Alcoholics Anonymous

Closer · Closer

ID hate to complain on this board, as were all trying to live better happier lives, but Im wondering if anyone elses life is poisoned by the same problem I have for so many years ive gone nuts. Is it just me or is it every time you start feeling good, getting positive and shaking off the crap there is someon...

Christine63 · Christine63

I'm wrapping up day 30. Boy what a rollercoaster of emotions this past month has been. Emotionally, things leveled out about a week ago and I'm more "stable", so that is cool. I had a horrid nightmare last night that I got drunk and even in my dream I was saying "i was on day 29 and I screwed...

Fyne Spirit · Fyne Spirit

Does anyone have a copy of Dr Bob's 3rd step prayer? I read it once and really liked it but I never took a copy. Thanks, Mike.

stnatina · stnatina

I have a neighbor who is my age, 53. He is in the intensive care unit right now with liver failure and kidneys that have shut down. He is in a chemically induced coma to keep him comfortable. This a result of his drinking and drug use. I drank with him a few times. In my struggle to become sober this is an examp...

The Addiction Club · The Addiction Club

I get these every morning in my email, and they are wonderful to read when you just wake up. Trying to ignore our worries only pushes them underground. Pretending we are not anxious, when we are, is a tactic that fools no one, especially not ourselves. Attempting to deny or repress our fears and worri...

pinkchip · pinkchip

Another post on here reminded me of this poem. I heard it in a meeting so I searched for it and found it. Very profound: I drank for happiness and became unhappy; I drank for joy and became miserable. I drank to be out-going and became self-centred; I drank for sociability and became argumentative an...

Closer · Closer

Im at the point in my recovery where Im starting to see something and at least for me it is seeming like the key to a lost world. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THERE ARE GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD. there are people who care and sometimes its the hardest thing to see in the world. Sometimes we are very hurt and very s...

Tasha · Tasha

I could really use some extra support. No 13th steppers please. I am married. I don't care if you're male or female, but know that my goal is to keep my family sound.

Alexx · Alexx

Hi am Alexx am 35 bi gendered married with no kids and i live with my cats I am 4 weeks clean from taking any drink am finding things hard at the moment because of things that are going on for me right now I lost my dad in septmber of last year and my mum has been getting treatment for cervical cancer we a...

The Addiction Club · The Addiction Club

Service: It is one of the greatest compensations in life that no one can help another without helping themselves Ralph Waldo Emerson What are some of you...

joanna · joanna

Today is day 4 sober for me. I did not think I had a drinking problem until I finally realized that I do not drink socially, or occasionally. I drink to forget about the day when it is bad, and to celebrate when it was good. When I did drink, which became every night I drank to get drunk. I would drink befo...

stnatina · stnatina

One of the things that we do in our use is lie. And I was thinking that one of the reasons we use is to hide our true feelings. And in the process I became an alcoholic. In the irony of this disease the drinking took my truth away. So in trying to run from my truth all drinking did was add more deception. This is...

LoveMy4 · LoveMy4

Hello, I am a newly recovering alcoholic. I am thirty four years old and have four children. I have only been sober fore eight days. I wanted to know what others went through at such an early stage. What they felt physically, emotionally, etc.... Thanks

joanna · joanna

I want to thank everyone for welcoming me to the site. It feels really good to have support through this and know that there are others struggling and pushing through this. I am feeling really positive today and know this is where my life starts to begin. I think the most rewarding thing for me is to fi...

Link328 · Link328

WOW...apparently this group is not for me! But thanks anyway....I've had a great time. I actually love going to the AA group I am able to make it to. I was just curious...about the legal crap. But I guess in your groups' eyes, I am cutting corners, not appreciating the chance I've been given, and tak...

jj · jj

My best friend is taking me to Honolulu and we will be staying 8 miles from the airport. anyone 'close' that i can meet at a meeting? we will have a rental car, so i will be able to drive to any local meetings. just wondering, it would be great to meet sober friends from MIP. jj/sheila

Rob84 · Rob84

Went to a meeting last night, the speaker mentioned the above phrase as he spoke about working with others. It is truly amazing how God always puts someone in my path who tells me exactly what I need to hear....it's been happening for so long! I really don't let much bother me, but I must admit the w...

smokngunslinger · smokngunslinger

Hello, I'm a 28 year old alcoholic and I want to stop drinking. However, every time I sober up, I experience seiziers and convulsions when i try to sleep. Is there an OTC medication I can take to prevent this? Thanks.

