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Sunrise Quote
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We are here to change the world with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily rather than with one great breakthrough.Rabbi Harold Kushner
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If you went to rehab...
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What was helpful if anything? Sometimes I think it's just a safer place to get time from the last drink and to step out of the wreckage.
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Just in Case You Been Wondering About This!!!
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I know you have been laying awake at night wondering why baby diapers have brand names such as "Luvs", "Huggies," and "Pampers', while undergarments for old people are called "Depends". Well here is the low down on the whole thing.When babies crap in the...
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reading troubles
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Has anyone experienced this? I am 13 years sober. Almost immediately from the time I got sober I started to lose my ability to read books in a relaxed carefree manner. This does not affect me if I am reading at a meeting or just reading an e-mail at work, etc. But when I sit down to read for enjoyment, I seem t...
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Vent session
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Its been a while since I've had one of these....an MIP vent. I just had a horrible night at work. I work in a restaurant that was not running smoothly this evening. I was in a horrid mood due to the perfect storm of minor annoyances-The owners a jerk, my customers not so pleasant, I made very little money, t...
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Today's Gift
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I came to understand that it was all right to do things for people as long as I did it for the sake of doing it... the value being more in the act than in the result. --Joanna Field We've all heard the sentiment that it is better to give than to receive. Yet we may find it difficult to give to others, whether tha...
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Sunrise Quote
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There are two kinds of worries those you can do something about and those you cant. Dont spend any time on the latter.Duke Ellington
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I'm not a ticking timebomb...
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I've been considerably more relaxed lately. Less temperamental and moody. Less likely to fly off the handle and overreact to things. For the first while I noticed the people around me were sort of waiting for me to explode. They we're observing me closely looking for signs of the old me to come bubblin...
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Typical Alky
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Environment Canada has issued a travel warning due to snow and bad road conditions. They suggest that anyone traveling in the current icy conditions should ensure they have the following: ShovelBlankets or sleeping bagExtra clothing including hats and gloves24 hours worth of foodDe-Icer...
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"Our liquor was but a symptom. So we had to get down to causes and conditions."
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AA book pg 63. Boy was I unhappy with that. But it was absolutely necessary. My sponsor guided me very sensibly through the steps [4-9]. It's only in retrospect that I see the value of these steps. I used to do a lot of talking about the steps with people who used to talk a lot about the steps, but my sponsor g...
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Grapevine
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January 17 "When things go well, we must never fall into the error of believing that no great ill can befall us. Nor should we accuse ourselves of 'negative thinking' when we insist on facing the destructive forces in and around us, both realistically and effectively. Vigilance will always b...
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Today's Gift
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Sobriety is a big gift box with a hundred little packages inside to unwrap. --Oscar MorrisSobriety is its own reward and then some. Sobriety is a condition of openness and receptivity to the treasure of life. It is the ability to view the world through gentler glasses and hear our fellows with kinder e...
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Sunrise Quote
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Friends are as companions on a journey, who ought to aid each other to persevere in the road to a happier life.Pythagoras
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Otis the Alcoholic
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One of my favorite shows growing up (and I admit even today) is The Andy Griffith Show. I never really thought too much about Otis's alcoholism until I became sober this last time. For being intoxicated in public, Otis had a bed in the jail cell, Aunt Bea's cooking, and he was allowed to come in to the Cour...
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Today's Gift - Boy, did I need this one 'Today' ...
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Our problem is that we expect to feel secure.Many of us have had past crises and problems, yet our worries and anxieties continue in the present. We believe that our situation causes our fears and we say, "If only things were different, I could relax." Yet even when everything is going well...
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Grapevine
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January 16 "Sponsorship is a bridge to trusting the human race, the very race we once resigned from. In learning to trust, we are strengthening our sobriety."
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Today's Gift
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Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours. --Our Daily BreadHow do we feel when someone we know makes a mistake? What happens when the boss makes an error and we have to work overtime to straighten it out? How do we feel when a cashier overcharges us, the post office loses our...
