Alcoholics Anonymous

moondreamer · moondreamer

Good afternoon! I am new to this. I had decided to quit drinking 13 days ago, because thing had become completely out of control. My kids witnessed me completely trashed a few times, and I feel terrible about it. I'm not even sure what their awareness is, i.e. if they knew I was drunk, but I suspect th...

Zoomtopz · Zoomtopz

At this time 27yrs ago , I was having my last drinks . When I wake up in the morning , I will be 27 years sober . THANK You Everybody who was a Pain in the Ass , as you made me work the hardest . Thank You to those who would not put up with my PMS (putting up with my s...) That made me grow too . THANK YOU Everybody who ha...

new member · pugmom

i just found this website. after 5 days of binge drinking i went tonight to the first meeting i've been to in months. i've known for a long time that i'm an alcoholic and i've been in and out of the program, had months, even years of sobriety, and here i am again, on another day one i have 2 children that are...

Justin · Justin

I have not had a drop of alcohol in a week. It feels so unusual not going to the beer store since it is Friday. I'm doing good not drinking tonight, but I sure want a beer.

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Weekly Quote"God has wisely kept us in the dark concerning future events and reserved for himself the knowledge of them, that he may train us up in a dependence upon himself and a continued readiness for every event." -Matthew HenryWeekly ThoughtA Classic Devotional from Samuel Ruthe...

Justin · Justin

Hello all, I just found this website today after long day and night yesterday of binge drinking. I have never considered myself an alcoholic because I don't drink everyday. I do however drink every weekend and each time I drink so much until I pass out. I have a wife and two children and am terribly afrai...

AlcoHater · AlcoHater

Ever since I started working 10/hrs. a day 7 days a week, I'm no longer able to attend f2f meetings. That's the bad news. That's okay, though, as I never felt comfortable or welcome there anyway. And listening to the same old drivel from a bunch of well-heeled drunx can be tiring. That's why I'm so glad fo...

justadrunk · justadrunk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

"Eyes that look are common; eyes that see are rare." - J. Oswald Sanders

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

People have a need to feel their pain. Very often pain is the beginning of a great deal of awareness. As an energy, it awakens consciousness.--Arnold Mindell The Barbara I met at my high school reunion was not the same person I had known a decade earlier. A sensitive and caring person stood in the place o...

gonee · gonee

My brothers and sisters it is from the overflowing fullness of gratitude in my heart, that I want to pray for each and every one of you here. I pray that it may go well with you and that God blesses you in every aspect of your life. I have been tremendously blessed by every one of you here. Every little bit th...

mandm · mandm

I wanted to share some weird dreams I have been having, I know its common to have dreams when you quit drinking of dreams of drinking, which I was having when I first quit drinking of drinking. But lately I have been having dreams of being in social situation and I am telling people I cannot drink because...

Q

1. What are the two common bonds that recovering alcoholics have that transcend political, economic, social, or religious backgrounds? (Pg 17) 2. What can a recovered alcoholic do for an alcoholic, that those who do not have a problem can't do? (Pg 18) 3. When one asks, "What do I have to do?&quo...

gonee · gonee

The tragedy for so many of us is that we have come to AA only for sobriety. Then life deals us a cruel blow and we wonder why? Many a Alanon member have been secretly jealous of their partners recovery and so they decline recovery for themselves. Resentment is the number one offender. It destroys alcohol...

turninggrey · turninggrey

I am really feeling sick! I have been doing the stomach ache on and off for a few days now and I am running out of energy. If this does not clear up by tomorrow, I will be going to the doctor! I find that knowing there is a prayer or two floating around for my worthless soul helps in times like these! Thanks, To...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

"The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you do not expect to sit." - Nelson Henderson

gonee · gonee

"We found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him." pg 46 AA book. What a relief it was when I first read this in the book. For me it was the defining moment in my relationship with God. Over the years I have built upon this simple statement of faith and encouragement from the...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Do not reveal your thoughts to everyone, lest you drive away your good luck. --Apocrypha, Ecclesiasticus 8:19 We've had problems in our lives with limits. We have done some things to excess and others we have endlessly postponed. Sometimes we haven't had good judgment about what we ought to tell s...

gonee · gonee

Wonderful meeting tonight. 1 year AA birthday chaired by a 38 year AA sobriety chairman. God was glorified and thanked for saving another life and another family from destruction. Just as one man's addiction destroys so many, so is one man's spiritual recovery save as many. God be praised for His fav...

