Alcoholics Anonymous

SoberSteve · SoberSteve

only on 72 hrs right now :( I hope one day I can get a true 90 day coin, but Im sober right now and God willing will stay sober tomorrow... This time I affected another person who I truly cared about in the program, I dont want to get into much detail right now but she had a lot more sobriety time than me (years) a...

Aquaman · Aquaman

"When will you be done with recovery? How long are you going to have to keep being selfish and putting your sobriety first? These days it's all about you." No. I'm not kidding. I know I have issues; hell - I have subscriptions to some of them. However, I'm amazed at the man I'm becoming, but I gu...

Dj · Dj

Hi, Just thought I would Introduce myself. My SD is 28/5/2008 and from the UK. How do I access the online meetings ? Up until recently I have been doing 1 meeting a day, Which is great at the start, but as things have settled down, and life is growing as it does, doing daily meetings is getting harder, so im l...

SUSIE · SUSIE

Well Im back from a week in the Mountains of Lake Tahoe. Sad to see it end. But lots of good lessons were learned. Went to a running camp. Ran every morning at 6 am ( ok i slept in once.) Hiked most afternoons. Funny thing. The people out there have no idea that im an alcoholic. Went to dinner with them...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Lucky Number *7* aye! Have a wonderful 24hrs for 07.14.10, Tina. Godbless babe, Danielle xxx

Just Toni · Just Toni

Good Morning all, Well read the whole board this am....and saw two seperate conflicts.... My own feelings are really directed at the folks that might be reading that are nervous, but contemplating a life without alcohol. I share some "Private opinions" of the conflicting stuff, but the...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

In every case, pain had been the price of admission into a new life. But this admission price had purchased more than we expected. It brought a measure of humility, which we soon discovered to be a healer of pain. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 75 It was painful to give up trying to control my life...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

Background: My wife and I have been separated for two years now, but we still love each other and communicate daily. We are both in the program. We are both singers, and love music. We met in a bar singing karaoke. One song she likes, "It's Too Late" by Carly Simon, has some lyrics that took...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

Figured I owed an update after being MIA for awhile.... things are going.... spent a few weeks considering the old "F--- It All" solution, and isolating to the point of not even getting on the computer.... worked a little, watched a lot of t.v., did a lot of stupid inebriating... not a good w...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: No tap dancing around problems Our program calls for a "searching and fearless" moral inventory, not only in the beginning, but as we continue to follow our new way of life. What this means is complete honesty about who and what we really are. We should not...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

Fun exercise, if you're bored: 1) Calculate how many days you've been sober 2) Turn to that page in the Big Book 3) See if anything jumps out at ya or there's anything you can learn or re-learn 4) If it's a personal story, count how many similarities there are between you and the person whose story it is. Me...

bikerbill · bikerbill

,,,but I've recognised that some of my character defects have come back. I've been assissting a colleague on a project. He's been over whelmed with work. He's now on leave for a fortnight and so I'm managing the project, which was teetering on a spiral out of control. So my perfectionism has led me to wo...

missyj · missyj

Yet I continue to drink. I hate waking up at 3 AM with a skull-busting headache and dying of thirst. I hate how fat it makes me. I hate having to pretend I know what people are talking about, when I don't have a clue. I hate feeling like a fake, a fraud, and a scumbag. I used to be a fairly serious distance...

barisax · barisax

I've never been what you'd call an aggressive 12th-stepper. I don't shun newcomers, but I don't get in their faces either. I don't think I'm alone - seems like only 1 in 10 of us, or even fewer, really jump deep into working with others as sponsors, doing 12th step calls, etc. I've never said no to any r...

cooncatbob · cooncatbob

I know this is considered an outside issue but anybody else see the commericals of the guy promoting his "Cure" book? He says right upfront that it isn't based on the 12 steps or the desease concept. Does this person really believe this or is he trying to take advantage of those looking for t...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thank you for 500 posts of beautiful experience, strength & hope, Mike! Thank you for taking your recovery as seriously today as you did 25 years ago when you first got clean & sober. Thank you for being here & sharing your faith to our newcomers that all of us can have what you have if we do as...

