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Grapevine
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June 20 "For me, there is no better feeling than the one I get running into another alcoholic when I'm feeling down. We alcoholics are bonded together by the sadness of a deadly disease and the miracle of a spiritual solution."
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Today's Gift - 6/20
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First we work the program because we have to. Then we work the program because we are willing to. Finally we work the program because we want to.*****When you do all the talking you only learn what you already know.*****Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed.*****If you find a path with n...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/19
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When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.G.K. Chesterton
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Today's Gift - 6/19
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Grief may be a pathway to our deepest connections.People often say, "I don't want to burden you with my troubles, you have enough to worry about." Yet sharing our troubles with our partner or close friends lightens our burden and restores our balance. Telling someone our experiences and...
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The AA Grapevine, January, 1950
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PRAYERS OF THE STEPS1ST STEP God, Creative Intelligence, Universal Mind, Spirit of Nature or Spirit of the Universe my name is ______, And I'm a real alcoholic ... and I need your help today. (pg.. 10-2, 46, & Chp. 3 BB)2nd STEP God, I'm standing at the turning point right now. Give me your protecti...
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Confused About Thy Will Be Done in Praying
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I grew up in a Methodist church and was a Christian. I wasn't raised in a Bible thumping family. The only time we prayed as a family is when we were with my grandparents and before a meal. We did have to go to Sunday School and church with my folks when we were younger, until my parents got upset at something w...
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One More...
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Just curious: how have you, or how do you plan to, talk to your kids about alcohol and alcoholism after getting sober? I've thought a lot about this because, while I don't have kids now, there is a decent likelihood that some day my partner and I will. Just wondering what approaches folks have taken, giv...
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Grapevine
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June 19 "Sobriety isn't a discrete list of tasks that you do and then check off; it's a state of being that pervades every aspect of your life."
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"Normal" Drinking
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This may sound ridiculous, but I started wondering today what "normal" drinking feels like to non-alcoholics. And what I mean by that is I wonder what it feels like, internally, to order one drink, finish it, enjoy a very light buzz, and then think no more about it. (The fact that I wonder th...
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Stay Cool....How Hot Is It Where You Are?
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It will get up to 99 degrees here in VA. The record high in this area for June 18th is 99 deg. in 1944. Time to pull out the beekeenis guys! LOLOL. You all are pretty cool so stay cooler in this stuff! 
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Time
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I think a lot about how much time I flushed down the toilet while boozing. If I added together the hours I have spent heavily intoxicated, the amount of time would equal months. Months of watching TV and movies whose plots I didn't retain, months of mindlessly eating food that I didn't remember the next...
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Line in the sand
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This is my first time posting and would first like to say that I have enjoyed many of the posts on this site. What I have read has both inspired and given me answers on my AA journey. Bless AA and the fellowship. I just got my 5 year chip a couple of weeks ago and feel very thankful for that. I feel compelled to w...
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The Way It Used To Be
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The Anti-12 Steps (for the still active alcoholic) 1. I declared that I had complete and total control over my alcohol use and that I can completely manage my life and still drink alcohol. 2. Came to know that I needed no one and that alcohol would help me maintain my happiness and sanity 3. Made a decis...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/18
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The best way to prepare for life is to begin to live.Elbert Hubbard
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Today's Gift - 6/18
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Life guarantees a chance - not a fair shake.--Bernie Y.Life is not fair. Most of us know that, but few of us accept it. Something in us often clings to the idea that ultimately, the gifts will all be evenly divided. Mostly we want to be paid back for the injustices of the past. Many of us expect - no, demand -...
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Grapevine
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June 18 "Step Six may be the greatest act of courage in the whole twelve-step process: a total act of faith. I have to trust that God will see the big picture and make the right choices."
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Celebrating 75 Years of The Big Book AA 64th Virginia Area Convention Williamsburg, VA in August
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This sounds awesome! "Celebrating 75 Years of "The Big Book" Alcoholics Anonymous! It is for three days August 8-10. There will be four guest speakers from California, VA/DC, and Maryland. Besides the speakers, there will be service workshops, BB history, and more and it will be...
