Alcoholics Anonymous

Codependent2 · Codependent2

A little over 3 weeks with no alcohol and for someone who didn't drink on a daily basis I have hardly thought about it- til this weekend. I had a pattern. I would drink for about 3 weeks then blow it out one Sat night. I kept it like clockwork- not on purpose- just seemed to be when the memory of my last bing...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the DayJanuary 25, 2009Fellowship To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends -- this is an experience you must not to miss. We know you will not want to miss it. Reprinted from Alcoholics Ano...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 25 We Cannot Stand Still In the first days of A.A., I wasn't much bothered about the areas of life in which I was standing still. There was always the alibi: "After all," I said to myself, "I'm far too busy with much more important matters." That was my near perfe...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. -- Step One of Al-Anon There are many different versions of the First Step for recovering codependents. Some of us admit powerlessness over alcohol or another's alcoholism. Some of us admit powerlessness over p...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

There is action and more action. Faith without works is dead. . . . To be helpful is our only aim. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , pp. 88-89 I understand that service is a vital part of recovery but I often wonder, What can I do? Simply start with what I have today! I look around to see where there is a need. Are the ash...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day Alcoholics who are living in a blind alley refuse to be really honest with themselves or with other people. They're running away from life and won't face things as they are. They won't give up their resentments. They're too sensitive and too easily hurt. They refuse to try to be...

tlcate · tlcate

Hello Everyone, I learned that a friend and her husband recently died, killed by a drunk driver. My heart is broken - and there is no anger towards the drunk driver - only absolute sorrow. That could have been me in the past - so many times. I thank my HP for saving others and myself from the horrible aff...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the DayJanuary 24, 2009Miracle I was spiritually bankrupt long before AA entered my life and long before alcoholism took over like a parasite under my skin. I had nothing, no faith at all to cling to. I had no faith in man, because along with my drinking I had lost faith in myself. I trusted...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 24 Alike When The Chips Are Down In the beginning, it was four whole years before A.A. brought permanent sobriety to even one alcoholic woman. Like the "high bottoms," the women said they were different; A.A. couldn't be for them. But as the communication was perfected...

Quetzal · Quetzal

One of the greatest gifts we can give is an open, loving heart. And holding on to negative feelings from past relationships is our greatest barrier to that gift. Most of us have had relationships that have ended. When we examine these relationships, we need to clear the emotional slate. Are we holdi...

texaa · texaa

Yes, I drank yesterday. Heard that line from the Tom Petty song "Learning to Fly", which has another line..."learning to fly, but I ain't got wings....coming down is the hardest thing"....I heard it yesterday, and it seemed pertinent to me, since i had been up in sobriety, and...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . we arent a glum lot. If newcomers could see no joy or fun in our existence, they wouldnt want it. We absolutely insist on enjoying life. We try not to indulge in cynicism over the state of the nations, nor do we carry the worlds troubles on our shoulders. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , p. 132 When my own house i...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day Alcoholics are people whose drinking got them into a "blind alley." They haven't been able to learn anything from their drinking experiences. They are always making the same mistakes and suffering the same consequences over and over again. They refuse to admit t...

Dakota · Dakota

I am just wondering if many alcoholics are understanding or even given incentive to stay sober due to regular healthcare and physicals being guided by good bloodwork and other subjective results(blood pressure, weight, other) ? Also mental health experts that can give excellent guidance, and ca...

Jane05 · Jane05

As children bring their broken toys, with tears for us to mend, I brought my broken dreams to God because He was my friend. But then, instead of leaving Him in peace to work alone, I hung around and tried to help, with ways that were my own. At last I snatched them back and cried, "How can You be so...

Emilee Rose · Emilee Rose

Hi. Im doing this again. I need to get to meetings in person, but I think that online is a start. I have not been to a meeting in over 7 years and I havent had an "alcohol-free" day in over 7 years. Seems so hard right now, but I do remember, one day at a time and if necessary, 1 minute at a time, wh...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

My alanon aunt, who took over the "motherhood" role after my mom dies when I was little, has been having problems this past weekend, and she is now scheduled for an aortic heart valve replacement next week. Please keep her in your prayers, as I love her soooooo much and am not ready to give her...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 22 Fear as a Steppingstone The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear--primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual dist...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 22 Worshipers All We found that we had indeed been worshipers. What a state of mental goose flesh that used to bring on! Had we not variously worshiped people, sentiment, things, money, and ourselves? And then, with a better motive, had we not worshipfully beheld the sunset, the se...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I have a friend who is always planning to start a writing project "as soon as she gets organized." She has read nearly every book, attended every seminar, and bought all the tapes on the subject. She has closets full of organizers, drawers stuffed with folders, and several related compute...

loren · loren

I was sober for ten years but, I decided to drink again. I hate it!!! Now, I can't find a way to stop. It's not fun at all. Help.