Aquaman · Aquaman

Home Improvement Bu**shit. I haven't wired a simple outlet in 15 years, much less did a switch-thru or whatever the hell you call it and I don't even know if it's legal! I'm trying to solve the "outlet+extension cord+surge suppressor+another six extension cords+air conditioner DOES NOT equa...

happycamper · happycamper

Guess I need to slow down a little bit huh ... I hit the wrong button on my own profile of ljc and deleted my whole self . So, now Im back as happycamper . Dean, you can make my status a newcomer if ya want to, cuz Im sure it wouldnt hurt me any to go back to basics, lol. thanks, The poster formally known as ljc -- Ed...

KPie · KPie

I am looking online at a few different AA meetings I can attend in my area. I did get to attend a few great meetings about a year ago but stopped going after a week. I am really nervous to get back out there and find some meetings because its pretty scary going out and sitting in a room of strangers and all of th...

Larry_H · Larry_H

I have been in Canada without internet access. I am back at my son's home in Albany, NY. Arrived today on the date of my sobriety anniversary. I missed you all, it is great to be back on line. Larry, -------------------- One Day at a Time

Aquaman · Aquaman

Some of ya'll are also FB Friends and may have noticed via e-mail that I am "stranded in London and need $". Not true. My FB & Yahoo were hacked for a phishing scam. Soooooo...... My FB acct. has been locked out, my Yahoo e-mail acct. has been locked. So now I have only three "social ne...

Dave Harm · Dave Harm

I was browsing around tonight... and for the next week on TV Land... there is an old "Leave It To Beaver" dealing with alcoholism.... couldn't see a year but the show is in black and white... I thought if you've got a half hour to kill you might enjoy it... It will be "gone" on July 23...

Larry_H · Larry_H

RENT-A-SPONSOR Are you tired of being told like it is? Still looking for that easier, softer way? Had enough of that same old time-tested direction? No Reading ! No Writing! No Deadlines!STANDARD FEATURES INCLUDE: *Listening to your sniveling without constant reference to the Basic Text or Step...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

For thousands of years we have been demanding more than our share of security, prestige, and romance. When we seemed to be succeeding, we drank to dream still greater dreams. When we were frustrated, even in part, we drank for oblivion. Never was there enough of what we thought we wanted. In all these s...

TwelveSteps · TwelveSteps

Hey all, I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone on this site. I've had friends staying with me for more than a week, and although it has been a pleasure to have them, I have not been going to meetings/calling my sponsor/etc. as much as I would like because they are here and I've been busy entertain...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: Pray to God, row to shore. -- Anonymous The sign in the antique store showed a fisherman in a rowboat being tossed about in a storm. The message was clear: the fisherman may have great faith, but now was not the time to put away the oars and kneel in prayer - it was time to pr...

Reffner · Reffner

Getting sober, or staying sober? We've had this discussion in a few of our meetings and I find it fascinating. So, which one was it for you, getting sober, or staying sober? Brian

thetick · thetick

If you could recomend the first book for me, which one should I get ? The Big Book ? Living sober ? 12 steps and 12 traditions ?

Just Toni · Just Toni

I wrote a note to a friend, via email, this was my only childhood friend, ever, and it was so wonderful after half a lifetime to track her down, well she tracked me down, but anyway have been enjoying so much rekindleing our friendship, she is a real love. and because of our closeness that still is there, I...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: Problems are opportunities for stretching our minds. Wringing our hands over circumstances gone awry wastes our energy. In any twenty-four hours we will experience many situations that will evolve according to God's plan, rather than our own. We'd feel our spir...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

As long as we placed self-reliance first, a genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question. That basic ingredient of all humility, a desire to seek and do God's will, was missing. 12 & 12, p.72 When I first came to A.A., I wanted to find some of the elusive quality called humility. I didn...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: And if not now, when? --The Talmud It's so easy to put things off. Sometimes we're like Scarlet O'Hara, who hoped and dreamed for a better life by saying, "There's always tomorrow." But is there always a tomorrow? If we live too many of our days counting on t...

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

Hi ya all Funny how things work out. I had a lady pee me off on Friday after a meeting telling me were I should be at in the program. She said it loudly and I just smiled and said take care and shook hands real quick and left. I prayed about it and that Sunday she got asked to lead at the last min. I knew here for 20 y...

seekinghelp · seekinghelp

My live-in boyfriend is definitely an alcoholic. He's dead drunk most nights and incredibly obnoxious about it. He refuses to go to meetings or get help - he doesn't think he's got a problem, even though he won't stop no matter what I do or how unattractive I make it for him (I've lectured, begged, scre...