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Sunrise Quote
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To speak gratitude is courteous and pleasant, to enact gratitude is generous and noble, but to live gratitude is to touch heaven.Johannes A. Gaertner
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hi
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i cant seem to stop drinking. i have been at this for almost 15 years. i stop for a while and then im worse when i start back up. im guessing some of you know about this so im asking for help. where do i start?
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The honeymoon is over, feeling discouraged with AA
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Wow, what a difference a week makes. Just last week I was still amazed at the welcoming nature of AA and totally at awe with the fellowship in my local groups. I have been at it 3 weeks and felt comfortable enough to open up about my atheism. I was totally honest and spoke up about my fears of "faking...
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"No one can force me to feel ANYTHING I don't allow them to, even to myself" Thanks Pappy!
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"No-one can force me to feel ANYTHING I don't allow them to, even to myself" Pappy just posted this on another posting and I wanted to do a separate posting with it, because it has such an important meaning to me, as I used "what other people did or said to me" and subsequent feeling...
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Another 'Tasha' Moment
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Wife texts husband on a cold winters morning: "Windows frozen, won't open." Husband texts back: "Gently pour some lukewarm water over it." Wife texts back 5 minutes later: "Computer really f'd up now. Sorry Sweetheart ... (:P) -- Edited by Pythonpappy on Tuesday 14t...
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Childhood Experiences, Drinking and Growing Up
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I was just responding to a post and this memory popped into my head... I used to feel guilty for drinking milk when I was growing up. Although I didn't grow up in poverty--my dad had a good job--I felt "poor". My mom would buy a quart of milk instead of a larger one because she walked to the store m...
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Emotions and Spiritual Development
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I have always dealt with my emotions for face value--taking them for what they appear or seem to be without trying to understand other possibilities. I feel low today--it's because everything is crap in my life; I don't make enough money--it's because I lack in skills and am not worth making more mone...
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new to the forum
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Hi Im brian and new to the room, my sobriety date is Oct. 16th 2004 and i live in New Jersey, Ive checked out a few of the post posted here recently and thought Id like to join in on the discussions. so hello to you all and glad to be here. Thanks
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A funny Pappy will enjoy! LOL
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Today's Gift
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Step Two: Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.-- Step Two of Al-AnonWe come to believe in a better life through the powerful gift of other people - hearing them, seeing them, and watching the gift of recovery at work in their lives. There is a Power greater than...
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Sunrise Quote
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Strong lives are motivated by dynamic purposes; lesser ones exist on wishes and inclinations. The most glowing successes are but reflections of an inner fire.Kenneth Hildebrand
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Hit 'n Run 'Funny' ...
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I got my 'Rogaine & Viagra' pills mixed up back at home ... ... ... I had hair growing real thick, but Lord, it was way too stiff to comb ... ... ... I hate when that happens, LOL ...
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Grapevine
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January 15 "We are called to unity, not uniformity."
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Our troubles!
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"Remember that we deal with alcohol--cunning, baffling, powerful!"Pg 58 AA book "Selfishness--self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles." pg 62 AA book. I always thought that the root of my troubles was alcohol. If that was the case then when I stop...
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Ran into...
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... someone who I hadn't seen in a long while. A lovely young girl who ended up in one of the many meetings around here that are mostly men, or all men - tho not mens meetings... and couldn't stick with that for whatever reason. We got to talk about other options today... and some other things too: She wa...
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Grapevine
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January 14 "The other day, I sent an AA friend on a job interview. He went to the wrong address and he lost the man's name. In another office, he stated his purpose, was offered a job, and came back with one better than the job I sent him to look for."
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Just checking in...
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Anyone who has had the experience of knowing me over the past few years is familiar with my struggle with alcohol and my inability to make any sort of lasting change. Some of you have witnessed my roller coaster of highs and lows and, with good reason, written me off as one of the unfortunate souls who w...
