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Frustration
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Frustration is the name of the game. The Serenity Prayer is the key.:)
Got into this site by the Grace of God, and some days He is pretty testy.
I might not be back on here for 6 or 7 days my Freinds.
I have blown up the servers Main office--Kidding. But its likely something Ide react to IF I was drinkin...
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Today's Gift
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Life is too short even if we live the whole of it to its fullest, but many of us have wasted so many years of our lives that we must now double our efforts if we hope to do any living at all. Truly, for us, it is later than we think.
There is one consolation, however, and that is, that it...
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Thought-who am I
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A bird does not sing because he has an answer. He sings because he has a song. --Joan Walsh Anglund
Each of us has a song to sing, just as birds do. Part of knowing who we are is appreciating our own songs. Are our songs gentle like the robins, or are we brilliant leaders like the bluejay? Are we easy to...
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BB quote 2/9
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"We found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To us, the Realm of Spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive; never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We Agnostics, Page 46~
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Be kind to yourself
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Leave yourself alone. --Jenny Janacek
Three women were talking. One blamed herself for an unkind remark someone had made to her. Another blamed herself for not getting work done. The other compared her looks to those of the movie stars and thought she was ugly.
The women each noticed how the...
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The 12 steps we arrived with
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1. We admitted we were powerless over nothing -
that we could manage our lives perfectly and those of anyone who would allow us.
2. We came to believe that there was no power
greater th...
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Hi Everyone.......UPDATE
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Hello
Checking in to say Hello to each and everyone. I have been away to due to an accident which had affected my eyes tremendously. I am doing well but surely miss you all!!! Just when I decided to make a committment in sharing my ESH on a more regular basis >>this happened. I just l...
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Responsibility
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Responsibility
I believe that God created people. Although we could have been made like puppets on a string, we were given the capacity to think and behave as we choose.
If what I believe is true, then each person must be responsible for his or her own th...
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Worry
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When I look back on all these worries I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which never happened. --Winston Churchill
A rolled-up ball of yarn does not take up much space--it sits, ready to be used when needed. It gets unrolle...
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Hey Guys?
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I lost a lot of email addresses last week re computer repairs and stuff.
Rick? Yours was one of them. Anyone wishing to be put back on my list, drop me a line at Phil@personainternet.com
Thanks guys and wishing you all a great day!!
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Sharing a big page re Anxiety
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The Attitude that Causes Anxiety
When Buddha described the evolution of samsara -- the cycle of constantly recurring problems in which we are presently trapped, he said that its origin was ignorance. This is a specific type of ignorance, one that misunderstands the nature of existen...
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what should i do???
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I live in a small town(aprox 600 people)and have bin thinking about going to a local AA meeting. Im just worried that if I do go someone will see my truck there, or someone will spread rumors around town. If things do get around town I could loose my jo...
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New Here & looking for Caduceus
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Hi everyone. My name is Kim and I have been in recovery since 7-9-01. I have recently moved to Virginia Beach and have gotten established into AA/NA programs here. However I am trying to find caduceus meetings in my area, and I have no idea where to look for them. Can anyone point me in the right direction...
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thought 2/7
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It is the weak who are cruel. Gentleness can only be expected from the strong. --Leo Rosten
When we think of strength, do we think of someone who shows no emotion and intimidates others with physical power? True strength is the freedom to show all kinds of feelings. Strong people aren't afraid o...
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Have a good day everyone here:)
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Resentment, bitterness, inner anger --- how they get started
Resentment, bitterness, inner anger have a starting point. The
starting point is angry, bitter, resentful thoughts.
Resentment, bitterness, anger are built up through a mechanism,
through a process. The secret to not h...
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BB quote 2/6
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"We represent no particular faith or denomination. We are dealing only with general principles common to most denominations." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Working With Others, Page 93~
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A.A. Thought for the Day
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A.A. Thought for the Day
I'm grateful that I found a program in A.A. that could keep me sober. I'm grateful that A.A. has shown me the way to faith in a Higher Power because the renewing of that faith has changed my way of life. And I've found a happiness and contentment that I had forgotten exis...
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pride
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Pride works from within; it is the direct appreciation of oneself. --Arthur Schopenhauer
Pride, like all emotions, has two faces: one healthy and one sick. It is our challenge to use the healthy side well. Sick pride fills us with ourselves, looks down on others, and has no room for generosity...
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A partly Poetic Moment
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There's something special about em, I'd have to say..
The blokes with the cabbage head, and the turnip truck
Who pop up into my life and encourage me
no matter whether life is cruising, or I'm feeling stuck...
(I love that)
And those inspring types with the courage to...
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Feb 6th, Reading and Thought
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ RIGOROUS HONESTY Who wishes to be rigorously honest and tolerant? Who wants to confess his faults to another and make restitution for harm done? Who cares anything about a Higher Power, let alone meditation and prayer? Who wants to sacrifice ti...
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This Moment
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All We Have Is Now
We can only live now, this moment. We cannot erase the mistakes we made yesterday or bring back the good times we had. We cannot know what tomorrow will require of us, nor can we ensure future security and happiness. Now is what we have, and now is everything.
We can follow our pl...
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Merry go round is slowing down:)
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Howdy Guys:) Its a beautiful day in Ontario Canada. Some of us are even sober.:)
Answers to questions.
Just moved from one house to another in the same town, and yes it was exciting-but when you have 3 sober AA guys helping, and 4 drinkers that worked their butts off for a case of beer--it went...
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thought
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Let there be spaces in your togetherness. --Kahlil Gibran
Sometimes it is just as important to know when to leave others alone as it is to know when to talk with them. We all need to be alone at times--to think, to work out a problem, or just to be quiet with ourselves. This is especially true in fami...
