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CONGRATULATIONS FLYING SQUILLEL ON 5 MONTHS of SOBRIETY!!!
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Hi Glenn,
With all that you are going through, and you have just latched on to the Program and doing all the things we need to do,
So proud of you for Keeping the Program and you Sobriety, first and ahead of any other life stuff, that is how we do keep it.
Great great efforts, bring great great results...
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glad to be home...
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I started off looking for a meeting in the town I am vacationing in and ended up finding you. So I decided to come home. As soon as I logged on, the first entry reminded me of my home group. Thanks- I was beginning to feel a little out of sorts. Come to find out I was homesick. Thanks for being there for me. I wil...
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New Here.. Dependancy recovery.
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Granted I'm only 28 years old, but here's my story. I've been told I'm a functional alcoholic before while I was in the Military, and I've also been told that I have a dependency. I'm doing well, but I have MAYBE 1 or 2 beers a week now, IF that.. __________________________________________________ M...
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update on week
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Dear all, Have spent the week at the course and haven't drank, though it is full of events to drink at. Thanks for all message of support, I have found an online version of the Big Book online and am reading same. I suppose I feel quite shocked as I didn't think I was the one with the problem too until recentl...
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Does anyone know where I can get a free Big Book???
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I am 6 days sober now and fresh out of detox. I am 28 years old and never been to detox or tried to quit drinking in my many years of heavy drinking. I dont have much $$ at all and was wondering if someone could perhaps donate me a big book out of good faith and karma, hopefully the Higher Power can lead me to th...
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Getting Married
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Someone I care a great deal about is getting ready to do something I would normally advise against... she's going to marry an alcoholic... me!! I was married before. 5 years drinking, then 5 years sober. Then 15 years sober and single, over 12 without being in any kind of real relationship. We've b...
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BB Up For Grabs
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Sent to the first person to email me: one Big Book, hardcover, 3rd edition.
xdrunkard@gmail.com
No charge for the book, free shipping.
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John_R
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Too many meetings?
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I dunno. At first I was going to about 1 a day, sometimes less sometimes more trying to average 90 in 90. Lately I'm going to 2 or 3 a day every day. I just can't seem to function in real life, so I'm going to meetings instead. I should be trying to get a job, figuring out my financial situation (which is ve...
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Happy 6th Soberversary, Tina!
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Enjoy every moment of this 24hrs, Tina. Thank you for sharing your Recovery with us here@MIP. Godbless You 1Day@aTime ~ Love & Fellowship, Danielle xxx
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Fear.....
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I am just amazed at where my mind goes sometimes...the fear and anxiety that I actually manufacture on my own self! Gotta let go - let my HP take care of things, it's always the same answer.... Serenity is the goal, right? One day at a time! Best to everyone - Christine
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Just wanted to share
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Hi Just want to share an experience I had this past Monday, which fellow by my soberity date On Tuesday July 14th. 6 years ago to the date fell on Monday July 14th 2003, My day started out alright but had vibes I couldn't explain until I spoke to a family member today. It was like I was reliving the day of my m...
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Relationship Issue- Part II
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Look for guidance/suggestions. I wrote about my current relationship with my wife back on 7/2/09, titled: "Relationship Issue; what to do?" Different subject, same wife. About 4 months ago my wife confessed to me that she was talking with a friend(male)of ours and they became each ot...
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Mike B.
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Wahey.. 2000! Thankyou MIP
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Thank you all for being here with me & to each of you for all you contribute. I'm a woman of few words but I love that I can stay close here with you while you share & help me to stay sober too. It means more than I can say though I hope you feel me present with you always 1Day@aTime. In unity, service &am...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Nourishing Ingredient & 24hrs a Day
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Where humility had formerly stood for a forced feeding on humble pie it now begins to mean the nourishing ingredient which can give us serenity. 12 & 12, p.74How often do I focus on my problems and frustrations? When I am having a good day these same problems shrink in importance and my preoccupat...
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newcomer
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Dear all, I am new to this board and have only slowly woken up to the fact that I have a serious drinking problem. My life is quite a mess. I am full of fear and feel very vulnerable at the moment, I will be starting meetings this coming week as I know I would not make it without them,
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Hello family!
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I am new to the board and happy to know about you folks. A little background: I live in Kerrville, TX, am married with 4 kids, and have been continuously sober just under 2 years. I am a Big Book "Fundamentalist" and have yet to find one lie in between the title page and page 164. I only make on...
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Think I just bonded with the tree in my front yard
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I was standing there smoking a cigarette (I do that occasionally when I really want a drink) and thinking about how arrogant I am, looked up at the tree and thought, it would take me an entire lifetime to try and count the needles on it and I wouldn't be able to come up with an accurate count. But God knows e...