Mike B. · Mike B.

August 9 "Often in the past, my prayers for help have been answered in ways that I have not recognized as answers. Indeed, I have cursed my fate instead of thanking God."

John · John

I hate to put these notifications out here, but we are currently 25.00 in arrears on our message board cost, and that will only bring us current. Anyone who can donate a few dollars to help offset the cost of this expense, please consider doing so as soon asap. Any surplus will be used to pay it in advanc...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

When I take anothers needs into consideration and bend, I spiritually stretch. --Helene Lerner-RobbinsWe have been told that this is a selfish program. Perhaps that has given us license to be inconsiderate. However, that isnt what the founders meant by a selfish program. While its true that we mus...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

"Progress involves risk. You can't steal second base and keep your foot on first." - Frederick Wilcox

Robbiedead · Robbiedead

Have you ever held a loaded gun to your head? It feels weird. Almost Spiritual. With the push of a button, everything goes black. then to white, for we no longer know what color once was. That barrel getting warm against your head. Like looking down the tunnel to the land of the dead. I figured if I was goin...

Q

I posted these at another forum for a newcomer that was interested in studying the program. I have lists of these questions that I use with my sponsees to delve into the Big Book and 12&12, so I thought I'd share them here. Feel free to use them in your own BB studies. These question lists aren't exhau...

Mike B. · Mike B.

August 8 "In examining the precision and aptness of the small, I can be more appreciative of the large."

justadrunk · justadrunk

For the last monthish I have been taking iodine drops for low thyroid symptoms. I started out with kelp - and at some point when I didn't notice a difference, I bought some pure anatomized drops. I started out taking one drop per day - and gradually moved up to three drops this week. At week 2 - with 2 drop...

Mike B. · Mike B.

August 7 "Many ask 'What is anonymity?' and 'What is humility?' To me, they are almost the same thing. They are devoid of prestige; they demand nothing; they don't ask to be 'right'; they simply suggest that the icy egocentric elements in all of us retire into the background and that we wear...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

August 6 "Forgiveness seems to depend more on the love of the one who does the forgiving than on the lovability of the one being forgiven." West Henrietta, N.Y., September 1997 "The Fire Has Gone Out" AA Grapevine

mikef · mikef

Good morning and blessings of this day!Welcome to another day of Life to all, especially those here for first time,or just coming back.Our last 15 months in our relocation to Florida from New York ,leaving our jobs(mine of 34 years)and starting new and seeking to be near my wife's family to help in the...

pinkchip · pinkchip

Okay, so I know for substance abuse education (formal not personal lol) that there is primary, secondary, and tertiary intervention. Most of us are all dealing with tertiary intervention which means intervention after something has become a full blown addiction/problem. Secondary is interv...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

StPeteDean got caught on film lounging around at his mountain retreat ... He do enjoy nature!!! ... where's the cat ???

Jerry F · Jerry F

This gal gets a sad phone call at work and after a time of crying goes into her bosses office and asks, "Can I have a grief day off next Wednesday"? Her boss replies, "Of course you can...is there something we can support you with". She takes a deep breath and replies, "Ev...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

An alcoholic spends his life committing suicide on the installment plan. --Laurence Peter None of us woke up one morning and found we had suddenly turned into an addict. We got to be one by practice. And we practiced often. We ignored our families - we left work early - and went drinking and drugging. Da...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

THE ORIGINAL SIN

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

During my share at tonight's meeting, in response to an 'anger' topic, I shared that I had accumulated enough tools that I could deal with about anything today that would have sent me into orbit a long time ago ... that when we commit ourselves to this program, we learn how to deal with life, that the past...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

