Alcoholics Anonymous

flumpy · flumpy

Hi again all, firstly thankyou all that replyed to my recent post.

I have just thought of something and was wondering if anyone here can answer my question??????? I have come to belive/understand that the main reason I drank was because I was so unhappy with my life (depressed) , parent...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

I don't know.. the stuff is only loading halfway, and not really working right. Is it me? or are other people having problems right now too? amanda

Rick · Rick

Reflection for the Day Since I came to The Program, I've begun to recognize my previous inability to form a true partnership with another person. It seems that my egomania created two disastrous pitfalls. Either I insisted upon dominating the people I knew, or I depended on them far too mu...

Rick · Rick

Dr. Bob defining humility: On his desk, Dr. Bob had a plaque defining humility: "Perpetual quietness of heart. It is to have no trouble. It is never to be fretted or vexed, irritable or sore; to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me,...

Doll · Doll

"THE ROOT OF OUR TROUBLES" Selfishness--self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of all our troubles. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 How amazing the revelation that the world, and everyone in it, can get along just fine with or without me. What a relief to know that people, places and things will...

Cabbageheadchris · Cabbageheadchris

Hi all, found this on a internet search (Lazy B@*&**d just copied and pasted!) There is a place I go to It's called Oblivion, An easy place to get to Go right ahead and carry on. The thing is, I have no recall Of what goes on in there, Im left with occasional flashbacks and a feeling of desp...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Page 112, Step Twelve, second Paragraph: "Furthermore, how shall we come to terms with seeming failure of success? Can we now accept and adjust to either without despair or pride? Can we accept poverty, sickness, loneliness, and bereavement with courage and serenity? Can we ste...

Rick · Rick

Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize that we only know a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask Him in your morning mediation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit so...

Doll · Doll

We DIE TO LIVE. That is a beautiful paradox straight out of the Biblical idea of being "born again" or "in losing one's life to find it." When we work at our Twelve Steps, the old life of guzzling and fuzzy thinking, and all that goes with it, gradually dies, and we acquire a different and a better way of l...

Rick · Rick

OLD TIME AA: 1. It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it. 2. If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress. 3. An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. 4. Sobriety is the leading cause of relapse. 5...

flumpy · flumpy

Hi all, I don't think any of you will remember me coz I spend all my time on the other site (Al-anon). Anyways I have and did find recovery through that and am greatful. But I now have a problem. Last year, the day after my 28th birthday infact, it all went pear shaped, cut a VERY long story short, I h...

Doll · Doll

Feeling the need to be perfect, comparing our progress with what we assume is the progress another woman has made, is one of the dangers we face. Women have been comparing themselves with others since childhood. The habit is not easily broken. Yet we must compare our progress today with where we were y...

Rick · Rick

Life deals more rigorously with some than others. --Lewis F. Presnall How often we think about a friend, He sure is lucky! And probably just as often we say to ourselves, Why did that happen to me? It's not fair! The truth is, life isn't always fair. We don't all get the same experiences, the same l...

Doll · Doll

THE LIMITS OF SELF-RELIANCE We asked ourselves why we had them [fears]. Wasn't it because self-reliance failed us? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.68 All of my character defects separate me from God's will. When I ignore my association with Him I face the world and my alcoholism alone and must depend o...

Michelle · Michelle

go to: http://www.recoverylane.com/jokes__humor.htm you know, you gotta laugh at your problems or you will go crazy. It's what gets me through every day! Humor is good medicine. Happy Friday everyone!

Doll · Doll

Break Free Of Anger Buried resentments are difficult to escape, but there is always grace. With God's help, spiritual healing is possible. Whenever the pain of life becomes too much for you, turn immediately to Him. He may seem to ask the impossible, but hHs words supply the he...

Pauly · Pauly

Hi Folks just checking in to give you a weekly update of sorts, hope thats OK with you guys? 2 weeks since not a drop, been to the pub tonight to meet a few friends, just still Orange juice. Quite comfortable with others drinking around me, no great "thirst". Reality is starting to hit as to what I`m...

