Alcoholics Anonymous

Doll · Doll

Well, MIP family, still no word from John. I emailed him this morning and asked "what's going" on, he read it, but has yet to answer, he may have emailed me at home, I'll find out in a few hours. In the meantime I've been trying to figure this all out. Some of you may be aware of this other " ISM ",...

Doll · Doll

Today is a new day. I will not sit on my pity pot over John today. I will not allow him to rent space in my head today. I pray I will learn from this experience and I will grow from it. My recovery comes first, without that, nothing else matters. Nothing happens by mistake. And *God don...

Doll · Doll

Just checking on ya! How you holding up today? Keep posting. You're in my thoughts Doll

Doll · Doll

And the bad part is, he hasn't even bothered to tell me yet. Still no phone call, no email. I am OK, other than a bit frustated as to WHY all of a sudden....... another woman is my guess........... ya'll pray for my obsessing over WHY to end soon. It's better today than ye...

Mikel · Mikel

Hi. I'm Mikel, and I'm an alcoholic. Boy, am I ever. Two days ago, when I found myself purchasing a fifth of Wellers at ten in the morning, it suddenly gripped me by the gonads: This has to stop. So I went home, went to the Internet, found a detox hospital, and checked mys...

GammyRose · GammyRose

Good to see you back friend. It's been kind of quiet here without you and Phil. How was your trip? Going to Colorado are you? I'm getting a bit envious.... (((Hugs))) GammyRose

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

A normal alcoholic I mean...because it's day five and I feel weird. I feel like I can't concentrate, I feel tense and my muscles kind of ache, and I'm really hypersensitive and cranky. I've quit for spurts here and there before but I don't remember feeling this way. Is this what happens when you sto...

wagon · wagon

Big Book On Line Now available The Big Book Online Fourth Edition - Table of Contents ... V. The Religious View on AA · html · VI. How to Get in Touch With AA · html ... www.aa.org/bigbookonline/en_tableofcnt.cfm - 8k - Cached - Similar pagesget bored ,want to do some reading, i use this w...

Doll · Doll

Yesterday's Baggage For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 Steps and 12 Traditions p.88 I have mor...

cheri · cheri

Hi Tip, I can't really define surrender, but I can share my story with you. I think for each of us, it is a personal thing- this surrender and being powerless- but I can sure tell you what happened with me. If it helps you or anyone else, it's worth telling. I had my first drink when I was 14...

GammyRose · GammyRose

I just wanted to say I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Have you got the car running yet? (((Hugs))) GammyRose

Doll · Doll

A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during a >particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the same hotel where >they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic >schedules, it was >difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. > >So...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is October 4, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! LIFE "I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today." -- William Allen White Today I have confidence in my life and I am experiencing consistency in my behavior and attitude. In recovery, things follow a nat...

Doll · Doll

........we know that the pains of drinking had to come before sobriety, and emotional turmoil before serenity. 12&12 p. 94 (my favorite!) I love spending time in my garden feeding and pruning my beautiful flowers. One day, as I was busily snipping away, a neighbor stopped by. She comment...

Doll · Doll

I posted this about a month ago, guys. Hope no one minds the "repost". I need it today, maybe someone else does also. Much love, Doll We're often told that alcoholics and other addictive persons are perfectionists, impatient about any shortcomings - especially our own. We tend t...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

I'm sorry, I don't mean to be so negative but sobriety better get more attractive pretty damn fast our I'm going to crawl inside a bottle and not come out until spring :( I feel restless, grumpy and fat.

Fammon · Fammon

I just ducked in to see what's happenin'. How is everybody doing? _____________ FamMon Serenity Now!

wantneeda · wantneeda

well..i had a horrible sleep the other night..after 7 or so drinks, had to work yesterday, was very tired yup, actions and consequences...was it worth it????....NO all i know is today i will not drink!!!!!!' i admit i am powerless over alcohol and I have become unmanageable hugs, Wendy

Doll · Doll

ACTION AND CONSEQUENCE The actions you take have consequences, and some of those consequences can be painful. Yet life would be hopelessly more painful if there were no consequences. If actions had no consequences, there would be no reliable way to achieve anything. There would be no way for you to d...

