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Sponsorship Pamphlet
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Pamphlethttp://www.aa.org/assets/en_US/nopage/p-15-questions-and-answers-on-sponsorship-- Edited by Tanin on Friday 7th of November 2014 09:52:08 PM
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Sunrise Quote
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Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.~ Barbara De Angelis
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Today's Gift - 12/19
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Fear is only an illusion. It is the illusion that creates the feeling of separateness - the false sense of isolation that exists only in your imagination. --Jeraldine SoundersWe are only alone in our minds. In reality, we are each contributing necessary parts offering completion to the wholeness o...
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Musings from a Sober Recovering... Spiritual Bully
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There are some people whom I am acquainted with who would not give the warmth of their urine to heat a soup kitchen in a Leaper Colony. Then there are those who are totally un-dependable.."How Do they think"? Amigo...do not ATTACK even in your thoughts the ACTIONS of others who IRRITATE o...
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Night Light
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In the midst of winter, I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer----Albert Camus When things seem to be going badly and everyone appears to be against us, what do we see? Do we think things will never get better, or is there a ray of hope inside us that believes everything will soon be okay?...
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Sunrise Quote
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A dream doesnt become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work.~ Colin Powell
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Today's Gift - 12/18
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Love one another, but make not a bond of love. --Kahlil GibranLove doesn't demand; love compromises. It doesn't possess; it frees. Love doesn't gloat; it praises. Love makes friends of strangers. It softens our rough edges and strengthens our assets. Knowing we're loved inspires us and invites fo...
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I'm going to a meeting this morning
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I foolishly thought I had everything under control. Work was great, family was great, I was happy. Somehow all of that good stuff made it easier to slide right back into the bottle. I haven't had a drink for a week but I realize now, after all this time, that it will only take a moment of uncertainty and I'l...
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The Ghost of Tipsy
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Grapevine
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December 18 "The realization that I had experienced something spiritual was in itself a spiritual experience, and I am only slowly understanding its implications. What happened in the past, without my knowledge, is probably continuing now. And in the future, when tomorrow becomes today,...
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Recovering with a child using
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I'm recovering and have a 19 yr old using drugs. He is stealing from us - money and pain pills (his Mom's). I have talked to him but it doesn't seem to be the message his Mom thinks I should be telling him. In AA what I know is I can't fix someone else (even my son). What I told him was that the stealing had to...
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I've been away for a while
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So, the long and short of it is i am still sober but i'm struggling like a * with what they call bipolar and i'm doing ok with going to lots of meetings however when it decides to rear it's ugly head i typically end up in the hospital and from what i can see i joined here back in April of last year and have been hos...
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Sunrise Quote 12/17
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Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.~ Orison Swett Marden
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Today's Gift - 12/17
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This one is for Tipsy ... don't know why, but I thought of 'the Tipster' when I read this: I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do. --Edward Everett HaleWe once heard someon...
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Sunrise Quote
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True wisdom lies in gathering the precious things out of each day as it goes by.~ E.S. Bouton
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For the Holidays
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"We cant predict the future, but we can choose to be hopeful. We cant control those around us, but we can choose to lovingly disengage from their dramas. And we cant prevent the busy, hectic holiday pace but we can choose calm." ~ Begin With Yes, via Contemplative Monk Perhaps my mantra f...
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Spiritual Things I remind Myself Today
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Amigo You MUST ALWAYS become aware of your Master despite the crowding of the multitudes that can lead you astray. Concentrate on Peace and Harmony amidst the worldiness of turmoil...The news stories on Yahoo and the like are a snakepit of turmoil..do not even attack in your thoughts... You see t...
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Today's Gift - 12/16
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Will Power - Our willingness to be used by a Higher Power. --Alcoholics AnonymousHow many times have you wanted something very badly, only to realize at a later date that having it would have been a major disaster? Often we pursue a certain want or desire when the Universe has something entirely diffe...
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Grapevine
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December 16 "The program is a road, not a resting place."
