Alcoholics Anonymous

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

This is a we program. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer Why must I have a sponsor? Cant I do this on my own? Sponsor Sponsorship is a strong suggestion not a rule. Yes, some people do stay in recovery without a sponsor. And no, we cant recover on our own. There are great advantages to taking the program s...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Progress, Not Perfection. --Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. We can actual...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Reflection for the Day I'll begin today with prayer - prayer in my heart, prayer in my mind, and words of prayer on my lips. Through prayer, I'll stay tuned to God today, reaching forward to become that to which I aspire. Prayer will redirect my mind, helping me rise in consciousness to the point where I r...

Col · Col

Ok, so there's this coworker of mine who I DO NOT get along with- he's 22, arrogant, ignorant and sexist. He does not care for me, either. Last week, another coworker had asked me if I would be attending this years holiday party, and I was completely honest with her and my reservations about going to a boo...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

In a Hospital, a gentleman had made several attempts to get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied. A nurse noticed his predicament. Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if you promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall." He did what he needed to, and as he s...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

The 12 Step way of life is accepting, not necessarily passive. --Anonymous When we accept life on life's terms, we are acknowledging reality. We have all, on occasion, run from the truth. When we were in a situation that frightened us, we would turn tail and run. We would do our imitation of an ostrich a...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

SerenityYour body is tense. Your face is somber and serious, ready to deliver the news. You may be slightly breathless. There's a crisis. It may be real. Or it may be self-created.Like an audience in a sports arena, we watch the events of life or even The Weather Channel drumming up reactive responses...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in everything...

John · John

http://alanon.activeboard.com/t51579198/needing-support/

pinkchip · pinkchip

I read myself stating in another post here that my goal was to be calm even if a bomb went off next to me... Nonetheless, I find that in sobriety I am quicker to get angry and I do have temper tantrum explosions that I didn't use to have when I drank. Back then I would just break down before ever yelling and s...

visch1 · visch1

Perhaps Im nitpicking, however when a newcomer or perhaps someone coming back refers themselves as sober I sort of shutter as it took me a lot of time to start to get sober. After a good # of 24 hours I still have my dry times. A sponsor once told me that being dry is acting and reacting the same as when I was dr...

Tanin · Tanin

Interesting new research described in this summary. Supports the conclusions that AA provides roughly equal benefits for men and women but that the benefit types may be different.Appears to be reasonably good research.Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation Dec...

TeganTantalize · TeganTantalize

I been sober 3 in a half months now, and there still so cliquey they go places never think to invite me they dont call me ever when i call or text thenm its very seldom it sucks

justadrunk · justadrunk

"Oh my Gosh!" He giggles "These old ladies are SO crazy! Talking about if they would take chemo if they had cancer, and about their cat's and dogs, and I swear not one was under 70! It was the best meeting ever!" So my husband turns the corner in alanon and I trust in the program so...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

A doctor had sex with one of his female patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he just couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal of his patient were overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said: "D...

RubyTues · RubyTues

I am feeling super antsy tonight. I have a ton of work on, I'm a bit grumpy, and this is when I'd usually start looking forward to tomorrow night's drink. I am not very good at just relaxing. Think I should go to a meeting tomorrow.

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Subject: Teachers & Cops Quotes Teachers? Report CardsThese are actual comments made on students' report cards by teachers in the N** Y*** City public school system. All teachers were reprimanded (but, boy, are these funny!) 1. Since my last re...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Welcome to MIP WolfRider ... glad you're here ... Pappy

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

I guess I'm just a softie----these romantic stories always get to me. > A couple was Christmas shopping at the mall on Christmas Eve and the mall was packed.> As the wife walked through the mall she was surprised to look up and see her husband was nowhere around. She was quite upset because they ha...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

December 5 "The most important factor in eliminating resentments is to know you have them. You can't fix something if you don't know what's wrong." La Verne, Calif., December 1966 From: "Caught...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Recovery releases our creativity Creativity implies something new - feeling, thinking, acting in a new way. When we step out of a familiar pattern, we often feel anxious. We wonder if the new way will work or if a new venture will succeed. We take a chance, a risk, and that requires courage. If we refuse...

