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Semantics or something more?
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At a meeting the other night, I noticed something that struck me as important. I noticed some people are very specific when they introduce themselves. For example, "My name is Laurie and I am an alcoholic." Other folks make it brief, "Laurie, alcoholic." I noticed my own tend...
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The step board
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Step one is up from a few weeks ago, quite a few people participated, Step 2 started last night, and step 3 is at the top as well Please participate either for the newcomer, or if you are the newcomer, please come get your feet wet, it's how we get well in AA, the steps make sobriety livable http://www.acti...
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Happy 62nd Bellybutton Birthday MikeF!!!
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"Hello Family! My name is MikeF.My clean/sober date is December 2nd,1984. Birth date 3/25/48..Married since June 2nd 1984(3rd marriage) and have 4 children,Eric 23,Sarah 21, in New York and from my first marriage in 1966 Michael 43 and Michelle 44 in Texas.I am an active member in Narcot...
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One Year Sober
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One year sober today. This past week has been kind of rough and I wonder how much these anniversaries affect people in the program. I woke up and it's snowing outside! Yesterday sixty degrees, today snow? Whatever the circumstances, today is a great day to be sober!
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I am addicted to alcohol, I drink every day, am I an alcoholic?
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Not necessarily, I see a great deal of confusion about what an alcoholic is and isn't. How much or how often one drinks doesn't necessarily make one an alcoholic it's what happens when one drinks or quite frankly when one doesn't that differentiates the two classes. When heavy drinkers stop drinking...
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Greetings from high atop the Blueridge moutains
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I forgot to tell my cyber family that I was going away for a week. This trip is the beginning of this years building season and it's good to be back after 5 months albeit earlier than usual as it's late April typically when I drag up here for the first time. The weather treating me pretty well considering...
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Sun is shining
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Brakes are fixed. Got a new battery for the bike and have charged it up. Got the MOT booked for tomorro afternoon. Got a meeting to run for my sponsee tomorrow night. Got some free time on Sunday and if all goes well, me and the bike might just rock over to Blackpool
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First Meeting
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I'll be attending my first meeting tonight. I have been looking forward to it. Having a very bad day and feeling all alone. Hope to find some fellowship and start developing faith in the future.
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ad the ongoing tale of the tape is............
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.......end of week two, another 7 lbs gone (total loss is 11lbs) and an inch off the gut. The skills I have learnt in AA and the new attitudes I have developed are most definitely helping me to stay focussed without geting obsessive.
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Away for the Weekend ~ AA Convention
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Just a little love letter to let you all know I'm away for three nights in Blackpool this weekend to attend our Northern AA Convention which I have been to for the last 4 events since I was 6months sober. I was frightened & nervous when I first went all on my ownsome but when I got there I got into some ser...
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stupid question...
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I have been wondering why some go thru physical withdrawals and some don't? I was put in jail after a blackout dui. When I got out 4 days later my sister said did you go thru withdrawals? I didn't at least not like what i have seen and heard about. Im sure it doesn't make me any less of an alcoholic. Mayb...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Teaching Is Never Over & 24hrs a Day
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Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May God...
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Help me get back on track, please
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I went 79 days, then slipped. Let me tell you that that first slip is crucial, BEYOND BELIEF. I drank wine again, apologized and analyzed profusely and then did it again, and again and yet again and then again. It's so easy to ratonalize once you mess up once. Now it's harder than ever to get back on tr...
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Concept of God
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Zero equals infinity. This means there is no Creator or it means the creator is nothing. Therefore there is no God. If there is no God there is no Satan either. Many say there is a Creator that creates everything that is. They say something had to create the earth with its mountains, rivers, clouds...
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Finding a sponser
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This information is most likely already posted somewhere on the board, so I apologize if the question is redundant. I was just looking for information on finding a sponser. I have only been to four meetings so far. I haven't spoken up, just listened. If someone has suggestions on finding a sponser or c...
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I WILL NOT FEAR
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I WILL NOT FEAR Lord, God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I can not know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am following your Will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please You does in fact...
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Communication Skills
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or lack thereof on occasion Recently I had a conversation with a woman I know, she emailed me and asked for my opinion on something. I had spent a year or so listening to her daily and weekly train wreck drama in tedious detail, day after day, week after week, being gentle, telling the truth, but being gen...
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New and need help!!!!
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ok i am new here.I have been drinking everyday for the past 10 months to the point i pass out every night.I have decieded this is enough!!!! I am a mother of 3 beautiful daughters and i have to get myself together for them and myself.So if anyone can give me some insite as to what i am going to be going through...
