Alcoholics Anonymous

Phil · Phil

The Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sin...

John_R · John_R

As a child, I was miserable. When I was old enough, I was drunk and miserable. After I realized that wasn't working, I sobered up. But I was still miserable. After a few years I started drinking again. I'd made progress though: I was happy as long as I was drunk. (We won't talk a...

Phil · Phil

"Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves." Creation gave us instincts for a purpose. Without them we wouldn't be complete human beings. If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no su...

Phil · Phil

What are the two types of anger?

Phil · Phil

1. Birds of a feather flock together, and then crap on your car. 2. There's always a lot to be thankful for if you take time to look for it. For example I am sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt. 3. When I'm feeling down, I like to whistle. It makes the neighbour's dog ru...

Phil · Phil

We love yu. :) Keep It Simple. Easy Does It. Slow God Mode. Enjoy your trip my freind. I remember going to Florida drunk. I remember another one sober. Sure was a better trip sober.:) I even enjoyed seeing a few places, that I never saw the first tim...

John_R · John_R

Hi folks. I'm not sure where to start, so I'll just tell you where I'm at right now. I quit drinking April 10th 2002 (and have not had a drink since) because of a health problem. Actually that's kind of an understatement... I was hauled off to the hospital and they did that routine with the...

Phil · Phil

Appearance to the world of the enabling personality Protect others from the consequences of their own actions Had a post to share on here, but couldnt get it on. I guess it just wasnt meant to be. Wishing all my AA Buddies a good night, and a good day tomorrow. -- Edited by Phil at 22:07, 2005-0...

Busbe · Busbe

My husband and I have been attending a bible study class with a group from our church. When we got invited to join I told hubs why dont we try it so we can get to know some of the people intimately so we did. This week we are studying the beatitudes and this is a tough one for me espec...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

I have to admit my spouse jabbers. Yeah, I know....be grateful, he's sober. Except, where once he no longer spoke at all, he talks all the time. I keep hoping he'll get back to "Him" that he once was. And yet I know that may or may not ever happ...

Phil · Phil

What a strange pattern the shuttle of life can weave. --Frances Marion Each experience we have plays its part in the total picture of our lives. The steps we have taken, the path we travel today, and our direction tomorrow are not by chance. There is a pattern. We each have a destiny. We may have veer...

Kim H · Kim H

Hi everyone!! Hope this finds everyone happy and healthy!! I am doing okay today. I am dealing with the repercussions for my actions 2 weeks ago. I had to go see a therapist for an "evaluation". It went pretty well, its what I needed. He made me realize that the depression I have (which is really bad)...

Mike · Mike

Hi to all, My name is Mike and I'm an alcoholic in Boston,MA. I've been looking for an online group and have found that the sharing here contains quite a bit of experience, strength, and hope. I wanted to post right away because opening up is important. I don't really have a...

Phil · Phil

You have to have faith that there is a reason you go through certain things. I can't say I'm glad to go through pain, but in a way one must, in order to gain courage and really feel joy." "When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a...

Rick · Rick

Nic I sent you a private message

Phil · Phil

The Twelve Promises If we are painstaking about this phase of our development: 1) We will be amazed before we are halfway through. 2) We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. 3) We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. 4) We will...

Phil · Phil

Love without condition "I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be." Unconditional love is enlarging the self, a...

Rick · Rick

OLD TIME AA: 1. It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it. 2. If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress. 3. An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. 4. Sobriety is the leading cause of relapse. 5...

Rick · Rick

We feel that elimination of our drinking is but a beginning. A much more important demonstration of our principles lies before us in our respective homes, occupations and affairs." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, There Is A Solution, pg. 19~

mmmmmm · mmmmmm

I'm new to Sacramento. I've been to the Elk Grove and Land Park Meetings. I've looked on the internet and I cannot locate a meeting for today except in Elk Grove. Can anyone help me. Thanks

Phil · Phil

How It Works Utter confusion, misery and pain, Humiliation, remorseful, ashamed. Dreading to face the light of each day, Not wanting to hear what people would say. Like, "Where is your power? Where is your pride?" They don't understand that deep down inside I...