Chaya · Chaya

Ok. I took the plunge today and asked another womanFri be my sponsor. I can't take this misery anymore and I can't get the growth that I need from my temp sponsor. She is an awesome listener, but I need more right now. As soon as I asked she gave me assignments to keep me accountable. I need that. I am respons...

Mylita · Mylita

Hello, My name is Mylita and I am a new comer to AA. Today will be twenity three day somber. I went to my first meeting three week ago and I am so happy I join AA. I still have not found a sponcer but that okay. I will continue going to AA. I feel recharge all the time I leave AA. It have given me hope when I had non...

Jason J · Jason J

Today is my 9 month birthday. I went to the group I've gone to weekly and spoke for the 3rd time in 9 months (briefly) and got my coin. I am a member of the local law enforcement group in a fairly small community and find it difficult to share at local meetings with people that I'm familiar with and who are c...

Picaposie · Picaposie

Part of having an open mind is changing the way we look at things. An old Chinese proverb...change but your mind on what you want to see and the whole world changes accordingly. I had a hard time with this in early sobriety and someone suggested that I read "A New Pair of Glasses" by Chuck Cham...

justadrunk · justadrunk

Today's thought from Hazelden is: We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth. --Virginia Satir Virginia Satir was an internationally acclaimed therapist. She knew a lot about what people need to be healthy and happy and to live in...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

December 3, 2012 Quote of the Week "After 5 years of sobriety you get your brains back, after 10 you learn how to use them, and after 15 years you realize you never needed them anyway." What a cord of recognition this struck when I first heard it (at 10 years recovery). I remember the f...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

You Give Me Strength Lord God, thank You for loving me Even when I turn away from You. I am grateful for Your constant care and concern. Though I feel unworthy of Your great love, I thank You that through my weakness You give me strength, And in my wandering You show me the way. --Author unknownYou are read...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

December 3 "When life presents us with a racking conflict ... we cannot be altogether blamed if we are confused. In fact, our very first responsibility is to admit that we are confused." AA Co-Founder, Bill W., August 1...

pinkchip · pinkchip

I took on a service committment today to be a GSR for one of my homegroups. I'm interested if any of you guys may have done this and can share what it was like. I also figured this would be a good way to start a thread on how many million ways there are to do service in AA. A couple of things are obvious which inc...

Jerry F · Jerry F

because the consequence of that, for me, kills the lessons Ii should be learning. Aloha MIP family. Had a wonderful Sunday morning version meeting of AA at the Bay. We have a Saturday and Sunday version. Yesterday's group was beyond spiritual imagination nicely salted by the shares of new-come...

mikef · mikef

December 2nd, 1984 a cold morning, I came to on the floor of a farm house in Rhinebeck New York for the last time. I was 6 months into my 3rd marriage and was finally aware that the insanity of my life was doing the same thing again and again knowing what the results would be. I lifted my head and surren...

leeu · leeu

Tomorrow I will be in the presence of a toxic person in authority, a "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" avoidant person, and a self-serving climber. All of whom want my blessing--or at least not my obstruction--for moving money where it probably (keeping an open mind here) shouldn'...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

He that knew all that learning ever writ Knew only this - that he knew nothing yet. --Aphra Behn It's true that the more information we have about the world, the more clearly we see the shape of what we don't know. It's also true that we don't need to learn anything at all in order to deal fairly with others a...

Col · Col

So I'm sitting at home, relaxing and doing step work, when I get this text. From an old friend-mostly drinking buddy who I haven't heard from in over a year. This is a girl who drank like I drank- towards oblivion and insanity. She was actually one of those people I used to like to drink with because while I...

Zoomtopz · Zoomtopz

I NEVER want to forget this. At my 1st meeting. A bloke was speaking , when a man came into the meeting with a 'd&a' counciler . he had a small 'airlines' bag , nearly fell over me getting to th seat beside me . Th speaker kept talking , when this bloke beside me , stood up , pulled a wine cask out of his bag ....

