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Turning It Over
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Do your best and leave to God the rest. -- Proverb
There comes a time in facing a challenge when we have done all that we can, and still the situation remains unresolved. This is the time to turn the problem over and release our cares into the hands of spirit. When we let the Universe take charge, anythin...
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just checkin in...
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Hey y'all... Well, my back is better, the sciatica is mostly better... I'm driving again, getting to meetings, only a bit of problems with my leg after the long drives, but tolerable enough... went to a couple of really good meetings the past 2 nights, Sunday I went to my old homegroup in Memphis, a 1...
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Introductory post/Epiphone
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Okay, this is Cut/pasted from my blog, where ill try to keep track of my progress at http://diaryofamadman11.blogspot.com/ mainly cause retyping it would be a bitch. Okay, tail end of one of the worst benders of my life...8 days long prolly, all day/night basically (including on the job which is...
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Health questions
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Hello, I have been drinking since I was 12 years old, and very heavily in the past 5 years, I am 27 now. After many blackouts and few bouts of vomitting up a large amount of blood. (where it came from, my stomach? I have no idea) I decided to try giving the old cold turkey a shot. It has now been about 6 days sinc...
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Confession
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I have not been to a meeting in 3 months!!! Yet..... I feel I am progressing, and have gone through tough emotional tests and came out strong with my faith intact and sober. I know I'm doing the wrong thing.....but I've rationalized that the $$ and family are where I should spend my time, and I have. But....
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I did something ugly today....
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My granny would have labeled it "ugly" & then she'd say "God don't like ugly" ..It was silly, petty and childish..But it's buggin the crap outta me. I'd readily call my sponsor but she's out of town this week..... so, ya'll get ready laugh. There are soooo many other things...
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Daily Reflections 11/28
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ATTRACTION, NOT PROMOTION Through many painful experiences, we think we have arrived at what that policy ought to be. It is the opposite in many ways of usual promotional practice. We found that we had to rely upon the principle of attraction rather than promotion. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITION...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 27th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The way of A.A. is the way of sobriety, fellowship, service, and faith. Let us take up each one of these things and see if our feet are truly on the way. The first and greatest to us is sobriety. The others are built on sobriety as a foundation. We could not have the others if we did no...
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We Can Trust Ourselves
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For many of us, the issue is not whether we can trust another person again; it's whether we can trust our own judgment again.
"The last mistake I made almost cost me my sanity," said one recovering woman who married a sex addict. "I can't afford to make another mistake like that.&quo...
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Happy Birthday Ironman 1yr Today!
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Congratulations on your 1st Anniversay, Jarrod! Happy Sober Day! I hope you're enjoying the best your life has to offer today. May more be revealed as you troop onwards & upwards 1Day@aTime. Well Done, dear. You're a real inspiration. Keep on keeping on & in all your hard won work & effor...
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Daily Reflections 11/27
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THE PERILS OF THE LIMELIGHT In the beginning, the press could not understand our refusal of all personal publicity. They were genuinely baffled by our insistence upon anonymity. Then they got the point. Here was something rare in the world -- a society which said it wished to publicize its principle...
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Daily Struggles...
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So this will be my first post since checking out this site. Since then a lot has happened. Finally did the detox thing which was a walk through hell and back. Amidst all that turmoil, after 17 years I finally laid eyes on my biological Father for the first time in my life. There are no hard feelings between...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 26th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Continuing our thoughts about the rewards that have come to us as a result of our new way of living, we have found that we have got rid of many of our fears, resentments, inferiority complexes, negative points of view, self-centeredness, criticism of others, over-sensitive...
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welcome back
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Hey Dean: Saw you were on...Welcome back, and hope you had a great trip with your wife!!! Lani
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 25th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I am not so envious of other people, nor am I jealous of other people's possessions and talents. When I was drinking, I was secretly full of jealousy and envy of those people who could drink normally, who had the love and respect of their families, who lived a normal life and were...
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FAO MIP ~ Post for DannyC
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Hello, All@MIP. I have my settings adjusted so that I can see most recently added to posts so this from DannyC came up but it's originally from April earlier this year. Danny has added to it today. I may have used a clumsy way of going about it but have copied & pasted so everyone can catch up with Danny...
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Daily Reflections 11/26
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THE HAZARDS OF PUBLICITY People who symbolize causes and ideas fill a deep human need. We of A.A. do not question that. But we do have to soberly face the fact that being in the public eye is hazardous, especially for us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 181 As a recovered alcoholic I must make an ef...
