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24 Hrs a Day ~ 27th Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Continuing the consideration of the term spiritual experience: "What often takes place in a few months could seldom have been accomplished by years of self discipline. With few exceptions, our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner resource, which t...
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New here...having trouble navigating
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Hi, Finding I am having a hard time staying away from alcohol after withdrawing from benzodiazapenes (Lorazepam)...If I drink at all it is a very bad thing because my body has not recovered from the drug yet and I have been off since Aug. 3... Doesn't look like there is much activity here..my chat featu...
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Hello!
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Hey guys, hope all is well with everyone. Work has been a nightmare-I dread waking up in the mornings. I feel like I'm having a late 20's-life crisis... But it's been 54 days without a drink and that I'm grateful for. I had a dream where I was at a party or some social event with loud music and lots of people....
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the howya thread.
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hows it going everyone, have a great day, or night, cheers peter.
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God answered my prayer quickly!
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As most of you know I lost my sponsor/best friend last Oct. 10 For a year she was my main focus. We spent almost every day together. I gave her showers, took her to apts. visited often cause she was lonley. I basically lived to take care of her. This whole year has been awful. Well it dawned on me that th...
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55th Annual GA Convention
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Anyone planning to attend? If so, I would love to meet up. http://www.aageorgia.org/prepaid.htm ~ Jen
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 26th Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Continuing the consideration of the term spiritual experience: "The acquiring of an immediate and overwhelming God consciousness, resulting in a dramatic transformation, though frequent, is by no means the rule. Most of our spiritual experiences are of the educat...
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experience shows me
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and beckons me to tell everyone that alcoholics are often young and unseen, as I thought I was...(Im sure most know this already but, just in case). I had two months sober and then I drank last week because i thought that since my tolerance would be low, one time would be harmless. Wrong. I drank like i did...
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FUNNY AA COMMERCIAL
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http://www.videosift.com/video/Funny-Alcoholics-Anonymous-Commercial
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Daily Reflections ~ First Things First
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Some of us have taken very hard knocks to learn this truth: Job or no job wife or no wife we simply do not stop drinking so long as we place dependence upon other people ahead of dependence on God. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 Before coming to A.A., I always had excuses for taking a drink: She said . . . , He sai...
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Feeling Protected
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Our task is not a naive one of feeling safe, of living and loving in a utopian world. One woman commented that our task is making ourselves feel safe while learning to live and love in a world that is unsafe.
We do not want to dwell on the danger for that gives power to the negative. Neither do we want to ign...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 25th Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Let us consider the term "spiritual experience" as given in Appendix II of the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous: "A spiritual experience is something that brings about a personality change. By surrendering our lives to God as we understand Him, we are change...
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Reply from Dr. Carl Jung To Bill W ~ 01.30.61
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Dear Mr. W. Your letter has been very welcome indeed. I had no news from Rowland H. anymore and often wondered what has been his fate. Our conversation which he has adequately reported to you had an aspect of which he did not know. The reason that I could not tell him everything was that those days I had to b...
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Persistance
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Hello family! As most of you know I have been going to doctor after doctor trying to get help for my sore tounge and ear. Well after 4 docs and an ER visit I had an apt. with a brand new doc today and she was wonderful! She really cared and I didnt feel intimidated like I ususally do with doc. Anyway she kne...
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Peace with the Past
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Even God cannot change the past. -- Agathon
Holding on to the past, either through guilt, longing, denial, or resentment, is a waste of valuable energy - energy that can be used to transform today and tomorrow.
"I used to live in my past," said one recovering woman. "I was either t...
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Dancing With God
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Dancing With God When I meditated on the word Guidance I kept seeing 'dance' at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky...
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Daily Reflections ~ Vigilance
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We have seen the truth demonstrated again and again: Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Commencing to drink after a period of sobriety, we are in a short time as bad as ever. If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that someday we will be i...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 24th Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Let us continue with Step Twelve. We must practice these principles in all our affairs. This part of the twelfth step must not be overlooked. It is the carrying on of the whole program. We do not just practice these principles in regard to our drinking problem. We practice them i...
