Alcoholics Anonymous

Danielle · Danielle

Before my husband became official I took $2,000 from him and never paid him back. I am now to step 9 and I feel I owe him a financial amends but I don't know what I can do. He completely supports me now financially. I thought about getting a job but he doesn't want me to. I help him run his small business and if I...

islandgirl65 · islandgirl65

Hello all, Christine alcoholic. In a sense, I've been sober on and off (more on, thank goodness) for about 12 years. I came in through the "back door"; ACA was my first intro to any concept of alcoholism as a disease. If being a child of an alcoholic wasn't shocking enough, imagine my surpris...

Glenns · Glenns

How do you SA'ers handle your obsession to drink? You can't call your Sponsor because you don't have one. Even if you did have a Sponsor, crippling shyness and embarassment would stop you from ever making the call (remember, you have SAD, or Social Anxiety Disorder). You can't pray on it, because yo...

michaelca · michaelca

Good Morning, I am brand new to this site today. Been sober before thru AA for sixteen years, then relapsed. Yes, it is very true about everything that you have heard, It is cunning, baffling and powerful! I stopped going to meetings cause I thought I could run my own show, lost contact with sponso...

Jerry F · Jerry F

I've shouted from the audience what I have learned in recovery and then sat back to watch how predictable the show would go on using my journey and the journey of others as a filter. Willingness and Honesty are our first keys and if not their first keys they won't find the rooms we were blessed to find and...

Aquaman · Aquaman

So I'm getting the clue that while others in my life enjoy the benefits of my recovery, they would rather it not come with a new philosophy, particuliarly where parenting is involved. My son is eleven and when he comes upon difficult situations I want to help him the best I can. Prior to The Program, t...

jj · jj

Last night at a meeting we were searching for a topic. We came up with addiction and how it is important to be watchful so we don't substitute an addiction with a different one that can slip into that hole in our soul when drinking alcohol is surrendered to our higher power. So last night i was...

Beatles Fan · Beatles Fan

5 months ago I was in a downward spiral, drinking all hours of the day, having blackouts, and hurting (emotionally) myself and others closest to me. My girlfriend had broken up with me as a result. I have been sober now for 4 months and for the last month or so have reconnected with my ex-girlfriend. I am p...

newcomer · newcomer

Dear All, Sometime ago, I submitted a chapter for my thesis, I got the feedback today, not good, grammar terrible, English bad, etc. I emailed back and told my supervisor that I had been over anxious to submit it and yes,it needed a hell of lot more work which I am prepared to do. He contacted me, said he u...

blessdmegz · blessdmegz

there was an aa...all sober new yrs eve party...i figured...well ill go. not like i have a ton of plans any how.....let me back up to ten am this morning. i woke up and immedietly remembered what day it was and broke into tears....every one says "oh its just another day"....but to a pathetic a...

Aquaman · Aquaman

For the first time in 28 years I will not do one or more of the following this evening... Drive with one eye closed. Forget where I left my car. Get in a fight. Embarass anyone with my WhiskeyWit. Spend $$$ and have no idea where it went. Get frostbite on my fingers smoking dope in an alley behind a bar. Wake...

kld47 · kld47

Another Sober New Year is about to begin for Many of us. Help all you can in everything you do. Play it safe and watch out for others. Wishing Everyone a Sober New Year--may it be as sober as the last and keep on being Sober for many years to come.

newcomer · newcomer

Just rang in the New year an hour ago with my son, sober, felt great, and so positive, wishing you all the best.

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning. As Bill Sees It, p. 8 Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the equivalent of stopping drinking....

Lindajean · Lindajean

I'm sober now 6 days. I have read these sites many times and finally decided to post. This is my third attempt at sobriety. I have quit for 3 years and then almost 2 years. However this last time has been the worse. I started getting depressed when drinking. I did not think I was a big drinker, always red win...

newcomer · newcomer

Guys, almost lost it this afternoon, as I am still housebound due to weather conditions, getting paranoid, not working the steps, but rang my sponsor and another member and feel like I am getting back on track, need prayers, and am looking forward to a convention the weekend after next, but keeping i...

