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hi, I am new...
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my name is lex. My last drink was early Dec 8th. I have been having trouble drinking for at least a decade and want my life back. I signed up for a group called daytox locally but get anxiety and panic attacks and am not ready to be in large groups for extended periods yet. Am on disability, and I tend to binge...
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hmmm maybe I pray for the wrong thing
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So I headed off bright and early Sunday on my trip. After many many years of driving mini vans I have switched to a sporty little Z24 Cavilier. Better on gas was the mind set. I pass the last gas station for the next 80 K (50 Miles) and glance at the gauge, just under 1/4, no problem. My vans would get at leas...
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Lonely and Grateful
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Contradictory states of being? Not for this alcoholic. What to do, what to do? Gonna make some great soup.Yep, that'll help. Always grateful for my own homemade soup. Would like it better, though, if my beloved were here to enjoy it with me. But no, he left & ain't coming back, as near as I can tell....
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Mele Kalikimaka...
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From Hawaii/Hawaii...The country/The Island. I went to "The" meeting...my Sunday, AA at the Bay, home group as I do almost every Sunday for the past 16 years. I left home with gratitude for the gifts I have...1. I'm home in the land and culture I was created in and that is huge especiall...
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Another opportunity!
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As God(of our own understanding) opened our eyes today ,we have another opportunity to be of maximum service to that Higher Power in our lives and others. Just For Today we will seek to work toward that fit spiritual condition,the daily reprieve accompanied by application of our solution"THE...
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Oh we of little faith...
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I am just astounded by the lack of faith out there! It almost appears it is "cool" to denigrate faith. I work in a technical field and we have a forum. It just amazes me that not only are the younger guys attacking religion, they are embracing darkness. The subjects included how stupid peo...
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am i allowed
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a few people where i go to meetings seem to think either your not an alcoholic or its not right to recover from this illness without doing the steps. ive used my own ways to recover and it seems to annoy certain people who either storm out or say something to me at the end of meetings. ive managed to keep my se...
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'They' Have a sense of humour bypass
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every year I have to submit my emergency evacuation plan. I have two -a real one and a jokey one. By mistake i sent the jokey one to my boss last year (tme to re submit it) and believe it or not I was told to re write it, take it seriously and re submit it by close of business or face disciplinary action. it was Pa...
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God Calling ~ The World's Song
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"Walk with Me in the way of peace. But it must be My peace. Never a peace that is a truce with the power of evil. Never harmony if that means your life-music being adapted to the mood and music of the world. My disciples so often make the mistake of thinking all must be harmonious. No! Not when it me...
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God Calling ~ Practice Protection
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"Fear no evil because I have conquered evil. All you have to do is to say with assurance that whatever it is cannot harm you. In not only the big but the little things of life, be sure of My conquering power. Know that all is well. Practice this. Learn it until it is unfailing and instinctive with...
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Sobriety Anniversary - 22 years today!
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The journey has been long, and it has been hard...But the adventure of living life, each day has been worth it.I've learned and I'm still teachable, I have grown, but still growing,I do not seek an applause, for to do so would be the same as applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse any m...
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Old ideas
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"Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil." AA book. My alcoholic mind in a sober state says that this is not true, hence the old ideas are continued and disaster again. This is what the AA book calls insanity. Without spiritual help from God I will die from alcohol...
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Small steps feel so big
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Hello everyone im new and was suggested that i should post here!
*Deep breathe*
So here we go,
I am a 25 year old adult child of 2 alcoholic parents. My husband also happens to be a ACoA as well as an alcoholic him self. We have been married for 4 months. I find myself on the verge of divorce, wanting to...
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Xmas present from the boss
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Two dozen bottles of Crown Lagar. That's a premium beer in these parts and the sort of drink I would have crawled over my own mother to get at back when. It turned out to be the perfect present for me because when I gave a dozen to my dad and a dozen to my granddad I got the enjoyment of making them happy, and I fe...
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PRAYER THREAD! PLEASE POST PEOPLE YOU WOULD LIKE PRAYED FOR HERE!
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Can we add a sticky at top to have a "Prayer List" then we can add people we want prayed for? Just a suggestion thanks -- Edited by SoberSteve on Wednesday 21st of December 2011 06:49:08 PM
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My Buddy Rico.
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Visited my buddy Rico in hospital last night (met his sponsot there too.) well from being in a very serious condition, he's now responding well to treatment. There is some problem or other with his lymphatic drain system such that his legs, ankles and feet have swollen to twice their size while the res...
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What are your drinking triggers and drinking... non-triggers?
