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Chaired my first AA meeting..
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I was nervous but am glad I did!
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concerned about husband. i am an alki myself
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i posted in alanon too. my husbands drinking is getting slowly worse. i dont know if he has a problem or not. his drinking is not social drinking but its not like bad bad either. we used to drink together and loved it, before i got into aa ive been sober 10 years now. i sobered up he kept on. he does drink heavy...
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Is it possible to keep your "drinking" friends while becoming sober?
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Hi Everyone, As I am about to start reading a free version of an online version of the Big book (Thank you StPeteDean!). I have been thinking, all afternoon, about how I have to/want to/need to go about doing this, how I can "work the program" (as I've heard many of you have discussed), and a fe...
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5 Days Sober
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5 Days sober! Mood swings are still up and down but mostly Im just really tired now.I feel like I could go to sleep for a few days, but Im Feeling alot better.Taking it One day at a time and trying to stay focused.Got a Long road ahead of me. Still havn't spoke at any meetings.I dont think Im ready to start sha...
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Something I heard in a meeting the other evening...God based...
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This is God based so wanted to warn others in case they'd prefer not to read.... A guy was talking at the meeting the other evening & said his dad never could figure out when he got a bonus, extra hours, etc that either his car would break down, one of the kids would get sick, etc. He never could seem to ge...
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STICKY TOPICS
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Is it just moderators and Admins who can make topics sticky ones?? If so, is it possible to have a sticky topic where we can post funnies, like jokes or funny stories etc. It'd be good to have a RULE 62 (Jokes) page
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Speaking on a topic at an AA meeting...
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I've been in the program for 18 months. Being sober a few days from 2 years & although the old timers encourages me to talk in a meeting saying I have some good advice to offer. I find myself stumbling for the right words & feeling like I'm rambling. I can sit here on this message board & type ou...
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Trigger. Ack. One day at a time!
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Lost my best paying freelance gig today. Sure, the money loss sucks, but the feelings of worthlessness it provokes are worse. Making it to bed time... that's the goal.
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The sun never went away
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I was at the bank today making small talk with the teller. I said "What's up?" He said, "Nothing much... the sun went away." I glanced outside and said, "No, it's still there. Just can't see it with all those clouds in the way." (I'm sure you all can figure out where...
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Apparent break up
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Yeah. Despite all advice...I did start a relationship at 2 months sober that has been going on til this point of me being sober almost 17 months. I just broke up with him and am feeling a wide array of feelings that mostly suck. Thank god I have AA and nothing happens in God's world by mistake. I am free f...
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Daily Reflections - The Challenge of Failure + 24hrs a Day
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In God's economy, nothing is wasted. Through failure, we learn a lesson in humility which is probably needed, painful though it is. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 31 How thankful I am today, to know that all my past failures were necessary for me to be where I am now. Through much pain came experience and, in sufferi...
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Detox Diet - is there such a thing?
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Hi Everyone, Thanks to all of you who have been so receptive over the past few days, and understanding about my sudden leave, but return, to the boards and towards recovery. I'll keep this quick - along with feeling completely unhealthy emotionally, about my drinking, I also feel extremely unhealth...
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Trust is Earned
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I bought a mug early on in sobriety - a half litre, berghaus insulated aluminium mug. I toted it round the meetings to keep my tea hot. One meeting I was bemoaning afterwards that my wife doesn't trust me, 'why can't she see how I've changed, why can't she see how well I'm doing?' that sort of thing. A chap (...
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3 Days Sober
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3 meetings in 3 days and 3 days Sober.. I havnt gone this long without a drink in 10 years.Its not easy today. I feel like Im going to explode. Ive Been staying buisy today working on my Jeep,Jaming on my guitar to the Ramones, cleaned my garage,Took my dog for a walk.Im To short fused to hang with my family...
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DAILY TOPIC: Best thing you heard in a meeting today!
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Think I'm gonna try to do one of these a day (or maybe every few days, whatever seems good.) My current favorite: "I know I have another drunk left in me.... I don't know if I have another recovery left in me."
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Step Exhaustion
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Okay, Early here in recoverry I find daily step-work sometimes exhausting; constantly keeping sobriety as a way of life in the forefront of my consciousness. Daily inventories, practicing acceptance, saying "God Grant Me..." instead of "God Dammit!" when I am vexed, side...
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Somebody tell me why I'm still procrastinating
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Never mind, I'm gonna post this and then log off and do the damn thing I've been putting off.
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I am a week sober today!
