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An ongoing amends
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to any woman who was abused and/or assaulted by a man in the past. Aloha members...I went to the morning Attitude Adjustment AA meeting (I had the day off) and listen to the female speaker tell her story part of which is very very near and dear to my amends process; that of being violent and a physical,...
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Just putting it all out there.
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I've been lurking around here for a couple of weeks...reading posts, trying to figure out what "fits" me and what doesn't. I've been moved by many of your posts, and shocked at the striking similarities to my own life of some of them, and yet still can't figure out what the path in front of me...
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Today's Gift from a couple days ago
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If you want to change who you are, change what you do. xxxxxxThe Big Book is like a cookbook - you can read it all day long and starve. You have to take the action. xxxxxxIf you stay humble, you will not stumble. xxxxxxOur neighbor's window looks much cleaner if we first wash our own. xxxxxxYesterday is a c...
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Another Great Way To Handle Anger :)
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>>When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to
>>take it
>>out on someone, don't take it out on someone you know --take it out
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>>someone you don't know.
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>>I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I ha...
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Putting others before myself...?
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I have just a quick story to relate. On Sunday, I attended the weekly meeting of my home group. This group meets only once a week, but it's my home group because it's the first meeting I attended. I could not attend the prior weeks meeting because I got stuck at work late .. It's the meeting I would've gotte...
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Congrats on 30 days 'mich' (Kathy) !!!
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Hey mich, ... .... Congrats on 30 days ... ... ... that was a tough one to reach for me ... you go girl ... __________________
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Pythonpappy
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Happy Bellybutton Birthday, Brian ((((Closer!!!))))
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I hope you're having a beautiful day, brother. I'm loving your recovery. Thank you for sharing it with us all here on MIP. A good year to get sober, aye. Staying out of that other famous club of 27 year olds ;) I'm glad you're alive, Brother. I celebrate the day you were born today & many more to come oda...
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New Here
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Hello, My name is Paul, and as of today Im looking to quit drinking and thought this site would be a start, I read the 12 steps but not really sure where to start, my drinking has been getting worse, but did not have one drink today and trying to find ways to keep my mind off it, hope I can find support here and w...
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Paul M
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Berlin Convention
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Greetings from Berlin, my fellow sobervibers! Carl & I just got here today! We're staying in a great little apartment right opposite the venue. If any of our cyberclever members here can do it, would you post a link for the convention this weekend please? Even better, is there anyone here who is co...
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Sobrietyspell
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Chat meeting tonight?
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Can we open up the chat room for an online meeting tonight? I do not know how to do it. I would be happy to with instructions though!
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justadrunk
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Cookies in Heaven?
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Cookies in Heaven?An elderly man lay dying in his bed. In death's agony, he suddenly smelled the aroma of his favorite chocolate chip cookies wafting up the stairs. He gathered his remaining strength, and lifted himself from the bed. Leaning against the wall, he slowly made his way out of the bedroom...
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Pythonpappy
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No coincidences
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In the break room, I wasn't feling in tune with the universe. And you know what the universe did? Put on the cristmas episode of American dad where stan says we gotta search for god, you become a hopeless alcoholic and hit rock bottom, I'll open doors. And then Stan finds god and threatens him with a gun an...
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Ruhig
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1st day back to work!
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Hello hello... Summer vaction is officially over. My job is hectic. So my plan... I got three meditation apps on my phone. I also got the app called Joe & Charlie.... Anybody know these oldtimers? I am sure. The app is awesome. It has all different discussions from those two guys. I downlo...
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mich
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Just a story.
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Mich here... So months before my first AA meeting I met with my saxophone professor with whom I share music, friendship, and now faith. I shared with him that I was lost, hurting and making a mess of my life. I did not share with him about my alcoholism because I had not yet admitted it myself, but I knew t...
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My meetings/ found
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Well I found the perfect place to go for my meeting's, really its the church I normally go to a half mile down the street from me, I knew the father there for a long time, its called the New Hope Group at St. Marks in Warren! I will be stopping by after work to found out what days the meetings are, and times,...
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Paul M
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Hanging with the winners
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I went to a meeting last night where they observe all the birthdays for the month. Wow! It ran the gamut from one person having 18 months to another man having 43 years and everything in between. In total, there was over 200 years of sobriety there in just the people who were getting birthday medallions....
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vixen
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God Calling - Tangled Skeins
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"Am I not leading you faithfully? Directly you put your cares into My hands, and I began to effect a cure of all the disharmony and disorder. You must know that I shall cause you no more pain in the doing of it than a physician, who knows he can effect a cure, would cause his patient. I will do all as ten...
