Alcoholics Anonymous

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Good going Dodsworth, I know it wasn't easy moving and all. -- Edited by StPeteDean at 15:34, 2009-03-12

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 16, 2009Emotional SobrietyIf I examine every disturbance I have, great or small, I will find at the root of it some unhealthy dependency and its consequent unhealthy demand. With God's help, I will continually surrender these hobbling liabil...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It p. 75 Losing Financial Fears When a job still looked like a mere means of getting money rather than an opportunity for service, when the acquisition of money for financial independence looked more important than a right independence upon God, we were the victims of unreasonable fears...

cramcj01 · cramcj01

I few days back I had worte asking if any of you had people close in your lives that 'just don't get it.' I've heard over and over that unless you have the disease you will never be able to understand. But if someone is going to be in your life, don't they need to at least agree with the facts? I've been datin...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Breach The Walls Of Ego, p. 74 People who are driven by pride of self unconsciously blind themselves to their liabilities. Newcomers of this sort scarcely need comforting. The problem is to help them discover a chink in the walls their ego has built, through which the light of reason ca...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net) March 14, 2009 Fear I had been abnormally fearful. It mattered little whether I sat on the shore of life drinking myself into forgetfulnessor plunged in recklessly and willfully beyond my depth and ability. The result was the same -- I had ne...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

When we saw others solve their problems by a simple reliance upon the Spirit of the Universe, we had to stop doubting the power of God. Our ideas did not work. But the God idea did. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 52 Like a blind man gradually being restored to sight, I slowly groped my way to the Third Step. Havi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day We alcoholics were on a merry go-round, going round and round, and we couldn't get off. That merry go round is a kind of hell on earth. In A.A. I got off that merry go-round by learning to stay sober. I pray to my Higher Power every morning to help me to keep sober. And I get the strengt...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees ItPg. 73 Two-Way Tolerance "Your point of view was once mine. Fortunately, A.A. is constructed so that we need not debate the existence of God; but for best results, most of us must depend upon a Higher Power. You say the group is your Higher Power, and no right minded A.A. would chal...

Jane05 · Jane05

Pocket SponsorIt doesn't pay to argue with "slippers" about the proper way of getting sober. Why should people who are still drinking and drugging tell those who are sober why it can't be done! We learn not to get in a pissing contest with a skunk. (or should we say drunk!) The only thing I ne...

Jane05 · Jane05

"As We See It"March 13 I am not one of those people that wakes up with blue skies, white clouds, and chirpring birds and says, "Gee, I feel so good today, I think I'll work those 12 steps!" My experience has been that the s%$# hits the fan, all hell breaks loose, my back is against th...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Dependence--Unhealthy or Healthy, p. 72 "Nothing can be more demoralizing than a clinging and abject dependence upon another human being. This often amounts to the demand for a degree of protection and love that no one could possibly satisfy. So our hoped-for protectors final...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 13, 2009HopeHope is the true gift of the program.I have hope that things will get better in my life as long as I stay sober.I have hope that I can get through any difficulty sober,with the hope that you people give to me. - Anonymous Thought to Ponder ....

Jane05 · Jane05

Don't let the therapeutically "correct" way to run a group hijack your meeting. Leaders are reluctant to cut a newcomer off for fear of shaming their inner child, rejecting them, or appearing to be mean. We are not therapy and we can't share with them if they can't listen. I do not let the n...

Jane05 · Jane05

Congratulation cramcj01 (Crystal)!!!!! -- Edited by Jane05 at 10:58, 2009-03-11

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Happy Birthday To me. I just got back from laying on the beach, now I'm going to lay down, watch a movie and take a nap. -- Edited by StPeteDean at 17:02, 2009-03-08

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

On awakening let us think of the twenty-four hours ahead. We consider our plans for the day. Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 Every day I ask God to kindle within me...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day The Prodigal Son "took his journey into a far country and wasted his substance with riotous living." That's what we alcoholics do. We waste our substance with riotous living. "When he came to himself, he said, 'I will arise and go to my father.'" That's w...

gary4u · gary4u

The most difficult part in life is fighting craving. We could have stopped drinking, all is well, we are going about our business etc trying to behave all is normal like an non-alcoholic person lives his life , but then there is something deep down lays a very dangerous feeling , which can change a pe...

