Alcoholics Anonymous

gladlee · gladlee

"Go forward fearlessly. Do not think about the Red Sea that lies ahead. Be very sure that when you come to it, the waters will part and you will pass over to your promised land of freedom." 365 One-Minute Meditations of God Calling

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The achievement of freedom from fear is a lifetime undertaking, one that can never be wholly completed. When under heavy attack, acute illness, or in other condition of insecurity, we shall all react to this emotion well or badly, as the case may be. Only the self-deceived will claim perfect freedom...

gladlee · gladlee

"Cling to Me until the life from Me, the divine life, by that very contact, flows into your being and revives your fainting spirit. Become recharged. When weary, do as I did on earth - sit by the well. Rest. Rest and gain power and strength, and the work, too, will come to you as it came to Me. Rest t...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

This brought me to the good healthy realization that there were plenty of situations left in the world over which I had no personal powerthat if I was so ready to admit that to be the case with alcohol, so I must make the same admission with respect to much else. I would have to be still and know that He, not I...

bikerbill · bikerbill

you tell me. I've been and I'm still on a long promisee, long planned eagerly awaited trip. I finally realised if not now, then when? The gets laid plans and all that, the trip was planned within an inch of it's life. Plans were abandoned on day two. To date I've seen more buzzards to thepoint they have bec...

tracey33 · tracey33

hey everyone . its been ages since i posted internet access been a prob in my neck of the woods but thank god i am up and running again :) life is good for me i am so grateful to be sober. im a 2 yrs living in my new town and i am well settled now in my aa groups made lots of friends and feel part of again! please god i c...

SUSIE · SUSIE

I was told from the beginning of my recovery that you cant hang with your old friends. I thought ok.....makes sence that you wouldnt want to hang with the people you were with while self destructing. I have 2 friends who have stuck by me and love me for who I am. They still drink, how much? Not sure. On...

ferrisdp · ferrisdp

After 15 months, I went back out. I post this reluctantly, and admittedly, still intoxicated. And I am sitting in my basement, asking myself, did life get better. It's been a week, not crazy, just drunk, for a week, every night. Only nights, not days or mornings like before. But finding old behav...

bikerbill · bikerbill

well now, three days working in Newcstle upon tyne, achieved far more than I estimated, then a productive targets and objectives setting meeting today in Birmingham, a meeting every night this week, an unexpected pay rise and an unexpected bonus payment. Management have agreed that I can self mana...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The problem of resolving fear has two aspects. We shall have to try for all the freedom from fear that is possible for us to attain. Then we shall need to find both the courage and grace to deal constructively with whatever fears remain. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 61 Most of my decisions were based on fear. Alcoho...

turninggrey · turninggrey

I have a friend that is struggling. I am not his sponsor as he is a long distance buddy and is in NA. From what I can gather, his HP has laid down a red carpet of welcome, but for some reason, he is missing the signs. It really seems like he feels unworthy or even afraid of accepting the help. Its almost lik...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: strength arising out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of ones old life as a condition for finding a new one. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 46 A thousand beatings by John Barleycorn did not encourage me to admit defeat. I believed it was my moral obligation to con...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

[img]http://cdn.epicski.com/6/65/1000x500px-LL-656eebd4...

bikerbill · bikerbill

Gypsy Steve is over the worst and has been released from in patient to out patient tonight. Still not out of the woods, undergoing chemo at the moment, but things look a little promising. He really had one foot in the grave a couple of weeks ago. Thanks people. Sorry got that wrong. It's not chemo it's som...

soberbytheGOG · soberbytheGOG

After some thought and prayer, I have decided to go to my high school reunion (30+ years) and since I've never been to one before, I'm a little nervous. I am traveling in with friends, and they are social drinkers (they can take it or leave it) and there will probably be some drinking going on. I've been a...

gonee · gonee

One of the things my sponsor taught me was a very important concept of prayer. He said to me the hallmark of every good recovery is gratitude. As I learnt to pray, my prayer turned from one of petition to total gratitude to God. I now find more of my prayer is for others than myself. I get such tremendous ful...

