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AA and a no dependeancy on alchol.
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If i have access to drink, i normaly drink the lot, well if able to drink the lot, food becomes 2-3 if not 4th place. i also play comp games and at times i run out of acholl, then coffee will be ok, even non cafirnr coffee. ok i can't spell.
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Kieran
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Daily Reflections ~ The Best For Today & 24hrs a Day
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The principles we have set down are guides to progress. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60 Just as a sculptor will use different tools to achieve desired effects in creating a work of art, in Alcoholics Anonymous the Twelve Steps are used to bring about results in my own life. I do not overwhelm myself with li...
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Self Centered? Me?
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Size Click me to see Does This make you feel small? Click me to see Time Click me to see After watching those? maybe a little -- Edited by AGO on Wednesday 23rd of June 2010 11:13:20 PM
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I had a bad dream last night
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In my dream last night i walked away from my sobriety. Just gave it away like it was nothing.... told my Sponsor, "so what" .... It Shook me up as I was waking to think I had to start all over again with day one, but I remember thinking that I can not continue in this relapse... it will kill m...
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Sponsor issue
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Hi all, I was hoping you might be able to share some advice on changing sponsors and whether in fact that might be warranted. My sponsor is a very nice woman and has a lot of life experience, but I am her first sponsee, and I'm starting to think that maybe she just doesn't have the AA experience to help a newc...
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Today is a milestone..
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90 days sober today. 89 days ago I was downing a 5th of whiskey a day. Its really been tough, but I'm thankful for this time. The first 30 days were hell,no sleep, detox...the next 60 have been no cakewalk either. Ive really had to fight for this. I need to redouble my efforts if I want to stay sober.
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MLB
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There will be hard times in our program
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Forewarned, forearmed; being prepared is half the victory. --Miguel de Cervantes There will be hard times in our program. There will be hard times in our life. That's the way life is. It helps if we accept this. Then we can prepare for tough times. We can prepare by get...
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Larry_H
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Ripples on my pond
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Well, I've had a nice stretch of sobriety and recovery. Peace and serenity. I continue to work the program but my diesase is active. My diesase has found a new obession, baseball. I help coach my sons All Star team and this has become the biggest thing in my life. Not good I know, but my sickness has f...
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Mike B.
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new member
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Am I an alcoholic if I only drink wine (everyday), don't get drunk, but need to do this almost everyday? Acoholic - I think I am - My wife thinks I am. I don't want to stop all together, I just want to stop most of the time. For years I thought it was not having an impact on my way of being, today I know that...
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srw
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Alcoholics: Ages 18 - 30's: Post your stories here to better relate.
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I wanted to narrow this down by age category as not everyone can relate to the same decade since things change, as do characteristics of drinkers. I never 'officially' drank until about the age of 17 in high school. It was my first real party, and a friend and myself went shot for shot until I ended about 1...
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EricStephen
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From Anonymous Soldier
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I asked God for strength that I might achieve;I was made weak that I might learn humbly to obey.I asked God for health that I might do greater things;I was given infirmity that I might do better things.I asked for riches that I might be happy;I was given poverty that I might be wise.I asked for power that I...
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sarge
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H-A-L-T --> F-A-T!
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Hi guys, Let me start by saying that I just really need to vent -- but I full appreciate that gaining a few pounds is 100% worth the gift of sobriety! Anyway, I find the AA advice to beware of "HALT" very effective... and while I can't always control the A-L-T, the H is pretty easy to control. And...
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TwelveSteps
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I'm Back from the concrete wildeness of the city.
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Glasgow is a beautiful place if you can open your eyes and look. But I've been there for 4 days and nights, for work. I arrived at 1 p.m. on Monday, worked until 7, went to the hotel, checked in showered shaved ate early night. Then my days went like this, up at 5 to the sound of traffic and reversing lorries,...
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bikerbill
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Holding onto hurt
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The trouble with holding onto hurt instead of letting go is that you continue to make decisions based on what hasn't been for a long time and you live in that long ago affixing fault and blame.
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sarge
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Symptoms Longevity
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Hi all, I used to post under a different account last year but I've forgotten the login details. Been drunk for 16 years pretty much - drink every day, mostly to drunkeness. Anyway, I'd be interested to specifically know your experience of how long specific symptoms last after quitting. I'm on day 5 an...
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blacktile
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What AA meetings most DEFINITELY are NOT
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DPxGNt4xzk This is by a comedy duo in UK, Hale and Pace, it is a very old one, but just had it sent via email and thought it might get a laugh.