Aquaman · Aquaman

Hey Friends, I'm sick...and I don't do sick well. I think Biker Bill once called The Common Cold "Man Flu". I'm there. Worst part about it for me is that usually before I even know that I'm sick I get hit with a huge wave of depression or some other irrational emotion. Bad stuff. Well, I just got...

Azul · Azul

Okay. I am a 55 professional who has lived and worked as an expat in various countries for the past 15 years. Life is good, but alas a lot of the social life centers on dinner parties, cocktail parties, banquets, etc. The wine flows at just about any business or social event. Right now, I have become a p...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The idea of "twenty-four-hour" living applies primarily to the emotional life of the individual. Emotionally speaking, we must not live in yesterday, nor in tomorrow. As Bill Sees It, p. 284 A New year: 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days, 8,760 hours, 525,600 minutes--a time to consider dire...

aivilO · aivilO

Let me first say that through the help of the NA program I was able to stay clean off narcotics for 6 years, so I know the program works. My problem is that I started to drink 4 years ago, thinking I could handle it. Well I can't. I'm in college now and just finished my first semester with a 4.0gpa. My Uncle cam...

runnergirl · runnergirl

At another holiday party tonight. The host is a friend of ours and was trying to be kind... Gave my husband a really good beer and handed me a glass of a good red wine. I held on to it for while, then set it down on a table. Watched it the rest of the night, passed through the room and made sure it was still there...

dwallace_gm · dwallace_gm

hey all hung up on step 2. The back story. Born to a family with frequent drunken bar fights in the living room (kids included) strung out by 14 rehab at 17 A drunken, broke, emotionally bankrupt, disaster at 23 Surrendered worked the steps to the best of my ability, again and again, always had trouble wi...

MDC · MDC

Yep...it was ME! Pearl harbour, ME! 9-11, you guessed it, Mark! Did you burn your supper? me...Lover leave you? Who else??? Mark Caldwell. When did everyone's problems become my FAULT? Don't get me wrong, I AM more than willing to help people with their issues, but am I the "root cause&...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady by Mike L., West Orange, NJ "Carry THIS Message" Group, West Orange, NJ From "The Doctor's Opinion" to the end of "More About Alcoholism" the Big Book discusses the first part of Step 1, which states, "We admitted we wer...

The Sword · The Sword

A much smaller meeting than normally, we had it in the kitchen around a big table. Maybe a dozen of us, and this meeting is usually 30-40+........ anyway, it was a really awesome meeting. I hadn't planned on going and 15 minutes before it started I just decided to go. So glad I did. My Christmas Miracle i...

soberjulie · soberjulie

Night Before Christmas - Big Book Style 'T'was the night before Christmas, we were all in the club,Enjoying a meeting, instead of a pub,The ashtrays were clean, and the coffee was made,The Big Books were out and we all had prayed.When out in the lot, there arose such a clatter,We all jumped up...

janet · janet

What do you do when you have some (2-3 yrs.) sobriety and then later... feel you are stuck? Things are going good, yet life is not all that. People are crazy, and YET you aren't all that either. Too often a relapse...once it has happened... you can never seem to get sobriety back? Question is: What do...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Got to cut out for a bit to play in the snow. There's no internets where I'm staying but I should get a chance to check in using the free wifi at the spa down the street. Happy new years in advance. Dean

soberjulie · soberjulie

sorry...this is a little late for a Christmas share, but it may come in handy for new years...or next monday or feb. 10....hehe, useful stuff for whenever. So, its copied and pasted from a blog called Mr. Sponsorpants. Check him out some time, remarkable stuff. Mr. SponsorPants Annual Holiday Su...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Second Reader for Alcoholics Anonymous(From Akron, Ohio - 1940)YOU HAVE BEEN a member of Alcoholics Anonymous for several weeks, Or is it several months? The bright, shining newness has started to dull just a little. The first glamorous flush of sobriety has started to wear off. There is, you know,...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . . therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 A.A. is a joyful program! Even so, I occasionally balk at taking the necessary steps to move ahead, and find myself resisting the very actions that could bring about the joy I want. I wou...

