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Meetings in Dakar, Senegal.
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Hi my name is Paul. I am moving to Dakar in Sept. Would love to meet up or talk to other sober people. Maybe get a meeting going. Any one out there? paul@abgymsport.com
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Profanity in Churches Sponsoring AA
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I have become totally disgusted by the profaning of God, the churches most meetings are held in, the newcomer and the divinely inspired program of AA. It wasn't like this when I first became a member in the 1970's. People still had respect and were responsible to the newcomer. Since most members think...
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"We had a new Employer" Pg 63 AA book
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"Being all powerful.He provided what we needed, if we kept close to Him and performed His work well." When this realization dawned on me, I begin to see how powerful the AA program really was. In 1992 I sat at my office desk one morning, with just over 4 years of sobriety and truly began to pond...
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The Original 1930'S "HOW IT WORKS"
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This is the original manuscript of How It Works. You'll find some of the wording very interesting. HOW IT WORKS Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our directions. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program,...
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consequences in sobriety
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I want to start a brief conversation about consequences in sobriety. Someone once said in a meeting that he thinks that being sober is the act of actively facing the consequences to your actions. That hit me hard and has stayed with me. I drank because I'm an alcoholic, but I also tried to drink away t...
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Encouraging members of opposite sex in A.A. / do my motives have to be pure as snow?
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I do my best to avoid members of the opposite sex in A.A. that I am attracted to, because I am trying to follow suggestions and don't trust myself to do the right thing. But something that happened yesterday made me question myself. Someone who came into the program around the same time as me (last April...
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Beginner Meetings
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Does your part of the world have them? What is the format? And do they tend to be large or small, frequented by both oldtimers and beginners alike? Barisax
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As Bill Sees It
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As Bill Sees It Pg. 55 Seeking Guidance "Man is supposed to think, and act. He wasn't made in God's image to be an automaton. "My own formula along this lines runs as follows: First, think through every situation pro and con, praying meanwhile that I be not influenced by ego considerations....
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Procrastination
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 21, 2009ProcrastinationI wanted to rest on my laurels after my first attempt at making amends.I was relieved, and thought my task was finished.I was tempted to skip the more humiliating meetings that still remained,and to find plausible excus...
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Poem - "I am a newcomer"
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The wars, when we fight, cannot be won But they will not be lost if His will done Serenity and Acceptance these are the keys Humility and Gratitude will help set me free. I am an alcoholic this I know, "Easy does it," they say; "Let yourself grow." "I have no patience," I exclaim with a sigh, "Give it time,"...
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Going through the steps with a sponsee.
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Going Through The Steps With A Sponsee As it was done in the beginningBefore beginning the steps the sponsor must first qualify the person who has requested to follow the path. Find out if they really are alcoholic and, just as important, if YOU feel that they willing and ready to go to any lengths to ch...
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? about sobriety time
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Ya'll may be familiar w/this but in case someone is not: My area AA f2fs have a chip system. Different color poker like chips that mark time in sobriety. At the end of the f2f when someone gives them out, they go thru the colors and say how much time each one represents, white-24 hours or surrender, silver...
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The History of AA in UK
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Hi everyone,
I came across this earlier today and just thought I'd like to share it with you. I love reading about how AA started around the world and here's how it started here in UK.
Take care,
Carol
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The venue for AA's first meet...
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~ As Bill Sees It: Morning Thoughts ~
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p. 243 On awakening, let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. We ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity and from dishonest or self-seeking motives. Free of these, we can employ our mental faculties with assurance, for God gave us brains to use. ...
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Kicked out of AA??!!!
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I'm Tony, an alcoholic who is grateful for every sober day. Just today I had the experience of being BANNED from an AA chat room for a rather tame but inapropriate remark. It was only my 2nd day online (have only recently, thanks to an Aust' gov't promise) been given satellite access to b'band), and I cou...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Limits of Self-Reliance & 24hrs a Day
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We asked ourselves why we had them [fears]. Wasn't it because self-reliance failed us? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.68 All of my character defects separate me from God's will. When I ignore my association with Him I face the world and my alcoholism alone and must depend on self-reliance. I have never fou...
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Handling Insecurity
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What is insecurity?
Insecurity is:Feeling of not being ``good enough'' to meet the challenge of a situation you face in life.Sense of helplessness in the face of problems, conflict, or concerns. Belief that one is inadequate or incompetent to handle life's challenges. Fear of being...