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Avril G
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Hey Everyone
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Hey all, I'm living in a recovery home in Chicago. I have very little freedom which is probably not a bad thing. A few weeks sober now. Just wanted to say hi to all and let you know that things are okay with me. Guess I should consider myself lucky being able to clean up with assistance. I went through a one we...
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soberdrunk
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my story
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hi my name is tracey im a recovering alcoholic. i was 18 wen i went to my first aa meeting, boy was that daunting, id only been drinking a few short months.......what was i doing here! my dad is a recovering alcoholic 30yrs behind him up to today. he spotted the isms in me right from early childhood and ofte...
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hayestracey
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sobriety date
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hi im tracey. alcoholic my sober date is july 25th 2006, entered recovery oct 03 and slipped after 3 yrs, have almost 4 yrs again Please god one day at a time. friary hall, ennis co clare.
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hayestracey
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taking a computer break
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out of town for a while w/o internet
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leeu
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Im still alive...
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In case anyone cares or was wondering... am on day 15.... Got some stories to tell but will do that when I get back into town on Sunday... It hasnt been a fun or pretty road but I am still alive and my HP is not done with me yet. I am determined to never ever take another drink, going to lots of meetings, got a ne...
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SoberSteve
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Human relationships change
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Honesty is the best policy. --David Tuvill Newcomer I've heard people talk about "firing" their sponsors, about sponsors "firing" their sponsees. I find that term disillusioning I thought we were here to help one another. Sponsor Human re...
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Larry_H
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Girl Drink Drunk
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GW22sAElpE&feature=player_embedded#!
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TwelveSteps
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The Alcoholic and Sporting Events-----First Hand Experiences!!
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I haven't been on MIP for all that long, so I don't know how often this syndrome gets addressed?! Sober here 5 years, 4 months.......well, my relationship to sporting events has changed since I opened myself up the MIP!! Use to be a great excuse to get loaded...if my team won, lost or tied, heck a rain-o...
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One comes, finally, to believe whatever one repeats to one's self
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: One comes, finally, to believe whatever one repeats to one's self, whether the statement is true or false. --Napoleon Hill Our inner dialogue can have awesome power. It often determines the behavior that defines who we are. We do, of course, have some choice as to th...
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Larry_H
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Life is hard enough without adding alcohol to it
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Hello sober friends, Glad to be sober today! Anyway, I was surfing "You tube" when I ran across the funniest video. How it reminded me of how it seems I often struggle with the smallest of things and sometimes have the hardest time for no reason. How the heck did I do anything drunk? LOL Bett...
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janet
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Still Breathing in...and out...in...
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Hey All, Been away but I'm fine, sober and good. Couple thoughts. When asked the other morning "How are you?" my head was in a space that answered "mid-transformation, and like-wise I see." With summer here, I'm going to two fewer noon-meetings a week and instead taking my 5-ye...
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Aquaman
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Feeling restless, irritable, and discontent...
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Okay, here's the deal. So I get to my meeting tonight an everyone who's already there is looking at me all funny. It seems as though they are even trying to avoid eye contact with me. I was a little puzzled, but put it off as nothing. Before the meeting starts, one of the ladies in the group pulls me asid...
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Finding Out About AA
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I notice a frequent topic here is just people asking about AA, wanting to find out what is AA, how it works, etc. I think I was the same way when I made my first phone call to the area office and asked some similar questions. The people I talked to made me laugh, and that made me want to come to a meeting. Anyw...
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That God could
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"That God could and would if He were sought." AA book pg 60. Whenever I struggle with something that I find I cannot resolve despite using the best resources available, this short bit from the AA book resolves it for me. I have got to be honest though. Firstly I ask myself, Gonee do you really a...
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gonee
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Is Alcoholism a Pychiatric illness.....??
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Hi all, I had a conversation with someone that made a statement to me that in their opinion alcoholism is a pychiatric illness..... I did not offer any opinion....changed the subject...but for some reason the question is sort of haunting me.... When we drink, and in our disease, at many stages, clear...
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Just Toni
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Stumbling.
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"Suppose we fall short of the chosen ideal and stumble? Does that mean we are going to get drunk? Some people tell us so. But this only a half-truth. It depends on us and our motives. If we are sorry for what we have done, and have the honest desire to let God take us to better things, we believe we will b...
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gonee
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Not in my wildest dreams
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Reflection for the Day Not in my wildest dreams could I have imagined the rewards that would be mine when I first contemplated turning my life and will over to the care of God, as I understand God. Now I can rejoice in the blessing of my own recovery, as well as the recover...
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Larry_H
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Don't quit five minutes before the miracle happens
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Don't quit five minutes before the miracle happens. --Anonymous When we came into the Program, most of us had very little to show for our lives. We believed in nothing. We had experienced great disappointments. The greedy creditor that was our addiction had stripp...