Kieran · Kieran

Hi all, reading the forum as general. i'am an alcoholic, and i am lost

msujmccorm · msujmccorm

Hello everyone. I am new to this program. Today is day 17. It hasn't been easy but with the help of about 24 meetings in the last 17 days, the message is starting to sink in. I have found a great "home" group where all the people seem to enjoy themselves and each other. The first meeting I expecte...

IsItPossible · IsItPossible

I can't imagine living without being able to "go out for drinks"...I know many have been there... I clicked on an intro post of another and gasped at the first words that I read as they mimicked my life... I'm a 30-something, divorced only child who's mother died in a single car accident...s...

nikki27 · nikki27

yes im new to this and Im only 3 months sober. It has been a long journey to get here though...I still havent made it to any AA meetings...but I am doing an outpatient program for treatment, i am almost done with that part and now its time to go out on my own like a bird just hatched from the egg of a drunk pool in...

johnphilip19 · johnphilip19

What is the difference between intentionally trying to kill yourself vs. the indifference to your own life? My opinion is that suicidal people are intent on killing themselves; indifferent people do things that are life threatening, value their own lives but do not seem to take the consequences o...

Toad · Toad

turninggrey · turninggrey

Hey All, Anyone remember "Mr Magoo's a Christmas Carol" with Jim Baccus as the voice of Mr Magoo? Alas..............The last time I watched this, I probably had on a pair of pajamas with feet in them!!! Its all good when you are sober!!! Tom

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

"Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 42 Through the recovery process described in the Big Book, I have come to realize that the same instructions that work on my alcoholism, work on much more. Whenever I a...

bob cobb · bob cobb

I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...

runnergirl · runnergirl

Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...

Jerry F · Jerry F

That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...

BGG · BGG

Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...

newcomer · newcomer

You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...

bikerbill · bikerbill

I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...

kld47 · kld47

Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.

turninggrey · turninggrey

WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom

bikerbill · bikerbill

I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...

John · John

To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...