RubyTues · RubyTues

What was your first meeting like? I went yesterday, and I was surprised by how many people were there. I thought Friday at noon, maybe ten people... there were over forty people there for sure. It was a womens meeting. When the chair asked if there were any newcomers I didn't put my hand up until the last...

Wren · Wren

I must slowly learn to lose control, to let go the petals when it is time...learn step by softly-treading step, that what I am, what we are, is the Power to move and be moved, to change and be changed. ~ Linda Roach Letting go doesn't mean releasing our grip on life and falling into the abyss below. Letting...

salt life · salt life

hi there.. im not new to AA or to this forum just havent been back to the board yet.. Im pretty angry and annoied.. its been a week since i had a drink im pretty disgusted.. seems like my body knows the hour when i typicaly have a drink and i become and automatic asshole to everyone around me. I dunno how man...

brokenrecord · brokenrecord

I read a lot but dont post much. Tomorrow will be two weeks since my last drunk and it has been difficult (understatement of the century). I'm pushing through though! I havent been to a meeting every night but I have visited quite a few. I've made some friends, picked up my white chip, met a few potential s...

Pythonpappy · Pythonpappy

Carrying the Message What we are always carries a stronger message than what we say. This is why we're sometimes turned off by people who seek to overwhelm us with charm. It's also why we can sometimes be drawn to people who are quiet and unassuming. However it works, there is a powerful message in one...

SoberSteve · SoberSteve

My sponsor suggested when I was on step 7 or around 6 months, I personally think thats too soon as I would like at least a year and to have gone through the steps... thoughts? thanks

pinkchip · pinkchip

One topic that came up in today's meeting for me was about what different folks did when given ultimatums about their alcoholism. It was pretty comical to all of us since everyone in the room was/is in recovery but in reality, it's sad and kind of scary. This came about from a story in the Come to Believe...

justadrunk · justadrunk

I went to get coffee today and inside this coffee shop is also fancy liquor and other novelty items - kind of a hippie store/liquor mart/hang out type thing. Anyway - I've gone there many times for coffee - and many more times for liquor. They get all this really trendy stuff that no one's heard of - so no...

Rob84 · Rob84

Congrats Chaya, Some say getting 30 days can be more difficult than getting 30 years. The difficult grind of the first weeks picking up tools along the way to help us become content in sobriety can be trying. Watching new people recover makes this so rewarding for us all.

SpiritBear · SpiritBear

Why I don't attend many meetings anymore - I'm disgusted with hearing people repeat the same bullshit over and over again, whether it be some cliche that they think makes them sound important, such as: "Meeting makers make it." (Make what?) Or the standard rehab-ese psychobabble, such...

Finally · Finally

Hi, I had posted last week about my problem and wife's insistence that I go inpatient. My decision is made to go inpatient. It will be for at least a week, but we literally have no money to plan on anything longer. I have had alcohol twice in the past week but remain determined to stop once and for all. Does a...

apple_mac_dude · apple_mac_dude

I am working with a sponsee. He has decided [without consulting his sponsor, which would be me] to 'celebrate' his 3 year sobriety date one day early. He is planning to do this at our local homegroup with a celebratory AA meeting; cake, guests, the whole 9 yards. Now guys, I am NOT the 'AA' gestapo, a...

hecramsey2 · hecramsey2

I love AA and owe my life to it. But this BS makes me sick. That people would co-opt and distort our loving and tolerant and inclusive program into what i describe below makes me really angry. So I knew this was a "pacific group style' meeting (or a "real" meeting as they describe it). ...

cat005 · cat005

Hello, I am a mother of 3 and married for 10 years. I can say the last 2 years of our lives have been devasting to say the least. My husband's drinking became unbearable. We seperated for 8 months then he decided to go to rehab. After much consideration we decided to have him back home once his 30 days was don...