gladlee · gladlee

"The world has always seen service for Me to be activity. Only those near to Me have seen that a life of prayer may, and does so often, accomplish more than all the service man can offer Me. If man lived apart with Me and only went out to serve at My direct command, My spirit could operate more and acc...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: Conscience is, in most men, an anticipation of the opinions of others. -- Sir Henry Taylor We are no longer in doubt about the right actions to take toward others. The program's Steps clarify what is appropriate behavior. Thus we know that doing any injury - physical...

kld47 · kld47

Hi My regular Doctor and Physical Therapist somewhat agree that I may need to have the Knee surgery done. Will not know for sure until I see the Ortho on July 8th. More tests need to be done, x-rays and another MRI, plus more intense therapy. So no some ways I have been in a downer mood. It is the not knowing...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . if only men were granted absolute liberty, and were compelled to obey no one, they would then voluntarily associate themselves in the common interest. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 50 When I no longer live under the dictates of another or of alcohol, I live in a new freedom. When I release the past and all the ex...

gonee · gonee

We are on pension street working on our ministries that God has given [AA & Alanon]. No stress, no fuss. For the 1st time all our cares are for those we sponsor & teach. We are not overwhelmed by their problems but exalted by God to see what a challenge He has placed before us. Our ministry does not...

mikef · mikef

Today in my interactions with others I will remember that like a small bit that can turn a 2000 lb horse and a small rudder that can turn an enormous ship ,so too the tongue ,a small part of the body can cause enormous damge.I will remember my tongue relects whats in my heart, I will work to ensure this po...

John · John

Friday, June 17, 2011You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours)A.A. Thought for the Day We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one lifetime. One life of drunkenness, failure, and defeat. Then, through A.A., another life of sobriety, peace of mind, and use...

John · John

Often I will use an online searchable Big Book and look up a word. I will read what it says and use it as a point of mediation throughout the day. Today I searched for the word "Peace", and this is one of the places it is used in the Big Book. Chapter 4 Pg 50 Here are thousands of men and women, worldly indee...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

We found the Great Reality deep down within us. In the last analysis it is only there that He may be found . . . search diligently within yourself . . . With this attitude you cannot fail. The consciousness of your belief is sure to come to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 55 It was out of the depths of loneline...

alkyone · alkyone

Just a quick questions. A lady was refused a 32 yr medalion because she had missed 3 business meetings in a row. Would like some feedback on this. And is it a general practice to always provide a medalion on a persons sobriety date when birthday begins with year one.? What other ways are sobriety bir...

gonee · gonee

"..the serenity to accept.." That was our AA meeting theme tonight. We don't need strength, to accept the things we cannot change, but serenity from God. He will give us the peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr Bob says that our heavenly Father will never let us down.

gonee · gonee

I enjoyed a wonderful day of fellowship & fun with my children & their friends. We had so much laughter & fun with kids in their 20's. No drugs, no alcohol, just pure joy of being together & sharing. The fruits of the program is now materializing in my children. God has done a great work i...

ChelseaOT · ChelseaOT

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! It's only day 3 and I'm already tired of feeling like I need to smooth over the idea of my sobriety to everyone else (friends and family). It isn't a big deal for me, why is it a big deal for them? Yes I get cravings but I am going to meetings and even only on the 3rd day it has been way ea...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

We have found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To us, the realm of spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 7 Open-mindedness to concepts of a Higher Power can open d...

gladlee · gladlee

"I am planning for you. Wonderful are My ways beyond your knowledge. Realize My bounty and My goodness more and more. The wonder of being led by Me! The beauty of a guided life! You are overcoming. You are counting all things but loss if you can win Me. And the promises to him who overcomes are...

turninggrey · turninggrey

Anyone recognize the signs of addiction in this sad story? I really do not like this guy but the signs are classic. I am just really glad his last name was not "Vagina".

recoverywfaith · recoverywfaith

Been reading alot of good recovery; thanks. Been in and out of the program for a decade or more. What is different this time is the realization that the program works when I grow spiritually. Glad to be here.

pc2u4uraqt · pc2u4uraqt

Just wondering how this all works? i have an issue and need help

soberbytheGOG · soberbytheGOG

All: I just wanted to share a teeny bit here tonight. I was feeling lower than whale doodoo tonight for some reason. Not really sure, but all day today, I've been in a funk. I feel like if I tried to explain why I am feeling so low that I will start crying. My high school reunion is this Friday through Sun...

bikerbill · bikerbill

so listen to this for a cnain of coincidences. I'm in another city 120 miles from home. Went to a ,meeting last night and met a lad from sheffield (just down the road from home) another man whois relocating to another city where a friend of mine lives, so I could pass his details on, same guy got the job thro...