Phil · Phil

Three sisters ages 72, 74, and 76 live in a house together. One night the 76 year old draws a bath. She puts her foot in and pauses. She yells down the stairs "was I getting in or out of the bath?". The 74 year old yells back "I don't know. I'll come up and see." She starts up the stairs and pauses. Then she yells...

Nic · Nic

Allo folks, I have returned from my recent reality check in civilisation and am soooo glad to be back on the farm. It really is a crazy world out there. Shared a room with a couple of great girls who were only strangers for about 3 minutes and we giggled our way through a week of workshops an...

Rick · Rick

Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize that we only know a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask Him in your morning mediation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit so...

Phil · Phil

Do we have a choice whether to be angry? Can we opt not to feel upset, furious, or resentful? Yes! Here’s why. Simply put, we get angry when people, situations, and other stimuli don’t meet our expectations - our thoughts about the future, what we look forward to or wait for. “Expectation is...

Rick · Rick

"Those of us who have spent much time in the world of spiritual make- believe have eventually seen the childishness of it. This dream world has been replaced by a great sense of purpose, accompanied by a growing consciousness of the power of God in our lives. We have come to believe He would like us to kee...

rifkah · rifkah

Wow, I can relate to the info on people pleasing. Thanks to whoever put it on this site. I have suffered from this dilemma for years, although I think I maybe a little better. But I can still see evidence of it in my behavior now. I do believe as I continue to work the steps it will get better. I know that guilt...

Phil · Phil

The Problem of Fear Regardless of the type, size or location of their first AA meeting, newcomers face a predictable series of challenges that must be overcome in order to begin to benefit from AA. By far the greatest problem most individuals experience when beginning AA is how to deal with their fe...

Rick · Rick

"Simple, but not easy; a price had to be paid. It meant destruction of self-centeredness. I must turn in all things to the Father of Light who presides over us all." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Bill's Story, pg. 14~

Phil · Phil

Step One "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable." Who cares to admit complete defeat? Practically no one, of course. Every natural instinct cries out against the idea of personal powerlessness. It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we h...

dan · dan

(I'm new) Tell me what to do... I'm in this spiral that knows no rationality. I'm going to jail; I'm losing my family. But yet I act like this. Daniel btw welcome.,

Phil · Phil

Day 183 of My Captivity: My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while I am forced to eat dry cereal. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope of escape, and the mild scolding I get from ruining the occasional piece of furniture...

Phil · Phil

The joy associated with success is a wonderful aspect of addiction recovery. Some of the success points for us that others may not understand include: - Waking up in the morning remembering what you did the night before - Getting up and not having to rush to the bathroom (and then deciding which...

Phil · Phil

THE MAN IN THE GLASS When you get what you want in your struggle for self And the world makes you king for a day, Just go to a mirror and look at yourself, And see what THAT man has to say. For it isn't your wife or family or friend Who judgement upon you must pass; The man whose verdict counts mo...

Phil · Phil

A.A. Thought for the Day When we came to our first A.A. meeting, we looked up at the wall at the end of the room and saw the sign: "But for the grace of God." We knew right then and there that we would have to call on the grace of God in order to get sober and get over our soul sickness. We heard speakers tell how...

New member · Todd

Hello friend's I'm Todd and I'm an Alcoholic./Just to introduce myself alittle.I was an active alcoholic for over twenty years.My road to happy destiny started on June 10th 2002.this coming June god willing I will see my 3rd year in sobriety.I'm an active AA member and am alway's willing to help wher...

Phil · Phil

Yesterday - Today - And - Tomorrow There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is yesterday with its mistakes and cares, Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains. Yesterday h...

Kim H · Kim H

I have a serious issue and I need some advice. Last Friday someone gave me a medication for my severe headache and neck pain. I knew enough to know it wasn't a narcotic. I took the medication. I knew I had to pee test that day. Well today I found out it was a barbituate. I had no clue and feel like a complete idi...

ellen · ellen

been reading all of the posts and as usual found out more things that i need to work on. will be traveling to Rochester NY for a funeral on my husbands side. His uncle. so i wont be around for a while. i just wanted to let you know that i hate being away from the group. i may not post b...

