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Leaving regret city
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I was mayor of this city at one time Main : Guilt Leaving the City of Regret by: Larry Harp, Heartwarmers4u I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year, and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly. This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no real good would com...
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It's in the giving- that we receive
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December 10 "Happiness is a by-product - the extra dividend of giving without any demand for a return." Prior to AA and my Spiritual Awakening as the result of complete the 12 Steps of AA, I always looked for what was in i...
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Welcome Housemouse
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Welcome to MIP Housemouse, ... Glad to have you here ... looking forward to your shares! Love ya and God Bless, Pappy
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Today's Gift 12 - 11
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Friendship and Love Friendships or marriages based on "dire need" or physical security are doomed to fail if each person in the relationship does not grow beyond his or her limited ways of thinking and reacting. The ideal relationship is one in which each partner strives to grow. It is an e...
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GrapeVine
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December 11 "When you've been lost, lonely, forgotten, rejected, it's the most important thing in the world to have somebody shake your hand." Santa Fe, N.M., May 1972 From: "How AA Works"...
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P*ssing and Moaning --- (joke)(but apparently true)
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Ellisville, Mississippi, April 12, 2011 An Ellisville school teacher called the local phone company to report her telephone failed to ring when her friends called - and that on the few occasions, when it did ring, her dog always moaned right before the phone rang. The telephone repairman proce...
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Thank you all and thank MIP!!!
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My wife is an alcoholic. I have been mean, critical, judging and controling through our life dealing with her addiction. We are just now getting OUR communication skills back. What you all share keeps me grounded in that while she really can't share with me what she is dealing with every single day, I g...
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4 months!
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Hi Mich here.... I was just telling Tasha how busy I am once school starts. I just finished a huge chunk of work and have a bit of a break coming up. I have been MIA on MIP. Ha... but I had 4 months Nov 30th. I feel good. Each day has its challenges, but now I know I can make it thru without a drink. I am so very...
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A day off
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Today is my day off of work. For now, I only have 1 day off a week. I woke at 415am, which is my usual time to wake for work, then decided to sleep in til 6... Got up , made coffee, realized I was pretty exhausted, went back to bed setting my alarm for 8.. What a treat:) I wake up, look at the clock and it's NOON!!! M...
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The 'W' in Christmas
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There aren't many emails that have much of an effect on me any more, but I came across this one that I thought i'd share .... Please accept this in the nature it was intended ... Thank You, Pappy The "W" in Christmas Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful experience. I h...
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My story...
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Hi, my name is Robin and I am an alcoholic...and this is my story. I was born with a thinking and feeling problem. I had my first resentment sitting in a high-chair as a baby, and I carried that grudge and every resentment after that for many years. I couldn't form a binding relationship with anyone....
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12.12.12
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A heavenly sign reminding you to work the 12 steps now!
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Christmas in a Bottle
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Please Check out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cz7JPVnZaKE God Bless and Save Us All.........
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Just checking in
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Lots of learning going on through the crisis of my mom being in the hospital. I'm stronger than I think I am. I have friends in the fellowship who are here for me-I'm not alone. G-d is always here, I just need to slow down to notice him. I have major control issues and I have huge resentments towards other pp...
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the what if'ss
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I know we try to manage the past with 'it is what it is type attitude and I know and understand we have to accept it. However I have been stuck on whaty ift's and questionin alot of my life choices, most I an get over and move on. The one I have the hardest time excepting is my parents early passing, why did they...
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"The idea" BB pg 30
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"The idea that somehow, someday he will control and enjoy his drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker."That's why we relapse, not because it is Christmas or New Year. AA took away that idea from me, by working the 12 steps. Now I don't drink because I don't have that idea an...
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Bank Account
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This is AWESOME ... something we should all remember. A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nu...
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Uhhh... This is gonna be a problem
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Ok, so I'm working the 4 th step.. Finished with the resentment part, moving on to the accepting responsibility part. This is fine, I can clearly see where I've been at fault. With the exception of 2 people- my parents. I grew up in an extremely abusive home (abusive on every level). My father was a sick b...
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Gratitude!!!
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Hello all, haven't posted on hetre in a while, just an update. 4 months without a drink, and I feel great! Have been back to work for a while and am on night shift for the next few days, then vacation through Christmas. Haven't been to a meeting since Sunday night, but have been in contact with my sponser. W...
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Today's Gift 12 - 14
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Advice is like snow; the softer it falls the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind. --Samuel T. Coleridge Once we thought we knew everything and no one could teach us very much. Now we know others have help and experience and wisdom to offer us, if only we're willing to listen. Learn...
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God Calling - Storms
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"There is no miracle so wonderful as the miracle of a soul being kept by My power. Forces of evil batter and storm, but are powerless. Tempests rage unavailingly. It is like a cool garden with sweet flowers and bees and butterflies and trees and playing fountains set in the midst of a mighty roar...
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Been a while :)
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Too long ! I just wanted to pop in and say hi. It's good to see some of my friends are still hangin' around! Brian
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Identity
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We were talking about fear in a meeting yesterday, and I started thinking about identity. The first time I ever got drunk when I was fourteen I couldn't believe how much I loved it. All of a sudden I wasn't nervous or quiet, I felt like I was the person I really was, the person I was supposed to be. I graduall...
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Today's Gift 12 - 15
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It is a cheap generosity which promises the future in compensation for the present. --J. A. Spender Living in this moment is all we really have. We are constantly bombarded with advice to live for the future, but it perpetually exists beyond our grasp like the carrot tempting the donkey. We are told to...
