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Through my unbearable pain......
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This was given to me:If God is planning our lives, then why should we get involved? Except to pray according to His will which is clearly defined by our Lord Jesus Christ in the prayer which He gave us in the Gospel of St Matthew 6:9-15. Our uttermost desires and requests must be placed with Him. He will pl...
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Appeal hearing for reinstatement of drivers license
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Good evening! I'm new to this forum, and now glad I have found it as this will be a simple tool for me to use on my way to recovery. I'm an active AA member, but this is just icing on the cake for me to do some pondering when I'm not at my local AA meeting. Can't wait to discuss future topics with you all!! With t...
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The promises
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Where do I find the promises on this site?
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Daily Reflections ~ Our Paths are Our Own & 24hrs a Day
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... there was nothing left for us but to pick up the simple kit of spiritual tools laid at our feet. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 25 My first attempt at the Steps was one of obligation and necessity, which resulted in a deep feeling of discouragement in the face of all those adverbs: courageously; complete...
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Watch: My name is Bill. W and When love isnt enough here free... EDIT inside!
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I believe this site was posted on the AA links above but for those that might miss it or didnt know you can actually watch free versions of My Name is Bill W and When love isnt enough, theres also tons of other free AA media... http://silkworth.net/freestuff.html EDIT--- Nevermind, it seems they have a...
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Never Ruffled (God Calling)
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"Even were I never to speak to you, you would be well rewarded for setting apart this time, if you only sat still and longed for Me, if you just drew hungering breaths for Me, as you do for the fresh pure air of the open." Be still, be calm. Wait before Me. Learn of Me, patience, humility, peace...
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Does your higher power have a voice?
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Not to offend or start any type of drama, if you dont wish to answer I respect that but for those that choose to share: I was wondering if your HP has a voice and if so how do you hear it? Does it come audible in your ears? Is it more of a judgemental thing like an angel on your shoulder devil on the other? Do yo...
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Step 6 is posted on the step work board
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To Newcomers.
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I have observed that there are many new people that have come to the board. Firstly, I want to encourage you to stay in recovery. Secondly, do not be discouraged. We have all been there. I can write a book about my 1st day, my 1st month, my 1st year. Having lost all faith in myself and despite myself, I still...
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Inspiration - Not Aspiration (God Calling)
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February 15 "You shall be used. The Divine Force is never less. It is sufficient for all the work in the world. I only need the instruments for Me to use. To know that would re-make the world. The world does not need super-men, but super-natural men. Men who will persistently turn the self out...
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Alcohol cutting/suicidal
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Sometimes when I'm real drunk I have urges/feelings of cutting myself and wanting to die.
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Even worse today..... in tears
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My God, what have I DONE??????? I have not drank. But when I did relapse this winter, I got in more trouble with the law, and now I can't find a job. I badly need a job. My ex is not paying his support, and I can no longer afford my divorce lawyer! So I have to wait around for a low-income legal service to schedul...
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Our spiritual nature must be nurtured
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it. --Mother Teresa Our spiritual nature must be nurtured. Prayer and meditation lovingly kindle the flame that guides us from within. Because we're human, we often let the flame flicker and perhaps go out. And th...
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Do we really need omeone to walk us through the steps
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I've tried on a few different occassions to work with a temporary sponsor to go through the steps but for one reason or another it didn't go well. One was a lunatic AA nazi who I thought was an unstable nut. A few went back out shortly after they became my temporary sponsor. A few I treated poorly and they ga...
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Daily Reflections ~ Taking Action & 24hrs a Day
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Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us--sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 One of the most important things A.A. has given me, in addition to freedom from booze, is the ability...
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"When they close the lid"
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lol...heard a great one today... "When can an alcoholic drink safely again?" "When they close the lid." One to remember. Of course, without AA, my insane mind would think "yeah, well, that's true for all those hundreds of millions of alcoholics, but I'm different.&quo...
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For all those
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Having a typical Alcoholic Valentines day, remember, you aren't alone Personally I had a great Valentines Day weekend, but still remember I had plenty of days like these, so if all those happy joyous and so called "free" people i...
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Went to a meeting tonight, but...
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I drank a whole load of beer and whiskey on Thursday after being sober for a few years. (see my previous post) I've been in touch with my sponsor and another AA who have both been very supportive, and the advice was that I should get back to a meeting as soon as possible. Yesterday I still felt very raw; but w...