Doll · Doll

SERENITY AFTER THE STORM Someone who knew what he was talking about once remarked that pain was the touchstone of all spiritual progress. How heartily we AA's can agree with him...... 12&12 pp 93-94 When on the roller coaster of emotional turmoil, I remember that growth is often painful. My...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

Two whole days have gone by and I feel pretty good. Sundays are somewhat difficult for me because it's my custom to meet up with my drinking associates and swill beer in whatever neighborhood pub we haven't recently been thrown out of. It's usually a very relaxing day and normally I don't get too wasted...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

I am somewhat confused by something and I'm hoping one of you can help me. I hear the word "surrender" being used often and while dictionary.com defines it as... "dr) v. sur·ren·dered, sur·ren·der·ing, sur·ren·ders v. tr. 1. To relinquish possession or control of to another becau...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

Instead I stayed home and watched 'Bowling For Columbine' with my dog. I guess I'll still wake up with a bitch but least I wont wake up hungover :) My resolve is so darn strong on day one! I usually crack around day six. Any tips for day six?

CAM · CAM

Sunday morning has always been a great day of the week for me. I reminds me of rebirth. Change can happen! Another good point, I have finished all of my taped TV shows from the week. I have 2 VCR's & multiple tapes...confusion is very easy as I tape a lot of s...

Phil · Phil

Taking 10 days guys and going South to spend time with a buddy. Kickin back--smokin good cigars-relaxing-enjoying-and hitting a few meetings, and meeting some new freinds. And Doll? Im sure wele make a point of hookin up. You smoke cigars?? lol The only concern I have is getting these Canadia...

Doll · Doll

This letter appeared in the "Grapevine" January 1958. Bill suffered from acute chronic depressions for the first 14 years of his sobriety. "I think that many oldsters who have put our AA "booze cure" to severe but successful tests still find they often lack emotional sobriety. Perhaps they will be t...

Doll · Doll

Hi all. I hope everyone has had a great, sober day..... I worked my butt off. I'm probably the only person I know who hates Saturdays ! I just try to be grateful to have a job, some days it's hard. Today was a tough one for me........ I saw John Tuesday night and chick...

Phil · Phil

You are appreciated, and loved, by each and every one of us, on this board. You keep comming back, and you keep trying Gal. Thats what matters.... and you are a big part of the support system we share here. You do, what you gotta do for you, and noone judges you, or critisizes yo...

Doll · Doll

Well done on 44 days. I just wanted to say I hope you don't wait for the "urge" to "find" a meeting. I hope you all ready have a plan of action, should that time arise........ Doll

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

For some of us there is no hope or light at the end of the tunnel. We will drink forever and slowly watch our lives deteriorate until we die. I realize now that this is my fate, I accept it, I will stop trying to fight what is in my nature. I know that I will flush everything good in my life down the toilet one dou...

Phil · Phil

The deepest darkest fear In all the world dwells in our Mind. It never eats it never sleeps But it waits with infinite patience Upon when to strike its prey You Like a leech, it feeds off the Deepest and most hateful emotions, Churning and seething until one dark moon less night, You stare out in...

wagon · wagon

hey everyone!!! everything good here with me,just been keeping real busy.still trying to hit a few meeting a week. my oldest son is off to college that was a test for me, of some lomesome for him,but i put it in god hands and as time passes it get easier, or maybe god is takin care of things. just want to say h...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

Yesterday I posted about accepting the fact that I'm a drunk and will be a drunk forever and that there wasn't anything or anybody who could help me . I had a few hundred dollars in my wallet and was just about to leave to meet up with my drinking buddies and get wasted when I posted it. And I did go out and get d...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is October 1, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! LAUGHTER "We are all here for a spell, get all the good laughs you can." -- Will Rogers When I first heard recovering alcoholics laughing, I thought I was in the wrong place. I was angry that they treated the disease so lightly. Then s...