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	Today's Gift 12 - 09 (Preview) This is a we program. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer Why must I have a sponsor? Cant I do this on my own? Sponsor Sponsorship is a strong suggestion not a rule. Yes, some people do stay in recovery without a sponsor. And no, we cant recover on our own. There are great advantages to taking the program s...	Pythonpappy	3	305	Dec 11, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 10 (Preview) Progress, Not Perfection. --Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. We can actual...	Pythonpappy	2	331	Dec 11, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 08 (Preview) Reflection for the Day I'll begin today with prayer - prayer in my heart, prayer in my mind, and words of prayer on my lips. Through prayer, I'll stay tuned to God today, reaching forward to become that to which I aspire. Prayer will redirect my mind, helping me rise in consciousness to the point where I r...	Pythonpappy	5	338	Dec 9, 2012 by Pythonpappy
	We gotta stick together (Preview) Ok, so there's this coworker of mine who I DO NOT get along with- he's 22, arrogant, ignorant and sexist. He does not care for me, either. Last week, another coworker had asked me if I would be attending this years holiday party, and I was completely honest with her and my reservations about going to a boo...	Col	11	736	Dec 9, 2012 by StPeteDean
	Don't Touch the Buttons (Preview) In a Hospital, a gentleman had made several attempts to get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied. A nurse noticed his predicament. Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if you promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall." He did what he needed to, and as he s...	Pythonpappy	3	423	Dec 9, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 06 (Preview) The 12 Step way of life is accepting, not necessarily passive. --Anonymous When we accept life on life's terms, we are acknowledging reality. We have all, on occasion, run from the truth. When we were in a situation that frightened us, we would turn tail and run. We would do our imitation of an ostrich a...	Pythonpappy	6	345	Dec 9, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 07 (Preview) SerenityYour body is tense. Your face is somber and serious, ready to deliver the news. You may be slightly breathless. There's a crisis. It may be real. Or it may be self-created.Like an audience in a sports arena, we watch the events of life or even The Weather Channel drumming up reactive responses...	Pythonpappy	3	313	Dec 9, 2012 by Mr_David
	Daily Reflections ~ True Ambition & 24hrs a Day (Preview) True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in everything...	Sobrietyspell	2	973	Dec 9, 2012 by Mr_David
	VENTING with Graditude! (Preview) http://alanon.activeboard.com/t51579198/needing-support/	John	8	571	Dec 9, 2012 by Mr_David
	Anger problem? (Preview) I read myself stating in another post here that my goal was to be calm even if a bomb went off next to me... Nonetheless, I find that in sobriety I am quicker to get angry and I do have temper tantrum explosions that I didn't use to have when I drank. Back then I would just break down before ever yelling and s...	pinkchip	13	1375	Dec 8, 2012 by RubyTues
	SOBER/DRY? (Preview) Perhaps Im nitpicking, however when a newcomer or perhaps someone coming back refers themselves as sober I sort of shutter as it took me a lot of time to start to get sober. After a good # of 24 hours I still have my dry times. A sponsor once told me that being dry is acting and reacting the same as when I was dr...	visch1	13	1015	Dec 8, 2012 by visch1
	Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation (Preview) Interesting new research described in this summary. Supports the conclusions that AA provides roughly equal benefits for men and women but that the benefit types may be different.Appears to be reasonably good research.Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation Dec...	Tanin	8	657	Dec 8, 2012 by justadrunk
	i been in aa 3 months now (Preview) I been sober 3 in a half months now, and there still so cliquey they go places never think to invite me they dont call me ever when i call or text thenm its very seldom it sucks	TeganTantalize	14	725	Dec 7, 2012 by TeganTantalize