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A few hours later I took my leave of Dr. Bob. . . The wonderful, old, broad smile was on his face as he said almost jokingly, Remember, Bill, lets not louse this thing up. Lets keep it simple! I turned away, unable to say a word. That was the last time I ever saw him. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p 214 Aft...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day In the beginning, you want to get sober, but you're helpless, so you turn to a Power greater than yourself and by trusting in that Power, you get the strength to stop drinking. From then on, you want to keep sober, and that's a matter of reeducating your mind. After a while, you get...

Jane05 · Jane05

The Meaning of Unmanageability When we deny our powerlessness over alcohol our lives become unmanageable. In Step One, we come to terms with that unmanageability. Our lives may be unmanageable in a few areas or in many areas. They may be slightly unmanageable in some areas and totally unmanagea...

Doll · Doll

I know it's silly, but I'm still soooooo friggin' pissed off! I sell on eBay, a LOT. It has helped me through this tough economy, I mean I don't make tons of money, but with my hours at work being cut and with doctor / hospital bills continueing, it does help with gas and a few groceries. I happened to make a s...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day January 22, 2009 "Easy Does It" We must learn to walk before we can run. That's why we have these slogans. I use that "Easy Does It" every day to slow me down a little. I have to watch myself all the time. So I don't just take the inventory at night -- I take it conti...

Quetzal · Quetzal

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth. Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed i...

johnn101259 · johnn101259

I used to imbibe everyday and now I go to a meeting most everyday - and sometimes I go to a meeting more than once a day if I feel like it...of course now that I am retired this is possible...and I thank God for this ability. As a friend used to say: yes John, there is a direct correlation between th...

Delia08 · Delia08

Hello! I need help/advice. I am approaching my six months and so happy and grateful for my life and my sobriety. I went to a treatment center for three months and since leaving there I have been doing everything I am told to do by peers in meetings, the Big book, sponsor, the treatment facility..etc. ...

new member · denny-con

I am knew to this page and i dont understand how this all works.

Jane05 · Jane05

Daily A.A. Quotes and Other Writings AA 'Big Book' - Quote But there was always the curious mental phenomenon that parallel with our sound reasoning there inevitably ran some insanely trivial excuse for taking the first drink. Our sound reasoning failed to hold us in check. The insane idea won out....

Dakota · Dakota

to know why we drink/ drank a lot?

Quetzal · Quetzal

Part of taking responsibility for us means taking responsibility for what we want and need, and knowing that's okay to do. Learning to tune in to us, learning to listen to ourselves, is an art. It takes practice. We can use our ability to guess what others want and need and apply that skill to ourselve...

Jane05 · Jane05

Day Twenty-one: Meetings will not keep you sober but they sure as heck will mess up your drinking. People with a belly full of booze and head full of program find it a miserable way to live. I may have one more drunk left inside, but not another sobering up-I don't take any chances. Excerpt from the Poc...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 21 Citizens Again "Each of us in turn--that is, the member who gets the most out of the program--spends a very large amount of time on Twelfth Step work in the early years. That was my case, and perhaps I should not have stayed sober with less work. "However, sooner or later...

torn25 · torn25

Hi I've been to about 3 meetings, my husband is an alcoholic, i have 2 very young children i am only 25, we've only been married for 2 years. I think the signs were there before we got married but i didn't take heed to them. He convinced me that alcoholics drink everyday and now that's exactly what he does....

lani · lani

Yohoo Phil.... You are truly missed around here!!!! Hope all is well!

youllneverknow · youllneverknow

Has anyone else had bladder control problems when drinking? Whenever I drink a lot and go to sleep, I do not wake up when I have to go to the bathroom..this has been happening a lot lately. Am I the only one?

Doll · Doll

In my f2f yesterday people were sharing how they drank so they wouldn't feel anything, to become numb. After listening to several of these, I came to realize I (for the most part) was the opposite...... I grew up in a military family. Everything was "buck up, walk it off!" and my older siste...

kaffehound · kaffehound

Hello, everyone! I am new here but wanted to relate something. A group of women from different groups meet in my home every Monday night for a Big Book Study. It's awesome! There are only six of us even though we've invited others. On each member's AA birthday we all go out for dinner. Getting 6 alk...

pinkchip · pinkchip

This week, like 5 people relapsed and 1 of them being my closest friend in AA thus far. Most of the people have around the same time as I do (or they did). I am wondering if it is common for people to slip up at the 3 to 5 month mark. I felt like I was really fighting the fight with these people and it is pissing...