Jane05 · Jane05

"As We See It"March 12Thanks to Doug G. for today's AWSI: I used to run around carefully filming everything 'you did to me' with my 'resentment recording machine.' Then I would go home and replay it . . . in living color . . . with the sound turned up . .. fully enhanced . . . while nursing a drink (...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It "How Can You Roll With A Punch?", p. 71 On the day that the calamity of Pearl Harbor fell upon our country, a great friend of A.A. was walking along a St. Louis street. Father Edward Dowling was not an alcoholic, but he had been one of the founders of the struggling A.A. group in hi...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 12, 2009ToleranceWhen I am honest with myself and others I will get sober, but it is tolerance that keeps me that way. When I fully realize that I can't get well alone, I will somehow find a way to get well and stay wellin the company of others. I...

Quetzal · Quetzal

If we could untangle the mysteries of life and unravel the energies which run through the world; if we could evaluate correctly the significance of passing events; if we could measure the struggles, dilemmas, and aspirations of mankind, we could find that nothing is born out of time. Everything com...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)~ Scroll down for share ~March 11, 2009FreedomThe Big Book promises that I am going to know a new freedomand a new happiness, that I will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it, and that I will comprehend the word serenity and wi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

It is when we try to make our will conform with Gods that we begin to use it rightly. To all of us, this was a most wonderful revelation. Our whole trouble had been the misuse of willpower. We had tried to bombard our problems with it instead of attempting to bring it into agreement with Gods intention for u...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day By having quiet times each morning, we come to depend on God's help during the day, especially if we should be tempted to take a drink. And we can honestly thank Him each night for the strength He has given us. So our faith is strengthened by these quiet times of prayer. By listenin...

Dodsworth · Dodsworth

I just wanted to post a positive thread, maybe try and balance out my thread history :) I haven't had a drink in 28 days, and I feel great. Well, great might be a little much, but I feel soo much better today than I have in a loooong time. Everything fell into place this morning. I got a new guitar student, I c...

Jane05 · Jane05

"As We See It"March 11 Thanks to Walt for this morning's AWSI: For me insanity was not just doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results . . . . My experience with insanity is that I did the same things over and over again, KNOWING I was going to get the same result! Toda...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Truth, the Liberator, p. 70 How truth makes us free is something that we A.A.'s can well understand. It cut the shackles that once bound us to alcohol. It continues to release us from conflicts and miseries beyond reckoning; it banishes fear and isolation. The unity of our Fellowship, t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes, the way is not clear. Our minds get clouded, confused. We aren't certain what our next step should be, what it will look like, what direction we are headed. This is the time to stop, ask for guidance, and rest. That is the time to let go of fear. Wait. Feel the confusion and chaos, and then l...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

Have any of you heard of this place, or taken any of their classes? http://www.bkwsu.com If so, I'm curious as to how you find them. They have a location where I live. I've done the introductory (meditation) course and will continue on with the intermediate and advanced. scott

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.62 With the realization and acceptance that I had played a part in the way my life had turned out came a dramatic change in my outlook. It was at th...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day We also strengthen our faith by working with other alcoholics and finding that we can do nothing ourselves to help them, except to tell them our own story of how we found the way out. If the other person is helped, it's by the grace of God and not by what we do or say. Our own faith is st...

Jane05 · Jane05

Pocket Sponsor QuoteOne way to tell how well you are practicing the principles in all your affairs is to notice how you treat people who can be of no service to you. I go out of my way to be kind to the very next person I encounter, regardless of what they can or cannot do for me.