	He flies in on a pink cloud (Preview) "Oh my Gosh!" He giggles "These old ladies are SO crazy! Talking about if they would take chemo if they had cancer, and about their cat's and dogs, and I swear not one was under 70! It was the best meeting ever!" So my husband turns the corner in alanon and I trust in the program so...	justadrunk	8	815	Dec 7, 2012 by Jerry F
	Time to lighten Up --- A Joke --- 'Voices' (Preview) A doctor had sex with one of his female patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he just couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal of his patient were overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said: "D...	Pythonpappy	4	484	Dec 6, 2012 by RubyTues
	Antsy (Preview) I am feeling super antsy tonight. I have a ton of work on, I'm a bit grumpy, and this is when I'd usually start looking forward to tomorrow night's drink. I am not very good at just relaxing. Think I should go to a meeting tomorrow.	RubyTues	13	755	Dec 6, 2012 by RubyTues
	Teachers & Cops Quotes (Preview) Subject: Teachers & Cops Quotes *Teachers? Report CardsThese are actual comments made on students' report cards by teachers in the N Y* City public school system. All teachers were reprimanded (but, boy, are these funny!)*** 1. Since my last re...	Pythonpappy	2	564	Dec 6, 2012 by Frodo
	Welcome WolfRider (Preview) Welcome to MIP WolfRider ... glad you're here ... Pappy	Pythonpappy	2	350	Dec 6, 2012 by Mr_David
	Romantic Christmas Shopping Story (Preview) I guess I'm just a softie----these romantic stories always get to me. > A couple was Christmas shopping at the mall on Christmas Eve and the mall was packed.> As the wife walked through the mall she was surprised to look up and see her husband was nowhere around. She was quite upset because they ha...	Pythonpappy	3	505	Dec 6, 2012 by Mr_David
	GrapeVine (Preview) December 5 "The most important factor in eliminating resentments is to know you have them. You can't fix something if you don't know what's wrong." La Verne, Calif., December 1966 From: "Caught...	Pythonpappy	1	373	Dec 6, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 05 (Preview) Recovery releases our creativity Creativity implies something new - feeling, thinking, acting in a new way. When we step out of a familiar pattern, we often feel anxious. We wonder if the new way will work or if a new venture will succeed. We take a chance, a risk, and that requires courage. If we refuse...	Pythonpappy	1	320	Dec 6, 2012 by Mr_David
	Finally asked for a sponsor (Preview) Ok. I took the plunge today and asked another womanFri be my sponsor. I can't take this misery anymore and I can't get the growth that I need from my temp sponsor. She is an awesome listener, but I need more right now. As soon as I asked she gave me assignments to keep me accountable. I need that. I am respons...	Chaya	14	710	Dec 6, 2012 by Rob84
	Hi, New comer (Preview) Hello, My name is Mylita and I am a new comer to AA. Today will be twenity three day somber. I went to my first meeting three week ago and I am so happy I join AA. I still have not found a sponcer but that okay. I will continue going to AA. I feel recharge all the time I leave AA. It have given me hope when I had non...	Mylita	12	579	Dec 5, 2012 by Mike B.
	law enforcement in AA (Preview) Today is my 9 month birthday. I went to the group I've gone to weekly and spoke for the 3rd time in 9 months (briefly) and got my coin. I am a member of the local law enforcement group in a fairly small community and find it difficult to share at local meetings with people that I'm familiar with and who are c...	Jason J	18	10016	Dec 5, 2012 by WolfRider
	Perspective (Preview) Part of having an open mind is changing the way we look at things. An old Chinese proverb...change but your mind on what you want to see and the whole world changes accordingly. I had a hard time with this in early sobriety and someone suggested that I read "A New Pair of Glasses" by Chuck Cham...	Picaposie	7	681	Dec 5, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12/4/12 (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth. --Virginia Satir Virginia Satir was an internationally acclaimed therapist. She knew a lot about what people need to be healthy and happy and to live in...	justadrunk	4	386	Dec 5, 2012 by Mr_David
	Wisdom of the Rooms (Preview) December 3, 2012 Quote of the Week "After 5 years of sobriety you get your brains back, after 10 you learn how to use them, and after 15 years you realize you never needed them anyway." What a cord of recognition this struck when I first heard it (at 10 years recovery). I remember the f...	Pythonpappy	5	409	Dec 5, 2012 by Pythonpappy