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

Hi you all. Funny thing once I started working on slowing my mind down and working on staying in today, I kept getting messages from my readings and a lead I heard, and some dern good advice from my family on here. At the meeting lastnight one lady shared on how she plans everything out and it never goes ri...

slugcat · slugcat

scared senless my hubby is leaving me just so scared i want to puke dont want to drink but feeling really bad. got other things happening too. -- Edited by slugcat on Saturday 10th of July 2010 06:02:20 PM

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

For without some degree of humility, no alcoholic can stay sober at all. . . Without it, they cannot live to much useful purpose, or, in adversity, be able to summon the faith that can meet any emergency. 12 & 12, p.70 Why do I balk at the word "humility"? I am not humbling myself toward oth...

gonee · gonee

Our AA book study group is on a Monday. We tried a Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. It did not work. Our Monday night group is so lively, it would seem like we had struck oil. We are having a movie on Monday. We suggested Friday and the alcoholics just looked puzzled. Why Friday. What's wrong with Monday. Wel...

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

Hi ya all. My spounsor is working with me hard to learn to stay in the today. I ran a few businesses and am use to projecting. He is having me make a list at night of what I am going to get done the next day and the next evening cross off all you got done. It comes down to this we AA are for the most part an all or nothi...

Tina · Tina

Hi To All of you Just wanted to drop in and say hi. Things are going ok, Just wanted to take this time to thank the MIP Board for being apart of my sobriety. I'm coming up on 7 years on July 14 and well it hasn't been an experience living life like this today sober. I'm greatful for everything. At the same t...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Hey Family, I"ve been busy working and away for a couple of days. Sorry that some unfortunate stuff(Joni Thread) happened while I was away, not sure what that was about, but I have dealt with it. Apologies to Joni wherever you are.

Just Toni · Just Toni

Thought that this would make for an interesting Post. Do we do this Disease to ourselves? Or does the Disease do this to Us? In some cases I suppose, like Diabetes, if you were overweight and ate 10 lbs of sugar daily, chances are you would become Diabetic. But thousands of people contract the Disease of...

Aquaman · Aquaman

It was this weekend, a year ago, that I realized that I was an alcoholic and my life had become unmanagable. I knew that when the weekend was over I would have to face the shame and pain of my actions. The thought of losing that much face was too much. I had decided to go into work on Monday July 6th 2010, face t...

ferrisdp · ferrisdp

Hi my name is ferisdp and I'm an alcoholic. I currently have 4 1/2 months sober and 4 1/2 months in the program. First time in AA and first time I've ever tried to stop drinking after about 30 years of doing so daily. I posted last Friday about a meeting experience and never introduced myself properly. I...

ferrisdp · ferrisdp

Hi, I'm new to this forum. I have just a little over 4 months sober. I attended a step meeting this evening and have been to this meeting before. We were on step 6 and I shared something -- it's a small meeting and in fact in the past they went around the room and asked everyone to share. I was made to feel v...

AGO · AGO

Every single person here at MIP who has been able to either stay sober or has long term sobriety has or is actively working the 12 steps (Past step 4) The people unable to get sober, or struggling to maintain any sort of consistant sobriety and having trouble with relapsing hasn't, every single one, rea...

janet · janet

I am sorry for being such an ass to the board. My junkie sister-in-law came in from Nashville,Tn. this week. I almost told the board about her coming,because I knew it posed a threat to my sobriety, but I thought I could handle it...but no, apparently I could not, nor did not. I have nothing else to say, ex...

Isabella · Isabella

what do you have to do to detox? drink lots of water, eat certain foods? what do you do when you want to take that first sip and you feel on edge and just a sip would calm you down, and then you all know what happens. Anyway, this is what I am going through right now and I am only on my second day of not drinking. I...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . when we have taken a square look at some of these defects, have discussed them with another, and have become willing to have them removed, our thinking about humility commences to have a wider meaning. 12 & 12, p.74 When situations arise which destroy my serenity, pain often motivates me to as...

SUSIE · SUSIE

Have a great week everyone I will be on vacation at a running camp in Lake Tahoe!! It is so beautiful there! So I won't be online. Everyone take care of each other!!

