Alcoholics Anonymous

mikef · mikef

They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...

Toad · Toad

Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...

leeu · leeu

My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...

Thanks · Thanks

I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...

Joseph · Joseph

This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...

angelov8 · angelov8

Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...

SUSIE · SUSIE

Morning all....just wanted to throw something out there. I went to a meeting yesterday and as always loved being there with everyone and seeing the joy in the room. There is a guy who in the past has been very serious and doesn't like to see alot of happy, joyous and free at the meetings. After a few spe...

laynee · laynee

hello- I KNOW THAT IM NOT IN THE RIGHT CHATROOM BUT I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY STORY. THIS IS IN HOPES THAT PEOPLE THINKING OR DEBATING TO PICK UP THAT FIRST OR EVEN THAT LAST DRINK. MY 31 YR OLD ABF PASSED AWAY THIS SUNDAY DUE TO COMPLICATIONS FROM ALCOHOL ABUSE. THIS WAS BECAUSE HE WASNT STRONG ENOUGH TO NO...

Sacrifice · Sacrifice

Since I finally decided to become sober and stay sober 01/15/08, I have had the best 2 years almost of my whole life it seems. Sure there were times in my life where I did not drink. I drank off and on just for fun in the beginning and settled down when I became pregnant and all was good for a while. I'm not sur...

runnergirl · runnergirl

I'm curious how many of you participated in a treatment program. After speaking with the alcohol counselor again, she recommends I do an outpatient program. (Keep in mind that she works for a treatment program and they recommend everyone that has a drinking problem participate in either an inpatie...

slugcat · slugcat

I am sorry for the strange i guess post. i want some advice or people opinions please if someone had been drinking beer most of the day, not completely trashed or blacked out, just enough to be a tiny bit drunk. But drinking beers all day and then something happened to stop that consumption, and they felt...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The way our "worthy" alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the "less worthy" is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found tha...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Congratulations, Buddy. I know there's a couple of hours to go at the time of this post but I'm going to bed & I was too excited for you not to post before I went! LOL I hope you'll stay & enjoy yourself with us awhile. Have a fantastic 24hrs. You've been sober longer than I've been alive. There's ho...

Dodsworth · Dodsworth

We are all familiar with "One Day at a Time", the message of staying sober in small increments. I used to scoff at that and perhaps I will in an hour or so. I was pacing around my apartment earlier today giving myself a pep talk. I'm in that all-too familiar place of being between a drink and a lif...

pinkchip · pinkchip

Passed on to me from grandsponsor...The blessing is I remember hearing this little poem last year. I think maybe on this board. T'was the night before Christmas When I went on a bender, Not a creature was stirring, not even a bartender. The empties were stacked by the chimney just fine, In hopes that S...

John · John

Hello Fellow members! The outpouring of cards being sent to the MIP recovery homes, for the residents in them is absolutely amazing! The guys are so touched by what you have done. Every time I walk into one of the homes, someone pulls me aside to share one of the cards they have recieved. These are not...

Aquaman · Aquaman

and didn't drink, have a 'close call' or an overpowering urge. The one craving I had was when I went looking for a water glass and all the glasses were at the wine bar. The bottles of wine didn't jump out & bite my hand, although I was scared that they might. I did, however, burn a swath of merciless sn...

Jerry F · Jerry F

Aloha AA fellows and fellowettes...The consequence of practice in new found or in this case old found knowledge and awareness which is so supportive to ones recovery from the disease and its effects. I remember in early program reading from inside the ODAAT daily reader the wisdom of Dr. Harry Tie...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

When working with a man and his family, you should take care not to participate in their quarrels. You may spoil your chance of being helpful if you do. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 100 When trying to help a fellow alcoholic, I've given in to an impulse to give advice, and perhaps that's inevitable. But all...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

=========================================================My wife: Good night. Thank you for helping me get through it, even if it was in my own disfunctio...

unkabud · unkabud

Hello and Happy Holiday's My name is Bud I'm an alcoholic in recovery. My sober date is 12/21/74 Someone ask me how I did it, I replied "Following instructions in the Big Book" and God's grace. It has been a wonderful way of life even with the bumps in the road. I sobered up in New Orleans the 1st...

