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Need input from live group secretaries AA-USA
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Hi-I haven't done any AA business mtgs in many years, and just volunteered to be secretary of my new home group--all my service work was in another state, years ago. This small group has had no secretary, no GSR, and has been kinda limping along via the efforts of one person who opens up, serves as tre...
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Depression .... ok a whinge
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Looked into this last night and the UK health site suggested their is a strong possibility of that I'm depressed. However, this is what is confusing me, it's suggesting I do exercise, eat better, take some time off and attend group talk therapy. It also suggested I may need some medication but I don't a...
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Happy Sober Halloween
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Nearly 630 over here in the UK and trick or treaters out in full force. Love Halloween - was my favorite when I was a kid. Best part, thanks to AA, I'm sober on Halloween! Best to all Steve
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SHARING IS A BEST MEDICINE FOR RECOVERING
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Feelings- "Feel the feeling and Deal the Feeling" Life is full of ups n' downs. we have to "think think think" in a every steps of life. "just 4 today - united we stand" share ur feelings threw the sharing.
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Daily Reflections ~ I Cannot Change the Wind & 24hrs a Day
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It is easy to let up on the spiritual program of action and rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do, for alcohol is a subtle foe. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 My first sponsor told me there were two things to say about prayer and meditation: first, I had to start and second, I had to continue. W...
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need help
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Hello - First of all I'm scared to death. I reached a point in my life where I know I want alcohol out of it. I can't handle drinking, I'm not a social drinker and I will never be able to be a "normal" drinker. About 2 and a half months ago I quit drinking on my own. I abstained for 2 months and then h...
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sunday morning thought
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we are just a breath away from November, amazing..... just as i am often an arm's reach from drinking, or even a breath away from doing something that could hurt others in my life... the steps remind me of my choice for this moment and points out that life "run on self will" can hardly be...
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Recovery doesnot promise heaven but its takes out from hell
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"Recovery doesnot promise heaven but its takes out from hell" since a period of first AA meeting- i feel i am in a way of beautiful garden, where diffrent types of flower is there but there is not only a flowers in side there is many hard ups and downs n' pain to reach that palce one promise make m...
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AA in kathmandu nepal
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The schedule of our meetings are listed below. Day : Every Sunday (English - International A.A. Meeting) Venue : A.R.V. Office, Bhimsenthan - 20, Kathmandu Time : 6:00 pm Contact No. : 4264667,9808331822 Day : Every Monday Venue : A.R.V. Office, Bhimsenthan Time : 3:00 pm Contact No...
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Daily Reflections ~ Avoiding Controversy & 24hrs a Day
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All history affords us the spectacle of striving nations and groups finally torn asunder because they were designed for, or tempted into, controversy. Others fell apart because of sheer self-righteousness while trying to enforce upon the rest of mankind some millennium of their own specificati...
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Living the Twelve Steps of Recovery
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Happy Sober Sunday, all. I just received my copy of a new book, written by "one of us" under the name A. Messenger. It is in the process for consideration as Conference Approved literature from AA. It is a daily guide to the steps and traditions, written in a style like the early writers, but f...
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leeu
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scribblings of a newly recovered manic depressive alcoholic
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Just a few notes that might help someone new to AA who`ve also got a diagnossis of bi polar mood disorder 1 always take your meds and see your doc/shrink and listen very carefully to what they say and trust their opinion even if you don`t agree withi "fake it to make it " 2 all alcoholics in my lim...
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obsessing about drink
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Its 12.30am in the uk and I`m asking for help. John Barleycorn is such a devious little bastard there`s so many different ways he can hook you. Like walking down the street past people drinking and having a good time ; like going into pubs on the pretext of using their toilets ; like remembering the songs...
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Experience, Strength, and Hope
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The Beauty of AA is when we reach the 12th step we learn to Share Experience, Strength, and Hope, our failures and Successes become our most valuable commodity Will Rogers wrote: Good judgment comes from experience, and most of that comes from bad judgment When I sit down with My Sponsor, or a valued fr...
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Went back out...
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Aloha All...I've been conversing with a sponsee who has recently relapsed and of course is paying the price in spades. He's attempting to maintain "self" control so I know that HP and I are kinda stumbling blocks for him at the moment. We back tracked over the trail on what caused the rela...
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Food for thought
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Just a reminder for all of us that I wanted to share... I ran into a family friend today (who does not know that I am in AA) and it came up that his brother-in-law is dying. Apparently he had been a heavy drinker all his life, and severely damaged his liver. When he was diagnosed, he quit drinking, but the dam...