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Hey Doll
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Congratulations on 1 year sober. Sorry its late, not been reading on here as much as usual. Im one year at the beginning of December one day at a time and like others, I thought you had longer with your knowledge and great advise. I still feel like a baby in A.A. You seem to have great recovery. God ble...
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Allowing Ourselves to be Needy
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We can accept ourselves as people who have needs - the need for comfort, love, understanding, friendship, and healthy touch. We need positive reinforcement, someone to listen to us, someone to give to us. We are not weak for needing these things. These needs make us human and healthy. Getting our nee...
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Step 4 Question
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So, I can hear the little voice inside my head saying "just let it go, just wait until you actually get there" - but it won't go away and is causing me a little discomfort - so what does it hurt to ask...??? (I am only on step 2 with my sponsor) And - I know my sponsor is the appropriate person to ask...
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Looky Looky!!
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I'll be a monkey's uncle! I am a Senior Member here on MIP! What a great honour! Now the quesiton is,,,,,,,,,,how do I become an Oldtimer? LOL! Love you all! You are the best family I could ask for. Lots of Love, Allison
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 20th Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Step Four is, "Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves." Step Five is, "Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our, wrongs." Step Six is, "Were entirely ready to have God remove all these de...
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Daily Reflections ~ I Was An Exception
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He [Bill W.] said to me, gently and simply, Do you think that you are one of us? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 413 During my drinking life I was convinced I was an exception. I thought I was beyond petty requirements and had the right to be excused. I never realized that the dark counterbalance of my attitude w...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 23rd Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Step Twelve is, "Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs." Note that the basis of our effectiveness in carrying the message to others is the real...
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Tolerance
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Practice tolerance.
Tolerate our quirks, our feelings, our reactions, our peculiarities, and our humanness. Tolerate our ups and downs, our resistance to change, and our struggling and sometimes awkward nature.
Tolerate our fears, our mistakes, our natural tendency to duck from problems...
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Cool AA 'stuff'
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http://www.aahistory.com/ Found this website looking for AA history. It has links to The BB, The Grapevine, Meeting schedules, Just for Today, etc. along with some other cool stuff like Trivia, sobriety calculator....... Enjoy! ~ J
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We women need to stay sober!!!!
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Don't mean to upset anyone, but this is just another reason to stay clean and sober.... love you, all my female friends here. We can make it, we really can!!! Love, Joni
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365 Days.........
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....and 10,000 ass-kicking nights. But I finally made it! Woo Hoo! Thanks to all of you who have been so instrumental in this process of recovery. (((hugs))) -- Edited by Doll at 07:51, 2008-09-22
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Let it be ??
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Hi Ive just joined site and this is my first posting so apoligies if I get it wrong .. Ive been in the rooms 5yrs now and have managed to stay sober a day at a time (not bad for a girl that had to hit rock rock bottom before finding the rooms)! However I struggle with emotional sobriety people intereaction is...
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Repost: Funnies from Phil 2004
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Thanks for the many years of laughs and ES&H, Phil!!! This is YOU, from 2004...... The why and how of things 1. Does a clean house indicate that there is a broken computer in it? 2. Why is it that no matter what color of bubble bath you use the bubbles are always white? 3. Is there ever a day that mattres...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Limitless Lode
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Like a gaunt prospector, belt drawn in over the last ounce of food, our pick struck gold. Joy at our release from a lifetime of frustration knew no bounds. Father feels he has struck something better than gold. For a time he may try to hug the new treasure to himself. He may not see at once that he has barely...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 22nd Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Step Eight is, "Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all." Step Nine is, "Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others." Making restitution for the wrong...
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Carl's Recovery Share
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My name is Carl and I am an Alcoholic. For me, to drink is to die. The last drink I had was on 27th July 2007 and at that time my life was helpless, homeless and hopeless. I had spent the previous hours debating whether to kill everybody in the world or myself. As the affects of my last drunk wore off I knew the w...
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Time Magazine's 1940 AA Article
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Last week one of the best-known teetotalers in the U. S., John D. Rockefeller, had 60 people to dinner. No cocktails were served, for several of Mr. Rockefeller's guests were members of "Alcoholics Anonymous," a widespread, publicity-shy group of one-time guzzlers who have cured...