Michelle · Michelle

I had my 6th education class tonight, this one was about drink sizes and equivalents. I had no idea I'd been drinking so much. I didn't know that a regular 12 oz beer was actually 1.5 drinks, and how it affects you. There was quite a bit of math involved, but I got a lot of new informatio...

Doll · Doll

Hi all. Just wanted to ask if you all would include my ex, who's still out there, in your prayers. I've been praying for him to be given the gift of desperation for quite some time now and I think I need some reinforments! He really needs help, but he's got to want it, so I figure it will take desperation fo...

Doll · Doll

I DON'T RUN THE SHOW When we became alcoholics, crushed by a self-imposed crisis we could not postpone or evade, we had to fearlessly face the proposition that either God is everything or else He is nothing. God either is, or He isn't. What was our choice to be? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.53 Today my choic...

Doll · Doll

GETTING THE "SPIRITUAL ANGLE" How often do we sit in AA meetings and hear the speaker declare, "But I haven't yet got the spiritual angle." Prior to this statement, he had described a miracle of transformation which had occurred in him -- not only his release from alcohol, but a complete change in his w...

Doll · Doll

WE GIVE AWAY TO KEEP. That seems absurd and untrue. How can you keep anything if you give it away? But in order to keep whatever it is we get in AA, we must go about giving it away to others, for no fees or rewards of any kind. When we cannot afford to give away what we have received so freely in AA, we had bette...

Rick · Rick

Some days my life feels so confusing and overwhelming that I think I'll scream. Sometimes life is like moving from one place to another. When I move into a new house, it is unorganized and chaotic until everything gets put in the right place. In life, my emotions and thoughts are often like t...

Phil · Phil

Something that I pulled outa the hat...along with the rabbit... You were asking a few days ago..Benny...and I dont know about you Buddy...but Impatience with this kid...is a work on thing...every day... Take what you need and leave the rest... Patience is the ability to: Sit back and w...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

CHANGE: Willingness, Openness, and Consciousness “There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance—that principle is contempt prior to investigation.” —Herbert Spencer

benny33 · benny33

hello every one . just got back from a meeting and im still feeling a little down .thought i share a little with you all.today i got the call that a familey member passed.my first thought was where is the closest bar.i was angry and mad and all those things agian i was a week ago when i asked for helpp.iam so g...

jersey · jersey

APPENDIX II THE terms "spiritual experience" and "spiritual awakening" are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many different forms. Yet it is tr...

Michelle · Michelle

How does alcohol affect what you have to say? Here's a few ways ... THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Innovative 2. Preliminary 3. Proliferation 4. Cinnamon THINGS THAT ARE VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Specificity 2. British Constitution 3. Passive-aggressive disorder THINGS...

Michelle · Michelle

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4057591681481453187-- Edited by Michel...

Michelle · Michelle

WARNING: consumption of alcohol may make you think you are whispering when you are not. WARNING: consumption of alcohol is a major factor in dancing like a TOTAL DORK!. WARNING: consumption of alcohol may cause you to tell the same boring story over and over again until your friends want to SLAP Y...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

i took the 12 Steps to the latrine last night i decided i was going to tile my master bathroom floor....' i dug up all the old linoleum tiles, and i had the floor nice and clean and ready to go!!! things were going GREAT till i got around having to "tile around the toidie" and thats when thi...

Doll · Doll

5 Laws of Life You Can Depend On 1. This, too, shall pass. Nothing stays the same. The only constant in life is change. With every decision we make, we initiate change. Even when we decide not to decide, life still goes on, and changes still occur. When we are in a state of discomfort, sadness, grief, or pa...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

This Is Not A Test "We have found a loving, personal God to whom we can turn." Basic Text p. 27 Some of us come into recovery with the impression that life's hardships are a series of cosmic tests designed to teach us something. This belief is readily apparent when something traumatic happens a...

jeannie · jeannie

Great White North humour, come naked. > Now that Vancouver has won the chance to host the 2010 Winter Olympics these are some questions people the world over are asking!!!! Believe it or not > these questions about Canada were posted on an Interna...