Closer · Closer

I was just having a low few days and I noticed something. The thought of drinking was on my mind but I knew it wasnt a good idea. I figured something out and its pretty basic but its something that can lift your mood a lot quicker than just going through your day doing the needed things. What I figured out...

The Addiction Club · The Addiction Club

How are you today? For many of us new to the program a simple thing like dropping something, spilling a couple drops of coffee, the remote not working properly, or an upset child can really test patience and cause an unpleasant start to the day. We usually build on that misery and manufacture somethin...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

In more of a bah humbug mood. 6 months ago i lost my medical. 2 months ago i weaned myself off the anti depressants. now i`m as depressed as ever if not worse. barely squeaking by financially as i have been ever since the dui that ended my career as a bus driver. sick of aa meetings. sick of my home group. sick...

John_Stal · John_Stal

I completed a 30 day rehab in December but I have been struggling since I came home. I have relapsed and I am pretty down on myself. I'm finding it difficult to let go of the past as some of the wrekage due to my using has come back to haunt me. I am pretty much alone and scared most of the time. I'm trying to w...

jezebell28 · jezebell28

Without getting into a ton of details, my drinking caused my break up. He's moved on and is getting married this year but I always thought maybe one day we would get back together after I became sober (317 days today). I'm having such a hard time accepting it's really over between us and what if I had jus...

deb365 · deb365

"Times of prayer are times of growth. Cut those times short and many well-filled hours of work may be profitless. Heaven's values are so different from the values of earth. From the point of view of the Great Worker, one poor tool, working all the time but doing bad work, is of small value compar...

Fyne Spirit · Fyne Spirit

I have heard it suggested that a newly sober alcoholic should write down where you want to be and what you want to have and be like after five years in AA, and that it is most likely you will sell yourself well short. There were two things for me. Firstly I wanted to be a taxi driver. An honorable profession f...

turninggrey · turninggrey

Hello fam away from fam, Just thought I would post a note on stress. Right now, I am going through some pretty stressful training that has pretty much involved about 14-16 hours a day of study/testing. It will last in pretty much the same mode for the next 15 days and then I will have practical testing af...

Tasha · Tasha

Digging around in my head today, I found this poem. It was written by a much younger me (I can't remember how old, but I know I wasn't in junior high yet,because it wasn't that long after my parents divorced, and suddenly I had a lot of time to "think"). As I write it out now, and let it sink in, I ho...

bikerbill · bikerbill

Yesterday was the 12th anniversary of my dad's death. I spent some time with my Mum and mys sister and her husband. It was a difficult day for me becuase I don't fit what 'others' seem to expect. Harsh as it seems, it was a big relief for me when dad died. Although he did do lot's of good stuff, he also did some...

John · John

I was thinking this morning, (yeah, I do that from time to time)... Life, it takes it's own twist and turns. As we move through it, many people will enter and many will go, situations will arise, love will inspire, and break hearts, accomplishments will be achieved, some will not, days will go by way to...

pinkchip · pinkchip

I woke up this morning reluctant to go to a meeting (just out of sheer laziness and complacency which I know is bad). Anyhow, I told myself, "Come on Mark, you know you are going to be glad you went and you might hear or see something profoundly meaningful." I said this to myself, because tha...

Jerry F · Jerry F

The very first promise I heard and which came true for me didn't present itself in an AA meeting. I got here thru the back door...the one that is between Al-Anon and AA. I don't question that because I was done and God wasn't, as I learned later on. The very first promise which I so needed to hear was &...

bikerbill · bikerbill

Been away for work for a long old while, only slept in my own bed maybe 5 times this month. However.......... I've been to some great meetings, seen some stunning landscapes, met some great people within and outwith the fellowship, done things I thought I'd never be able to do and am at peace with myself...