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Just thought Id share! Last time I went almost 60 days but didn't follow the suggestions etc. I just got back from my 10th meeting in 7 days and have never felt better. I still have not had any urges to drink these 7 days and just wanted to share that if I can do it anyone can! Thanks to everyone on this boa...
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Daily Reflections - Mysterious Paradoxes + 24hrs a Day
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Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: strength arising out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of one's old life as a condition for finding a new one. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 46 What glorious mysteries paradoxes are! They do not compute, yet when recognized and accepted, they reaffirm somethi...
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Alcohol in my deodorant...?
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When I was in the bathroom this morning and was getting "ready", I noticed on the back of my deodorant stick that the first ingredient was "alcohol denatured"...also on the back it said "Warning, may be flammable"...and the stuff smells strongly of alcohol (or may...
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It's snowing! Again!
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Oh I've just about had enough of this good old fashioned winter. A week or two of good weahter, I planned to walk the Snow Road today and I can't get there for the snow! There'll be a reason for my HP changing my plans. [Make God laugh, tell Him all your plans eh?] So what else - I trimmed my beard and had a shave...
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first meeting....
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I was on my way to my first meeting,I ruined it ,I and I just made it to a bar. I drank and drank...I never made it to my first meeting..,, fuck. why cant i get myself there....Why cant I my hands are please
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Hello -- Quick Introduction
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Hey guys, I'm new to this all. Just signed up, but am at the beginning of a second recovery. Needless to say, my first one went for a little under two months until I thought since my mind felt more clear (wonder why, eh?), then my drinking would be controlled, as well. I started back up and made a conscious d...
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HONESTY :)
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Just a random post. I was talking to my boyfriend the other day who is also in the program. We are both a little over 2 years sober. I said "yeah I wish I could drink socially like other people." Well after giving it some thought and being the alcoholic that I am I realize that I really don't w...
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how many of you are or where??
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VIOLENT drinkers??? I am .i dont know why tho.. When I am sober i am the coolest person ever... Beer B****??? My firend tells me i need to go talk to one i am holding shit back .. not true i am not a rich person but I was blessed with great parents and family who support everything I do .. I wasent abuse as a ch...
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My alcoholic story....
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For years I was in denial of my drug & alcohol addiction. I'm going back way further than most showing how I grew up & what life dealt me. My father was an alcoholic & my mother had quit having relations with him. After about 3 months he came home drunk & raped my mother. I was born 9 months l...
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"You are the closest thing....
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...that some people will get to the Big Book. So remember that." My sponsor said that to me last night. Blew me away b/c it's so true. It's attraction and not promotion. If I'm in disarray, I'm not attracting alkies to AA, I'm pushing them away.... Good sobriety and good day to all... Steve
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Just lost my job....
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Yesterday was my belly button birthday. Great day...I went into work & boss called a couple of us into her office & the doors are closing on Friday. Bussiness is slow & they've decided to go out of bussiness. Now, I'd liked to have had more notice. But, I take this as god doing for me what I can...
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Meeting starting now in AA chat.... starting at 8pm pst in 7 minutes!~
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SoberSteve
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Daily Reflections - Guidance + 24hrs a Day
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... this means a belief in a Creator who is all power, justice, and love; a God who intends for me a purpose, a meaning, and a destiny to grow, however... haltingly, toward His own likeness and image. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 51 As I began to understand my own powerlessness and my dependence on God, as I understa...
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Meeting format for giving out chips celebrating sobriety
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Does anyone know where I can find a meeting format / preamble for giving out sobriety chips prior to a meeting? I've looked and looked but still haven't found it. I've been asked to do the chips and want to just read it off a sheet. Thanks,CyNAZ
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Good Sources to find a local meeting???
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Hi Everyone: Haven't been here in a few months. Feeling awful about it, and trying to get ahold of myself again, and try to attend a meeting. A few of you, in the past, sent me some really great links, sharing where I could go in my area (Boston, MA). If anyone has a moment, would you mind sharing some res...
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bring me closer to you
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this is my new prayer, when i need to know my HP is with me..When im completely freaked out about some kind of crisis thing, i say it repeatedly and it throws me into the solutions. This beats the hell outta of being stuck in "the problem" ..6 billion people and this "thing" loves ea...
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Chairing the online chat meetings...
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I noticed it said this: More meetings will be added as chairpersons become available and willing. I would be interested in chairing for different days. Whom do I contact?
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SoberSteve
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Does anyone have any literature they can pass along?