ChelseaOT · ChelseaOT

This is the first time for me. After being booted out of the Al-Anon posts (when I already feel like an outcast), I am reluctant to repost TOM, but I need advice. I Have been drinking since I was 16. Heavily since I was 18. I'm now 28. Was addicted to pain pills (and alcohol) after I graduated college (2005...

Amora · Amora

I am new here. I have never admitted that I am an alcoholic. The truth is, I am an alcoholic. I live in a very small town and am afraid to attend meetings because I am well known. I have a copy of the Big Book and just began reading. I have so much work to do and yet I'm terrified of exposing myself. I've tr...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . You can . . . make A.A. itself your higher power. Heres a very large group of people who have solved their alcohol problem. . . . many members . . . have crossed the threshold just this way. . . . their faith broadened and deepened. . . . transformed, they came to believe in a Higher Power. . . TWELVE STEPS A...

Tristhain · Tristhain

Hi there. I am coming to this forum in desperate need of help, I have 40+ days without a drink and am doing ok with that facet of the program. where I am floundering ENORMOUSLY is in being able to get out of my own head and deal with the real problem my mind. I have been unable thus far to get out of the lieing,...

Jane05 · Jane05

I have read today's Daily Reflections several times now and today has been, mostly, no different then the other times. I can go on and on about how, before A.A., I was incapable of having *any type* of true and meaningful relationship. But, I'm guessing most of us can. What I seem to focus on is the qu...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

It is a design for living that works in rough going. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 15 When I came to A.A., I realized that A.A. worked wonderfully to help keep me sober. But could it work on real life problems, not concerned with drinking? I had my doubts. After being sober for more than two years I got my answe...

andreaa · andreaa

I am haveing trouble finding the route of my fears in the second column please someone message me so i may discuss it more openly.

New member: Seeking similar stories · bubrat

Hi, I'm a new member here and would like to make contact with someone that shares a story similar to mine. I am in agony at this moment that I have made the mistake of drinking again, yet my path has been different from most of the alcoholics I've known. I began drinking at the age of 18. It was binge drinking...

milo alexander · milo alexander

Hi I'm Milo. I'm not new to AA by any means, I've been to several meetings over the past 3 years. And all of them have gave me wonderful support. I never really had the will power or tenacity to continue or make a change, I always would go through phases of quitting make it through a few days and go back to dr...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is to some extent, ill. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 122 It is important for me to realize that, as an alcoholic, I not only hurt myself, but also those around me. Making amends to my family, and to the famil...

maire rua · maire rua

Dear All, Today I put diesel into my petrol car and had to get towed home. Two good things, had automobile cover which paid for that and was just after a meeting so fairly well grounded, am still a bit stressed though, so am just going to chill now.

Notmyfault · Notmyfault

What can I say....I'm a functioning alcoholic...my husband is also an alcoholic..... He's struggling...health issues...HE IS STRUGGLING...been to the ER twice via rescue I'm trying to help him yet I'm trying to save me.... I feel that I'm the one with the life preserver, staying afloat...someti...

John · John

Hello everyone, As many of us already know, the economy is taking a toll on so many people, so hard that life as we once knew it has changed. So it is with me. As I write this post I am struggling to just keep my head above water, but the water is rising very fast. And I am reaching out for help. At one time, th...

