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Sticks and stones
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...may break my bones etc. Last night and the night before a few of us had a brief chat about nicknames. I'm a bugger for giving folks nicknames, but usually to differentiate between two or more people with the same first name. So I know three Marks, three daves, two pauls, but only one Tim and one Gary. Th...
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Spiritual awakening.
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The things that I loved the most was the things that my God hated the most. So for many years I lived outside the grace of God. I drank what I wanted to drink and I did what I wanted to do. I never hated God but I just could not find His power working in my life. I longed to have what my sponsor had and many men of God...
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I've never felt this way before...
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My family brought me to court and forced me into a rehab, I was there for 23 days. I'm now in my 2nd month being sober. Most days I'm ok, some even great. But I don't know. There are times that I feel angry and sad at the same time and I don't know why. I know in my mind what I need to do; AA meetings, therapy, get a s...
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God is faithful.
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As I progressed into my self made hell during my drinking, a feeling of utter hopelessness had engulfed me. The feeling that I was going to die of alcoholism because I did not know what to do about it. My pride would not allow me to ask for help. I did not even know what was wrong with me. Alcoholics like me on...
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Program
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I have been in the 12 step program just under 3 years. It has been the best journey I have ever been on. Seeing a family member who just started Sat. come into the program made me realize how the steps have changed me. She is saying that she knows the program...... was on it for lots of things..... her rep...
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Grace is sufficient.
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I was recently diagnosed with diabetes. My doctor put me on a course of insulin and tablets. It would not help. So I sat in prayer and asked God to help me to manage this disease just like He helped me with my alcoholism. It worked wonderfully and I am almost a normal person now. I find that although we are af...
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Fun In Recovery
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AA Big Book, pg 132, 16 lines from the top, 16 lines from the bottom, 2 words to the right and 2 words to the left, ... right in the middle of the page... "We absolutely insist on enjoying life" Rose and I have to take time out for ourselves from time to time and just let God blow the dust of life off of us.. this i...
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Some interesting AA stuff
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Go to: http://cviaaorg.ipower.com/AAGallery/
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Hi Shannon!!
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http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1266017449294241550#
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Steve's 90/90 thread.....
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I was doing so good, had a good job, girl, my own place, lost it all to drinking. Now Im staying at my parents house with no job, no car, no gf. So I was talking to this girl online and ended up going to her place, well she had alcohol, I drank and drank and she ended up taking me back home at 3 am and I dont know wh...
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When we think we are losing our grip, we have good reason to look up
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Look, the wind vane fluttering in the autumn breeze. Takes hold of certain things that cannot be held. --Feng Chih When we think we are losing our grip, we have good reason to look up. Consider the moon suspended in the sky, how it continues to come and go, follows its na...
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Daily Reflections ~ Yesterday's Baggage & 24hrs a Day
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For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self-searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 & 12, p. 88 I have more than enough to handle today, without d...
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Today I will surrender to that which I cannot control
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Today I will surrender to that which I cannot control. Surrender does not mean giving up when I need to be persistent; it means letting go of that which I can't change. Surrender doesn't mean I stop trying; it means I try, and then I surrender to the outcome. If I need to f...
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Breath Analyzer in car for someone that does not have a problem???
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Hi All, Very curious, well not losing any sleep over this one, I have a friend that eats out almost all the time, single guy, and he tells me he has a glass of wine with each meal......and then he says I am very careful, I always use my breath analyzer before I drive. My only question to him, was so how does it...
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Craving
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So I've not drank since Saturday - its been rough. Physically I'm starting to feel better by now (thursday morning) and then all of a sudden BLAM! I'm sitting at work at 10am and I want to start drinking, right out the blue. I'm already envisioning myself leaving work early and buying beer and cigarette...
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HI MY NAME IS MARK AND IM NEW"TO THIS BOARD"I NEEDED SOME ANWSERS?
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IVE BEEN DRINKING SO LONG, THAT I REALLY DONT KNOW HOW TO FEEL CRY OR LOVE FOR MY FAMILEY OR MY CHILDREN ITS ALMOST LIKE I HAVE TO PLAY WRITE MY EMOTIONS I DO LAUGH AND CRY BUT I DONT FEEL THE LOVE I SHOULD FOR MY KIDS OR MY PARENTS THIS DOES NOT SEEM NORMAL TO ME.BUT I HAVE NOT STOP DRINKING LONG ENOUGY TO SAY SO C...
