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confectionary and desserts with alcohol in them
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This has been happening to me a lot lately. On Monday evening I was at a work supper. The meal was lovely, the dessert choice terrible, only one dessert had no alcohol in it. I am thinking about writing to the restaurant. The service was great, the start and main course excellent but the last aspect gave n...
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8 months, 4 months, 2 months
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I picked up my 4 month chip today at a meeting I am currently the secretary for. I know some people were surprised that it wasn't an 8 month chip. It's true that I haven't had any alcohol for 8 months. I did indulge in pot nightly for the first four months to help with sleep though. After working (and still wo...
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HAPPY 3 YEAR BIRTHDAY JJ (Yesterday Jan 8th)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Congrats to you Sheila!. You are truly an inspiration to me!!!! You have helped me more than you will ever know!!!! Thank you so much! You are a true MIRACLE!!! -- Edited by SoberSteve on Tuesday 10th of January 2012 01:36:28 AM
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I'm new :)
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Hi there, I drink too much. It is hurting my relationships and my health. I have tried to stop drinking before. But i constantly fail, I really want to heal myself and get on with my life. Right now i usually drink everyday, usually beer. On the weekends I binge while out with my friends.. I am confu...
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Break-up led me to AA and I'm shattered
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I had been widowed four four years when I met "Bill". Everything deemed to fit perfectly as a new couple we talked three or four times a day. We spent every free moment together. Wow!!! We said out loud "I Love You" to each other. We were planning all the things we would do together....
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Tollerence.
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Hi guys new here. My tolefence has become incredible recently. Im drinking 28 or more units a night and im still not getting drunk. i can drink all night and not get smashed. Its 03:05 here in the uk and iv been drinking for hours and im still not smashed yet. I wil be stopping drinking in the next day or tw...
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Try again - 5th Soberversary and Christmas Present to my self
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Here it is, the first tattoo of my life and quite possibly the last.
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Happy 23rd Anniversary Sandrajay!
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Happy 23rd Sandy, from another member of the Class of '89! -- Edited by StPeteDean on Tuesday 3rd of January 2012 12:24:49 PM
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Sugar and alcoholism?
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I was thinking about what some of my triggers to drink are, and I noticed a big thing, when I am sober I crave sugar like crazy! When I am actively drinking I have no desire for sweet things. Has anyone noticed the blood suger connection? What has been helping me is when I do get cravings to drink, having so...
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How long does it take to work the steps?????
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How long does it normally take to work throught the 12 steps. And yes I know that some of the steps are on going but to get to my 12th step what is the avg time frame?
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Yes, we are responsible for all our choices
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I no longer have the excuse of being drunk or hungover when i make up my mind to do something that is not right for me or that hurts others. I know right from wrong and i know good from bad.... but sometimes it is so tempting to want a 'person, place, or thing' from my past that will not be healthy for my s...
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AA works if I work it.
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In my ignorance I nearly die of alcoholism. A book was written and published by our early pioneers of AA and I chose to ignore the principles that were embodied in that book. Thank God for my sponsors in my early days of recovery, who through their example inculcated a culture of reading and applying AA p...
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Rednecks in AA!
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Let me tell ya a little story about rednecks in AA... I was visiting my sister in Georgia, a few miles outside Monroe. So far in the country that if you ask someone to use their cell phone, they think you mean a phone moved from cell to cell inside the jail, during phone call hours. LOL I called the intergro...
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Higher Power sending strange clues or it has a sick sense of humor!!
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So in my morning prayers I asked my higher power if my life would always be so unhappy. Some situations with my home life have been making me very unhappy and have not changed when I stopped drinking a year ago. I asked for a sign that I would find happiness. Later that day a girl I dated when I was 15 sent me a L...
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AN ACT OF PROVIDENCE
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It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our minds into such an obsession for destructive drinking that only an act of Providence can remove it from us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 My act of Providence, (a manifestation of divine care and direction), came as I experie...
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Daily Reflections ~ Do I Have a Choice? & 24hrs a Day
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The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically nonexistent. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.24 My powerlessness over alcohol does not cease when I quit drinking. In sobriety I still have no choice I cant drink...
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God Calling ~No Strain
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"Be calm, no matter what may befall you. Rest in Me. Be patient, and let patience have her perfect work. Never think things overwhelming. How can you be overwhelmed when I am with you? Do you not see I am a Master Instrument-maker? Have I not fashioned each part? Do I not know just what it can b...
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New Here ESH Welcomed!