AY · AY

Hi everyone, I am 35 yrs of age. I grew up in a home with a functional alcoholic father. I began drinking around 18 yrs of age mostly social situations. As I went to college/grad school, I seemed to drink faster and more than everyone else around me. I would have occasional blackouts, but nothing reg...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	God Calling ~ Your Red Sea (Preview) "Go forward fearlessly. Do not think about the Red Sea that lies ahead. Be very sure that when you come to it, the waters will part and you will pass over to your promised land of freedom." 365 One-Minute Meditations of God Calling	gladlee	2	493	Jun 24, 2011 by Mr_David
	Daily Reflections ~ Fear and Faith & 24hrs a Day (Preview) The achievement of freedom from fear is a lifetime undertaking, one that can never be wholly completed. When under heavy attack, acute illness, or in other condition of insecurity, we shall all react to this emotion well or badly, as the case may be. Only the self-deceived will claim perfect freedom...	Sobrietyspell	1	743	Jun 24, 2011 by Mr_David
	God Calling ~ Cling to Me (Preview) "Cling to Me until the life from Me, the divine life, by that very contact, flows into your being and revives your fainting spirit. Become recharged. When weary, do as I did on earth - sit by the well. Rest. Rest and gain power and strength, and the work, too, will come to you as it came to Me. Rest t...	gladlee	1	458	Jun 24, 2011 by Mr_David
	Daily Reflections ~ Today, I'm Free & 24hrs a Day (Preview) This brought me to the good healthy realization that there were plenty of situations left in the world over which I had no personal powerthat if I was so ready to admit that to be the case with alcohol, so I must make the same admission with respect to much else. I would have to be still and know that He, not I...	Sobrietyspell	1	828	Jun 24, 2011 by Mr_David
	an epiphany? A spiritual awakening? A change anyway (Preview) you tell me. I've been and I'm still on a long promisee, long planned eagerly awaited trip. I finally realised if not now, then when? The gets laid plans and all that, the trip was planned within an inch of it's life. Plans were abandoned on day two. To date I've seen more buzzards to thepoint they have bec...	bikerbill	3	674	Jun 24, 2011 by Mr_David
	i am back (Preview) hey everyone . its been ages since i posted internet access been a prob in my neck of the woods but thank god i am up and running again :) life is good for me i am so grateful to be sober. im a 2 yrs living in my new town and i am well settled now in my aa groups made lots of friends and feel part of again! please god i c...	tracey33	4	566	Jun 23, 2011 by StPeteDean
	Past Friends.... (Preview) I was told from the beginning of my recovery that you cant hang with your old friends. I thought ok.....makes sence that you wouldnt want to hang with the people you were with while self destructing. I have 2 friends who have stuck by me and love me for who I am. They still drink, how much? Not sure. On...	SUSIE	10	656	Jun 22, 2011 by happycamper
	Did life get better? (Preview) After 15 months, I went back out. I post this reluctantly, and admittedly, still intoxicated. And I am sitting in my basement, asking myself, did life get better. It's been a week, not crazy, just drunk, for a week, every night. Only nights, not days or mornings like before. But finding old behav...	ferrisdp	15	882	Jun 22, 2011 by LinBaba
	Holiday time! (That's vacation time to my colonial cousins!) (Preview) well now, three days working in Newcstle upon tyne, achieved far more than I estimated, then a productive targets and objectives setting meeting today in Birmingham, a meeting every night this week, an unexpected pay rise and an unexpected bonus payment. Management have agreed that I can self mana...	bikerbill	7	485	Jun 21, 2011 by bikerbill
	Daily Reflections ~ Release From Fear & 24hrs a Day (Preview) The problem of resolving fear has two aspects. We shall have to try for all the freedom from fear that is possible for us to attain. Then we shall need to find both the courage and grace to deal constructively with whatever fears remain. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 61 Most of my decisions were based on fear. Alcoho...	Sobrietyspell	1	5280	Jun 21, 2011 by Mr_David
	Do not feel unworthy of your HP. (Preview) I have a friend that is struggling. I am not his sponsor as he is a long distance buddy and is in NA. From what I can gather, his HP has laid down a red carpet of welcome, but for some reason, he is missing the signs. It really seems like he feels unworthy or even afraid of accepting the help. Its almost lik...	turninggrey	5	740	Jun 20, 2011 by turninggrey
