Alcoholics Anonymous

Doll · Doll

A COMMON SOLUTION The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism. ALCOHOLI...

lani · lani

pg 475 "...the major transformation has been spiritual. The hopelessness has been replaced by abundant hope and sincere faith. The people of AA have provided a haven where, if I remain aware and keep my mind quite enough, my HP leads me to amazing realizations. I find joy in my daily life, in bein...

Quetzal · Quetzal

When we don't ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves. We deserve better. Maybe others taught us it wasn't polite or appropriate to speak up for ourselves. The truth is, if we don't, our unmet wants and needs may ultimately come back to haunt our relationships. We may end up feeling angry...

Quetzal · Quetzal

You can think. You can make good decisions. You can make choices that are right for you. Yes, we all make mistakes from time to time. But we are not mistakes. We can make a new decision that takes new information into account. We can change our mind from time to time. That's our right too. We don't...

nique · nique

Selfishness-self centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles. Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate. Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find th...

barisax · barisax

I was at a speaker meeting recently, and the speaker had less than a year sobriety after having previously had decades. Once again, I am grateful to hear that story so I don't have to go find out for myself that, even after a period of sobriety, I'm still an alcoholic through and through. His story was a...

Quetzal · Quetzal

One of our choices in recovery is choosing what we want to think - using our mental energy positively. Positive mental energy, positive thinking, does not mean we think unrealistically or revert to denial. If we don't like something, we respect our own opinion. If we spot a problem, we're honest ab...

jonijoni · jonijoni

All or Nothing? Acceptance and faith are capable of producing 100% sobriety. In fact, they usually do; and they must, else we could have no life at all. But the moment we carry these attitudes into our emotional problems, we find that only relative results are possible. Nobody can, for example, becom...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Well, I am not getting to as many meetings as I had hoped, when I came crawling back about 21 days ago. The first 10 days or so I had bronchitis which turned into pneumonia. But the last week or so I only got to one meeting, and therapy. I am a hermit and I only leave the house right now about every other day....

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Doctors think of the A.A. fellowship as group therapy. This is a very narrow conception of the depth of the A.A. fellowship. Looking at it purely as a means of acquiring and holding sobriety, it is right as far as it goes. But it doesn't go far enough. Group therapy is directed to...

Doll · Doll

A GENUINE HUMILITY . . . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoh...

lani · lani

Just a BIG GIANT welcome back to Danielle!!!!!!! Hope you had a great trip and had lots of time to spend working on you!!!! I'll bet you feel totally fulfilled and may the experiences and discoveries last for a long time!!! Sure did miss you!!!!! (wanted to surpize you with a post!!!!!) Lani -- Edited by...

visch1 · visch1

Lately my isyms have been poking at me a bit harder which probably means I need more meetings. BUT I think my ego is telling me that with all the sober years behind me that its just an aging factor phase. For my first twenty or so years I averaged around 5-6 meetings a week and was quite active. In the last...

girlscout · girlscout

Hi. Actually my username is a joke. I'm no girlscout. I've tried to quit, but I often need a few to get the edge off. I've given myself all the reasons to drink: I'm second wife, and his grown kids were hostile to his divorce. I live far, far away from all my family and friends. The only friend I really have o...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Our drinking fellowship was a substitute one, for lack of something better. At the time, we did not realize what real fellowship could be. Drinking fellowship has a fatal fault. It is not based on a firm foundation. Most of it is on the surface. It is based mostly on the desire to...

nique · nique

Some really good threads go un-noticed because they dont always go back to the top of the list like they should. I scroll the whole board and look at the dates and times of the last post so I dont miss any. A suggestion in case you dont already do this. I didnt when I first came here but then I started search...

nique · nique

Feeling great today as it is day 1 truly clean and sober. It started earlier than I had planned. I had a little pot to smoke last night before I went to bed, well my brother knocked on my door. He got out of prison last night and is on his way to a 2 year program on Tuesday. Well he needed a safe clean sober en...