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Hi...I'm diving back in to the 12 step life. I was married to an A/Addict/ Gambler/Porn Addict for a LOOOOONG time. In and out of treatments. I maintained AlAnon and then a 12 step Christ based group for many years. Then total peace entered my world. I dropped out of meetings, continued readings a...
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Inspirational Stuff (pics, vids, poems, etc)
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I woke up WAY too late yesterday and if I go to sleep now I will miss a therapy appointment (my last one ever with this particular "therapist" thank god)- so anyway. I have to stay up. I am bored of video games. So I thought I would start another feel-good thread here. It's different than the fun...
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When I am weak..........
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When I am weak then I am strong, not weak in the physical but in the spiritual. When prayer becomes difficult, where God is not manifest, then the Spirit himself maketh intercession for us, through groanings not understood by us. Thanks be to God that there is nothing for us to do in our weakness, but God...
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104 Days Sober!
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I am so grateful today for AA, because of AA I have been sober since 9-22-2011 and I am so eternally grateful. I struggle here and there but I haven't had to drink over it, which is a miracle. Thanks to everyone who reads this, because it is YOU that has saved my life, one day at a time.
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God Calling ~ The Secret Pearl
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"Each word or thought of yours can be like a pearl that you drop into the secret place of another heart, and in some hour of need, lo! the recipient finds the treasure and realized for the first time its value. Do not be too ready to do; just be. I said, "Be ye therefore perfect," not &qu...
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Noob question about withdrawl?
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I was reading some facts online and stuff, and heard there's a chance of erm, termination, if you decide to go off the bottle. However, I want to quit, as I feel like this might be turning into a problem again. I was pretty much drunk everday from thanks giving to christmas, now I'm sober again, but just wa...
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ENTIRELY READY!!
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Good morning,Welcome and Blessings of this day! Just For Today, through God's grace and application of our program into the attitudes ,behaviors and actions of my life, I am striving to be' ENTIRELY READY".With much practice,I have become truly aware when my actions and behaviors are leadin...
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Talk about amends!!
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An individual who has a condition in common with us here, and crucial to my life as a mother, took from me something very precious and valuable, over 30 years ago, when I had no recourse in the matter. I thought that it was long gone, not just from my world, but that it had been sold. Took a long time for the h...
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God Calling ~ Sharp and Ready
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"You must pray. The way will open. God cares and His plans unfold. Just love and wait. Love is the key. No door is too difficult for it to open. What cause have you to fear? Has He not cared for and protected you? Hope on. Hope gladly. Hope with certainty. Be calm, calm in My power. Never negl...
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I don't know if I'm an alcoholic but I'm going to start meetings anyway
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Hi, all. I am an Adult Child (formerly "of Alcoholics") in the other section of this website and binge on food and drink a 6pack of Lite beer pretty much nightly. I have been reading all your posts, especially those to McSwagger. Very interesting. I am working the 12 steps with Adult Ch...
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My story, advice please
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Hello fellow alcoholics! My name is John, and here is my story. I started drinking at a young age, about 14. After drinking for about a year occasionally with friends, I began to drink more heavily and party a lot. Never liking the taste really, I just wanted the buzz of alcohol. Also, I began smokin...
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God Calling ~ Hoard nothing
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"Love Me and do My will. No evil shall befall you. Take no thought for tomorrow. Rest in My presence brings peace. God will help you. Desire brings fulfillment. Peace like a quiet flowing river cleanses, sweeps all irritants away. You shall be taught, continue these prayer-times, even if...
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Hi everyone, I'm new here
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I just wanted to introduce myself. I am new to this board, and I guess I wanted to find some extra support right now in my life. I got sober almost two years ago (as of Febuary 1st) I was a blackout drinker, and I started very young, about 10 years old. The end of my drinking was horrible, but I was lucky to have...
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PLEASE HELP...bedwetting :(((((
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Hi everyone I am new here. I have recently realized that I have an alcohol problem. I am 22 years old, female. I have been drinking alcohol for around 6 years. I was only drinking on the weekends with friends all 6 years. The past 2 months have been very stressful. My boyfriend and I of 3 1/2 years broke up. I...
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Daily Reflections ~ Anonymity & 24hrs a Day
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Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 564 Tradition Twelve became important early in my sobriety and, along with the Twelve Steps, it continues to be a must in my recovery. I became aware afte...
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78 days!!