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BB quote 2/5
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"To be doomed to an alcoholic death or to live on a spiritual basis are not always easy alternatives to face." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We Agnostics, Page 44~
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meeting God
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A little boy wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with a bag of potato chips and a six-pack of root beer and started his journey. When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. She was sitting in the park, just starin...
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Ruffled...Fluffled...How dare I!
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Looks like I ruffled a few feathers!! Sorry. I don't plan to push my business on this board, since I know the importance and significance of staying on topic when dealing with sobriety. I did bring it up thou, since I feel my family and IT will not survive alcohol. If I do have s...
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BB Quote 2/4
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"...I would enter upon a new relationship with my Creator; that I would have the elements of a way of living which answered all my problems. Belief in the power of God, plus enough willingness, honesty and humility to establish and maintain the new order of things, were the essential requirements." ~...
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Doublewinner?
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Hey gal, I think I have online shopping withdrawals! I miss you! I miss your posts!
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Phil
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Phil, where did you settle into? The Canadian outback? You look like that Dundee guy in your caricature. Just had to razz you, and hope to see you back on the boards, when you unpack your boxes. (I am peeking). From that lady who tried to Romance th...
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Denial
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Am I in denial? Can someone provide insight?
I was raised in an alcoholic home. My father is a recovering alcoholic. My mother drank alongside and since quit. They are divorced. My brother and I have drank excessively on and off throughout the years and have suffered consequences as a result. Both s...
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Friendship
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Friendships divide our burdens and double our joys.
Having women and men we trust enough to share our deepest secrets with is one of the many gifts of the program. While it's true that most of us already had friends, we seldom told them everything about ourselves. We held back the most intim...
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self-conscious
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The shy man usually finds that he has been shy without cause, and that, in practice, no one takes the slightest notice of him. --Robert Lynd
We sometimes feel self-conscious in front of others. It may be that we've just gotten braces or a new haircut and we're afraid everyone will stare at us. We s...
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New life, New business, New Soberity
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Hi my name is chris and I am an alcoholic. I am new back to AA, and really need make it work this time. I started a new business that has great potential to change my life around. I quickly found out that my new business,my family and my health won't be around very long if I don't sober up....
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Have a great time Stan!
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Bon Voyage ol' buddy!!
Have a blast in Spaghetti Central and I look forward to hearing what mischeif you manage to get up to. Crikey, you might even come back cultured or something...
I'm gonna miss my lunatic mate... think of me when de biiiig maaama's serve de paaaaastaaaaah!
Laugh lots, don'...
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What a ride!!
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Hi Honey !! Im Home!!
Missed you guys the past few days. Been moving from one residence to another
and getting settled in.
But there have been daily tests, and my Higher Power has a sense of humour.
Computer problems for the last few days. Hopefully will be resolved by tomorrow.
S...
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Slow down and let go
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Slow down and let go
On a road trip up the California coast a while back, I tried to call home only to find that the batteries in my cell phone had died. I worried. What if someone needed to get in touch with me? What if there was a problem with the house? What if my family couldn't find me and got wor...
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BB P13
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There I humbly offered myself to God, as I then understood Him, to do with me as He would. I placed myself unreservedly under His care and direction. I admitted for the first time that of myself I was nothing; that without Him I was lost. I ruthlessly face...
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Phil are you there are you OK?
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Hey man if you need help give me a bell.
we are here for you bud
Just reach out and let us take the weight
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"God" (as you understand it) Bless Bush
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Jellinek Chart, interesting site....
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What a great program!
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After several years in the program, my sobriety was starting to get "stale" as I was frequenting the same AA meetings week after week. So on Wednesdays now, another AA friend of mine & I travel just 20 minutes down the highway to a BB meeting. What a nice bunch of folks! We've been so warmly received t...
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Today's gift 2/2
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The beginning is the most important part of the work. --Plato
On occasion we feel a bit sad as we ready ourselves for bed, knowing that our bedtime routine marks the end of another day. We may experience a slight sense of loss - time lost, opportunities lost, and a piece of life gone forever...
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BB Quote p56-57
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Fear
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Fear is the absence of faith. --Paul Tillich
We all experience fear. Sometimes we fear small things that only seem large at the time, like a test in school, or meeting a new boss, or going to the dentist. Sometimes we fear big things like serious illness or death, or that someone we love will come t...
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BB QUOTE 2/2
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"There may be some wrongs we can never fully right. We don't worry about them if we can honestly say to ourselves that we would right them if we could." Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, pg 83 -----------------------------------
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Crime and Punishment
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Yesterday I was run over in the road and then repeatedly assaulted. My assailant made loud and abusive threats to a number of people.
Yet the Police will not be pressing any charges because they have a "new policy"!.
As far as I see it the new policy is to persecute honest law abiding citizens li...
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Today's gift 2/1
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Everyday . . . life confronts us with new problems to be solved which force us to adjust our old programs accordingly. --Dr. Ann Faraday
Facing the day straight on is occasionally difficult to do. There are those days we feel like crawling under the covers and staying there, certain that...
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BB Quote 2/1
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"To get over drinking will require a transformation of thought and attitude. We all had to place recovery above everything, for without recovery we would have lost both home and business." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, To Employers, pg. 143~
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Thought 2/1
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It's not enough to talk to plants, you also have to listen. --David Bergman
Plants grow best when we pay attention to them. That means watering, touching them, putting them in places where they will receive good light. They need people around them to notice if they are drooping at the edges or lo...
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BB Quote p56-57
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thus was our friend's cornerstone fixed in place. no later vicissitude has shaken it. his alcoholic problem was taken away. that very night, years ago, it disappeared. save for a few brief moments of temptation the thought of drink has never returned; and at such times a g...
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