lanchas · lanchas

I am 18 years old. I am an only child. My mom drank when I was a little kid, but I didn't know. Then she got help(voluntarily on her own) and quit(possibly I'm unsure if this is true). When I was about 8 years old she got in a relationship with a drinker and started drinking again(or she may have never s...

wantneeda · wantneeda

just thinking about my friends who aren't popping in so often.... Cheri??? how are you doing?? OP??? miss ya, hope you are well Rick?? are you safe and smilin'??? Ellen??? are you out there?? i saw nancy-jo below, hugs to ya how are you feeling Phil and gammy??? and hugs to ever...

Phil · Phil

Saw you in here this morning,Buddy, but you didnt stick around--thought you were heading out for a couple weeks, somewhere--but I guess you havent left yet. Everything ok?? Havent heard from you in a couple days. Im on the taxi phone till 2am, tonight. Give me a buzz, if you like. Rem...

Phil · Phil

Trust is:Letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. Sharing your inner feelings and thoughts with others with the belief that they will not spread them indiscriminately. Placing confidence in oth...

choempi · choempi

I am John and I am a couple of months sober and due to my location and lack of transportation I am looking for sober people to exchange email with and share experienc strength and hope. I really need a sponser and feel very isolated and need to grow in sobriety.

Doll · Doll

Hey NJ, Did I miss a post? Are you out of town again? Haven't seen you here for quite a few days now..... Miss ya! Hope all is well......... Much love Doll

Doll · Doll

The Train Of Life Some folks ride the train of life Looking out the rear, Watching miles of life roll by, And marking every year. They sit in sad remembrance, Of wasted days gone by, And curse their life for what it was, And hang their heads and cry. But, I don't concern myself with that, I took a different v...

Phil · Phil

Our inner dragons of fear can keep us from having meaningful relationships. These fears can make us run from love and intimacy and hide from the very things we say we most want. Fear and relationships do not belong together. The people who have great amounts of fear waste a lot of energy. They repeat t...

wagon · wagon

Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May G...

suzyq · suzyq

Hi everyone, I'm a 42 y/y mom of b/g twins (6 1/2). When I was in my early 20's, I was clean/sober for about 4 years. Then I had a glass of wine.... Drank pretty socially until 2001 then I guess my disease finally caught up with me again. Now, I easily drink a bottle of wine a ni...

Cabbageheadchris · Cabbageheadchris

Hi all, I'm going to be gone from here for about 4 days. It's my Stag party and we Will be rock climbing in North Wales for a few days. The plan is that I won't drink. Update in 4 days Best wishes to you all Chris.

Doll · Doll

In our first weeks or months in The Program, our shaky emotional condition sometimes affects our feelings toward old friends and family. For many of us, these relationships heal quickly in the initial stages of our recovery. For others, a time of "touchiness" seems to persist; now that we're no long...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is September 29, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! BLACKOUTS "It is human nature to think wisely and act foolishly." -- Anatole France I experienced blackouts in my drinking. Often I would wake up and not know where I had been, what I had said or what I had done. I would awake to pee...

Phil · Phil

Dealing with resentment and being able to forgive others is a quality which takes a great deal of grace and maturity. The important thing to remember is that bitterness is a poison which harms you far more than the person who has upset you. So working toward forgiveness is a positive act not only for t...

sanddie · sanddie

I just wanted to comment on my perception of what I've seen of Alcoholics...... Although, each struggles with deep seeded emotional matters that many times are not known, what I have seen and felt in Alcoholics I've known is that their hearts truly are sincere. Additionally, my perception has b...

Phil · Phil

Walls. Emotional walls, physical walls. Walls of anger, walls of rage, walls of fat; walls that are all designed to protect. Protect what? Have you ever got to the point where you wonder this, protect what? It can get very lonely and isolated and depressing within the confines of th...