August 5, 2013 Quote of the Week "Find someone you can tell the truth to;we don't do this alone." Over the 12 months when my life crashed around me, I shut myself off more and more from the people I knew. On those rare occasions when people who knew me asked how I was, I lied and t...

mandm · mandm

I live in a building and I've noticed my neighbour is a crazy Alcoholic. I'm really not in the position to help him/ plus I really don't like him. But hes at the stage where you can see that hes going to die if he keeps it up. I have seen him ever day this week at time during the day even the morning where he is so d...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Self-Acceptance and Self-KnowledgeGod, grant me the serenityTo accept the things I cannot changeCourage to change the things I canAnd wisdom to know the difference.This well-known prayer expresses some key guidelines to our philosophy of living. One group member explained it this way:For me,...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

"A generous man will himself be blessed." -Proverbs 22:9Weekly Quote"You cannot out-give God." -Billy GrahamWeekly ThoughtGo ahead and try. You can't do it. It's impossible to give and not get something in return. Oh, there will be times you extend love and not have it rec...

justadrunk · justadrunk

My son always sits outside the bathroom and watches me fix my hair and put on my mascara and lip gloss. One day last week, we were in a hurry, and I dashed to do my ritual with him on my tail. As I was working on it, he said "Mama, why do you put all that beauty stuff on, you're so beautiful without it... e...

betterthanyesterday52 · betterthanyesterday52

We are both on day 64 of sobriety. Have been to one AA meeting a day everyday. I love the meetings! My bf wants me to go to Atlanta (big party city) with him to a cousin's wedding in Oct. This cousin, has suddenly became his "favorite" over the last two days since the invite although he hasn't see...

betterthanyesterday52 · betterthanyesterday52

I had a nice lady offer to be my sponsor. We have a meeting set up on Tuesday to meet at a coffee shop because she said she didn't know where else to meet and she was open about her sobriety. She wanted to come to my place, but the place is a wreak and since I share it with someone else, there is only a path to walk t...

RubyTues · RubyTues

I sent another amend off into the universe today (well, I sent an e-mail, as this person lives very far away). It was a very difficult one but lately it was on my mind and I just had this very strong feeling that for some reason the time was right to do it. I may not hear back, I may hear back with some choice wor...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

I just pictured in my mind what I wanted to do. You can use that same formula in accomplishing anything in life. --Ida Bellegarde The imagination is a powerful tool. With practice we can perfect our use of it and the results will astound us. Research has shown that athletes who visualize a practice ses...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

July 29, 2013 Quote of the Week "You can't experience victory if you refuse to surrender." Boy, that surrender thing was (and sometimes still is) a hard thing for me to accept. I mean, how could I possibly win or succeed at something if I'm told to give up and surrender? I've always...

emmi331 · emmi331

I have been in great distress and pain over something that has occurred in my life. Some of you may have an idea what this is from an earlier thread. My sponsor, a woman with decades of sobriety, has been a Godsend to me with this. I will ask her this, as well, but I thought I would seek some input here. She a...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Courage is very important. Like a muscle, it is strengthened by use. --Ruth GordonAll of us fear the unfamiliar at times; and it's nothing to be ashamed of to occasionally feel frightened by everyday events. We can still forget that God is always with us and, thus, allow fear to take over. We're learni...

justadrunk · justadrunk

Creativity is so delicate a flower that praise tends to make it bloom, while discouragement often nips it in the bud. Alex Osborn A garden of flowers blooming is a beautiful sight to see. Through the green leaves surrounding a tulip we see hints of yellow or pink or red. Each day the flowers greet us wi...

justadrunk · justadrunk

We were matched together many generations before we ever met. Some of the details as to how it was decided we were to be married are still unclear. Most of our ancestors left little or no trace of their lives. Still, word trickled down from great great grandfather on his side, to great grandmother on...