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First Meeting
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Hello, I'm going to go to my first aa meeting tonight. What goes on or what am I supposed to expect? Do I just show up and walk in? Thanks, Eric
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Eeeeeeek.
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Two weeks sober yesterday. Not having any trouble not drinking, in fact I've been enjoying being sober and other than having an attack of the "boreds" one night early on...I've been having a great time. I feel freedom. That said, I've been having a LOT of strange dreams. I've always dre...
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FEELING DOWN
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Just Thought I Drop in, and let I'm ok. The last 2 days felt like apart of me left the building. Yes it had to do with my son and I lost it on him and quite frankly I still don't think he gets it. I explained to him I really felt about this drinkin, and the affect it has on the household. Told him he's gonna have to...
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Tina
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The Traditions in our own lives
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As Time goes on I find myself untilizing the AA Traditions in my own life more and more, they are good sound "rules" for Life, No Politics or Religion, being open minded, but realizing our group welfare comes first, paying our own bills, attraction not promotion, this list goes on and on and...
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tom waits
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just a query about Tom. I heard he was an alcoholic and wondered wether or not he`s a recovering alcoholic. This weeks been a roller coaster with lots of feelings emerging that I`d forgotten I had but I`ve got through it with the help of my sponsor and my higher power. My poor wife`s suffered though and I`...
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New here, and trying to figure out if I belong
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Hi... I've been wondering for some months now if I am an alcoholic. My mother is an active alcoholic, and I am married to an alcoholic that has been in recovery almost 2 years now. I have been in Alanon for about 2 years. For about 6 months now, I have been drinking 3 or 4 times a week at home (while my husba...
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When i'm feeling grateful...
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...I don't feel like getting loaded! Just thought i'd throw that out there. I'm just listening to some relaxing music, reflecting a little on just how low I was 10 and a half months ago compared to where i'm at today and what i've got going on in my life right now, the path i'm on right now...I feel so lucky t...
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Day One
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I am new to this, so bear with me. Really, I could use some help on using this forum. I want to get better, but I am afraid that I can't do it on my own. I know that it's not all about accepting, so I am also looking forward to giving. Please, help me begin on this journey. It's not going to be easy for me, but I...
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Daily Reflections ~ Live and Let Live & 24hrs a Day
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Never since it began has Alcoholics Anonymous been divided by a major controversial issue. Nor has our Fellowship ever publicly taken sides on any question in an embattled world. This, however, has been no earned virtue. It could almost be said that we were born with it. . . . "So long as we don't a...
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Morning!
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Just dropped in to see what condition your condition was in!!!! Been really running lately ,wanted to stop in and wish all a blessed and productive day! Another day to thank the God of our understanding for the gift of life,free from active addiction..I'll stop back in tonight and see how all are doing...
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Just spoken by video call to my buddy in Australia
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My sober buddy, Gaz, got married last year and went to Cairns for his honeymoon. They were there 6 weeks. While there his bride was offered a job and Gaz and she went back over there in April so that she could take up the job and he could seek a work permit. Just had a video call by skype with him - was great to s...
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HELP NEEDED! I'm new here and need urgent advice on my wifes drinking problem
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Hi There, Sorry to bother you all but i really need some advice on my wife's drinking problem, ill keep it as short as possible: My wife is a heavy drinker (5-6 beers/wines) per night She has been diagnosed with anxiety and sometimes self halms herself Has done so for about 2 years She has been through the...
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just shared
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Hi there i just shared in a aa meeting was not shure but i asked my hp to guide me .what you guys told me is what i did that is where i came from what happened and how is it now ,went fine .thanks again for all of your supportand incredible counsel.I really enjoy the interactions here and it is now a source that i...
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Daily reflections ~ Our Survival & 24hrs a Day
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Since recovery from alcoholism is life itself to us, it is imperative that we preserve in full strength our means of survival. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 177 The honesty expressed by the members of A.A. in meetings has the power to open my mind. Nothing can block the flow of energy that hone...
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Hi just dropping in
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Just thought I'd drop in Its been a while since I shared anything, things are going ok. College applications with my daughter have been challenging, also working on getting a Van on the road. AGH!!! lol but that's ok, the out come is worth the work. Just got into a bit of a discussion with my son who has Byp...
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Is alcoholism a disability?
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Here in Ireland, one law says it is, yet our mental health act says it isnt.
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Glad to be back....
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Well folks after moving around this island for a few years I am finally back in my own community, have hi-speed again, happy, see my son regularly now, and still no compulsion to drink. Can't get to meetings as much as I would like, but go when I can. Resigned myself to sit back and just relax for now in rega...
