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Stranded
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A man stranded on a desert island comes across a woman who has washed up onto shore. The man helps the woman and welcomes her to the island.
Later on that day, the woman says, "I don't suppose you smoked before you were stranded on this island, did you?"
The man explains that he did smoke before be...
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A New or Old Saying? ROFLMAO!
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My spouse came home from a meeting, and had to chuckle. A fellow there was in prayer, and finally said out loud, "I've been trying to Polevault over a Mouse T--d ! My spouse said he could see himself in that expression so clearly. I said to, for me, h...
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We're laughin'
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Just wanted to say I have laughed out loud several times tonight and it feels really good. I am really enjoying getting to know folks on this board, and especially enjoy it when folks share their sense of humour.
We have all come a long way, and to be able to smile through things today, sure beats drinki...
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boundaries
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Others treat us the way we invite them to treat us. --Barb H.
Coping with stress is a lot more difficult than preventing it in the first place. If we think prevention, we can avoid a surprising number of stressful situations by thinking ahead and sidestepping. We don't have to have lunch w...
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patience
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Only with winter patience can we bring The deep desired, long-awaited spring --Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Family life requires patience. We probably realized that a long time ago. The Greek origin of the word patience is pathos, which means "suffering." In our lives together, we often suffer. L...
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Its quite a battle if we dont accept hu?
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Acceptance is the recognition that something is wrong and a person needs help. This is true of cancer, diabetes, and heart disease, as well as drug addiction and alcoholism. With any disease, if a person does not recognize, admit, and accept that they have a problem, there is no solution. Acceptance...
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Todays gift 1/23/05
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A.A. Thought for the Day
"Outline the program of action to new prospects, explaining how you made a self appraisal, how you straightened out your past, and why you are now endeavoring to help them. It is important for them to realize that your attempt to pass this on to them plays a vital part...
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resentments
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Resent Somebody
The moment you start to resent a person you become that person's slave. He or she controls your dreams, absorbs your digestion, robs you of your peace of mind and good will, and takes away the pleasure of your work.
A person you resent ruins your spirituality and nullifie...
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thought
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Animals are such agreeable friends they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms.
--George Eliot
A pet is often liked by everyone and seems to have no enemies. Why is this? Pets are friendly and interested in others. They seem to get joy out of just being with us. They do not have a critica...
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Should I bother?
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Have been sober for various periods, up to 5 years at one point. Locally, I found many "AA clubs" locally that only follow 12 traditions when convienent. Found out that they like to talk about folk rather than to them. I even confronted them, and asked them to talk about me, since I was there. I am large an...
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Can I Ask You All For Help ?
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Hi, my name is Ginger and I am not an Alcoholic but my husband is and I have some questions and I thought who better to answer. First my husband and I have been together for 21 years and through out that time he has battled with sobriety. I think maybe he went 2 years at th...
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Reading and Thought for the Day
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ ACCEPTING OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are, ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are. This is to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can ev...
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Big week
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Allo all,
'Tas been a big week and I haven't had much chance to check in. Kicked a few goals and came short on a few others, but feeling like I'm winning at the game of life, as I sit to write.
Stan - I look forward to the finished inventory. For every crappy thing you counted, I look forward to hearing at l...
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Forgiving
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To me, forgiveness is freedom.
When I do not forgive, I am being a victim. I am trapped in my own misery and self pity. I feel powerless. I am unable to contribute much to other people. I blame those who I have not forgiven instead of being responsible for my own life. I waste my time and energy trying to ju...
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Sure is great to see
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Great to see so many newcommers and old commers finding and sharing with us, on this board.
Makes one feel a big part of.
I cant remember everyones name--I gave up trying. Sometimers, yu know.:)
Having only 2 brain cells left, and they work overtime, most days---doesnt help.
But Im g...
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Hiya!
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I just joined the board here and I wanted to say hello to everyone.
I'm in the Seattle area (Renton, to be specific) and my sobriety date is 10-21-02. Hope everyone is having a great weekend!
--Greg
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So True Hu? And have a good night guys.
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Resent Somebody
The moment you start to resent a person you become that person's slave. He or she controls your dreams, absorbs your digestion, robs you of your peace of mind and good will, and takes away the pleasure of your work.
A person you resent ruins your spirituality and nullifies you...