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Am I destined to die at an early age from this disease? (seriously) (Preview) only on 72 hrs right now :( I hope one day I can get a true 90 day coin, but Im sober right now and God willing will stay sober tomorrow... This time I affected another person who I truly cared about in the program, I dont want to get into much detail right now but she had a lot more sobriety time than me (years) a...	SoberSteve	29	1849	Jul 17, 2010 by Pablomoses
	So tonight my wife asks... (Preview) "When will you be done with recovery? How long are you going to have to keep being selfish and putting your sobriety first? These days it's all about you." No. I'm not kidding. I know I have issues; hell - I have subscriptions to some of them. However, I'm amazed at the man I'm becoming, but I gu...	Aquaman	18	1335	Jul 17, 2010 by Pablomoses
	Hello (Preview) Hi, Just thought I would Introduce myself. My SD is 28/5/2008 and from the UK. How do I access the online meetings ? Up until recently I have been doing 1 meeting a day, Which is great at the start, but as things have settled down, and life is growing as it does, doing daily meetings is getting harder, so im l...	Dj	11	1147	Jul 17, 2010 by carlasober
	Vacation. (Preview) Well Im back from a week in the Mountains of Lake Tahoe. Sad to see it end. But lots of good lessons were learned. Went to a running camp. Ran every morning at 6 am ( ok i slept in once.) Hiked most afternoons. Funny thing. The people out there have no idea that im an alcoholic. Went to dinner with them...	SUSIE	2	920	Jul 17, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Congratulations on SEVEN Years SOBRIETY 1Day@aTime, TINA! XXX (Preview) Lucky Number 7 aye! Have a wonderful 24hrs for 07.14.10, Tina. Godbless babe, Danielle xxx	Sobrietyspell	12	2330	Jul 17, 2010 by carlasober
	Conflicts with others belong in PM.. (Preview) Good Morning all, Well read the whole board this am....and saw two seperate conflicts.... My own feelings are really directed at the folks that might be reading that are nervous, but contemplating a life without alcohol. I share some "Private opinions" of the conflicting stuff, but the...	Just Toni	24	1508	Jul 17, 2010 by Lexie
	Daily Reflections ~ A Measure of Humility & 24hrs a Day (Preview) In every case, pain had been the price of admission into a new life. But this admission price had purchased more than we expected. It brought a measure of humility, which we soon discovered to be a healer of pain. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 75 It was painful to give up trying to control my life...	Sobrietyspell	0	1456	Jul 17, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	I still believe in coincidences, but it gets harder and harder. (Preview) Background: My wife and I have been separated for two years now, but we still love each other and communicate daily. We are both in the program. We are both singers, and love music. We met in a bar singing karaoke. One song she likes, "It's Too Late" by Carly Simon, has some lyrics that took...	FlyingSquirrel	6	1206	Jul 16, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Update (Preview) Figured I owed an update after being MIA for awhile.... things are going.... spent a few weeks considering the old "F--- It All" solution, and isolating to the point of not even getting on the computer.... worked a little, watched a lot of t.v., did a lot of stupid inebriating... not a good w...	jonijoni1	10	1192	Jul 16, 2010 by Just Toni
	No tap dancing around problems (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: No tap dancing around problems Our program calls for a "searching and fearless" moral inventory, not only in the beginning, but as we continue to follow our new way of life. What this means is complete honesty about who and what we really are. We should not...	Larry_H	0	716	Jul 16, 2010 by Larry_H
	Awww, why didn't I think of this before? I'm gonna run out of pages! (Preview) Fun exercise, if you're bored: 1) Calculate how many days you've been sober 2) Turn to that page in the Big Book 3) See if anything jumps out at ya or there's anything you can learn or re-learn 4) If it's a personal story, count how many similarities there are between you and the person whose story it is. Me...	FlyingSquirrel	7	927	Jul 16, 2010 by mikef
	I don't want a drink... (Preview) ,,,but I've recognised that some of my character defects have come back. I've been assissting a colleague on a project. He's been over whelmed with work. He's now on leave for a fortnight and so I'm managing the project, which was teetering on a spiral out of control. So my perfectionism has led me to wo...	bikerbill	10	921	Jul 16, 2010 by bikerbill