Jane05 · Jane05

This is long, but in my opinion, well worth the read!! Have a good day! The Awakening A time comes in your life when you finally get it ... when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out ENOUGH!!! Enough fighting and crying o...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Resentments are the blocks that hold us back from loving others and ourselves. Resentments do not punish the other person; they punish us. They become barriers to feeling good and enjoying life. They prevent us from being in harmony with the world. Resentments are hardened chunks of anger. They loo...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Pg. 20 Light From A Prayer "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We treasure our "Serenity Prayer" because it brings a new light to u...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Faith has to work twenty-four hours a day in and through us, or we perish. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.16 The essence of my spiritually, and my sobriety, rests on a round-the-clock faith in a Higher Power. I need to remember and rely on the God of my understanding as I pursue all of my daily activities. How c...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day On the foundation of sobriety, we can build a life of honesty, unselfishness, faith in God, and love of our fellow human beings. We'll never fully reach these goals, but the adventure of building that kind of a life is so much better than the merry-go-round of our old drinking l...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

By going back in our drinking histories, we could show that years before we realized it we were out of control, that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that was indeed the beginning of a fatal progression. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 23 When I was still drinking, I couldnt respond to an...

Jane05 · Jane05

What are your thoughts? For the last 2 weeks, everytime I've spoken or seen a sponsee, she appears to be under the influence (of something). What I'd like to know is, if you were her sponsor how would you handle this and if you were the sponsee how would you like your sponsor to approach you?

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the DayJanuary 19, 2009Adventure Following this spiritual path made a major difference in my life. It seemed to fill that lonely hole that I used to fill with alcohol. My self-esteem improved dramatically, and I knew happiness and serenity as I had never known before. I started to see t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

There is one feeling we need to pay particular attention to in recovery: feeling victimized. We do not need to become comfortable with that feeling. How do we feel when we've been victimized? Helpless. Rageful. Powerless. Frustrated. Feeling victimized is dangerous. Often, it can prompt us i...