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Sponsorship.
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I believe that the greatest gift that AA gave me was sponsorship. First all being sponsored. Someone took me by the hand and guided me through my sick years in AA. I subsequently got well. I then sponsored others. They also got well. Today my greatest gift is to see those that I sponsored, working with ot...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/17
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To reach a port, we must sail sail, not tie at anchor sail, not drift.Franklin Roosevelt
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Today's Gift - 6/17 (good one!)
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The past has flown away. The coming month and year do not exist; ours only is the present's tiny point.--ShabistariWe are tempted to look back and to look ahead. But what we most need to do is be present in this moment, with ourselves, with our loved ones and friends, and with our experience right here an...
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Do Dropped Charges Stay on Your Permanent Record
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Okay...just curious. Right now I work for myself. I have a sob for a boss and the pay is lousy, however, I get sick leave, vacation days and a flexible schedule doing something I love so I haven't been very motivated to change jobs.... Several years ago I got a DUI, completed the required classes, got my c...
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Bill W. and Dr. Chung
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Bill W.'s letter to Dr. Jung Swiss psychologist & psychiatrist Jan 23, 1961 (Mentioned on pages 26 & 27 of the Big Book) My dear Dr. Jung: This letter of great appreciation has been very long overdue. May I first introduce myself as Bill W., a co-founder of the Society of Alcoholics Anony...
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Another Blast From The Past
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ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS IN A POSTWAR EMERGENCY By Bill W. One of the Founders What is the picture of alcoholism in the days ahead? The opinion of one of my friends indicates what the possibilities may be. With the emphasis characteristic of true alcoholics he said, "It looks like hell to me."...
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Grapevine
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June 16 "Alcoholics Anonymous has an answer to problems in sobriety, making sobriety, eventually, something wonderful instead of something that can drive people to drink."
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The 24-Hour Club For Alcoholics
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The 24-Hour Club for Alcoholics Today, club life for ex-drunks-to supply their needs for companionship and fun-is A.A.s second miracle by FOWLER HILL Your Life©, January 1953 Two years ago, an old actor, whose name used to appear on Broadway marquees (call him Lionel Sloane), got drunk again in Hol...
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Weekly Thought --- (warning religious content)
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Weekly VerseIf anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? 1 John3:17Weekly QuoteIf you cant feed a hundred people, then feed just one. Mother TeresaWeekly Thought When was the last time you really witnessed love in action? W...
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Hey You Guys.....Can You Do Me A Favor????
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The good news is, I received a letter from my daughter. Over the last six years, I hardly heard from her at all. She sent me a box with a few gifts in it. I am not sure what for, except maybe when I reached a year she wanted to do something for me. Inside was a letter. I couldn't believe it. At first I thought it wa...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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June 16, 2014Quote of the Week"The good part of recovery is that you get your feelings back; the bad part is that you get your feelings back." Ah, the paradox of recovery (one of many). When I was 'out there' I had an easy way of dealing with my feelings - I'd numb them. Unable to feel or even ac...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/16
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Give people a fact or an idea and you can enlighten their minds; tell them a story and you touch their souls.Hasidic Proverb
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Today's Gift - 6/16
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Living according to principles If we live according to spiritual principles, we will know harmony in our lives. If we ignore these principles, our harmony will be destroyed.Fortunately, the principles are constant. Once we recognize our mistakes, our task is to once again apply the principles we...
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Death of my sponsor.
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My sponsor committed suicide today. 26 years ago, he brought me to AA and worked with me everyday. His son committed suicide 2 years ago with a drug problem. My sponsor relapsed after 8 years because of a gambling problem. The great thing about my sponsor, was that he had the humility to hand me over to an...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/15
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Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.Jim Rohn
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"Stick With the Winners!" My Thoughts.........
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To be honest....(and isn't that what all of us recovering alcoholics should always do to be successful in this program?).....I hated this AA slogan! "Stick with the winners!", I thought, how horrible that human beings, and especially sick alcoholics, are divided into two categories-...
