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Pride as an Asset!
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I've recently discovered that lacking pride can be a defect of mine. I was running in the wrong direction in how I've heard regarding defective pride. Today, I realise I can use pride to get things done, do a good job, take pride in my work, appearance, actions, attitude, hope, want to develop and enjoy...
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Stranded in Bluefield VA Looking to get to a meeting! Anyone in the area?
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Looking for someone in or near bluefield VA - trying to get to a meeting! Stranded without a car! Any help would be great!!! My number is 914.413.5332
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Fanzig
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60 days!!!
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Hit 60 days sober today! Wtf!?! Can't even believe it! I never never thought I would be able to be a functioning sober person..and what a whirlwind. I'm learning so much it's unreal. I never realized what a dumbass I was haha! (and still am lol)Guess that's what happens when you spend over 20years looki...
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Col
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Each day is a MIRACLE.
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Hi all,good to be posting again and greatful that I found you all again in cyber world. :} But most of all truley greatful that I found you all in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous. Great to have a program of living, a way of living and giving in my world today. And so happy to have found my higher power, God o...
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Polly
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God Calling - Refuge
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"Know My divine power. Trust in Me. Dwell in My love. Laugh and trust. Laughter is a child's faith in God and good. Seek safety in My secret place. You cannot be touched or harmed there. That is sure. Really feel as if you were in a strong tower, strongly guarded, and against which nothing can...
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Today's Gift
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Readiness is a precondition for change. If we earnestly and conscientiously apply the tools of our program, we are certain to experience positive change. We are promised new freedom and happiness and assured that a Higher Power can and will remove our negative characteristics. The question is, ar...
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Pythonpappy
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Right, Happy or none of the above?
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Venting. Too late to call anyone. So I go to meeting today early to set up. A couple of people already there sitting in the few seats. As I and a few others start setting up chairs A. and B. ( 2 of the people sitting) start arguing loudly. It's a small room so it was pretty in your face. After a minute or so...
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mattbox
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Hate and anger of other AA members HELP!!!
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I've been shafted by more "recovery" people than "normal people. After 6 1/2 yrs sobriety I drank. Today by the grace of God I have 11 yrs in August. My problem is that my ex-sponser, his AA wife, My ex-AA girlfriens best friend and 13 others in recovery have hung me out to dry to the tune...
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stilllearnign
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Newcomer
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Im a couple days sober from Nashville,tn. just trying to reach out.
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runnergrl82
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No Regrets
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Daily Surrender - No Regrets This I pray, Higher Power: I will surrender to Your will today, which brings me peace and joy that makes all things new. I no longer have that trampled look of someone forced to remember every mistake he or she has made. I no longer hide under that blanket of regrets. My daily s...
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Today's Quote
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Our problem is not needing to know the truth about tomorrow, it's needing to live the truth we know today.- Charles R. Swindoll
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Pythonpappy
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How It Works (on me)
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So I have all these rolled up posters I need to sort. I decided I needed a box with holes in it, so I could put the rolled posters in specific holes to organize them. So I went to a local liqoour store, asked for a few boxes, they said sure, I waited a few mins, they brought a bunch up from the basement, I took em...
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mattbox
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The Wrong Funeral
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THE WRONG FUNERAL Consumed by my loss, I didn't notice the hardness of the pew where I sat. I was at the funeral of my dearest friend - my mother. She finally had lost her long battle with cancer. The hurt was so intense; I found it hard to breathe at times. Always supportive, Mother clapped loudest at my...
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Pythonpappy
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Unfulfilled
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It feels like I am at the beginning again, but coming from a deeper perspective. I have been in AA for several years and searching for some kind of understanding (meaning). My life has changed so much, that, all my concepts, ideals which I lived by, hold very little meaning and seem quite fu...
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Bluebell
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Sad News this morning
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Found out today that a close friend of mine passed away suddenly last Saturday. I spoke to him last week and he was doing ok. Jack was a big brother/mentor to me. He was kind, unassuming and unselfish. He was the past Pres of the local IBEW for 2 decades. 6 years ago he helped me (I helped him) wire my mountai...
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StPeteDean
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Acceptance
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Just read the Acceptance story from the 3rd edition of the big book. Wow, what a great read!! "My serenity is directly proportional to my level of acceptance"
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grayduchess
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Hazelden
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I really love the "Thought for the Day" at this site. I thought maybe others who don't know about it could benefit from it too. You can choose from "thoughts" directed towards women, men, family, etc. Even from Twenty-Four Hours a Day.