	I hate drinking (Preview) Yet I continue to drink. I hate waking up at 3 AM with a skull-busting headache and dying of thirst. I hate how fat it makes me. I hate having to pretend I know what people are talking about, when I don't have a clue. I hate feeling like a fake, a fraud, and a scumbag. I used to be a fairly serious distance...	missyj	17	1298	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Working With Others Passively? (Preview) I've never been what you'd call an aggressive 12th-stepper. I don't shun newcomers, but I don't get in their faces either. I don't think I'm alone - seems like only 1 in 10 of us, or even fewer, really jump deep into working with others as sponsors, doing 12th step calls, etc. I've never said no to any r...	barisax	18	2608	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	The Cure (Preview) I know this is considered an outside issue but anybody else see the commericals of the guy promoting his "Cure" book? He says right upfront that it isn't based on the 12 steps or the desease concept. Does this person really believe this or is he trying to take advantage of those looking for t...	cooncatbob	8	969	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Our Newest Old Timer, Mikef!!! (Preview) Thank you for 500 posts of beautiful experience, strength & hope, Mike! Thank you for taking your recovery as seriously today as you did 25 years ago when you first got clean & sober. Thank you for being here & sharing your faith to our newcomers that all of us can have what you have if we do as...	Sobrietyspell	6	692	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Biggest trigger yet (Preview) Home Improvement Bu**shit. I haven't wired a simple outlet in 15 years, much less did a switch-thru or whatever the hell you call it and I don't even know if it's legal! I'm trying to solve the "outlet+extension cord+surge suppressor+another six extension cords+air conditioner DOES NOT equa...	Aquaman	18	1422	Jul 16, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Learning from my mistakes (Preview) Guess I need to slow down a little bit huh ... I hit the wrong button on my own profile of ljc and deleted my whole self . So, now Im back as happycamper . Dean, you can make my status a newcomer if ya want to, cuz Im sure it wouldnt hurt me any to go back to basics, lol. thanks, *The poster formally known as ljc* -- Ed...	happycamper	7	1003	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Your first AA meeting (Preview) I am looking online at a few different AA meetings I can attend in my area. I did get to attend a few great meetings about a year ago but stopped going after a week. I am really nervous to get back out there and find some meetings because its pretty scary going out and sitting in a room of strangers and all of th...	KPie	7	1384	Jul 16, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	34 Years Sober Today, 1 Day at a Time (Preview) I have been in Canada without internet access. I am back at my son's home in Albany, NY. Arrived today on the date of my sobriety anniversary. I missed you all, it is great to be back on line. Larry, -------------------- One Day at a Time	Larry_H	15	1092	Jul 15, 2010 by Dave Harm
	Been Phished at Facebook & Yahoo! (Preview) Some of ya'll are also FB Friends and may have noticed via e-mail that I am "stranded in London and need $". Not true. My FB & Yahoo were hacked for a phishing scam. Soooooo...... My FB acct. has been locked out, my Yahoo e-mail acct. has been locked. So now I have only three "social ne...	Aquaman	11	1123	Jul 15, 2010 by Aquaman
	Ooolllllllllldddddddddd TV (Preview) I was browsing around tonight... and for the next week on TV Land... there is an old "Leave It To Beaver" dealing with alcoholism.... couldn't see a year but the show is in black and white... I thought if you've got a half hour to kill you might enjoy it... It will be "gone" on July 23...	Dave Harm	5	668	Jul 15, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Definately not the suggested path to Sobriety (Preview) RENT-A-SPONSOR Are you tired of being told like it is? Still looking for that easier, softer way? Had enough of that same old time-tested direction? No Reading ! No Writing! No Deadlines!STANDARD FEATURES INCLUDE: *Listening to your sniveling without constant reference to the Basic Text or Step...	Larry_H	6	928	Jul 15, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Daily Reflections ~ Pride & 24hrs a Day (Preview) For thousands of years we have been demanding more than our share of security, prestige, and romance. When we seemed to be succeeding, we drank to dream still greater dreams. When we were frustrated, even in part, we drank for oblivion. Never was there enough of what we thought we wanted. In all these s...	Sobrietyspell	0	671	Jul 15, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	Thank you to all of you (Preview) Hey all, I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone on this site. I've had friends staying with me for more than a week, and although it has been a pleasure to have them, I have not been going to meetings/calling my sponsor/etc. as much as I would like because they are here and I've been busy entertain...	TwelveSteps	9	623	Jul 14, 2010 by Aquaman