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Step 4 my part in it.
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OK here goes, and this is hard for me. Not because I am embarrassed but because it still hurts at times to think about the little girl I was and how fast she grew up when it happened. When I was around 8-10 I was molested by my twin uncles. I have done my resentment list like the BB says to do. And I have made my...
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Willing to go to any length...What does that mean to you?
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If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it-then you are ready to take certain steps. I guess for myself that meant doing things I didn't want to do...And hearing things I didn't want to hear. I not only had to admit to my innermost self I was alcoholic...I had to adm...
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Cross Talk in AA Meetings
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Good Morning All,
I was just reading the Board, and I saw something that is sort of one of my little "pet
peeves" And that is someone with a lot of time, giving unsolicted advised to someone that is newer in the Program.
Whether it be someone saying good quality sharing, or some unsolici...
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Alcoholic prayer
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ALCOHOLICS PRAYER God bless all the alcoholics wherever they may be Bless those unfortunates who are in most need of sobriety Look upon them with compassion and mercy And lead them onto this wonderful fellowship That they may help themselves as they have helped us And thousands of others Bless those...
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"Take the Cotton Out of Your Ears and Stick it In Your Mouth"
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This is one of the first expressions I heard when I started AA. It was said to a newcomer who didn't understand and had alot of doubts about AA. They far exceeded the three minutes that the Chair had stated everyone adhere to with their shares. I was getting frustrated myself and wanted to hear from the ol...
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Property Lines
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A helpful tool in our recovery, especially in the behavior we call detachment, is learning to identify who owns what. Then we let each person own and possess his or her rightful property.
If another person has an addiction, a problem, a feeling, or a self-defeating behavior, that is the...
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the wreckage of the future
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We in AA and other 12 Step groups hear,,, do not live in the wreckage of the future.
I used to think that just meant that it will happen when it happens and there is nothing we can do about it so why worry or do anything about it when it is hopeless and later. but I am learning to see that d...
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"Fake it til you make it..." ????
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I've been doing some serious reflecting. I started this program over 10 years ago. I was "sober" for a couple of years, then after a while of not going meetings ended up on a 10 year relapse. I always heard the phrase, "Fake it til you make it". So I did. EXCEPT I took it as an excu...
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how do you pick a sobriety date, when you obsessive compulsive about numbers/ dates/ months etc?
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please i really need help. this has plagued me for a few years now. i attach a strange meaning to all number and dates. this is the reason i can't choose a sober date. i realize getting sober and being healthy is so much more important but i'm compelled nonetheless. i have picked sober days before but whe...
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Carl Jung and Alcoholics Anonymous
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Here's a nice history of the Jung connection to AA I came across in my readings today. There may be a couple of small errors in it. How Jung gave me the power to save my life ROSS FITZGERALD From: The Australian July 28, 2012 12:00AMWHEN I visited the famous psychoanalyst Carl Gustav Jung's son, Franz,...
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This is a We Program
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This is a "we" Program, we hear that at meetings all the time Many people who say that are able to stay sober by frequent meeting attendance, who say "we" refers to all of the people in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous, who use meetings for group therapy and for them it does, my hat...
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What's in Your 'Tool Box' ???
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During my share at tonight's meeting, in response to an 'anger' topic, I shared that I had accumulated enough tools that I could deal with about anything today that would have sent me into orbit a long time ago ... that when we commit ourselves to this program, we learn how to deal with life, that the past...
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March 22 AA Daily Reflection
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NO MORE STRUGGLE. . .
And we have ceased fighting anything or anyone--even alcohol.     ...
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"Live and Let Live"
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Reflection for the Day The slogan "Live and Let Live" can be extremely helpful when we are having trouble tolerating other people's behavior. We know for certain that nobody's behavior - no matter how offensive, distasteful or vicious - is worth the pri...
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washing machine head and everything else
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I am angry i hate addictions. I am worried about a food addict and i feel theres no where to really talk about it. I tried a coda meeting today i was hoping to hear someone speak about having an addict in their life and didnt hear that. I dont know what to do. I am going nuts. I am reading alanon book from when my...
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Gossip
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I found out last night that a member of AA is spreading a malicious lie involving me and a male member having intimate relations. It is in retaliation for me distancing myself from her a while back because her controlling and manipulative behavior was draining me dry and was one of the things which happ...
