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Good morning all....
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Just stopped by this morning to check in. I have been busy since Sat, morning, I had to take my 77 yr old Mother to the ER and they admitted her to the hosp., she has emphsema and many other medical problems. They called me early Mon. morning,said she wasn't going to make it, by the time I got there and called...
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Thought 1/27/2005
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When men are rightfully occupied, then their amusement grows out of their work as the color petals out of a fruitful garden. --John Ruskin
What do we need most in order to be happy? Certainly we all need to be loved. Yet we need even more than that. The spirit also wishes to be needed. When we...
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Best Telly Programme - Ever
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Thank you Channel 4 for the best telly programme ever - Anatomy for Beginners.
It features a guy who looks like Dr Who with a husky German accent doing real time dissections on human bodies. There is a running commentary from someone in white coat, who looks like he just came out of a washing powder a...
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In the midst of winter
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In the midst of winter, I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer. --Albert Camus
When things seem to be going badly and everyone appears to be against us, what do we see? Do we think things will never get better, or is there a ray of hope inside us that believes everything will s...
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boundaries
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Others treat us the way we invite them to treat us. --Barb H.
Coping with stress is a lot more difficult than preventing it in the first place. If we think prevention, we can avoid a surprising number of stressful situations by thinking ahead and sidestepping. We don't have to have lunch w...
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A sharing on Self Esteem, Self Love, Self Centered
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SELF ESTEEM, SELF LOVE and SELF CENTEREDNESS
by Nancy Poitou, M.A., M.F.T.
I have been asked often about what is self-esteem, self-love and self-centeredness. These are very good questions and it is a fine line that separates these concepts.
Self esteem means to hold oneself in high estee...
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Have a great day
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Had a little case of depression, it appears to have lifted this am. It's nice just to be able to think GREAT DAY. Anybody know what I mean?? Depression SUCKS !!
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thought 1/26/05
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Nothing is more difficult than competing with a myth. -- Francoise Giroud
Sometimes we think we need to try and be something we're not. Maybe we feel pressure from friends to behave or dress like someone else. All we need to do is remember when we were younger and dressed in our parents' cl...
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Old preamble???
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This is the text of an old preamble that used to be used at AA Meetings. It was found floating around USENET. From what we can tell it was never "official" AA literature. If anyone can give us a better idea of where it came from, please write and we will pass it along to the other readers. -----------------...
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today's gift 1/26/2005
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The important thing is not to stop questioning. --Albert Einstein
We used to think we knew it all. We had grandiose ideas about ourselves. We stopped asking hard questions that could cause our fragile world of make-believe and deviousness to come crashing down. We protected our addic...
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big book quote 1/26/05
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"Cling to the thought that, in God's hands, the dark past is the greatest possession you have-the key to life and happiness for others. With it you can avert death and misery for them." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, The Family Afterward, pg. 124~ -- Edited by Rick at 10:16, 2005-01-26
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We're laughin'
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Just wanted to say I have laughed out loud several times tonight and it feels really good. I am really enjoying getting to know folks on this board, and especially enjoy it when folks share their sense of humour.
We have all come a long way, and to be able to smile through things today, sure beats drinki...
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Stranded
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A man stranded on a desert island comes across a woman who has washed up onto shore. The man helps the woman and welcomes her to the island.
Later on that day, the woman says, "I don't suppose you smoked before you were stranded on this island, did you?"
The man explains that he did smoke before be...
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What its like to be older.---
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A New or Old Saying? ROFLMAO!
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My spouse came home from a meeting, and had to chuckle. A fellow there was in prayer, and finally said out loud, "I've been trying to Polevault over a Mouse T--d ! My spouse said he could see himself in that expression so clearly. I said to, for me, h...
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Its quite a battle if we dont accept hu?
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Acceptance is the recognition that something is wrong and a person needs help. This is true of cancer, diabetes, and heart disease, as well as drug addiction and alcoholism. With any disease, if a person does not recognize, admit, and accept that they have a problem, there is no solution. Acceptance...
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resentments
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Resent Somebody
The moment you start to resent a person you become that person's slave. He or she controls your dreams, absorbs your digestion, robs you of your peace of mind and good will, and takes away the pleasure of your work.