Phil · Phil

THE BRICK >A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. > >As his car passe...

Phil · Phil

Youre not alone my Freind. It took me a long time to be able to comunicate feelings and emotions to those close to me. Used to think it was weak, but found out it takes strength, and honesty, and true love. Was always playing the mind games, and using masks. Didnt even know who the "H" I was. Walking on e...

Phil · Phil

Those Who Still Suffer in Silence and are Sober I received this email today from a friend and thought you might find it thought provoking. "We don’t have to drink today to die. We buried a friend yesterday. The county coroner had published the required notices for next of kin and nobody...

Phil · Phil

Healthy Relationships -- What Do They Look Like? 15 Traits of a Healthy Relationship © Nancy Wesson, Ph.D. Partners can manage conflict and differences without despair or threats. Both partners protect and nourish the relationship and make it a priority (not addicted to work for e...

Rick · Rick

"In thinking about our day we may face indecision. We may not be able to determine which course to take. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We don't struggle. We are often surprised how the right answers come after we have tried this for a wh...

Phil · Phil

90 TOOLS FOR SOBRIETY 1 ) Stay away from that first drink, taking the 1st step daily. 2 ) Attend AA regularly and get involved. 3 ) Progress is made ONE DAY AT A TIME. 4 ) Use the 24 Hour plan. 5 ) Remember, your disease is incurable, progressive and fatal. 6 ) Do first things f...

Rick · Rick

DO IT ANYWAY People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered; FORGIVE THEM ANYWAY If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives; BE KIND ANYWAY If you are successful you will win some friends...

Phil · Phil

Twelve Ways To Tell The Difference Between Your Sponsor And Your Therapist. 1. Your sponsor isn't all that interested in the "reasons" you drank. 2. Your therapist thinks your root problem is your lack of self-esteem, negative self-image, and your poor self-concept. Your sponsor thinks your pr...

Phil · Phil

Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunate...

Phil · Phil

29 ways to deal with stress 1. Use your Mastercard to pay your Visa and vice-versa. 2. Pop some popcorn without putting the lid on. 3. When someone says "have a nice day", tell them you have other plans. 4. Make a list of things to do that you have already done. 5. Dance naked in front of your pets...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

"The finish line isn't a given, it is earned." --from the back of a T-shirt of a sporting event last night.