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deb365
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Those Who Laugh --- Last
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August 27, 2012 Quote of the Week "Those who laugh - last" I remember hearing the phrase, "We are not a glum lot" when I was new in recovery - I didn't believe it. I mean, here I was sentenced to attending meetings, prohibited from partying, and forced to believe in God. Things...
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Pythonpappy
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Pulling up weeds
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May 15, 2010 I have found through the years being a sober person one of the most relaxing therapeutic things to do is pull weeds. I know sounds insane but it saves on therapy bill. One day i realized for years i had been walking matilda(my velcro dog) pulling up weeds trying to put my mind at ease. Even th...
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sarge
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Hurricanes, elections, and olympics.
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It would seem I've been sober for a long time (coming up on 4 years right?). So I live in Ft. Lauderdale. Currently we have a tropical storm going to the west of us and are feeling severe rain bands and some wind. Nothing that bad. Nonetheless, we have not been hit by a hurricane or even a bad storm since...
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pinkchip
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Pray for those who still suffer
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There is a 'gentleman' I work with who has caused me a lot of grief. He is 'in and out' of AA..he preaches to all of his coworkers about drinking and AA to the point where it's a bit obnoxious- then he shows up to work drunk. This has happened several times. He has sexually harrassed me, spread rumors about m...
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Col
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My Daugther
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She's 15. Her negative emotions are blocking her from the Spirit and enjoyment of life. She's looking for external things to fill the God hole inside. Never enough. Boyfriend, friends, relationships etc........... She can't sit with herself for to long before the anxiety kicks in. Sounds...
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Mike B.
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God Calling - Accept Trials
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"Trials and troubles may seem to overwhelm you. They cannot do more than work My will, and that will you have said is your will. Do you not see that you cannot be destroyed? From now a new life is opening out before you. Yours to enter into the kingdom I have prepared for you. The sunlight of My prese...
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Revelation
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So, I've had somewhat of a 'revelation'.. Not a huge revelation like when I realized I'm not angry with God anymore, more of a 'huh' type of thing. So as many of you may have read here lately, I've been struggling with anger and a lot of self pity, general confusion about things. So I'm thinking, thinking...
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Col
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"and to another human being"
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This is perhaps difficult, especially discussing our defects with another person. We think we have done well enough in admitting these things to ourselves. There is doubt about that. In actual practice, we usually find a solitary self-appraisal insufficient.
I read this. Tommorrow I do my 5th...
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MIP Oldtimer
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I just realized I became an old timer after 500 posts...If I had known that I would have passed that mark on my first week here.....I guess this program is teaching me....Let things happen in God's time.
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Taking control of emotions
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Hey all.. So here I am, working on 4th step, still on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. My emotional maturity is embarrassing at times. I'm completely all over the place some days. Im generally pretty laid back and even- keeled, but every once in a while, MAN am I a train wreck lol. Here's the thing......
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Col
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not mine.
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In reading and working through the final steps with deep reflection to the best of my ability, I've discovered some astonishing things. After I found my ex had shot himself in the head, there was fear, there was stress, there was trauma... but there was also... a fleeting moment of joy. Instantly I...
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justadrunk
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Not feeling good.... but I got a sponsor?
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Mich here... went to the 7am meeting today. I shared about my drunk dream which I am sure everyone has had. Had a glass of wine in my dream. Then I thought oh no I have to start all over. What have I done. So, upset in the dream. Woke up glad I was sober. I am sure everybody has had this experience too. I...
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Mich here... Update on my sponsor!
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Hello. I went to my meeting the other day. Even as I drove there I was still on the fence about keeping my sponsor or talking with her. I got there and spoke to a women I trust and she informed me that it is my choice, but that the person I asked indeed has some issues. Don't we all. I felt bad. After the me...
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Cinnamon toothpaste
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I hate mint. Especially in toothpaste. So we bought cinnamon toothpaste. Now, after I brush my teeth (I do this morning, after work and bedtime) he asks, have you been drinking? Of course not. I'm not upset, I think it's funny. But my brain was like "now I can drink and blame it on toothpaste!"...
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5 months
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I would love to say that I have 8 months sober today. But I don't. I came into this program just after Christmas, but I had a slip in March because I wasn't really going to meetings, and not being completely honest (mostly minimizing) with my sponsor. I went to 5 meetings in a row - thought I had things do...
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justadrunk
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This is a WE program.
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I came home with the greatest feeling from a meeting today and it was because of a certain thing I realized and heard while I was at the club today, and it's the fact that this is a WE program. When us alcoholics are sick, we dont know that we have other people in our lives who care and who can relate to our pro...
