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Sunrise Quote
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"No one would have crossed the ocean if he could have gotten off the ship in the storm" - Paul Boese
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Step 1-2-3
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Step one seems easy for me now. Powerless and unmanageable are obvious in my life alcohol has kicked my butt. Step two seemed an easy quick duh step, but the longer I'm sober the more my insanity hits me. Daily I'm realizing how insaine I've been. Even perceptions from the day before are clearing up and m...
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Sunrise Quote ... Happy New Year ... It's good to be Sober!
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"Dance like no one is watching. Sing like no one is listening. Love like you've never been hurt and live like its heaven on earth." - William Purkey
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Self Esteem and AA
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I read something which I want to share, but before I do I wanted to share this first..... One of the meetings I attend is one which breaks up into three different meetings depending on the steps being discussed. I have been attending a Beginner's Meeting (Steps 1, 2 and 3)since I first became sober. At fi...
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How Can I Forgive??
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Hi everyone! I can't remember if I've ever posted on this topic before...so, this might be a re-run. I'm posting this because I'm seeing that there are quite a few new folks who are approaching Step Four right now, and nearly all of us have a lot of trouble with getting to a place where we can forgive tho...
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H.A.L.T. (Hungry Angry Lonely Tired) Important Acronym For Alcoholics Especially the Newcomers to AA
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I learned early in AA to be aware of these four things which could lead me to drink. Being aware of these things that are going on can save your life and H.A.L.T. your desire to drink. Are you..... HUNGRY ANGRY LONELY TIRED The two times during my sobriety when I was...
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I don't like meetings
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They make me very anxious and uncomfortable : not just because I don't want to talk with strangers, although that is A big thing : I am a housewife, have been for at least 4.5 years, and about 5 before that. No, it isn't just that. I can't stand the business: everyone pushed me to get a sponsor,after one...
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Funny - (In my mind, ... I see Tasha and her husband when I read this)
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On a bitterly cold winter morning a husband and wife were listening to the radio during breakfast. They heard the announcer say, "We are going to have 8 to 10 inches of snow today. You must park your car on the even-numbered side of the street, so the Snow plows can get through". So the...
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How was your Christmas?
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Hi everyone, I took a trip to Georgia for Christmas to spend it with my sister and her husband. Watched a few movies on the road, from my tablet on the dashboard. LOL They really put together a really nice dinner for me and my lady friend. Then gave us a really nice surprise... a high end hotel room with a...
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Today's Gift
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Living todayThe beginning of the New Year will often bring back sad memories. This has been the big day for hangovers, coming down, remorse, guilt, and shame. But if we stay with our new purpose - staying clean and staying close to our Higher Power - we don't have to fear the New Year. God has forgiven our...
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Just wanting to die.
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I'm stuck in my disease again and all I want to do is die. The truth is I've been stuck here the whole time, only getting glimpses of what recovery and living actually look and feel like. I've been trying to get sober since May and have yet to make it past the sixty day mark. I got out of inpatient two weeks ago...
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Sunrise Quote
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Sorry folks, (especially to those who looked forward to them) ... my Sunrise Quotes suddenly stopped the day after Christmas I think ... ??? ... I signed up again for the daily, but noth'n ... ... I did come across this short 3 min. movie clip that is beautiful AND inspirational for those of you who lik...
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Exhaustion detox and coffee
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One month on the first. Feeling better but I'm wondering if others were exhausted when first sober? I ran around like a teenager when I was getting loaded now it seems like my body is getting revenge. Coffee helps the mind but my body is still down. Does anyone know how long it takes to repair the body? I sh...
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Timeout for a 'Funny' ... one of the best commercials ever!
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Be sure your 'sound' is up ... and don't miss the end ... (42 sec.)
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happy new years
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Havent checked on for a while glad to see mip is still alive and well. Found this on mr sponsor pants this morning and wanted to share it. DECEMBER 31, 2013 New Year's Eve, 2013 New Year's Eve was never my holiday.It is the evening of unmet expectations -- all fuse, no boom. Amateur night in the ba...
