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Today's Dalai Lama Facebook Quote
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"It is not just a person's physical constitution, their intelligence, their education, or even their social conditioning that enables them to withstand hardship. Much more significant is their inner development. And while some may be able to survive through sheer willpower, the ones who s...
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What would you do if you were stranded on a island with nothing but a bottle of Vodka?
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This idea came from another thread that converted to this question and I figured I would make it its own thread, its a interesting topic... Would you break your sobriety? Would you pour it out? Ration? What would you do? Id dump it out and use the bottle to store water :)
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Kindness
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Good Morning, When I was putting in my favorite attibutes, thought about a Post of a Poem that Phil put on the Board, long time ago, I saved it, and thought you all might enjoy.... ............................................................... Poet Naomi Shihab Nye in her poem "...
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Daily Reflections ~ Helping Others & 24hrs a Day
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"Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Self-centeredness was my problem. All my life people had been doing things for me and I not only expected it, but I was ungrateful and resentful t...
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What are your favorite attributes in others?
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Hi Everyone, With the friends you have, and the people you just might meet today or any day.... What makes you smile, and admire a quality or qualities in their being who they are. Also what attributes would immediately turn you off and not want to go any further after you have met someone....? Maybe sho...
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It is tuff to do what is right.
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Hi Family Thanks for the prayers and advice. Letting my HP take care of the outcome on my DUI was grueling but a fine practice in how I should handle most all of my state of affairs. I do go to Jail on the 10th of next month and only have to serve 60 days. I do got to tell you all something. I let it out but will nev...
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This is a simple program for complicated people
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: This is a simple program for complicated people. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer I heard a speaker with years in recovery share that she'd always done it her own way - that she met friends at bars if she felt like it, had never had a sponsor, and sometimes went for mo...
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looking for english meetings in cusco, peru. anyone know of something?
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I was thinking of moving down to Cusco, peru, but i dont know of any meetings down there. are there english or spanish AA meetings down there? any info would be greatly appreciated.
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Success may be defined in many ways
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: The best thing that can come with success is the knowledge that it is nothing to long for. --Liv Ullmann Success may be defined in many ways. In our youth, we may have measured success in terms of having a million dollars, two cars, a swimming pool. But we are coming to be...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Good And The Bad & 24hrs a Day
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"My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76 The joy of life is in the giving. Being freed of my shortcomings, that I may more freely be of service, allows humility to grow in me. My shortcomings can be humbly placed in God's loving car...
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A couple of random thoughts on spiritual progress
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My physics teacher once told us that we don't walk by exerting a forward force. Instead, we exert a backward force upon the Earth - we try to push the world backwards. Since the Earth is so much more massive than we are, it doesn't work and instead our bodies move forward. In the same way, if we're climb...
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Update on job interview and current "state of being"
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The interview with the local surgeon for the surgical assistant position went very well... I thank AA for teaching me over the years that I have been involved in recovery, that I am valuable and that it is okay to show CONFIDENCE in the abilities and experience God has given me through times of sobriety...
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Brilliant.... just brilliant
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up at about 2am here...... not on purpose, but I sure didn't make good decisions that got me here! ate over a quart of fresh strawberries earlier... sliced them up and poured about a half cup of sugar all over... put in the fridge.. immediately removed and ate The Whole Thing.... (ouch... gurgle gurgl...
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I learned this here
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Brian filled me in on Rule 62 (i appreciated that so much) that i couldn't help and correlate that to the discord that happens between ALL people, and maybe especially alcoholics. "Don't take yourself so [damn] seriously." If i don't take what others say to me so PERSONALLY, maybe i c...
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prayers?
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Hello everyone, Not sure if this is appropriate but I wonder if I could ask for your prayers for an alcoholic who is appealing against his death sentence. His name is John and he was in somebody's company when they died. He was blind drunk. His appeal is being heard at the moment (started yesterday). I o...
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AA History.com
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AAhistory.com is a cool site that I found earlier this year while looking for something else. I wound up registering my sobriety date there and just got a (early) cool birthday greeting. Very nice. Check out their site and sign up your sobriety date. [url]http://www.aahistory.com/add/sign....
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A Joyful Mind ( really???)
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I've been reading Richard Rohr off and on for the last year or so. I can take one of his subjects and spend days contemplating on what he shares. These are three of the several things he wrote concerning 'what a joyful is'. When your mind does not need to be right. When you no longer need to compare yourself...
