Alcoholics Anonymous

Wren · Wren

"When we feel stuck, going nowhere -- even starting to slip backward -- we may actually be backing up to get a running start."-- Dan MillmanTo change, we must go through a transition zone. It's not easy being in transition. Thoughts, beliefs and habits are all in flux. It can create a sense o...

Phil · Phil

Husband: When I get mad at you, you never fight back. How do you control your anger? Wife: I clean the toilet...Husband: How does that help?Wife: I use your toothbrush....

wallsal55 · wallsal55

I like Melodie Beatties take on codependency. It's when we feel "we have to do something". Sometimes I feel under so much pressure, I feel I must take care of everything. I get so caught up in this cycle of putting extra pressure on myself and taking on more responsibility............

Wren · Wren

Heartbreak happens to all of us and can wash over us like a heavy rain. When experiencing a broken heart, our ethereal selves are saturated with grief, and the overflow is channeled into the physical body. Loss becomes a physical emptiness, and longing is transmuted into a feeling that often cannot b...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Learn to let yourself be guided into truth. We will know what we need to know, when we need to know that. We don't have to feel badly about taking our own time to reach our insights. We don't have to force insight or awareness before it's time. Yes! Maybe the whole world saw a particular truth in our life, an...

Doll · Doll

YESTERDAY'S BAGGAGE For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self-searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 & 12, p. 88 I have more than enough to ha...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

Hey everyone, Well, we'll see if this posts... having problems with my internet, really bad connection... I got moved into my house I'm renting from my dad! It's pretty nice, I didn't get to see it until I moved in today. A few problems, like my cell phone doesn't work inside the house... and my internet...

Quetzal · Quetzal

In recovery; we're learning a new behavior. It's called Be Who You Are. For some of us, this can be frightening. What would happen if we felt what we felt, said what we wanted, became firm about our beliefs, and valued what we needed? What would happen if we let go of our camouflage of adaptation? What wou...

texas mike · texas mike

You know life is good today and everything in it. I always say that there is no such thing as life life on lifes terms, life today (for me) does not dictate the terms by which I live, because of the program of AA I can choose the terms by which I am going to live my life. Now sometimes those choices are not the...

Phil · Phil

Codependency is when a person has a strong desire to control people around them, including their spouse, children or co-workers. Codependents believe they are somehow more capable than others, who need their direction or suggestions to fulfill tasks they are responsible to complete. They feel...

Doll · Doll

One night of (really hard) drinking, 4 days ago and I still feel hung over. It's as if I'd never gotten any sober time at all - physically and emotionally....I have many regrets. One of them being (borderline) going to see John. Although, I know it was exactly what I needed, (My HP has a way of doing that f...

lani · lani

Just a quick hello to all!! Have a great day and may we all be blessed with joy and happiness! And sobriety!!!! As I read everyone's posts I just want to say Thank you all and I love ya!! Today the things I read put a smile on my face...Thats a good thing because it was more of a frown knowing I have to get moving...

Doll · Doll

A NECESSARY PRUNING . . . . we know that the pains of drinking had to come before sobriety, and emotional turmoil before serenity. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 94 I love spending time in my garden feeding and pruning my beautiful flowers. One day, as I was busily snipping away, a neighbor stop...

Phil · Phil

Before being able to really love others, we need at least to accept ourselves as we are. - I have some bad habits and faults, but am I really all that bad? - Many things I do don't lead to perfect results, but at least I try to do my best. - Now simply put a smile on your face, a real smile, not just visualised! - N...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We cannot afford to allow our focus in life to be money. That will not lead us into the abundance we're seeking. Usually, it will not even lead to financial stability. Money is important. We deserve to be paid what we're worth. We will be paid what we're worth when we believe we deserve to be. But often you...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Here are some of my favorite prayers: Help. Please. Don't. Show me. Guide me. Change me. Are you there? Why'd you do that? Oh. Thank you. Today, I will tell God what I want to tell God, and listen for God's answer. I will remember that I can trust God. From The Language of Letting Go

Quetzal · Quetzal

There are many paths to self-care with families. Some people choose to sever connections with family members for a period of time. Some people choose to stay connected with family members and learn different behaviors. Some disconnect for a time, and then return slowly on a different basis. There i...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Surrender to the pain. Then learn to surrender to the good. It's there and more is on the way. -- Beyond Codependency Our goal in recovery is to make us feel comfortable, peaceful, and content. Happy. We want to be at peace with our environment and ourselves. Sometimes, to do that, we need to be willing t...