BLUESMAN · BLUESMAN

Hello Most Citys Have 24 hour AA Hotline services avil ,,,so instead of picking up a drink pick up the phone.. Happy Holidays Russell

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

When dealing with an alcoholic, there may be a natural annoyance that a man could be so weak, stupid and irresponsible. Even when you understand the malady better, you may feel this feeling rising. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 139 Having suffered from alcoholism, I should understand the illness, but s...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Fortunately, the last time I attempted to get sober, I came accross the book "Staying sober". It's a small paperback back and an easy read that discribribes the many obstacles and challenges we face on the road to recovery. One of the most challenging is PAWS or post acute withdrawal synd...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

From the Book "Staying Sober" PAWS (part two) Post Acute Withdrawl - (Part Two) PATTERNS OF POST ACUTE WITHDRAWALPost-acute withdrawal symptoms are not the same in everyone. They vary in how severe they are, how often they occur, and how long they last. Some people experience certain sy...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

From the book "Staying sober" Post Acute Withdrawl (Part #3)SpiritualitySpirituality can be defined as "an active relationship with a power greater than yourself that gives your life meaning and purpose." When you work a spiritual program, you consciously, actively att...

angelov8 · angelov8

I have to be away in Portland Sat. and Sun. to be of support for family during a surgery for my little cousin. I would like to go with a meeting schedule so I might use mapquest beforehand, as I might not have easy computer access then. I can't find the posts with phone numbers to help with meeting schedu...

SeanInBoca · SeanInBoca

I go to about 3 meetings per week. My sponser says I need to go to at least 5-6 at least in order to remain his sponsee. I'm starting to cop a little resentment at that because i'm starting to get the feeling that nothing I ever do is going to be good enough in his eyes. I've been sober since August 08 and whi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Tell him exactly what happened to you. Stress the spiritual feature freely. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 93 The marvel of A.A. is that I tell only what happened to me. I don't waste time offering advice to potential newcomers, for if advice worked, nobody would get to A.A. All I have to do is show what has br...

Kim Mc · Kim Mc

Alcohol is very tricky. I could have 5 beers and nothing would really happen besides being a little buzzed, or I could be totally smashed. It affects us differently on what we ate, how tired we are, etc. In my experience all it has done was lead to crazy behavior. Hanging out with people I would norm...

Tina · Tina

Just droppin in to say hi I'm still here and sober, just dropping in to wish everyone well and sending a heart felt wishes for the holidays!!!!!! Merry Christmas and A Sober New Years to you and your families may the holidays be safe and the New Year Bring happiness. Bye for now and take care........... T...

Glenns · Glenns

And for us seasoned alcoholics, it happens every time! Do you guys remember when we first started drinking? Do you remember with great clarity the time you took your first drink? How it made you feel? That feeling of utter empowerment and euphoria that came along with the warmth in your tummy? Yes, I re...

SeanInBoca · SeanInBoca

Hello family! I just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Sean and I am from Boca Raton. I have about a year and a few months sober and since I work a pretty hectic schedule (12-10pm) I don't have a whole lot of meetings I can make during the week. I am 25 years old, originally from Miami, FL. I've used a...

Toad · Toad

Howdy, Once the booze and dope was removed I started feeling, feelings. I felt so many new ones I did not even have a name for a lot of them. I got to be afraid of feeling my feelings. Booze and dope and lust and crime kept all those feelings buried. AS the steps removed the things I used to keep myself h...

newcomer · newcomer

Hi All, Have been a bit down lately, and craving alcohol again, that really disappointed me, because I hear members at meeting share that they lost that urge quite quickly, every morning I wake up and ask my hp to keep me from a drink today, I do the same thing at night and sometimes I have to constantly kee...

Jerry F · Jerry F

Especially from the old timer but open to the whole group...Share with me your awarenesses and experiences with denial as you understand it. Please... Mahalo in advance.

