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Compulsive Obsessive Behavior
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The tropical rains are ceaseless...and when it stops the sun blistering... It's played havoc with my electronics...There is no such place as shangra-la...except in fiction. I have not exactly been on my game of late...so before you can fix a problem...it needs to be identified...therein lies the...
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FOCUSING ON OUR BLESSINGS!
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"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.! No matter how it is worded,our gratitude and thankfulness for another day of God's grace and blessings should always outweigh what we think we don't have. I am truly grateful for another sobe...
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Posting/s
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Hi John, Thanks for your post on trying to get more people to post. Unfortuntatly, some of us sometimes have busy schedules that do not allow to post as often as we would like too. I for one, here soon will be starting back up with college classes and may not have the time to post here as much during the day-...
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How I started drinking
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Hi everyone this is my first ever post.I am 20 years old & 63 days sober and this is just something I have been working on for my sponsor, to do with unmanageability & practicing writing down what is on my mind. "I miss Jon. He was my best friend and he died on the first of October 2008. My drink...
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Good Weekend!
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Another sober weekend was had. My wife worked her night shifts and The Kidz & I did very little. By doing very little, they were able to "free-form" their last weekend of Summer Vacation and River (4 mos. TODAY!) & I had nothing interfering between us. Good times. At 4 months old...
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How do we know God's will
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I was talking to my daughter this evening around the dinner table. She bought me a cake to celebrate my 22nd AA anniversary. I have always been there for my children, drunk or sober. She is now in a relationship and her boyfriend is extremely jealous of her. No communication with other boys. As we talked...
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meetings in Brazil
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hello everyone hope all is well, I am off to rio de janiero in september just wondering if anyone can give me any meetings english would be good but I will go to any meeting!
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~ As Bill Sees It: Day of Homecoming ~
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p. 229 "As sobriety means long life and happiness for the individual, so does unity mean exactly the same thing to our Society as a whole. Unified we live; disunited we shall perish." <<< >>> "We must think deeply of all those sick ones still to come to A.A. As t...
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Interview With God (Video Presentation)
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MIP has had a video presentation of Interview With God for several years on its home page. I don't know if anyone is actually watching it, but thought I would share it here with you. Maybe should consider placing it on the home page where it is easily noticed. John http://www.12stepforums.net/inte...
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Thanks for your email John.
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It was good to receive an email to remind us to share. Please do that on a regular basis because alcoholics have short memories. It was also good to hear some new people share.
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Yet
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I heard this at an AA meeting. 1. Have you still got your family? Yes. 2. Have you been to jail? No. 3. Have you still got a job? Yes. 4. Have you still got a house car etc.? Yes. The speaker said, if these things have not happen to you yet,well continue drinking and all of these things will definitely happen....
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Off to Paris
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Leaving in two days for Paris and the French Riviera with my better half for a two week vacation. Never been to Europe before, so I'm very very excited to finally see things I've only read about or seen pictures of. I've been working 7 days a week, 12 to 15 hours a day since mid-May, so I'm in much need of a...
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Justin Update!!!
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Hey Family, I finally have some freedom. Been looking for work at the local Community Center. On my way today I had a guy offer to sell me some drugs. Talk about temptation! I did say no but that didn't stop him from following me like a good businessman. Haha. So I am at the computer lab safe and sound and fee...
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Indescribably Wonderful (Congrats on 14 years of Sobriety Carlasober)
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By the Grace of God, I celebrate 14 years of sobriety. I thank God for the 12 steps and the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. Keep Coming Back! -- Edited by StPeteDean on Monday 16th of August 2010 06:45:31 AM
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An Interview with God
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I dreamed I had an interview with God. So you would like to interview me? God asked If you have the time I said. God smiled My time is eternity What questions do you have in mind for me? What surprises you most about humankind?... God answered... That they get bored with childhood. They rush to grow up and t...
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understanding, encouragment, and support 24/7
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Okay your Hurt, Angry, Lonely, Tired. HALTwarning signs that you may be in trouble, pick up the phone call on a friend of BillYou are sure to find understanding, encouragment and support 24/7
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One Day at a Time?...
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I don't know where to start. I haven't called the hotline yet. I haven't gone to a meeting yet. I have admitted to myself and to my family that I am an alcoholic, which I have known for a long time but only now have really come to terms with. I have severe (and mostly well hidden - like the alcoholism) depress...