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I know its not a common milestone like 60 or 90 etc but its a big one for me, every since I came to AA two years ago this is the longest I have been without a drink. The longest before was over a year ago and I had 76.. So that means since I started drinking at 15, in the 15 years that followed this is the longest I h...
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God Calling ~ Do Not Plan
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"All is well. Wonderful things are happening. Do not limit God at all. He cares and provides. Uproot self - the channel blocker. Do not plan ahead; the way will unfold step by step. Leave tomorrow's burden. (Higher power) is the great burden bearer. You cannot bear His load, and He only ex...
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God Calling ~ The Way will Open
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"You must be renewed, remade... Everything must rest on Me. Only love is a conquering force. Be not afraid; I will help you. Take heart. God loves, God helps, God fights, God wins. You shall see. You shall know. The way will open. All My love has ever planned, all My love has ever thought, y...
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Resolutions Anyone?
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So I swear like a drunken sailor. I am very good at combining some of the most offensive curse words, usually starting or ending (sometimes starting AND ending) with the F word or some derivatives. I have kids, and many times I can not stop myself, even in front of them. My wife has asked me to at least dr...
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Daily Reflections ~ Powerless & 24hrs a Day
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We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that our lives had become unmanageable. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 It is no coincidence that the very first Step mentions powerlessness: An admission of personal powerlessness over alcohol is a cornerstone of the foundation of recovery....
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traditions
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I recently went to a meeting where someone was thrown out because he sat in the back working on a laptop. I saw people texting with no consequences but one overbearing member told the person to leave. While there may be a group conscience is the texting ok then? Does this cross the boundry of the only requ...
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Happy New Year (video from John to you!)
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Looking for a Sponsor in Grand Junction/Denver Metro Area..
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Hello, I am looking for a sponsor for my boyfriend who is currently incarcerated, colorado state penitentiary. He is trying to make parole in April and wants to do everything he can to stay on the right track. Someone in Grand Junction would be ideal but the Denver metro area is alright. If anyone has an...
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God Calling ~ Arm of Love
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"You are to help to save others. Never let one day pass when you have not reached out an arm of love to someone outside your home - a note, a letter, a visit, help in some way. Be full of joy. Joy saves. Joy cures. Joy in Me. In every ray of sunlight, every smile, every act of kindness, or love, every...
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Oh boy
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Here I sit at work, feeling very bad that I know when I get off work, I will drink about 10 beers. That is my daily consumption. I hate myself every morning and ask myself and god why do I do this everyday. Been through the program before with 8 and 2 years sober. I'm so sick of this, but scared to face reality....
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almost died
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coming back, in every sense of these words. with just under a year of being sober, i surrendered to my disease and picked up that first drink. i had walked out of the sunlight of the spirit one day at a time. had a very difficult personal situatation. my sponsor and i agreed to no longer continue a sponsor/...
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OMG, HNY!!!
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Happy New Year! I am so glad I am sober. I am so content to go to bed at 10:00pm and sleep well! Peace my friends!
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Step 4 stuff I need to really do (i think)
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The way that I lie to myself is astounding . I have been saying that I have not been drinking to myself for years , but that is not true. I have been drinking not everyday , never did , but once a week or every two weeks drunk, I think
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God Calling ~ Between the Years
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"I stand between the years. The light of My presence is flung across the year to come - the radiance of the sun of righteousness. Backward, over the past year, is My shadow thrown, hiding trouble and sorrow and disappointment. Dwell not on the past - only on the present. Only use the past as the t...
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profoundly moving speaker tape
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At a meeting tnight, instead of a typical meeting, we listened to a tape made of Bill W. speaking at the one year anniversary of a new group. However, just before leaving for the meeting he recieved a telegram from Bob. Jr. "Uncle Bill. Dad passed peacefully in his sleep last night." Referri...
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Daily Reflection ~ I am a Miracle & 24hrs a Day
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The central fact of our lives today is the absolute certainty that our Creator has entered into our hearts and lives in a way which is indeed miraculous. He has commenced to accomplish those things for us which we could never do by ourselves. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 25 This truly is a fact in my life tod...
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Just got offered a shot of vodka here now at work...
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weird, sitting here at work, a new girl came over and said "hey bud do you want some vodka" I said no im an alcoholic and she said so do you want some, i said no thanks Im in the program. The weird thing was my natural instinct was to grab the glass before it even occured... maybe it was a test..eit...
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Daily Reflections ~ Principles, Not Personalities & 24hrs a Day
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The way our worthy alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the less worthy is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found that I liked everyone. After all...
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