Snopup · Snopup

Since I came back to AA, my relationship with my wife has improved so much. I can't believe what I was losing and how much I damaged my wife and family. In the beginning my wife kicked me out. I had been drinking and drove the kids home after picking them up from one of their activities. She was absolute...

Doll · Doll

SERENITY AFTER THE STORM Someone who knew what he was talking about once remarked that pain was the touchstone of all spiritual progress. How heartily we A.A.'s can agree with him. . . . TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p p. 93-94 When on the roller coaster of emotional turmoil, I remember that grow...

timverton · timverton

Hi all! And a big WELCOME to all the newcomers. Tim, alcoholic. There have been some great posts on this site lately and it's good to see that interaction with important topics. I just felt like throwing out some thoughts. I am coming up on 14 months in a few days and this is the longest stretch of so...

Phil · Phil

How to Overcome Anxiety & Fear in Relationships © Laurie Pawlik-KienlenIs your relationship hampered by emotional walls & barriers, secrets & long silences? Fear of intimacy is common in adults, especially if you've been scarred in the past. Fear of intimacy is the exact opposite of...

Doll · Doll

THE ACID TEST As we work the first nine Steps, we prepare ourselves for the adventure of a new life. But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or foul. Then comes the acid test: can we stay sober, keep in emotional balance, and live to...

jennie08062005 · jennie08062005

Okay, so I am new here. I thank God for finding this. I have really been hurting lately. I am not sure what is wrong. I spoke about complacency at a meeting I went to on Friday night; I spoke frankly. I have become complacent slowly over time. It has happened so quickly that I didn't realize it was hap...

Wren · Wren

The world calls out for improvement and, more often than not, we are ready and willing to offer advice or admonishments. But each of us possesses the power to effect a positive shift in energy in ourselves and in those around us. Just as purification of the soul leads to purification of the world, chang...

Doll · Doll

LEST WE BECOME COMPLACENT It is easy to let up on the spiritual program of action and rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do, for alcohol is a subtle foe. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 When I am in pain it is easy to stay close to the friends I have found in the programs. Relief from that pain is p...

Doll · Doll

....had to share.....Your thread on the importance of money...amazing what a little inspiration can do... THIS was truely an inspirtation to me today. It had crossed my mind a few days ago that I should get back on Ebay. I used to sell quite a bit of things on there, and really enjoyed it. I also made a dol...

Doll · Doll

THE CIRCLE AND THE TRIANGLE The circle stands for the whole world of A.A., and the triangle stands for A.A.'s Three Legacies of Recovery, Unity, and Service. Within our wonderful new world, we have found freedom from our fatal obsession. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 139 Early in my A.A. life, I became employe...

Quetzal · Quetzal

You are not a victim. How deeply ingrained our self-image as a victim can be! How habitual our feelings of misery and helplessness! Victimization can be like a gray cloak that surrounds us, both attracting that which will victimize us and causing us to generate the feelings of victimization. Victim...

Doll · Doll

EXACTLY ALIKE Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 A man came to the meeting drunk, interrupted the speakers, stood up and took his shirt off, staggered loudly back and forth for coffee, demanded to talk, and eventually call...

Wren · Wren

"It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others."-- Sydney J. Harris&...

Snopup · Snopup

The other night, while leaving a meeting hall which is located behind a mini mart, one of my wife's friends saw me and ask what I was doing at "that meeting". I replied that I have some personal issues that this group helps me with. She said that it was an AA meeting. I responded that yes, I kn...

Pdinkle · Pdinkle

Hi, I have seen several posts of people introducing themselves so I felt I should follow in kind. I'm Debra and I'm an alcoholic. (one of the hardest things I ever had to say in my life) I'm 38 and I live in Southern CA. I started drinking when I was 16 But I started having a problem with drinking (or not drink...

alligot · alligot

13th centuary monks prayer; Lord, thou knowest better than I know myself that I am growing older and will some day be old. Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion. Release me from the craving to straighten out everybody's affairs. Make me thou...

