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Hi folks, hope it's ok if I unburden myself here a bit.
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I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...
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Quick note of thanks
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Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...
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Mele Kalikimaka
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That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...
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A Very Merry Christmas... TIPSY
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Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...
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Welcome Back to All Those Returning After Relapse
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Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...
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Guys, I need to vent,
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You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...
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gratitude
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I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...
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Christmas Wishes
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Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.
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One Day At A Time app for iphone!
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WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom
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I have to get this off my chest
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I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...
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Still Amazed and Excited! 20 years later
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To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...
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John
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Merry Christmas family!
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They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...
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Holiday's
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Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...
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Wish all of YOU, a very very Happy Holiday
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Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...
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Just Toni
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Daily Reflections - The Rewards of Giving
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This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...
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Looking for friend of Matty K, NYC in the '80's
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My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...
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Is This It?
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I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...
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3RD Times a Charm
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This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...
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Back From Portland
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Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...
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Thirty Four Years Sober Today ~ Dean's Mum!!!
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Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...
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A angry AA person
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Morning all....just wanted to throw something out there. I went to a meeting yesterday and as always loved being there with everyone and seeing the joy in the room. There is a guy who in the past has been very serious and doesn't like to see alot of happy, joyous and free at the meetings. After a few spe...
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pls read my story..... from a non alcoholic
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hello- I KNOW THAT IM NOT IN THE RIGHT CHATROOM BUT I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY STORY. THIS IS IN HOPES THAT PEOPLE THINKING OR DEBATING TO PICK UP THAT FIRST OR EVEN THAT LAST DRINK. MY 31 YR OLD ABF PASSED AWAY THIS SUNDAY DUE TO COMPLICATIONS FROM ALCOHOL ABUSE. THIS WAS BECAUSE HE WASNT STRONG ENOUGH TO NO...
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Sometime things just throw you for a loop
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Since I finally decided to become sober and stay sober 01/15/08, I have had the best 2 years almost of my whole life it seems. Sure there were times in my life where I did not drink. I drank off and on just for fun in the beginning and settled down when I became pregnant and all was good for a while. I'm not sur...
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Outpatient, inpatient, or "just" AA
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I'm curious how many of you participated in a treatment program. After speaking with the alcohol counselor again, she recommends I do an outpatient program. (Keep in mind that she works for a treatment program and they recommend everyone that has a drinking problem participate in either an inpatie...
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experinence cravings
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I am sorry for the strange i guess post. i want some advice or people opinions please if someone had been drinking beer most of the day, not completely trashed or blacked out, just enough to be a tiny bit drunk. But drinking beers all day and then something happened to stop that consumption, and they felt...
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Daily Reflections ~ Principles, Not Personalities & 24hrs a Day
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The way our "worthy" alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the "less worthy" is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found tha...
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- UnkaBud - 35 Years Sobriety Today! - 12.21.09 -
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Congratulations, Buddy. I know there's a couple of hours to go at the time of this post but I'm going to bed & I was too excited for you not to post before I went! LOL I hope you'll stay & enjoy yourself with us awhile. Have a fantastic 24hrs. You've been sober longer than I've been alive. There's ho...
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A Lifetime/An Hour - (post is long and contains redundancy and boredom)
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We are all familiar with "One Day at a Time", the message of staying sober in small increments. I used to scoff at that and perhaps I will in an hour or so. I was pacing around my apartment earlier today giving myself a pep talk. I'm in that all-too familiar place of being between a drink and a lif...
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12th step visit from Santa
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Passed on to me from grandsponsor...The blessing is I remember hearing this little poem last year. I think maybe on this board. T'was the night before Christmas When I went on a bender, Not a creature was stirring, not even a bartender. The empties were stacked by the chimney just fine, In hopes that S...
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Holiday Amazement! - MIP Residents
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Hello Fellow members! The outpouring of cards being sent to the MIP recovery homes, for the residents in them is absolutely amazing! The guys are so touched by what you have done. Every time I walk into one of the homes, someone pulls me aside to share one of the cards they have recieved. These are not...
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Went to a party tonight...
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and didn't drink, have a 'close call' or an overpowering urge. The one craving I had was when I went looking for a water glass and all the glasses were at the wine bar. The bottles of wine didn't jump out & bite my hand, although I was scared that they might. I did, however, burn a swath of merciless sn...
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old lesson revisited...
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Aloha AA fellows and fellowettes...The consequence of practice in new found or in this case old found knowledge and awareness which is so supportive to ones recovery from the disease and its effects. I remember in early program reading from inside the ODAAT daily reader the wisdom of Dr. Harry Tie...
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Daily Reflections - Listen, Share & Pray + 24hrs a Day
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When working with a man and his family, you should take care not to participate in their quarrels. You may spoil your chance of being helpful if you do. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 100 When trying to help a fellow alcoholic, I've given in to an impulse to give advice, and perhaps that's inevitable. But all...
