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Humor
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Arthritis A drunk that smelled like a brewery got on a bus one day. He sat down next to a priest. The drunk’s shirt was stained, his face was full of bright red lipstick and he had a half-empty bottle of wine sticking out of his pocket. He opened his newspaper and started reading. A couple minutes later, he...
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Connie's double mastectomy
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So, Connie has her Double Mastectomy tomorrow. Quick visit to the doctor today, a nice romantic dinner by the water, and time to head home. Just as the sun was setting, the stretch of road we were on had the sun right in our eyes. It was brutal seeing but I got just the right angle where I could drive safel...
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He is Father. BB Step3
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Despite circumstances and situations in my own life, I came to believe in AA of a loving God. For a long time I could not see God as my Father and therefore I missed out on many gifts that He was willing to give me. The transformation process began in the steps of recovery: Step 2: power greater than myself....
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Respondents are needed for survey
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Hello everyone. I previous posted a link to a study that I am conducting. I am having a hard time with getting people to participate. Again I have no way of know who you are or where you are from. Right now I only have 11 who have decided to participate and I need at least 50. I plan to pursue a doctorate de...
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been back out for 2 years :(
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I am about at that familar ground..of hitting bottom. I can feel it coming and am so scared of having to start over again. Sept. 3, 2003 was my date, I would have had 7 years being sober coming up in a few days. I've been back out since July - 2 years now. I wake up in the mornings with such dread. I put on my wo...
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I could use some help and guidance. I am a recovering alcoholic
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I am a recovering alcohilic. I used to drink all of the time for any reason. It continued to get worse and worse and my husband drank with me. I got to a point where I needed a drink when I woke upAugust 6 of 2009 I looked in the mirror and I was not me anymore. I went out crying to my husband and told him I needed to...
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We will escape disaster together
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Another part of the answer to how people can live without turmoil and be happy lies in being bound to other members of the group with new ties. They will escape disaster together. New group feeling helps provide them all with a way to identify with ea...
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Interesting poem
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One of my friend posted a link to this on facebook. It reads like a revised version of the promises to me....It seems to describe the starting point for change, but also the journey. Take from it whatever you want. I liked it. The Awakening (Author unknown) A time comes in your life when you finally ge...
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new to this
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hi there can someone help me as to how this all works?thank you
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New Here
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Hi Ya'll I'm Buster Parkie, a faithful member of the Preston Group in Dallas, Texas. I've got 3 years of sobriety. I'm thankful to God for that. I love AA, keep the faith!
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Daily Reflections ~ Daily Inventory & 24hrs a Day
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. . . . and when we were wrong promptly admitted it. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 59 I was beginning to approach my new life of sobriety with unaccustomed enthusiasm. New friends were cropping up and some of my battered friendships had begun to be repaired. Life was exciting, and I even began to enjoy my wor...
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Sticks and stones
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...may break my bones etc. Last night and the night before a few of us had a brief chat about nicknames. I'm a bugger for giving folks nicknames, but usually to differentiate between two or more people with the same first name. So I know three Marks, three daves, two pauls, but only one Tim and one Gary. Th...
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Spiritual awakening.
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The things that I loved the most was the things that my God hated the most. So for many years I lived outside the grace of God. I drank what I wanted to drink and I did what I wanted to do. I never hated God but I just could not find His power working in my life. I longed to have what my sponsor had and many men of God...
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I've never felt this way before...
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My family brought me to court and forced me into a rehab, I was there for 23 days. I'm now in my 2nd month being sober. Most days I'm ok, some even great. But I don't know. There are times that I feel angry and sad at the same time and I don't know why. I know in my mind what I need to do; AA meetings, therapy, get a s...
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God is faithful.
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As I progressed into my self made hell during my drinking, a feeling of utter hopelessness had engulfed me. The feeling that I was going to die of alcoholism because I did not know what to do about it. My pride would not allow me to ask for help. I did not even know what was wrong with me. Alcoholics like me on...
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Program
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I have been in the 12 step program just under 3 years. It has been the best journey I have ever been on. Seeing a family member who just started Sat. come into the program made me realize how the steps have changed me. She is saying that she knows the program...... was on it for lots of things..... her rep...
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Grace is sufficient.
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I was recently diagnosed with diabetes. My doctor put me on a course of insulin and tablets. It would not help. So I sat in prayer and asked God to help me to manage this disease just like He helped me with my alcoholism. It worked wonderfully and I am almost a normal person now. I find that although we are af...