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A Thinking Disease not a Drinking Disease
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I sometimes feel within the privacy of my own mind, that to call this thing we have "addiction" rather than alcoholism seems more accurate to my experience strength and hope ,and all emcompassing. I have been to alot of AA meetings over the years and I notice that alot of members in the roo...
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Meeting Question....
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As many of you may know I have been in and out of AA since oct 10.. Well Im back on the wagon and have been needing a meeting however all of the local ones have people I dont want to see, 3 ex sponsors that gave up on me, and regulars that have went "back out" with me but keep it a secret from AA,etc.....
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Drank again after 3-and-a-half years
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Hi, I was sober since August 2007 until yesterday at 4pm. A massive panic attack was the cause - I've suffered with them on and off throughout my life but recently they have gotten a lot worse. Yesterday's was the worst ever in my recovery; I thought I was going to die, go mad, and it just kept building and b...
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Happy Valentine’s day!!!!
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If you are in a committed relationship or not, today is a day of Love. Don't forget that you can share that love with others. Regardless of circumstance, you are loved. Be it a parent, children, or this wonderous program and the people in it.
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Love
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At my Sunday meeting, we study one of The Four Absolutes once a month. For those who are not familiar, The Four Absolutes are Honesty, Unselfishness, Love and Purity. I thought I would post on Love today. Happy Valentine's Day ((friends)) Love "We often learn more by questions, than ans...
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Daily Reflections ~ Expectations vs Demands & 24hrs a Day
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Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and clean house. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 Dealing with expectations is a frequent topic at meetings. It isn't wrong to expect progress of myself, good things from l...
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Ordinary moments ... they in turn enrich our lives
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Ordinary moments ... they in turn enrich our lives Our spiritual life is on the same plane as our everyday relationships. It's not just something within our mind or feelings, and it's not just lofty and in the clouds. Spirituality is between people and in all relatio...
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2 days in the wilderness and now back with my own kind.
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I've spent two days in the wilderness - away from people like us. I got to a meeting tonight and the pure Joy and comfort I felt being back with like minded people is unquantifiable. Yes, this programme builds a bridge to normal living. Yes this programme enables me to deal with the others. Yes, I know tha...
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Update on all
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Hi All, As I posted some weeks ago, my sponsor turned flaky but has now taken to ringing me. I was pleased until I actually realised she was after something I had materially. I am disappointed but not surprised. Though I have agreed to give here the item, I am actually going to cancel that arrangement and...
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Just turned 51.
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My wife and kids took me out for dinner last night for my 51 st natural birthday. I remember like it was yesterday when I had just turned 28 and made my 1st AA meeting. Those fine people asked me to stick around and I did because I wanted to. They gave me a program with 12 simple steps and asked me if I would like...
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Changing my life
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Hi Everyone: I read this message board religiously. Especially, in the last couple of weeks. I haven't been able to go to meetings. This is as close to AA I have been. It's helping me keep sober and I don't feel so alone in my thoughts and feelings. Why I haven't been to a meeting? Well, I am exercisin...
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Bikram Yoga
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Just curious. Does anyone else here do Bikram yoga to help with sobriety? It's proving to be a very powerful tool for me, along with meetings. I've got nine days now (the most in over a year). And I'm happy, productively busy and feel better - even in cold, frozen January. Em
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Near the Goal (God Calling)
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Near the Goal "In a race, it is not the start that hurts, not the even pace of the long stretch. It is when the goal is in sight that heart and nerves and courage and muscles are strained almost beyond human endurance, almost to breaking point. So with you now, the goal is in sight, you need your final...
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Anyone willing to share detox experiences?
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Hello, I have been drinking for years... almost 22, in fact. Sometimes more than others, but more and more until I finally heard all of the words that my wife had said to me over the past 10 years (I think that used to be referred to as a moment of clarity). I suddenly realized that it was time to make a chan...
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Today's DL post on FB
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Dalai Lama The more you think about your own self, the more self-centred you are, the more trouble even small problems can create in your mind. The stronger your sense of I, the narrower the scope of your thinking becomes; then even small obstacles become unbearable. On the other hand, if you concern y...
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Daily Reflections ~ "The Root of Our Troubles" & 24hrs a Day
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Selfishness--self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of all our troubles. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 How amazing the revelation that the world, and everyone in it, can get along just fine with or without me. What a relief to know that people, places and things will be perfectly okay without...
