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Anyone figure out how to reply to a topic yet?
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I had the same problem last night, and this morning but I noticed SOBS was abel to reply, how did you do it?
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Website Meltdown????
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I can post a new topic, but can't reply to any.......thought it was my computer till I read Lisa's post......hmmm.......
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RE: CarolinaGirl
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What's goin on with the problems with replying?? tried in firefox and IE, wouldn't let it go through... anyway... guess I'll copy Wren and do a new post then... Wren said... "How easy it is to forget the soul and spirit sickness that goes hand in hand with alcoholism, let alone the insanity. We...
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Letting People Be There for Us
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Sometimes, we need nurturing. Sometimes, we need people to support us.
Many of us have been deprived of support and nurturing for so long we may not realize it's something we want and need. Many of us have learned to block our stop ourselves from getting what we want and need.
We may not reach out to h...
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Hi to all
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It sure has been awhile, hope that everyone is healthy and doing well, it looks like this site has had some changes, just wanted to say hi. Toni
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The Power of Disengagement
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Playing Mind Games For better or worse, many people have been raised to believe that communicating in an honest and open way will not get them what they want. They have learned, instead, to play mind games or go on power trips in the service of their egos agenda. People stuck in this outmoded and ineffic...
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I need a little HELP
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Hi, well I first just checked in after a long while, then I decided to ask for some help from you. I have a very dear friend, very close to her, and she and her husband are going through what I think so many people are going through, Home Foreclosure. My problem, is I Pray so hard for them, try so hard to let go a...
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Hi All...Everything's o.k.
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Hello everyone! Sorry I didn't post letting you know my whereabouts. I've had a couple of p.m.'s asking (thank you for the caring) and Thought it would be quicker to post here. Michelle and I are moving and have been working on it for the last month, so checking in has been difficu...
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Could be a Positive
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Some thing happened today, It's weird something happened for what reasons I have no idea, maybe it was just meant to be. I've recieved a phone call this mornig, in regards my childrens real father, kinda of wierd but maybe this is what needed to take place. Him and I haven't spoken in 16 years, when my son...
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Speaking out
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Ok, this isn't really about recovery, but this is something I have seen quite a bit of and heard about in the little over a year I've been in AA, mostly and *especially* with online groups. I have never had a problem here, you all are family, and I trust y'all. But there is a chatroom I go to where I see a who...
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Detachment
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One day, my son brought a gerbil home to live with us. We put it in a cage. Some time later, the gerbil escaped. For the next six months, the animal ran frightened and wild through the house. So did we - chasing it.
"There it is. Get it!" we'd scream, each time someone spotted the gerbil. I, or m...
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my metings...
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i haven't been to a meeting for a week, and dont know when i'll go to one next. the reason being that ive been sick as a parrot since friday night. this horrible fever came over me and i felt like my body was on fire. haven't eaten hardly anything for four days- but starting to eat a bit more now. i will have to r...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 30th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We have slips in A.A. It has been said these are not slips but premeditated drunks, because we have to think about taking a drink before we actually take one. The thought always comes before the act. It is suggested that people should always get in touch with an A.A. before takin...
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I feel compelled to post this
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I have been following a fairly local story with a hurting heart. It takes me back to the days where risky behavior and alcoholism went hand in hand for me. When I left home at 18, I was full of anger, resentment, pain, and hostility. Once I discovered that magic 'elixir' in the bottle, I was a freight train...
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Daily Reflections 11/30
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PROTECTION FOR ALL At the personal level, anonymity provides protection for all members from identification as alcoholics, a safeguard often of special importance to newcomers. At the level of press, radio, TV, and films, anonymity stresses the equality in the Fellowship of all members by putti...
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Reason why i drink (typical alkie share, no one else exactly to tellit to tho right now)
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MEH.. Okay so for you guys that read my long, rambling, and most likely totally discontinuous and incompresible first post about my alcohol induced "epiphone", lemme just tellya what the girl said to me today (We met up to hangout at a coffee shop or whatever). She was like I wanna be like yo...
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Daily Reflection not avail for today....12&12 instead!
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"When a man or a woman has a spiritual awakening, the most important meaning of it is that he has now become able to do, feel, and believe that which he could not do before on his unaided strength and resources alone. He has been granted a gift which amounts to a new state of consciousness and being. H...
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FRIENDS!!!