CAM · CAM

One year ago, i had a spiritual awakening and turned my will over to my HP. tonight, i celebrate one year of sobriety. it's a calm day - i wound up with the day off and spent most of it with the two people who love me the most in this world, my folks. i'm kind of glad there was no fanfare - for me, it's not like t...

Doll · Doll

LOVE WITHOUT STRINGS Practical experience shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 Sponsorship held two surprises for me. First, that my sponsees cared about me. What I had thought was gratitude was more li...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

In 1934, Bill W., cofounder of Alcoholics Anonymous, got a call from a former drinking buddy, Ebby T. "Rumor had it that he'd been committed for alcoholic insanity," Bill recalled. "I wondered how he had escaped." In reality, Ebby was two months sober. This disappointed Bill...

Wren · Wren

With the seasonal transition into Fall, change is motivated by the movement of the earth around the sun; there is no getting around this. So as the world changes and the seasons pass, so must our lives in tandum with it. Change is inevitable. Our lives are made up of the building blocks of change. This ca...

alligot · alligot

Unmanageability The reasons my life is unmanageable ; My thinking (past and present) eg my beliefs, perceptions that faulty filter My drinking and using My obsession to drink and use Finding ways and means to drink and use The consequences of the above solution......acceptance that all of the abov...

miller2 · miller2

Just on my way out to work and wanted to swing by to wish everyone a great day. Heres something my sponsor used to ask me every time he saw me.... What are you doing to stay sober today? :)

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes, after we begin recovery, things in our life seem to get worse for a time. Our finances, our relationships, or our health may seem to deteriorate. This is temporary; this is a normal part of recovery and healing. It may be the way things will be for a time, but not for long. Keep working at recov...

Doll · Doll

WITHOUT RESERVATION When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, . . . . AS BILL SEES IT, p.37 While practicing service to others, if my successes give rise to grandiosity, I must reflect on what brought me to this point. What has been given joyfully, with love, m...

Wren · Wren

"The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival."-- AristotleINSIGHTS happen only when we shift to a higher, more inclusive perspective. As we grow in wisdom and experience, we become less attached to the form of reality...

Phil · Phil

Some people refuse to accept things as they are. Thats good! Some people accept things just as they are. Thats good, too! What? How can refusing to accept things and accepting things both be good? It depends on your views of what is good or not good for you to accept. In other words, it is important for you...

lanchas · lanchas

My mom is an A as some of you may know along with the fact that I'm 20 years old (almost 21 - which is legal age to drink). She has told me before (confirmed by a sober family friend) that she went to AA for a short while when I was little. The thing I'm questioning is whether or not her reason for why she quit goin...

timverton · timverton

Of all of the emotions in the human repertoire, hate, anger, and resentment are among the most powerful and self-destructive. They are awakened in you by the actions of those you perceive to have hurt you or those you love. You may think that you want and are justified to hate, or harbor rage agai...

Kirsten · Kirsten

Hi, My name is Kirsten and I am an alcoholic. On September 20, 2007 I took my last drink. I had relapsed approx. 3 months prior. I continue to say, "yeah, that's me everytime I read the BB. I really saw myself today in reading "More about Alcoholism", "Then he fell victim to a belief...

Doll · Doll

OUR CHILDREN The alcoholic may find it hard to re-establish friendly relations with his children. . . . In time they will see that he is a new man and in their own way they will let him know it. . . . From that point on, progress will be rapid. Marvelous results often follow such a reunion. ALCOHOLICS ANONYM...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

Well, I woke up first thing this morning with an asthma attack... inhaler wasn't quite enough, got it just under control enough to make it to the bathroom and start a hot shower, had to let the steam clear up my lungs... really tempted on asking for a nebulizer after that... cuz both asthma attacks I...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Our task is not a naive one of feeling safe, of living and loving in a utopian world. One woman commented that our task is making ourselves feel safe while learning to live and love in a world that is unsafe. We do not want to dwell on the danger for that gives power to the negative. Neither do we want to ignor...