Jerry F · Jerry F

The compulsion to drink is gone!! Yes it is...finally!! And what is weird is that my 33rd year of being alcohol free quietly slipped by on the 8th of this month. I posted a couple times month ago about a couple of face to face hand to hand struggles I had with other peoples alcohol leaving it for me to di...

John · John

Please take a moment to go to the step work board, and respond to the lead in the AA area by Dan B. Your experience, strength and hope is needed there. John

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Congrats Mike H on 32 years! Thanks for really bringing the Experience, Strength, and Hope to our board! -- Edited by StPeteDean on Friday 10th of February 2012 12:42:09 AM

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

In Gods economy, nothing is wasted. Through failure, we learn a lesson in humility which is probably needed, painful though it is. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 31 How thankful I am today, to know that all my past failures were necessary for me to be where I am now. Through much pain came experience and, in sufferin...

deb365 · deb365

"Pray for more faith, as a thirsty man in a desert prays for water. Swift and strong comes My help. Do you know what it is to feel sure that I can never fail you? As sure as you are that you still breathe? How poor is man's faith. Pray daily and most diligently that your faith may increase." ...

Tasha · Tasha

I've been hearing over and over that alcoholism is progressive and can kill you. Just like when I get into a car, I don't assume I'm going to be the one to die on the road that day, I know that it happens. It seems like something not worth thinking about, as I have to get from point a to point b. I put on my seat be...

Christine63 · Christine63

This was the topic at last night's meeting... For me: I have gained... the freedom to answer my phone whenever it rings without worrying about remembering who I talked to, what I said or whether I made an a$$ of myself during the conversation. freedom from having to check Facebook first thing in the mo...

Christine63 · Christine63

At my first meeting, a young lady with about 9 months of sobriety introduced herself and introduced me to some other ladies and was very friendly. Since then, she seems to have latched onto me and sits with me at every single meeting. (small town, limited meeting options, mostly same group of people at...

Christine63 · Christine63

20 days sober.... In the beginning of my journey I went to meetings every single day. Withdrawals got really bad last week and I stayed in bed for 3 days in a row. When I came back & was asked where I'd been, I was honest. But someone asked me if I had started drinking again and told me I should just tell th...

Tracey C · Tracey C

Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. Are people who go to aa allowed to be sponsors for al-ateen? I have an issue with a male who sponsors our children's al-ateen group. He has made inappropriate comments to myself. I have spoken to another sponsor of the group. The other female adult responses...

Picard · Picard

I'm new to the board but not to AA. It took me many years and many visits to local meeting to finally stop drinking and I've not had a drink in over 17 years. However, I stopped going to meetings probably about 15 years ago as I got fed up of the bickering, backstabbing and the constant reference to members d...

JenHHH · JenHHH

I consider myself a compuslive overeater and have attended 12 step OA meetings on and off for 20 years. In the last few years I've become concerned about my drinking. I don't often drink to excess but even doing it once a month bothers me. On those occasions I can't seem to control it and I don't like the &q...

Tasha · Tasha

Thank you God for another sober day. -- Edited by Tasha on Tuesday 21st of February 2012 05:35:30 AM

Christine63 · Christine63

Hi, my name is Christine, I'm an alcoholic/addict and I'm 19 days sober. The above statement is all I know right now. It seems like my identity is all wrapped up in that sentence. Every day, I read some of the big book, I do some reading here, I watch episodes of "Intervention" on Netflix to re...

deb365 · deb365

"Share your love, your joy, your happiness, your time, your food, gladly with all. Such wonders will unfold. You see it all but in bud now - the glory of the open flower is beyond all your telling. Give out love and all you can with a glad, free heart and hand. Use all you can for others, and back wi...

Closer · Closer

I was just feeling really bad about how things are going in my life and the thought of drinking came to my mind, I was having a bad day and I was remembering how good i used to feel getting drunk, I remmebered how much it would calm me down, how much I loved it...I wanted to drink and feel good so bad that I got 2 t...

gonee · gonee

"For I know the plans I have for you, " declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah29 "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Prov 16 What is it about these scriptures? First of all...

mikef · mikef

Another day of life and I am truly grateful! Just For Today, WE can work toward not allowing anyone or anything to "Steal our Joy". If you are here, able to read this ,then you have been blessed with your Higher Power's GRACE AND MERCY. Relying on that Power, loving and caring and greater tha...