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Hope all of you are well! I was just thinking how lucky I am to have such great new AA friends!!! From the people on MIP that allow me to share my true feelings and offer up hope and understanding and an unconditional love no matter what to the friends Ive met in meetings. Sure I have friends and family but Im...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 29th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The A.A. way is the way of sobriety, and yet there are slips. Why do these slips occur? Why don't we all accept A.A. and stay sober from then on? There are many reasons, but it has been proved without exception that once we have become alcoholics we can never drink successfully ag...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 28th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The A.A. way is the way of sobriety. A.A. is known everywhere as a method that has been successful with alcoholics. Doctors, psychiatrists, and clergymen have had some success. Some men and women have got sober all by themselves. We believe that A.A. is the most successful an...
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Back to the Steps
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Go back to the Steps. Go back to a Step
When we don't know what to do next, when we feel confused, upset, distraught, at the end of our rope, overwhelmed, full of self will, rage, or despair, go back to the Steps.
No matter what situation we are facing, working a Step will help. Focus on one, trust your i...
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A Few AA Acronyms
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Hi all,
Someone emailed me a few AA acronyms and I just thought that I'd share them with you all.
Have a great day,
Carol
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F.I.N.E.
[I'm] Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional
F.E.A.R.
Face Everything And Recover
N.U.T.S.
Not Using...
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Turning It Over
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Do your best and leave to God the rest. -- Proverb
There comes a time in facing a challenge when we have done all that we can, and still the situation remains unresolved. This is the time to turn the problem over and release our cares into the hands of spirit. When we let the Universe take charge, anythin...
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just checkin in...
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Hey y'all... Well, my back is better, the sciatica is mostly better... I'm driving again, getting to meetings, only a bit of problems with my leg after the long drives, but tolerable enough... went to a couple of really good meetings the past 2 nights, Sunday I went to my old homegroup in Memphis, a 1...
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Introductory post/Epiphone
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Okay, this is Cut/pasted from my blog, where ill try to keep track of my progress at http://diaryofamadman11.blogspot.com/ mainly cause retyping it would be a bitch. Okay, tail end of one of the worst benders of my life...8 days long prolly, all day/night basically (including on the job which is...
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Health questions
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Hello, I have been drinking since I was 12 years old, and very heavily in the past 5 years, I am 27 now. After many blackouts and few bouts of vomitting up a large amount of blood. (where it came from, my stomach? I have no idea) I decided to try giving the old cold turkey a shot. It has now been about 6 days sinc...
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Confession
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I have not been to a meeting in 3 months!!! Yet..... I feel I am progressing, and have gone through tough emotional tests and came out strong with my faith intact and sober. I know I'm doing the wrong thing.....but I've rationalized that the $$ and family are where I should spend my time, and I have. But....
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I did something ugly today....
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My granny would have labeled it "ugly" & then she'd say "God don't like ugly" ..It was silly, petty and childish..But it's buggin the crap outta me. I'd readily call my sponsor but she's out of town this week..... so, ya'll get ready laugh. There are soooo many other things...
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Daily Reflections 11/28
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ATTRACTION, NOT PROMOTION Through many painful experiences, we think we have arrived at what that policy ought to be. It is the opposite in many ways of usual promotional practice. We found that we had to rely upon the principle of attraction rather than promotion. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITION...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 27th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The way of A.A. is the way of sobriety, fellowship, service, and faith. Let us take up each one of these things and see if our feet are truly on the way. The first and greatest to us is sobriety. The others are built on sobriety as a foundation. We could not have the others if we did no...
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We Can Trust Ourselves
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For many of us, the issue is not whether we can trust another person again; it's whether we can trust our own judgment again.
"The last mistake I made almost cost me my sanity," said one recovering woman who married a sex addict. "I can't afford to make another mistake like that.&quo...
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Happy Birthday Ironman 1yr Today!
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Congratulations on your 1st Anniversay, Jarrod! Happy Sober Day! I hope you're enjoying the best your life has to offer today. May more be revealed as you troop onwards & upwards 1Day@aTime. Well Done, dear. You're a real inspiration. Keep on keeping on & in all your hard won work & effor...
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Daily Reflections 11/27
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THE PERILS OF THE LIMELIGHT In the beginning, the press could not understand our refusal of all personal publicity. They were genuinely baffled by our insistence upon anonymity. Then they got the point. Here was something rare in the world -- a society which said it wished to publicize its principle...