	Daily Reflections ~ A.A. Regeneration & 24hrs a Day (Preview) Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: strength arising out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of ones old life as a condition for finding a new one. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 46 A thousand beatings by John Barleycorn did not encourage me to admit defeat. I believed it was my moral obligation to con...	Sobrietyspell	3	2015	Jun 20, 2011 by mikef
	Time to head for the hills (Preview) [img]http://cdn.epicski.com/6/65/1000x500px-LL-656eebd4...	StPeteDean	9	839	Jun 19, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	My Buddy + our Prayers = Result! (Preview) Gypsy Steve is over the worst and has been released from in patient to out patient tonight. Still not out of the woods, undergoing chemo at the moment, but things look a little promising. He really had one foot in the grave a couple of weeks ago. Thanks people. Sorry got that wrong. It's not chemo it's som...	bikerbill	6	556	Jun 19, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	High School Reunion (Preview) After some thought and prayer, I have decided to go to my high school reunion (30+ years) and since I've never been to one before, I'm a little nervous. I am traveling in with friends, and they are social drinkers (they can take it or leave it) and there will probably be some drinking going on. I've been a...	soberbytheGOG	5	721	Jun 19, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	My Prayer (Preview) One of the things my sponsor taught me was a very important concept of prayer. He said to me the hallmark of every good recovery is gratitude. As I learnt to pray, my prayer turned from one of petition to total gratitude to God. I now find more of my prayer is for others than myself. I get such tremendous ful...	gonee	2	762	Jun 19, 2011 by Mr_David
	God Calling ~ Wait (Preview) "The world has always seen service for Me to be activity. Only those near to Me have seen that a life of prayer may, and does so often, accomplish more than all the service man can offer Me. If man lived apart with Me and only went out to serve at My direct command, My spirit could operate more and acc...	gladlee	1	457	Jun 19, 2011 by Mr_David
	Conscience is, in most men, an anticipation of the opinions of others (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: Conscience is, in most men, an anticipation of the opinions of others. -- Sir Henry Taylor We are no longer in doubt about the right actions to take toward others. The program's Steps clarify what is appropriate behavior. Thus we know that doing any injury - physical...	Larry_H	2	822	Jun 19, 2011 by leeu
	Possible Surgery Looming (Preview) Hi My regular Doctor and Physical Therapist somewhat agree that I may need to have the Knee surgery done. Will not know for sure until I see the Ortho on July 8th. More tests need to be done, x-rays and another MRI, plus more intense therapy. So no some ways I have been in a downer mood. It is the not knowing...	kld47	6	721	Jun 18, 2011 by pinkchip
	Daily Reflections ~ A Fellowship of Freedom & 24hrs a ay (Preview) . . . if only men were granted absolute liberty, and were compelled to obey no one, they would then voluntarily associate themselves in the common interest. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 50 When I no longer live under the dictates of another or of alcohol, I live in a new freedom. When I release the past and all the ex...	Sobrietyspell	1	457	Jun 18, 2011 by Mr_David
	A new vision. (Preview) We are on pension street working on our ministries that God has given [AA & Alanon]. No stress, no fuss. For the 1st time all our cares are for those we sponsor & teach. We are not overwhelmed by their problems but exalted by God to see what a challenge He has placed before us. Our ministry does not...	gonee	2	539	Jun 18, 2011 by mikef
	A small thing that can cause tremendous damage (Preview) Today in my interactions with others I will remember that like a small bit that can turn a 2000 lb horse and a small rudder that can turn an enormous ship ,so too the tongue ,a small part of the body can cause enormous damge.I will remember my tongue relects whats in my heart, I will work to ensure this po...	mikef	6	1077	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	Twenty Four Hours A Day (Preview) Friday, June 17, 2011You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours)A.A. Thought for the Day We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one lifetime. One life of drunkenness, failure, and defeat. Then, through A.A., another life of sobriety, peace of mind, and use...	John	1	6888	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	Peace... (Preview) Often I will use an online searchable Big Book and look up a word. I will read what it says and use it as a point of mediation throughout the day. Today I searched for the word "Peace", and this is one of the places it is used in the Big Book. Chapter 4 Pg 50 Here are thousands of men and women, worldly indee...	