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20 below 0
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My wife is at the door. The auto water at the barn isn't working. Could I come right out? Yes!!! Just what I want to do go out and work on water!!!. Wonder whats's the matter? frozen??? What leson will I learn I ask GOD?? Away I go wondering????
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Some days life does suck, being sober. BUT
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I dont hafta hug damned toilet bowls on a daily basis.
I can wake up in the morning and the bed aint shakin.
I can go through police spot checks and say, na na na na na.
Ide rather be breathin than be in jail, in a padded cell, or in a nut house.
I can watch all the insanity instead of being in it...
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1/21 gift
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Love immediately challenges me to break the fixation I have with myself. --John Powell, S.J.
Self-absorption can become habitual, and it's a seductive pastime. "How do I look?" "Was my response articulate?" "Is my wit impressive?" It's all too easy to block out the presence of others...
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Why We Were Chosen
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Why We Were Chosen
God in HIS wisdom has selected this group of men and women to be the purveyors of His Goodness. In selecting them through whom to bring about this phenomenon, He went not to the proud, the mighty, the famous or the brilliant. He went to the humble, to the sick, to the un...
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Todays 12 Step Call...
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I was called on the telephone by someone I don't know, asking me if I would help them figure out a way to get a alcoholic out of a hotel room, into detox, and thereafter the rooms of recovery.
I agreed to meet with this person at a family resturant to discuss it further.
I got to the resturant and t...
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Thought for the Day 1/21/05
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ UNITED WE STAND We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p...
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Two Months Not Drinking
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Its over two months that I have not had an alcoholic drink.
How has it changed my life? I shall try and do an inventory.
Main Benefit: being able to drive at any time. Has come in useful when going up to the pub when bored at home or escaping (see below). Ironically, it means that I am more li...
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Hey Stan? My man!!
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I weave through the bull crap each and every day, the same as you do my freind.
But theres one great thing about it. Ide rather watch it than be in it.:)
You deserve a pat on the back.
And by the way. I misplaced your phone number. Fire it at me again. Ide likely enjoy talking with you, even if you...
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Yup-makes sense to me:)
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>Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me,
>for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either, just take off
>and leave me alone.
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> § The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan
>belt and a flat tire.
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> § The darkest hours come just before the dawn. So if you're
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Those were the days:)
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What was my mother thinking?
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Its colder than a ----- fill in the blank
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Just dropping in to say good morning to all you guys.
Its so cold in Ontario Canada--the 2 brain cells that still exist are hiding under blankets. (smile)
Wishing you all a good day!!
Thought for today "Dont think--it causes brain damage." :)
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THE LIGHT BULB
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My Higher Power - The Light Bulb By Clarence H. Snyder (Clarence got sober in 1938, was sponsored by Dr. Bob, & started AA group #3 in Cleveland. In the first few years of his recovery Clarence had a higher recovery rate than Bill W. & Dr. Bob COMBINED. His story, "Home Brewmeister...
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1/21 thought
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If you realize you aren't so wise today as you thought you were yesterday, you're wiser today. --Olin Miller
Smug was a kitten who thought she knew everything. She knew how to clean herself with her sandpaper tongue, how to sleep, eat, and keep warm, and how to sharpen her tiny claws. One day, her...
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it has been a while
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well i haven't been out doing research just been sick with woman issues and haven't been up to writing . i however have missed you all and i have been doing some service work and doing meetings. just being careful with my recovery especially when i don't feel good ya know. well i hope...
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quote 1/20/05
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"We know what you are thinking. You are saying to yourself: "I'm jittery and alone. I couldn't do that." But you can. You forget that you have just now tapped a source of power much greater than yourself. To duplicate, with such backing, what we have accomplished is only a matter of willingness, patien...
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quote
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"At the moment we are trying to put our lives in order. But this is not an end in itself." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, Page 77~
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thought
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The power of a man's virtue should not be measured by his special efforts, but by his ordinary doing. --Blaise Pascal
The airplane kit is on the table in front of us. We have the glue, the little wooden pieces, and the instructions. We work for hours putting together each piece, s...
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today's gift 1/20/2005
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Is someone happier, better, or braver because of some act of yours today? If you can answer yes, then you can feel rather confident that you are progressing in the AA way of living.
If you can't then you are not giving it the old college try and you are cheating yourself out of a lot of happiness...