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When we awaken to the living and growing world, our spirits lift and open up to hope and new possibilities
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: THE EVOLVING RELATIONSHIP .... open up to hope and new possibilities... Some mornings we may awaken filled with thoughts of what is wrong in our lives. Perhaps we obsess about our failures or the limits of our relationships. If we let ourselves sink into self-loath...
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Sponsor --> Steps --> Sponsees
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I often wonder if AA should have only ONE message to newcomers: Sponsor --> Steps --> Sponsees It's the only thing that really works, isn't it? Sure, there may be an occasional exception to the rule, but I don't know anyone who has done all 3 parts, and done the third part consistently, who has g...
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Been awhile
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Hi everyone I hope this day finds u all well. I came in today to do alittle reading as i do once and awhile. I just wanted to say hi and that i am doing good, some years ago I came here to get some help and the people here were grand, I was at that time a very lonely and desperate soul,lost without hope. This was my...
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A New Phase of Development
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So, I'm amazed...and I'm not even halfway through! My family, however, is not amazed. They are still affected and I don't know what to do. I now know that stress is neither a pre-requisite nor a neccesary bi-product of daily productive living...they still need to generate it in order to engage the w...
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Has anyone heard from our JoniJoni??
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Well she sure has a full plate these days, and from time to time she does take a break for MIP.... Just wanted to say YoHoo, you are missed by all!!!! Baloney friend Toncakes
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There is no such thing as "best" in the world of individuals
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: There is no such thing as "best" in the world of individuals. --Hosea Bellou We live in a society driven by the concept of competition. "We are Number One" is drummed in our ears daily via advertising and sporting events. The message is that we m...
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HELLO
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I'm new to the site..Just wanted to introduce myself...I'm Sheba I
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Year 2
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Ok...so it isn't humble to toot my own horn...BUT...Toot toot toot. Year 1 was all about gaining a foundation and learning to just acquire basic skills to live sober. Year 2 has been about making serious life changes. I did not like that I was a smoker...so I quit. I didn't like being overweight......
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I know I've been away a few weeks..but where is Aquaman.
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.....where are you Aquaman?
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bikerbill
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Three Choices--From As Bill Sees It
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Take from As Bill Sees It pg. 327 Three Choices The immediate object of our quest is sobriety-- freedom from alcohol and from all its baleful consequences. Without this freedom, we have nothing at all. Paradoxically, though, we can achieve no liberation from the alcohol obession until we become wil...
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Fuzzy
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Seems to be a good day to watch a fuzzy caterpillar, and see if something amazing happens. Child Like is Good. Toad
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hi
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Just droppin this morning Just want to give abit of an update. Things are going ok for the most part, finally had enough Monday nite before a meeting. Told my son that if he didn't want up his socks, that he might as well consider it his 2 months notice to get out. Had enough of his drinking, he's a good kid...
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changing status-500
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I didn't think it was any deal, just a number-500. Here it has snuck up and I am happy. May I have many more posts in me. I've gotten so much from being a member here at MIP, and always hope that I'm able to give back something I've gotten. This was a total lifeline in early recovery. Accidental (HP?!) di...
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Wine is a mocker...........
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.........and beer is a brawler, but as my mate says, watch out for the tea and coffee for Tea is a teaser and coffee a mocha. Well I thought it funny. I should've been on jury duty this week and next but apparantly there are too many '12 good men and true' and not enough bad guys to need us all, so I was excused f...
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24 hrs down!
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I realized yesterday that drinking was just something I couldn't stop on my own.I told my daughter in law that I needed help &she said call AA for a meeting &I'll go with you.So we went &God I feel sooo much better for taking that first step!I have the love of my family to help me through.I h...
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A Different card just turned over.....
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Hi my Dear Friends, Yes, for some of us there is a solution, but only by the Grace of God do I sit here writing this out, and we get sober, and begin to really be alive, but it takes me to the thought of how many Alcoholics never see the light of day, Think Dean writes about it being about 5% of the active alcoho...
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Needed a little advice....
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Hi all! I havent had much experience in my life with alcohol issues....I recently started seeing a great guy for the last 3 months. He is sweet and everything I want! He told me shortly after we started dating that he is an alcoholic. He had been sober for six months but had recently gotten back into d...