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Fun In Recovery
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AA Big Book, pg 132, 16 lines from the top, 16 lines from the bottom, 2 words to the right and 2 words to the left, ... right in the middle of the page... "We absolutely insist on enjoying life" Rose and I have to take time out for ourselves from time to time and just let God blow the dust of life off of us.. this i...
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Some interesting AA stuff
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Go to: http://cviaaorg.ipower.com/AAGallery/
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Hi Shannon!!
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http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1266017449294241550#
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John
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Steve's 90/90 thread.....
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I was doing so good, had a good job, girl, my own place, lost it all to drinking. Now Im staying at my parents house with no job, no car, no gf. So I was talking to this girl online and ended up going to her place, well she had alcohol, I drank and drank and she ended up taking me back home at 3 am and I dont know wh...
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When we think we are losing our grip, we have good reason to look up
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Look, the wind vane fluttering in the autumn breeze. Takes hold of certain things that cannot be held. --Feng Chih When we think we are losing our grip, we have good reason to look up. Consider the moon suspended in the sky, how it continues to come and go, follows its na...
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Daily Reflections ~ Yesterday's Baggage & 24hrs a Day
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For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self-searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 & 12, p. 88 I have more than enough to handle today, without d...
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Today I will surrender to that which I cannot control
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Today I will surrender to that which I cannot control. Surrender does not mean giving up when I need to be persistent; it means letting go of that which I can't change. Surrender doesn't mean I stop trying; it means I try, and then I surrender to the outcome. If I need to f...
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Breath Analyzer in car for someone that does not have a problem???
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Hi All, Very curious, well not losing any sleep over this one, I have a friend that eats out almost all the time, single guy, and he tells me he has a glass of wine with each meal......and then he says I am very careful, I always use my breath analyzer before I drive. My only question to him, was so how does it...
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Craving
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So I've not drank since Saturday - its been rough. Physically I'm starting to feel better by now (thursday morning) and then all of a sudden BLAM! I'm sitting at work at 10am and I want to start drinking, right out the blue. I'm already envisioning myself leaving work early and buying beer and cigarette...
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HI MY NAME IS MARK AND IM NEW"TO THIS BOARD"I NEEDED SOME ANWSERS?
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IVE BEEN DRINKING SO LONG, THAT I REALLY DONT KNOW HOW TO FEEL CRY OR LOVE FOR MY FAMILEY OR MY CHILDREN ITS ALMOST LIKE I HAVE TO PLAY WRITE MY EMOTIONS I DO LAUGH AND CRY BUT I DONT FEEL THE LOVE I SHOULD FOR MY KIDS OR MY PARENTS THIS DOES NOT SEEM NORMAL TO ME.BUT I HAVE NOT STOP DRINKING LONG ENOUGY TO SAY SO C...
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When we awaken to the living and growing world, our spirits lift and open up to hope and new possibilities
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: THE EVOLVING RELATIONSHIP .... open up to hope and new possibilities... Some mornings we may awaken filled with thoughts of what is wrong in our lives. Perhaps we obsess about our failures or the limits of our relationships. If we let ourselves sink into self-loath...
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Sponsor --> Steps --> Sponsees
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I often wonder if AA should have only ONE message to newcomers: Sponsor --> Steps --> Sponsees It's the only thing that really works, isn't it? Sure, there may be an occasional exception to the rule, but I don't know anyone who has done all 3 parts, and done the third part consistently, who has g...
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Been awhile
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Hi everyone I hope this day finds u all well. I came in today to do alittle reading as i do once and awhile. I just wanted to say hi and that i am doing good, some years ago I came here to get some help and the people here were grand, I was at that time a very lonely and desperate soul,lost without hope. This was my...
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A New Phase of Development
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So, I'm amazed...and I'm not even halfway through! My family, however, is not amazed. They are still affected and I don't know what to do. I now know that stress is neither a pre-requisite nor a neccesary bi-product of daily productive living...they still need to generate it in order to engage the w...
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Has anyone heard from our JoniJoni??
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Well she sure has a full plate these days, and from time to time she does take a break for MIP.... Just wanted to say YoHoo, you are missed by all!!!! Baloney friend Toncakes
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There is no such thing as "best" in the world of individuals
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: There is no such thing as "best" in the world of individuals. --Hosea Bellou We live in a society driven by the concept of competition. "We are Number One" is drummed in our ears daily via advertising and sporting events. The message is that we m...