Tee81 · Tee81

I posted to the other board by mistake. I'm having a really difficult time. I want to get through this but I really need a friend. I've lost most of my friends due to the addiction. I feel like it's taken my personality from me, like it's taken almost everything from me. I'm 28 and I can't hold down a job. I am...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Giving Without Demand, p. 69 Watch any A.A. of six months working with a Twelfth Step prospect. If the newcomer says, "To the devil with you," the twelfth-stepper only smiles and finds another alcoholic to help. He doesn't feel frustrated or rejected. If his next drunk resp...

Jane05 · Jane05

AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 10, 2009Keys to SobrietyThe Twelve Steps as a way of life,daily prayer, and continuing work with new peopleare the keys to sobriety.I have observed over the yearsthat a lot of people can come in and stay sober for a year or two,and then they go away...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I was forty-six years old before I finally admitted to myself and someone else that my grandfather always managed to make me feel guilty, angry, and controlled. -- Anonymous We may love and care about our family very much. Family members may love and care about us. But interacting with some members...

yvonne · yvonne

i am 20 months sober and just finished my 4th step for the second time. i was sober 13 years ago for 6 years and went back out. i am looking for someone who has longer sobriety to help me through all this. i am in north cyprus right now and i am moving to the virgin islands at the end of the month. i really am looki...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We cannot simultaneously set a boundary and take care of another person's feelings. It's impossible; the two acts contradict. What a tremendous asset to have compassion for others! How difficult that same quality can make it to set boundaries! It's good to care about other people and their fee...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Renew Your Effort, p. 68 "Though I know how hurt and sorry you must be after this slip, please do not worry about a temporary loss of your inner peace. As calmly as you can, just renew your effort in the A.A. program, especially those parts of it which have to do with meditation and self...

Jane05 · Jane05

As Bill Sees It Thousands of "Founders", p. 67 "While I thank God that I was privileged to be an early member of A.A., I honestly wish that the word 'founder' could be eliminated from the A.A. vocabulary. "When you get right down to it, everyone who has done any amount of successfu...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 34 No matter how much one wishes to try, exactly how can one turn his own will and his own life over to the care of whatever God he thinks there is? In my search for the answer to thi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day If we had absolute faith in the power of God to keep us from drinking and if we turned our drink problem entirely over to God without reservations, we wouldn't have to do anything more about it. We'd be free from drink once and for all. But since our faith is apt to be weak, we have to s...

Deafhawk · Deafhawk

Nobody got rocketed anywhere in the physical world until the 1960s. So, the writer in the 1930s who wrote we have been rocketed into a fourth dimension of existence wasnt referring to transportation, he was referring to transformation. It is easy for us who have seen men walk on the moon to miss that...

Jane05 · Jane05

March 9, 2009 Quote of the Week "Those who laugh - last." I remember hearing the phrase, "We are not a glum lot" when I was new in recovery - I didn't believe it. I mean, here I was sentenced to attending meetings, prohibited from partying, and forced to believe in God. Things loo...

Paul Dylan · Paul Dylan

Hello everyone, i'm new. I basically am after some advice, as I know I have a serious drink problem, and have made my families lives a living hell. I haven't plucked up the courage to visit a meeting, but I will do and very soon. I need to know if a meeting is going to help me.

New member here... · newlife2009

Hi, to everyone.. do not know where to exactly start but I let the stress of daily life get to me and I drink just about everyday, after work, but I have quit (11 days now)... I really dont crave a drink but I feel lonely and nervous. Boy I feel dumb writing this... but I do want to become free of the hab...

Codependent2 · Codependent2

Went to Celebrate Recovery. Went to small group for chemical dependency. In the meeting we discussed our experience and I talked about how I had gone away from God after growing up in church. I talked about how I am finding my way back and rediscovering my faith. One of the girls inthe group spoke up...

Codependent2 · Codependent2

My apologies for the comments on religion. I crossed a boundary by mistake and I am sincerely sorry.