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	Don't Avoid the Void (Preview) "When we feel stuck, going nowhere -- even starting to slip backward -- we may actually be backing up to get a running start."-- Dan MillmanTo change, we must go through a transition zone. It's not easy being in transition. Thoughts, beliefs and habits are all in flux. It can create a sense o...	Wren	8	1027	Oct 6, 2007 by DaisyPops
	An Oldie....but a Goodie..:) (Preview) Husband: When I get mad at you, you never fight back. How do you control your anger? Wife: I clean the toilet...Husband: How does that help?Wife: I use your toothbrush....	Phil	1	489	Oct 5, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Codependency.... (Preview) I like Melodie Beatties take on codependency. It's when we feel "we have to do something". Sometimes I feel under so much pressure, I feel I must take care of everything. I get so caught up in this cycle of putting extra pressure on myself and taking on more responsibility............	wallsal55	1	640	Oct 5, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Stronger for It (Preview) Heartbreak happens to all of us and can wash over us like a heavy rain. When experiencing a broken heart, our ethereal selves are saturated with grief, and the overflow is channeled into the physical body. Loss becomes a physical emptiness, and longing is transmuted into a feeling that often cannot b...	Wren	3	389	Oct 5, 2007 by Simple
	Knowledge (Preview) Learn to let yourself be guided into truth. We will know what we need to know, when we need to know that. We don't have to feel badly about taking our own time to reach our insights. We don't have to force insight or awareness before it's time. Yes! Maybe the whole world saw a particular truth in our life, an...	Quetzal	1	406	Oct 5, 2007 by lani
	Daily Reflections 10/5 (Preview) YESTERDAY'S BAGGAGE For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self-searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 & 12, p. 88 I have more than enough to ha...	Doll	0	344	Oct 5, 2007 by Doll
	moved into my house! :) (Preview) Hey everyone, Well, we'll see if this posts... having problems with my internet, really bad connection... I got moved into my house I'm renting from my dad! It's pretty nice, I didn't get to see it until I moved in today. A few problems, like my cell phone doesn't work inside the house... and my internet...	ChicknLittle	4	347	Oct 5, 2007 by Pam P
	Be Who You Are (Preview) In recovery; we're learning a new behavior. It's called Be Who You Are. For some of us, this can be frightening. What would happen if we felt what we felt, said what we wanted, became firm about our beliefs, and valued what we needed? What would happen if we let go of our camouflage of adaptation? What wou...	Quetzal	6	598	Oct 5, 2007 by Pam P
	Living life (Preview) You know life is good today and everything in it. I always say that there is no such thing as life life on lifes terms, life today (for me) does not dictate the terms by which I live, because of the program of AA I can choose the terms by which I am going to live my life. Now sometimes those choices are not the...	texas mike	1	335	Oct 4, 2007 by Phil
	Codependency---What Is It? (Preview) Codependency is when a person has a strong desire to control people around them, including their spouse, children or co-workers. Codependents believe they are somehow more capable than others, who need their direction or suggestions to fulfill tasks they are responsible to complete. They feel...	Phil	18	6553	Oct 4, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Foggy......fogg.....fog......fo......f (Preview) One night of (really hard) drinking, 4 days ago and I still feel hung over. It's as if I'd never gotten any sober time at all - physically and emotionally....I have many regrets. One of them being (borderline) going to see John. Although, I know it was exactly what I needed, (My HP has a way of doing that f...	Doll	6	431	Oct 4, 2007 by Pam P
	Have a great day!! (Preview) Just a quick hello to all!! Have a great day and may we all be blessed with joy and happiness! And sobriety!!!! As I read everyone's posts I just want to say Thank you all and I love ya!! Today the things I read put a smile on my face...Thats a good thing because it was more of a frown knowing I have to get moving...	lani	5	453	Oct 4, 2007 by Pam P