	Today's Gift 12 - 03 (Preview) You Give Me Strength Lord God, thank You for loving me Even when I turn away from You. I am grateful for Your constant care and concern. Though I feel unworthy of Your great love, I thank You that through my weakness You give me strength, And in my wandering You show me the way. --Author unknownYou are read...	Pythonpappy	2	358	Dec 4, 2012 by Mr_David
	Grapevine Quote of the Day 12/3/12 (Preview) December 3 "When life presents us with a racking conflict ... we cannot be altogether blamed if we are confused. In fact, our very first responsibility is to admit that we are confused." AA Co-Founder, Bill W., August 1...	StPeteDean	7	623	Dec 4, 2012 by Mr_David
	Service thread (Preview) I took on a service committment today to be a GSR for one of my homegroups. I'm interested if any of you guys may have done this and can share what it was like. I also figured this would be a good way to start a thread on how many million ways there are to do service in AA. A couple of things are obvious which inc...	pinkchip	11	592	Dec 4, 2012 by nezyb
	I don't do "Buts" (Preview) because the consequence of that, for me, kills the lessons Ii should be learning. Aloha MIP family. Had a wonderful Sunday morning version meeting of AA at the Bay. We have a Saturday and Sunday version. Yesterday's group was beyond spiritual imagination nicely salted by the shares of new-come...	Jerry F	11	2427	Dec 4, 2012 by Rob84
	IN HUMBLE GRATITUDE! (Preview) December 2nd, 1984 a cold morning, I came to on the floor of a farm house in Rhinebeck New York for the last time. I was 6 months into my 3rd marriage and was finally aware that the insanity of my life was doing the same thing again and again knowing what the results would be. I lifted my head and surren...	mikef	15	645	Dec 4, 2012 by nezyb
	The Care Of (Preview) Tomorrow I will be in the presence of a toxic person in authority, a "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" avoidant person, and a self-serving climber. All of whom want my blessing--or at least not my obstruction--for moving money where it probably (keeping an open mind here) shouldn'...	leeu	8	525	Dec 4, 2012 by Rob84
	Today's Gift 12 - 02 (Preview) He that knew all that learning ever writ Knew only this - that he knew nothing yet. --Aphra Behn It's true that the more information we have about the world, the more clearly we see the shape of what we don't know. It's also true that we don't need to learn anything at all in order to deal fairly with others a...	Pythonpappy	1	350	Dec 3, 2012 by Mr_David
	Random trigger (Preview) So I'm sitting at home, relaxing and doing step work, when I get this text. From an old friend-mostly drinking buddy who I haven't heard from in over a year. This is a girl who drank like I drank- towards oblivion and insanity. She was actually one of those people I used to like to drink with because while I...	Col	8	706	Dec 3, 2012 by Jerry F
	Further to 'RT's' 1st meeting (Preview) I NEVER want to forget this. At my 1st meeting. A bloke was speaking , when a man came into the meeting with a 'd&a' counciler . he had a small 'airlines' bag , nearly fell over me getting to th seat beside me . Th speaker kept talking , when this bloke beside me , stood up , pulled a wine cask out of his bag ....	Zoomtopz	5	557	Dec 2, 2012 by Zoomtopz
	Your first meeting (Preview) What was your first meeting like? I went yesterday, and I was surprised by how many people were there. I thought Friday at noon, maybe ten people... there were over forty people there for sure. It was a womens meeting. When the chair asked if there were any newcomers I didn't put my hand up until the last...	RubyTues	13	667	Dec 2, 2012 by Zoomtopz
	Releasing (Preview) I must slowly learn to lose control, to let go the petals when it is time...learn step by softly-treading step, that what I am, what we are, is the Power to move and be moved, to change and be changed. ~ Linda Roach Letting go doesn't mean releasing our grip on life and falling into the abyss below. Letting...	Wren	9	566	Dec 2, 2012 by SteveP
	just another day in paradise (Preview) hi there.. im not new to AA or to this forum just havent been back to the board yet.. Im pretty angry and annoied.. its been a week since i had a drink im pretty disgusted.. seems like my body knows the hour when i typicaly have a drink and i become and automatic asshole to everyone around me. I dunno how man...	salt life	23	664	Dec 2, 2012 by Pythonpappy