A person you resent ruins your spirituality and nullifie...
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Can I Ask You All For Help ?
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Hi, my name is Ginger and I am not an Alcoholic but my husband is and I have some questions and I thought who better to answer. First my husband and I have been together for 21 years and through out that time he has battled with sobriety. I think maybe he went 2 years at th...
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Todays 12 Step Call...
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I was called on the telephone by someone I don't know, asking me if I would help them figure out a way to get a alcoholic out of a hotel room, into detox, and thereafter the rooms of recovery.
I agreed to meet with this person at a family resturant to discuss it further.
I got to the resturant and t...
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patience
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Only with winter patience can we bring The deep desired, long-awaited spring --Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Family life requires patience. We probably realized that a long time ago. The Greek origin of the word patience is pathos, which means "suffering." In our lives together, we often suffer. L...
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Big week
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Allo all,
'Tas been a big week and I haven't had much chance to check in. Kicked a few goals and came short on a few others, but feeling like I'm winning at the game of life, as I sit to write.
Stan - I look forward to the finished inventory. For every crappy thing you counted, I look forward to hearing at l...
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Forgiving
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To me, forgiveness is freedom.
When I do not forgive, I am being a victim. I am trapped in my own misery and self pity. I feel powerless. I am unable to contribute much to other people. I blame those who I have not forgiven instead of being responsible for my own life. I waste my time and energy trying to ju...
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Todays gift 1/23/05
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A.A. Thought for the Day
"Outline the program of action to new prospects, explaining how you made a self appraisal, how you straightened out your past, and why you are now endeavoring to help them. It is important for them to realize that your attempt to pass this on to them plays a vital part...
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Animals are such agreeable friends they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms.
--George Eliot
A pet is often liked by everyone and seems to have no enemies. Why is this? Pets are friendly and interested in others. They seem to get joy out of just being with us. They do not have a critica...
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Reading and Thought for the Day
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ ACCEPTING OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are, ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are. This is to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can ev...
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Sure is great to see
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Great to see so many newcommers and old commers finding and sharing with us, on this board.
Makes one feel a big part of.
I cant remember everyones name--I gave up trying. Sometimers, yu know.:)
Having only 2 brain cells left, and they work overtime, most days---doesnt help.
But Im g...
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Hiya!
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I just joined the board here and I wanted to say hello to everyone.
I'm in the Seattle area (Renton, to be specific) and my sobriety date is 10-21-02. Hope everyone is having a great weekend!
--Greg
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Is Not Drinking Not Enough?
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After a meeting tonight, someone asked if I had a sponsor and had started "the Programme".
I answered that, as I had given up drinking I did not see the need to do so. I added that I was put off the "Steps" by the references to god and I did not see how I could do 12 steps if the first one did not make any sense...
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The 12 promises for Beginners
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THE TWELVE PROMISES FOR BEGINNERS
1. YOU WILL KNOW YOUR FULL NAME AND ADDRESS.
2. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SHAVE YOURSELF.
3. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DRESS AND UNDRESS YOURSELF.
4. YOU WILL KNOW THE TOWN, STATE AND COUNTRY YOU ARE IN.
5. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO FIND SOCKS THAT MATCH.
6. YOU WIL...
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My wife is at the door. The auto water at the barn isn't working. Could I come right out? Yes!!! Just what I want to do go out and work on water!!!. Wonder whats's the matter? frozen??? What leson will I learn I ask GOD?? Away I go wondering????
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So True Hu? And have a good night guys.
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Resent Somebody
The moment you start to resent a person you become that person's slave. He or she controls your dreams, absorbs your digestion, robs you of your peace of mind and good will, and takes away the pleasure of your work.
A person you resent ruins your spirituality and nullifies you...
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Some days life does suck, being sober. BUT
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I dont hafta hug damned toilet bowls on a daily basis.
I can wake up in the morning and the bed aint shakin.
I can go through police spot checks and say, na na na na na.
Ide rather be breathin than be in jail, in a padded cell, or in a nut house.
I can watch all the insanity instead of being in it...
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Two Months Not Drinking
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Its over two months that I have not had an alcoholic drink.