John	3	738	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	Daily Reflections ~ Deep Down Within Us (Preview) We found the Great Reality deep down within us. In the last analysis it is only there that He may be found . . . search diligently within yourself . . . With this attitude you cannot fail. The consciousness of your belief is sure to come to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 55 It was out of the depths of loneline...	Sobrietyspell	1	389	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	sobriety celabrations (Preview) Just a quick questions. A lady was refused a 32 yr medalion because she had missed 3 business meetings in a row. Would like some feedback on this. And is it a general practice to always provide a medalion on a persons sobriety date when birthday begins with year one.? What other ways are sobriety bir...	alkyone	14	843	Jun 17, 2011 by alkyone
	Acceptance as a way of life. (Preview) "..the serenity to accept.." That was our AA meeting theme tonight. We don't need strength, to accept the things we cannot change, but serenity from God. He will give us the peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr Bob says that our heavenly Father will never let us down.	gonee	5	1018	Jun 17, 2011 by vixen
	Thanks to God. (Preview) I enjoyed a wonderful day of fellowship & fun with my children & their friends. We had so much laughter & fun with kids in their 20's. No drugs, no alcohol, just pure joy of being together & sharing. The fruits of the program is now materializing in my children. God has done a great work i...	gonee	2	571	Jun 17, 2011 by mikef
	ALREADY tired of feeling like I need to make OTHERS FEEL OK ABOUT MY SOBRIETY (Preview) AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! It's only day 3 and I'm already tired of feeling like I need to smooth over the idea of my sobriety to everyone else (friends and family). It isn't a big deal for me, why is it a big deal for them? Yes I get cravings but I am going to meetings and even only on the 3rd day it has been way ea...	ChelseaOT	5	623	Jun 17, 2011 by happycamper
	Daily Reflections ~ Openmindedness & 24hrs a Day (Preview) We have found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To us, the realm of spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 7 Open-mindedness to concepts of a Higher Power can open d...	Sobrietyspell	3	583	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	God Calling ~ Glory, Glory Dawneth (Preview) "I am planning for you. Wonderful are My ways beyond your knowledge. Realize My bounty and My goodness more and more. The wonder of being led by Me! The beauty of a guided life! You are overcoming. You are counting all things but loss if you can win Me. And the promises to him who overcomes are...	gladlee	2	663	Jun 17, 2011 by Mr_David
	Anyone having thoughts about Weiner? (Preview) Anyone recognize the signs of addiction in this sad story? I really do not like this guy but the signs are classic. I am just really glad his last name was not "Vagina".	turninggrey	11	718	Jun 16, 2011 by barisax
	New to Site (Preview) Been reading alot of good recovery; thanks. Been in and out of the program for a decade or more. What is different this time is the realization that the program works when I grow spiritually. Glad to be here.	recoverywfaith	7	620	Jun 16, 2011 by happycamper
	new to the forum (Preview) Just wondering how this all works? i have an issue and need help	pc2u4uraqt	12	763	Jun 16, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	Just a short note... (Preview) All: I just wanted to share a teeny bit here tonight. I was feeling lower than whale doodoo tonight for some reason. Not really sure, but all day today, I've been in a funk. I feel like if I tried to explain why I am feeling so low that I will start crying. My high school reunion is this Friday through Sun...	soberbytheGOG	5	932	Jun 16, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	coincidences? (Preview) so listen to this for a cnain of coincidences. I'm in another city 120 miles from home. Went to a ,meeting last night and met a lad from sheffield (just down the road from home) another man whois relocating to another city where a friend of mine lives, so I could pass his details on, same guy got the job thro...	bikerbill	5	581	Jun 16, 2011 by bikerbill
	WE need advice. I cheated, we love oneanother. Alcohol & Xanax addiction. Gr8tfulOne (Preview) This is the first time for me. After being booted out of the Al-Anon posts (when I already feel like an outcast), I am reluctant to repost TOM, but I need advice. I Have been drinking since I was 16. Heavily since I was 18. I'm now 28. Was addicted to pain pills (and alcohol) after I graduated college (2005...	ChelseaOT	23	2221	Jun 16, 2011 by ChelseaOT