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	A New Day (Preview) The Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sin...	Phil	3	761	Mar 3, 2005 by JohnV
	Something I realized just now (Preview) As a child, I was miserable. When I was old enough, I was drunk and miserable. After I realized that wasn't working, I sobered up. But I was still miserable. After a few years I started drinking again. I'd made progress though: I was happy as long as I was drunk. (We won't talk a...	John_R	8	866	Mar 3, 2005 by John_R
	A Big Step To Freedom (Preview) "Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves." Creation gave us instincts for a purpose. Without them we wouldn't be complete human beings. If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no su...	Phil	1	816	Mar 2, 2005 by Nic
	Anger And Resentment (Preview) What are the two types of anger?	Phil	5	912	Mar 2, 2005 by JohnV
	Smile!! Youll drive everyone nuts!! (Preview) 1. Birds of a feather flock together, and then crap on your car. 2. There's always a lot to be thankful for if you take time to look for it. For example I am sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt. 3. When I'm feeling down, I like to whistle. It makes the neighbour's dog ru...	Phil	0	791	Mar 2, 2005 by Phil
	Hey Rick Buddy?? (Preview) We love yu. :) Keep It Simple. Easy Does It. Slow God Mode. Enjoy your trip my freind. I remember going to Florida drunk. I remember another one sober. Sure was a better trip sober.:) I even enjoyed seeing a few places, that I never saw the first tim...	Phil	4	1046	Mar 2, 2005 by Nic
	Intro (Preview) Hi folks. I'm not sure where to start, so I'll just tell you where I'm at right now. I quit drinking April 10th 2002 (and have not had a drink since) because of a health problem. Actually that's kind of an understatement... I was hauled off to the hospital and they did that routine with the...	John_R	14	1175	Mar 1, 2005 by Hanuman
	Enabling Personality (Preview) Appearance to the world of the enabling personality Protect others from the consequences of their own actions Had a post to share on here, but couldnt get it on. I guess it just wasnt meant to be. Wishing all my AA Buddies a good night, and a good day tomorrow. -- Edited by Phil at 22:07, 2005-0...	Phil	4	3425	Mar 1, 2005 by amanda2u2
	Bible Study (Preview) My husband and I have been attending a bible study class with a group from our church. When we got invited to join I told hubs why dont we try it so we can get to know some of the people intimately so we did. This week we are studying the beatitudes and this is a tough one for me espec...	Busbe	9	742	Mar 1, 2005 by Busbe
	Phil: Question... (Preview) I have to admit my spouse jabbers. Yeah, I know....be grateful, he's sober. Except, where once he no longer spoke at all, he talks all the time. I keep hoping he'll get back to "Him" that he once was. And yet I know that may or may not ever happ...	wallsal55	3	755	Mar 1, 2005 by wallsal55
	Strange Pattern (Preview) *What a strange pattern the shuttle of life can weave. --Frances Marion* Each experience we have plays its part in the total picture of our lives. The steps we have taken, the path we travel today, and our direction tomorrow are not by chance. There is a pattern. We each have a destiny. We may have veer...	Phil	0	837	Mar 1, 2005 by Phil
	Living in Today (Preview) Hi everyone!! Hope this finds everyone happy and healthy!! I am doing okay today. I am dealing with the repercussions for my actions 2 weeks ago. I had to go see a therapist for an "evaluation". It went pretty well, its what I needed. He made me realize that the depression I have (which is really bad)...	Kim H	5	744	Mar 1, 2005 by Kim H
	Hello (Preview) Hi to all, My name is Mike and I'm an alcoholic in Boston,MA. I've been looking for an online group and have found that the sharing here contains quite a bit of experience, strength, and hope. I wanted to post right away because opening up is important. I don't really have a...	Mike	5	646	Mar 1, 2005 by Nic
	Monday--Monday (Preview) You have to have faith that there is a reason you go through certain things. I can't say I'm glad to go through pain, but in a way one must, in order to gain courage and really feel joy." "When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a...	Phil	1	676	Mar 1, 2005 by Nic
	Nic (Preview) Nic I sent you a private message	Rick	1	907	Mar 1, 2005 by Nic
	The 12 Promises (Preview) The Twelve Promises If we are painstaking about this phase of our development: 1) We will be amazed before we are halfway through. 2) We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. 3) We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. 4) We will...	Phil	2	1215	Feb 28, 2005 by Mike
	Unconditional Love (Preview) Love without condition "I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be." Unconditional love is enlarging the self, a...	Phil	2	803	Feb 28, 2005 by Phil
	OLD TIME AA: (Preview) OLD TIME AA: 1. It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it. 2. If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress. 3. An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. 4. Sobriety is the leading cause of relapse. 5...	Rick	3	1171	Feb 28, 2005 by wallsal55