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The Third Step refers to "God as we understood Him."
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: In music, in the sea, in a flower, in a leaf, in an act of kindness... I see what people call God in all these things. --Pablo Casals The Third Step refers to "God as we understood Him." The pathways to meeting our Higher Power and to our spiritual awakening ar...
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Dropping off this particular radar for a wee while
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I have some heavy personal stuff to deal with. I'm working extensively with the sponsor, but need to devote more time and energy to me, so I'll be a less regular contributor, but still lurk from time to time. I'll be fine and I'll be back.
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A wee poem
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February 18th is my town's next poetry slam...I'm thinking of entering this under "short prose". UnityWhile delivering the body of the host, the priest notices the shattered capillaries on the face of one of his flock. Gin-Blossoms, they used to call that particular tell-tale of the al...
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Oh Dang!
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It's freakin' snowing AGAIN. The path out my door is down to maybe 10" wide and has ice hard walls of snow 3 feet high all the way to the street. That's all I have to say. God, grant me the serenity...
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164andmore
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Anyone have a copy of this book? I was wondering if its worth ordering. Seems pretty interesting... anyways something I stumbled across.. the sites pretty cool as well...you can take anyword you want, type it in and it shows you everytime its used in the big book and what page etc ...check it out h...
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Is anyone willing to Post Daily Readings?
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Our beloved Danielle is on sabatical working hard. She and a few others, in the past, have taken on posting of daily readings of a variety of AA (and other) literature, such as: Daily Reflections One Day at a time Daily Affirmations AA Daily Affirmations ACOA (I really like this one) -- Edited by StP...
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HP says, "meet Me everywhere"
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I am often amazed at how my meditation book speaks to me, giving me just what I need: (HP speaking...) "Life is really consciousness of Me. Have no fear. A very beautiful future lies before you. Let it be a new life, a new existence, in which every single happening, event, plan, you are conscious...
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LOVE AND RESPECT
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Morning! welcome to another day of life.! There are writings that tell us 'RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE TERRIBLY PAINFUL AREAS!! It is also true that 'IF SOMEONE IS NOT TREATING YOU WITH LOVE AND RESPECT,IT IS A GIFT IF THEY WALK AWAY FROM YOU.IF THAT PERSON DOESN'T WALK AWAY,YOU WILL SURELY ENDURE MANY YEARS...
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He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he must pass himself; for every man has need to be forgiven.
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he must pass himself; for every man has need to be forgiven. -- Thomas Fuller Often we're afraid to forgive others who've hurt us because we believe that, in doing so, we are permitting what they've done. This...
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What A F----ed up day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Best friend who is also in AA has been very ill and hospitalized for the past few days. They didn't do SQUAT for her and she has no insurance to see a specialist. I was picking her up at the hospital and backed into a car. The drama that ensued when the lady came out to look at her car was ridiculous. No damage a...
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trust
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I noticed the other day, that for the year I have been in AA... I have wanted to be a good student, wanted God's will, wanted to understand humility... but I have been kicking and screaming this whole time. This week, I wondered if my ongoing resentment with God is a practice of real trust on my part. I...
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Entering the 4th dimension
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Boldy going where no other MIP alcoholic with too much time on his/her hands has gone before. 4000. -- Edited by StPeteDean on Thursday 10th of February 2011 08:40:52 PM
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Coda Forum
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Any updates on how close we are??? I cant wait :) Thanks
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A lesson in living life on life's terms.
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My wife's cousin, a 42 year old non drinking, non smoking, no drugging, God lovin, lorry driving family man had an accident some months back which led to the death of another man. The case has dragged on so long that he decided to put his affairs in order and plead guilty to whatever charge was made. It was...
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Character defects!!
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Wow did one of mine just raise its ugly head! Been arguing with the Drs. office about my yearly physical which is covered as a preventitve office call. They coded it as something other then a yearly because the Dr. talked to me about a few other things. I didnt know it would cost me. I am healthy as a hor...
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Help
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So my wife and I went to the second and finally session of mediation yesterday. Up to this point I felt it was the right decision. I worked on this for a long time to the best of my ability. We sat in mediation and I cryed uncontrollably at times. My whole attitude and outlook did a 360 turn. What's goin...
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