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	Congrats to Dodsworth on 1 month! (Preview) Good going Dodsworth, I know it wasn't easy moving and all. -- Edited by StPeteDean at 15:34, 2009-03-12	StPeteDean	8	374	Mar 16, 2009 by lani
	Emotional Sobriety (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 16, 2009Emotional SobrietyIf I examine every disturbance I have, great or small, I will find at the root of it some unhealthy dependency and its consequent unhealthy demand. With God's help, I will continually surrender these hobbling liabil...	Jane05	0	274	Mar 16, 2009 by Jane05
	Losing Financial Fears (Preview) As Bill Sees It p. 75 Losing Financial Fears When a job still looked like a mere means of getting money rather than an opportunity for service, when the acquisition of money for financial independence looked more important than a right independence upon God, we were the victims of unreasonable fears...	Jane05	0	317	Mar 16, 2009 by Jane05
	Continued..... (Preview) I few days back I had worte asking if any of you had people close in your lives that 'just don't get it.' I've heard over and over that unless you have the disease you will never be able to understand. But if someone is going to be in your life, don't they need to at least agree with the facts? I've been datin...	cramcj01	10	438	Mar 15, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Breach The Walls Of Ego (Preview) As Bill Sees It Breach The Walls Of Ego, p. 74 People who are driven by pride of self unconsciously blind themselves to their liabilities. Newcomers of this sort scarcely need comforting. The problem is to help them discover a chink in the walls their ego has built, through which the light of reason ca...	Jane05	1	301	Mar 15, 2009 by Dodsworth
	Fear (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net) March 14, 2009 Fear I had been abnormally fearful. It mattered little whether I sat on the shore of life drinking myself into forgetfulnessor plunged in recklessly and willfully beyond my depth and ability. The result was the same -- I had ne...	Jane05	1	271	Mar 15, 2009 by eastcoastscott
	Daily Reflections ~ The God Idea (Preview) When we saw others solve their problems by a simple reliance upon the Spirit of the Universe, we had to stop doubting the power of God. Our ideas did not work. But the God idea did. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 52 Like a blind man gradually being restored to sight, I slowly groped my way to the Third Step. Havi...	Sobrietyspell	1	490	Mar 15, 2009 by Jane05
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 15th March 09 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day We alcoholics were on a merry go-round, going round and round, and we couldn't get off. That merry go round is a kind of hell on earth. In A.A. I got off that merry go-round by learning to stay sober. I pray to my Higher Power every morning to help me to keep sober. And I get the strengt...	Sobrietyspell	0	294	Mar 15, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Two-Way Tolerance (Preview) As Bill Sees ItPg. 73 Two-Way Tolerance "Your point of view was once mine. Fortunately, A.A. is constructed so that we need not debate the existence of God; but for best results, most of us must depend upon a Higher Power. You say the group is your Higher Power, and no right minded A.A. would chal...	Jane05	2	374	Mar 14, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Pocket Sponsor (Preview) Pocket SponsorIt doesn't pay to argue with "slippers" about the proper way of getting sober. Why should people who are still drinking and drugging tell those who are sober why it can't be done! We learn not to get in a pissing contest with a skunk. (or should we say drunk!) The only thing I ne...	Jane05	0	262	Mar 14, 2009 by Jane05
	As We See It (Preview) *"As We See It"*March 13 I am not one of those people that wakes up with blue skies, white clouds, and chirpring birds and says, "Gee, I feel so good today, I think I'll work those 12 steps!" My experience has been that the s%$# hits the fan, all hell breaks loose, my back is against th...	Jane05	0	559	Mar 13, 2009 by Jane05
	Dependence--Unhealthy or Healthy (Preview) As Bill Sees It Dependence--Unhealthy or Healthy, p. 72 "Nothing can be more demoralizing than a clinging and abject dependence upon another human being. This often amounts to the demand for a degree of protection and love that no one could possibly satisfy. So our hoped-for protectors final...	Jane05	0	1142	Mar 13, 2009 by Jane05