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So excited couldn't sleep. Woke up at 3:30am.
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I start a new semester in school today. One I will not drop out of because I won't drink or smoke myself into crazy town. My lawyer for something I did last year detoxing is only going to cost 4k (only ya my savings is gone but with out smoking weed/drinking/cigarettes I am saving more that I thought I could...
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Grapevine
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January 13 "In relinquishing some goals because of lessened physical energy, I have been freed to achieve other and more satisfying ones that a deeper and more extensive Me has always known it wanted."
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I dont feel like an alcoholic
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Hey guys, I am coming up to my 9th month sober. So much has changed for the better - not just the absence of the booze. It seems from what I read online and even people I've met at AA that even 20+years down the track they still call themselves alcoholic. Don't we get to leave that behind? I don't feel like an a...
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Judging Others Quote
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"When I am able to resist the temptation to judge others, I can see them as teachers of forgiveness in my life, reminding me that I can only have peace of mind when I forgive rather than judge." Gerald Jampolsky -- Edited by betterthanyesterday52 on Saturday 11th of January 2014 08:48:03 A...
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MY 40 TH AA ANNIVERSARY OF CONTINUOUS SOBRIETY
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40 Years of continuous sobriety this weekend...Had my last drink several hours before my first meeting of Alcoholics Anonomous...Jan 12th, 1974. What I did with my sobriety can be best seen in part on my Face Book Page...Tomas Sailor. "As Kevin Costner once said to me...Don't tell us abou...
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Where is Roger?
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Help? Feel I need to come clean, if not totally come OUT. Falling apart a bit over here in California! Women feedback?
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hi, i have been in the program, going to many meetings weekly and have been sober nearly 16 months. i'm also a a buddhist who meditates daily, takes retreats and workshops working on the ego ( that small i!) and also i go to SMART meetings for basic cognitive behavioral training and further tools to proc...
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Today's Gift
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The gift of love means this: I want to share with you whatever I have that is good. --John Powell, S.J. How loving are we, really? Do we keep score when we do favors for a friend, keeping in mind that we're owed one? Do we hoard rather than share a favorite treat, hoping to prolong our own feast? And the good m...
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What my Hp wants
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Last night I was sitting and doing a jigsaw puzzle when a program came over the radio. It was on how to know ifwe're on the right pathway with our life and making the right decisions. One of the points they made was to make sure that we don't want something more than what our Higher Power does for us. That set...
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Enjoying life....
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Being retired and self employed has many benefits for me. Where I work in contract has me meet many travelers who vacation on my island home. I tend the grounds of a hotel and the center point is a inner garden that is beautiful...with bridges and pools and plants and trees and ...me. Today some vis...
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1 yr sobriety question
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Hello Everyone I am a grateful member of alanon, and have a question about the 1 yr sobriety date of a close friend. He and I have known each other for many many years, but came to know each other in recovery this past year as he began working an AA program and I in Alanon. His 1 yr sobriety date is coming up...
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working with a sponsee who doesn't know if she is alcoholic
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Good morning. I'm in a pickle. I have a sponsee who has gotten into a good bit of trouble. (The last, a domestic violence charge from beating on her boyfriend when drunk.) Her problems come with a toxic combination of alcohol and bad relationships. She thinks her problems come more from the men than the...
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Question on seizures
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I've been working out of my apartment and drinking about 3 bottles of wine over the course of each day (for 5 years).. I need to get clean for a new job, am I at risk for seizures or will it just suck?
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Resulted, Irritable and Discontent
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I have spent the whole day irritable and pissed off and I don't even know why. And I don't even know what it's about. Feels pretty jacked up though. Just wanted to get that off my chest.
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"Always Do Sober......" Quote
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"Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut." Ernest Hemingway I made a lot of promises when I was drunk. Problem is, I cannot remember them all now that I am sober. So I carry alot of guilt around with me for that. Now I still do it for example, telli...
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Friendship Quote
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A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow. William Shakespeare
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