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Closer
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Dr. Bob's Farewell Talk
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Dr. Bob's Farewell TalkDr. Bob and Bill W. were co-founders of A.A. My good friends in A.A. and of A.A., I get a big thrill out of looking over a vast sea of faces like this with a feeling that possibly some small thing I did a number of years ago played an infinitely small part in making this meeting po...
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justadrunk
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Old sayings.
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I've been accompanying someone on their 90 in 90 lately and every so often I've heard expressions that I haven't heard in a long time. It's gotten me thinking and I've tried to go back in my memory and find some other long lost sayings from AA (okay, maybe they aren't lost but I haven't heard them for a whi...
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Need a online sponsor
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Hi im ashley,and im a alcoholic and im new, i need a online sponor that i can call or i have skype.i will go to any lengths to get this. im miserable and broken inside and need help,,i can go to meetings but have two toddlers and husband works.so
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Baptist Shampoo
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BAPTIST SHAMPOOWhile shopping in a grocery store, two Baptist church ladies happened to passby the beer, wine and liquor section.One asked the other if she would like a beer. The second good Baptist sister answered that, indeed, it would be very nice to have one, but that she would feel unco...
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Pythonpappy
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Feelings are
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and inner reaction to an outside event, my AC told me at the VA alcoholism center. He had asked me how I felt about a certain relationship event that had gone sideways for me and I responded "like shit". "So you feel like a warm, smelly lump of dog feces left on the front lawn" he r...
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Jerry F
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Kilz
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So I used a paint called "Kilz" today. It is a product I have used a lot in the past for tough stains and problematic priming. It is a pigmented shellac that is realy STRONG smelling! The problem is that I needed to paint a bathroom. The fumes were really powerful in the small space to the poi...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Riddle That Works & 24hrs a Day
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It may be possible to find explanations of spiritual experiences such as ours, but I have often tried to explain my own and have succeeded only in giving the story of it. I know the feeling it gave me and the results it has brought, but I realize I may never fully understand its deeper why and how. AS BILL S...
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Could use some prayers..
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Tomorrow I go in for my extractions, doing full top and getting immediate dentures, very nervous. Could use some prayers to ease my surgery. Thanks in advance.
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SoberSteve
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Having an issue
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Ive got an issue raising its head. Its not an Im going to go out and drink issue but it is a quality of life issue. I wanted to throw it out there and see what I get back. My wife and I love animals. As a matter of fact, that love has affected us sufficiently that we are both vegetarians. On December 1st my wi...
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I Will Never be the Person my Dad Was!
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Last Tuesday evening, while I was in transit to go see my Dad, he 'passed away' ... For a while, my world kind of turned upside down ... The range of emotions I've been through this past few days have been incredible ... I thought I was prepared, but when it happened, my brain 'kind of' took a vacation ... ...
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Pythonpappy
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Now I just have to do it.
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Spent several hours in the back corner of perkins getting direction for my 9th step. It felt instantly freeing to talk about this stuff, and truly admit the worst things I've ever done. I didn't talk about a lot of it in my 5th step. It's all out on the table now. WOWOWOWOWOW, now I have a person in this...
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justadrunk
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A Song about Some of Us!!!
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Below is a video from a show on TV ... To read the lyrics, click on the lyrics below the video to show all the words "Show More" ... pay attention to the last part especially ... ummm, turn up the speakers, enjoy ... and learn! Pappy ...
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Pythonpappy
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God Calling - The Summit
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"See not the small trials and vexations of each hour of the day. See the purpose and plan to which all are leading. If in climbing a mountain you keep your eyes on each stony or difficult place as you ascend, how weary and profitless your climb! But if you think of each step as leading to the summit o...
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When does the crying stop?
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Hi, I have posted before about sponsorship and feel good about that. I found this forum helped me deal with that question, but now finding something else I need direction or support about. I am starting steps over from Step 1 due to having a new sponsor. My issue is I cry all the time, I have 57 days now...
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Mispost
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Another post I decided to take back! -- Edited by odat on Wednesday 22nd of August 2012 07:04:14 AM
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Security has been threatened
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Going back over my #4, I've been trying to work on my most obvious (and probably common) hang ups. And after a few hours of letting go, calming myself down, someone threatened that specific area of security. They have since apologized, and it's been almost a week since the incident occured. I'm not mad...
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Ruhig
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the Wisdom of the rooms
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August 20, 2012 Quote of the Week "We may be powerless, but we're not helpless" Accepting that I was powerless over people, places and things was a concept I rebelled against on almost every level in the beginning. Before recovery, I labored under the belief that I could not only co...
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Pythonpappy
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