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	New and wondering if I should tell kids just yet? (Preview) Good afternoon! I am new to this. I had decided to quit drinking 13 days ago, because thing had become completely out of control. My kids witnessed me completely trashed a few times, and I feel terrible about it. I'm not even sure what their awareness is, i.e. if they knew I was drunk, but I suspect th...	moondreamer	10	397	Aug 12, 2013 by pugmom
	Thank You (Preview) At this time 27yrs ago , I was having my last drinks . When I wake up in the morning , I will be 27 years sober . THANK You Everybody who was a Pain in the Ass , as you made me work the hardest . Thank You to those who would not put up with my PMS (putting up with my s...) That made me grow too . THANK YOU Everybody who ha...	Zoomtopz	8	382	Aug 12, 2013 by pugmom
	new member new (Preview) i just found this website. after 5 days of binge drinking i went tonight to the first meeting i've been to in months. i've known for a long time that i'm an alcoholic and i've been in and out of the program, had months, even years of sobriety, and here i am again, on another day one i have 2 children that are...	pugmom	14	6941	Aug 12, 2013 by justadrunk
	It's tough to not get drunk on Friday night (Preview) I have not had a drop of alcohol in a week. It feels so unusual not going to the beer store since it is Friday. I'm doing good not drinking tonight, but I sure want a beer.	Justin	8	414	Aug 12, 2013 by Fyne Spirit
	Weekly Thought (Preview) Weekly Quote"God has wisely kept us in the dark concerning future events and reserved for himself the knowledge of them, that he may train us up in a dependence upon himself and a continued readiness for every event." -Matthew HenryWeekly ThoughtA Classic Devotional from Samuel Ruthe...	Pythonpappy	1	213	Aug 11, 2013 by gonee
	A new memberH (Preview) Hello all, I just found this website today after long day and night yesterday of binge drinking. I have never considered myself an alcoholic because I don't drink everyday. I do however drink every weekend and each time I drink so much until I pass out. I have a wife and two children and am terribly afrai...	Justin	14	482	Aug 11, 2013 by pugmom
	This is now my home group. (Preview) Ever since I started working 10/hrs. a day 7 days a week, I'm no longer able to attend f2f meetings. That's the bad news. That's okay, though, as I never felt comfortable or welcome there anyway. And listening to the same old drivel from a bunch of well-heeled drunx can be tiring. That's why I'm so glad fo...	AlcoHater	14	539	Aug 10, 2013 by Tanin
	Act as if until you become it = a really great link worth watching : ) (Preview) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc	justadrunk	2	390	Aug 11, 2013 by mandm
	Sunrise Quote (Preview) "Eyes that look are common; eyes that see are rare." - J. Oswald Sanders	Pythonpappy	0	186	Aug 10, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Today's Gift 08-10 (Preview) People have a need to feel their pain. Very often pain is the beginning of a great deal of awareness. As an energy, it awakens consciousness.--Arnold Mindell The Barbara I met at my high school reunion was not the same person I had known a decade earlier. A sensitive and caring person stood in the place o...	Pythonpappy	1	176	Aug 10, 2013 by justadrunk
	Truly blessed. (Preview) My brothers and sisters it is from the overflowing fullness of gratitude in my heart, that I want to pray for each and every one of you here. I pray that it may go well with you and that God blesses you in every aspect of your life. I have been tremendously blessed by every one of you here. Every little bit th...	gonee	4	278	Aug 10, 2013 by justadrunk
	Changing Dreams (Preview) I wanted to share some weird dreams I have been having, I know its common to have dreams when you quit drinking of dreams of drinking, which I was having when I first quit drinking of drinking. But lately I have been having dreams of being in social situation and I am telling people I cannot drink because...	mandm	7	401	Aug 10, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	There Is A Solution - Study Questions (Preview) 1. What are the two common bonds that recovering alcoholics have that transcend political, economic, social, or religious backgrounds? (Pg 17) 2. What can a recovered alcoholic do for an alcoholic, that those who do not have a problem can't do? (Pg 18) 3. When one asks, "What do I have to do?&quo...	Q	7	9583	Aug 10, 2013 by Q