	BB Quote (Preview) We feel that elimination of our drinking is but a beginning. A much more important demonstration of our principles lies before us in our respective homes, occupations and affairs." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, There Is A Solution, pg. 19~	Rick	1	694	Feb 28, 2005 by ellen
	Meetings in Sacramento (Preview) I'm new to Sacramento. I've been to the Elk Grove and Land Park Meetings. I've looked on the internet and I cannot locate a meeting for today except in Elk Grove. Can anyone help me. Thanks	mmmmmm	1	768	Feb 27, 2005 by Rick
	Have a great Sunday!! (Preview) How It Works Utter confusion, misery and pain, Humiliation, remorseful, ashamed. Dreading to face the light of each day, Not wanting to hear what people would say. Like, "Where is your power? Where is your pride?" They don't understand that deep down inside I...	Phil	0	805	Feb 27, 2005 by Phil
	Is This What Its Like?? Ohh Gosh!! (Preview) Three sisters ages 72, 74, and 76 live in a house together. One night the 76 year old draws a bath. She puts her foot in and pauses. She yells down the stairs "was I getting in or out of the bath?". The 74 year old yells back "I don't know. I'll come up and see." She starts up the stairs and pauses. Then she yells...	Phil	0	742	Feb 27, 2005 by Phil
	Allo All (Preview) Allo folks, I have returned from my recent reality check in civilisation and am soooo glad to be back on the farm. It really is a crazy world out there. Shared a room with a couple of great girls who were only strangers for about 3 minutes and we giggled our way through a week of workshops an...	Nic	5	1332	Feb 26, 2005 by GammyRose
	BB fact (Preview) Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize that we only know a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask Him in your morning mediation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit so...	Rick	1	771	Feb 26, 2005 by rifkah
	An article on Anger and Expectations (Preview) Do we have a choice whether to be angry? Can we opt not to feel upset, furious, or resentful? Yes! Here’s why. Simply put, we get angry when people, situations, and other stimuli don’t meet our expectations - our thoughts about the future, what we look forward to or wait for. “Expectation is...	Phil	0	1255	Feb 25, 2005 by Phil
	BB Quote (Preview) "Those of us who have spent much time in the world of spiritual make- believe have eventually seen the childishness of it. This dream world has been replaced by a great sense of purpose, accompanied by a growing consciousness of the power of God in our lives. We have come to believe He would like us to kee...	Rick	2	790	Feb 25, 2005 by wallsal55
	People pleasing (Preview) Wow, I can relate to the info on people pleasing. Thanks to whoever put it on this site. I have suffered from this dilemma for years, although I think I maybe a little better. But I can still see evidence of it in my behavior now. I do believe as I continue to work the steps it will get better. I know that guilt...	rifkah	0	969	Feb 25, 2005 by rifkah
	The Fear Problem (Preview) The Problem of Fear Regardless of the type, size or location of their first AA meeting, newcomers face a predictable series of challenges that must be overcome in order to begin to benefit from AA. By far the greatest problem most individuals experience when beginning AA is how to deal with their fe...	Phil	0	5484	Feb 25, 2005 by Phil
	BB quote (Preview) "Simple, but not easy; a price had to be paid. It meant destruction of self-centeredness. I must turn in all things to the Father of Light who presides over us all." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Bill's Story, pg. 14~	Rick	2	647	Feb 25, 2005 by Rick
	Step One (Preview) Step One "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable." Who cares to admit complete defeat? Practically no one, of course. Every natural instinct cries out against the idea of personal powerlessness. It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we h...	Phil	0	679	Feb 24, 2005 by Phil
	I'm Lost (Preview) (I'm new) Tell me what to do... I'm in this spiral that knows no rationality. I'm going to jail; I'm losing my family. But yet I act like this. Daniel btw welcome.,	dan	6	716	Feb 24, 2005 by dan
	I found the diary of my alcohlic cat (Preview) Day 183 of My Captivity: My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while I am forced to eat dry cereal. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope of escape, and the mild scolding I get from ruining the occasional piece of furniture...	Phil	5	1102	Feb 24, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	Success (Preview) The joy associated with success is a wonderful aspect of addiction recovery. Some of the success points for us that others may not understand include: - Waking up in the morning remembering what you did the night before - Getting up and not having to rush to the bathroom (and then deciding which...	Phil	0	832	Feb 24, 2005 by Phil
	Looking in the mirror (Preview) THE MAN IN THE GLASS When you get what you want in your struggle for self And the world makes you king for a day, Just go to a mirror and look at yourself, And see what THAT man has to say. For it isn't your wife or family or friend Who judgement upon you must pass; The man whose verdict counts mo...	Phil	3	1017	Feb 24, 2005 by Rick