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Please Welcome a New Member Jack D
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I'm not sure if Jack knew how to create a new thread, so I took the liberty doing so. Welcome to the board Jack. It's nice to have someone with 40+ years here to share their experience, strength, and hope. Jack D's Story: (from his profile) assume this is my AA biography... lousy story. I grew u...
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feeling a little snowed
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The delicately planned sins of today are a bit different than they were a year ago. Today I trudge to the back pen to tend to my buried-alive-in-snow hobby farm animals. Some of them are less than a year old, and haven't experienced 14 inches of snow suddenly, yet gently turn their world white. I soak...
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Types of meetings
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I'm still trying to figure out all of these different types of meetings. What is a 12 & 12 step meeting? A study group? How does step discussion differ from a regular meeting?
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Daily Reflections ~ A Genuine Humility & 24hrs a Day
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. . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoholic personality...
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Today's Gift 12 - 12
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When all else fails, read the instructions. --Agnes Alien The instructions for recovery are in our Twelve Step program. Yet, there are times when we feel our program isn't working. At these times, we need to read the instructions. Have you followed the "instructions," the wise words fou...
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Footprints (HP) AA Version
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-- Edited by StPeteDean on Wednesday 12th of December 2012 05:05:22 PM
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Today's Gift 12 - 13
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Dare to be empty. Dare to let go. Dare to believe. --Elisabeth L. Not many of us have received a direct, visual experience of God. Most of us only sense a Presence, or perhaps see the evidence of God's help. It takes profound faith to live moment by moment in the knowledge that God is always here. The found...
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From the GrapeVine
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"Neither God nor AA can help us if we are not open to help."
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Today's Gift 12 - 09
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This is a we program. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer Why must I have a sponsor? Cant I do this on my own? Sponsor Sponsorship is a strong suggestion not a rule. Yes, some people do stay in recovery without a sponsor. And no, we cant recover on our own. There are great advantages to taking the program s...
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Today's Gift 12 - 10
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Progress, Not Perfection. --Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. We can actual...
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Today's Gift 12 - 08
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Reflection for the Day I'll begin today with prayer - prayer in my heart, prayer in my mind, and words of prayer on my lips. Through prayer, I'll stay tuned to God today, reaching forward to become that to which I aspire. Prayer will redirect my mind, helping me rise in consciousness to the point where I r...
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We gotta stick together
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Ok, so there's this coworker of mine who I DO NOT get along with- he's 22, arrogant, ignorant and sexist. He does not care for me, either. Last week, another coworker had asked me if I would be attending this years holiday party, and I was completely honest with her and my reservations about going to a boo...
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Don't Touch the Buttons
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In a Hospital, a gentleman had made several attempts to get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied. A nurse noticed his predicament. Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if you promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall." He did what he needed to, and as he s...
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Today's Gift 12 - 06
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The 12 Step way of life is accepting, not necessarily passive. --Anonymous When we accept life on life's terms, we are acknowledging reality. We have all, on occasion, run from the truth. When we were in a situation that frightened us, we would turn tail and run. We would do our imitation of an ostrich a...
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Today's Gift 12 - 07
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SerenityYour body is tense. Your face is somber and serious, ready to deliver the news. You may be slightly breathless. There's a crisis. It may be real. Or it may be self-created.Like an audience in a sports arena, we watch the events of life or even The Weather Channel drumming up reactive responses...
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Daily Reflections ~ True Ambition & 24hrs a Day
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True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in everything...
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VENTING with Graditude!
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http://alanon.activeboard.com/t51579198/needing-support/
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Anger problem?
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I read myself stating in another post here that my goal was to be calm even if a bomb went off next to me... Nonetheless, I find that in sobriety I am quicker to get angry and I do have temper tantrum explosions that I didn't use to have when I drank. Back then I would just break down before ever yelling and s...
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SOBER/DRY?
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Perhaps Im nitpicking, however when a newcomer or perhaps someone coming back refers themselves as sober I sort of shutter as it took me a lot of time to start to get sober. After a good # of 24 hours I still have my dry times. A sponsor once told me that being dry is acting and reacting the same as when I was dr...
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Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation
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Interesting new research described in this summary. Supports the conclusions that AA provides roughly equal benefits for men and women but that the benefit types may be different.Appears to be reasonably good research.Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation Dec...
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i been in aa 3 months now
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I been sober 3 in a half months now, and there still so cliquey they go places never think to invite me they dont call me ever when i call or text thenm its very seldom it sucks
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He flies in on a pink cloud
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"Oh my Gosh!" He giggles "These old ladies are SO crazy! Talking about if they would take chemo if they had cancer, and about their cat's and dogs, and I swear not one was under 70! It was the best meeting ever!" So my husband turns the corner in alanon and I trust in the program so...
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Time to lighten Up --- A Joke --- 'Voices'
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A doctor had sex with one of his female patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he just couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal of his patient were overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said: "D...
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Antsy
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I am feeling super antsy tonight. I have a ton of work on, I'm a bit grumpy, and this is when I'd usually start looking forward to tomorrow night's drink. I am not very good at just relaxing. Think I should go to a meeting tomorrow.
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Teachers & Cops Quotes
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Subject: Teachers & Cops Quotes Teachers? Report CardsThese are actual comments made on students' report cards by teachers in the N** Y*** City public school system. All teachers were reprimanded (but, boy, are these funny!) 1. Since my last re...
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Welcome WolfRider
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Welcome to MIP WolfRider ... glad you're here ... Pappy
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