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	ANOTHER "ism" (Preview) Well, MIP family, still no word from John. I emailed him this morning and asked "what's going" on, he read it, but has yet to answer, he may have emailed me at home, I'll find out in a few hours. In the meantime I've been trying to figure this all out. Some of you may be aware of this other " ISM ",...	Doll	3	1759	Oct 5, 2005 by Trixie
	Ladies, Thank you (Preview) Today is a new day. I will not sit on my pity pot over John today. I will not allow him to rent space in my head today. I pray I will learn from this experience and I will grow from it. My recovery comes first, without that, nothing else matters. *Nothing happens by mistake. And God don...**	Doll	1	781	Oct 5, 2005 by wantneeda
	Mikel........ (Preview) Just checking on ya! How you holding up today? Keep posting. You're in my thoughts Doll	Doll	1	656	Oct 5, 2005 by Mikel
	Yep! I've been dumped (Preview) And the bad part is, he hasn't even bothered to tell me yet. Still no phone call, no email. I am OK, other than a bit frustated as to WHY all of a sudden....... another woman is my guess........... ya'll pray for my obsessing over WHY to end soon. It's better today than ye...	Doll	6	923	Oct 5, 2005 by Mikel
	Hello There (Preview) Hi. I'm Mikel, and I'm an alcoholic. Boy, am I ever. Two days ago, when I found myself purchasing a fifth of Wellers at ten in the morning, it suddenly gripped me by the gonads: This has to stop. So I went home, went to the Internet, found a detox hospital, and checked mys...	Mikel	17	903	Oct 5, 2005 by Mikel
	Hey Rick... (Preview) Good to see you back friend. It's been kind of quiet here without you and Phil. How was your trip? Going to Colorado are you? I'm getting a bit envious.... (((Hugs))) GammyRose	GammyRose	0	736	Oct 5, 2005 by GammyRose
	Am I normal? (Preview) A normal alcoholic I mean...because it's day five and I feel weird. I feel like I can't concentrate, I feel tense and my muscles kind of ache, and I'm really hypersensitive and cranky. I've quit for spurts here and there before but I don't remember feeling this way. Is this what happens when you sto...	TipsyMcStagger	3	775	Oct 5, 2005 by cheri
	big book (Preview) Big Book On Line Now available The Big Book Online Fourth Edition - Table of Contents ... V. The Religious View on AA · html · VI. How to Get in Touch With AA · html ... www.aa.org/bigbookonline/en_tableofcnt.cfm - 8k - Cached - Similar pagesget bored ,want to do some reading, i use this w...	wagon	1	703	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 10/05 (Preview) Yesterday's Baggage For the wise have always known that no one can make much of his life until self searching becomes a regular habit, until he is able to admit and accept what he finds, and until he patiently and persistently tries to correct what is wrong. 12 Steps and 12 Traditions p.88 I have mor...	Doll	0	644	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	Surrender story for Tipsy (Preview) Hi Tip, I can't really define surrender, but I can share my story with you. I think for each of us, it is a personal thing- this surrender and being powerless- but I can sure tell you what happened with me. If it helps you or anyone else, it's worth telling. I had my first drink when I was 14...	cheri	5	724	Oct 4, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	Wendy... (Preview) I just wanted to say I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Have you got the car running yet? (((Hugs))) GammyRose	GammyRose	2	720	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	A little humor to brighten the day (Preview) A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during a >particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the same hotel where >they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic >schedules, it was >difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. > >So...	Doll	1	746	Oct 4, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	life (Preview) Today is October 4, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! LIFE "I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today." -- William Allen White Today I have confidence in my life and I am experiencing consistency in my behavior and attitude. In recovery, things follow a nat...	wantneeda	1	830	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 10/4 (Preview) ........we know that the pains of drinking had to come before sobriety, and emotional turmoil before serenity. 