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Trusting Ourselves
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Many of us believed that heeding the words of God or our Higher Power meant following rigid rules, an instruction booklet for life.
Many of us now believe differently. The rigid rules, the endless instructions, the exhortation to perfection, are not the words our Higher Power whispers.
The wor...
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Wanna Make God Laugh? Tell Him your Plans!!
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Oh yes, it is Sunday morning. Every Sunday morning I come up with some excuse not to go to church. Well this morning I guided through my satalite tv to see what is on today and there is an all day marathon I want to watch today so of course wasnt going to go to church. So Im sitting here enjoying my program a...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Last Promise
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We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves. Alcoholics Anonymous Page 84 The last promise in the Big Book came true for me on the very first day of sobriety. God kept me sober that day, and on every other day I allowed Him to operate in my life. He gives me the strength...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 21st Sep 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day Let us continue with Steps Four, Five, Six, Seven, and Ten. In taking a personal inventory of ourselves, we have to face facts as they really are. We have to stop running away. We must face reality. We must see ourselves as we really are. We must admit our faults openly and try to co...
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Pain - F2F topic today
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My noon F2F was an awesome one, today. A LOT of good shares. Things I had never heard before. I listened & hung on every word of everyone. So, here's what I learned about myself....... I never knew just how much pain I was in, until I came to Alcoholics Anonymous. There has been all types of pain fo...
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Relapsed with 67 days..
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Well, for those of you who might have forgotten, the alcohol is still there and it does the same things it used to do... Leading up to Monday night, I had this itch to do some "research", to see if maybe my mindset was different, that maybe all this calamity of the last 6 months had changed my app...
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Letting Go of Urgency
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One thing at a time.
That's all we have to do. Not two things at once, but one thing done in peace.
One task at a time. One feeling at a time. One day at a time. One problem at a time. One step at a time.
One pleasure at a time.
Relax. Let go of urgency. Begin calmly now. Take one thing at a time.
See how e...
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Relieved!
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Hello family! The other night my 6 month old kitty was really sick. My hubby and I felt sooo powerless!! I think I felt more powerless over this than alchol, maybe not but close. Anyway, we had not a single dime to our name and my hubby was getting paid the next day but we felt she couldnt wait. I called...
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Daily Reflections ~ Loved Back to Recovery
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Our whole treasured philosophy of self-sufficiency had to be cast aside. This had not been done with old-fashioned willpower; it was instead a matter of developing the willingness to accept these new facts of living. We neither ran nor fought. But accept we did. And then we were free. BEST OF THE GRAP...
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I passed!!!!!
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Well thank you whoever prayed for me cause I took my DMV test over this morning and passed with flying colors!! I am soooo happy. And I am so greatful I didnt drink over it yesterday cause lord knows if I had drank I would have never been able to take the test this morning! Love you all! Allison
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Awesome Camp-out for AA/Alanon
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I attended an awesome AA/Alanon camp-out this weekend on the Hopi Reservation in Arizona. Freedom in Sobriety. The speakers were inspiring - AA, Alanon, and Alateen. The Alateen speakers in particular were so powerful. I went to sleep under a full moon listening to a drum group. I am committed to ke...
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Daily Reflections ~ H.P. As Guide
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See to it that your relationship with Him is right, and great events will come to pass for you and countless others. This is the Great Fact for us. Alcoholics Anonymous Page 164 Having a right relationship with God seemed to be an impossible order. My chaotic past had left me filled with guilt and remors...
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Spontaneity
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In recovery, we're learning to let ourselves go! We're learning to be spontaneous.
Spontaneity may frighten some of us. We may be afraid of the loss of control involved with spontaneity. We may still be operating under the codependent rules that prohibit spontaneity: be good; be right; be perfec...
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It's a boy!
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Hey y'all, I had an ultrasound Monday and I found out I'm having a boy! His name will be David O'donel (David after my sponsor and O'donel after my dad). Here's the ultrasound pics... This one shows he's a boy... This one shows his hand up by his face... looks like he's praying This one shows his head...
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