Tomas · Tomas

After so many 24hrs... sober finding myself on a tropical Island on the Pacific side of Panama...my sobriety comes first with me its not about meetings but trying to practice the principles in all my affairs Crossed the Panama canal in my own boat...readying it to cross the Pacific to Australia 10,00...

runnergirl · runnergirl

I'm curious how you all differentiate between feelings of anxiety and a desire to consume alcohol. I have a LOT of anxiety right now about a long trip I'll be taking in January (without my family), worried that I'll miss them too much and vice versa. Anyway, I am also six days into a thirty day alcohol-fr...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . . work with other alcoholics. . . . It works when other activities fail. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 "Life will take on a new meaning," as the Big Book says (p. 89) This promise has helped me to avoid self-seeking and self-pity. To watch others grow in this wonderful program, to see them i...

jasperkent · jasperkent

Picked up my 90-Day chip today! Yay! Could never have done it alone. Love y'all. Glad yer here. Keep coming back.

soberjulie · soberjulie

I just finished watching a documentary on Mike Tyson. To be honest, I used to just think of that guy as a pig. After watching the documentary I see him as a tortured soul.....a guy who's made alot of mistakes and who's perception is way off kilter. He touched on his drug and alcohol abuse and how he has atte...

Jerry F · Jerry F

Thanks for the responses to "Reaching"...the problem is denial which has its roots firmly planted in my subconscious. I am being reminded of how I got here, what happened and what hasn't been done and why. I understand and need to understand more because of the current situation. So I...

foof · foof

Hey there! This is one of the most difficult posts I have ever made. I am a alcoholic and I am ashamed of it. I had my last drink on Thursday and I attended my first AA meeting Friday night. Today I woke up and soo desperatly wanted to run to the store but I didn't. I am a stay at home mom and once the kids left fo...

Glenns · Glenns

My Veteran's Administration psychologist is really pushing this thing in our group sessions. I urged her to read the Big Book and she gave me a blank stare. Kind of unusual for a PHd who's advanced in years...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Congratulations on TWENTY yrs 1Day@aTime, Dickson. (I can't count!) And a BIG BOARD WELCOME from all of us@MIP. It is great to have you here. I'm glad you posted in time for us to say Hi! & Well Done. Thank you for your sobriety. May it be a joy to all who know you too. Even if they don't know the secret of...

soberjulie · soberjulie

Hungry, angry, lonely, tired. I'm all of those things today. Ive eaten a handful of ritz crackers and some coffee. Not the wisest choice but I just dont feel energetic enough to make myself something. Angry....heck yeah! Hubby is working, yet again. Most days I am able to keep my hands off his program a...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked with you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 When I come into contact with a newcomer, do I have a tendency to look at him from my perceived angle of success...