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	Financial Amends to Husband (Preview) Before my husband became official I took $2,000 from him and never paid him back. I am now to step 9 and I feel I owe him a financial amends but I don't know what I can do. He completely supports me now financially. I thought about getting a job but he doesn't want me to. I help him run his small business and if I...	Danielle	12	1373	Jan 4, 2010 by carlasober
	Introduction and what's with the Godzilla avatar? (Preview) Hello all, Christine alcoholic. In a sense, I've been sober on and off (more on, thank goodness) for about 12 years. I came in through the "back door"; ACA was my first intro to any concept of alcoholism as a disease. If being a child of an alcoholic wasn't shocking enough, imagine my surpris...	islandgirl65	8	1158	Jan 4, 2010 by carlasober
	The "Obsession:" how to handle it if you have SAD? (Preview) How do you SA'ers handle your obsession to drink? You can't call your Sponsor because you don't have one. Even if you did have a Sponsor, crippling shyness and embarassment would stop you from ever making the call (remember, you have SAD, or Social Anxiety Disorder). You can't pray on it, because yo...	Glenns	20	719	Jan 4, 2010 by jpmger
	hello, brand new to this site (Preview) Good Morning, I am brand new to this site today. Been sober before thru AA for sixteen years, then relapsed. Yes, it is very true about everything that you have heard, It is cunning, baffling and powerful! I stopped going to meetings cause I thought I could run my own show, lost contact with sponso...	michaelca	12	1190	Jan 4, 2010 by MAL
	Past Actor...now a spectator. (Preview) I've shouted from the audience what I have learned in recovery and then sat back to watch how predictable the show would go on using my journey and the journey of others as a filter. Willingness and Honesty are our first keys and if not their first keys they won't find the rooms we were blessed to find and...	Jerry F	9	1077	Jan 3, 2010 by Jerry F
	"That AA crap" (Preview) So I'm getting the clue that while others in my life enjoy the benefits of my recovery, they would rather it not come with a new philosophy, particuliarly where parenting is involved. My son is eleven and when he comes upon difficult situations I want to help him the best I can. Prior to The Program, t...	Aquaman	17	2052	Jan 3, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Addiction (Preview) Last night at a meeting we were searching for a topic. We came up with addiction and how it is important to be watchful so we don't substitute an addiction with a different one that can slip into that hole in our soul when drinking alcohol is surrendered to our higher power. So last night i was...	jj	13	1114	Jan 3, 2010 by StPeteDean
	Being outed to others (Preview) 5 months ago I was in a downward spiral, drinking all hours of the day, having blackouts, and hurting (emotionally) myself and others closest to me. My girlfriend had broken up with me as a result. I have been sober now for 4 months and for the last month or so have reconnected with my ex-girlfriend. I am p...	Beatles Fan	9	1304	Jan 3, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Taking responsibility (Preview) Dear All, Sometime ago, I submitted a chapter for my thesis, I got the feedback today, not good, grammar terrible, English bad, etc. I emailed back and told my supervisor that I had been over anxious to submit it and yes,it needed a hell of lot more work which I am prepared to do. He contacted me, said he u...	newcomer	6	943	Jan 2, 2010 by newcomer
	first sober new yrs (Preview) there was an aa...all sober new yrs eve party...i figured...well ill go. not like i have a ton of plans any how.....let me back up to ten am this morning. i woke up and immedietly remembered what day it was and broke into tears....every one says "oh its just another day"....but to a pathetic a...	blessdmegz	13	1096	Jan 1, 2010 by Criket
	Have a Happy Friggin' New Year's Eve! (Preview) For the first time in 28 years I will not do one or more of the following this evening... Drive with one eye closed. Forget where I left my car. Get in a fight. Embarass anyone with my WhiskeyWit. Spend $$$ and have no idea where it went. Get frostbite on my fingers smoking dope in an alley behind a bar. Wake...	Aquaman	11	1006	Jan 1, 2010 by tokengirl
	Sober New Years (Preview) Another Sober New Year is about to begin for Many of us. Help all you can in everything you do. Play it safe and watch out for others. Wishing Everyone a Sober New Year--may it be as sober as the last and keep on being Sober for many years to come.	kld47	5	1028	Jan 1, 2010 by angelov8
	Happy New Year (Preview) Just rang in the New year an hour ago with my son, sober, felt great, and so positive, wishing you all the best.	newcomer	5	848	Jan 1, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections ~ First, The Foundation & 24hrs a Day (Preview) Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning. As Bill Sees It, p. 8 Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the equivalent of stopping drinking....	Sobrietyspell	0	767	Jan 1, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	New here (Preview) I'm sober now 6 days. I have read these sites many times and finally decided to post. This is my third attempt at sobriety. I have quit for 3 years and then almost 2 years. However this last time has been the worse. I started getting depressed when drinking. I did not think I was a big drinker, always red win...	Lindajean	11	1060	Jan 1, 2010 by Avril G