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	Clubs, etc (Preview) A little over 3 weeks with no alcohol and for someone who didn't drink on a daily basis I have hardly thought about it- til this weekend. I had a pattern. I would drink for about 3 weeks then blow it out one Sat night. I kept it like clockwork- not on purpose- just seemed to be when the memory of my last bing...	Codependent2	4	441	Jan 25, 2009 by pinkchip
	A.A. Thought for the Day (Preview) AA Thought for the DayJanuary 25, 2009Fellowship To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends -- this is an experience you must not to miss. We know you will not want to miss it. Reprinted from Alcoholics Ano...	Jane05	0	316	Jan 25, 2009 by Jane05
	We Cannot Stand Still (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 25 We Cannot Stand Still In the first days of A.A., I wasn't much bothered about the areas of life in which I was standing still. There was always the alibi: "After all," I said to myself, "I'm far too busy with much more important matters." That was my near perfe...	Jane05	0	591	Jan 25, 2009 by Jane05
	Step One (Preview) We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. -- Step One of Al-Anon There are many different versions of the First Step for recovering codependents. Some of us admit powerlessness over alcohol or another's alcoholism. Some of us admit powerlessness over p...	Quetzal	0	358	Jan 25, 2009 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections ~ Getting Involved (Preview) There is action and more action. Faith without works is dead. . . . To be helpful is our only aim. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , pp. 88-89 I understand that service is a vital part of recovery but I often wonder, What can I do? Simply start with what I have today! I look around to see where there is a need. Are the ash...	Sobrietyspell	0	431	Jan 24, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 24th Jan 2009 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Alcoholics who are living in a blind alley refuse to be really honest with themselves or with other people. They're running away from life and won't face things as they are. They won't give up their resentments. They're too sensitive and too easily hurt. They refuse to try to be...	Sobrietyspell	0	407	Jan 24, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Thankful, from the bottom of my soul, for sobriety (Preview) Hello Everyone, I learned that a friend and her husband recently died, killed by a drunk driver. My heart is broken - and there is no anger towards the drunk driver - only absolute sorrow. That could have been me in the past - so many times. I thank my HP for saving others and myself from the horrible aff...	tlcate	1	404	Jan 24, 2009 by Jane05
	A.A. Thought for the Day (Preview) AA Thought for the DayJanuary 24, 2009Miracle I was spiritually bankrupt long before AA entered my life and long before alcoholism took over like a parasite under my skin. I had nothing, no faith at all to cling to. I had no faith in man, because along with my drinking I had lost faith in myself. I trusted...	Jane05	0	344	Jan 24, 2009 by Jane05
	Alike When The Chips Are Down (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 24 Alike When The Chips Are Down In the beginning, it was four whole years before A.A. brought permanent sobriety to even one alcoholic woman. Like the "high bottoms," the women said they were different; A.A. couldn't be for them. But as the communication was perfected...	Jane05	0	310	Jan 24, 2009 by Jane05
	Clearing the Slate (Preview) One of the greatest gifts we can give is an open, loving heart. And holding on to negative feelings from past relationships is our greatest barrier to that gift. Most of us have had relationships that have ended. When we examine these relationships, we need to clear the emotional slate. Are we holdi...	Quetzal	0	365	Jan 24, 2009 by Quetzal
	what goes up must come down (Preview) Yes, I drank yesterday. Heard that line from the Tom Petty song "Learning to Fly", which has another line..."learning to fly, but I ain't got wings....coming down is the hardest thing"....I heard it yesterday, and it seemed pertinent to me, since i had been up in sobriety, and...	texaa	38	1300	Jan 24, 2009 by texaa
	Daily Reflections ~ Having Fun Yet? (Preview) . . . we arent a glum lot. If newcomers could see no joy or fun in our existence, they wouldnt want it. We absolutely insist on enjoying life. We try not to indulge in cynicism over the state of the nations, nor do we carry the worlds troubles on our shoulders. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , p. 132 When my own house i...	Sobrietyspell	0	363	Jan 23, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 23rd Jan 2009 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Alcoholics are people whose drinking got them into a "blind alley." They haven't been able to learn anything from their drinking experiences. They are always making the same mistakes and suffering the same consequences over and over again. They refuse to admit t...	Sobrietyspell	0	364	Jan 23, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	health care and concerns (Preview) I am just wondering if many alcoholics are understanding or even given incentive to stay sober due to regular healthcare and physicals being guided by good bloodwork and other subjective results(blood pressure, weight, other) ? Also mental health experts that can give excellent guidance, and ca...	Dakota	6	494	Jan 23, 2009 by cramcj01
	Not Letting Go and Letting God (Preview) As children bring their broken toys, with tears for us to mend, I brought my broken dreams to God because He was my friend. But then, instead of leaving Him in peace to work alone, I hung around and tried to help, with ways that were my own. At last I snatched them back and cried, "How can You be so...	Jane05	0	328	Jan 23, 2009 by Jane05