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grayduchess
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Why am I such a nut?? Lol
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Ok, so I've realized quite a few things about myself during the course of my 58 days of sobriety. Some of the things are positive:), many, however are not. Put simply, I'm a nut sometimes (well..maybe often lol). Here's an example..of course as one goes to more and more meetings, one tends to encounter...
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Col
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REAL Alcoholics
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Some new comers struggle with if they really are alcoholics. Some people don't, they have spent majority of their lives drinking and generally all around mucking things up. In the big book it asks 2 questions: "Two simple questions. Can you quit entirely when you want to quit? Do you have little...
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Ruhig
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Today's Riddle
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You are on a horse, galloping at a constant speed. On your right side is a sharp drop-off. On your left side is an elephant traveling at the same speed as you. Directly in front of you is a galloping kangaroo and your horse is unable to overtake it. Behind you is a lion running at the same speed as you and th...
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Pythonpappy
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Some day - is today!!!!
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I feel good. My life is manageable because I have a higher power and the tools of AA. I'm not elated all the time, and I'm not a grouch either. I'm just somewhere in between... mellow and smiling. I always said I would quit drinking some day. Sometimes that day was tomorrow, sometimes it was yesterd...
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justadrunk
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Congrats for your 40th, Pinkchip!!!
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I'm so sorry this is belated, Mark! I'd been waiting all month with a mind to post on your birthday July 1st but I was away from my comp all day & remembered you in my morning prayers today. Happy Birthday, Brother! & Congrats for Forty Big Ones! Wow :D Love you lots (your sober twin) Danielle x
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LMFAO put that soda down!!!
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A new study by the National Institute of Consumption in Paris, and published in the French magazine 60 Million Consumers, found that trace amounts of alcohol can be found in popular soft drinks including Coca-Cola and Pepsi. The study found that 0.001 percent per liter of alcohol was found in 19 p...
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Ruhig
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Wild Journey, But I wouldn't want to miss this ride!
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Hello Fellow Travellers! I just want to simply say thank you to everyone who has really been the driving force behind this board staying active over the past few years, and the strength it shows in it's membership. Tonight, I have read so many post here of people in various states of pain, hopelessnes...
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John
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Daily Reflections ~ Humility is a Gift & 24hrs a Day
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As long as we placed self-reliance first, a genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question. That basic ingredient of all humility, a desire to seek and do God's will, was missing. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 72 When I first came to A.A., I wanted to find some of the elusive qual...
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The Serenity Prayer
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I went to a noon meeting today...See some friends I don't often see at my normal 8:00 am meeting and a newcomer there brought up the Serenity Prayer as a topic. It made for an interesting meeting...And was the first prayer I learned in rehab...As we weren't allowed to say the Lord's Prayer there as it wa...
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Rip Tony D. My grandsponsor
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Well, I sort of knew this was coming, but he rallied for a good month before dying last night at about 5 pm. He was truly a pillar of AA in this area and in the fellowship I belong to. He died with 34 years sober. A gay man who was in a committed relationship with his partner for 42 years. They raised childr...
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pinkchip
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Not in a good space right now
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Hi all, am not in a good space right now, a dear member of my group has died in a tragic accident. Can not get to a meeting until tomorrow and busied myself with housework for a while but am finding it tough.
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maire rua
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Need a Tug on the Heart?
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http://play.simpletruths.com/movie/someone-who-cares/?cm_mmc=CheetahMail-_FR-_-07.13.12-_-SomeoneWhoCaresMovie&utm_source=CheetahMail&utm_campaign=SomeoneWhoCaresMovie
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Pythonpappy
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World on pause
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...and, he turns off the tv.
It's dark, only the light from outside comes in. The soft nearly undetectable sound of electricity, or prehaps the sound that my ears pretend to here in the nocturnal silence, hums in the background. Further still, in the background, I can hear the occasional whisper of...
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Ruhig
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Atheist and Agnostic meeting
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I did a search on this and didn't come up with much except a thread or 2 from 2005 A few people have come to me to help them get a new group started. No God is their thing. what I want to know is what kind of fall out will there be, if any, for changing the steps to not have God, to try and limit people from talking a...
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11th Year Anniversary
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Today, I've been sober for 11 full years. It's been an awesome journey thus far. I'm not going to dwell too long on this accomplishment because it's still a one day at a time program. But what I can say is that my journey thus far has been truly amazing. This program wouldn't feel the same without your ongo...
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Mr_David
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SLOGAN TALK
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I found this website that lists 400 slogans early in sobriety. Just wanted to share some and talk about our favorite. Take a look at the site and I've listed some below.
1) Easy does it.
2) First things first.
3) Live and let live. ...
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One week sober so far so good!