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Daily Reflections ~ An Unbroken Tradition & 24hrs a Day
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We conceive the survival and spread of Alcoholics Anonymous to be something of far greater importance than the weight we could collectively throw back of any other cause. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 177 How much it means to me that an unbroken tradition of more than half a century is a threa...
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Feeling frustrated
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I'm just about to 90 days no alcohol and I'm feeling frustrated with AA. It's because I don't have a sponsor yet my schedule is demanding and I have been to lots of meetings in many different cities and haven't developed any relationships really. I feel like an outcast in some ways. I don't even know i...
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Good morning, all!
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Here's a song dedicated to the place I go to for meetings, the "Little House". Because that's where I go when I need some peace. xoxoxoxo All! Amy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-GugzLSbOQE
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Been reading but...
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I was laid off on friday. I have been really depressed. I will go file for unemployment tomorrow and then food stamps. This really sucks. I have one kid in college and one in 10th grade. I worked in the flooring industry so I am now a dislocated worker I applied for the pell grant gov. stuff so i will be...
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Why am i not happy?
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I typed this up, what i got out of Saturday afternoon at the womens retreat at St Clares,Santa Cruz CA****************************************************************************************************************************************** As alcoholics, we did not outgr...
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Daily Reflections ~ Global Sharing & 24hrs a Day
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The only thing that matters is that he is an alcoholic who has found a key to sobriety. These legacies of suffering and of recovery are easily passed among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our gift from God, and its bestowal upon others like us is the one aim that today animates A.A.'s all around the g...
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A song for how I'm feeling one week into sobriety
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I'm a huge music nerd, so I hope you like it and take something positive from it, can't think of a more positive song right now! Music helps soothe the savage beast! Thank YOU, HP for giving me the strength to be where I am and to go where I'm heade...
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We Get Sober So We Can Have a Life
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I remember my sponsor telling me something to that effect. I was still in my first 6 months. I didn't do 90 in 90, but I was probably going to an average of 5 meetings a week. I had something come up that was a commitment I had made - fortunately didn't involve being around alcohol. I told my sponsor I wou...
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Out of the country for the first time in sobriety
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Hey guys, I'm going to be out of the country for the first time in sobriety, on a business trip to various places in Asia for a couple of weeks, so I'll probably be checking in more thqan ususal. There are a couple of meetings in cities I'm going to but my schedule will make it hard to get to them. Booze is al...
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Hypopharyngeal Cancer
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Hello all, I am currently a student conducting a large product on Hypopharyngeal Cancer. I have conducted a lot of research, and I know that drinking is a major cause of Hypopharyngeal Cancer. I would greatly appreciate it if anyone who is struggling (or has struggled) with throat cancer would b...
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Drunk, angry, and trying to sneak into the Mullet Festival without paying is no way to go through life, son.
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"Alcohol MAY have been a factor." Okay, so I stole that headline from Fark.com, but one of my personal credos is: "If it isn't funny, it's probably not worth it." I deal with most difficult things in my life with humor. Laughter is a gift from God, and if you can't laugh at some o...
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Daily reflections ~ One Ultimate Authority & 24hrs a Day
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For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authoritya loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 132 When I am chosen to carry some small responsibility for my fellows, I ask that God grant me the patience, open-mindedness, and willingne...
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In recovery, we learn an appropriate sense of ownership
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Property Lines A helpful tool in our recovery, especially in the behavior we call detachment, is learning to identify who owns what. Then we let each person own and possess his or her rightful property. If another person has an addiction, a problem, a feeling, or a se...
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Can I ask a friend if I can tag along to her AA meeting?
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Or does that take away from the whole "anonymous" thing?If this topic has been covered before, I do apologize -- I'm new to the group and only 7 weeks sober and I'm trying to find a meeting that I'll be comfortable in. I have a friend who's sober an I thought I'd ask her if it's cool if I come to her...
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My brother was found dead Monday
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From an apparent accidental overdose or from some sort of Xanax-dependency withdrawal reaction. But, essentially, alcoholism killed him. I'm getting into some serious self-doubt over not having helped him more. This is horrible.
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Parent stuff
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Okay, so I haven't made it a week yet. Still, there was something that happened this weekend that made me even more glad that I'm in the program and sober. I found out that two 12yo girls in the neighborhood are bullying my 8yo daughter, who doesn't have a mean bone in her body. She had apparently been...
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Good reception at a local poetry reading...
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Hi Ya, Last night I read during a local poetry slam. I was SO nervous! Lotsa big literary brains from the faculty of the local college. The crowd gave me high marks. This is what I read... My ExI called up my ex-significant error, to make some 12-step amends.The last time we spoke, I was all twisted on dope...
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