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Why did you get/want to get sober? How do you deal with success?
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What do you expect from sobriety? Something a friend of mine wrote today along with the "Aint Life Grand" thread got me thinking When I came into AA I started talking to a guy, I told him I lost my job. he grinned OK, obviously this guy was a moron, so I told him I lost my girlfriend, the love of my l...
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9th Step
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My fight against the false God is working. None of us will ever be the creator. If you think you are or you think you know who it is, good luck with that! Only that which is not created is the creator. Not too long ago I had an epiphany. I realized that I had been harmed by a man who realized I was about to fin...
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Titles
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I scrolled down the thread list the other day and saw mine from last week. Nothing intrinsically good comes from me drinking, and yet I do (I'm sorry even though that is worthless). I think its just a case of habit or something. I know not to drink but I do anyway as if I have no other option, or else I feel tha...
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Dodsworth
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checkin in
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Just got back from Florida Roundup convention. It was awesome...much more enjoyable and fun 18 months sober as opposed to how it was last year at 6 months sober. I am still not smoking now for over 2 weeks...still single and sort of having fun with it...shrug. Life seems to be okay. In between 4th a...
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Day 5 today - good enough to make a post?
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Hi all - Just a quick post to share that today is day 5 of being sober. I actually haven't made it this far yet, since I've realized that I am an alcoholic. I usually make it to day 3 or 4 and then cave. On top of that, it's my 4th day of no smoking as well (a nasty habit I picked up just 3 years ago, while I was waiti...
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New AA saying?
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Ya know we survive on slogans and mataphore, right? How's this for a new one regarding relapses. "Relapses during AA recovery are a exactly like breathing; as long as you have more "ins" than "outs" you're still doing okay." Thumbs up or thumbs down.... Peace, Rob
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Ain't life grand...
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Well, ain't it. It sure is for me today!!! I hope it is for all of you too. God bless... Brian
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Struggling
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Man am I going through a phase. Not sure if it's due to quitting cigarettes or sober anniversary or what but I'm in a funk. Going to meetings every day, been chairing Monday nights all month, and things are tough. Turning into a recluse, not answering the phone, tired all the time. This sucks. One thing I...
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make your plans and be prepared to change 'em.
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So today I'd planned to sleep late, eat well, exercise and do a big bunch of other stuff. Should've known that when I woke up at the normal time, my plans were gonna havta change! Managed the eat well bit, managed the exercise bit, but it took me much longer to write the IG minutes, so I didn't get in the shed...
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Happy Birthday Daniella (Sobrietyspell)
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Happy Birthday Daniella, and thanks for being you and everything you do. -- Edited by StPeteDean on Thursday 18th of March 2010 09:36:33 AM
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Long last day at work for three days
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I have three days off this week, Tuesday to Thursday, but it's the end of the financial year and we are expected to get the evidence together to show what good boys and girls we all are. I've been at work since 6 this morning, it's 4 p.m. now and I need a break away from work. I still have to close off the griev...
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The Present
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Hi, Just for Today, I will try to accept , " The present of the Present" ( No matter how I feel) Toad
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2nd sober birthday in 29 years
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The first time I celbrated my birthday drunk was when I turned 15. The first sober one was when I was in boot camp and I turned 21. Yesterday was the 2nd. Family, love, cake, lasagna and kid-made cards. I don't miss the booze at all. Today? No hangover. I woke up at 5:30 am and did some work research, wrote a r...
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Drunk together, sober reunite?
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We met on a psych ward. He a major depressive alcoholic, me a manic depressive alcoholic in denial. That was 11 yrs. ago. We stayed together (as much as together means with our combined illnesses) for about 7 yrs. On and off of course. I was diagnosed with cancer about 4 yrs. in. I actually took him out of a...
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Our Spiritual Journey
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Our Spiritual Journey We begin our spiritual journey at different times in our lives but most of us reach the same place eventually where we accept the guidance of a Power greater than ourselves. A Power that cares for us and accepts us just as we are. A Power that guide...
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The Tale of the tape and today so far.
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just been back to WW - lost 4 lbs, spent the first 3 days hungry then the next 2 days feeling peckish then the last 2 feeling, well, OK I guess. Having jokes with a mate about hiding pork pies behind the toilet cistern. The Grievance finding of fact meeting went well, new evidence come to light and I need to t...
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Checking in for a head steady
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When I have something difficult or new to do on a particular day or the day following, it helps me to write it down and this is a good place for me to do it, because after the fact I can revisit and check for progress. So here goes. It's near enough 11 pm just now. I've been working on a grievance case at work - my...
