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relationships in the first year??
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there is a lady who is new to the fellowship and this is her first time in...she has accumulated 40 days and is really doing well..except for the fact that there is a guy with "13years" who has latched on to her and now she is conflicted. I am so pissed at this guy and we are all a bit annoyed at him.
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A New Day
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Bad moments, like good ones, tend to be grouped together. --Edna O'Brien
Rough times may be pouring in on us at the moment, and they may seem unending. Difficulties appear to attract more difficulties, problems with loved ones, problems at work, problems with our appearance. A negative attitu...
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Wreckage of the past
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So i need to clear up some warrents i have for my job...my boss needs to do a crimainal background check...2 of the warrents ...are for parking tickets...i was in the bar no doubt...I lived on the streets pretty much for 3 years...the beginning of the 3 years was the beginning of my bottom, although toda...
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Did you ever screw up "big time?"
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Sometimes it takes some of us a delayed reaction time, before we come to certain realizations,
and "Click" another light bulb goes off. I had that happen today. Just something that I did not
fully understand that was happening in a relationship. Was up all night searching for answe...
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Suggestions anyone...
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One bathroom...
2 girls...one 14 and one 9
the screaming matches in the morning are out of control. I've tried getting one up earlier to avoid the race for the bathroom but now the other one is getting up earlier too. Not sure why they can't both brush thier hair at the same time, but this is obviously...
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Staying away
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Hi
Staying away from the bottle is the hardest thing for me. I start working all the other steps and start to feel better and then I slip. I jsut dont know how to do this. They say jsut dont pick up the forst drink , but that is exactly where I am no good. I am making all kinds of exc...
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Guru
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I'd put ten bucks on the fact he's talking about your signature...the title that comes up under your avatar.
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Real chat
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Anyone know of any chat rooms to do with our kind? LOL makes me feel like some kind of vampire! Spose I am in a way.
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11 months today!!!
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heart.!!!!   :...
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Miracles In Progress Gift Shop
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Purchase an item from the Miracles In Progress Gift Shop For
yourself...
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drink any one?
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any one on here still fighting with the demon?
can't get over step one yet I need HELP!!!!
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Reflection
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A year ago today....i was so lost in trying to escape me, my reality. Not knowing a month and a day to come i'd start the best journey of my life...my recovery. I hated me, i hated life. i hated my life. I didn't have the courage to call my girls on Mother's day...i stayed wallowing in my own shite, feeling so...
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Hey Celt?
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Saw you in here this morning our freind. Sent you an email last night. Come on in and join us buddy. Youre no different from the rest of us here. And you have absolutely nothing to fear. We dont judge you, or criticize you. We are all recovering from the disease of alcohol, one day at a time.
And if y...
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Celt
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Hi Brandon, sorry we missed you, hope you come back.
I'm in Canada and yes it seems we're all on at different times here...it's 6:30 pm here for me right now...my e-mail is gypsy_066@hotmail.com it doesn't seem to show but there's supposed to be an underscore between the y and the 0.
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Anyone still awake out there? I'm UK time
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HI if you can see this. need to talk!
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The universe listens
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It's so freaky...when i stopped drinking and people heard I was going to AA, a lot of friends didnt want to hang out anymore;they thought AA was weird or creepy or a cult..i'm sure a lot of you had heard that from people that you know..i was feeling so lonely, and i asked the universe every day to ple...
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Happy Mothers Day
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This is for the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up the yellow spew splattered with sprinklings of chewed up cherios soaked in Fanta saying, "Its okay honey, Mummy's here." For those who have sat up at night&nbs...
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Psst...Wendy
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Hi, looks like us nightowls are awake and kicking.
I'm going to the chat room wanna meet me there?
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Have a good Monday
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Learning New Behaviors
Sometimes well take a few steps backward. Thats okay too. Sometimes its necessary. Sometimes its part of going forward.
Life is a Gentle Teacher. She wants to help us learn.
The lessons she wants to teach us are the ones we need to learn. Some say they are the lessons we c...
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F2F meetings
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Hi everyone
Sorry I have not visited for a while. The thing is I have been diong some serious contemplating about my life and how I want to go forward. I managed to get the courage to call a contact here. She was so helpful, unjudgemental and shared with me things about her life that sounde...
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crap
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thsi is a load of p**s you lot are just about as much help asw another hole in my ass! Wishing you all the best on your recovery but I really think you aqll need to get to more meetings, specially you Phil;! What's with the GURU shite? any way CYA dudes
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Reply To Wantneeda
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Fear Of Success? Keep an open mind on this one-these are my views and my thoughts only-and the second cup of coffee is just starting to kick in.:)
When one is used as a scapegoat as a child, and told that theyll never amount to anything--it sticks. And this guy beleived it.
Lets just put the alcohol as...
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Sunday
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The battle to keep up appearances unnecessarily, the mask--whatever name you give creeping perfectionism--robs us of our energies. --Robin Worthington
How familiar we are with trying to be persons other than ourselves; ones more exciting, we think, or sexier, or smarter. We have pro...
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sorry must be pissed again
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Sorry, just looked down the list DUUUH what a dufuss
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Where is everyone?
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Thought this was the "first stop" for us guys!!~!! last topic I can see aws posted in December last year! What, suddenly theres no alchys in the world or your all "out" of recovery?
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Courage to change
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I am a drug addicted alcoholic...i'm also a double winner...aa adult child of alcoholics...todays courage to change reading i thought i'd share today.
May 8
"Yes but..." These 2 words have become a signal to me that I am refusing to accept something over which I am powerless. My world is rich with...