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Letting Go of Self-Criticism
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Look how far we've come!
It's good to focus on the task ahead, on what remains to be done. It's important to stop and feel pleased about what we've accomplished too.
Yes, it may seem that the change has been slow. At times, change is grueling. Yes, we've taken steps backward. But we're right where we...
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AA and NA
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I go to AA and NA as well my AA seams to be longer then NA but ? is does anyone say NA is sep from AA when I go to NA they say alcohol is a drug. according to a few in AA its a diffrent matter I think so to sorry for off topic
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The family afterwards - ES&H
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"Years of lining with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is, to some extent, ill." Let families realize, as they start their journey, that all will not be fair weather. AA BB, Ch.9 Before coming into AA I thought my drinking only affected me! T...
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Awareness
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When we first become aware of a problem, a situation, or a feeling, we may react with anxiety or fear. There is no need to fear awareness. No need.
Awareness is the first step toward positive change and growth. It's the first step toward solving the problem, or getting the need met, the first step towa...
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Daily Reflections 11/25
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A POWERFUL TRADITION In the years before the publication of the book "Alcoholics Anonymous," we had no name. . .by a narrow majority the verdict was for naming our book "The Way Out." . . .One of our early lone members. . . found exactly twelve books already titled "The Way O...
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Dealing with extreme physical pain
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I am in excruciating pain. I have a nevve disease called shingles and it is the most painful thing in the world. I have made myself make meetings although misserable through them as all I want to do is ly down. Because I am an addict it is very hard to get narcotic pain meds. If every I needed them it is no...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 24th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Instead of pretending to be perfectionists, in A.A. we are content if we are making progress. The main thing is to be growing. We realize that perfectionism is only a result of false pride and an excuse to save our faces. In A.A. we are willing to make mistakes and to stumble, pro...
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Daily Reflections 11/24
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A UNIVERSAL SEARCH Be quick to see where religious people are right. Make use of what they offer. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 87 I do not claim to have all the answers in spiritual matters, any more than I claim to have all the answers about alcoholism. There are others who are also engaged in a spiritual se...
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I Need Help!
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In a few minutes I will be leaving to go to my second meeting of the day. I am totally freaked out! I have 6-1/2 years in the program and feel as though I am trying to get sober for the first time. I lost my job in February and then got a new one last month. I have chronic back pain and have not been able to last...
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Living One Day At A Time
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I went to sleep with gum in my mouth and now there's gum in my hair and when I got out of bed this morning I tripped on the skateboard and by mistake I dropped my sweater in the sink while the water was running and I could tell it was going to be a terrible day. -- Judith Viorst
Some days, for all our good intent...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 23rd Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I no longer refuse to do anything because I cannot do it to perfection. Many of us alcoholics use the excuse of not being able to do something perfectly to enable us to do nothing at all. We pretend to be perfectionists. We are good at telling people how a thing should be done, but w...
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1 Year No Booze November!!!!!!
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Hey Gang! I have only browsed the forum lately, ut I wanted to report that on the 26th, I'll have 1 year since I quit drinking! My life is great in all areas now. 1. Marriage is great 2. Family relationships great 3. Energy is normalized 4. Work is going great I can't complain and I must also Thank GOD for my o...
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Letting Go of Worry
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What if we knew for certain that everything we're worried about today will work out fine?
What if . . . we had a guarantee that the problem bothering us would be worked out in the most perfect way, and at the best possible time? Furthermore, what if we knew that three years from now we'd be grateful for th...
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Daily Reflections 11/23
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HOLD YOUR FACE TO THE LIGHT Believe more deeply. Hold your face up to the Light, even though for the moment you do not see. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 3 One Sunday in October, during my morning meditation, I glanced out the window at the ash tree in our front yard. At once I was overwhelmed by its magnificent, golde...
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Just me...
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Hey y'all... Well, I'm doing much better... as long as I don't overdo it... and I'm bad about overdoing it lol I think I'm still not supposed to be driving... but I drove to town yesterday, about 7 miles away, and did a little shopping and picked up prescriptions... was hurting on the drive home, b...
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The Magic of Gratitude and Acceptance
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Gratitude and acceptance are two magic tricks available to us in recovery. No matter who we are, where we are, or what we have, gratitude and acceptance work.