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FREEDOM THROUGH ACCEPTANCE
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Hi Everyone,
Hope you don't mind me sharing this from "As Bill Sees It:"
"We admitted we couldn't lick alcohol with our own remaining resources, and so we accepted the further fact that dependence upon a Higher Power (if only our A.A. group) could do this hitherto impossible job. The momen...
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Saddened Update on My (ex) Husband
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I received a call this morning from my (ex) husband's sister. He passed away in his sleep this morning. I wasn't expecting it as my son and I had went to visit him in the nursing a week and a 1/2 ago and the nurse said it would probably be another 4 or 5 months before he'd go into the coma stage. I choose not to pu...
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THe Wounded Healer
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In approaching the alcoholic, we have tried hard to capitalize on our one great natural advantage. That is, of course, our personal experience as drinkers who have recovered. --Bill W., co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous
The Wounded Healer
Consider the following situations. A p...
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Thought
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A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. --Chinese proverb
Even the strongest, most loving families always have room for growth. There is no such thing as a "perfect" family. If our family is far from perfect, that's okay. It only matters that we are working at getting better...
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Thoughts for today
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A.A. Thought for the Day
On the foundation of sobriety, we can build a life of honesty, unselfishness, faith in God, and love of our fellow human beings. We'll never fully reach these goals, but the adventure of building that kind of a life is so much better than the merry-go-round of our old dr...
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Today's Gift
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We are each so much more than what some reduce to measuring. --Karen Kaiser Clark
Our society places great emphasis on how well each person is doing. It makes us judgmental and competitive. As children we may have thought that our real value was measured by the grades we got in school or th...
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A Page on Acceptance
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Acceptance is the recognition that something is wrong and a person needs help. This is true of cancer, diabetes, and heart disease, as well as drug addiction and alcoholism. With any disease, if a person does not recognize, admit, and accept that they have a problem, there is no solution. Acceptance...
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Thought
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The stream that was locked up for the winter now ripples and gurgles along its way. --John F. Gardner
Winter presents us with a frozen world, silent, sometimes forbidding. It seems like such a harsh time, forcing us indoors, letting us out only when we're wrapped in extra woolens, extra boots,...
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A new day
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A.A. Thought for the Day
The new life can't be built in a day. We have to take the program slowly, a little at a time. Our subconscious minds have to be reeducated. We have to learn to think differently. We have to get used to sober thinking instead of alcoholic thinking. Any one who tries it knows that...
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chronic relapsing
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HI anyone or everyone,
I have just been released from detox for the umteenth time (4th to be exact) and was hoping I could get some encouraging words of wisdom from other alcoholics or addicts who have also relapsed more than once, but who are now living sober and happy. I'm s...
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PENNIES LET THERE ALWAYS BE PENNIES
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Subject: Re: PENNIES LET THERE ALWAYS BE PENNIES God Bless you Chris, Thank you for sharing with us. I will get this up under Inspiring Stories. Everyone looks for miracles... They all want something BIG! This might be the smallest of miracles.. 1 cent. But it is also the largest.. Because it centered...
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A little history
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Origins of AA - Henrietta Seiberling Transcript of Henrietta's remarks presented at Founder's Day, June 10, 1971 Henrietta Seiberling is the lady who introduced Bill Wilson to Dr. Bob Smith. Henrietta Buckler Seiberling May, 1972 In the spring of 1971, the newspapers reported the passing of Bill...
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Cold Cold Stuff
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It was autumn, and the Indians on the remote reservation asked their new Chief if the winter was going to be cold or mild.
Since he was an Indian Chief in a modern society, he had never been taught the old secrets, and when he looked at the sky, he couldn't tell what the weather was going to be.
Neve...
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Behavior and Hatred
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How does my behavior reflect hatred?
When I hate a person or a group of people, I:
harbor the most extreme level of anger possible against them.
ignore and avoid them; they don't exist for me.
am easily aggravated by their behavior, looks, or attitudes.
get agitated when I think ab...
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Howdy
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Man cannot remake himself without suffering. For he is both the marble and the sculptor.
--Alexis Carrell
A sculptor begins with an unformed piece of marble. He must be able to envision what he wants to create. Then, armed with tools and courage, he begins to chink away at the marble he does not n...
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