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I'm finding an extra skip in my step these days! Eating better also! I love waking up in the mornings and listening to "Beautiful morning" by The Rascals! People have been also noticing a positive change at work, and my Fiancee is willing to be more supportive! Life is good!
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We Have Been Spared! - A Miracle and a Blessing!
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Counting our blessings We have passed from death into life. We know that a powerful life force flows through us and a new and beautiful serenity is ours. What we once despised, we now cherish. We cease to find the world of drugs attractive. This is a blessing and a miracle, for at one point we were among th...
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Daily Reflections ~ Giving Up Centre Stage & 24hrs a Day
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For without some degree of humility, no alcoholic can stay sober at all. . . . Without it, they cannot live to much useful purpose, or, in adversity, be able to summon the faith that can meet any emergency. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 70 Why do I balk at the word "humility"? I am no...
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Living In The NOW
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Day 8, and boy is that spiritual connection coming back! The physical self is screaming out "thirsty" but I'll get over it, this too shall pass. I wanted to share a couple things this morning: 1) Thank you so much to all you hidden faces here at MIP. I can't begin to express how fortunate I f...
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Harobed
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9th step progress
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Aloha All...most of you know the 9th step the wording and intent. I've had a long 3 decade relationship with it and with asking for the guidance from my HP on one especially. It is 38 years old and happened during the drinking years...my alcoholic girl friend's and mine. It happened in a foreign count...
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Jerry F
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Question about early sobriety
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Hey all:) I've heard varying opinions of how long one feels physical withdrawal symptoms after stopping drinking. I've read or been told that these can last anywhere from a week to a year. I've been sober for 51 days and although I feel a great improvement in my health, I occasionally experience stran...
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Col
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Memories
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Hey all..I'm having kinda a weird experience. I worked in a steakhouse for close to 6 years.. Haven't worked there in almost 2 years, though I made plenty of friends there, some of whom I'm still in close contact with. Well, the place (that's been around for 40yrs) closed its doors for good yesterday wi...
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Col
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Inspirational recovery books
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Great book suggestions that inspire recovery...
Cracking Up: A Memoir
By Grant Arboro
The Rest of the Twelve Steps
By Grant Arboro
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SeanTerri
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Some things have changed about the way I teach piano.
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When I walk into the room, I'm smiling. A big smile... a "glad you're here" smile. When the children sit down to the piano, I play for them before I we begin the lesson. I can only hope they will "want what I've got". When the children get frustrated, and sometimes even cry... I ca...
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justadrunk
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taking responsibility
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I dunno, but what I've been reading here the past few weeks, what I've been hearing around the rooms, what I've been hearing in the meetiings between the meetings and what I've been worrying about has prompted me to take action, take responsibility. I've just been to the solicitor's office to have my w...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Turning Point & 24hrs a Day
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A great turning point in our lives came when we sought for humility as something we really wanted, rather than as something we must have. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 75 Either the A A. way of life becomes one of joy or I return to the darkness and despair of alcoholism. Joy comes to me when my a...
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Worried Aunt
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Hi, I am the daughter of alcoholics, one dead and one coming up on 30 years in recovery. I have dodged the bullet that is this disease. I have a large family, many of whom work in recovery. Currently we are facing a serious health crisis for one of my siblings. Another family member has responded to this cr...
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Number5
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Thinking of Angell :)
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Okay, ... ... ... I really hate to be out-done when it comes to 'funny' stories ... and see'n as how Angell got me good a couple days ago, I'm here to re-call one of the pranks I pulled back in the early 80's ... Okay, ... I was working as a 'service engineer' for an 'X-Ray Equipment' company ... we sold, inst...
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Pythonpappy
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Perspective
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Had a party for my brother yesterday. A whole fridge full of beer, and my first real temptation. It was kind of shocking and disappointing, because I actually thought to myself it would be okay to crack open and have just one beer. I don't even like beer - and I sure don't like just one! It was weird, and...
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justadrunk
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I might be waking up...
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Ive been to over 30 meetings in the last 12 days or so... Im feeling a much warmer feeling than I have in years and Im seeing it so much clearer... Ive been in such a sick place for so long and I dont have anyone left besides a mother who is a bit sick herself (and I barely see her) Im 26 turning 27 in September...
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Closer
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In God's Care
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We are the wire, God is the current. Our only power is to let the current pass through us. ~~Carlo Carretto God has given us free will. We can choose to travel our road with or without our Creator. We can make use of divine power or not. But we ought to understand that all the power we have comes from God. We...
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Pythonpappy
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Online group meeting
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How do I get into the online group meeting? I'm not sure if it's a tech issue or something else. Help? Thanks!
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hollyeve
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