry_H
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Growing pains in all my affairs!
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I find it almost impossible to distinguish (without the pain of getting it wrong) where the line should be drawn between me practising growth in tolerance n patience and someone else leaning on me too much!! Is this just the way we all learn about personal bloomin boundaries n doing too much or not en...
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soberchick
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Looking for opinions...
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Hi, I'm Lotan and I'm an alcoholic. I'm new here. I chose this forum so that I could discuss something that has been weighing on my mind. It involves someone else and it is her anonymity that I would like to protect. If I were to discuss this with people I know it would be obvious who I was talking about. I've...
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lotan
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HIt with a TON OF BRICKS tonight
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This page in the Big Book, which we read tonight at a BB study, in the Chapter "To Wives" at the bottom of page 118: "Another feeling that we are very likely to entertain is one of resentment that love and loyalty could not cure our husbands...." (of alcoholism.... but in my case, o...
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license!
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Just a quick note to tell my MIP friends..... I was granted full privileges for my driving license! I have worked the system for 2 1/2 years to be granted the privilege. And it is a privilege I took for granted. But with the AA program and my higher power I now see that and I won't be taking it for granted...
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SUSIE
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Bills/Fear
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Well last night was Tuesday and pay day. I am really proud of myself. I stuck to the budget and didn't spend any money other than food, gas(for my van) and lunch money for my son for school. I paid everything that was due before my next check and shocking as it was I still have money. LOL I did get scared...
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susanbiel
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15 months on and hitting a rocky patch.
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I've hit some kind of a wall here and am not sure what to do about it. It's primarily work-related stress, and I'm having a real tough time "letting go and letting God". I've never gotten a bad performance review, in fact never gotten ANYTHING but but good feedback and raises from my bosses...
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zzworldontheweb
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relapse
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I'm a chronic relapser, need some advice please!!!!
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EVERY NOW AND THEN!
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Spiritual writings always remind me"Who has woe,who has sorrow?Who has strife? Who has complaints?Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?Those who linger over wine!,who go to sample bowls of mixed wine.DO NOT GAZE AT WINE WHEN IT IS RED,WHEN IT SPARKLES IN THE CUP,WHEN IT GOES DOWN...
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mikef
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Daily Reflections ~ Opening New Doors & 24hrs a Day
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They [the Promises] are being fulfilled among us - sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 The Promises talked about in this passage are slowly coming to life for me. What has given me hope is putting Step Nine into action. The Step has allowed me to see and set goals for mysel...
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New Baby - so happy to be a sober mom!
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Life goes on in sobriety - and for me, quite literally! Theodore was born on Aug 26, at 8 lbs 11 oz. We waited to find out the sex, so the surprise was so much fun. I am now a mommy times two - it is blowing my mind! Our family feels perfect and complete - a daughter who is 2 yrs, 8 months and now a son. I have ve...
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Our faith is apt to be weak
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: A.A. Thought for the Day Our faith is apt to be weak, and so we have to strengthen and build up this faith. We do this by going to meetings and listening to others tell how they have found all the strength they need to overcome drinking. Is my faith being strengthened by th...
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Larry_H
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Keep It Simple--Hazelden Meditation Series
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September 8, I have an intense desire to return to the womb--Anybody's ----Woody Allen Some days the world just doesn't seem safe. Maybe a friend died and you are hurting. Maybe you argued with a loved one. You just want someone to take care of you. You want to feel safe and warm. Turn to the spi...
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susanbiel
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Daily Reflections ~ Our Side of the Street & 24hrs a Day
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We are there to sweep off our side of the street, realizing that nothing worth while can be accomplished until we do so, never trying to tell him what he should do. His faults are not discussed. We stick to our own. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, pp. 77-78 I made amends to my dad after I quit drinking. My words fell...
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Four months and feeling great!
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Hi everyone, As of today I have four months sober. I am feeling really good about my recovery, my meetings, my relationship with my sponsor, my realtionship with my HP, and my AA family. I feel like I have finally found a sponsor who I can really work with and will call me on my sh--! She's not harsh or me...
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jazzyblue
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2nd bad dream in 3 days
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Ugh Three nights ago I dreamed I was drinking vodka and beer. Woke up with heartburn. Just now I woke up from a dope-smoking dream where I inhaled sharply and held my breath until I woke up with my temples painfully throbbing. Cunning, Baffling & Poweful...eh? Peace & Tylenol, Rob
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Some Good News
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Well I got some good news today. MY X husband, who was fired from his job because of his temper, finally got the Cobra insurance straightened out and qualified for the Obama plan where he pays a smaller amount for the insurance for himself and our kids. Our daughter had knee surgery this past March and...
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susanbiel
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Alcohol is ruining my life.
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I just need a place to vent. I'm sorry if I sound a bit selfish, but I have no one else to really talk to. My parents don't undertand and neither do my friends. I just want to start off by saying that alcohol has ruined my life. It all started a couple of years ago, when me and my boyfriend broke up. We still did t...
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money/debt/fear
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Well, everyone we went through every single bill I have last night. The results.......not as bad as I thought it would be. I just have to learn how to budget. We will sit down every Tuesday after I get my check and I will write out the checks. The alcoholic mind of mine thought I some how had more bills t...
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susanbiel
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Labor Day
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I hope each and everyone of you of the Miracles In Progress Family have a fun and safe Labor Day! With Love, Rose and John
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Rut-Roohhh.......................................................
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So.............. I get a text message not 5 minutes after I walk in my apartment from taking my dog to the grooming salon.... it was from a strictly platonic male friend in AA whom I don't see nor talk to but twice a week maybe? It said, "Look outside in your hallway." Flowers. Roses, pink, ye...
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jonijoni1
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Let me add my restlessness....
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Must be a full moon somewhere around here, or just that a lot of us on MIP right now have a few beefs to let out, and hopefully let go, on this board, where it is healthy and safe to do so. I feel sooooooo... uhhh.... well........ lonely (there! I said it!!!) tonight!!! And this is not "romantic"...
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jonijoni1
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Sweet 16
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By the Grace of God and the fellowship of people like you... today I will be celebrating my 16th soberversary... I will top of my day of gratitude Saturday night when a gentleman with 38 years sobriety will hand me my chip... And a gift for you, for being here... always being here when I drop by... [video=...
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Dave Harm
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Daily Reflections ~ Emotional Balance & 24hrs a Day
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Made direct amends to such people wherever possible,. . . . . TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS , p. 83 When I survey my drinking days, I recall many people whom my life touched casually, but whose days I troubled through my anger and sarcasm. These people are untraceable, and direct amends to them are...
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i got the job. dermatology and plastic surgery. great pay, benefits, uniform allowances, etc.... i am so very grateful and humbled. just NOT picking up, one day at a time, and it comes together when it is supposed to.
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jonijoni1
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