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I have a big book and 12 and 12 but Im looking for NA big book Daily Reflections Living Sober Came to Believe Dr Bob and the good oldtimers Twenty Four hours a day My mind is out to get me and any other ones that are AA related I dont have much money and just got my new job so I can pay you back later perhaps, just wa...
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Forgive Us Our Trespasses...
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AS we forgive those who trespass against us. Well I have a grudge that I can't seem to purge, no matter how many times I 'turn it over'. My two oldest kids are in the local Mentoring Program, kinda like Big Brothers & Big Sisters. My daughter has been with her Mentor for three years and benefits treme...
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Deep Thought I heard today...
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You can never step in the same river twice. Because the water you step in isn't the same water that you stepped in before. Beyond that...it's just kinda worth pondering. Peace, Rob
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Starting my own local meeting...
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Any tips, suggestions etc on how I could start my own local AA meeting?
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SoberSteve
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A special Thank You!!
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A few of you may remember a couple weeks ago when I found this board I wanted to go out & drink. Even tho you didn't know me from Jack a few of you stepped in & replied. You helped keep me sober that night!! I'm so glad I found this board because you welcomed me from the start & made me feel right at h...
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Tessa
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My Mind Is Out To Get Me
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Great little book, if anyone hasn't heard of it.. has over 500 sayings and slogans collected from A.A. meetings. It can be ordered from Hazelden, 1-800-328-9000 (1-651-213-4000 outside the U.S. and Canada) www.hazelden.org Anyway, I was wondering what good little tidbits others have heard in m...
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Daily reflections ~ I'm Part of The Whole & 24hrs a Day
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At once, I became a part--if only a tiny part--of a cosmos.... AS BILL SEES IT, p. 225 When I first came to A.A., I decided that "they" were very nice people--perhaps a little naive, a little too friendly, but basically decent, earnest people (with whom I had nothing in common). I saw "t...
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The Brown Bottle by Penny Jones
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Once there was a caterpillar named Charlie who lived in the Valley of Promises. There was nothing observably special about Charlie. He was an average looking caterpillar amidst thousands of others. Like them, he spent the majority of his time crawling from leaf to leaf, eating as much as he pleased,...
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ONLINE NIGHT OWL MEETING TONIGHT!!!! 12 AM PST 3 AM EST!!!!
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I am having a NIGHT OWL online meeting tonight at 12 am pst or 3 am est I am in OREGON USA and you can use a time converter here http://www.google.com/landing/searchtips/#time just type in oregon and it will convert to your time. It will be at 12 am pst my time tonight starting at midnight on 2-20-2010 tha...
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My Higher Power came through again!
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I got a new good job!!!!! I start Monday!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SoberSteve
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I guess its my turn...
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Not sure who Im derecting this at, or who Im typing too.I've been Drunk for 20 years.Been a mess for the last 2 years....Been a drunk since my first drink. Im losing my house,fucked up my job.My freinds are all gone.My Family has emotionally left me, or maybe Ive left them... And I have a set of Broke...
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Um, thanks God.
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Sigh. I fondly remember all my thoughts leading up to this 1-year birthday of mine - how I was gonna not announce it till it actually happened, then on my birthday I'd quietly, with the proper measure of humility and keeping any touch of pride out of my voice say, "1 year today" at a meeting. B...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Gift of Laughter & 24hrs a Day
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At this juncture, his A.A. sponsor usually laughs. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 26 Before my recovery from alcoholism began, laughter was one of the most painful sounds I knew. I never laughed and I felt that anyone else's laughter was directed at me! My self-pity and anger denied me the sim...
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Our Online Meetings
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Many a Tuesday or Saturday Night at 8:00 P. M. or because of Daylight Savings Time at 9:00 P. M. I check the Miracles In Progress Online Meeting Site. When I get on, I usually try and use the same nickname, that way if a person gets on and sees it they will know I have been on before. Quite a few times people get...
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Boom. On my ass again.
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Bad night for me last night. It was like something was set in motion that I had no control over. Went out for dinner with a friend and drank. I'm really working hard at getting step 1 and last night may have been what I needed. Talked to a couple of friends and my sponsor today, feeling pretty crappy about ev...
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Trinity Rose,another of God's miracles!!!
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Morning family,wanted to share some joy in this man's heart.When my children from my 1st marriage left for Texas with their mom after my first divorce,it was almost 31 years before I reestablished contact physically.I kept in touch by mail,birthdays,holidays sent $$ etc but God urged me to step up....
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