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Daily Struggles...
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So this will be my first post since checking out this site. Since then a lot has happened. Finally did the detox thing which was a walk through hell and back. Amidst all that turmoil, after 17 years I finally laid eyes on my biological Father for the first time in my life. There are no hard feelings between...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 26th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Continuing our thoughts about the rewards that have come to us as a result of our new way of living, we have found that we have got rid of many of our fears, resentments, inferiority complexes, negative points of view, self-centeredness, criticism of others, over-sensitive...
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welcome back
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Hey Dean: Saw you were on...Welcome back, and hope you had a great trip with your wife!!! Lani
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 25th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I am not so envious of other people, nor am I jealous of other people's possessions and talents. When I was drinking, I was secretly full of jealousy and envy of those people who could drink normally, who had the love and respect of their families, who lived a normal life and were...
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FAO MIP ~ Post for DannyC
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Hello, All@MIP. I have my settings adjusted so that I can see most recently added to posts so this from DannyC came up but it's originally from April earlier this year. Danny has added to it today. I may have used a clumsy way of going about it but have copied & pasted so everyone can catch up with Danny...
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Daily Reflections 11/26
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THE HAZARDS OF PUBLICITY People who symbolize causes and ideas fill a deep human need. We of A.A. do not question that. But we do have to soberly face the fact that being in the public eye is hazardous, especially for us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 181 As a recovered alcoholic I must make an ef...
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Letting Go of Self-Criticism
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Look how far we've come!
It's good to focus on the task ahead, on what remains to be done. It's important to stop and feel pleased about what we've accomplished too.
Yes, it may seem that the change has been slow. At times, change is grueling. Yes, we've taken steps backward. But we're right where we...
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AA and NA
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I go to AA and NA as well my AA seams to be longer then NA but ? is does anyone say NA is sep from AA when I go to NA they say alcohol is a drug. according to a few in AA its a diffrent matter I think so to sorry for off topic
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The family afterwards - ES&H
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"Years of lining with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is, to some extent, ill." Let families realize, as they start their journey, that all will not be fair weather. AA BB, Ch.9 Before coming into AA I thought my drinking only affected me! T...
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Awareness
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When we first become aware of a problem, a situation, or a feeling, we may react with anxiety or fear. There is no need to fear awareness. No need.
Awareness is the first step toward positive change and growth. It's the first step toward solving the problem, or getting the need met, the first step towa...
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Daily Reflections 11/25
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A POWERFUL TRADITION In the years before the publication of the book "Alcoholics Anonymous," we had no name. . .by a narrow majority the verdict was for naming our book "The Way Out." . . .One of our early lone members. . . found exactly twelve books already titled "The Way O...
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Dealing with extreme physical pain
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I am in excruciating pain. I have a nevve disease called shingles and it is the most painful thing in the world. I have made myself make meetings although misserable through them as all I want to do is ly down. Because I am an addict it is very hard to get narcotic pain meds. If every I needed them it is no...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 24th Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Instead of pretending to be perfectionists, in A.A. we are content if we are making progress. The main thing is to be growing. We realize that perfectionism is only a result of false pride and an excuse to save our faces. In A.A. we are willing to make mistakes and to stumble, pro...
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Daily Reflections 11/24
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A UNIVERSAL SEARCH Be quick to see where religious people are right. Make use of what they offer. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 87 I do not claim to have all the answers in spiritual matters, any more than I claim to have all the answers about alcoholism. There are others who are also engaged in a spiritual se...
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I Need Help!
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In a few minutes I will be leaving to go to my second meeting of the day. I am totally freaked out! I have 6-1/2 years in the program and feel as though I am trying to get sober for the first time. I lost my job in February and then got a new one last month. I have chronic back pain and have not been able to last...
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Living One Day At A Time
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I went to sleep with gum in my mouth and now there's gum in my hair and when I got out of bed this morning I tripped on the skateboard and by mistake I dropped my sweater in the sink while the water was running and I could tell it was going to be a terrible day. -- Judith Viorst
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 23rd Nov 07
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I no longer refuse to do anything because I cannot do it to perfection. Many of us alcoholics use the excuse of not being able to do something perfectly to enable us to do nothing at all. We pretend to be perfectionists. We are good at telling people how a thing should be done, but w...
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