	New. Still Drinking. Want to Stop. (Preview) I am new here. I have never admitted that I am an alcoholic. The truth is, I am an alcoholic. I live in a very small town and am afraid to attend meetings because I am well known. I have a copy of the Big Book and just began reading. I have so much work to do and yet I'm terrified of exposing myself. I've tr...	Amora	8	1790	Jun 16, 2011 by pinkchip
	Daily Reflections ~ Making A.A. Your Higher Power & 24hrs a Day (Preview) . . . You can . . . make A.A. itself your higher power. Heres a very large group of people who have solved their alcohol problem. . . . many members . . . have crossed the threshold just this way. . . . their faith broadened and deepened. . . . transformed, they came to believe in a Higher Power. . . TWELVE STEPS A...	Sobrietyspell	2	641	Jun 16, 2011 by Mr_David
	First steps. (Preview) Hi there. I am coming to this forum in desperate need of help, I have 40+ days without a drink and am doing ok with that facet of the program. where I am floundering ENORMOUSLY is in being able to get out of my own head and deal with the real problem my mind. I have been unable thus far to get out of the lieing,...	Tristhain	10	631	Jun 15, 2011 by soberbytheGOG
	Relationships Relationships (Preview) I have read today's Daily Reflections several times now and today has been, mostly, no different then the other times. I can go on and on about how, before A.A., I was incapable of having any type of true and meaningful relationship. But, I'm guessing most of us can. What I seem to focus on is the qu...	Jane05	5	9295	Jun 15, 2011 by Frodo
	Daily Reflections ~ When the Going Gets Rough & 24 hrs a Day (Preview) It is a design for living that works in rough going. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 15 When I came to A.A., I realized that A.A. worked wonderfully to help keep me sober. But could it work on real life problems, not concerned with drinking? I had my doubts. After being sober for more than two years I got my answe...	Sobrietyspell	1	615	Jun 14, 2011 by Mr_David
	I am new to the online blogging, can someone help me with my fears? (Preview) I am haveing trouble finding the route of my fears in the second column please someone message me so i may discuss it more openly.	andreaa	7	490	Jun 14, 2011 by gonee
	New member: Seeking similar stories (Preview) Hi, I'm a new member here and would like to make contact with someone that shares a story similar to mine. I am in agony at this moment that I have made the mistake of drinking again, yet my path has been different from most of the alcoholics I've known. I began drinking at the age of 18. It was binge drinking...	bubrat	6	746	Jun 14, 2011 by gonee
	First Post (Preview) Hi I'm Milo. I'm not new to AA by any means, I've been to several meetings over the past 3 years. And all of them have gave me wonderful support. I never really had the will power or tenacity to continue or make a change, I always would go through phases of quitting make it through a few days and go back to dr...	milo alexander	19	757	Jun 14, 2011 by milo alexander
	Daily Reflections ~ Living Our Amends & 24hrs a Day (Preview) Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is to some extent, ill. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 122 It is important for me to realize that, as an alcoholic, I not only hurt myself, but also those around me. Making amends to my family, and to the famil...	Sobrietyspell	1	579	Jun 14, 2011 by Mr_David
	stressed out - I am a gom (Preview) Dear All, Today I put diesel into my petrol car and had to get towed home. Two good things, had automobile cover which paid for that and was just after a meeting so fairly well grounded, am still a bit stressed though, so am just going to chill now.	maire rua	3	616	Jun 14, 2011 by Mr_David
	new to forum....Help! (Preview) What can I say....I'm a functioning alcoholic...my husband is also an alcoholic..... He's struggling...health issues...HE IS STRUGGLING...been to the ER twice via rescue I'm trying to help him yet I'm trying to save me.... I feel that I'm the one with the life preserver, staying afloat...someti...	Notmyfault	13	667	Jun 14, 2011 by Rainspa
	Request for help... (Preview) Hello everyone, As many of us already know, the economy is taking a toll on so many people, so hard that life as we once knew it has changed. So it is with me. As I write this post I am struggling to just keep my head above water, but the water is rising very fast. And I am reaching out for help. At one time, th...	John	4	2244	Jun 13, 2011 by John
	Hard Drinker vs. alcoholic? (Preview) Hi everyone, I am 35 yrs of age. I grew up in a home with a functional alcoholic father. I began drinking around 18 yrs of age mostly social situations. As I went to college/grad school, I seemed to drink faster and more than everyone else around me. I would have occasional blackouts, but nothing reg...	AY	39	4286	Jun 13, 2011 by Rainspa
«First < 1 … 222 223 224 225 226 … 511 > Last» \| Page of 511 sorted by