	Daily Reflections 10/4 (Preview) A NECESSARY PRUNING . . . . we know that the pains of drinking had to come before sobriety, and emotional turmoil before serenity. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 94 I love spending time in my garden feeding and pruning my beautiful flowers. One day, as I was busily snipping away, a neighbor stop...	Doll	1	456	Oct 4, 2007 by Pam P
	Love and Forgiveness towards oneself and others... (Preview) Before being able to really love others, we need at least to accept ourselves as we are. - I have some bad habits and faults, but am I really all that bad? - Many things I do don't lead to perfect results, but at least I try to do my best. - Now simply put a smile on your face, a real smile, not just visualised! - N...	Phil	3	1131	Oct 4, 2007 by Pam P
	The Importance of Money (Preview) We cannot afford to allow our focus in life to be money. That will not lead us into the abundance we're seeking. Usually, it will not even lead to financial stability. Money is important. We deserve to be paid what we're worth. We will be paid what we're worth when we believe we deserve to be. But often you...	Quetzal	3	381	Oct 3, 2007 by Pam P
	Prayer (Preview) Here are some of my favorite prayers: Help. Please. Don't. Show me. Guide me. Change me. Are you there? Why'd you do that? Oh. Thank you. Today, I will tell God what I want to tell God, and listen for God's answer. I will remember that I can trust God. From The Language of Letting Go	Quetzal	2	360	Oct 3, 2007 by Pam P
	Coping with Families (Preview) There are many paths to self-care with families. Some people choose to sever connections with family members for a period of time. Some people choose to stay connected with family members and learn different behaviors. Some disconnect for a time, and then return slowly on a different basis. There i...	Quetzal	1	402	Oct 3, 2007 by Pam P
	Getting Through the Discomfort (Preview) Surrender to the pain. Then learn to surrender to the good. It's there and more is on the way. -- Beyond Codependency Our goal in recovery is to make us feel comfortable, peaceful, and content. Happy. We want to be at peace with our environment and ourselves. Sometimes, to do that, we need to be willing t...	Quetzal	1	414	Oct 3, 2007 by Pam P
	Re-building My Relationship (Preview) Since I came back to AA, my relationship with my wife has improved so much. I can't believe what I was losing and how much I damaged my wife and family. In the beginning my wife kicked me out. I had been drinking and drove the kids home after picking them up from one of their activities. She was absolute...	Snopup	3	485	Oct 3, 2007 by lani
	Daily Reflections 10/3 (Preview) SERENITY AFTER THE STORM Someone who knew what he was talking about once remarked that pain was the touchstone of all spiritual progress. How heartily we A.A.'s can agree with him. . . . TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p p. 93-94 When on the roller coaster of emotional turmoil, I remember that grow...	Doll	0	354	Oct 3, 2007 by Doll
	Checking in and thoughts (Preview) Hi all! And a big WELCOME to all the newcomers. Tim, alcoholic. There have been some great posts on this site lately and it's good to see that interaction with important topics. I just felt like throwing out some thoughts. I am coming up on 14 months in a few days and this is the longest stretch of so...	timverton	3	554	Oct 3, 2007 by Quetzal
	Fear Of Intimacy (Preview) How to Overcome Anxiety & Fear in Relationships © Laurie Pawlik-KienlenIs your relationship hampered by emotional walls & barriers, secrets & long silences? Fear of intimacy is common in adults, especially if you've been scarred in the past. Fear of intimacy is the exact opposite of...	Phil	1	4122	Oct 2, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections 10/2 (Preview) THE ACID TEST As we work the first nine Steps, we prepare ourselves for the adventure of a new life. But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or foul. Then comes the acid test: can we stay sober, keep in emotional balance, and live to...	Doll	0	313	Oct 2, 2007 by Doll
	Pain is necessary, Misery is optional find and share recovery images at anonymousspace.com (Preview) Okay, so I am new here. I thank God for finding this. I have really been hurting lately. I am not sure what is wrong. I spoke about complacency at a meeting I went to on Friday night; I spoke frankly. I have become complacent slowly over time. It has happened so quickly that I didn't realize it was hap...	jennie08062005	10	2026	Oct 1, 2007 by Wren