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HELLO
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I'm new to the site..Just wanted to introduce myself...I'm Sheba I
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Year 2
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Ok...so it isn't humble to toot my own horn...BUT...Toot toot toot. Year 1 was all about gaining a foundation and learning to just acquire basic skills to live sober. Year 2 has been about making serious life changes. I did not like that I was a smoker...so I quit. I didn't like being overweight......
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I know I've been away a few weeks..but where is Aquaman.
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.....where are you Aquaman?
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Three Choices--From As Bill Sees It
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Take from As Bill Sees It pg. 327 Three Choices The immediate object of our quest is sobriety-- freedom from alcohol and from all its baleful consequences. Without this freedom, we have nothing at all. Paradoxically, though, we can achieve no liberation from the alcohol obession until we become wil...
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Fuzzy
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Seems to be a good day to watch a fuzzy caterpillar, and see if something amazing happens. Child Like is Good. Toad
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hi
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Just droppin this morning Just want to give abit of an update. Things are going ok for the most part, finally had enough Monday nite before a meeting. Told my son that if he didn't want up his socks, that he might as well consider it his 2 months notice to get out. Had enough of his drinking, he's a good kid...
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changing status-500
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I didn't think it was any deal, just a number-500. Here it has snuck up and I am happy. May I have many more posts in me. I've gotten so much from being a member here at MIP, and always hope that I'm able to give back something I've gotten. This was a total lifeline in early recovery. Accidental (HP?!) di...
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Wine is a mocker...........
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.........and beer is a brawler, but as my mate says, watch out for the tea and coffee for Tea is a teaser and coffee a mocha. Well I thought it funny. I should've been on jury duty this week and next but apparantly there are too many '12 good men and true' and not enough bad guys to need us all, so I was excused f...
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24 hrs down!
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I realized yesterday that drinking was just something I couldn't stop on my own.I told my daughter in law that I needed help &she said call AA for a meeting &I'll go with you.So we went &God I feel sooo much better for taking that first step!I have the love of my family to help me through.I h...
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A Different card just turned over.....
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Hi my Dear Friends, Yes, for some of us there is a solution, but only by the Grace of God do I sit here writing this out, and we get sober, and begin to really be alive, but it takes me to the thought of how many Alcoholics never see the light of day, Think Dean writes about it being about 5% of the active alcoho...
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Needed a little advice....
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Hi all! I havent had much experience in my life with alcohol issues....I recently started seeing a great guy for the last 3 months. He is sweet and everything I want! He told me shortly after we started dating that he is an alcoholic. He had been sober for six months but had recently gotten back into d...
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Our disease is bad but............
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Hey All, I am on some breast cancer forums with my wife due to her recient diagnosis. While on those forums, I will read posts from women who just have weeks to live. These are tragic tales of years of battle and yet there is defiance and determination. The difference between our disease and their dise...
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Help
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I have been in this confused, hungover, regretful, self-hating place so many times and I'm sick of it but afraid it will never change for good because of all the doubts I have. I know I would be happier if I never drank. I've quit before (pregnancies and one year post a DUI) but I'm stuck in the same mind gam...
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Doing service...
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Aloha family...I spent part of the day at a "Day of Recovery" presented by a local substance abuse program I once counseled for. All of the fellowships + were there and since we are on and island most know each other and who we don't we meet, greet and exchange info in the hope of being coopera...
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Jerry F
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Self Knowledge
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Aloha Family... Did the lead this morning at a daily local meeting and ended with a topic for further discussion by the membership of "Self Knowledge" being important to good recovery. My early sponsors helped me to know and understand the one person I had lived my entire life with up until...
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Jerry F
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Missing my AA meetings after having a baby
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I'm so glad that I found this site again! I first registered for this site over a year ago now back when I was under a month sober. I have over 15 months sober now. My soberity date is June 26th, 2009. I got pregnant when I was 5 months sober and have remained sober ever since. I just had my son 2 weeks ago by...
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How to handle having extra money
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Well, it's been a month since I asked for help with my budgeting. Each week I have money left over and I just can't figure out why I couldn't/didn't before. I know I am not going to the store as often, it's just once a week now. The kids are adjusting to me telling them that they don't need this or that. Bu...
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