Diana · Diana

Hi, everyone. My name is Diana, and I am an alcoholic. I am trying this board, looking for some ES&H for times between meetings. My sobriety date (after a relapse) is 11/24/07. Glad I made it back to the rooms, not everyone does. That's all I got for now. Any tips for navigating this place would be ap...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Can We Choose? We must never be blinded by the futile philosophy that we are just the hapless victims of our inheritance, of our life experiences, and of our surroundings - that these are the sole forces that make our decisions for us. This is not the road to freedom. We have to believe that we can really c...

Doll · Doll

CARRYING THE MESSAGE Now, what about the rest of the Twelfth Step? The wonderful energy it releases and the eager action by which it carries our message to the next suffering alcoholic and which finally translates the Twelve Steps into action upon all our affairs is the payoff, the magnificent reali...

Quetzal · Quetzal

It's okay to ask for help. One of the most absurd things we do to ourselves is not asking for the help we need from a friend, a family member, our Higher Power, or the appropriate resource. We don't have to struggle through feelings and problems alone. We can ask for help from our Higher Power and for s...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Be gentle with folks around the holidays. Most people are unduly stressed out with a whole lot more added to their plates than usual around this time. I can only speak for myself as a woman, but I am sure that men feel more pressure in December as well. But, that said, many women take on extra things like ba...

learning · learning

May be offline for a few days. Seems the area is being blessed with a repeat of last year's ice storm. Power went off 3 times last night. Not much ice then. This am. the car is now covered. Forecast says it will be next few days of the same. So may be heading across the road. My parents have a g...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

Sorry y'all, I've gotten way behind on reading posts here, between driving myself crazy last week lookin for a place to live, and this weekend tryin to keep myself busy and not worry about where I'm gonna live lol But I went to a good meeting last night, topic was fear... an oldtimer I know there pulled...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

I took Carole's advice and went to change my settings and noticed that the "see signatures" was turned off. So I turned it on. Then I went back to the board and saw that I had a Larry the Cable Guy picture as my signature. Well I didn't know it because I couldn't see anyones signatures not eve...

Doll · Doll

LOVE WITH NO PRICE TAG When the Twelfth Step is seen in its full implication, it is really talking about the kind of love that has no price tag on it. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 106 In order for me to start working the Twelfth Step, I had to work on sincerity, honesty, and to learn to act with humi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Hello my lovely fellow sober~vibers! I hope you all have a nourishing weekend no matter where you are in your trials. I'm going away for a couple of nights to do some AA work on myself & I'm looking forward to answers that may be found that we're always looking for! Hopefully I'll have lots to give whe...

Quetzal · Quetzal

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The way of A.A. is the way of fellowship. We have read a good deal about fellowship and yet it is such an important part of the A.A. program that it seems we cannot think too much about it. Human beings were not meant to live alone. A hermit's life is not a normal or natural...

nique · nique

I have been sober for 4 months from alcohol. But....... there is a minor drug I did not give up. Well it is conflicting with my program so it has to go bye-bye. It saddens me as I really like it but I will be a better person because of it. I have extra motivation from my Mom. She bought me a beautiful cross...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

I called the apartments my sponsor lives in... they told me they don't have rental assistance now and they don't allow pets anymore. I've spent the morning calling the housing authorities in different areas, trying to find low-income housing that allows pets, or allows a 40lb dog... no luck. Ei...

Tina · Tina

Just want to drop and say hi, Things are ok, not good, not bad. But gettin through it, one day at a time. Kids are well and well lets put it this way, my son spent time with his father and has made a decision to move in with his father. I'm not against it, hope all goes well with that, spoke to their father a few t...

jonijoni · jonijoni

It was delicious. HP must have had something to do with that! Joni

nique · nique

I belong to 3 AA message boards and you all are my online homegroup!! You are the most friendly and real out of all of them. Thank you all for being so Honest Openminded and Willing. This group is a shinning star of spiritual principles. Love you all in the Fellowship of the Spirit, Allison

Quetzal · Quetzal

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The length of time of our sobriety is not as important as its quality. A person who has been in A.A. for a number of years may not be in as good mental condition as a person who has only been in a few months. It is a great satisfaction to have been an A.A. member for a long time...