Doll · Doll

We SURRENDER TO WIN. On the face of it, surrendering does not seem like winning. But it is in AA. Only after we have come to the end of our rope, hit a stone wall in some aspect of our lives beyond which we can go no further; only when we hit "bottom" in despair and surrender, can we accomplish sobrie...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

A.A. Thought for the Day A nightclub crowded with men and women all dressed up in evening clothes looks like a very gay place. But you should see the men's room of that nightclub the next morning. What a mess! People have been sick all over the place and does it smell! The glamour of the night...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

I was brought up by a very controlling father, with a very 'submissive' but manipulative mother. I was taught that I had to respond, and the response had to be one that pleased them, or else terrible punishments... my sister has a brain lesion from one beating. Since we tend to generalize and to t...

Doll · Doll

CONVINCING "MR. HYDE" Even then, as we hew away, peace and joy will still elude us. That's the place so many of us A.A. oldsters have come to. And it's a hell of a spot, literally. How shall our unconscious--from which so many of our fears, compulsions and phony aspirations still stream--be brought int...

Michelle · Michelle

Somebody on my block is barbecuing tonight and it smells wonderful! but it's only February, and it's usually still very cold. Today, it's at 54 right now, but it feels like spring after all the cold and wind and rain we've had lately! I have the doors and windows open, neighbors are...

Michelle · Michelle

They would stop advertising alcohol on TV. It seems like there is at least one ad during every commercial break, even during the day. They should at least show it how it really is, people stumbling around in bars or wherever and then getting arrested on the way home. There should be...

Doll · Doll

If we earnestly and conscientiously apply the tools of our program, we are certain to experience positive change. We are promised new freedom and happiness and assured that a Higher Power can and will remove our negative characteristics. The question is, are we ready to change? If we hang on tightly...

Rob · Rob

I drink too much.. im gona be 30 in about 6 months and iv been gettin pissed almost every night since i was about 17 or 18. somtimes i give it up for a couple of days.. and sometimes i manage a week, though not very often.. once a few years ago i quit for 3 months.... But i cant seem to stay of...

Michelle · Michelle

I am so fed up with all these commercialized hollidays and their advertisements. It's just so depressing, they make you feel like if you don't buy stuff for your loved ones, then you don't really love them. Well, I don't care if my man buys me jewelry, I mostly make my own, diamonds a...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

Hey Toni, your post got me to thinking a lot about where I was, what it was like, and where I am now. I was surfing the 'net today and came across a religion that I think I might finally be able to call my own. It is Unitarian Universalism. It's a lot about tolerance. It accepts p...

Doll · Doll

A PATH TO FAITH True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was ab...

jersey · jersey

Hope is for the weak: The challenge of a broken world Hope requires humility and humanity by Robert Jensen My title may seem unnecessarily harsh. After all, hope is an enduring feature of our species, something people search for (often quite desperately) and hang onto (usually quit...

John · John

Hello everyone, This is Rose, From time to time I have been in the rooms and I have found that people are talking about food. Who is cooking what, oh let me have that recipe, Oh that sounds good. All it does is make everyone hungry!! So I have decided to put all this food talk to...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

I have heard both of these phrases by people in the program,,,, "take what you like and leave the rest', and ' take what you need and leave the rest'. There is actually a big difference between the two. If I only take what I like I will miss a lot of what I need. I don't lik...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Today's thought is: If you go around thinking you are being cheated, life becomes very unpleasant. --Felix Salten Sometimes we feel cheated that we have been given this darn disease to cope with. Why us? Why can't we just be like normal people? Why did we have to get into so much trouble and pai...

Phil · Phil

Pride works from within; it is the direct appreciation of oneself. --Arthur Schopenhauer Pride, like all emotions, has two faces: one healthy and one sick. It is our challenge to use the healthy side well. Sick pride fills us with ourselves, looks down on others, and has no room for generosity...