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Instant gratification
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This is something I am learning to not expect. For an alcoholic, it's pretty common to want it. Or to expect instantaneous results, or an external response or sign of a job well done. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has felt as though they are somehow not cutting it in terms of AA or sobriety. I've had an in...
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Healthiest snacks for AA Meetings; PLEASE READ !
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All AA folks! I've come across some of the recommendations for AA meeting Snacks. I get so surprised many do not understand nutrition, and the dietary "helpers" we all need in EARLY recovery, or to sustain sobriety. Providing coffee or cafinated only drinks, and carb. And sugar based foods only co...
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Sober Golf
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Is anyone interested in a GOLF tournament @ the International Convention a group of us from the SO CAL area are putting one on. We will be playing Wed June 30 @ Canyon Srings Golf Course in San Antonio to Register find flyer @ soberfx.com/golf.pdf
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HALT!
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Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired! (HALT)Has anyone heard this saying in AA, it is new to me. Closer.
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Some people are sicker than others...
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This is a phrase I hear often in the rooms- and it's true. I used to hear this being said, look around me nodding my head, and think "isn't that the truth!!" while looking down my nose at others. It took me a while to realize I should be looking at myself when these words are said. I didn't realize...
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Daily Reflections ~ An Unsuspected Inner Resource
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With few exceptions our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner resource which they presently identify with their own conception of a Power greater than themselves. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, pp. 569-70 From my first days in A.A., as I struggled for sobriety, I found hope in these words...
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Daily Reflections ~ Thinking of Others & 24hrs a Day
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Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Thinking of others has never come easily to me. Even when I try to work the A.A. program, Im prone to thinking, How do I feel today. Am I happy, joyous and fr...
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Size and Weight of 1st Edition "Big Book"
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I am reading "Dr.Bob and the Good Oldtimers" Great stuff. I heard a conversation by newcomers knocking AA. One guy said "They even call their book the Big Book, like it is the "Bible" or something". Even though that's my feeling I humbly restrained myself from telli...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Key is Willingness & 24hrs a Day
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Once we have placed the key of willingness in the lock and have the door ever so slightly open, we find that we can always open it some more. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 35 The willingness to give up my pride and self-will to a Power greater than myself has proved to be the only ingredient absolu...
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More On Step Six
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Good Evening My Friends, These are todays questions from Step Six and my answers to them i hope no one minds that i am shareing this way???
Step 6 - I become entirely ready to have God remove all of these defects of character
Describe the kind of activities that you really enjoy (NOT) your addictiv...
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Today's Gift 3/16
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Say when it's time to do that difficult thing.Sometimes, true windows of opportunity open in our lives. We get a chance to make that amend. The perfect time to end or resolve that relationship arises. It's like a gift from God when that window opens up. All we need to do is gently step through. But someti...
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The JayWalker
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Our behavior is as absurd and incomprehensible with respect to the first drink as that of an individual with a passion, say, for jay-walking. He gets a thrill out of skipping in front of fast-moving vehicles. He enjoys himself for a few years in spite of friendly warnings. Up to this point you would lab...
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Redneck riddle
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Riddle: After teaching his class all about roman numerals (X = 10 IX=9 and so on) the teacher asked his class to draw a single continuous line and turn IX into 6. The only stipulation the teacher made was that the pen could not be lifted from the paper until the line was complete.
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The Alcoholic And Grandiosity
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Disclaimer: This is not my writing but it is interesting and as an Alcoholic I can identify with it. Larry, ------------------- The Alcoholic And Grandiosity The alcoholic is a classic case of "an egomaniac with an inferiority complex." This apparent contradiction in terms com...
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Help with a crush...what is the correct AA thing to do?
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I wonder if you guys can help me with a worry I have. A few weeks ago my closest friend in recovery told me that he had feelings for me. I am a gay man and so is he. I had heard that this could be dangerous to his recovery, so I told him that I like him but I do not feel the same way and that our friendship would have to...
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How is this sponsor/sponsee thing supposed to work?
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I mentioned before that I have a sponsor. She's a nice woman, but I feel like I'm making all of the effort to stay in touch with her. Is that silly? Is this a program where I am supposed to be an adult and, as the sponsee, keep calling her? Do sponsors usually check in, too? There is another woman that I m...
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Wedding sermon needed for a couple in recovery. Can you help?
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Thanks for your time... I'm in need of a wedding sermon or message to give at a wedding ceremony for a couple in recovery. If you can help, I'd be very appreciative... limegreenery
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