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I know some of mine. 1. Anything that reminds me of my childhood. It can be really subtle too, like a tv show that symbolically hits a chord. I have noticed that I feel like drinking if I watch the TV show "Supernatural" for instance. Just because there are some symbolic similarities. Sheesh...
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hmmm.. .CNN article.. Text Messaging Helps Reduce Alcohol Consumption?
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Well, well, well.... In CNN's health section is a article that says those who recieve and send text messages regularly during drinking sprees, are inclined to drink less. I remember a time when if I had read this article, instead of stop drinking i would have asked everyone on facebook, and every oth...
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Didn't want a tattoo- sponsored a world vision kid.
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I feel more positive about staying sober (and off smokes, too) then I have in a long time. I had my last drink Dec 8 and last smoke Dec 9, 12:45 a.m. feel spacy and weird, guess my body is detoxing still. Anyway... i sponsored a little 6 year old boy from Ethiopia for 40 dollars a month through world vision Ca...
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An Example of The Program In Action...
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So today I got news of a death in my extended family. First one since starting my journey into sobriety. This morning I was sad; cried and extended condolences to those more affected than myself. The kept myself busy taking care of others all day. At dinnertime, with a houseful of "I wants",...
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Picked up a chip today
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The first step, back in 1934 and now, is about being honest with one's self. I'll expand that to The Fellowship. Tonight I picked up my 2nd HONEST 2-month chip in 2.5 years. Not a drop. Thank You. Thank God. With the help of my God and AA... I beat the odds one day at a time, 60 days in a row. Keep It Simple, Rob ...
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Christopher Hitchens obits
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Just wondering if anyone has been as annoyed by these as I have? Just reading about his drinking habits reminds me of how little the general public understands alcoholism and the signs of alcoholism. Anyone else?
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Our visitor last year, made a year on her own
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http://angelonthewagon.blogspot.com/2010/11/on-wagon.html
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God Calling ~ Perfect Love
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"Never let yourselves fear anybody or anything. No fear of My failing you. No fear that your faith will fail you. No fear of poverty or loneliness. No fear of not knowing the way. No fear of others. No fear of their misunderstanding. But this casting out of fear is the result of a perfect love...
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License Restoration Hearing
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Hey, guys this is my first post on the site. I came for
some advice. I lost my license January 2011 from a 2nd OWI charge. I'm eligible for a hearing Jan 29th 2012, which is coming up. I have maintained sobriety since Novemer 2010, however I didn't start attending AA until April of this year. I heard in my s...
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Temporary absense coming up
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Today is my last day for posting, well maybe a quick peek and post tomorrow morning lol. I am leaving on a 5 day business/pleasure trip, headed for southern Ontario. Get to see my granddaughter YAY I hope to get a couple of meetings in while I am down that way. I will be staying with my daughter and her com...
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Open vs. Closed meetings
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Has anyone ever heard of a meeting specified as "Closed", but that is open to children with no age limit specified?
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Whoa...
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Like me, Bill Wilson & Dr, Bob were born and raised in Vermont. Bill's hometown was East Dorset, Vt (30 minutes south of Rutland, Vt - my hometown) but from age 2 until age 11 he lived in Rutland Vermont, then moved back to East Dorset. The Bill Wilson House in East Dorset is on the Nat'l Register of H...
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OK Made a commitment.
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This might sound daft, but I feel like I was ready to make a commitment. I talked it through with my sponsor and another trusted friend and I've gone ahead and made the commitment. 2 hours in the chair and I've had a symbol tattooed on my arm, some meaningful words and my sobriety date. The commitment is to...
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GRRRR If you have nothing nice to say say nothing might just apply here
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My partner and I put in almost 2 weeks working on the torch and were pleased to get the order off on time and were looking forward to the paycheck of almost 2 grand for Jan bill money and some Xmas money Canada Post has lost the parcel. I have shown remarkable restraint in dealing with them and sometimes I am...
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New here to this forum
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I'm taking some much needed time for myself. Need to regroup. Thanks to all the support.
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Step Two on Step Work Board! Join us!
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We're on Step Two! Join us on the StepWork Board atstepwork.activeboard.comJust click on your group's step two area, read the chairpersons lead on the step, the responses/replies to it and then share your own experience, strength and hope on it.We will start on Step ThreeSunday, Dec. 25th, 2011...
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Random things that make me happy (post your own).
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Bored and anxious right now (what else is new). Decided to list things that make me happy. What makes you happy? 1. Rain, rainy days, the smell of rain. 2. My pets (2 cockatiels and 1 cat) 3.Animals in general 4. lego and puzzles 5. Reading really awesome books (want to get back to that). 6. Sco...