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Our disease is bad but............
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Hey All, I am on some breast cancer forums with my wife due to her recient diagnosis. While on those forums, I will read posts from women who just have weeks to live. These are tragic tales of years of battle and yet there is defiance and determination. The difference between our disease and their dise...
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Help
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I have been in this confused, hungover, regretful, self-hating place so many times and I'm sick of it but afraid it will never change for good because of all the doubts I have. I know I would be happier if I never drank. I've quit before (pregnancies and one year post a DUI) but I'm stuck in the same mind gam...
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Doing service...
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Aloha family...I spent part of the day at a "Day of Recovery" presented by a local substance abuse program I once counseled for. All of the fellowships + were there and since we are on and island most know each other and who we don't we meet, greet and exchange info in the hope of being coopera...
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Self Knowledge
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Aloha Family... Did the lead this morning at a daily local meeting and ended with a topic for further discussion by the membership of "Self Knowledge" being important to good recovery. My early sponsors helped me to know and understand the one person I had lived my entire life with up until...
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Missing my AA meetings after having a baby
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I'm so glad that I found this site again! I first registered for this site over a year ago now back when I was under a month sober. I have over 15 months sober now. My soberity date is June 26th, 2009. I got pregnant when I was 5 months sober and have remained sober ever since. I just had my son 2 weeks ago by...
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How to handle having extra money
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Well, it's been a month since I asked for help with my budgeting. Each week I have money left over and I just can't figure out why I couldn't/didn't before. I know I am not going to the store as often, it's just once a week now. The kids are adjusting to me telling them that they don't need this or that. Bu...
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Process of Brokenness!
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Well 15 wonderful days away from work and in travel with my wife coming to a close for this summer.One more long weekend scheduled to visit my mom in Rockport Mass. soon and then get set for a few Fall Road running events,Deer Hunting Season(Bow) opening on 10/15 and then Battening down the hatches for W...
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Has anyone heard from Glenn AKA FlyingSquirrel??
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FlyingSquirrel Glenn, Where are you? I miss your postings. Larry, --------------- Arguing about how to practice AA always seems to be a lot easier than actually practicing it
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So I am in the period of waiting for my wife's double mastectomy. They are going to take and check her sentinel lymph node tuesday and if that turns out well the following week they will do the double mastectomy and breast reconstruction at the same time. So, the house needs to be made ready and I am blah...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Circle and the Triangle & 24hrs a Day
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The circle stands for the whole world of A.A., and the triangle stands for A.A.'s Three Legacies of Recovery, Unity, and Service. Within our wonderful new world, we have found freedom from our fatal obsession. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 139 Early in my A.A. life, I became employed in its services and I found...
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To desire personal happiness is normal and healthy
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another. --G. Wilhelm Leibniz To desire personal happiness is normal and healthy. Most of our plans, choices, and dreams about the present and future regarding jobs, relationships, and hoped-for achievements...
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With all the negativity that surrounds us, it is easy to become overwhelmed
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. -- Chinese Proverb With all the negativity that surrounds us, it is easy to become overwhelmed. It is also tempting to fight against the negative or to declare war on it. Yet a master teacher offered a better way...
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Daily Reflections ~ Exactly Alike & 24hrs a Day
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Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 A man came to the meeting drunk, interrupted the speakers, stood up and took his shirt off, staggered loudly back and forth for coffee, demanded to talk, and eventually called the group's...
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Biker Bill--Get your limey butt back here!
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Of course I say that with all due respect. Tom
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Hey all!
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Haven't been here in an age. Wanted to drop by and see how everyone's doing. I'm still sober by the Grace of God and still getting to as many meetings as I can. Am co-sec of my home group now, which is great. Going to try and get here a lot more often. Hope any other AWOLs will drop by too! In sobriety Steve
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The joy of recovery is that we finally get to experiment. We get to learn new behaviors, and we don't have to do them pe
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Practice being spontaneous. Practice having fun. The joy of recovery is that we finally get to experiment. We get to learn new behaviors, and we don't have to do them perfectly. We only need to find a way that works for us. We even have fun experimenting, learning what...
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This is a simple program but it isn't easy
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Self-knowledge and self-improvement are very difficult for most people. It usually needs great courage and long struggle. --Abraham Maslow This is a simple program but it isn't easy. We cannot take the principles we learn and thereby possess them as if we were tak...
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