12&12 p. 94 (my favorite!) I love spending time in my garden feeding and pruning my beautiful flowers. One day, as I was busily snipping away, a neighbor stopped by. She comment...	Doll	0	663	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	Today I Will Remember (Preview) *I posted this about a month ago, guys. Hope no one minds the "repost". I need it today, maybe someone else does also.* *Much love, Doll* We're often told that alcoholics and other addictive persons are perfectionists, impatient about any shortcomings - especially our own. We tend t...	Doll	0	645	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	Today sucks (Preview) I'm sorry, I don't mean to be so negative but sobriety better get more attractive pretty damn fast our I'm going to crawl inside a bottle and not come out until spring :( I feel restless, grumpy and fat.	TipsyMcStagger	3	717	Oct 4, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	What's Up? (Preview) I just ducked in to see what's happenin'. How is everybody doing? _____________ FamMon Serenity Now!	Fammon	3	783	Oct 4, 2005 by Doll
	"I" have become unmanageable (Preview) well..i had a horrible sleep the other night..after 7 or so drinks, had to work yesterday, was very tired yup, actions and consequences...was it worth it????....NO all i know is today i will not drink!!!!!!' i admit i am powerless over alcohol and I have become unmanageable hugs, Wendy	wantneeda	2	962	Oct 3, 2005 by Doll
	ACTION AND CONSEQUENCE (Preview) ACTION AND CONSEQUENCE The actions you take have consequences, and some of those consequences can be painful. Yet life would be hopelessly more painful if there were no consequences. If actions had no consequences, there would be no reliable way to achieve anything. There would be no way for you to d...	Doll	0	647	Oct 3, 2005 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 10/03 (Preview) SERENITY AFTER THE STORM Someone who knew what he was talking about once remarked that pain was the touchstone of all spiritual progress. How heartily we AA's can agree with him...... 12&12 pp 93-94 When on the roller coaster of emotional turmoil, I remember that growth is often painful. My...	Doll	0	707	Oct 3, 2005 by Doll
	And then there were two... (Preview) Two whole days have gone by and I feel pretty good. Sundays are somewhat difficult for me because it's my custom to meet up with my drinking associates and swill beer in whatever neighborhood pub we haven't recently been thrown out of. It's usually a very relaxing day and normally I don't get too wasted...	TipsyMcStagger	9	892	Oct 2, 2005 by asmith
	I'm waving a pair of my white undies and it aint helping... (Preview) I am somewhat confused by something and I'm hoping one of you can help me. I hear the word "surrender" being used often and while dictionary.com defines it as... "dr) v. sur·ren·dered, sur·ren·der·ing, sur·ren·ders v. tr. 1. To relinquish possession or control of to another becau...	TipsyMcStagger	7	759	Oct 2, 2005 by amanda2u2
	I didnt get drunk tonight (Preview) Instead I stayed home and watched 'Bowling For Columbine' with my dog. I guess I'll still wake up with a bitch but least I wont wake up hungover :) My resolve is so darn strong on day one! I usually crack around day six. Any tips for day six?	TipsyMcStagger	6	677	Oct 2, 2005 by TipsyMcStagger
	Happy Sober Sunday Morn'! (Preview) Sunday morning has always been a great day of the week for me. I reminds me of rebirth. Change can happen! Another good point, I have finished all of my taped TV shows from the week. I have 2 VCR's & multiple tapes...confusion is very easy as I tape a lot of s...	CAM	1	625	Oct 2, 2005 by cheri
	Im outa here!! and on vacation from me:) (Preview) Taking 10 days guys and going South to spend time with a buddy. Kickin back--smokin good cigars-relaxing-enjoying-and hitting a few meetings, and meeting some new freinds. And Doll? Im sure wele make a point of hookin up. You smoke cigars?? lol The only concern I have is getting these Canadia...	Phil	3	651	Oct 2, 2005 by cheri