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Fierce Independence
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Is is me or is a person that comes into AA claiming they are so independent and shy really just a grandiose person that thinks they are really too unique and special to admit they have the same problems as everyone else in the rooms. This was brought up in a another post, but it would seem to be a serious pro...
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making decisions is hard
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I have a hard time making decisions. Its gotten worse over the years and thats been in sobriety thats its gotten worse. I think perfectionism and worry and fear all come into it. And lack of acceptance of reality. Sometimes i dont like my choices or i am terrified of the choices. or i am so scared of making...
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Hello from London England
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Hello my names Charlotteelsie and I am an alcoholic. I just received an email asking for more participation on this forum , so I thought I'd say hi. I am disabled and a single parent and even in London England getting to meetings has become harder lately. A mixture of illness, and lack of childcare. Howe...
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Tomorrow ,some closure!
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Well after 8 months(since November)we are finally going to close in the a.m. on our home sale.We are blessed and it has been strenuous to say the least. Almost 26 years ago situations like this were light years from my thoughts and dreams.Only through God's grace and mercy did we arrive at such a turnin...
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~ As Bill Sees It: The Beginning of True Kinship ~
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p. 228 When we reached A.A., and for the first time in our lives stood among people who seemed to understand, the sense of belonging was tremendously exciting. We thought the isolation problem had been solved. But we soon discovered that, while we weren't alone any more in a social sense, we still suf...
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Newbie Help
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I have been an alcoholic since before I had my first beer at 14. I am 42 now and have just realized I am an alcoholic after years of denial. I have gone through periods of heavy drinking and drug use sometimes quitting one or the other but not both at once. I have given up the drugs about seven months ago an...
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Daily Reflections ~ "I Had Dropped Out" & 24hrs a Day
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We might next ask ourselves what we mean when we say that we have "harmed" other people. What kinds of "harm" do people do one another, anyway? To define the word "harm" in a practical way, we might call it the result of instincts in collision, which cause physical, me...
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Today's Glory
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I was playing with my daughter the other day in my in-laws back yard. They dont live with me any more and my wife has filed for divorce. It was my visitation. We were running around and playing wi'th different things. All of a sudden she says to me "you arent mad any more daddy?" I was overwhelme...
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You can do it!
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I'd like to encourage people that are trying to stop drinking. You can do it! With God, all things are possible. You're an overcomer and more than a conqueror. Of course it's not easy. I followed the twelve steps and that liberated me from drinking. I back-slid a couple times, but then I went back t...
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Daily Reflections ~ Getting Well & 24hrs a Day
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Very deep, sometimes quite forgotten, damaging emotional conflicts persist below the level of consciousness. 12 & 12, pp. 79-80 Only through positive action can I remove the remains of guilt and shame brought on by alcohol. Throughout my misadventures when I drank, my friends would say, &quo...
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Is this often the case among friends?
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Hi, my closest friend finally realized she needed to get sober, so she started going to AA, which I am thrilled about. However, she also slowly began not contacting me. We used to talk a few times a week, but now she's simply not shown up the last time we made plans, and hasn't returned my email, text, or ph...
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Sponsorship help please
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I have 10 years sober and I am looking for a sponsor. I was in therapy for years and years and went thru the steps with her. She is a cert. alcohol/drug therapist. I have/had a phobia of groups of people. I have stopped going to the therapist; I feel I have out grown her (it) and started going to meetings...
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Our Higher Power does not lay claim to our free will
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: I am responsible for myself, my recovery, my well-being, my happiness. All these things are, ultimately, my own responsibility. --Anonymous Our Higher Power does not lay claim to our free will. We can choose not to be responsible and make ourselves more miserable...
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Please, help me help my good friend
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My friend that is very dear to me and my wife is an alcoholic. He has been getting much worse lately, seemingly by the day. I know that he is battling severe depression, and has had serious thoughts of suicide. I have known about the alcohol problem for a long time, but he is a very private person, and...
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Something else to share
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Give To Me The Strength I have my higher power and I beg of you release me. Release me from the pain I feel and put me in a water jar. Give to me strength to see the rooting of a giant oak. Spinning wheel of mountain bike my spirit caught between a spoke. Carry my soul the buzzing bee so monsters of my heart will f...
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Something I wrote shortly before coming into AA
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I am a drunk. Not the kind who falls down in public or throws up in the toilet in a bar, or, stumbles along the grimy big city streets. I drink at home, alone I drink fine wine, occasionally toped off by coffee with baileys Sometimes I buy a bottle of cheap wine from my Mom. My Mom bottles wine herself at...
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Worried about relative but its not booze related.