	The reality......... (Preview) The tragedy for so many of us is that we have come to AA only for sobriety. Then life deals us a cruel blow and we wonder why? Many a Alanon member have been secretly jealous of their partners recovery and so they decline recovery for themselves. Resentment is the number one offender. It destroys alcohol...	gonee	7	589	Aug 10, 2013 by gonee
	Got a prayer to spare? (Preview) I am really feeling sick! I have been doing the stomach ache on and off for a few days now and I am running out of energy. If this does not clear up by tomorrow, I will be going to the doctor! I find that knowing there is a prayer or two floating around for my worthless soul helps in times like these! Thanks, To...	turninggrey	18	574	Aug 10, 2013 by Tanin
	Sunrise Quote (Preview) "The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you do not expect to sit." - Nelson Henderson	Pythonpappy	1	196	Aug 10, 2013 by gonee
	A little leeway. (Preview) "We found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him." pg 46 AA book. What a relief it was when I first read this in the book. For me it was the defining moment in my relationship with God. Over the years I have built upon this simple statement of faith and encouragement from the...	gonee	12	542	Aug 9, 2013 by Sports dude
	Today's Gift 08-09 (Preview) Do not reveal your thoughts to everyone, lest you drive away your good luck. --Apocrypha, Ecclesiasticus 8:19 We've had problems in our lives with limits. We have done some things to excess and others we have endlessly postponed. Sometimes we haven't had good judgment about what we ought to tell s...	Pythonpappy	0	252	Aug 9, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Gratitude. (Preview) Wonderful meeting tonight. 1 year AA birthday chaired by a 38 year AA sobriety chairman. God was glorified and thanked for saving another life and another family from destruction. Just as one man's addiction destroys so many, so is one man's spiritual recovery save as many. God be praised for His fav...	gonee	2	248	Aug 9, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Grapevine (Preview) August 9 "Often in the past, my prayers for help have been answered in ways that I have not recognized as answers. Indeed, I have cursed my fate instead of thanking God."	Mike B.	1	247	Aug 9, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Donations for Board needed (Preview) I hate to put these notifications out here, but we are currently 25.00 in arrears on our message board cost, and that will only bring us current. Anyone who can donate a few dollars to help offset the cost of this expense, please consider doing so as soon asap. Any surplus will be used to pay it in advanc...	John	3	304	Aug 9, 2013 by John
	Today's Gift 08-07 (Preview) When I take anothers needs into consideration and bend, I spiritually stretch. --Helene Lerner-RobbinsWe have been told that this is a selfish program. Perhaps that has given us license to be inconsiderate. However, that isnt what the founders meant by a selfish program. While its true that we mus...	Pythonpappy	1	208	Aug 8, 2013 by Mike B.
	Sunrise Quote (Preview) "Progress involves risk. You can't steal second base and keep your foot on first." - Frederick Wilcox	Pythonpappy	3	205	Aug 8, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	The Trees have eyes. (Preview) Have you ever held a loaded gun to your head? It feels weird. Almost Spiritual. With the push of a button, everything goes black. then to white, for we no longer know what color once was. That barrel getting warm against your head. Like looking down the tunnel to the land of the dead. I figured if I was goin...	Robbiedead	10	491	Aug 8, 2013 by Ironman
	The Doctor's Opinion - Study Questions (Preview) I posted these at another forum for a newcomer that was interested in studying the program. I have lists of these questions that I use with my sponsees to delve into the Big Book and 12&12, so I thought I'd share them here. Feel free to use them in your own BB studies. These question lists aren't exhau...	Q	3	17944	Aug 8, 2013 by Q