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My Gratitude
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I am grateful for every little bit that helps sustain my recovery. I am grateful for this forum and friends like you who take time off to write something to inspire me. I am grateful to my group for the help they give me when I am down and out. Sometimes I take you for granted. Then I go some place and I realise...
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"The Solution is Already Being Worked Out"
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We were talking about this at the Women's meeting tonight.... that often times by the time I realize there IS a problem, God is already working out a solution.. and I often need DO very little, except TRUST and be open to guidance. This is definitely a program of Action. but that doesn't mean I need to ACT...
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A Penny for My Thoughts
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AA is an organization that I found...whose primary purpose is to help members stay sober...I discovered that in the early stages...I simply did what other members did to be successful in staying sober...primarily this involved going to many meetings...one or two a day...My entire life revolve...
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Another sleepless night
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Hi everyone,
I became an alcoholic because of insomnia. What steers as one glass of wine before bed 12 or so years ago eventually became 2 bottles. So now that I am not drinking, I struggle with how to sleep. I'm going through a breakup right now (only my second serious relationship after being with...
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"You can't understand"
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New here, joined due to girlfriend being on another board I was on. I hear it said and have been told that I can't understand. I read and hear it about spouses , friends , pretty much anyone that is not in the fellowship. Problem is, I have been sober and working at my sobriety for close to 5 years and just do...
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Thanks for Prayers- Scouty is Home and Healing
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Thank you so much for the love and prayers, from the bottom of our hearts. Scouty is feeling fine, on pain medicine, and the 3 skin cancers were removed successfully. She sends her love, and now mommy can commence a few days of staying in with her, reading and thanking God that I am sober and can care for he...
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Had an interesting revelation this morning after waking up from a dream
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In the dream I had about 3 weeks to live, some rare disease or something. So then I mentioned it to my wife over the phone and said I thought if I had 3 weeks to live I'd probably drink. After I got off the phone I thought about it some more and realized that I probably would NOT drink in those circumstances. ...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Priceless Gift & 24hrs a Day
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By this time in all probability we have gained some measure of release from our more devastating handicaps. We enjoy moments in which there is something like real peace of mind. To those of us who have hitherto known only excitement, depression, or anxiety--in other words, to all of us--this newfoun...
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"Live and Let Live"
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Reflection for the Day The slogan "Live and Let Live" can be extremely helpful when we are having trouble tolerating other people's behavior. We know for certain that nobody's behavior - no matter how offensive, distasteful or vicious - is worth the pri...
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A special "THANK YOU"
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From me to many of you, (those who wrote and those who simply read, and most important those who prayed) To each and every person who responded to my post about the young man who died last week and was buried this weekend, my heart embraced every word you shared with me. Intellecutally, I already knew wh...
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Hey Recreational Readers...I need a hand...
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I prefer reading to TV most days. Keeps the vocab locked & loaded. Problem, though... When I find an author that I like, I read them dry and my favorite genre is horror/suspense/crime. Authors include.... Thomas Harris Stephen King Chuck Pahluhneik All the "Dexter" books. I have rea...
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DIFFERENT DAY - SAME **** + Happy Happy 20th Sober Birthday Avril!!!
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Hi guys, Just drop0ped ion to thank you all for your messages during my 'sabbatical' from this site!! Life has a strange way of knocking yo9u off kilter and keeping you there sometimes eh?? I will try to get yopu up to speed on what's been happening in my world recently, but too long a task right now - I hav...
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Hi Everyone
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Just had to say Hi. Miss coming here and writing, just reading every so often. I almost dont want to say this, feels like a broken record, well in my head anyway...some serious health issues, and the big one, my heart, but the good news is many options will be coming up, so no surgery.....thank you God. M...
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Movie night
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Our Monday night group showed a movie tonight. We had about 60 people, AA, Alanon and kids. The movie we showed was "Love is not enough." It was such a nice movie. After the show we had snacks and fellowship. We have great fellowship because we have great recovery. All the members really care...
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"Oh, God, help me! If you get me out of this mess, I'll never screw up again."
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Trying to pray is praying. --Anonymous "Oh, God, help me! If you get me out of this mess, I'll never screw up again." This was our favorite prayer before we entered the Program. We were always bargaining with God. We have learned new prayers and a new way to t...
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The New Pup
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There are certain things that can bring people together, and even smooth over difficult moments with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse... Meet Scooter, 10 week old Norwegian Elkhound pup.