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	poisonous people! (Preview) ID hate to complain on this board, as were all trying to live better happier lives, but Im wondering if anyone elses life is poisoned by the same problem I have for so many years ive gone nuts. Is it just me or is it every time you start feeling good, getting positive and shaking off the crap there is someon...	Closer	22	862	Mar 5, 2012 by barisax
	30 Days! (Preview) I'm wrapping up day 30. Boy what a rollercoaster of emotions this past month has been. Emotionally, things leveled out about a week ago and I'm more "stable", so that is cool. I had a horrid nightmare last night that I got drunk and even in my dream I was saying "i was on day 29 and I screwed...	Christine63	13	700	Mar 5, 2012 by Rob84
	Dr Bob's 3rd step prayer (Preview) Does anyone have a copy of Dr Bob's 3rd step prayer? I read it once and really liked it but I never took a copy. Thanks, Mike.	Fyne Spirit	3	1228	Mar 4, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	The reality of drinking (Preview) I have a neighbor who is my age, 53. He is in the intensive care unit right now with liver failure and kidneys that have shut down. He is in a chemically induced coma to keep him comfortable. This a result of his drinking and drug use. I drank with him a few times. In my struggle to become sober this is an examp...	stnatina	4	492	Mar 4, 2012 by Jerry F
	Thought for the day (Preview) I get these every morning in my email, and they are wonderful to read when you just wake up. Trying to ignore our worries only pushes them underground. Pretending we are not anxious, when we are, is a tactic that fools no one, especially not ourselves. Attempting to deny or repress our fears and worri...	The Addiction Club	6	614	Mar 4, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	The lie of drinking (Preview) Another post on here reminded me of this poem. I heard it in a meeting so I searched for it and found it. Very profound: I drank for happiness and became unhappy; I drank for joy and became miserable. I drank to be out-going and became self-centred; I drank for sociability and became argumentative an...	pinkchip	6	551	Mar 4, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	When you are Hurt -Understand this. (Preview) Im at the point in my recovery where Im starting to see something and at least for me it is seeming like the key to a lost world. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THERE ARE GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD. there are people who care and sometimes its the hardest thing to see in the world. Sometimes we are very hurt and very s...	Closer	5	655	Mar 4, 2012 by joanna
	I'm looking for an online sponsor... is that okay? (Preview) I could really use some extra support. No 13th steppers please. I am married. I don't care if you're male or female, but know that my goal is to keep my family sound.	Tasha	4	514	Mar 4, 2012 by soberjulie
	hi (Preview) Hi am Alexx am 35 bi gendered married with no kids and i live with my cats I am 4 weeks clean from taking any drink am finding things hard at the moment because of things that are going on for me right now I lost my dad in septmber of last year and my mum has been getting treatment for cervical cancer we a...	Alexx	10	767	Mar 3, 2012 by stnatina
	Service (Preview) Service: It is one of the greatest compensations in life that no one can help another without helping themselves Ralph Waldo Emerson What are some of you...	The Addiction Club	8	527	Mar 3, 2012 by The Addiction Club
	New today (Preview) Today is day 4 sober for me. I did not think I had a drinking problem until I finally realized that I do not drink socially, or occasionally. I drink to forget about the day when it is bad, and to celebrate when it was good. When I did drink, which became every night I drank to get drunk. I would drink befo...	joanna	9	482	Mar 3, 2012 by SoberSteve
	Truth (Preview) One of the things that we do in our use is lie. And I was thinking that one of the reasons we use is to hide our true feelings. And in the process I became an alcoholic. In the irony of this disease the drinking took my truth away. So in trying to run from my truth all drinking did was add more deception. This is...	stnatina	8	566	Mar 3, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	I'm new (Preview) Hello, I am a newly recovering alcoholic. I am thirty four years old and have four children. I have only been sober fore eight days. I wanted to know what others went through at such an early stage. What they felt physically, emotionally, etc.... Thanks	LoveMy4	16	584	Mar 2, 2012 by Closer