	Hope (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 13, 2009HopeHope is the true gift of the program.I have hope that things will get better in my life as long as I stay sober.I have hope that I can get through any difficulty sober,with the hope that you people give to me. - Anonymous Thought to Ponder ....	Jane05	0	251	Mar 13, 2009 by Jane05
	Pocket Sponsor (Preview) Don't let the therapeutically "correct" way to run a group hijack your meeting. Leaders are reluctant to cut a newcomer off for fear of shaming their inner child, rejecting them, or appearing to be mean. We are not therapy and we can't share with them if they can't listen. *I do not let the n...*	Jane05	0	291	Mar 13, 2009 by Jane05
	"Six Months"!!! (Preview) Congratulation cramcj01 (Crystal)!!!!! -- Edited by Jane05 at 10:58, 2009-03-11	Jane05	13	429	Mar 13, 2009 by StPeteDean
	OK, I guess someone had to do it. (Preview) Happy Birthday To me. I just got back from laying on the beach, now I'm going to lay down, watch a movie and take a nap. -- Edited by StPeteDean at 17:02, 2009-03-08	StPeteDean	14	446	Mar 12, 2009 by Ms London
	Daily Reflections ~ A Day's Plan (Preview) On awakening let us think of the twenty-four hours ahead. We consider our plans for the day. Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 Every day I ask God to kindle within me...	Sobrietyspell	0	307	Mar 12, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 12th March 09 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day The Prodigal Son "took his journey into a far country and wasted his substance with riotous living." That's what we alcoholics do. We waste our substance with riotous living. "When he came to himself, he said, 'I will arise and go to my father.'" That's w...	Sobrietyspell	0	368	Mar 12, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Fighting the CRAVING (Preview) The most difficult part in life is fighting craving. We could have stopped drinking, all is well, we are going about our business etc trying to behave all is normal like an non-alcoholic person lives his life , but then there is something deep down lays a very dangerous feeling , which can change a pe...	gary4u	6	1163	Mar 12, 2009 by StPeteDean
	As We See It (Preview) "As We See It"March 12Thanks to Doug G. for today's AWSI: I used to run around carefully filming everything 'you did to me' with my 'resentment recording machine.' Then I would go home and replay it . . . in living color . . . with the sound turned up . .. fully enhanced . . . while nursing a drink (...	Jane05	0	324	Mar 12, 2009 by Jane05
	How Can You Roll With A Punch? (Preview) As Bill Sees It "How Can You Roll With A Punch?", p. 71 On the day that the calamity of Pearl Harbor fell upon our country, a great friend of A.A. was walking along a St. Louis street. Father Edward Dowling was not an alcoholic, but he had been one of the founders of the struggling A.A. group in hi...	Jane05	0	321	Mar 12, 2009 by Jane05
	Tolerance (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 12, 2009ToleranceWhen I am honest with myself and others I will get sober, but it is tolerance that keeps me that way. When I fully realize that I can't get well alone, I will somehow find a way to get well and stay wellin the company of others. I...	Jane05	0	449	Mar 12, 2009 by Jane05
	Timing (Preview) If we could untangle the mysteries of life and unravel the energies which run through the world; if we could evaluate correctly the significance of passing events; if we could measure the struggles, dilemmas, and aspirations of mankind, we could find that nothing is born out of time. Everything com...	Quetzal	0	277	Mar 12, 2009 by Quetzal
	AA Thought for the Day & a Share (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)~ Scroll down for share ~March 11, 2009FreedomThe Big Book promises that I am going to know a new freedomand a new happiness, that I will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it, and that I will comprehend the word serenity and wi...	Jane05	2	1206	Mar 11, 2009 by Jane05