	Pray to God, row to shore (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: *Pray to God, row to shore.* -- Anonymous The sign in the antique store showed a fisherman in a rowboat being tossed about in a storm. The message was clear: the fisherman may have great faith, but now was not the time to put away the oars and kneel in prayer - it was time to pr...	Larry_H	3	2136	Jul 14, 2010 by Mike B.
	Which was easier for you... (Preview) Getting sober, or staying sober? We've had this discussion in a few of our meetings and I find it fascinating. So, which one was it for you, getting sober, or staying sober? Brian	Reffner	20	1108	Jul 14, 2010 by Reffner
	Whats the best book to start with ? (Preview) If you could recomend the first book for me, which one should I get ? The Big Book ? Living sober ? 12 steps and 12 traditions ?	thetick	9	1194	Jul 14, 2010 by Dave Harm
	Friends....and how they never understand!!! (Preview) I wrote a note to a friend, via email, this was my only childhood friend, ever, and it was so wonderful after half a lifetime to track her down, well she tracked me down, but anyway have been enjoying so much rekindleing our friendship, she is a real love. and because of our closeness that still is there, I...	Just Toni	7	641	Jul 13, 2010 by Lexie
	Problems are opportunities for stretching our minds (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: *Problems are opportunities for stretching our minds.* Wringing our hands over circumstances gone awry wastes our energy. In any twenty-four hours we will experience many situations that will evolve according to God's plan, rather than our own. We'd feel our spir...	Larry_H	1	580	Jul 13, 2010 by gonee
	Daily Reflections ~ Humility Is a Gift & 24hrs a Day (Preview) As long as we placed self-reliance first, a genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question. That basic ingredient of all humility, a desire to seek and do God's will, was missing. 12 & 12, p.72 When I first came to A.A., I wanted to find some of the elusive quality called humility. I didn...	Sobrietyspell	0	714	Jul 13, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	It's so easy to put things off (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: And if not now, when? --The Talmud It's so easy to put things off. Sometimes we're like Scarlet O'Hara, who hoped and dreamed for a better life by saying, "There's always tomorrow." But is there always a tomorrow? If we live too many of our days counting on t...	Larry_H	0	641	Jul 12, 2010 by Larry_H
	Anger is Danger (Preview) Hi ya all Funny how things work out. I had a lady pee me off on Friday after a meeting telling me were I should be at in the program. She said it loudly and I just smiled and said take care and shook hands real quick and left. I prayed about it and that Sunday she got asked to lead at the last min. I knew here for 20 y...	buckeyebear	6	1135	Jul 12, 2010 by pinkchip
	New here - need help for an alcoholic (Preview) My live-in boyfriend is definitely an alcoholic. He's dead drunk most nights and incredibly obnoxious about it. He refuses to go to meetings or get help - he doesn't think he's got a problem, even though he won't stop no matter what I do or how unattractive I make it for him (I've lectured, begged, scre...	seekinghelp	6	777	Jul 12, 2010 by pinkchip
	H.P. Is working (Preview) Hi you all. Funny thing once I started working on slowing my mind down and working on staying in today, I kept getting messages from my readings and a lead I heard, and some dern good advice from my family on here. At the meeting lastnight one lady shared on how she plans everything out and it never goes ri...	buckeyebear	4	635	Jul 12, 2010 by Larry_H
	stressed out :( (Preview) scared senless my hubby is leaving me just so scared i want to puke dont want to drink but feeling really bad. got other things happening too. -- Edited by slugcat on Saturday 10th of July 2010 06:02:20 PM	slugcat	8	916	Jul 12, 2010 by StPeteDean
	Daily Reflections ~ Giving Up Centre Stage & 24hrs a Day (Preview) For without some degree of humility, no alcoholic can stay sober at all. . . Without it, they cannot live to much useful purpose, or, in adversity, be able to summon the faith that can meet any emergency. 12 & 12, p.70 Why do I balk at the word "humility"? I am not humbling myself toward oth...	Sobrietyspell	0	442	Jul 12, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	What is it about a Monday. (Preview) Our AA book study group is on a Monday. We tried a Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. It did not work. Our Monday night group is so lively, it would seem like we had struck oil. We are having a movie on Monday. We suggested Friday and the alcoholics just looked puzzled. Why Friday. What's wrong with Monday. Wel...	gonee	2	592	Jul 12, 2010 by mikef