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I Thought to Give an Opinion but Why bother 2
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I was told by a spiritual mentor... that All our problems stem from FEAR and DESIRE..that I must learn to overcome. I was told to work hard but expect nothing.. as the path for overcoming...TRUST GOD I must not critisize or complain...This only imprisons....TRUST GOD....not the limitations of tha...
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30 YEARS TODAY, FREE FROM ACTIVE ADDICTION
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It was December 2nd,1984 (my fathers birthday who died a year and a half before my recovery began)a cold Winter morning in upstate New York ,at an old farmhouse where I came to from another drug induced stupor,lifted my head and asked for mercy.After 25 long years from 1959(a boy of 11 with my first docu...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 15, 2014Quote of the Week"I know I have another drunk in me, but I don't know if I have another recovery." A shiver shot down my spine when I first heard this quote. I know how easy it would be for me to pick up a cold Heineken or glass of cabernet sauvignon at a nice restaurant. And my d...
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Today's Gift - 12/15
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All of my life I been like a doubled up fist... poundin', smashin', drivin' - now I'm going to loosen these doubled up hands and touch things easy with them. --Tennessee WilliamsEveryone has many sides. Some sides are highly developed and other sides aren't at all. We need not fear turning to a new side...
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Today's Gift - 12/14
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I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. --Bill Cosby"Oh, how I wish my dad would get sober." "Oh, how I want my friend to get help with her eating problem." "Oh, how I wish I could make my mom understand."When we become obses...
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Today's Gift - 12/13
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Learning stamps you with its moments. --Eudora WeltyWe never stop learning. We absorb information every waking moment. And while we sleep, we process what we encounter during the day. The conclusions we reach about these daily lessons will likely be based on the perception that dominates our live...
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Spiritual Things I Remind Myself Today
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If the action of another irritates you and you chafe under a sense of their apparant ignorance and spiritual short sightedness, do not try to attack even in your thoughts, the one who appears to have offended, have you not given yourself to the Master of Love? There can be no compromise; Your way Amigo i...
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Sunrise Quote 12/12
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Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish into air.~ John Quincy Adams
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Today's Gift - 12/12
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The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm. --Swedish proverbDuring our illness, we hurt others. We hurt ourselves. We messed up a lot. So, a lot of us come into recovery not trusting ourselves very much. The truth is, as addicts, we couldn't be trusted.But in recovery, we can be tr...
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Grapevine
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December 11 "After endless voting on a title for the new work we had decided to call it The Way Out. But inquiry by Fritz M., our Maryland alcoholic, at The Library of Congress disclosed the fact that 12 books already bore that title. Surely we couldn't make our book the 13th. So we named it Alcoho...
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Mistakes are a great educator when one is honest enough to admit them and willing to learn from them.~ Unknown
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Today's Gift - 12/11
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Worry and Stress"I'm learning it's what I do with my today that counts," said one group member. "I can make this a day to remember or a day to regret just by the kinds of thoughts I have about it."Let me explain what happened to make me realize this," he continued. "Two d...
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Today's Gift - 12/10
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Sincere love is not born of possessiveness but of necessary space and distance. --Melanie GainsleyDimestore romance novels and the passion frequently portrayed in movies invite us to mimic behavior that's seldom in our best interests. Focusing attention too narrowly on another person stifles...
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Why I need AA
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My program had been drifting a bit and was down to 1 meeting a week and not calling my sponsor. I noticed myself engaging in unhealthy obsessive behaviors. Wanting to job hop and chasing salaries rather than what lessons I need to learn from where I am at TODAY. So my sponsor has me amping up meetings and c...
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So long and love to all
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Been a while since I posted but have had health issues. Well, it's terminal so I'm not long for this world, so to speak. This will be my last post here as my time up is less than half a year away. All I can say is that this was all self-inflicted. One of the great minds of the 20th century said "There's a di...
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Did you watch 48 hrs last night?
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Did you watch 48 hrs last night? I was completely appalled that CBS, 48 hrs and Maureen Maher would present such a foul story about a woman who was killed by a man she met in AA. At the time of her death, she was under the influence of drugs and he was drinking. AA had nothing to do with it, yet they took this sto...