	Daily Reflections ~ Good Orderly Direction (Preview) It is when we try to make our will conform with Gods that we begin to use it rightly. To all of us, this was a most wonderful revelation. Our whole trouble had been the misuse of willpower. We had tried to bombard our problems with it instead of attempting to bring it into agreement with Gods intention for u...	Sobrietyspell	0	392	Mar 11, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 11th March 09 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day By having quiet times each morning, we come to depend on God's help during the day, especially if we should be tempted to take a drink. And we can honestly thank Him each night for the strength He has given us. So our faith is strengthened by these quiet times of prayer. By listenin...	Sobrietyspell	0	430	Mar 11, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Things are really good, at least for today. (Preview) I just wanted to post a positive thread, maybe try and balance out my thread history :) I haven't had a drink in 28 days, and I feel great. Well, great might be a little much, but I feel soo much better today than I have in a loooong time. Everything fell into place this morning. I got a new guitar student, I c...	Dodsworth	10	393	Mar 11, 2009 by cramcj01
	As We See It (Preview) *"As We See It"*March 11 Thanks to Walt for this morning's AWSI: For me insanity was not just doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results . . . . My experience with insanity is that I did the same things over and over again, KNOWING I was going to get the same result! Toda...	Jane05	0	289	Mar 11, 2009 by Jane05
	Truth, the Liberator (Preview) As Bill Sees It Truth, the Liberator, p. 70 How truth makes us free is something that we A.A.'s can well understand. It cut the shackles that once bound us to alcohol. It continues to release us from conflicts and miseries beyond reckoning; it banishes fear and isolation. The unity of our Fellowship, t...	Jane05	0	484	Mar 11, 2009 by Jane05
	Letting Go of Confusion (Preview) Sometimes, the way is not clear. Our minds get clouded, confused. We aren't certain what our next step should be, what it will look like, what direction we are headed. This is the time to stop, ask for guidance, and rest. That is the time to let go of fear. Wait. Feel the confusion and chaos, and then l...	Quetzal	0	521	Mar 11, 2009 by Quetzal
	Meditation courses? (Preview) Have any of you heard of this place, or taken any of their classes? http://www.bkwsu.com If so, I'm curious as to how you find them. They have a location where I live. I've done the introductory (meditation) course and will continue on with the intermediate and advanced. scott	eastcoastscott	0	297	Mar 10, 2009 by eastcoastscott
	Daily Reflections ~ Today, It's My Choice (Preview) . . . we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.62 With the realization and acceptance that I had played a part in the way my life had turned out came a dramatic change in my outlook. It was at th...	Sobrietyspell	0	666	Mar 10, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 10th March 09 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day We also strengthen our faith by working with other alcoholics and finding that we can do nothing ourselves to help them, except to tell them our own story of how we found the way out. If the other person is helped, it's by the grace of God and not by what we do or say. Our own faith is st...	Sobrietyspell	0	477	Mar 10, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Pocket Sponsor (Preview) Pocket Sponsor QuoteOne way to tell how well you are practicing the principles in all your affairs is to notice how you treat people who can be of no service to you. I go out of my way to be kind to the very next person I encounter, regardless of what they can or cannot do for me.	Jane05	1	238	Mar 10, 2009 by Tee81
	I'm really confused. (Preview) I posted to the other board by mistake. I'm having a really difficult time. I want to get through this but I really need a friend. I've lost most of my friends due to the addiction. I feel like it's taken my personality from me, like it's taken almost everything from me. I'm 28 and I can't hold down a job. I am...	Tee81	12	445	Mar 10, 2009 by Tee81
	Giving Without Demand (Preview) As Bill Sees It Giving Without Demand, p. 69 Watch any A.A. of six months working with a Twelfth Step prospect. If the newcomer says, "To the devil with you," the twelfth-stepper only smiles and finds another alcoholic to help. He doesn't feel frustrated or rejected. If his next drunk resp...	Jane05	1	276	Mar 10, 2009 by Jane05
	Keys to Sobriety (Preview) AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 10, 2009Keys to SobrietyThe Twelve Steps as a way of life,daily prayer, and continuing work with new peopleare the keys to sobriety.I have observed over the yearsthat a lot of people can come in and stay sober for a year or two,and then they go away...	Jane05	0	295	Mar 10, 2009 by Jane05
	Living with Families (Preview) I was forty-six years old before I finally admitted to myself and someone else that my grandfather always managed to make me feel guilty, angry, and controlled. -- Anonymous We may love and care about our family very much. Family members may love and care about us. But interacting with some members...	Quetzal	1	237	Mar 10, 2009 by Jane05