How has it changed my life? I shall try and do an inventory.
Main Benefit: being able to drive at any time. Has come in useful when going up to the pub when bored at home or escaping (see below). Ironically, it means that I am more li...
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1/21 gift
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Love immediately challenges me to break the fixation I have with myself. --John Powell, S.J.
Self-absorption can become habitual, and it's a seductive pastime. "How do I look?" "Was my response articulate?" "Is my wit impressive?" It's all too easy to block out the presence of others...
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Thought for the Day 1/21/05
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ UNITED WE STAND We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p...
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Hey Stan? My man!!
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I weave through the bull crap each and every day, the same as you do my freind.
But theres one great thing about it. Ide rather watch it than be in it.:)
You deserve a pat on the back.
And by the way. I misplaced your phone number. Fire it at me again. Ide likely enjoy talking with you, even if you...
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it has been a while
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well i haven't been out doing research just been sick with woman issues and haven't been up to writing . i however have missed you all and i have been doing some service work and doing meetings. just being careful with my recovery especially when i don't feel good ya know. well i hope...
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Yup-makes sense to me:)
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>Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me,
>for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either, just take off
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> § The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan
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> § The darkest hours come just before the dawn. So if you're
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1/21 thought
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If you realize you aren't so wise today as you thought you were yesterday, you're wiser today. --Olin Miller
Smug was a kitten who thought she knew everything. She knew how to clean herself with her sandpaper tongue, how to sleep, eat, and keep warm, and how to sharpen her tiny claws. One day, her...
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Its colder than a ----- fill in the blank
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Just dropping in to say good morning to all you guys.
Its so cold in Ontario Canada--the 2 brain cells that still exist are hiding under blankets. (smile)
Wishing you all a good day!!
Thought for today "Dont think--it causes brain damage." :)
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Those were the days:)
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What was my mother thinking?
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THE LIGHT BULB
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My Higher Power - The Light Bulb By Clarence H. Snyder (Clarence got sober in 1938, was sponsored by Dr. Bob, & started AA group #3 in Cleveland. In the first few years of his recovery Clarence had a higher recovery rate than Bill W. & Dr. Bob COMBINED. His story, "Home Brewmeister...
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FREEDOM THROUGH ACCEPTANCE
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Hi Everyone,
Hope you don't mind me sharing this from "As Bill Sees It:"
"We admitted we couldn't lick alcohol with our own remaining resources, and so we accepted the further fact that dependence upon a Higher Power (if only our A.A. group) could do this hitherto impossible job. The momen...
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today's gift 1/20/2005
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Is someone happier, better, or braver because of some act of yours today? If you can answer yes, then you can feel rather confident that you are progressing in the AA way of living.
If you can't then you are not giving it the old college try and you are cheating yourself out of a lot of happiness...
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quote 1/20/05
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"We know what you are thinking. You are saying to yourself: "I'm jittery and alone. I couldn't do that." But you can. You forget that you have just now tapped a source of power much greater than yourself. To duplicate, with such backing, what we have accomplished is only a matter of willingness, patien...
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Saddened Update on My (ex) Husband
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I received a call this morning from my (ex) husband's sister. He passed away in his sleep this morning. I wasn't expecting it as my son and I had went to visit him in the nursing a week and a 1/2 ago and the nurse said it would probably be another 4 or 5 months before he'd go into the coma stage. I choose not to pu...
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quote
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"At the moment we are trying to put our lives in order. But this is not an end in itself." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, Page 77~
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Thought
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A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. --Chinese proverb
Even the strongest, most loving families always have room for growth. There is no such thing as a "perfect" family. If our family is far from perfect, that's okay. It only matters that we are working at getting better...
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THe Wounded Healer
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In approaching the alcoholic, we have tried hard to capitalize on our one great natural advantage. That is, of course, our personal experience as drinkers who have recovered. --Bill W., co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous
The Wounded Healer
Consider the following situations. A p...
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thought
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The power of a man's virtue should not be measured by his special efforts, but by his ordinary doing. --Blaise Pascal
The airplane kit is on the table in front of us. We have the glue, the little wooden pieces, and the instructions. We work for hours putting together each piece, s...
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