KLT · KLT

I grew up with a very loving father and a mother who really didnt want us. One thing she was a stickler for though was the we spoke properly, only queens english would do. When I first entered the rooms of AA, I was surprised how few alcoholics there were in there. At the meetings I went to they all seemed t...

lani · lani

Back in the days of the Great Depression a Missouri man named John Griffith was the controller of a great railroad drawbridge across the Mississippi River. One day in the summer of 1937 he decided to take his eight-year-old son, Greg, with him to work. At noon, John Griffith put the bridge up to allow sh...

lani · lani

Just trying out some functions here...Color is nice...Trying to figure out how to add some fun stuff...No clue!!! So all's you get is color.....

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Go Me!!! lol I'm actually really chuffed to have managed this & 1year's sobriety in 2007. Two Big achievements for me. I'm made up lol I stopped smoking on Saturday 1st December too & going strong. I'm so proud of my efforts this year & how me & my life have changed. Thanks for being here...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

In the morning I'm calling the apartment complex my sponsor lives in... gov't housing, income-based... and hopefully will be going up there to see about getting into them... really been praying about this, because I don't see any other options right now. My sponsor knows of 2 apartments next to her t...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Yikes. Hubby brought home a couple of bushels of golden delicious apples from WA state. (Long story). I thought, "well, whatever I cannot pawn off to friends and family who bake, I will bake some pies and apple crisps." Well, I have not baked a pie since childhood. Not unless you simply remo...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ When people come back to A.A. after having a slip, the temptation is strong to say nothing about it. No other A.A. member should force them to declare themselves. It is entirely up to them. If they are well-grounded in A.A., they will realize that it's up to them to speak up at the...

nmike · nmike

I had posted here that I went to AA meetings in my small town rather than drive the 30 miles in a snowstorm. So I felt like I was welcome but I felt that I needed to stay focused on my own issues and not the A's. I started a separate Alanon meeting a month ago. Too cool. I have had a couple of Alanoners show up. We A...

Quetzal · Quetzal

There are times when we simply do not know what to do, or where to go, next. Sometimes these periods are brief, sometimes lingering. We can get through these times. We can rely on our program and the disciplines of recovery. We can cope by using our faith, other people, and our resources. Accept unc...

Doll · Doll

TRUE AMBITION True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Many of us were victimized, sometimes more than once. We may have been physically abused, sexually abused, or exploited by the addictions of another. Understand that if another person has abused us, it is not cause for us to feel shame. The guilt for the act of abuse belongs to the perpetrator, not t...

Doll · Doll

Some History of AA Chips The traditions of chips, medallions and birthdays vary in different parts of the country and I thought it would be interesting to present some of their history. There is evidence that early on many people in AA carried personal momentos to remind themselves of the importanc...

Zarathustra · Zarathustra

Okay well i wrote this on a drunken planeride-- it was my own ending to edward arlington robinsons 'valley of the shadow'... I was just going over some things and found it as much as i like the poem, i really think it shows my alcoholic attitude pretty well. It is something i hope that i have either gotten p...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Few things can make us feel crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give. Few things can frustrate us more than trying to make a person someone he or she isn't; we feel crazy when we try to pretend that person is someone he or she is not. We may have spent years negotiating with rea...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People who have had a slip are ashamed of themselves-sometimes so ashamed that they fear to go back to A.A. They develop the old inferiority complex and tell themselves that they are no good, that they have let down their friends in A.A., that they are hopeless, and that they ca...

lani · lani

Heard this in a meeting tonight....Hope I do it justice.... Staying sober is like riding a bike. As long as you keep pedaling slowly along you can have some sort of balance. (Keep it simple) Perhaps you can even coast along but that only works going down hill! When times get tough, you need to pedal a litt...