	looking for a member to email and share with me (Preview) i am 20 months sober and just finished my 4th step for the second time. i was sober 13 years ago for 6 years and went back out. i am looking for someone who has longer sobriety to help me through all this. i am in north cyprus right now and i am moving to the virgin islands at the end of the month. i really am looki...	yvonne	3	324	Mar 10, 2009 by gary4u
	Taking Care of Ourselves (Preview) We cannot simultaneously set a boundary and take care of another person's feelings. It's impossible; the two acts contradict. What a tremendous asset to have compassion for others! How difficult that same quality can make it to set boundaries! It's good to care about other people and their fee...	Quetzal	2	249	Mar 9, 2009 by lucaskywalker
	Renew Your Effort (Preview) As Bill Sees It Renew Your Effort, p. 68 "Though I know how hurt and sorry you must be after this slip, please do not worry about a temporary loss of your inner peace. As calmly as you can, just renew your effort in the A.A. program, especially those parts of it which have to do with meditation and self...	Jane05	1	248	Mar 9, 2009 by lucaskywalker
	Thousands of "Founders" (Preview) As Bill Sees It Thousands of "Founders", p. 67 "While I thank God that I was privileged to be an early member of A.A., I honestly wish that the word 'founder' could be eliminated from the A.A. vocabulary. "When you get right down to it, everyone who has done any amount of successfu...	Jane05	1	294	Mar 9, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections ~ Surrendering Self-Will (Preview) Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 34 No matter how much one wishes to try, exactly how can one turn his own will and his own life over to the care of whatever God he thinks there is? In my search for the answer to thi...	Sobrietyspell	0	410	Mar 9, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 9th March 09 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day If we had absolute faith in the power of God to keep us from drinking and if we turned our drink problem entirely over to God without reservations, we wouldn't have to do anything more about it. We'd be free from drink once and for all. But since our faith is apt to be weak, we have to s...	Sobrietyspell	0	269	Mar 9, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Fourth Dimension of Existence p.25 (Preview) Nobody got rocketed anywhere in the physical world until the 1960s. So, the writer in the 1930s who wrote we have been rocketed into a fourth dimension of existence wasnt referring to transportation, he was referring to transformation. It is easy for us who have seen men walk on the moon to miss that...	Deafhawk	6	6033	Mar 9, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Those who laugh - last (Preview) March 9, 2009 Quote of the Week "Those who laugh - last." I remember hearing the phrase, "We are not a glum lot" when I was new in recovery - I didn't believe it. I mean, here I was sentenced to attending meetings, prohibited from partying, and forced to believe in God. Things loo...	Jane05	0	405	Mar 9, 2009 by Jane05
	Advice (Preview) Hello everyone, i'm new. I basically am after some advice, as I know I have a serious drink problem, and have made my families lives a living hell. I haven't plucked up the courage to visit a meeting, but I will do and very soon. I need to know if a meeting is going to help me.	Paul Dylan	15	397	Mar 9, 2009 by lani
	New member here... (Preview) Hi, to everyone.. do not know where to exactly start but I let the stress of daily life get to me and I drink just about everyday, after work, but I have quit (11 days now)... I really dont crave a drink but I feel lonely and nervous. Boy I feel dumb writing this... but I do want to become free of the hab...	newlife2009	6	403	Mar 9, 2009 by lani
	Meeting- She questioned my faith. (Preview) Went to Celebrate Recovery. Went to small group for chemical dependency. In the meeting we discussed our experience and I talked about how I had gone away from God after growing up in church. I talked about how I am finding my way back and rediscovering my faith. One of the girls inthe group spoke up...	Codependent2	5	529	Mar 9, 2009 by pinkchip
	Sorry about last post (Preview) My apologies for the comments on religion. I crossed a boundary by mistake and I am sincerely sorry.	Codependent2	3	401	Mar 9, 2009 by StPeteDean
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