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	Hmmmmmm part 2 (Preview) Hi again all, firstly thankyou all that replyed to my recent post. I have just thought of something and was wondering if anyone here can answer my question??????? I have come to belive/understand that the main reason I drank was because I was so unhappy with my life (depressed) , parent...	flumpy	5	629	Feb 12, 2006 by Cabbageheadchris
	is it my puter? or this site? (Preview) *I don't know.. the stuff is only loading halfway, and not really working right. Is it me? or are other people having problems right now too?* *amanda*	amanda2u2	4	643	Feb 12, 2006 by GammyRose
	Defect--? (Preview) Reflection for the Day Since I came to The Program, I've begun to recognize my previous inability to form a true partnership with another person. It seems that my egomania created two disastrous pitfalls. Either I insisted upon dominating the people I knew, or I depended on them far too mu...	Rick	1	681	Feb 12, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Humility (Preview) Dr. Bob defining humility: On his desk, Dr. Bob had a plaque defining humility: "Perpetual quietness of heart. It is to have no trouble. It is never to be fretted or vexed, irritable or sore; to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me,...	Rick	2	655	Feb 12, 2006 by Rick
	Daily Reflections Feb 12 (Preview) "THE ROOT OF OUR TROUBLES" Selfishness--self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of all our troubles. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 How amazing the revelation that the world, and everyone in it, can get along just fine with or without me. What a relief to know that people, places and things will...	Doll	0	581	Feb 12, 2006 by Doll
	True! (Preview) Hi all, found this on a internet search (Lazy B@&*d just copied and pasted!) There is a place I go to It's called Oblivion, An easy place to get to Go right ahead and carry on. The thing is, I have no recall Of what goes on in there, Im left with occasional flashbacks and a feeling of desp...	Cabbageheadchris	6	600	Feb 11, 2006 by flumpy
	Love this part of Step 12 (Preview) Page 112, Step Twelve, second Paragraph: "Furthermore, how shall we come to terms with seeming failure of success? Can we now accept and adjust to either without despair or pride? Can we accept poverty, sickness, loneliness, and bereavement with courage and serenity? Can we ste...	Toni Baloney	2	652	Feb 11, 2006 by amanda2u2
	BB Pg ** I really like (Preview) Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize that we only know a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask Him in your morning mediation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit so...	Rick	0	676	Feb 11, 2006 by Rick
	Paradox - WE DIE TO LIVE (Preview) We DIE TO LIVE. That is a beautiful paradox straight out of the Biblical idea of being "born again" or "in losing one's life to find it." When we work at our Twelve Steps, the old life of guzzling and fuzzy thinking, and all that goes with it, gradually dies, and we acquire a different and a better way of l...	Doll	4	842	Feb 11, 2006 by Rick
	old time AA (Preview) OLD TIME AA: 1. It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it. 2. If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress. 3. An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. 4. Sobriety is the leading cause of relapse. 5...	Rick	2	609	Feb 11, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Hmmmmmmmmmmmm (Preview) Hi all, I don't think any of you will remember me coz I spend all my time on the other site (Al-anon). Anyways I have and did find recovery through that and am greatful. But I now have a problem. Last year, the day after my 28th birthday infact, it all went pear shaped, cut a VERY long story short, I h...	flumpy	6	689	Feb 11, 2006 by Doll
	The Little Red Book for Women (Preview) Feeling the need to be perfect, comparing our progress with what we assume is the progress another woman has made, is one of the dangers we face. Women have been comparing themselves with others since childhood. The habit is not easily broken. Yet we must compare our progress today with where we were y...	Doll	0	723	Feb 11, 2006 by Doll
	today's thought (Preview) *Life deals more rigorously with some than others. --Lewis F. Presnall* How often we think about a friend, He sure is lucky! And probably just as often we say to ourselves, Why did that happen to me? It's not fair! The truth is, life isn't always fair. We don't all get the same experiences, the same l...	Rick	1	656	Feb 11, 2006 by Rick