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all u mothers
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HAPPY MOTHERS DAY
HAVE A HAPPY SOBER DAY.
ENJOY THE MANY MOMENTS
LUV YA ALL
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Into some Dr Phil Stuff--Im not Him>:)
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Communicating with Emotional Integrity If you respond to stress or conflict with an ingrained pattern that includes avoidance, anger, denial, etc., it can get in the way of effective communication, distancing you even further from your partner. Dr. Phil suggests using the steps below in order to...
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AT SOME POINT
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Liquor ceased to be a luxury; it became a necessity."
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Thoughts For Today
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Anger is just one letter short of Danger.
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.
Patience is also a form of action
We must not give only what we have; we must give what we are
Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark
Darkness cannot dr...
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A quick update
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For those who remember my "I am so screwed up" post, I'd like to tell you that I am 13 days sober today. Since that post I've gotten a sponsor, called him every day, bought a Big Book, and been to a lot of meetings. This weekend my I'm seeing my sponsor to work the first two steps, and maybe the third. Driving h...
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Hey How?
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An oldtimer told me once "If you take in an AA meeting every night, itll spoil your drinking."
I used to go to AA meetings drunk, hungover, sober, drunk hungover, sober, --it was a viscious cycle. Somewhere along the line, when Ide lost everything there was to loose, I surrendered to the fact that no m...
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Honesty
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From "Our Survival:"
"The HONESTY expressed by the members of A.A. in meetings has the power to open my mind. Nothing can block the flow of energy that HONESTY carries with it. The only
obstacle to this flow of energy is inebriation, but even then, no one will find a closed door if he or she has left...
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Its Great To See
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Yes Ellen, its great to see this board so busy, and all the newcommers finding us. Its a pretty nice feeling to be able to be there for others, and reminds this kid each day, that no matter how long weve been sober, we are all on the same path, in the same day.
Its a great lifeline in sobriety. I remember a lo...
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glad to see this board so busy
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Finally got done reading everything on the board (had to start at the bottom of page). This board has developed into such a wonderfully good place that it has touched me deeply. We have all come a long way and we have such a great group of people. We are so blessed...have a good friday eve and...
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Main Page
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I don't think its my computer but im not sure....every other page loads quick enough,,,,this really seems to be testing my patience!! lol
Every time i go to the main page it takes foreeevvverrrr...Anyone else experiencing this??
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Hurrying up to wait?
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Hurrying up to wait?
Practicing Serenity
We often urge ourselves to hurry up when there's no good reason for it. At such times, all we really do is create needless tension and anxiety.
The slogan "Easy does it" is our answer to such calls to hurry. The slogan suggests that we simply move...
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BB quote
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"The minute we put our work on a service plane, the alcoholic commences to rely upon our assistance rather than upon God. He clamors for this or that, claiming he cannot master alcohol until his material needs are cared for. Nonsense. Some of us have taken very hard knocks to learn this truth: Job o...
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How needs enjoying advice...
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How posted at the bottom, you might want to check it out, any advicemight be helpful today. Somedays I forget to look for new post on old posts.
On my way to a meeting. Praying you all have a great evening.
(((Hugs)))
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How do I stop drinking?
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Hi Everyone,
I need to stop drinking. I attended an AA meeting last week then just drank all week anyway. I don't understand the 12 steps, I don't understand how some people have mentors or whatever, because none of that has been discussed with me by anyone from AA.
I need PRACTICAL ad...
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Need some opinions
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How does one calmly and without criticizing, convey to someone else that since theyve quit going to their program meetings, and doing readings, etc. that they are going backwards, and do so with love?
Or does one just Let Go And Let God--and hope that they will get through it all.?
At one poi...
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Wantneeda
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Wendy, I just read your update on the young man in the hospital, I will continue to pray for him and the family. I know this will be a time of searching and growth for their whole family. I am so relieved to here he is okay.
How did your daughter feel after her shring or did she say?
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How It Works
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Alcoholics Anonymous 'How it Works'
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being hon...
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URGENT REQUEST
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Hello All, I'm new here to this board. I found my way finally !
I am in need of help and hopefully someone can .
I am currently without somewhere to live. I reside in Howard County MD .
I have been sober now for 3 yrs. I've just returned from some psychological counseling that I needed to have.
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The Way of the Bull
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I jsut finished this book by Leo Buscaglia...very inspiring... just thought i'd share some quotes from it. this is the dedication.. Those with no concern for the Way; Those temporarily lost on the Way; Those diligently seeking the Way; Those who know, but are unable to follow the Way; Those who simpl...
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IT IS NOT ENOUGH
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It is not enough to have a dream, unless I'm willing to persue it.
It is not enough to know what is right, unless I'm strong enough to do it.
It is not enough to join the crowd, to be acknowledged and accepted.
I must be true to my ideas, even if I'm excluded and rejected.
It is not enough to learn the t...
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That's suppose to be encouraging advice
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Nothing wrong with me a meeting won't take care of. LOL
(((Hugs))) GammyRose
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First e-share
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Hi all
I've just joined, I feel I need to share something with you all.
Well I must say looking back now I am pretty bemused by my life and how it has turned out. I 'celebrated' my 1st birthday last month which is wonderful and I have changed completely how I look and feel. Yet I look at the aspects of...
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Warnings about Alcohol
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Click For Warnings About Alcohol
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All comes down to choice...
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Just wanted to let you in on some happenings in my life at THIS moment in time.... I've really been trying to get back to the basics of my tools. In treatment i was taught to do regular spot checks throughout the day....what am i thinking,...what am i feeling. Getting into the swing of life on lifes terms,...
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