	Day 5 (Preview) I want to thank everyone for welcoming me to the site. It feels really good to have support through this and know that there are others struggling and pushing through this. I am feeling really positive today and know this is where my life starts to begin. I think the most rewarding thing for me is to fi...	joanna	6	487	Mar 3, 2012 by Closer
	Support Group Requirements (Preview) WOW...apparently this group is not for me! But thanks anyway....I've had a great time. I actually love going to the AA group I am able to make it to. I was just curious...about the legal crap. But I guess in your groups' eyes, I am cutting corners, not appreciating the chance I've been given, and tak...	Link328	9	787	Mar 2, 2012 by rrib
	I am going to be in Hawaii March 3 - 10th (Preview) My best friend is taking me to Honolulu and we will be staying 8 miles from the airport. anyone 'close' that i can meet at a meeting? we will have a rental car, so i will be able to drive to any local meetings. just wondering, it would be great to meet sober friends from MIP. jj/sheila	jj	4	435	Mar 1, 2012 by jj
	"I can only keep myself sober" (Preview) Went to a meeting last night, the speaker mentioned the above phrase as he spoke about working with others. It is truly amazing how God always puts someone in my path who tells me exactly what I need to hear....it's been happening for so long! I really don't let much bother me, but I must admit the w...	Rob84	5	497	Mar 1, 2012 by Tasha
	Quiting drinking (Preview) Hello, I'm a 28 year old alcoholic and I want to stop drinking. However, every time I sober up, I experience seiziers and convulsions when i try to sleep. Is there an OTC medication I can take to prevent this? Thanks.	smokngunslinger	12	846	Mar 1, 2012 by rrib
	Making a Plan. (Preview) I was just having a low few days and I noticed something. The thought of drinking was on my mind but I knew it wasnt a good idea. I figured something out and its pretty basic but its something that can lift your mood a lot quicker than just going through your day doing the needed things. What I figured out...	Closer	3	696	Mar 1, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today (Preview) How are you today? For many of us new to the program a simple thing like dropping something, spilling a couple drops of coffee, the remote not working properly, or an upset child can really test patience and cause an unpleasant start to the day. We usually build on that misery and manufacture somethin...	The Addiction Club	10	692	Mar 1, 2012 by Rob84
	3 years sober and not in a celebratory mood (Preview) In more of a bah humbug mood. 6 months ago i lost my medical. 2 months ago i weaned myself off the anti depressants. now i`m as depressed as ever if not worse. barely squeaking by financially as i have been ever since the dui that ended my career as a bus driver. sick of aa meetings. sick of my home group. sick...	FlyingSquirrel	16	4655	Mar 1, 2012 by leeu
	Struggling (Preview) I completed a 30 day rehab in December but I have been struggling since I came home. I have relapsed and I am pretty down on myself. I'm finding it difficult to let go of the past as some of the wrekage due to my using has come back to haunt me. I am pretty much alone and scared most of the time. I'm trying to w...	John_Stal	16	730	Feb 29, 2012 by jj
	how to accept a love lost (Preview) Without getting into a ton of details, my drinking caused my break up. He's moved on and is getting married this year but I always thought maybe one day we would get back together after I became sober (317 days today). I'm having such a hard time accepting it's really over between us and what if I had jus...	jezebell28	10	834	Feb 29, 2012 by The Addiction Club
	God Calling - Perfect Work (Preview) "Times of prayer are times of growth. Cut those times short and many well-filled hours of work may be profitless. Heaven's values are so different from the values of earth. From the point of view of the Great Worker, one poor tool, working all the time but doing bad work, is of small value compar...	deb365	2	374	Feb 29, 2012 by The Addiction Club
	Grand plans in early sobriety- the reality is better that the dream! (Preview) I have heard it suggested that a newly sober alcoholic should write down where you want to be and what you want to have and be like after five years in AA, and that it is most likely you will sell yourself well short. There were two things for me. Firstly I wanted to be a taxi driver. An honorable profession f...	Fyne Spirit	1	522	Feb 29, 2012 by Mr_David