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Today's Gift - 6/15
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Taking Care of OurselvesIt's healthy, wise, and loving to be considerate and responsive to the feelings and needs of others. That's different from caretaking. Caretaking is a self-defeating and, certainly, a relationship defeating behavior - a behavior that backfires and can cause us to feel re...
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Today's Gift - 6/14
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I don't believe in predicting, especially about the future.-- Casey StengelWith the pace of change continuing to accelerate, the future is not what it used to be. From one moment to the next, no one can be certain of anything. Your job, your marriage, and your relationship to your children - none of th...
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Going back to Hong Kong
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Hi All,I just found out that one of the projects I am working on is going to involve some trips to Hong Kong this summer. I'll be doing a ten day trip starting four weeks from today, and then another ten day trip at the end of August. It's likely there will be several more after that.I used to do quite a lot of b...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/14
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Dont wait. The time will never be just right.Napoleon Hill
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Clarence Snyder....1944
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Going Through The Steps A.A. Sponsorship Pamphlet by Clarence Snyder© 1944 This is the first pamphlet ever written concerning sponsorship. It was written by Clarence H. Snyder in early 1944. Its original title was to be "A.A. Sponsorship...Its Obligations and Its Responsibilities."...
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"It's okay to not be okay"
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Last night I was listening one sermon and the woman, who was preaching said: "It's okay to not be okay." I don't know why I remembered it, but I have past with it. She said that it's not necessary when we are not okay to play role in front of people, saying that we are okay and all the false smiles ....
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Grapevine
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June 13 "The compulsion among most of us to survive and to grow soon becomes far stronger than the temptation to drink, or to misbehave. Literally, we must 'do or die.' So we make the choice to live. This, in turn, means the choice of AA principles, practices and attitudes that can salvage us from...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/13
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Failure is the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.Henry Ford
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Today's Gift - 6/13
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Fine friendship requires duration rather than fitful intensity.--AristotleOnce we have embarked upon this program, we find spiritual recovery through relationships more than any other single factor. We find it through relationships with other people, with ourselves, and with our Higher Pow...
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Lois W.
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In AAs First Five Years Lois W., wife of AAs co-founder, Bill W., recalls the time in AA when there were few members and no Big Book. In the early days of AA things were really different. For five years there was no Big Book. The only way to communicate with other people was to go and tell them, so that...
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Grapevine
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June 12 "Today, as I look back over 27-plus years of sobriety, I can simply thank Him for being wherever I am going before I even get there."
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Today's Gift - 6/12
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Dust on diamonds, tears we cry, first we walk, then we fly.--Mark Chapple"First things first," "Easy does it," and "Keep it simple" are the touchstones of our recovery. At first, we may grasp recovery like a drowning person. We find that the harder we hold on to our l...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/12
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You can tell when you are on the road to success. It's uphill all the way.Paul Harvey
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A Nurse In An Alcoholic Ward
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I'm a Nurse in an Alcoholic Ward Anonymous The author--a onetime alcoholic--has nursed 5000 drunks through the fading hours of their most spectacular sprees. Here is what she has faced in salvaging doctors, lawyers, ministers, priests, housewives and stenographers from drink and the devil A re...
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Heyo
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Hey All, Like many folks, I haven't been around in a while. When I logged in this morning, though, I was really impacted by recent posts about pathological lying, the benefits of criticism, and gratitude for the program. I had a major self-pity episode through the majority of last night that's been cu...
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Message board format changed slightly.. Please Read.
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Hi everyone,Previously the post at the top of the board would be based on the date it was started. Now, I have changed it so that when a post is replied to, it is moved to the top of the board, so the reply doesn't get lost at the bottom of the board and can be seen and replied to by both the original poster, a...
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Today's Gift - 6/11
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Having loosened our grip on the past, we are free to reach for the future. --Ann D. Clark Everyday of our lives we think of some situation we wish we had handled differently. Perhaps we left a job we now miss, disciplined a child needlessly, or responded rudely to a friend. Our Fourth Step inventory abu...
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