	Evolving From Within (Preview) The world calls out for improvement and, more often than not, we are ready and willing to offer advice or admonishments. But each of us possesses the power to effect a positive shift in energy in ourselves and in those around us. Just as purification of the soul leads to purification of the world, chang...	Wren	0	380	Oct 1, 2007 by Wren
	Daily Reflections 10/1 (Preview) LEST WE BECOME COMPLACENT It is easy to let up on the spiritual program of action and rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do, for alcohol is a subtle foe. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 When I am in pain it is easy to stay close to the friends I have found in the programs. Relief from that pain is p...	Doll	3	471	Oct 1, 2007 by Doll
	Thank you, carol (Preview) ....had to share.....Your thread on the importance of money...amazing what a little inspiration can do... THIS was truely an inspirtation to me today. It had crossed my mind a few days ago that I should get back on Ebay. I used to sell quite a bit of things on there, and really enjoyed it. I also made a dol...	Doll	6	485	Oct 1, 2007 by Wren
	Daily Reflections 9/30 (Preview) THE CIRCLE AND THE TRIANGLE The circle stands for the whole world of A.A., and the triangle stands for A.A.'s Three Legacies of Recovery, Unity, and Service. Within our wonderful new world, we have found freedom from our fatal obsession. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 139 Early in my A.A. life, I became employe...	Doll	0	596	Sep 30, 2007 by Doll
	Not a Victim (Preview) You are not a victim. How deeply ingrained our self-image as a victim can be! How habitual our feelings of misery and helplessness! Victimization can be like a gray cloak that surrounds us, both attracting that which will victimize us and causing us to generate the feelings of victimization. Victim...	Quetzal	1	825	Sep 30, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	Daily Reflections 9/29 (Preview) EXACTLY ALIKE Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 A man came to the meeting drunk, interrupted the speakers, stood up and took his shirt off, staggered loudly back and forth for coffee, demanded to talk, and eventually call...	Doll	1	370	Sep 29, 2007 by mikey50
	Love Yourself (Preview) "It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others."-- Sydney J. Harris&...	Wren	5	628	Sep 29, 2007 by timverton
	Being Honest (Preview) The other night, while leaving a meeting hall which is located behind a mini mart, one of my wife's friends saw me and ask what I was doing at "that meeting". I replied that I have some personal issues that this group helps me with. She said that it was an AA meeting. I responded that yes, I kn...	Snopup	6	387	Sep 29, 2007 by Zster
	Me...a complete newbie (Preview) Hi, I have seen several posts of people introducing themselves so I felt I should follow in kind. I'm Debra and I'm an alcoholic. (one of the hardest things I ever had to say in my life) I'm 38 and I live in Southern CA. I started drinking when I was 16 But I started having a problem with drinking (or not drink...	Pdinkle	9	651	Sep 28, 2007 by Pdinkle
	Get your printer ready :-) (Preview) 13th centuary monks prayer; Lord, thou knowest better than I know myself that I am growing older and will some day be old. Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion. Release me from the craving to straighten out everybody's affairs. Make me thou...	alligot	2	537	Sep 28, 2007 by Simple
	One year later.... (Preview) One year ago, i had a spiritual awakening and turned my will over to my HP. tonight, i celebrate one year of sobriety. it's a calm day - i wound up with the day off and spent most of it with the two people who love me the most in this world, my folks. i'm kind of glad there was no fanfare - for me, it's not like t...	CAM	6	457	Sep 28, 2007 by Wren
	Daily Reflections 9/28 (Preview) LOVE WITHOUT STRINGS Practical experience shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 Sponsorship held two surprises for me. First, that my sponsees cared about me. What I had thought was gratitude was more li...	Doll	0	391	Sep 28, 2007 by Doll
	What is the "Higher Power" as referred to in AA? (Preview) In 1934, Bill W., cofounder of Alcoholics Anonymous, got a call from a former drinking buddy, Ebby T. "Rumor had it that he'd been committed for alcoholic insanity," Bill recalled. "I wondered how he had escaped." In reality, Ebby was two months sober. This disappointed Bill...	Sick of being sick	8	3076	Sep 27, 2007 by Kirsten
	Fall, Change and Moving Forward (Preview) With the seasonal transition into Fall, change is motivated by the movement of the earth around the sun; there is no getting around this. So as the world changes and the seasons pass, so must our lives in tandum with it. Change is inevitable. Our lives are made up of the building blocks of change. This ca...	Wren	0	385	Sep 27, 2007 by Wren