	New (again) (Preview) Hi. Im doing this again. I need to get to meetings in person, but I think that online is a start. I have not been to a meeting in over 7 years and I havent had an "alcohol-free" day in over 7 years. Seems so hard right now, but I do remember, one day at a time and if necessary, 1 minute at a time, wh...	Emilee Rose	3	425	Jan 23, 2009 by Doll
	Prayers Please for Carolyn (Preview) My alanon aunt, who took over the "motherhood" role after my mom dies when I was little, has been having problems this past weekend, and she is now scheduled for an aortic heart valve replacement next week. Please keep her in your prayers, as I love her soooooo much and am not ready to give her...	jonijoni1	4	352	Jan 23, 2009 by Doll
	Fear as a Steppingstone (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 22 Fear as a Steppingstone The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear--primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual dist...	Jane05	3	360	Jan 23, 2009 by Dakota
	Worshipers All (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 22 Worshipers All We found that we had indeed been worshipers. What a state of mental goose flesh that used to bring on! Had we not variously worshiped people, sentiment, things, money, and ourselves? And then, with a better motive, had we not worshipfully beheld the sunset, the se...	Jane05	1	289	Jan 23, 2009 by Dakota
	Say when it's time to begin (Preview) I have a friend who is always planning to start a writing project "as soon as she gets organized." She has read nearly every book, attended every seminar, and bought all the tapes on the subject. She has closets full of organizers, drawers stuffed with folders, and several related compute...	Quetzal	0	340	Jan 23, 2009 by Quetzal
	How to start again???? (Preview) I was sober for ten years but, I decided to drink again. I hate it!!! Now, I can't find a way to stop. It's not fun at all. Help.	loren	17	490	Jan 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections ~ Let's Keep It Simple (Preview) A few hours later I took my leave of Dr. Bob. . . The wonderful, old, broad smile was on his face as he said almost jokingly, Remember, Bill, lets not louse this thing up. Lets keep it simple! I turned away, unable to say a word. That was the last time I ever saw him. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p 214 Aft...	Sobrietyspell	0	1752	Jan 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 22nd Jan 2009 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day In the beginning, you want to get sober, but you're helpless, so you turn to a Power greater than yourself and by trusting in that Power, you get the strength to stop drinking. From then on, you want to keep sober, and that's a matter of reeducating your mind. After a while, you get...	Sobrietyspell	0	318	Jan 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Meaning of Unmanageability (Preview) The Meaning of Unmanageability When we deny our powerlessness over alcohol our lives become unmanageable. In Step One, we come to terms with that unmanageability. Our lives may be unmanageable in a few areas or in many areas. They may be slightly unmanageable in some areas and totally unmanagea...	Jane05	5	6028	Jan 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	ANGRY and full of RESENTMENT!!! (Preview) I know it's silly, but I'm still soooooo friggin' pissed off! I sell on eBay, a LOT. It has helped me through this tough economy, I mean I don't make tons of money, but with my hours at work being cut and with doctor / hospital bills continueing, it does help with gas and a few groceries. I happened to make a s...	Doll	7	492	Jan 22, 2009 by StPeteDean
	A.A. Thought for the Day (Preview) AA Thought for the Day January 22, 2009 "Easy Does It" We must learn to walk before we can run. That's why we have these slogans. I use that "Easy Does It" every day to slow me down a little. I have to watch myself all the time. So I don't just take the inventory at night -- I take it conti...	Jane05	1	263	Jan 22, 2009 by Dakota
	Appreciating Our Past (Preview) It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth. Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed i...	Quetzal	1	328	Jan 22, 2009 by lani
	Meeting Everyday For Me! (Preview) I used to imbibe everyday and now I go to a meeting most everyday - and sometimes I go to a meeting more than once a day if I feel like it...of course now that I am retired this is possible...and I thank God for this ability. As a friend used to say: yes John, there is a direct correlation between th...	johnn101259	2	293	Jan 22, 2009 by eastcoastscott
	Friends from Treatment (Preview) Hello! I need help/advice. I am approaching my six months and so happy and grateful for my life and my sobriety. I went to a treatment center for three months and since leaving there I have been doing everything I am told to do by peers in meetings, the Big book, sponsor, the treatment facility..etc. ...	Delia08	7	477	Jan 21, 2009 by eastcoastscott
	new member (Preview) I am knew to this page and i dont understand how this all works.	denny-con	4	444	Jan 21, 2009 by StPeteDean
	A.A. Quotes and Other Writings (Preview) Daily A.A. Quotes and Other Writings AA 'Big Book' - Quote But there was always the curious mental phenomenon that parallel with our sound reasoning there inevitably ran some insanely trivial excuse for taking the first drink. Our sound reasoning failed to hold us in check. The insane idea won out....	Jane05	1	1127	Jan 21, 2009 by Dakota
	does it help (Preview) to know why we drink/ drank a lot?	Dakota	10	470	Jan 21, 2009 by Dakota
	Wants and Needs (Preview) Part of taking responsibility for us means taking responsibility for what we want and need, and knowing that's okay to do. Learning to tune in to us, learning to listen to ourselves, is an art. It takes practice. We can use our ability to guess what others want and need and apply that skill to ourselve...	Quetzal	1	304	Jan 21, 2009 by Dakota