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Codependency: Sound Familiar?
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Codependency involves a habitual system of thinking, feeling, and behaving toward ourselves and others that can cause pain. Codependent behaviors or habits are self-destructive. We frequently react to people who are destroying themselves; we react by learning to destroy ourselves. These hab...
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PROFESSOR AND THE PARADOX
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PROFESSOR AND THE PARADOX 1. We SURRENDER TO WIN. On the face of it, surrendering certainly does not seem like winning. But it is in AA. Only after we have come to the end of our rope, hit a stone wall in some aspect or our lives beyond which we can go no further; only when we hit "bottom" in despai...
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Struggling.....
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I've really been struggling these past few weeks. But was able to get rid of my boyfriend....which was very much needed. Would like to talk a little more about it, but not ready quite yet. Thanks for listening. I'll write more soon.
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So I sat at the bar tonight....
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Hey all, I am in a job where I am in a hotel a lot and many times its just easier to eat at the hotel. Tonight was no different from any other night, where when I went down to eat, my co workers were at the bar. So I sat at the bar and ordered dinner and a coke, and I sat there eating with company that was slurring w...
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SUMMER FOOD
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WOW..... the longer I stay sober the more I appreciate yummy healthy food (and chocolate too). My addiction prevented me from eating anything at all most of the time, much less decent food, for many years. I have put on some healthy weight in sobriety, and then a few extra girl-pounds just for good meas...
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WHERE IS EVERYONE?????
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LOL..... my fault for falling asleep at 6, waking up at 11pm on this Friday evening after work. LOL Where's the AA Party???? Hahahaha
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Just a quick hello.
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I've been lurking here for several days now and decided to go ahead and introduce myself. I'm Brian, and I am an alcoholic. I've read some good things here, and look forward to spending more time here sharing with my fellow alcoholics. I just got out of a 90 treatment program last Sunday, and have m...
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How do you handle conflict???
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Hi Everyone,
When I attended over 10 years of meetings, five days a week in this one small room, I learned so very much and something still stands out so clealy to me, feels like it was learned as in a classroom, and the theme many times was How to handle Conflict, or very fearful events.
And the genera...
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toni baloney
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The Emotion of FEAR......
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Good Morning,
Was doing some reading, and a lot of writings on the emotion of Fear.
Well there is of course healthy fear, if you see a car coming at you and you are in the middle of a cross-walk, healthy fear tells us to run, to avoid an injury, or worse.
One of our members here, talks about this emotio...
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toni baloney
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Cool support in my time of need last night
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Went to my home group last night, a BB study, and we were reading Bill's Story. We were then talking about detox, and PAW and stuff afterward. I remembered and told how last week I had almost passed out at work, during a surgery, due to anxiety!!! (PAW??) I had been put on a desk position for 6 months, and t...
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Sobriety Chips
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I am not posting this for congrats but to share an experience I just had. I was reading another post on here in which literally cleaning the house was mentioned. I have not been so great about maintaining my house, diet, and a lot of issues regarding self-care, but I'm a work in progress. I started cle...
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Homemade popsicles
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Anyone else use to make them? The little plastic tupperware thingies with the plastic handle? In the last couple months of my drinking, I discovered that they held just a little over a shot each. So I'd fill 'em up and take with me on my way to the bar - shots to go, one or two. Figured that way if I got pull...
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In need of some encouragment....or something.....
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Can I ask if there is anyone who stopped the alcohol, but became addicted to something else? I stopped drinking on September 11th, 2008. Though I have never done illegal drugs, it seems like I still search for a high. Even if it's something farely normal.....example, I love garage sales.....they...
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2000th post celebration thread
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Ok had to pause for this. I've racked up a lot of posts on other message boards (football, motorcycle ect...) but those were mostly frivolous and whimsical. I've enjoyed my 3 years here and this site has most definitely helped me stay sober and I owe much to your fellowship with me. Thanks for my s...
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Realized
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Good morning Just thought I'd drop in and say hi Was just having morning coffee and reading some of the post this morning when I realized in 5 days I will be celebrating and remembering 6 years ago. Tuesday July 14th is my AA Birthday, and well I am so glad that I'm sober today and greatful for being here. A...
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Tina
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I started a list today..
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Every day I wake up to this horribly messy house. And a horribly messed up life. And I get depressed very quickly. I've tried making lists of things to do, in priority order, and then working through them, but that never works. At least not for long. I might get some of the things done, but never tha...