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Larry_H
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Goals
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When I found the gift of sobriety... I tried to acquire two, what I thought were simple goals. The first one was that I wanted to live a "boring" life. And what I mean by boring is a simple life. I didn't want the drama that I had in my past. I didn't want to be known by the police or stick out in a c...
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Dave Harm
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Glastonbury Festival!
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Hello my sweet Sobervibers! I need to tell you I'm away until Tuesday & will miss you all though I'll be having a fabulous time in Glastonbury Music Festival with Carl :) I'll be thinking of you & holding you with me in spirit xx I'll be on the look out for friends of Bill W & report back with my f...
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sponsorship
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hi everyone, 12.35midday irish time just thought id mention that as there as so many different time zones :) hope everyone is having a good day. i just wanted to share, im over 3 and a half yrs now after 7 yrs going to meetings, and no one has ever approached me about sponsorship, im not saying that in an ego...
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hayestracey
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My 14 yr.old son passed out last night
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Hello all, I went to a meeting last night, but was accused by my husband of doing drugs afterwards, or being on something. It kind of bothered me, because I am sober as a judge. After a large coffee and a few pieces of candy, I can get pretty wired,though. I walked the floor from room to room as I couldn't sl...
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janet
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Making amends is more than an apology
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From Hazelden -------------------------- Making amends is more than an apology Addiction creates moral wreckage. People who become addicted to alcohol or other drugs might lie, cheat, or steal in order to get and use their drug of choice. Often what's left behind is a trail of shattered relations...
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Larry_H
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What happens to us is not as important as how we respond.
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: What happens to us is not as important as how we respond. The external events of our lives are largely beyond our control. We do not choose our parents, our emotional environment, the historical period in which we live, our body type, or the flow of circumstances that...
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Larry_H
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Wondering what to expect from AA!
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Hi I am moving to Liverppol soon and i have decided to finally pluck up the courage to join aa. I have been sober for nearly a year now and have been thinking about joining aa for a long time now. As i a am moving away from home i think i will need support even more to keep me on the straight and narrow. Prev...
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My prayer for you.
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I want to pray for you. I don't care whether you are atheist, agnostic or whatever. I pray that you will be blessed. I pray that our Father will protect you from any harm. I pray that He will look after your families and give you serenity and peace in your homes. I pray that you will know joy in your life and no...
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gonee
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MALTA CONVENTION ANYONE??
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http://www.aa-europe.net/eventdocs/Malta5thconv.pdf
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Avril G
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Hi My Friends
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Hi All Just thought I'd and say hi, it's been a while. Been workings and well needless to say I've slept during the day. Things are as well as can be expected, kids are fine and my daughter is starting her first job this sunday, she'll be gone for 9 weeks. Gonna miss her, the realization is she is growing...
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Tina
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Had to put our 15 year old cat "Tigger" to sleep this afternoon **Updated with baby pics**
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One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Every cell in my body was trying to get me to turn the car around, on the way to the Vet. Earlier this week she stopped eating and drinking and her breathing was very labored. Took her to the vet wednesday and he found a tumor in her abdomin, and told us she wou...
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Daily Reflections ~ Today, I'm Free & 24hrs a Day
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This brought me to the good healthy realization that there were plenty of situations left in the world over which I had no personal power--that if I was so ready to admit that to be the case with alcohol, so I must make the same admission with respect to much else. I would have to be still and know that He, no...
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Lack of humility
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Found this on the internet. Thought that it might great spiritual tool for me, in terms of my Step 10s. Just for the record, I've got a ways to go yet in humility: today I'm probably still ticking all of these boxes. Some of the "evidences" might be a bit harsh, especially for those us who lack s...
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SteveP
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How We Perceive "Normal" Drinking
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I went to a birthday party this past weekend for a friend, one of those milestone "surprise" affairs. Probably 75 people in attendance from age 10 to 85, but the median age was high enough that at 52, I was one of the "young-uns" there. There was a bar and drinks were being meted ou...
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barisax
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Sometimes we feel cheated
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: If you go around thinking you are being cheated, life becomes very unpleasant. --Felix Salten Sometimes we feel cheated that we have been given this darn disease to cope with. Why us? Why can't we just be like normal people? Why did we have to get into so much trouble an...
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Larry_H
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No human power could
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" That probably no human power could have relieved our alcoholism." AA Book Pg 60. Despite our best efforts, recovered AA's, doctors, helpers etc. we are not able to relieve alcoholism. This is one of the most difficult illness known to man. That's because of the unique emotional nature o...
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gonee
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