	Pocket Sponsor (Preview) Day Twenty-one: Meetings will not keep you sober but they sure as heck will mess up your drinking. People with a belly full of booze and head full of program find it a miserable way to live. *I may have one more drunk left inside, but not another sobering up-I don't take any chances.* Excerpt from the Poc...	Jane05	1	274	Jan 21, 2009 by Dakota
	Citizens Again (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 21 Citizens Again "Each of us in turn--that is, the member who gets the most out of the program--spends a very large amount of time on Twelfth Step work in the early years. That was my case, and perhaps I should not have stayed sober with less work. "However, sooner or later...	Jane05	0	354	Jan 21, 2009 by Jane05
	new to al anon and so hurt (Preview) Hi I've been to about 3 meetings, my husband is an alcoholic, i have 2 very young children i am only 25, we've only been married for 2 years. I think the signs were there before we got married but i didn't take heed to them. He convinced me that alcoholics drink everyday and now that's exactly what he does....	torn25	3	1305	Jan 20, 2009 by nmike
	Wheres Phil!!!!!!!! (Preview) Yohoo Phil.... You are truly missed around here!!!! Hope all is well!	lani	3	422	Jan 20, 2009 by lani
	Loss of Bladder Control (Preview) Has anyone else had bladder control problems when drinking? Whenever I drink a lot and go to sleep, I do not wake up when I have to go to the bathroom..this has been happening a lot lately. Am I the only one?	youllneverknow	8	7226	Jan 20, 2009 by Ms London
	I drank TO feel.....just sharing (Preview) In my f2f yesterday people were sharing how they drank so they wouldn't feel anything, to become numb. After listening to several of these, I came to realize I (for the most part) was the opposite...... I grew up in a military family. Everything was "buck up, walk it off!" and my older siste...	Doll	5	439	Jan 20, 2009 by Dakota
	Gratitude (Preview) Hello, everyone! I am new here but wanted to relate something. A group of women from different groups meet in my home every Monday night for a Big Book Study. It's awesome! There are only six of us even though we've invited others. On each member's AA birthday we all go out for dinner. Getting 6 alk...	kaffehound	4	442	Jan 20, 2009 by Dakota
	Is this common? (Preview) This week, like 5 people relapsed and 1 of them being my closest friend in AA thus far. Most of the people have around the same time as I do (or they did). I am wondering if it is common for people to slip up at the 3 to 5 month mark. I felt like I was really fighting the fight with these people and it is pissing...	pinkchip	12	497	Jan 20, 2009 by pinkchip
	The Awakening (Preview) This is long, but in my opinion, well worth the read!! Have a good day! The Awakening A time comes in your life when you finally get it ... when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out ENOUGH!!! Enough fighting and crying o...	Jane05	1	282	Jan 20, 2009 by Dakota
	New Beginnings (Preview) Resentments are the blocks that hold us back from loving others and ourselves. Resentments do not punish the other person; they punish us. They become barriers to feeling good and enjoying life. They prevent us from being in harmony with the world. Resentments are hardened chunks of anger. They loo...	Quetzal	0	419	Jan 20, 2009 by Quetzal
	Light From A Prayer (Preview) As Bill Sees It Pg. 20 Light From A Prayer "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We treasure our "Serenity Prayer" because it brings a new light to u...	Jane05	0	344	Jan 20, 2009 by Jane05
	Daily Reflections ~ Round-The-Clock Faith (Preview) Faith has to work twenty-four hours a day in and through us, or we perish. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.16 The essence of my spiritually, and my sobriety, rests on a round-the-clock faith in a Higher Power. I need to remember and rely on the God of my understanding as I pursue all of my daily activities. How c...	Sobrietyspell	0	593	Jan 19, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 19th Jan 2009 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day On the foundation of sobriety, we can build a life of honesty, unselfishness, faith in God, and love of our fellow human beings. We'll never fully reach these goals, but the adventure of building that kind of a life is so much better than the merry-go-round of our old drinking l...	Sobrietyspell	0	367	Jan 19, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections ~ Would A Drink Help? (Preview) By going back in our drinking histories, we could show that years before we realized it we were out of control, that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that was indeed the beginning of a fatal progression. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 23 When I was still drinking, I couldnt respond to an...	Sobrietyspell	1	441	Jan 19, 2009 by loren
	What are your thoughts? (Preview) What are your thoughts? For the last 2 weeks, everytime I've spoken or seen a sponsee, she appears to be under the influence (of something). What I'd like to know is, if you were her sponsor how would you handle this and if you were the sponsee how would you like your sponsor to approach you?	Jane05	8	475	Jan 19, 2009 by lani
	A.A. Thought for the Day (Preview) AA Thought for the DayJanuary 19, 2009Adventure Following this spiritual path made a major difference in my life. It seemed to fill that lonely hole that I used to fill with alcohol. My self-esteem improved dramatically, and I knew happiness and serenity as I had never known before. I started to see t...	Jane05	1	300	Jan 19, 2009 by lani
	Owning Our Power (Preview) There is one feeling we need to pay particular attention to in recovery: feeling victimized. We do not need to become comfortable with that feeling. How do we feel when we've been victimized? Helpless. Rageful. Powerless. Frustrated. Feeling victimized is dangerous. Often, it can prompt us i...	Quetzal	1	316	Jan 19, 2009 by lani
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