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420 Friendly AA Meetings
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I went to AA for 24 years and had some success but very little. I became the club relapse king and my self esteem went way south to the point that I went from being a problem drinker to a full blown alky with street bum mentality, I drank cologne and rubbing alcohol to take off the shakes on many occasions. I w...
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Recovery in wedding vows
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Hi all! I am so lucky and blessed to be getting remarried and recovery has everything to do with it. Addiction tore my marriage apart with a divorce in 2011 and recovery (4 years sober last week) has brought it back together. I want to incorporate my commitment to recovery/sobriety in my marriage vo...
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Anabolic Steroids and Sobriety
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Hello all---I'm sober 16 months now and am about to start my first ever steroid cycle to improve my workout results. I've done a lot of research on anabolic/androgenic steroids over the last 5 or 6 weeks--what I've found is that the general or common perception of these hormones, as touted by the medi...
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Any Lawyers Here?
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These are from a book called Disorder in the American Courts, and are taken, word for word, from actual court transcripts: ATTORNEY: Are you sexually active? WITNESS: No, I just lay there. ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ATTORNEY: What gear were you in at the moment of the impact? WITNESS: Gucci sweats and R...
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Phil
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"Fear of Economic Insecurity will leave us."
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Hi All,
I have had a Major Leak, and then my Water heater died, and it was a grusome mess in that little water heater room, and all of last night, and early today, was just worrying and worrying about the expense, "how much will it be to get this changed, the floor underneath the water heater is all w...
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Does anyone know?
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Does anyone know if groups are allowed to ask people to remove hats and wear dress clothes to a meeting? Suit and tie - and dresses for woman? If I decide I want to go to a meeting where this is taking place... can they kick me out if I show up in my usual bucket hat and regular casual clothes??? Just curiou...
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When the "novelty" of sobriety starts to wear off...
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Early on things are kind of exciting and being sober is almost like discovering a new drug that makes you feel strange and unusual feelings...but now that some months have gone by it seems like I'm just coasting through life with the volume turned down. No more craziness, no more highs and lows, no more...
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Survey: Online Meetings
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I am doing some initial research to see if there is an opportunity to serve the community with a better platform for online twelve-step meetings. As of right now, most meetings are either semi-private Skype groups or at www.intherooms.com. I'm sure intherooms.com has helped many people, but I thin...
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Daily Reflections 11/18/13
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A SAFETY NET Occasionally. . . We are seized with a rebellion so sickening that we simply wont pray. When these things happen we should not think too ill of ourselves. We should simply resume prayer as soon as we can, doing what we know to be good for us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 105 Sometime...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 10-2
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October 2, 2017Quote of the WeekWelcome to A.A.; the place where you grow up in public." After a few months in the program, I began hearing people share that their emotional development stopped at the age they started drinking. They said they felt as if they had the coping skills, and the emotional...
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The Drunk Who Fell in a Hole
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The Drunk Who Fell in a Hole A drunk fell in a hole and couldn't get out. A businessman went by. The drunk called out for help. The businessman threw him some money and told him get yourself a ladder. But the drunk could not find a ladder in this hole he was in. A doctor walked by. The drunk said, "Help,...
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Bob K
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Joe Walsh. "One Day At A Time"
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbFh_pD47k4
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Phil
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COFFEE
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Just wondering if anybody besides me cannot drink coffee because it is a trigger to drink. Coffee is like alcohol to me in that I drink too much of it until I am all speeded up so bad that it makes me crave booze to bring myself down. I know this sounds weird. I can't even drink decaf because it still trigge...
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MY 50 YEAR CHIP
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I never was much for Anniversaries but posted here on my Anniversary for many years. .maybe 20-25. years. At one time a very active and lively message board... A member, I can't quite remember his name from my area St. Pete Beach Fl. was very dedicated to this site When I left Fl. in 2004 sailing my boat ar...
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This is actually a re REAL post....
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Hi everyone, Just an observation, it's very unfortunate this once vibrant resource seems to have been highjacked by a bunch of idiots trying to sell things. Wishing everyone the best in this challenge. Peace D
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Recovery Music Video
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Hello all This last week I made this recovery video to be used when we formally announce the opening of a new Recovery Club here in my town. I would love to get feed back and please feel free, and just please DO, she the link with others. I had so much fun making this one I might starting making more. http:/...