	Stress, Stress, Stress (Preview) Hello fam away from fam, Just thought I would post a note on stress. Right now, I am going through some pretty stressful training that has pretty much involved about 14-16 hours a day of study/testing. It will last in pretty much the same mode for the next 15 days and then I will have practical testing af...	turninggrey	9	652	Feb 28, 2012 by mikef
	The window (Preview) Digging around in my head today, I found this poem. It was written by a much younger me (I can't remember how old, but I know I wasn't in junior high yet,because it wasn't that long after my parents divorced, and suddenly I had a lot of time to "think"). As I write it out now, and let it sink in, I ho...	Tasha	5	713	Feb 28, 2012 by Tasha
	Yesterday (Preview) Yesterday was the 12th anniversary of my dad's death. I spent some time with my Mum and mys sister and her husband. It was a difficult day for me becuase I don't fit what 'others' seem to expect. Harsh as it seems, it was a big relief for me when dad died. Although he did do lot's of good stuff, he also did some...	bikerbill	5	591	Feb 28, 2012 by StPeteDean
	Life on Life's Terms (Preview) I was thinking this morning, (yeah, I do that from time to time)... Life, it takes it's own twist and turns. As we move through it, many people will enter and many will go, situations will arise, love will inspire, and break hearts, accomplishments will be achieved, some will not, days will go by way to...	John	8	3788	Feb 27, 2012 by Mike B.
	Good stuff (Preview) I woke up this morning reluctant to go to a meeting (just out of sheer laziness and complacency which I know is bad). Anyhow, I told myself, "Come on Mark, you know you are going to be glad you went and you might hear or see something profoundly meaningful." I said this to myself, because tha...	pinkchip	10	504	Feb 27, 2012 by Mike B.
	A promise being kept. (Preview) The very first promise I heard and which came true for me didn't present itself in an AA meeting. I got here thru the back door...the one that is between Al-Anon and AA. I don't question that because I was done and God wasn't, as I learned later on. The very first promise which I so needed to hear was &...	Jerry F	3	535	Feb 27, 2012 by mikef
	Hello Guys, been away a bit. (Preview) Been away for work for a long old while, only slept in my own bed maybe 5 times this month. However.......... I've been to some great meetings, seen some stunning landscapes, met some great people within and outwith the fellowship, done things I thought I'd never be able to do and am at peace with myself...	bikerbill	10	502	Feb 27, 2012 by mikef
	Just realized... (Preview) The compulsion to drink is gone!! Yes it is...finally!! And what is weird is that my 33rd year of being alcohol free quietly slipped by on the 8th of this month. I posted a couple times month ago about a couple of face to face hand to hand struggles I had with other peoples alcohol leaving it for me to di...	Jerry F	8	548	Feb 27, 2012 by mikef
	Step Work Board support (Preview) Please take a moment to go to the step work board, and respond to the lead in the AA area by Dan B. Your experience, strength and hope is needed there. John	John	0	395	Feb 27, 2012 by John
	Happy Anniversary Fyne Spirit (Mike H)! Anniversary! (Preview) Congrats Mike H on 32 years! Thanks for really bringing the Experience, Strength, and Hope to our board! -- Edited by StPeteDean on Friday 10th of February 2012 12:42:09 AM	StPeteDean	12	943	Feb 27, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	Daily Reflections ~ The Challenge of Failure & 24hrs a Day (Preview) In Gods economy, nothing is wasted. Through failure, we learn a lesson in humility which is probably needed, painful though it is. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 31 How thankful I am today, to know that all my past failures were necessary for me to be where I am now. Through much pain came experience and, in sufferin...	Sobrietyspell	3	381	Feb 27, 2012 by Tasha
	God Calling - Swift Help (Preview) "Pray for more faith, as a thirsty man in a desert prays for water. Swift and strong comes My help. Do you know what it is to feel sure that I can never fail you? As sure as you are that you still breathe? How poor is man's faith. Pray daily and most diligently that your faith may increase." ...	deb365	3	384	Feb 27, 2012 by Mr_David
	Wow, this disease really can mess you up and kill you! (Preview) I've been hearing over and over that alcoholism is progressive and can kill you. Just like when I get into a car, I don't assume I'm going to be the one to die on the road that day, I know that it happens. It seems like something not worth thinking about, as I have to get from point a to point b. I put on my seat be...	Tasha	5	686	Feb 26, 2012 by stnatina