	Emotional Sobriety (Preview) This letter appeared in the "Grapevine" January 1958. Bill suffered from acute chronic depressions for the first 14 years of his sobriety. "I think that many oldsters who have put our AA "booze cure" to severe but successful tests still find they often lack emotional sobriety. Perhaps they will be t...	Doll	2	651	Oct 2, 2005 by Phil
	Still waiting (Preview) Hi all. I hope everyone has had a great, sober day..... I worked my butt off. I'm probably the only person I know who hates Saturdays ! I just try to be grateful to have a job, some days it's hard. Today was a tough one for me........ I saw John Tuesday night and chick...	Doll	9	760	Oct 2, 2005 by Doll
	Wendy (Preview) You are appreciated, and loved, by each and every one of us, on this board. You keep comming back, and you keep trying Gal. Thats what matters.... and you are a big part of the support system we share here. You do, what you gotta do for you, and noone judges you, or critisizes yo...	Phil	5	629	Oct 2, 2005 by cheri
	CAM (Preview) Well done on 44 days. I just wanted to say I hope you don't wait for the "urge" to "find" a meeting. I hope you all ready have a plan of action, should that time arise........ Doll	Doll	1	736	Oct 1, 2005 by CAM
	Acceptance (Preview) For some of us there is no hope or light at the end of the tunnel. We will drink forever and slowly watch our lives deteriorate until we die. I realize now that this is my fate, I accept it, I will stop trying to fight what is in my nature. I know that I will flush everything good in my life down the toilet one dou...	TipsyMcStagger	9	800	Oct 1, 2005 by skibum
	Fear Of The Unknown (Preview) The deepest darkest fear In all the world dwells in our Mind. It never eats it never sleeps But it waits with infinite patience Upon when to strike its prey You Like a leech, it feeds off the Deepest and most hateful emotions, Churning and seething until one dark moon less night, You stare out in...	Phil	0	735	Oct 1, 2005 by Phil
	hi guys (Preview) hey everyone!!! everything good here with me,just been keeping real busy.still trying to hit a few meeting a week. my oldest son is off to college that was a test for me, of some lomesome for him,but i put it in god hands and as time passes it get easier, or maybe god is takin care of things. just want to say h...	wagon	2	614	Oct 1, 2005 by Phil
	The difference a day makes (Preview) Yesterday I posted about accepting the fact that I'm a drunk and will be a drunk forever and that there wasn't anything or anybody who could help me . I had a few hundred dollars in my wallet and was just about to leave to meet up with my drinking buddies and get wasted when I posted it. And I did go out and get d...	TipsyMcStagger	2	701	Oct 1, 2005 by Doll
	the noise of optimism:) (Preview) Today is October 1, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! LAUGHTER "We are all here for a spell, get all the good laughs you can." -- Will Rogers When I first heard recovering alcoholics laughing, I thought I was in the wrong place. I was angry that they treated the disease so lightly. Then s...	wantneeda	1	851	Oct 1, 2005 by Phil
	Here's My Story (Preview) I am 18 years old. I am an only child. My mom drank when I was a little kid, but I didn't know. Then she got help(voluntarily on her own) and quit(possibly I'm unsure if this is true). When I was about 8 years old she got in a relationship with a drinker and started drinking again(or she may have never s...	lanchas	3	690	Oct 1, 2005 by cheri
	hugs (Preview) just thinking about my friends who aren't popping in so often.... Cheri??? how are you doing?? OP??? miss ya, hope you are well Rick?? are you safe and smilin'??? Ellen??? are you out there?? i saw nancy-jo below, hugs to ya how are you feeling Phil and gammy??? and hugs to ever...	wantneeda	5	761	Oct 1, 2005 by cheri
	Rick (Preview) Saw you in here this morning,Buddy, but you didnt stick around--thought you were heading out for a couple weeks, somewhere--but I guess you havent left yet. Everything ok?? Havent heard from you in a couple days. Im on the taxi phone till 2am, tonight. Give me a buzz, if you like. Rem...	Phil	1	1016	Oct 1, 2005 by Phil