	Have a good day!! (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day When we came to our first A.A. meeting, we looked up at the wall at the end of the room and saw the sign: "But for the grace of God." We knew right then and there that we would have to call on the grace of God in order to get sober and get over our soul sickness. We heard speakers tell how...	Phil	1	1032	Feb 24, 2005 by Rick
	New member (Preview) Hello friend's I'm Todd and I'm an Alcoholic./Just to introduce myself alittle.I was an active alcoholic for over twenty years.My road to happy destiny started on June 10th 2002.this coming June god willing I will see my 3rd year in sobriety.I'm an active AA member and am alway's willing to help wher...	Todd	5	966	Feb 23, 2005 by Todd
	A Biggy (Preview) Yesterday - Today - And - Tomorrow There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is yesterday with its mistakes and cares, Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains. Yesterday h...	Phil	2	982	Feb 23, 2005 by Rick
	relapse or not? (Preview) I have a serious issue and I need some advice. Last Friday someone gave me a medication for my severe headache and neck pain. I knew enough to know it wasn't a narcotic. I took the medication. I knew I had to pee test that day. Well today I found out it was a barbituate. I had no clue and feel like a complete idi...	Kim H	7	1236	Feb 23, 2005 by Todd
	just to say hi (Preview) been reading all of the posts and as usual found out more things that i need to work on. will be traveling to Rochester NY for a funeral on my husbands side. His uncle. so i wont be around for a while. i just wanted to let you know that i hate being away from the group. i may not post b...	ellen	2	791	Feb 22, 2005 by amanda2u2
	The Brick (Preview) THE BRICK >A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. > >As his car passe...	Phil	0	935	Feb 22, 2005 by Phil
	Hey Pat? (Preview) Youre not alone my Freind. It took me a long time to be able to comunicate feelings and emotions to those close to me. Used to think it was weak, but found out it takes strength, and honesty, and true love. Was always playing the mind games, and using masks. Didnt even know who the "H" I was. Walking on e...	Phil	1	833	Feb 22, 2005 by pjb235
	Suffering In Silence and Sober (Preview) Those Who Still Suffer in Silence and are Sober I received this email today from a friend and thought you might find it thought provoking. "We don’t have to drink today to die. We buried a friend yesterday. The county coroner had published the required notices for next of kin and nobody...	Phil	0	1008	Feb 22, 2005 by Phil
	Healthy Relationships (Preview) Healthy Relationships -- What Do They Look Like? 15 Traits of a Healthy Relationship © Nancy Wesson, Ph.D. Partners can manage conflict and differences without despair or threats. Both partners protect and nourish the relationship and make it a priority (not addicted to work for e...	Phil	1	2336	Feb 21, 2005 by pjb235
	BB QUOTE (Preview) "In thinking about our day we may face indecision. We may not be able to determine which course to take. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We don't struggle. We are often surprised how the right answers come after we have tried this for a wh...	Rick	0	904	Feb 21, 2005 by Rick
	90 tools for recovery (Preview) 90 TOOLS FOR SOBRIETY 1 ) Stay away from that first drink, taking the 1st step daily. 2 ) Attend AA regularly and get involved. 3 ) Progress is made ONE DAY AT A TIME. 4 ) Use the 24 Hour plan. 5 ) Remember, your disease is incurable, progressive and fatal. 6 ) Do first things f...	Phil	0	1076	Feb 21, 2005 by Phil
	DO IT-ANYWAY (Preview) DO IT ANYWAY People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered; FORGIVE THEM ANYWAY If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives; BE KIND ANYWAY If you are successful you will win some friends...	Rick	1	903	Feb 21, 2005 by pjb235
	A Sponsor (Preview) Twelve Ways To Tell The Difference Between Your Sponsor And Your Therapist. 1. Your sponsor isn't all that interested in the "reasons" you drank. 2. Your therapist thinks your root problem is your lack of self-esteem, negative self-image, and your poor self-concept. Your sponsor thinks your pr...	Phil	3	1114	Feb 20, 2005 by pjb235
	How It Works (Preview) Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunate...	Phil	1	1007	Feb 20, 2005 by pjb235
	29 Ways To Deal With Stress (Preview) 29 ways to deal with stress 1. Use your Mastercard to pay your Visa and vice-versa. 2. Pop some popcorn without putting the lid on. 3. When someone says "have a nice day", tell them you have other plans. 4. Make a list of things to do that you have already done. 5. Dance naked in front of your pets...	Phil	2	1024	Feb 20, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	Quote for Today (Preview) "The finish line isn't a given, it is earned." --from the back of a T-shirt of a sporting event last night.	wallsal55	1	867	Feb 19, 2005 by Phil
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