	How to sta yin today? (Preview) Hi ya all. My spounsor is working with me hard to learn to stay in the today. I ran a few businesses and am use to projecting. He is having me make a list at night of what I am going to get done the next day and the next evening cross off all you got done. It comes down to this we AA are for the most part an all or nothi...	buckeyebear	9	1894	Jul 11, 2010 by Reffner
	Just droppin in (Preview) Hi To All of you Just wanted to drop in and say hi. Things are going ok, Just wanted to take this time to thank the MIP Board for being apart of my sobriety. I'm coming up on 7 years on July 14 and well it hasn't been an experience living life like this today sober. I'm greatful for everything. At the same t...	Tina	3	766	Jul 11, 2010 by Halfwolf
	I've been offline for a few days working in NC (Preview) Hey Family, I"ve been busy working and away for a couple of days. Sorry that some unfortunate stuff(Joni Thread) happened while I was away, not sure what that was about, but I have dealt with it. Apologies to Joni wherever you are.	StPeteDean	6	851	Jul 10, 2010 by jj
	Stumped!!! Do we Do this Disease to ourselves??? (Preview) Thought that this would make for an interesting Post. Do we do this Disease to ourselves? Or does the Disease do this to Us? In some cases I suppose, like Diabetes, if you were overweight and ate 10 lbs of sugar daily, chances are you would become Diabetic. But thousands of people contract the Disease of...	Just Toni	13	1214	Jul 10, 2010 by Pablomoses
	A year ago... (Preview) It was this weekend, a year ago, that I realized that I was an alcoholic and my life had become unmanagable. I knew that when the weekend was over I would have to face the shame and pain of my actions. The thought of losing that much face was too much. I had decided to go into work on Monday July 6th 2010, face t...	Aquaman	9	1198	Jul 10, 2010 by pinkchip
	Proper Introduction (Preview) Hi my name is ferisdp and I'm an alcoholic. I currently have 4 1/2 months sober and 4 1/2 months in the program. First time in AA and first time I've ever tried to stop drinking after about 30 years of doing so daily. I posted last Friday about a meeting experience and never introduced myself properly. I...	ferrisdp	10	1621	Jul 10, 2010 by pinkchip
	Sharing at a Meeting (Preview) Hi, I'm new to this forum. I have just a little over 4 months sober. I attended a step meeting this evening and have been to this meeting before. We were on step 6 and I shared something -- it's a small meeting and in fact in the past they went around the room and asked everyone to share. I was made to feel v...	ferrisdp	11	1186	Jul 10, 2010 by pinkchip
	Something in Common (Preview) Every single person here at MIP who has been able to either stay sober or has long term sobriety has or is actively working the 12 steps (Past step 4) The people unable to get sober, or struggling to maintain any sort of consistant sobriety and having trouble with relapsing hasn't, every single one, rea...	AGO	16	1496	Jul 10, 2010 by pinkchip
	Typical of a junkie and drunk (Preview) I am sorry for being such an ass to the board. My junkie sister-in-law came in from Nashville,Tn. this week. I almost told the board about her coming,because I knew it posed a threat to my sobriety, but I thought I could handle it...but no, apparently I could not, nor did not. I have nothing else to say, ex...	janet	11	1302	Jul 10, 2010 by pinkchip
	How do you detox? (Preview) what do you have to do to detox? drink lots of water, eat certain foods? what do you do when you want to take that first sip and you feel on edge and just a sip would calm you down, and then you all know what happens. Anyway, this is what I am going through right now and I am only on my second day of not drinking. I...	Isabella	13	1621	Jul 10, 2010 by TwelveSteps
	Daily Reflections ~ Towards Peace and Serenity & 24hrs a Day (Preview) . . . when we have taken a square look at some of these defects, have discussed them with another, and have become willing to have them removed, our thinking about humility commences to have a wider meaning. 12 & 12, p.74 When situations arise which destroy my serenity, pain often motivates me to as...	Sobrietyspell	0	557	Jul 9, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	Lake Tahoe!!! (Preview) Have a great week everyone I will be on vacation at a running camp in Lake Tahoe!! It is so beautiful there! So I won't be online. Everyone take care of each other!!	SUSIE	3	679	Jul 9, 2010 by Mike B.
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