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Shorn
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Success Rate when trying to contact people from the past to make amends
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Hello Everyone, I am currently working on Step 9. My sponsor suggested I begin with living family members, so I contacted my two brothers and sister-in-law. They all agreed to chat with me on Zoom, and the amends went very well. Now I am trying to begin the process of contacting friends to ask if it is OK...
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Thought I was doing okay....
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Tonight at an open AA meeting, potluck before meeting, I felt so alone and I know it was just my old stuff coming to the surface. I sat there ,with people I've known in the program for the 13 years and wished my husband was there and sober, instead of 300 miles away in a halfway house. I finally had to tell mys...
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Sponsor problems
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Hi all.
Im 6 months sober and having some issues with my sponsor.
She is a lovely person but weve only done 40 pages of the BB and she routinely cancels on me. We get no where during our meetings and then has a go at me for not calling her.
Today she had a go at me cause I didnt save her a seat next to me at Frida...
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Willing to go to any length...What does that mean to you?
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If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it-then you are ready to take certain steps. I guess for myself that meant doing things I didn't want to do...And hearing things I didn't want to hear. I not only had to admit to my innermost self I was alcoholic...I had to adm...
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"One day at a Time" a inspirational recovery song
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Here's a musical gift for All who are recovering from any addiction.One Day at a Time is a musical song of hope and inspiration to those who still suffer from the disease of addiction. It is a walk through a life of childhood innocence into the abyss of teenage self inflicted hardships, and onto the path...
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Inactive, but stll Grateful
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'The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over again & expecting different results" That's what I was doing. Going to meetings full of folks whose lives had improved so much after getting sober. Meanwhile, I'm one of a handful whose life actually got worse after sobriety. Wh...
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half measures
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Every time I hear that "half measures availed us nothing" I think, half ASSED measures availed ME nothing. I am doing this recovery thing half assed a lot of the time. I only make it to about 3 meetings a week. I put time with my kids, my husband, and work demands ahead of my recovery. I som...
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ANNIVERSARY THROUGH GODS GRACE AND MERCY
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It was a very cold December 2nd morning in 1984 as I "came to" from another drug induced evening. I was 6 months into my 3rd marriage and the more than two and a half decades of active drug addiction/alcoholism was devastating my life and everything and everyone in its path. I lifted my head from the floor...
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"Stick with the winners" / staying away from toxic people
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An oldtimer I respect in the program frequently says at meetings, "stick with the winners". I agree with this. That is, model your program after people who are happy, healthy and have good sobriety. This isn't to say anyone in AA is a "loser" (except those who are only in meetings to prey on vulnerab...
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Tonight's HALT photo
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Dont be Hungry..... Don't be Angry.... Don't get Lonely.... Don't Stay Tired...... Goodnight Family
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Happy Birthday Lani!!!!!
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it's really 4/19 but this board is bit slow, so I thought I'd give a head start
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The Blame and Guilt Game
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The Blame/Guilt game has two players. The person who blames. The partner who says and does things with the intent to make the other person feel guilty. And the receiver of blame. The partner who takes on the guilt.
1. There is no such thing as healthy guilt! 2. Blame is a manipulative tool used by som...
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Phil
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Rock bottom again
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Hi, I'm just posting here in the hope of some comradely supportive words. I quit drinking in late 2018 after 25 years of going progressively downhill. I was then completely clean for four and a half years. Lately I've started taking cocaine. It's escalated from a little here and there to a lot every day...
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Station 12 Recovery Books & Gift Shop in Wilmington, NC
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With John's permission we would like to introduce ourselves to the board. John stopped in recently to visit our shop, "Station 12". Over a cup of coffee we looked through my collection of early editions of the Big Book. The collection is available for viewing at the store anytime during re...
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Tim K
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Traveling to Montego Bay
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I will be traveling to Montego Bay first time sober in July. Wondering any friends of BillW that can support me during my stay. I want to attend a meeting!
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Contacts in Senegal?
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Hi, my name is Gary and Im an alcoholic, I have had contact from a person in Senegal who is in need of help abd I cannot find a local AA meeting to refer them to. Does anyone here have any contacts in Senegeal who would be willing to talk to this person as a 12th Step? thanks gary
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I think I went into hangxiety last night
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Im new here and I think I went into the most horrible hangxiety last night just needing to connect. Its the first time Ive experienced that. Im also pre disposed to anxiety anyway.
Id appreciate some advice x
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Every Slip Has A Beginning - Danger Signals
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Hi all,
Somebody has just emailed this to me and I wanted to share it. I guess that it is something that we all need to think about, but it may be especially helpful to anybody just starting out with AA. I know that it is advice that I certainly need.