We may eventually become so happy that we realize our present circumstances are good. Or we master our present circumstances and then move f...
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A Thanksgiving Poem
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When I was a young turkey, new to the coop, My big brother Mike took me out on the stoop; Then he sat me down, and he spoke real slow, And he told me there was something that I had to know. His look and his tone I will always remember, When he told me of the horrors of ... Black November; "Come about August,...
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING
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Happy Thanksgiving to all of my dear friends!! May it be a very special day for everyone!! I realize the holidays are probably difficult for a lot of us but this year I plan to put one of the slogans to work! "Keep it simple!" Im hosting the day and everyone coming over is either in the program or...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 22nd Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I have got rid of most of my boredom. One of the hardest things that a new member of A.A. has to understand is how to stay sober and not be bored. Drinking was always the answer to all kinds of boring people or boring situations. But once you have taken up the interest of A.A., once yo...
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Financial Fears
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I sat in the car, looking at the sign on the door of the food shelf office: "Closed until Friday." It was Wednesday. I had two hungry children and myself; I had no money.
I laid my head on the steering wheel. I couldn't take it anymore.
I had been so strong, so brave, so trusting for so long. I...
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Daily Reflections 11/22
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ONLY TWO SINS . . . . there are only two sins; the first is to interfere with the growth of another human being, and the second is to interfere with one's own growth. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 542 Happiness is such an elusive state. How often do my "prayers" for others involve "hidden&qu...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 21st Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I no longer waste money, but try to put it to good use. Like all of us, when I was drunk, I threw money around like I really had it. it gave me a feelng of importance-a millionaire for a day. But the morning after, with an empty wallet and perhaps some undecipherable checks, was a sad...
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Video Input was appreciated (Please Read)
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I got over 500 replies regarding the Miracles In Progress Aftercare Recovery House Video. Your comments suggestions, questions and opinions were fabulous and surely encouraged me and will help me with polishing it up a bit as I move forward with this endeavor. Many, many thanks to those who are p...
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Just little ole me
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Hi folks Just thought drop in and say hi, Ummmm it's that time of year again, let it snow let it snow. lol. Things are going ok, not bad, not good but ok. Just greatful I'm sober, had to deal with some frustration and let a few things bother me. But I've kept close to my Higher power and sooner or later thing...
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Daily Reflections 11/21
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SERVING MY BROTHER The member talks to the newcomer not in a spirit of power but in a spirit of humility and weakness. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE p. 279 As the days pass in A.A., I ask God to guide my thoughts and the words that I speak. In this labor of continuous participation in the Fellowship, I h...
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piece of wisdom for the day
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spoke to a friend today and she reminded me that the universe is in a state of joy. it's just that we aren't! (all the time anyway) i've never heard it put in that exact way before, thought it was good.
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 20th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I no longer try to escape life through alcoholism. Drinking built up an unreal world for me and I tried to live in it. But in the morning light the real life was back again and facing it was harder than ever, because I had less resources with which to meet it. Each attempt at escape w...
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Ativan
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I just started taking Ativan two days ago. Does anyone else take this? Can you tell me if it helped?
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Daily Reflections 11/20
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"THY WILL, NOT MINE" . . . when making specific requests, it will be well to add to each one of them this qualification. ." . . . if it be Thy will." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 102-03 I ask simply that throughout the day God place in me the best understanding of His will th...
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Wants and Needs
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So many of us have been brainwashed to think that we can't have what we want in life. That is the belief of the martyr. It is born of deprivation and fear.
Identifying what we want and need, then writing it down, sets in motion a powerful chain of events. It indicates that we are taking responsibility fo...
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Anyone in Minneapolis area?
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Been in out out of recovery for the past decade or so. Had six years under my belt at one point but have been relapsing for the past year and have finally made my way back into sobriety. I'm a 32 yr. old male and interested in connecting with others on this board to hear about various meetings in the TC area...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 19th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we do not speak much of sex. And yet putting sex in its proper place in our lives is one of the rewards that has come to us as a result of our new way of living. The Big Book says that many of us needed an overhauling there. It also says that we subjected each sex relation to this t...
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Funny but True things youve heard said at meetings
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Hi eveyone ! Havent posted in awhile , but Im still sober and just made 5 Mos. (again). In the 14 years of being in the program , Ive heard some things that were so funny they made me cry , Yet they were SO true ! I thought I would post 2 of the best ones . I hope you might post some youve heard , after all, life CAN be...
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