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Today's Gift - 12/9
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Anticipate the good so that you may enjoy it. --Ethiopian Proverb NewcomerI'm getting closer to 90 days - I'm in the 80s now. I'm excited. It's a miracle that I've been able to stay in recovery without interruption for this long. But I feel worried, too - or maybe I'm scared. I don't know what I'm feeling...
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Grapevine
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December 9 "I can make any decision about my behavior and life, as long as I am prepared to deal with the consequences. I can decide to get drunk every night if I want to take the consequences ... Or I can decide to stay sober another day, and enjoy the consequences of that decision -- being able to de...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 8, 2014Quote of the Week"If you can't learn to laugh at yourself, we'll do it for you..." Oh how serious everything was when I entered recovery. Overwhelmed by the problems I'd created, a home life that was in shambles, unemployed and unemployable, I didn't find very many thing...
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Today
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Today is the student holiday. I remember 2 years ago when I've already was in A.A. that I was sure that I won't drink, because I thought that I know many things about this disease. You can guess what happened - I got drunk, and my collegues got me home. And today I am thinking about it. About the self-knowle...
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Today's Gift - 12/8
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He who helps a friend in woe is like a fur coat in the snow. --Russian ProverbWe came in from a very hard life when we came into recovery, kind of like coming in from a blizzard in Siberia! The old life was dangerous, cold, and lonely, and it forced us to use all our energy just to survive. Sooner or later it wo...
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Grapevine
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December 8 "It doesn't matter too much how the transforming spiritual experience is brought about so long as one gets one that works ... Somehow the alcoholic must get enough objectivity about himself to abate his fears and collapse his false pride.""
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Let Us Not Forget Pearl Harbor
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On this day, Sunday, December 7th, 1941 at just before 8 a.m., Japan initiated an unprovoked attack on Pearl Harbor on the island of Oahu, Hawaii ... (2 thousand killed, 1 thousand injured in a single 2 hour attack) ... Although I wasn't born yet, the effect on my parents and all their friends was profou...
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Today's Gift - 12/7
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It doesn't happen all at once.... You become. It takes a long time. --Margery WilliamsOur spiritual awakening is partly a process of becoming real. We're moving from the external controls of image and others' opinions to the internal controls of honesty, listening to our inner voice, and having tr...
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I Thought about Giving an Opinion but why Bother
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I thought of giving an opinion about something disturbing I heard about AA but why bother...It just limits myself in my own spiritual voyage...accomplishes nothing. All is quickly forgotten and my focus is on Spiritual things that I remind myself today for personal growth. Love is an Inward Beauty...
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Today's Gift - 12/6
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Other people can't meet our needs if we don't tell them what our needs are.We need tenderness and caring from our families and friends. We need their acceptance, understanding, and support. Sometimes we need their criticism and forgiveness.Whatever our needs are, other people will probably be in...
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Sunrise Quote
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Be determined to handle any challenge in a way that will make you grow.~ Les Brown
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Today's Gift - 12/5
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Reflection for the DayI know today that getting active means trying to live the suggested Steps of the Program to the best of my ability. It means striving for some degree of honesty, first with myself, then with others. It means activity directed inward, to enable me to see myself and my relationship...
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Thank all for their continued support
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The work continues,,,another hour ,another day, another year.....In Gods(of your own understanding) grace and mercy we continue in our Solution ,application of the Program(STEPS) worked with a sponsor and ingrained in our daily lives.....Have a blessed and productive day
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Grapevine
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December 4 "I have never mastered the art of self-sponsorship, and I doubt that I ever will."
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Today's Gift - 12/3
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Should everybody like me?When people say they are people-pleasers, they're acknowledging that it's a problem.It's a problem because it reflects a desire to have everybody's acceptance and approval - to be universally liked. But from what we know about human relationships, this is not possible....
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Today's Gift - 12/4
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Even though I can't solve your problems, I will be there as your sounding board whenever you need me. --Sandra K. LambersonThe prize we each have been given is our ability to offer full and interested attention to people seeking our counsel. And seldom does a day pass that we aren't given the opportuni...
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