	Grapevine (Preview) August 8 "In examining the precision and aptness of the small, I can be more appreciative of the large."	Mike B.	1	200	Aug 8, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Well - I can't say I haven't had a drop... (Preview) For the last monthish I have been taking iodine drops for low thyroid symptoms. I started out with kelp - and at some point when I didn't notice a difference, I bought some pure anatomized drops. I started out taking one drop per day - and gradually moved up to three drops this week. At week 2 - with 2 drop...	justadrunk	13	529	Aug 7, 2013 by vixen
	GRapevine (Preview) August 7 "Many ask 'What is anonymity?' and 'What is humility?' To me, they are almost the same thing. They are devoid of prestige; they demand nothing; they don't ask to be 'right'; they simply suggest that the icy egocentric elements in all of us retire into the background and that we wear...	Mike B.	1	247	Aug 7, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Grapevine 08-06 (Preview) August 6 "Forgiveness seems to depend more on the love of the one who does the forgiving than on the lovability of the one being forgiven." West Henrietta, N.Y., September 1997 "The Fire Has Gone Out" AA Grapevine	Pythonpappy	1	202	Aug 7, 2013 by moondreamer
	Please join me in a moment of reflection (Preview) Good morning and blessings of this day!Welcome to another day of Life to all, especially those here for first time,or just coming back.Our last 15 months in our relocation to Florida from New York ,leaving our jobs(mine of 34 years)and starting new and seeking to be near my wife's family to help in the...	mikef	7	419	Aug 7, 2013 by Jerry F
	Levels of intervention. (Preview) Okay, so I know for substance abuse education (formal not personal lol) that there is primary, secondary, and tertiary intervention. Most of us are all dealing with tertiary intervention which means intervention after something has become a full blown addiction/problem. Secondary is interv...	pinkchip	17	548	Aug 7, 2013 by pinkchip
	StPeteDean found Taking it Easy (Preview) StPeteDean got caught on film lounging around at his mountain retreat ... He do enjoy nature!!! ... where's the cat ???	Pythonpappy	7	569	Aug 7, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Joke...not real...joke... (Preview) This gal gets a sad phone call at work and after a time of crying goes into her bosses office and asks, "Can I have a grief day off next Wednesday"? Her boss replies, "Of course you can...is there something we can support you with". She takes a deep breath and replies, "Ev...	Jerry F	8	400	Aug 6, 2013 by bikerbill
	Today's Gift 08-06 (Preview) An alcoholic spends his life committing suicide on the installment plan. --Laurence Peter None of us woke up one morning and found we had suddenly turned into an addict. We got to be one by practice. And we practiced often. We ignored our families - we left work early - and went drinking and drugging. Da...	Pythonpappy	0	228	Aug 6, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	THE ORIGINAL SIN (Preview) THE ORIGINAL SIN	Pythonpappy	1	229	Aug 6, 2013 by Jerry F
	What's in Your 'Tool Box' ??? (Preview) During my share at tonight's meeting, in response to an 'anger' topic, I shared that I had accumulated enough tools that I could deal with about anything today that would have sent me into orbit a long time ago ... that when we commit ourselves to this program, we learn how to deal with life, that the past...	Pythonpappy	12	3095	Aug 6, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Wisdom of the Rooms (Preview) August 5, 2013 Quote of the Week "Find someone you can tell the truth to;we don't do this alone." Over the 12 months when my life crashed around me, I shut myself off more and more from the people I knew. On those rare occasions when people who knew me asked how I was, I lied and t...	Pythonpappy	0	427	Aug 5, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Dealing with other Alcoholics (Preview) I live in a building and I've noticed my neighbour is a crazy Alcoholic. I'm really not in the position to help him/ plus I really don't like him. But hes at the stage where you can see that hes going to die if he keeps it up. I have seen him ever day this week at time during the day even the morning where he is so d...	mandm	36	745	Aug 5, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Today's Gift 08-05 (Preview) Self-Acceptance and Self-KnowledgeGod, grant me the serenityTo accept the things I cannot changeCourage to change the things I canAnd wisdom to know the difference.This well-known prayer expresses some key guidelines to our philosophy of living. One group member explained it this way:For me,...	Pythonpappy	1	189	Aug 5, 2013 by mich