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	Merry Christmas family! (Preview) They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...	mikef	7	852	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Holiday's (Preview) Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...	Toad	3	759	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Wish all of YOU, a very very Happy Holiday (Preview) Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...	Just Toni	5	864	Dec 23, 2009 by Mike B.
	Daily Reflections - The Rewards of Giving (Preview) This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...	Sobrietyspell	0	713	Dec 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Looking for friend of Matty K, NYC in the '80's (Preview) My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...	leeu	0	598	Dec 22, 2009 by leeu
	Is This It? (Preview) I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...	Thanks	11	1459	Dec 22, 2009 by Thanks
	3RD Times a Charm (Preview) This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...	Joseph	10	1166	Dec 22, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Back From Portland (Preview) Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...	angelov8	4	913	Dec 22, 2009 by Mike B.
	Thirty Four Years Sober Today ~ Dean's Mum!!! (Preview) Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...	Sobrietyspell	5	956	Dec 22, 2009 by Mike B.
	A angry AA person (Preview) Morning all....just wanted to throw something out there. I went to a meeting yesterday and as always loved being there with everyone and seeing the joy in the room. There is a guy who in the past has been very serious and doesn't like to see alot of happy, joyous and free at the meetings. After a few spe...	SUSIE	18	2016	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	pls read my story..... from a non alcoholic (Preview) hello- I KNOW THAT IM NOT IN THE RIGHT CHATROOM BUT I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY STORY. THIS IS IN HOPES THAT PEOPLE THINKING OR DEBATING TO PICK UP THAT FIRST OR EVEN THAT LAST DRINK. MY 31 YR OLD ABF PASSED AWAY THIS SUNDAY DUE TO COMPLICATIONS FROM ALCOHOL ABUSE. THIS WAS BECAUSE HE WASNT STRONG ENOUGH TO NO...	laynee	10	822	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	Sometime things just throw you for a loop (Preview) Since I finally decided to become sober and stay sober 01/15/08, I have had the best 2 years almost of my whole life it seems. Sure there were times in my life where I did not drink. I drank off and on just for fun in the beginning and settled down when I became pregnant and all was good for a while. I'm not sur...	Sacrifice	5	1091	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	Outpatient, inpatient, or "just" AA (Preview) I'm curious how many of you participated in a treatment program. After speaking with the alcohol counselor again, she recommends I do an outpatient program. (Keep in mind that she works for a treatment program and they recommend everyone that has a drinking problem participate in either an inpatie...	runnergirl	9	1637	Dec 22, 2009 by Bob K
	experinence cravings (Preview) I am sorry for the strange i guess post. i want some advice or people opinions please if someone had been drinking beer most of the day, not completely trashed or blacked out, just enough to be a tiny bit drunk. But drinking beers all day and then something happened to stop that consumption, and they felt...	slugcat	14	1038	Dec 22, 2009 by johnphilip19
	Daily Reflections ~ Principles, Not Personalities & 24hrs a Day (Preview) The way our "worthy" alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the "less worthy" is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found tha...	Sobrietyspell	0	718	Dec 21, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	- UnkaBud - 35 Years Sobriety Today! - 12.21.09 - (Preview) Congratulations, Buddy. I know there's a couple of hours to go at the time of this post but I'm going to bed & I was too excited for you not to post before I went! LOL I hope you'll stay & enjoy yourself with us awhile. Have a fantastic 24hrs. You've been sober longer than I've been alive. There's ho...	Sobrietyspell	7	794	Dec 21, 2009 by unkabud
	A Lifetime/An Hour - (post is long and contains redundancy and boredom) (Preview) We are all familiar with "One Day at a Time", the message of staying sober in small increments. I used to scoff at that and perhaps I will in an hour or so. I was pacing around my apartment earlier today giving myself a pep talk. I'm in that all-too familiar place of being between a drink and a lif...	Dodsworth	15	1119	Dec 21, 2009 by Dodsworth
	12th step visit from Santa (Preview) Passed on to me from grandsponsor...The blessing is I remember hearing this little poem last year. I think maybe on this board. T'was the night before Christmas When I went on a bender, Not a creature was stirring, not even a bartender. The empties were stacked by the chimney just fine, In hopes that S...	pinkchip	4	859	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	Holiday Amazement! - MIP Residents (Preview) Hello Fellow members! The outpouring of cards being sent to the MIP recovery homes, for the residents in them is absolutely amazing! The guys are so touched by what you have done. Every time I walk into one of the homes, someone pulls me aside to share one of the cards they have recieved. These are not...	John	1	721	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	Went to a party tonight... (Preview) and didn't drink, have a 'close call' or an overpowering urge. The one craving I had was when I went looking for a water glass and all the glasses were at the wine bar. The bottles of wine didn't jump out & bite my hand, although I was scared that they might. I did, however, burn a swath of merciless sn...	Aquaman	8	1026	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	old lesson revisited... (Preview) Aloha AA fellows and fellowettes...The consequence of practice in new found or in this case old found knowledge and awareness which is so supportive to ones recovery from the disease and its effects. I remember in early program reading from inside the ODAAT daily reader the wisdom of Dr. Harry Tie...	