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Christmas humor
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ONIONS & CHRISTMAS TREES A family is at the dinner table. The son asks his father, 'Dad, how many kinds of boobs are there? The father, surprised, answers, 'Well, son, there are three kinds of boobs: In her 20's, a woman's are like melons, round and firm. In her 30's to 40's, they are like pears, stil...
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Happy Bellybutton Bday, Stepchild!!!
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As is traditional for me, I won't mention how old but Happy Sober Day too, hey! God bless, brother. Thank you for lighting up the board with your recovery. A marvellous miracle in progress ;) Danielle x
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Did I do ok?
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Hi there :) I've really appreciated everyone's feedback from asking for experience to help me understand. It has helped me so much more than simple words can begin to express. Im determined to learn as much as I can from your experiences as it helps me grow in my own life but also in understanding my man'...
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Daily Reflections ~ Partners in Recovery & 24hrs a Day
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. . . nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics . . . Both you and the new man must walk day by day in the path of spiritual progress. . . . Follow the dictates of a Higher Power and you will presently live in a new and wonderful world, no matter what your presen...
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Anyone seen LarryH?
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Larry where are you? I'm going to heading your way (Ocala) to do some yard work at my property at Lake George. No particular date yet but sometime in the last week of the year. Thought we could do lunch. -- Edited by StPeteDean on Monday 9th of April 2012 08:26:57 PM
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Expectations > Acceptance = Alcoholism
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Expectations. It was always about expectations with me. I expected that life would be like an ABC After-School Special where the bully always got what they had coming to them and the underdog always won. False. Result? Resentment, Fear, Confusion, Sorrow, and Self-Pity. So there the stage was set...
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Peace like I've never felt before...
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I was having stomach pains and since my doctor was concerned that I might have an ulcer he sent me for this procedure where they stick a camera down your throat to see what's happening. They sedated me pretty heavily for it and I was pretty much completely in la la land. I woke up in the recovery room with a v...
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Extra Virgin Coconut Oil
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I recently started using extra virgin coconut oil. I was reading about the benefits of it (organic, non hydrogenated). It is a medium chain fatty acid that actually lowers cholesterol and kills off candida (a yeast in the digestive tract which can turn into a mycelial funagl form under certain condi...
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Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned
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Oh boy am I learning this. I have received a proposed counter financial settlement from my soon to be ex wife. It's pretty severe, no, it's very severe. Due to circumstances that I won't go into here, she really does have me over a barrel. Let's just say that the settlement is effectively a fait accompli...
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The Umbrella of Faith (Part III)
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**Please note: I do not propose to endorse nor oppose any religious belief or religious value in my writings. Having researched and studied this subject of FAITH in somewhat depth, it is my belief based on this research that I could utilize any world religion to support and validate what I write. ...
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A spiritual break through...well kinda...
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I may have mentioned it before but I've been going through a phase (the last decade or so) of being vehemently anti-religion, anti-god and anti-pretty much anything to do with spirituality. I devoured atheist literature, joined atheist Facebook groups and took every opportunity to mock and belit...
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Memories, History and thoughts....
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Hi everyone, I'm not sure why I'm posting this, or if it will get me what I need in the end, but I have to share it and get it out of me. In 1999, ten years sober, I walked into my first Al-Anon meeting... I was sober, but a mess. Al-Anon helped restore me to sanity during this time. I also started Miracless In...
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John
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Light Bulb moment
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I learned the art of glass blowing in 2000 and did that as a full time occupation until 2007 when my journey for recovery took me away from it. I returned home and to glass blowing this past summer. After having been away from it for almost 4 years I expected a learning curve again, much to my delight it se...
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Back to the action!
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Hey everyone. Been in woods hunting ,morning and night consistently since bow season in october 15, until this last saturday .Not going for late Bow season this year. This will be my last season of deer hunting after approx 35 years started at a young 30 years old.I took no shots this year ,had limited...
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I feel like I might drink today
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Actually, I felt that way yesterday and the day before too. Came very close but circumstances kept me from it. I don't want to drink, playing the movie over in my mind and visualizing the outcome depresses me, but I feel the pull.
Whenever I've failed before and drank I knew the minute I woke up in the mo...
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Funny pics to make you laugh...
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For those that need a laugh or some encouragment, I thought I would post this. Feel free to add your own funny pictures. have a good day, remember to laugh!
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Daily positives!
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This is different than the "random happy things" post I started, and the funny pictures post. It's a place where you can post anything positive that happened to you THE DAY you post. The idea is to notice that happy, funny, cool, beautiful, positive things that exist right now in our lives....
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