	The ability to Trust... (Preview) *Trust is:*Letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. Sharing your inner feelings and thoughts with others with the belief that they will not spread them indiscriminately. Placing confidence in oth...	Phil	0	699	Oct 1, 2005 by Phil
	looking for email exchange (Preview) I am John and I am a couple of months sober and due to my location and lack of transportation I am looking for sober people to exchange email with and share experienc strength and hope. I really need a sponser and feel very isolated and need to grow in sobriety.	choempi	4	669	Sep 30, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Nancyjo ????? (Preview) Hey NJ, Did I miss a post? Are you out of town again? Haven't seen you here for quite a few days now..... Miss ya! Hope all is well......... Much love Doll	Doll	4	620	Sep 30, 2005 by nancyjo59
	The Train Of Life (Preview) The Train Of Life Some folks ride the train of life Looking out the rear, Watching miles of life roll by, And marking every year. They sit in sad remembrance, Of wasted days gone by, And curse their life for what it was, And hang their heads and cry. But, I don't concern myself with that, I took a different v...	Doll	3	879	Sep 30, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Fear And Relationships (Preview) Our inner dragons of fear can keep us from having meaningful relationships. These fears can make us run from love and intimacy and hide from the very things we say we most want. Fear and relationships do not belong together. The people who have great amounts of fear waste a lot of energy. They repeat t...	Phil	1	807	Sep 30, 2005 by nancyjo59
	big book (Preview) Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May G...	wagon	1	692	Sep 30, 2005 by Phil
	Newbie Here (Preview) Hi everyone, I'm a 42 y/y mom of b/g twins (6 1/2). When I was in my early 20's, I was clean/sober for about 4 years. Then I had a glass of wine.... Drank pretty socially until 2001 then I guess my disease finally caught up with me again. Now, I easily drink a bottle of wine a ni...	suzyq	8	694	Sep 30, 2005 by cheri
	Re: My Stag weekend (Preview) Hi all, I'm going to be gone from here for about 4 days. It's my Stag party and we Will be rock climbing in North Wales for a few days. The plan is that I won't drink. Update in 4 days Best wishes to you all Chris.	Cabbageheadchris	4	898	Sep 29, 2005 by Doll
	Today I Pray (Preview) In our first weeks or months in The Program, our shaky emotional condition sometimes affects our feelings toward old friends and family. For many of us, these relationships heal quickly in the initial stages of our recovery. For others, a time of "touchiness" seems to persist; now that we're no long...	Doll	0	625	Sep 29, 2005 by Doll
	ewwwe...blackouts (Preview) Today is September 29, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! BLACKOUTS "It is human nature to think wisely and act foolishly." -- Anatole France I experienced blackouts in my drinking. Often I would wake up and not know where I had been, what I had said or what I had done. I would awake to pee...	wantneeda	4	724	Sep 29, 2005 by Doll
	Overcomming Resentment (Preview) Dealing with resentment and being able to forgive others is a quality which takes a great deal of grace and maturity. The important thing to remember is that bitterness is a poison which harms you far more than the person who has upset you. So working toward forgiveness is a positive act not only for t...	Phil	4	663	Sep 29, 2005 by Phil
	Noticing.... (Preview) I just wanted to comment on my perception of what I've seen of Alcoholics...... Although, each struggles with deep seeded emotional matters that many times are not known, what I have seen and felt in Alcoholics I've known is that their hearts truly are sincere. Additionally, my perception has b...	sanddie	5	670	Sep 29, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	Emotional Walls (Preview) Walls. Emotional walls, physical walls. Walls of anger, walls of rage, walls of fat; walls that are all designed to protect. Protect what? Have you ever got to the point where you wonder this, protect what? It can get very lonely and isolated and depressing within the confines of th...	Phil	1	721	Sep 29, 2005 by wantneeda
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