Have a great day,
Carol
Every...
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Quetzal
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Want to hear something funny?
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I'm sneaking up on two years sober. This might not seem like a big deal to anyone who hasn't met me before, but if you're at all familiar with my idiocy on this forum over the years, you're probably a bit shocked. I am walking, living, breathing proof that if you never quit trying, it just might stick one...
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Help finding a closed mouth person
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I have been through some sponsors in my sobriety. My first sponsor went awol when I had about 5 years. My next sponsor dies about 5 years after that (sober). I moved to the coast and when I moved back my sponsor suggested I get a sponsor back here so I did. Then I got a service sponsor and did the Concepts. Now...
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adsicks
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Strong Medicine for a Nun
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Pat is not feeling very well and he decides to go to a doctor. While he is waiting in the doctor's reception room, a nun comes out of the doctor's office. She looks very ashen, drawn and haggard. Pat goes into the doctor's office and says to the doctor: "I just saw a nun leaving who looked absolutely...
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Pythonpappy
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HEALTH CONDITION
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Good Morning to all and especially newcomers and those just coming around! Blessings of this day. Just For Today, remind yourself or try this on for size. You can recognize that you have a "health condition" that can be successfully treated, a day at a time ,rather than spending your time w...
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mikef
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Should a Company Be Able to Force an Employee Not to Drink on His Own Time?
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This one did...... http://www.hrmorning.com/you-can-never-drink-alcohol-again-was-companys-requirement-legal/ BTY
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Rehab vs. AA
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Amy Winehouse is singin' that stupid song in my head... it seems my husband (as well as my best "friend") want me to go to rehab instead of AA. And I said.... !!! So.... not sure I'm going to get much support from the hubby (best friend person lives really far & her opinion is pretty much...
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Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.
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This line from How It Works is heard at just about every AA meeting that ever happens.....I think most of them read the start of chapter 5 at the beginning of the meeting. It's a very powerful line.Pretty much says we got to change our thinking.....If we want any success in this program at all. And if we ar...
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Opinions on a controversial member
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I was at a meeting recently and a young woman spoke and announced that her Higher Power is Satan. There was no problem at the meeting. But I spoke later to Christian AA friends who said she should have been asked to leave. This is unheard of to me for a member be asked to leave because some did not like her cho...
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Jim X
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The Original 1930'S "HOW IT WORKS"
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This is the original manuscript of How It Works. You'll find some of the wording very interesting. HOW IT WORKS Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our directions. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program,...
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"Where in the world......"? (Share your stories of finding AA in far-flung or unexpected places!)
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Hi all! The recent thread about Uzbekistan has prompted me to start this thread about sharing our stories of finding AA in remote places while traveling, or perhaps our surprising encounters with stumbling across a meeting unexpectedly. Some of us shared a few of these stories over in the Uzbekista...
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Step 11 - Meditation Revealed
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Ok, down and dirty, let's stop talking about Meditation and DO some!!!! Go here to download Step 11.1 and a Guided Meditation example, both FREE! https://www.dropbox.com/sh/x975u3rkl57oqnk/AABUuy8-GCpGHGPx1DE0ZsLOa?dl=0And please let me know how it works for you!! My email address is in...
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Jeff R
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I think my server lied about a non-alcoholic drink
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Last night I think my server lied about putting alcohol in a drink. I went to dinner with a friend. I am four years sober and she knows it. She gets migraines so she drinks rarely. Both of us only had water. At the end of the meal the server brought two drinks, both in cocktail glasses, saying, "My special...
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new Meeting in Quito
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Hi folks, My name is Brent from Canada, currently residing in Quito. I have created a new facebook page for Quito AA, and will be hosting a short 30 minute meeting via zoom Mondays at 7pm. Please contact me if interested at macgillb2@gmail.com the facebook page to join is as follows, https://www.f...
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Banning a person from a group
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I've read previous post but nothing that hits this exactly. We have a person that claims to have many, many years of sobriety that includes years of alcohol and drug use. This person has been seen drinking and has offered drugs to people in and outside of the meeting room. Person has actually opened...
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esophageal varices
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Anyone ever dealt with this? I fear I might have them.
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Maintenance and Growth
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Maintenance and Growth It is plain that a life which includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. To the precise extent that we permint these, do we squander the hours that might have been worthwhile. But with the alcoholic, whose hope is the maintenance and growth of a spiritu...
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