	Daily Reflections Feb 11 (Preview) THE LIMITS OF SELF-RELIANCE We asked ourselves why we had them [fears]. Wasn't it because self-reliance failed us? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.68 All of my character defects separate me from God's will. When I ignore my association with Him I face the world and my alcoholism alone and must depend o...	Doll	1	863	Feb 11, 2006 by Rick
	another funny website! (Preview) go to: http://www.recoverylane.com/jokes__humor.htm you know, you gotta laugh at your problems or you will go crazy. It's what gets me through every day! Humor is good medicine. Happy Friday everyone!	Michelle	1	655	Feb 11, 2006 by GammyRose
	Break Free Of Anger (Preview) Break Free Of Anger Buried resentments are difficult to escape, but there is always grace. With God's help, spiritual healing is possible. Whenever the pain of life becomes too much for you, turn immediately to Him. He may seem to ask the impossible, but hHs words supply the he...	Doll	5	778	Feb 11, 2006 by GammyRose
	Checking in (Preview) Hi Folks just checking in to give you a weekly update of sorts, hope thats OK with you guys? 2 weeks since not a drop, been to the pub tonight to meet a few friends, just still Orange juice. Quite comfortable with others drinking around me, no great "thirst". Reality is starting to hit as to what I`m...	Pauly	4	632	Feb 10, 2006 by GammyRose
	I learned a lot tonight! (Preview) I had my 6th education class tonight, this one was about drink sizes and equivalents. I had no idea I'd been drinking so much. I didn't know that a regular 12 oz beer was actually 1.5 drinks, and how it affects you. There was quite a bit of math involved, but I got a lot of new informatio...	Michelle	2	677	Feb 10, 2006 by Doll
	Prayer Request (Preview) Hi all. Just wanted to ask if you all would include my ex, who's still out there, in your prayers. I've been praying for him to be given the gift of desperation for quite some time now and I think I need some reinforments! He really needs help, but he's got to want it, so I figure it will take desperation fo...	Doll	2	598	Feb 9, 2006 by Doll
	Daily Reflection Feb 10 (Preview) I DON'T RUN THE SHOW When we became alcoholics, crushed by a self-imposed crisis we could not postpone or evade, we had to fearlessly face the proposition that either God is everything or else He is nothing. God either is, or He isn't. What was our choice to be? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.53 Today my choic...	Doll	0	586	Feb 9, 2006 by Doll
	Daily Reflection Feb 9 (Preview) GETTING THE "SPIRITUAL ANGLE" How often do we sit in AA meetings and hear the speaker declare, "But I haven't yet got the spiritual angle." Prior to this statement, he had described a miracle of transformation which had occurred in him -- not only his release from alcohol, but a complete change in his w...	Doll	2	608	Feb 9, 2006 by Doll
	Paradox - WE GIVE AWAY TO KEEP. (Preview) WE GIVE AWAY TO KEEP. That seems absurd and untrue. How can you keep anything if you give it away? But in order to keep whatever it is we get in AA, we must go about giving it away to others, for no fees or rewards of any kind. When we cannot afford to give away what we have received so freely in AA, we had bette...	Doll	3	668	Feb 9, 2006 by Doll
	todays gift (Preview) Some days my life feels so confusing and overwhelming that I think I'll scream. Sometimes life is like moving from one place to another. When I move into a new house, it is unorganized and chaotic until everything gets put in the right place. In life, my emotions and thoughts are often like t...	Rick	0	558	Feb 9, 2006 by Rick
	You were asking Benny..heres a biggy (Preview) Something that I pulled outa the hat...along with the rabbit... You were asking a few days ago..Benny...and I dont know about you Buddy...but Impatience with this kid...is a work on thing...every day... Take what you need and leave the rest... Patience is the ability to: Sit back and w...	Phil	3	861	Feb 9, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Am I Still willing to Keep Changing (Preview) CHANGE: Willingness, Openness, and Consciousness “There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance—that principle is contempt prior to investigation.” —Herbert Spencer	Toni Baloney	4	665	Feb 9, 2006 by rosie light shines