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Getting on The Chat Room
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Hi Anyone else having trouble getting on the Chat/Meeting Room? It has been fine since I started being on MIP, now all of the sudden it keeps saying I need a Plugin. This has never happened before. I did go through all my programs and deleted any new updates that occured about the time I started getting th...
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here today gone tomorrow
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I am still having major probs with my 'puter, and after ten minutes online, it is so SLOW, I lose the will to live. Thank God JC is back in a couple of weeks, and I'm sure he will manage to sort it out, or find someone who can - I have only just managed to reconnect the printer after having everything reformat...
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Today's thought from Hazelden
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Say when it's time to do that difficult thing. Sometimes, true windows of opportunity open in our lives. We get a chance to make that amend. The perfect time to end or resolve that relationship arises. It's like a gift from God when that window opens up. All we need to do...
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As time goes by
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I'm curious from those of you who have sober for a longer stretch... were you, in the beginning, tempted to think you'd been miraculously cured after being able to stay sober for an extended period of time? I'm now at 3 weeks and the pain of my last drunk is getting more and more blurry. It's good to get...
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Being open - Today's thought from Hazelden
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Being open Sometimes we think we're supposed to have more recovery under our belts. Perhaps we feel the need to impress our peers with our success in staying off mind-altering chemicals. But perhaps we are really just trying to convince ourselves. We know how diffi...
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My anniversary/birthday, or whatever you call it in your region!
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I just had to pop on to say that I celebrated an anniversary. I had 25 years yesterday, and I have a hard time believing it myself. I had just turned 16 when I came to my first AA meeting, and I was 17 when I finally got sober (drinking and going to meetings really helps!!!) I laughed last night at my home gro...
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Why I didn't drink today....
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I was tempted. A beautiful spring day, a long lonely drive, cash in my pocket, in a town where nobody knows me and a liquor store. And this was 45 minutes after a meeting and 1hr&45 minutes after seeing my shrink. Why didn't I stop and get a 1/2 pint of Smirnoff Triple...clean enough that nobody would...
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quick Q about types of meetings?....
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Hi All - I'm looking at meetings in my area....and the acronyms used, etc, (OD = open discussion, CD = closed, etc etc), but I was wondering if anyone would be able to make a recommendation as to what would be the best "type" to attend first? Does it matter? I mean, clearly, I can't attend a clos...
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The world we live in
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The world we live in has much that is good and much that is bad. Each day we can seek out the positive or the negative. If we choose to dwell on the negative, then that is what we will experience. But if we dwell on the positive, then that is more likely what we will experience. The choice today is ours. We are t...
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Back on Chat Room
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Hi All Doing this as a separate topic for information purposes. The problem was with Java--one of the other updates I had gotten blocked it. Here is the web site for Java-- www.java.com. They have an updated version 18, it took only about 5 minutes to load. Make sure you reboot your computer after. Than...
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My first bit...Here it goes
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I've Been going to meetings for a month but I still dont speak much.I spent some time with my cousin tonight whos' done 2 tours in IRAQ.In 1995 I spent a few months in Bosnia...I talked with him about some stuff. Hes 10 years younger than me and a tuff guy. I think about the pit of dead people covered...
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Inspirational and amazing...
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So I went to a night-meeting tonight - something I usually can't do because of kidz-n-wife-n-whatnot but I sure am glad that I did! There was a woman there who's been working hard for a couple of years and kinda like me has a small collection of 30 & 60 days coins and just one 90. Neither she or I even kno...
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Aquaman
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Is A.A. For You?
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IS A.A. FOR YOU? Only you can decide whether you want to give A.A.a try whether you think it can help you. We who are in A.A. came because we finally gave up trying to control our drinking. We still hated to admit that we could never drink safely. Then we heard from other A.A. members that we were sick. (W...
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St. Patrick's Day
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Today I'll make some corned beef and cabbage for St. Patrick's Day. Years ago, during my drinking days that was the day to drink green beer. One time in college, me and two other guys rented a house together and St. Pat's day was on a Saturday. So Friday, we had a blow out party... with green beer... everyt...
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Never Underestimate the Gratitude List
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So today I'm having an urge...same trigger as always for a day-time drunk; 45 miles out of town on a sales re-con mission in a town that doesn't know me from Adam. Hmm, that's an LQ I never knew of before...maybe THEY wanna buy some commercials? No chance of a meeting, but I have my tattoo and my Gratitude L...
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