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	Daily Reflections 12/12 (Preview) A COMMON SOLUTION The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism. ALCOHOLI...	Doll	0	271	Dec 12, 2007 by Doll
	big book share (Preview) pg 475 "...the major transformation has been spiritual. The hopelessness has been replaced by abundant hope and sincere faith. The people of AA have provided a haven where, if I remain aware and keep my mind quite enough, my HP leads me to amazing realizations. I find joy in my daily life, in bein...	lani	0	292	Dec 11, 2007 by lani
	Valuing Our Needs (Preview) When we don't ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves. We deserve better. Maybe others taught us it wasn't polite or appropriate to speak up for ourselves. The truth is, if we don't, our unmet wants and needs may ultimately come back to haunt our relationships. We may end up feeling angry...	Quetzal	2	310	Dec 11, 2007 by mae
	Empowerment (Preview) You can think. You can make good decisions. You can make choices that are right for you. Yes, we all make mistakes from time to time. But we are not mistakes. We can make a new decision that takes new information into account. We can change our mind from time to time. That's our right too. We don't...	Quetzal	2	404	Dec 11, 2007 by mae
	Whre I'm At (Preview) Selfishness-self centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles. Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate. Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find th...	nique	5	535	Dec 11, 2007 by mae
	Never Forget Where I Came From (Preview) I was at a speaker meeting recently, and the speaker had less than a year sobriety after having previously had decades. Once again, I am grateful to hear that story so I don't have to go find out for myself that, even after a period of sobriety, I'm still an alcoholic through and through. His story was a...	barisax	12	471	Dec 11, 2007 by mae
	Affirmations (Preview) One of our choices in recovery is choosing what we want to think - using our mental energy positively. Positive mental energy, positive thinking, does not mean we think unrealistically or revert to denial. If we don't like something, we respect our own opinion. If we spot a problem, we're honest ab...	Quetzal	2	1350	Dec 11, 2007 by Phil
	~As Bill Sees It~ (Preview) *All or Nothing?* Acceptance and faith are capable of producing 100% sobriety. In fact, they usually do; and they must, else we could have no life at all. But the moment we carry these attitudes into our emotional problems, we find that only relative results are possible. Nobody can, for example, becom...	jonijoni	0	291	Dec 11, 2007 by jonijoni
	bump on a log (Preview) Well, I am not getting to as many meetings as I had hoped, when I came crawling back about 21 days ago. The first 10 days or so I had bronchitis which turned into pneumonia. But the last week or so I only got to one meeting, and therapy. I am a hermit and I only leave the house right now about every other day....	jonijoni	7	514	Dec 11, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 11th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Doctors think of the A.A. fellowship as group therapy. This is a very narrow conception of the depth of the A.A. fellowship. Looking at it purely as a means of acquiring and holding sobriety, it is right as far as it goes. But it doesn't go far enough. Group therapy is directed to...	Sobrietyspell	0	295	Dec 11, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 12/11 (Preview) A GENUINE HUMILITY . . . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoh...	Doll	0	298	Dec 11, 2007 by Doll
	WELCOME BACK DANIELLE (Preview) Just a BIG GIANT welcome back to Danielle!!!!!!! Hope you had a great trip and had lots of time to spend working on you!!!! I'll bet you feel totally fulfilled and may the experiences and discoveries last for a long time!!! Sure did miss you!!!!! (wanted to surpize you with a post!!!!!) Lani -- Edited by...	lani	6	461	Dec 10, 2007 by lani
	I know I’m not unique, BUT (Preview) Lately my isyms have been poking at me a bit harder which probably means I need more meetings. BUT I think my ego is telling me that with all the sober years behind me that its just an aging factor phase. For my first twenty or so years I averaged around 5-6 meetings a week and was quite active. In the last...	visch1	18	492	Dec 10, 2007 by StPeteDean