	Freedom - what freedom has sobriety given you? (Preview) This was the topic at last night's meeting... For me: I have gained... the freedom to answer my phone whenever it rings without worrying about remembering who I talked to, what I said or whether I made an a$$ of myself during the conversation. freedom from having to check Facebook first thing in the mo...	Christine63	9	5992	Feb 26, 2012 by The Addiction Club
	Problems with disruptive member during meetings (Preview) At my first meeting, a young lady with about 9 months of sobriety introduced herself and introduced me to some other ladies and was very friendly. Since then, she seems to have latched onto me and sits with me at every single meeting. (small town, limited meeting options, mostly same group of people at...	Christine63	15	2800	Feb 26, 2012 by Christine63
	What is the line between someone helping and someone not minding their own side of the street? (Preview) 20 days sober.... In the beginning of my journey I went to meetings every single day. Withdrawals got really bad last week and I stayed in bed for 3 days in a row. When I came back & was asked where I'd been, I was honest. But someone asked me if I had started drinking again and told me I should just tell th...	Christine63	21	650	Feb 26, 2012 by Frodo
	al-ateen sponsors (Preview) Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. Are people who go to aa allowed to be sponsors for al-ateen? I have an issue with a male who sponsors our children's al-ateen group. He has made inappropriate comments to myself. I have spoken to another sponsor of the group. The other female adult responses...	Tracey C	8	550	Feb 26, 2012 by Mr_David
	New to the board but need to share (Preview) I'm new to the board but not to AA. It took me many years and many visits to local meeting to finally stop drinking and I've not had a drink in over 17 years. However, I stopped going to meetings probably about 15 years ago as I got fed up of the bickering, backstabbing and the constant reference to members d...	Picard	11	572	Feb 26, 2012 by Mr_David
	Do I belong in an AA meeting? (Preview) I consider myself a compuslive overeater and have attended 12 step OA meetings on and off for 20 years. In the last few years I've become concerned about my drinking. I don't often drink to excess but even doing it once a month bothers me. On those occasions I can't seem to control it and I don't like the &q...	JenHHH	5	926	Feb 26, 2012 by Mr_David
	Sober today (Preview) Thank you God for another sober day. -- Edited by Tasha on Tuesday 21st of February 2012 05:35:30 AM	Tasha	11	1448	Feb 25, 2012 by Mr_David
	Who/What/Where am I? - overwhelmed newbie (Preview) Hi, my name is Christine, I'm an alcoholic/addict and I'm 19 days sober. The above statement is all I know right now. It seems like my identity is all wrapped up in that sentence. Every day, I read some of the big book, I do some reading here, I watch episodes of "Intervention" on Netflix to re...	Christine63	13	659	Feb 26, 2012 by Mr_David
	God Calling - Share Everything (Preview) "Share your love, your joy, your happiness, your time, your food, gladly with all. Such wonders will unfold. You see it all but in bud now - the glory of the open flower is beyond all your telling. Give out love and all you can with a glad, free heart and hand. Use all you can for others, and back wi...	deb365	1	496	Feb 25, 2012 by Mr_David
	almost had a slip, but got relieved a different way... (Preview) I was just feeling really bad about how things are going in my life and the thought of drinking came to my mind, I was having a bad day and I was remembering how good i used to feel getting drunk, I remmebered how much it would calm me down, how much I loved it...I wanted to drink and feel good so bad that I got 2 t...	Closer	6	578	Feb 25, 2012 by Jerry F
	God has great plans for us. (Preview) "For I know the plans I have for you, " declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah29 "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Prov 16 What is it about these scriptures? First of all...	gonee	5	505	Feb 25, 2012 by leeu
	Trust reenforcing Faith! (Preview) Another day of life and I am truly grateful! Just For Today, WE can work toward not allowing anyone or anything to "Steal our Joy". If you are here, able to read this ,then you have been blessed with your Higher Power's GRACE AND MERCY. Relying on that Power, loving and caring and greater tha...	mikef	6	490	Feb 25, 2012 by turninggrey
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