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My "enlightened" thought
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My meeting tonight was a step meeting (my personal favorite). Tonight was Step 1, which is such an important reminder for me. Anyway, my big thought went something like this... After my most recent therapy appointment, I started wondering what I'm going to do with all the crap I'm starting to talk abo...
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Happy 66th Bellybutton Birthday, Larry!
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You Oldbird! What a beautiful age to be, Larry. Thank you for being here. You've made yourself most welcome :) Have a wonderful & bright sober birthday for Tuesday 24hrs. Yours, wishing you recovery love & happiness on your very special day, Danielle x
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Books for Teenage Children of Alcoholics?
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I did a google search and saw some out there, but none that seemed suitable for my daughter. She tried Ala-Teen and didn't like it. She didn't even think I was an alcoholic, so she initially resisted all of this and I think right now she still doesn't really know what to think (I'm 17 months sober). I re...
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I read this in an old AA Magazine
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I read a share in an old AA magazine. I thought that maybe there was no-one else in the same position I'm in who would be willing to share it, until I read this share. Part of it mirrored exactly my experience. the sharer finished by saying to the effect that once amends have been made as best as possible, th...
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My Dog goes in for surgery tomorrow
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Please keep her in your prayers... she is my LOVE, my little baby, my daughter, my confindant, my very best friend in this world. She gets skin cancers, and has several which need to be removed tomorrow. God, please bless my pup with a safe trip to and from the vet, and keep your hand on her.
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WOW... BIG INTERVIEW
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.... with a surgeon, for a new assistant, this Wed. morning at 7:30am.... I have been working part time only for the practice I worked at for 2 years... and the doctors split up and parted ways, so I began being the one who went back and forth, and scheduled all over the place, which was fine at the time.......
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Non-sticky: No One will be offended
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Hey, I'm an alcoholic so I don't like what I perceive as being talked to from on high, and then not given any chance to respond. I don't much like the idea of posting some kind of guideline for a message board and then having the topic immediately closed so nobody has the chance to put in their two cents exc...
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Advice on being a sponsor for the first time
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I have talked with my sponsor, and am going to follow what he did with me in a general way, but I'd like to get some thoughts from the group here. Any mistakes you made or things to watch out for?
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Ok, someone help me boil this down please...
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I know that there are about a zillion character defects at work here. But there's only so much I can do about that right now.So I'll keep it simple:Just give me advice on what course of action you think would be most likely to help keep me sober.'Cause right now I'm on the verge of saying the "**** it&...
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Night Light
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If you have knowledge, let others light their candles at it.~ Margaret Fuller We are seen as powerful examples every time we speak at a meeting, offer encouragement, and give supposrt to those in need. The knowlege we've gathered from the strength and hope of the program is a gift to share with others....
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Reactive...but not nuclear any more.
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Aloha Fellowship...It's time to input and be responsible. I had mentioned that I was backing out for a while in reaction to how another share was shared. I took responsibility for how I thought others would think about it and feel about it instantly coming to the conclusion that my own thoughts and f...
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Daily Reflections ~ Shortcomings Removed & 24hrs a Day
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But now the words "Of myself I am nothing, the Father doeth the works" began to carry bright promise and meaning. 12 & 12, p. 75 When I put the Seventh Step into action I must remember that there are no blanks to fill in. It doesn't say, "Humbly asked Him to (fill in the blank) remove ou...
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Gratitude is a way of life.
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Gratitude is a way of life. Saying thank you from the heart makes us feel full. Perhaps we don't really know we have something until we express our thanks for it. There are different levels of gratitude. There is the polite, automatic response when someone opens a doo...
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Hello
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Hello It has been awile ,,just found my old log in info I started a new name last year but like i do i forgot it ( Bluesman ) Join this board about 6 years ago it was very helpful to me because i was very ill today my health is great ,,,i very busy with AA alot of service work ,,and i love it I hope everybody is O...
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What I got
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I "got" a lot today. Today I drove to Delray to pick up and take a sponsee to a fundraising event. My first sponsor was there and I sat back and looked at what has become my family of choice down here and felt very satisfied at giving that gift to someone else. So, I "got" that gift...
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Changing our attitudes
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Changing our attitudes Our prayer is, "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." We say this prayer at least once a day because, although we must accept th...
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Strange evening... difficult
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Went to my homegroup.... I always get sad afterward lately, because I would like to go out for coffee or do something interesting, but all my female friends are married and have kids and busy with that these days...... Found myself driving to I don't know where.... food on the brain... SubWay? Mr. Her...
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