	on the cross (Preview) Hi. Actually my username is a joke. I'm no girlscout. I've tried to quit, but I often need a few to get the edge off. I've given myself all the reasons to drink: I'm second wife, and his grown kids were hostile to his divorce. I live far, far away from all my family and friends. The only friend I really have o...	girlscout	12	503	Dec 10, 2007 by girlscout
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 10th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Our drinking fellowship was a substitute one, for lack of something better. At the time, we did not realize what real fellowship could be. Drinking fellowship has a fatal fault. It is not based on a firm foundation. Most of it is on the surface. It is based mostly on the desire to...	Sobrietyspell	1	313	Dec 10, 2007 by jonijoni
	Scrollin, scrollin, scrollin!!! (Preview) Some really good threads go un-noticed because they dont always go back to the top of the list like they should. I scroll the whole board and look at the dates and times of the last post so I dont miss any. A suggestion in case you dont already do this. I didnt when I first came here but then I started search...	nique	4	422	Dec 10, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Day One! (Preview) Feeling great today as it is day 1 truly clean and sober. It started earlier than I had planned. I had a little pot to smoke last night before I went to bed, well my brother knocked on my door. He got out of prison last night and is on his way to a 2 year program on Tuesday. Well he needed a safe clean sober en...	nique	5	350	Dec 10, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	New to this board (Preview) Hi, everyone. My name is Diana, and I am an alcoholic. I am trying this board, looking for some ES&H for times between meetings. My sobriety date (after a relapse) is 11/24/07. Glad I made it back to the rooms, not everyone does. That's all I got for now. Any tips for navigating this place would be ap...	Diana	8	496	Dec 10, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	~As Bill Sees It~ (Preview) Can We Choose? We must never be blinded by the futile philosophy that we are just the hapless victims of our inheritance, of our life experiences, and of our surroundings - that these are the sole forces that make our decisions for us. This is not the road to freedom. We have to believe that we can really c...	jonijoni	0	256	Dec 10, 2007 by jonijoni
	Daily Reflections 12/10 (Preview) CARRYING THE MESSAGE Now, what about the rest of the Twelfth Step? The wonderful energy it releases and the eager action by which it carries our message to the next suffering alcoholic and which finally translates the Twelve Steps into action upon all our affairs is the payoff, the magnificent reali...	Doll	0	288	Dec 10, 2007 by Doll
	Asking for Help (Preview) It's okay to ask for help. One of the most absurd things we do to ourselves is not asking for the help we need from a friend, a family member, our Higher Power, or the appropriate resource. We don't have to struggle through feelings and problems alone. We can ask for help from our Higher Power and for s...	Quetzal	3	2463	Dec 9, 2007 by jonijoni
	Don't Forget! Be GENTLE....... (Preview) Be gentle with folks around the holidays. Most people are unduly stressed out with a whole lot more added to their plates than usual around this time. I can only speak for myself as a woman, but I am sure that men feel more pressure in December as well. But, that said, many women take on extra things like ba...	jonijoni	5	400	Dec 9, 2007 by lani
	May be offline (Preview) May be offline for a few days. Seems the area is being blessed with a repeat of last year's ice storm. Power went off 3 times last night. Not much ice then. This am. the car is now covered. Forecast says it will be next few days of the same. So may be heading across the road. My parents have a g...	learning	5	404	Dec 9, 2007 by jonijoni
	Facing fears (Preview) Sorry y'all, I've gotten way behind on reading posts here, between driving myself crazy last week lookin for a place to live, and this weekend tryin to keep myself busy and not worry about where I'm gonna live lol But I went to a good meeting last night, topic was fear... an oldtimer I know there pulled...	ChicknLittle	6	458	Dec 9, 2007 by jonijoni
	I had to laugh (Preview) I took Carole's advice and went to change my settings and noticed that the "see signatures" was turned off. So I turned it on. Then I went back to the board and saw that I had a Larry the Cable Guy picture as my signature. Well I didn't know it because I couldn't see anyones signatures not eve...	StPeteDean	6	1064	Dec 9, 2007 by jonijoni