	the hits just keep coming (Preview) hello every one . just got back from a meeting and im still feeling a little down .thought i share a little with you all.today i got the call that a familey member passed.my first thought was where is the closest bar.i was angry and mad and all those things agian i was a week ago when i asked for helpp.iam so g...	benny33	7	669	Feb 9, 2006 by Cabbageheadchris
	appendix II (Preview) APPENDIX II THE terms "spiritual experience" and "spiritual awakening" are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many different forms. Yet it is tr...	jersey	2	2535	Feb 9, 2006 by Phil
	more funnies! (Preview) How does alcohol affect what you have to say? Here's a few ways ... THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Innovative 2. Preliminary 3. Proliferation 4. Cinnamon THINGS THAT ARE VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Specificity 2. British Constitution 3. Passive-aggressive disorder THINGS...	Michelle	0	608	Feb 9, 2006 by Michelle
	This is so funny, especially if you're a cat lover (Preview) http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4057591681481453187-- Edited by Michel...	Michelle	0	686	Feb 9, 2006 by Michelle
	Some really good reasons not to drink :) (Preview) WARNING: consumption of alcohol may make you think you are whispering when you are not. WARNING: consumption of alcohol is a major factor in dancing like a TOTAL DORK!. WARNING: consumption of alcohol may cause you to tell the same boring story over and over again until your friends want to SLAP Y...	Michelle	0	705	Feb 9, 2006 by Michelle
	i took the 12steps to the latrine (Preview) i took the 12 Steps to the latrine last night i decided i was going to tile my master bathroom floor....' i dug up all the old linoleum tiles, and i had the floor nice and clean and ready to go!!! things were going GREAT till i got around having to "tile around the toidie" and thats when thi...	rosie light shines	3	676	Feb 8, 2006 by amanda2u2
	5 Laws of Life You Can Depend On (Preview) 5 Laws of Life You Can Depend On 1. This, too, shall pass. Nothing stays the same. The only constant in life is change. With every decision we make, we initiate change. Even when we decide not to decide, life still goes on, and changes still occur. When we are in a state of discomfort, sadness, grief, or pa...	Doll	2	842	Feb 8, 2006 by rosie light shines
	awsome!!!! HP does NOT test us (Preview) This Is Not A Test "We have found a loving, personal God to whom we can turn." Basic Text p. 27 Some of us come into recovery with the impression that life's hardships are a series of cosmic tests designed to teach us something. This belief is readily apparent when something traumatic happens a...	rosie light shines	6	706	Feb 8, 2006 by Doll
	HUMOUR - CANADIAN STYLE (Preview) *Great White North humour, come naked.* *> Now that Vancouver has won the chance to host the 2010 Winter Olympics these are some questions people the world over are asking!!!! Believe it or not* *> these questions about Canada were posted on an Interna...*	jeannie	3	664	Feb 8, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Paradox (Preview) We SURRENDER TO WIN. On the face of it, surrendering does not seem like winning. But it is in AA. Only after we have come to the end of our rope, hit a stone wall in some aspect of our lives beyond which we can go no further; only when we hit "bottom" in despair and surrender, can we accomplish sobrie...	Doll	1	705	Feb 8, 2006 by benny33
	AA_thought for today (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day A nightclub crowded with men and women all dressed up in evening clothes looks like a very gay place. But you should see the men's room of that nightclub the next morning. What a mess! People have been sick all over the place and does it smell! The glamour of the night...	rosie light shines	1	714	Feb 8, 2006 by amanda2u2
	detachment, disengagement, letting go (Preview) I was brought up by a very controlling father, with a very 'submissive' but manipulative mother. I was taught that I had to respond, and the response had to be one that pleased them, or else terrible punishments... my sister has a brain lesion from one beating. Since we tend to generalize and to t...	amanda2u2	4	743	Feb 8, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Daily Reflections Feb 8 (Preview) CONVINCING "MR. HYDE" Even then, as we hew away, peace and joy will still elude us. That's the place so many of us A.A. oldsters have come to. And it's a hell of a spot, literally. How shall our unconscious--from which so many of our fears, compulsions and phony aspirations still stream--be brought int...	Doll	0	599	Feb 7, 2006 by Doll