	Still stuck with weather conditions (Preview) Guys, almost lost it this afternoon, as I am still housebound due to weather conditions, getting paranoid, not working the steps, but rang my sponsor and another member and feel like I am getting back on track, need prayers, and am looking forward to a convention the weekend after next, but keeping i...	newcomer	7	935	Jan 1, 2010 by Avril G
	Just Whining, really (Preview) Hey Friends, I'm sick...and I don't do sick well. I think Biker Bill once called The Common Cold "Man Flu". I'm there. Worst part about it for me is that usually before I even know that I'm sick I get hit with a huge wave of depression or some other irrational emotion. Bad stuff. Well, I just got...	Aquaman	16	996	Jan 1, 2010 by louisa
	New to the Forum and AA (Preview) Okay. I am a 55 professional who has lived and worked as an expat in various countries for the past 15 years. Life is good, but alas a lot of the social life centers on dinner parties, cocktail parties, banquets, etc. The wine flows at just about any business or social event. Right now, I have become a p...	Azul	9	1040	Dec 31, 2009 by pinkchip
	Daily Reflections ~ Daily Resolutions & 24hrs a Day (Preview) The idea of "twenty-four-hour" living applies primarily to the emotional life of the individual. Emotionally speaking, we must not live in yesterday, nor in tomorrow. As Bill Sees It, p. 284 A New year: 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days, 8,760 hours, 525,600 minutes--a time to consider dire...	Sobrietyspell	0	691	Dec 30, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Help me please (Preview) Let me first say that through the help of the NA program I was able to stay clean off narcotics for 6 years, so I know the program works. My problem is that I started to drink 4 years ago, thinking I could handle it. Well I can't. I'm in college now and just finished my first semester with a 4.0gpa. My Uncle cam...	aivilO	12	756	Dec 30, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Handed a drink. (Preview) At another holiday party tonight. The host is a friend of ours and was trying to be kind... Gave my husband a really good beer and handed me a glass of a good red wine. I held on to it for while, then set it down on a table. Watched it the rest of the night, passed through the room and made sure it was still there...	runnergirl	19	1134	Dec 30, 2009 by michaelca
	12 years, relapse, step 2, need help (Preview) hey all hung up on step 2. The back story. Born to a family with frequent drunken bar fights in the living room (kids included) strung out by 14 rehab at 17 A drunken, broke, emotionally bankrupt, disaster at 23 Surrendered worked the steps to the best of my ability, again and again, always had trouble wi...	dwallace_gm	16	621	Dec 29, 2009 by jpmger
	I killed Lincoln (Preview) Yep...it was ME! Pearl harbour, ME! 9-11, you guessed it, Mark! Did you burn your supper? me...Lover leave you? Who else??? Mark Caldwell. When did everyone's problems become my FAULT? Don't get me wrong, I AM more than willing to help people with their issues, but am I the "root cause&...	MDC	10	561	Dec 29, 2009 by jpmger
	The Missing Piece ~ The Spiritual Malady (Preview) The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady by Mike L., West Orange, NJ "Carry THIS Message" Group, West Orange, NJ From "The Doctor's Opinion" to the end of "More About Alcoholism" the Big Book discusses the first part of Step 1, which states, "We admitted we wer...	Sobrietyspell	3	4173	Dec 29, 2009 by Just Toni
	Christmas Night Meeting - Wow! (Preview) A much smaller meeting than normally, we had it in the kitchen around a big table. Maybe a dozen of us, and this meeting is usually 30-40+........ anyway, it was a really awesome meeting. I hadn't planned on going and 15 minutes before it started I just decided to go. So glad I did. My Christmas Miracle i...	The Sword	2	1199	Dec 29, 2009 by Avril G
	The night before Christmas, Big Book style. (Preview) Night Before Christmas - Big Book Style 'T'was the night before Christmas, we were all in the club,Enjoying a meeting, instead of a pub,The ashtrays were clean, and the coffee was made,The Big Books were out and we all had prayed.When out in the lot, there arose such a clatter,We all jumped up...	soberjulie	12	3310	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	When one gets stuck (Preview) What do you do when you have some (2-3 yrs.) sobriety and then later... feel you are stuck? Things are going good, yet life is not all that. People are crazy, and YET you aren't all that either. Too often a relapse...once it has happened... you can never seem to get sobriety back? Question is: What do...	janet	5	1247	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Going to Colorado tomorrow for a week of skiing. (Preview) Got to cut out for a bit to play in the snow. There's no internets where I'm staying but I should get a chance to check in using the free wifi at the spa down the street. Happy new years in advance. Dean	StPeteDean	7	773	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Holiday Survival Guide (Preview) sorry...this is a little late for a Christmas share, but it may come in handy for new years...or next monday or feb. 10....hehe, useful stuff for whenever. So, its copied and pasted from a blog called Mr. Sponsorpants. Check him out some time, remarkable stuff. Mr. SponsorPants Annual Holiday Su...	soberjulie	5	1187	Dec 29, 2009 by bikerbill