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Today's Gift
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Celebrate: To observe an occasion with appropriate ceremonies of respect, festivity, and rejoicing. --The American Heritage Dictionary New Year's Eve marks the end of one year and the beginning of another. In the old days of our using, we used this day as an excuse to drink, use drugs, and act wild an...
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Crazy Final Basketball Score Southern Univeristy 116 Champion Baptist College 12
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Nothing to do with alcoholism, but I thought maybe some of you basketball fans might be interested in this...I did have to check to see if this was played in Colorado -- Edited by betterthanyesterday52 on Tuesday 31st of December 2013 09:35:01 AM
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Relationships Quote
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"Having healthy relationships with people means loving them for what they are now, not for what you hope they will be like tomorrow." Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D. One of the biggest faults I have is expecting too much from other people. Not just romantic relationships, but friendships a...
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"What Other People Think About Me Is None of My Business"
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I love this quote. I never heard it until I started in AA. Now, if I can only remember it when I need to.... Being a people pleaser a lot of my life, it really bothers me when I am not liked by everybody and their dog, cat, mouse in the house, potted plant. I notice that if I am going through a down funk (well, mos...
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Reading
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You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) Thought for the Day To the extent that I fail in my responsibilities, A.A. fails. To the extent that I succeed, A.A. succeeds. Every failure of mine will set back A.A. work to that extent. Every success of mine will put A.A. ahead...
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More evidence that I am not unique and never was - not terminally anyway lol
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It Ain't All About Me
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This is one of the first things I remember hearing when I got into AA that "it is not all about me." (Well, after "One day at a time", and "Don't drink", of course). I have realized that this has been one of my biggest problems getting over myself. I catch myself severa...
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Thanks to the Grace of God, and the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous, it's been 36 years since my last drink. Thank you all!
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Anyone else struggling over Christmas and New Year?
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Hi all, I am new here and really struggling with the new year and christmas. There is drink everywhere plus family struggles to deal with. I am really trying hard not to drink and staying at home with my parents at the moment which is very claustraphobic and my Mum is constantly angry with me about my drin...
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Face to Face or Online?
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Which do you feel is best for you? i like face to face I think. Forum discussions feel like a coffee shop chat. Kinda like the meeting after the meeting. There is a bit more of the Take what you like and leave the rest here. Not just on shares but your actual program of sobriety. I think that works for som...
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Spontaneous Conversation With My Son...
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Hi to all, I just wanted to share what's on my mind right now. My 21 year old son is home from college for the holidays, and he sat down across the table from me the other night and started talking. He started telling me how thankful he is for how I raised him, and all the knowledge and understanding I've pa...
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My son back in jail... and "Porter Potty Paul" in detox
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Hi everyone,Just throwing this out there, into the four winds tonight. I got a call this afternoon from my son, from jail. As some of you already know, this time last year (the same week before Christmas), I bailed him out of jail and he jumped the bond and ran three days later. I had to go through the pr...
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Frustrated this morning...............
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Some of you who have been following my posts have known that I have moved on a temporary basis to Michigan to live with my family. I have connected with a local group, found a sponsor that has just been a God send, and for me life is good........and sober!!! What I am struggling with is that my wife and child...
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Is the big book really outdated?
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http://www.aastudy.org/_articles/Is_the_BB_really_antiquated.pdf very short aarticle a pretty good site!
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Have You Ever Thought Of This?
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One day a long time ago, this thought came to me out of the blue. Have you ever thought about this? If you wanted to get in to see the President of the United States and tell him your troubles, express your feelings, or just talk with him, it's not very likely that you'd ever get to see him personally. And,...
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Quote
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"Mountains viewed from a distance seem unscalable, but they can be climbed, and the way to begin is to take the first upward step. From that moment the mountains are less high. The slopes seem to level off as we near them." Anonymous
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Anything is better than drinking at this point!
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I had too much coffee. I guess the body is healing a bit, coffee is keeping me up, I am no longer exhausted. I found a hobby I like I can do at night. Jewelry making seems like I'm good at it. My car is down so I'm walking to a meeting tomorrow and Monday I'll get it towed into the mechanics before walking to a noo...