	Here's a happy thought! (Preview) Somebody on my block is barbecuing tonight and it smells wonderful! but it's only February, and it's usually still very cold. Today, it's at 54 right now, but it feels like spring after all the cold and wind and rain we've had lately! I have the doors and windows open, neighbors are...	Michelle	2	733	Feb 7, 2006 by jeannie
	I wish... (Preview) They would stop advertising alcohol on TV. It seems like there is at least one ad during every commercial break, even during the day. They should at least show it how it really is, people stumbling around in bars or wherever and then getting arrested on the way home. There should be...	Michelle	6	683	Feb 7, 2006 by Michelle
	Readiness is a precondition for change. (Preview) If we earnestly and conscientiously apply the tools of our program, we are certain to experience positive change. We are promised new freedom and happiness and assured that a Higher Power can and will remove our negative characteristics. The question is, are we ready to change? If we hang on tightly...	Doll	0	601	Feb 7, 2006 by Doll
	I need to stop drinking.. (Preview) I drink too much.. im gona be 30 in about 6 months and iv been gettin pissed almost every night since i was about 17 or 18. somtimes i give it up for a couple of days.. and sometimes i manage a week, though not very often.. once a few years ago i quit for 3 months.... But i cant seem to stay of...	Rob	8	858	Feb 7, 2006 by Doll
	Anyone else here hate Valentine's Day? (Preview) I am so fed up with all these commercialized hollidays and their advertisements. It's just so depressing, they make you feel like if you don't buy stuff for your loved ones, then you don't really love them. Well, I don't care if my man buys me jewelry, I mostly make my own, diamonds a...	Michelle	6	843	Feb 7, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Spiritual Experience and AA(my long story) (Preview) Hey Toni, your post got me to thinking a lot about where I was, what it was like, and where I am now. I was surfing the 'net today and came across a religion that I think I might finally be able to call my own. It is Unitarian Universalism. It's a lot about tolerance. It accepts p...	Sick of being sick	1	702	Feb 7, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Daily Reflections Feb 7 (Preview) A PATH TO FAITH True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was ab...	Doll	0	693	Feb 6, 2006 by Doll
	Hope requires humility and humanity (Preview) Hope is for the weak: The challenge of a broken world Hope requires humility and humanity by Robert Jensen My title may seem unnecessarily harsh. After all, hope is an enduring feature of our species, something people search for (often quite desperately) and hang onto (usually quit...	jersey	0	632	Feb 6, 2006 by jersey
	Miracles In Progress Cookbook (Preview) Hello everyone, This is Rose, From time to time I have been in the rooms and I have found that people are talking about food. Who is cooking what, oh let me have that recipe, Oh that sounds good. All it does is make everyone hungry!! So I have decided to put all this food talk to...	John	0	802	Feb 6, 2006 by John
	'what you like' or 'what you need' (Preview) I have heard both of these phrases by people in the program,,,, "take what you like and leave the rest', and ' take what you need and leave the rest'. There is actually a big difference between the two. *If I only take what I like I will miss a lot of what I need. I don't lik...*	amanda2u2	3	784	Feb 6, 2006 by amanda2u2
	AA---today's thought (Preview) Today's thought is: *If you go around thinking you are being cheated, life becomes very unpleasant. --Felix Salten* Sometimes we feel cheated that we have been given this darn disease to cope with. Why us? Why can't we just be like normal people? Why did we have to get into so much trouble and pai...	rosie light shines	1	659	Feb 6, 2006 by Phil
	Monday (Preview) Pride works from within; it is the direct appreciation of oneself. --Arthur Schopenhauer Pride, like all emotions, has two faces: one healthy and one sick. It is our challenge to use the healthy side well. Sick pride fills us with ourselves, looks down on others, and has no room for generosity...	Phil	2	666	Feb 6, 2006 by Phil
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