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Analyze THIS!
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=========================================================My wife: Good night. Thank you for helping me get through it, even if it was in my own disfunctio...
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New here
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Hello and Happy Holiday's My name is Bud I'm an alcoholic in recovery. My sober date is 12/21/74 Someone ask me how I did it, I replied "Following instructions in the Big Book" and God's grace. It has been a wonderful way of life even with the bumps in the road. I sobered up in New Orleans the 1st...
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Hello all '' Happy Holidays ''
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Hello Most Citys Have 24 hour AA Hotline services avil ,,,so instead of picking up a drink pick up the phone.. Happy Holidays Russell
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Daily Reflections - Understanding the Malady + 24hrs a Day
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When dealing with an alcoholic, there may be a natural annoyance that a man could be so weak, stupid and irresponsible. Even when you understand the malady better, you may feel this feeling rising. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 139 Having suffered from alcoholism, I should understand the illness, but s...
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Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome aka "PAWS"
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Fortunately, the last time I attempted to get sober, I came accross the book "Staying sober". It's a small paperback back and an easy read that discribribes the many obstacles and challenges we face on the road to recovery. One of the most challenging is PAWS or post acute withdrawal synd...
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PAWS (part two) Managing PAWS
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From the Book "Staying Sober" PAWS (part two) Post Acute Withdrawl - (Part Two) PATTERNS OF POST ACUTE WITHDRAWALPost-acute withdrawal symptoms are not the same in everyone. They vary in how severe they are, how often they occur, and how long they last. Some people experience certain sy...
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PAWS (part three) spirituality
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From the book "Staying sober" Post Acute Withdrawl (Part #3)SpiritualitySpirituality can be defined as "an active relationship with a power greater than yourself that gives your life meaning and purpose." When you work a spiritual program, you consciously, actively att...
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help with out of town meetings in Portland, OR
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I have to be away in Portland Sat. and Sun. to be of support for family during a surgery for my little cousin. I would like to go with a meeting schedule so I might use mapquest beforehand, as I might not have easy computer access then. I can't find the posts with phone numbers to help with meeting schedu...
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Having trouble making meetings.
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I go to about 3 meetings per week. My sponser says I need to go to at least 5-6 at least in order to remain his sponsee. I'm starting to cop a little resentment at that because i'm starting to get the feeling that nothing I ever do is going to be good enough in his eyes. I've been sober since August 08 and whi...
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Daily Reflections ~ Honesty With Newcomers & 24hrs a Day
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Tell him exactly what happened to you. Stress the spiritual feature freely. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 93 The marvel of A.A. is that I tell only what happened to me. I don't waste time offering advice to potential newcomers, for if advice worked, nobody would get to A.A. All I have to do is show what has br...
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cunning, baffling, powerful.
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Alcohol is very tricky. I could have 5 beers and nothing would really happen besides being a little buzzed, or I could be totally smashed. It affects us differently on what we ate, how tired we are, etc. In my experience all it has done was lead to crazy behavior. Hanging out with people I would norm...
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Hi
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Just droppin in to say hi I'm still here and sober, just dropping in to wish everyone well and sending a heart felt wishes for the holidays!!!!!! Merry Christmas and A Sober New Years to you and your families may the holidays be safe and the New Year Bring happiness. Bye for now and take care........... T...
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Think about it: This is why we always relapse!!!
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And for us seasoned alcoholics, it happens every time! Do you guys remember when we first started drinking? Do you remember with great clarity the time you took your first drink? How it made you feel? That feeling of utter empowerment and euphoria that came along with the warmth in your tummy? Yes, I re...
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Hello fellow AAs.
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Hello family! I just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Sean and I am from Boca Raton. I have about a year and a few months sober and since I work a pretty hectic schedule (12-10pm) I don't have a whole lot of meetings I can make during the week. I am 25 years old, originally from Miami, FL. I've used a...
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Feeling Feelings,
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Howdy, Once the booze and dope was removed I started feeling, feelings. I felt so many new ones I did not even have a name for a lot of them. I got to be afraid of feeling my feelings. Booze and dope and lust and crime kept all those feelings buried. AS the steps removed the things I used to keep myself h...
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Having a rough time but getting through
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Hi All, Have been a bit down lately, and craving alcohol again, that really disappointed me, because I hear members at meeting share that they lost that urge quite quickly, every morning I wake up and ask my hp to keep me from a drink today, I do the same thing at night and sometimes I have to constantly kee...
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Reaching again...
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Especially from the old timer but open to the whole group...Share with me your awarenesses and experiences with denial as you understand it. Please... Mahalo in advance.
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