	I'm stilll here (Preview) I read a lot but dont post much. Tomorrow will be two weeks since my last drunk and it has been difficult (understatement of the century). I'm pushing through though! I havent been to a meeting every night but I have visited quite a few. I've made some friends, picked up my white chip, met a few potential s...	brokenrecord	12	688	Dec 2, 2012 by Mr_David
	Today's Gift 12 - 01 (Preview) Carrying the Message What we are always carries a stronger message than what we say. This is why we're sometimes turned off by people who seek to overwhelm us with charm. It's also why we can sometimes be drawn to people who are quiet and unassuming. However it works, there is a powerful message in one...	Pythonpappy	2	340	Dec 2, 2012 by Mr_David
	When do you think is a good time to sponsor someone? (Preview) My sponsor suggested when I was on step 7 or around 6 months, I personally think thats too soon as I would like at least a year and to have gone through the steps... thoughts? thanks	SoberSteve	19	1648	Dec 2, 2012 by Fyne Spirit
	When given the choice.... (Preview) One topic that came up in today's meeting for me was about what different folks did when given ultimatums about their alcoholism. It was pretty comical to all of us since everyone in the room was/is in recovery but in reality, it's sad and kind of scary. This came about from a story in the Come to Believe...	pinkchip	14	717	Dec 2, 2012 by justadrunk
	Liquor whore (Preview) I went to get coffee today and inside this coffee shop is also fancy liquor and other novelty items - kind of a hippie store/liquor mart/hang out type thing. Anyway - I've gone there many times for coffee - and many more times for liquor. They get all this really trendy stuff that no one's heard of - so no...	justadrunk	10	1184	Dec 2, 2012 by Pythonpappy
	Chaya Congrats 30 days! (Preview) Congrats Chaya, Some say getting 30 days can be more difficult than getting 30 years. The difficult grind of the first weeks picking up tools along the way to help us become content in sobriety can be trying. Watching new people recover makes this so rewarding for us all.	Rob84	14	567	Dec 1, 2012 by StPeteDean
	Why I don't attend many meetings these days... (Preview) Why I don't attend many meetings anymore - I'm disgusted with hearing people repeat the same bullshit over and over again, whether it be some cliche that they think makes them sound important, such as: "Meeting makers make it." (Make what?) Or the standard rehab-ese psychobabble, such...	SpiritBear	18	900	Dec 1, 2012 by SteveP
	Caron? (Preview) Hi, I had posted last week about my problem and wife's insistence that I go inpatient. My decision is made to go inpatient. It will be for at least a week, but we literally have no money to plan on anything longer. I have had alcohol twice in the past week but remain determined to stop once and for all. Does a...	Finally	13	740	Dec 1, 2012 by Jerry F
	Celebrating Sobriety Dates early? Need input gang, please- sobriety date-early- sobriety-date-first sober day (Preview) I am working with a sponsee. He has decided [without consulting his sponsor, which would be me] to 'celebrate' his 3 year sobriety date one day early. He is planning to do this at our local homegroup with a celebratory AA meeting; cake, guests, the whole 9 yards. Now guys, I am NOT the 'AA' gestapo, a...	apple_mac_dude	25	2631	Dec 1, 2012 by Wren
	Worst. Meeting. Ever. California Group, Chicago, Tues 7PM AAAARRGGH (Preview) I love AA and owe my life to it. But this BS makes me sick. That people would co-opt and distort our loving and tolerant and inclusive program into what i describe below makes me really angry. So I knew this was a "pacific group style' meeting (or a "real" meeting as they describe it). ...	hecramsey2	16	14294	Dec 1, 2012 by justadrunk
	Husband back home from rehab (Preview) Hello, I am a mother of 3 and married for 10 years. I can say the last 2 years of our lives have been devasting to say the least. My husband's drinking became unbearable. We seperated for 8 months then he decided to go to rehab. After much consideration we decided to have him back home once his 30 days was don...	cat005	6	692	Dec 1, 2012 by Tanin
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