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This is the day
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This is the day I came crashing down and called myself an alcoholic for the first time ever. I came to you folks here at MIP and I was totally clueless. You guided me through that 3 month slippery start and loved me through to sobriety and recovery. This day is more special to me than my sobriety date, an...
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Found in My Mailbag!
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At last, here is something non-controversial, non-partisan,just something to lift up your spirits. Ever have one of those days, When something seems a bit "off" But you just can't put your finger on it... Or it seems like all the people around youare grouchy and just w...
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Today's Gift
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Over the years, my brothers and sisters have brought out the best and the worst in me.--Sam FriendIt sometimes seems that our parents love our brothers and sisters more than they love us. Being jealous of a brother or sister is often a confusing kind of jealousy. One minute we hate them and the next we lo...
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Driving Tip
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This has nothing to do with alcoholism and I hope it is okay to post it. Just read a news article about a woman who was killed in a car wreak on New Year's Eve. Her father is a fight fighter and pulled her out not knowing it was his daughter at the time he was trying to save her. In all my driving years I have never...
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I need to just switch off and chill down
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I know I haven't been a regular on here of late.
Indulge me. I find I can write stuff on here and as I write stuff gets reorganised and right sized. It hrlps me prepare for talking to others both within and outwith the fellowship.
I have had far too much going on the past couple months.
House renovations...
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Merry Christmas - Happy Holidays
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Excitement! Anticipation!!
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two grand kids are old enough to be excited about Christmas morning! And are they ever! Oh the excitement!! They will read with mommy, my daughter, in a bed sheet tent draped over a few kitchen chairs and off to bed. What does this have to do with AA? Everything! I got sober to live. This is living! C...
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Merry Christmas Everyone! Would Love to Hear How My MIP Family is Celebrating Today
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Just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! I am going to do some more baking for the meeting today as well as neighbors. Always told myself I was going to bake some goodies for neighbors in the past, but with the drinking, never followed through on it. Yesterday, after I got my bee...
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Grapevine
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December 27 "Service made me feel useful. Twelfth Step work taught me to accept my past."
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Thank you
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I hit bottom last month. Almost one month sober. First Christmas in a while I'm not Waisted. It's tough but I will get through. I had to hide and cry for a while but that's ok too. Im 25 lbs heavier than last year the one thing I had was being skinny in a heavy family it made me feel good about myself. They know I...
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Holiday Blues Blahs and Humbugs
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I have been somewhat of a Scrooge this year and am in a bit of a funk. First time that I can remember that I didn't send my daughter and mom their holiday "money" gifts yet. It's not that I didn't have it, although it wouldn't be as much as I usually send, I had something, but just didn't. Thin...
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Today's Gift
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Fear No More I will not fear those who have hurt me, For You have given me power. I shall sleep without nightmares; You have given me peace. I shall awaken with a clear and rested mind; You have given me clarity. I shall start my day happy, joyous, and free; You have given me my recovery; You have given me a ne...
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Grapevine
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December 26 "I heard my future told around the tables at my home group."
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Sunrise Quote
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Look at everything as though you are seeing it for the first time, with eyes of a child, fresh with wonder. Joseph Cornell
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Excited about the new year.......
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To make a long story short, I have relocated to Michigan to focus soley on my recovery for a while. After two meetings at new club house, I have already found a new sponsor, made some good contacts, and for once am enjoying my sobriety! Things are looking up!!!!!
Wife does not know yet, but I feel we need...
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Today's Gift
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The feeling of belonging is a gift.The feeling of belonging - knowing that we have a place - is one of the most important gifts that two partners can give to each other. When we agree to commit ourselves to a partnership, we give each other the key to our daily lives. We allow our mate to be there with us in a w...
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Sunrise Quote 12/20
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Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has courage to lose sight of the shore. André Gide
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From Hawaii
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Mele Kalikimaka e Hauoli Makahiki Ho...translation? Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Pass it on.
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