	Trying to understand......... (Preview) Unmanageability The reasons my life is unmanageable ; My thinking (past and present) eg my beliefs, perceptions that faulty filter My drinking and using My obsession to drink and use Finding ways and means to drink and use The consequences of the above solution......acceptance that all of the abov...	alligot	3	663	Sep 27, 2007 by Doll
	Good day... (Preview) Just on my way out to work and wanted to swing by to wish everyone a great day. Heres something my sponsor used to ask me every time he saw me.... What are you doing to stay sober today? :)	miller2	6	391	Sep 27, 2007 by lani
	Temporary Setbacks (Preview) Sometimes, after we begin recovery, things in our life seem to get worse for a time. Our finances, our relationships, or our health may seem to deteriorate. This is temporary; this is a normal part of recovery and healing. It may be the way things will be for a time, but not for long. Keep working at recov...	Quetzal	1	406	Sep 27, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 9/27 (Preview) WITHOUT RESERVATION When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, . . . . AS BILL SEES IT, p.37 While practicing service to others, if my successes give rise to grandiosity, I must reflect on what brought me to this point. What has been given joyfully, with love, m...	Doll	0	338	Sep 27, 2007 by Doll
	Seek Insights (Preview) "The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival."-- AristotleINSIGHTS happen only when we shift to a higher, more inclusive perspective. As we grow in wisdom and experience, we become less attached to the form of reality...	Wren	2	1488	Sep 26, 2007 by Doll
	Accept or Reject (Preview) Some people refuse to accept things as they are. Thats good! Some people accept things just as they are. Thats good, too! What? How can refusing to accept things and accepting things both be good? It depends on your views of what is good or not good for you to accept. In other words, it is important for you...	Phil	2	489	Sep 26, 2007 by Phil
	excuse or truth or what? (Preview) My mom is an A as some of you may know along with the fact that I'm 20 years old (almost 21 - which is legal age to drink). She has told me before (confirmed by a sober family friend) that she went to AA for a short while when I was little. The thing I'm questioning is whether or not her reason for why she quit goin...	lanchas	8	659	Sep 26, 2007 by Phil
	Excess baggage (Preview) Of all of the emotions in the human repertoire, hate, anger, and resentment are among the most powerful and self-destructive. They are awakened in you by the actions of those you perceive to have hurt you or those you love. You may think that you want and are justified to hate, or harbor rage agai...	timverton	3	846	Sep 26, 2007 by Wren
	Getting Into the Big Book (Preview) Hi, My name is Kirsten and I am an alcoholic. On September 20, 2007 I took my last drink. I had relapsed approx. 3 months prior. I continue to say, "yeah, that's me everytime I read the BB. I really saw myself today in reading "More about Alcoholism", "Then he fell victim to a belief...	Kirsten	4	530	Sep 26, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 9/26 (Preview) OUR CHILDREN The alcoholic may find it hard to re-establish friendly relations with his children. . . . In time they will see that he is a new man and in their own way they will let him know it. . . . From that point on, progress will be rapid. Marvelous results often follow such a reunion. ALCOHOLICS ANONYM...	Doll	0	349	Sep 26, 2007 by Doll
	Went to the doctor today... (Preview) Well, I woke up first thing this morning with an asthma attack... inhaler wasn't quite enough, got it just under control enough to make it to the bathroom and start a hot shower, had to let the steam clear up my lungs... really tempted on asking for a nebulizer after that... cuz both asthma attacks I...	ChicknLittle	7	1583	Sep 26, 2007 by ChicknLittle
	Feeling Protected (Preview) Our task is not a naive one of feeling safe, of living and loving in a utopian world. One woman commented that our task is making ourselves feel safe while learning to live and love in a world that is unsafe. We do not want to dwell on the danger for that gives power to the negative. Neither do we want to ignor...	Quetzal	0	737	Sep 26, 2007 by Quetzal
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