	Daily Reflections 12/9 (Preview) LOVE WITH NO PRICE TAG When the Twelfth Step is seen in its full implication, it is really talking about the kind of love that has no price tag on it. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 106 In order for me to start working the Twelfth Step, I had to work on sincerity, honesty, and to learn to act with humi...	Doll	0	272	Dec 9, 2007 by Doll
	12Step Retreat (Preview) Hello my lovely fellow sober~vibers! I hope you all have a nourishing weekend no matter where you are in your trials. I'm going away for a couple of nights to do some AA work on myself & I'm looking forward to answers that may be found that we're always looking for! Hopefully I'll have lots to give whe...	Sobrietyspell	4	744	Dec 9, 2007 by StPeteDean
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 9th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The way of A.A. is the way of fellowship. We have read a good deal about fellowship and yet it is such an important part of the A.A. program that it seems we cannot think too much about it. Human beings were not meant to live alone. A hermit's life is not a normal or natural...	Quetzal	0	252	Dec 9, 2007 by Quetzal
	My Bright Idea (please don't judge me) (Preview) I have been sober for 4 months from alcohol. But....... there is a minor drug I did not give up. Well it is conflicting with my program so it has to go bye-bye. It saddens me as I really like it but I will be a better person because of it. I have extra motivation from my Mom. She bought me a beautiful cross...	nique	8	422	Dec 8, 2007 by lani
	not looking good... (Preview) I called the apartments my sponsor lives in... they told me they don't have rental assistance now and they don't allow pets anymore. I've spent the morning calling the housing authorities in different areas, trying to find low-income housing that allows pets, or allows a 40lb dog... no luck. Ei...	ChicknLittle	5	417	Dec 8, 2007 by ChicknLittle
	I'mmmm Back, lol (Preview) Just want to drop and say hi, Things are ok, not good, not bad. But gettin through it, one day at a time. Kids are well and well lets put it this way, my son spent time with his father and has made a decision to move in with his father. I'm not against it, hope all goes well with that, spoke to their father a few t...	Tina	1	314	Dec 8, 2007 by jonijoni
	Update on the pie (Preview) It was delicious. HP must have had something to do with that! Joni	jonijoni	5	319	Dec 8, 2007 by jonijoni
	Love You Guys! (Preview) I belong to 3 AA message boards and you all are my online homegroup!! You are the most friendly and real out of all of them. Thank you all for being so Honest Openminded and Willing. This group is a shinning star of spiritual principles. Love you all in the Fellowship of the Spirit, Allison	nique	7	410	Dec 8, 2007 by Phil
	24Hrs a Day ~ 8th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The length of time of our sobriety is not as important as its quality. A person who has been in A.A. for a number of years may not be in as good mental condition as a person who has only been in a few months. It is a great satisfaction to have been an A.A. member for a long time...	Quetzal	0	256	Dec 8, 2007 by Quetzal
	How our upbringing can effect us (Preview) I grew up with a very loving father and a mother who really didnt want us. One thing she was a stickler for though was the we spoke properly, only queens english would do. When I first entered the rooms of AA, I was surprised how few alcoholics there were in there. At the meetings I went to they all seemed t...	KLT	5	424	Dec 7, 2007 by learning
	sacrifice (Preview) Back in the days of the Great Depression a Missouri man named John Griffith was the controller of a great railroad drawbridge across the Mississippi River. One day in the summer of 1937 he decided to take his eight-year-old son, Greg, with him to work. At noon, John Griffith put the bridge up to allow sh...	lani	4	358	Dec 7, 2007 by jonijoni
	Bored (Preview) Just trying out some functions here...Color is nice...Trying to figure out how to add some fun stuff...No clue!!! So all's you get is color.....	lani	6	423	Dec 7, 2007 by nique
	MIP Old~Timer!!! (Preview) Go Me!!! lol I'm actually really chuffed to have managed this & 1year's sobriety in 2007. Two Big achievements for me. I'm made up lol I stopped smoking on Saturday 1st December too & going strong. I'm so proud of my efforts this year & how me & my life have changed. Thanks for being here...	Sobrietyspell	9	648	Dec 7, 2007 by Bryan39