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This is not about booze so i dont know if it belongs here. I am in AA myself. I am worried about a relative, he is my only living relative besides my mother who was/is an abuser and i have no contact with. He has supported me through thick and thin and if it wasnt for him i would be dead basically. I never had a fa...
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Step 1
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The 1st step of AA is an ongoing realisation of my powerlessness over alcohol. Nowhere in the AA bb does it say that I will regain any power. This confirms to me that I will remain powerless for the rest of my life. The condition is irreversible. That also means that for the rest of my life I will be totally a...
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When the teacher is ready the student will appear
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Twas the day before the closing prayer at the Crested Butte mountain conference The last early meeting out on the deck commenced hot on the heels of Friday mornings final meditation. The subject was "when the student is ready the teacher will appear" I was running late and slipped in about...
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Those who do not recover.
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"Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program...." bb pg58 If I had continued drinking beyond the point of recovery, then there would have been nothing to help me. I have seen many of my friends die like this. That is why I do not t...
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I still dont have a sponsor
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and its my fault. I have just become swamped here with work and when I return I am tired. I do work for myself but I have to take it where I can get it. Still sober despite myself. Them Lone Stars are sure calling me though. Irrelevent news, I lost a hen this morning or last night, I believe do to heat. I hope I do...
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taking a break
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I'm still dipping in and out but taking a break from posting. No worries, just busy.
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looking for a back up sponsor asap
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my sponsor is not taking calls at moment noone will help me in my face to face I almost have 10 yrs sober this DEC 26 thanks.I can not always rely on calling the treatment cntrs for help or counselling on phone they said. basiclly means take advantage of it. Sorry had to fix a spelling misstake LOL -- Edited...
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Newbie and need support
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Hello all. I've been drinking since 18 and I'm now 47. Beer is my drink of choice, never had a taste for the hard stuff. Beer after work has always helped me wind down and calm my nerves. Sometimes 3 or 4, sometimes 6 or 8 or maybe 10 or 12 on a weekend evening. I don't drink and drive or frequent bars. If I drink...
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How many ways can you brush your teeth?
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: How many ways can you brush your teeth? Our habits save time, and some of the good ones, such as sobriety, can also save our lives. A fine line separates useful habits from ruts; however, the former, we wish to cultivate, and the latter, we'd just as soon avoid. How abou...
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Spiritual writing keeping me focused!
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'God's ability to clean things up is infinitely greater than our ability to mess things up!! There is no place you might be now, or where you might have been in the past, or where you might go in the future, that will ever be beyond the reach of God's grace-NOWHERE...Because of our Higher Power's great...
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Lonely, lonely, lonely.
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Been separated 2 years. Daughter is moving to my sister's house because she's failing in school. So here I am. *sigh*
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~ As Bill Sees It: The Answer in the Mirror ~
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p. 225 While drinking, we were certain that our intelligence, backed by will power, could rightly control our inner lives and guarantee us success in the world around us. This brave philosophy, wherein each man played God, sounded good in the speaking, but it still had to meed the acid test: How wel...
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I'm Dan and I'm an alcholic
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Just found this board the other night. Looks like a fine place to spend some time. My work schedule has been anything but cooperative for the last several months. It has made it hard to attend my regular meetings so I am here. Right now I am working overnights and there isn't much to do but lots of time...
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Is A.A. for You?
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-From Alcoholics Anonymous World Services approved pamphlet entitled same. 1. Have you ever tried to stop drinking for a week or so but only lasted for a couple of days? Most of us in AA made all kids of promises to ourselves and to our families. We could nto keep them. Then we came to AA. AA said, "J...
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Would I rather be peaceful or right?
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: In every conflict, ask, "Would I rather be peaceful or right?" The choice to be peaceful rather than right doesn't actually mean our opinions are unimportant. In fact, our particular opinions may make more sense in the larger scheme of things. Letting g...
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Lost to alcoholism, then gone forever, the story of my sister.
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My sister Catherine and i were extremly close, we grew up together and in our younger years were seldom apart. She was good fun to be around , and also a very honest, gentle person, always smiling. When we were very little we used to hold on to each others vest at night as we shared the same bed, i gue...
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~ As Bill Sees It: Is Sobriety Enough? ~
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p. 227 The alcoholic is like a tornado roaring his way through the lives of others. Hearts are broken. Sweet relationships are dead. Affections have been uprooted. Selfish and inconsiderate habits have kept the home in turmoil. We feel a man is unthinking when he says that sobriety is enough. H...
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