	Weekly Thought (Preview) "A generous man will himself be blessed." -Proverbs 22:9Weekly Quote"You cannot out-give God." -Billy GrahamWeekly ThoughtGo ahead and try. You can't do it. It's impossible to give and not get something in return. Oh, there will be times you extend love and not have it rec...	Pythonpappy	1	200	Aug 5, 2013 by Mr_David
	True story (Preview) My son always sits outside the bathroom and watches me fix my hair and put on my mascara and lip gloss. One day last week, we were in a hurry, and I dashed to do my ritual with him on my tail. As I was working on it, he said "Mama, why do you put all that beauty stuff on, you're so beautiful without it... e...	justadrunk	4	302	Aug 5, 2013 by Mr_David
	Boyfriend (We are both recovering alcoholics) wants me to go to Wedding (Preview) We are both on day 64 of sobriety. Have been to one AA meeting a day everyday. I love the meetings! My bf wants me to go to Atlanta (big party city) with him to a cousin's wedding in Oct. This cousin, has suddenly became his "favorite" over the last two days since the invite although he hasn't see...	betterthanyesterday52	19	703	Aug 5, 2013 by Jerry F
	Sponsor Questions (Preview) I had a nice lady offer to be my sponsor. We have a meeting set up on Tuesday to meet at a coffee shop because she said she didn't know where else to meet and she was open about her sobriety. She wanted to come to my place, but the place is a wreak and since I share it with someone else, there is only a path to walk t...	betterthanyesterday52	6	1463	Aug 5, 2013 by pinkchip
	Amends (Preview) I sent another amend off into the universe today (well, I sent an e-mail, as this person lives very far away). It was a very difficult one but lately it was on my mind and I just had this very strong feeling that for some reason the time was right to do it. I may not hear back, I may hear back with some choice wor...	RubyTues	8	496	Aug 5, 2013 by justadrunk
	Today's Gift 08-04 (Preview) I just pictured in my mind what I wanted to do. You can use that same formula in accomplishing anything in life. --Ida Bellegarde The imagination is a powerful tool. With practice we can perfect our use of it and the results will astound us. Research has shown that athletes who visualize a practice ses...	Pythonpappy	0	235	Aug 4, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Wisdom of the Rooms (Preview) July 29, 2013 Quote of the Week "You can't experience victory if you refuse to surrender." Boy, that surrender thing was (and sometimes still is) a hard thing for me to accept. I mean, how could I possibly win or succeed at something if I'm told to give up and surrender? I've always...	Pythonpappy	3	217	Aug 4, 2013 by Pythonpappy
	Is It Too Soon? (Preview) I have been in great distress and pain over something that has occurred in my life. Some of you may have an idea what this is from an earlier thread. My sponsor, a woman with decades of sobriety, has been a Godsend to me with this. I will ask her this, as well, but I thought I would seek some input here. She a...	emmi331	11	588	Aug 4, 2013 by Mike D
	Today's Gift 08-03 (Preview) Courage is very important. Like a muscle, it is strengthened by use. --Ruth GordonAll of us fear the unfamiliar at times; and it's nothing to be ashamed of to occasionally feel frightened by everyday events. We can still forget that God is always with us and, thus, allow fear to take over. We're learni...	Pythonpappy	1	213	Aug 4, 2013 by stayhumble
	Encouragement (Preview) Creativity is so delicate a flower that praise tends to make it bloom, while discouragement often nips it in the bud. Alex Osborn A garden of flowers blooming is a beautiful sight to see. Through the green leaves surrounding a tulip we see hints of yellow or pink or red. Each day the flowers greet us wi...	justadrunk	5	1886	Aug 4, 2013 by AdamMoz
	Arranged marriage (Preview) We were matched together many generations before we ever met. Some of the details as to how it was decided we were to be married are still unclear. Most of our ancestors left little or no trace of their lives. Still, word trickled down from great great grandfather on his side, to great grandmother on...	justadrunk	4	268	Aug 4, 2013 by Jerry F
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