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Brand New Here and also dealing with abandonment
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Hello, I'm brand new here. I have a little time sober (5/12/09) but am also dealing with my marriage ending shortly after my sobriety date (5/21/09). My hubby is also an alcoholic and he left without explanation 6 weeks ago. He's now in another state 1000 miles away. I have attended a few Alanon mee...
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on probation -
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-- Edited by florida on Tuesday 7th of July 2009 07:49:30 PM
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Hello
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Just saying Hi I am not new here just lost my old ID ,,,and nobody remebered my name I remember Phil ,,,Carol ,,, Dean ,,,,Dan ..it has been awile ..change Computers twice I hope everbody has a Grate Sober Day RUSSELL
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Funny moment
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So I'm sitting here, working on a website, and I casually reach for my 2 liter bottle of soda thinking it was 40oz. I pick it up and I'm like " What the f---? Oh yeah, I quite drinking!" LOL! -- Edited by BeerIsMyPoison on Sunday 5th of July 2009 11:26:29 PM
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If you live on the East Coast, you missed it....
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OK, at 12:34 and 56 seconds, today on 7-8-09 it will be 1234567809.
Can you come up with some trivia more useless than this, bet you can"t.
not even signing my name, but you know who...........
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Binge drinking and depression
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Hi i'm new here and need some help. Ive just found out my boyfriend is a binge drinker, it's been happening for the last 10 years. He's just come back from a 7 day binge and i'm not sure how to handle the situation. It's a pretty new relationship and i've just found out from his parents that he has suffered wi...
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Hi Everybody
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Hi, My name is Ty. I'm 22 years old, from Burbank, CA. I am an alcoholic. I live in an apartment by myself in Van Nuys. I have a good day job. You most likely would never think I'm an alcoholic, unless you know me. I could be your best friend during the day, and your worst friend during the night. People lo...
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newbie..it's been a longtime coming
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Hey there everyone-
my name's jess and im new to this board but not to wanting to stop drinking(if that made sense) im 25 and am engaged to my high school sweetheart and have 2 wonderful kids a lil girl who's 2 and a boy who's 6 months.
i decided to join up with all of you because i've had it. Yesterday was...
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Daily Reflections ~ Experience: The Best Teacher & 24hrs a Day
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Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to be inspired at all times. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 87Some say that experience is the best teacher, but I believe that experience is the only teacher. I have been able to learn of Gods lov...
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Anniversary vs Birthday
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Hi all, I have a question that I've been wondering for a while now. Here in Pennsylvania we celebrate our recovery as an "Anniversary". I heard that California says "Birthday". Which parts celebrate them as birthdays, and which do anniversaries? I realize there are other...
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Daily Reflections ~ Identifying Fear .. & 24hrs a Day
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The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear.TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 76When I feel uncomfortable, irritated, or depressed, I look for fear. This evil and corroding thread is the root of my distress: Fear of failure; fear of others opinions; fear of harm, and many ot...
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Relationship Issue- What to do?
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I married my high school sweatheart 12 years ago and we've been together for about 20 + years. I'm 40 and we have 2 kids 12 & 10. She's supportive of my recovery and invited me back into the house about 11 months ago. I've been sober for 15 months; working a solid program of AA. Pray, meetings, spo...
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Mike B.
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I need to slow down!
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I got pulled over last night, the second time in two months. The first I was test driving a bike, police clocked me at 93mph in a 70..no ticket?!? Last night I was taking my wife out to dinner and into Nashville to watch some bands. I wasn't paying much attention, I was clocked doing 20 over the limit. A...
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July 4, 2009 - My reunification Day
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There are some days that hold a very special place in my recovery. I about can fill a calendar with thoughts why that day is special and how it has affected my life in recovery. None of it would be possible without admitting and accepting that I am an alcoholic. That day took place on September 4, 1994. Oth...
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Two sponsors?
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I have a new sponsor(my first) whom I really like. She didn't raise her hand, but when I went over the member list for this one meeting I go to, I was looking for someone who listed an e-mail as I am phone shy. I remembered her for her strength in many ways, long-term sobriety, and knowledge of big book an...
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What is happening to me?!
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It's been a while since I've been on here. In a week, I'll have 6 months of sobriety, and I'm really struggling. I know I can't take my husband's inventory, but he is a heavy drinker still and all his (and my)old drinking buddies are always around. Drinking alot. It's become more and more clear to me how li...
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Sharing my thoughts
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I'm not sure if to post this or not, however; I would like to do so: I read this daily, and has become very dear and seems to help me more and more daily, not only in regards to alcohol but for the most part yes, it helps me reflect on all the good and bad memories; FootPrints: The LORD replied," My pre...
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