	AA Second Reader (Preview) Second Reader for Alcoholics Anonymous(From Akron, Ohio - 1940)YOU HAVE BEEN a member of Alcoholics Anonymous for several weeks, Or is it several months? The bright, shining newness has started to dull just a little. The first glamorous flush of sobriety has started to wear off. There is, you know,...	Sobrietyspell	1	799	Dec 28, 2009 by soberjulie
	Daily Reflections ~ The Joy of Living (Preview) . . . . therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 A.A. is a joyful program! Even so, I occasionally balk at taking the necessary steps to move ahead, and find myself resisting the very actions that could bring about the joy I want. I wou...	Sobrietyspell	0	876	Dec 28, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Hello (Preview) Hi all, reading the forum as general. i'am an alcoholic, and i am lost	Kieran	12	1138	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New to all this. (Preview) Hello everyone. I am new to this program. Today is day 17. It hasn't been easy but with the help of about 24 meetings in the last 17 days, the message is starting to sink in. I have found a great "home" group where all the people seem to enjoy themselves and each other. The first meeting I expecte...	msujmccorm	12	934	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New...It's so obvious...but (Preview) I can't imagine living without being able to "go out for drinks"...I know many have been there... I clicked on an intro post of another and gasped at the first words that I read as they mimicked my life... I'm a 30-something, divorced only child who's mother died in a single car accident...s...	IsItPossible	14	1097	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New... (Preview) yes im new to this and Im only 3 months sober. It has been a long journey to get here though...I still havent made it to any AA meetings...but I am doing an outpatient program for treatment, i am almost done with that part and now its time to go out on my own like a bird just hatched from the egg of a drunk pool in...	nikki27	9	910	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	Suicide concept? (Preview) What is the difference between intentionally trying to kill yourself vs. the indifference to your own life? My opinion is that suicidal people are intent on killing themselves; indifferent people do things that are life threatening, value their own lives but do not seem to take the consequences o...	johnphilip19	11	1118	Dec 28, 2009 by Reffner
	Oldie But Goodie (Preview)	Toad	6	796	Dec 28, 2009 by angelov8
	Sitting here watching Mr. Magoo........... (Preview) Hey All, Anyone remember "Mr Magoo's a Christmas Carol" with Jim Baccus as the voice of Mr Magoo? Alas..............The last time I watched this, I probably had on a pair of pajamas with feet in them!!! Its all good when you are sober!!! Tom	turninggrey	5	807	Dec 28, 2009 by angelov8
	Daily Reflections ~ Problem Solving & 24hrs a Day (Preview) "Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 42 Through the recovery process described in the Big Book, I have come to realize that the same instructions that work on my alcoholism, work on much more. Whenever I a...	Sobrietyspell	1	583	Dec 27, 2009 by Jerry F
	Hi folks, hope it's ok if I unburden myself here a bit. (Preview) I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...	bob cobb	14	1367	Dec 27, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Quick note of thanks (Preview) Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...	runnergirl	5	876	Dec 26, 2009 by kkotz401
	Mele Kalikimaka (Preview) That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...	Jerry F	3	877	Dec 26, 2009 by leeu
	A Very Merry Christmas... TIPSY (Preview) Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...	Just Toni	3	801	Dec 25, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Welcome Back to All Those Returning After Relapse (Preview) Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...	BGG	6	2843	Dec 25, 2009 by Just Toni
	Guys, I need to vent, (Preview) You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...	newcomer	7	1235	Dec 25, 2009 by pinkchip
	gratitude (Preview) I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...	bikerbill	4	913	Dec 25, 2009 by Jerry F
	Christmas Wishes (Preview) Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.	kld47	1	727	Dec 24, 2009 by Jerry F
	One Day At A Time app for iphone! (Preview) WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom	turninggrey	4	1854	Dec 24, 2009 by Just Toni
	I have to get this off my chest (Preview) I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...	bikerbill	18	1130	Dec 24, 2009 by bikerbill
	Still Amazed and Excited! 20 years later (Preview) To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...	John	9	1200	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
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