	Hey y'all (Preview) In the morning I'm calling the apartment complex my sponsor lives in... gov't housing, income-based... and hopefully will be going up there to see about getting into them... really been praying about this, because I don't see any other options right now. My sponsor knows of 2 apartments next to her t...	ChicknLittle	4	344	Dec 7, 2007 by jonijoni
	who... ME? follow DIRECTIONS??????? (Preview) Yikes. Hubby brought home a couple of bushels of golden delicious apples from WA state. (Long story). I thought, "well, whatever I cannot pawn off to friends and family who bake, I will bake some pies and apple crisps." Well, I have not baked a pie since childhood. Not unless you simply remo...	jonijoni	3	349	Dec 7, 2007 by jonijoni
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 7th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ When people come back to A.A. after having a slip, the temptation is strong to say nothing about it. No other A.A. member should force them to declare themselves. It is entirely up to them. If they are well-grounded in A.A., they will realize that it's up to them to speak up at the...	Sobrietyspell	0	470	Dec 7, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Our new Alanon group (Preview) I had posted here that I went to AA meetings in my small town rather than drive the 30 miles in a snowstorm. So I felt like I was welcome but I felt that I needed to stay focused on my own issues and not the A's. I started a separate Alanon meeting a month ago. Too cool. I have had a couple of Alanoners show up. We A...	nmike	2	368	Dec 7, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	When the Time is Right (Preview) There are times when we simply do not know what to do, or where to go, next. Sometimes these periods are brief, sometimes lingering. We can get through these times. We can rely on our program and the disciplines of recovery. We can cope by using our faith, other people, and our resources. Accept unc...	Quetzal	2	471	Dec 7, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 12/7 (Preview) TRUE AMBITION True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in...	Doll	0	281	Dec 7, 2007 by Doll
	Letting Go of Shame (Preview) Many of us were victimized, sometimes more than once. We may have been physically abused, sexually abused, or exploited by the addictions of another. Understand that if another person has abused us, it is not cause for us to feel shame. The guilt for the act of abuse belongs to the perpetrator, not t...	Quetzal	1	341	Dec 6, 2007 by nmike
	Some History of AA Chips (Preview) Some History of AA Chips The traditions of chips, medallions and birthdays vary in different parts of the country and I thought it would be interesting to present some of their history. There is evidence that early on many people in AA carried personal momentos to remind themselves of the importanc...	Doll	2	8589	Dec 6, 2007 by Phil
	Alcoholic Poetry...? (Preview) Okay well i wrote this on a drunken planeride-- it was my own ending to edward arlington robinsons 'valley of the shadow'... I was just going over some things and found it as much as i like the poem, i really think it shows my alcoholic attitude pretty well. It is something i hope that i have either gotten p...	Zarathustra	7	2172	Dec 6, 2007 by lani
	Difficult People (Preview) Few things can make us feel crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give. Few things can frustrate us more than trying to make a person someone he or she isn't; we feel crazy when we try to pretend that person is someone he or she is not. We may have spent years negotiating with rea...	Quetzal	4	383	Dec 6, 2007 by jonijoni
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 6th Dec 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People who have had a slip are ashamed of themselves-sometimes so ashamed that they fear to go back to A.A. They develop the old inferiority complex and tell themselves that they are no good, that they have let down their friends in A.A., that they are hopeless, and that they ca...	Sobrietyspell	1	319	Dec 6, 2007 by lani
	Bicycles (Preview) Heard this in a meeting tonight....Hope I do it justice.... Staying sober is like riding a bike. As long as you keep pedaling slowly along you can have some sort of balance. (Keep it simple) Perhaps you can even coast along but that only works going down hill! When times get tough, you need to pedal a litt...	lani	2	314	Dec 6, 2007 by Quetzal
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