Jerry F	2	797	Dec 20, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections - Listen, Share & Pray + 24hrs a Day (Preview) When working with a man and his family, you should take care not to participate in their quarrels. You may spoil your chance of being helpful if you do. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 100 When trying to help a fellow alcoholic, I've given in to an impulse to give advice, and perhaps that's inevitable. But all...	Sobrietyspell	0	638	Dec 20, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Analyze THIS! (Preview) =========================================================My wife: Good night. Thank you for helping me get through it, even if it was in my own disfunctio...	FlyingSquirrel	19	1119	Dec 20, 2009 by StPeteDean
	New here (Preview) Hello and Happy Holiday's My name is Bud I'm an alcoholic in recovery. My sober date is 12/21/74 Someone ask me how I did it, I replied "Following instructions in the Big Book" and God's grace. It has been a wonderful way of life even with the bumps in the road. I sobered up in New Orleans the 1st...	unkabud	12	1437	Dec 19, 2009 by unkabud
	Hello all '' Happy Holidays '' (Preview) Hello Most Citys Have 24 hour AA Hotline services avil ,,,so instead of picking up a drink pick up the phone.. Happy Holidays Russell	BLUESMAN	4	652	Dec 19, 2009 by Aquaman
	Daily Reflections - Understanding the Malady + 24hrs a Day (Preview) When dealing with an alcoholic, there may be a natural annoyance that a man could be so weak, stupid and irresponsible. Even when you understand the malady better, you may feel this feeling rising. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 139 Having suffered from alcoholism, I should understand the illness, but s...	Sobrietyspell	0	682	Dec 19, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome aka "PAWS" (Preview) Fortunately, the last time I attempted to get sober, I came accross the book "Staying sober". It's a small paperback back and an easy read that discribribes the many obstacles and challenges we face on the road to recovery. One of the most challenging is PAWS or post acute withdrawal synd...	StPeteDean	2	7441	Dec 19, 2009 by StPeteDean
	PAWS (part two) Managing PAWS (Preview) From the Book "Staying Sober" PAWS (part two) Post Acute Withdrawl - (Part Two) PATTERNS OF POST ACUTE WITHDRAWALPost-acute withdrawal symptoms are not the same in everyone. They vary in how severe they are, how often they occur, and how long they last. Some people experience certain sy...	StPeteDean	6	2857	Dec 19, 2009 by StPeteDean
	PAWS (part three) spirituality (Preview) From the book "Staying sober" Post Acute Withdrawl (Part #3)SpiritualitySpirituality can be defined as "an active relationship with a power greater than yourself that gives your life meaning and purpose." When you work a spiritual program, you consciously, actively att...	StPeteDean	1	546	Dec 19, 2009 by StPeteDean
	help with out of town meetings in Portland, OR (Preview) I have to be away in Portland Sat. and Sun. to be of support for family during a surgery for my little cousin. I would like to go with a meeting schedule so I might use mapquest beforehand, as I might not have easy computer access then. I can't find the posts with phone numbers to help with meeting schedu...	angelov8	4	3330	Dec 18, 2009 by angelov8
	Having trouble making meetings. (Preview) I go to about 3 meetings per week. My sponser says I need to go to at least 5-6 at least in order to remain his sponsee. I'm starting to cop a little resentment at that because i'm starting to get the feeling that nothing I ever do is going to be good enough in his eyes. I've been sober since August 08 and whi...	SeanInBoca	8	909	Dec 18, 2009 by SeanInBoca
	Daily Reflections ~ Honesty With Newcomers & 24hrs a Day (Preview) Tell him exactly what happened to you. Stress the spiritual feature freely. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 93 The marvel of A.A. is that I tell only what happened to me. I don't waste time offering advice to potential newcomers, for if advice worked, nobody would get to A.A. All I have to do is show what has br...	Sobrietyspell	0	1609	Dec 17, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	cunning, baffling, powerful. (Preview) Alcohol is very tricky. I could have 5 beers and nothing would really happen besides being a little buzzed, or I could be totally smashed. It affects us differently on what we ate, how tired we are, etc. In my experience all it has done was lead to crazy behavior. Hanging out with people I would norm...	Kim Mc	7	1733	Dec 17, 2009 by Kim Mc
	Hi (Preview) Just droppin in to say hi I'm still here and sober, just dropping in to wish everyone well and sending a heart felt wishes for the holidays!!!!!! Merry Christmas and A Sober New Years to you and your families may the holidays be safe and the New Year Bring happiness. Bye for now and take care........... T...	Tina	8	865	Dec 17, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Think about it: This is why we always relapse!!! (Preview) And for us seasoned alcoholics, it happens every time! Do you guys remember when we first started drinking? Do you remember with great clarity the time you took your first drink? How it made you feel? That feeling of utter empowerment and euphoria that came along with the warmth in your tummy? Yes, I re...	Glenns	11	2404	Dec 17, 2009 by jasperkent
	Hello fellow AAs. (Preview) Hello family! I just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Sean and I am from Boca Raton. I have about a year and a few months sober and since I work a pretty hectic schedule (12-10pm) I don't have a whole lot of meetings I can make during the week. I am 25 years old, originally from Miami, FL. I've used a...	SeanInBoca	13	1004	Dec 17, 2009 by carlasober
	Feeling Feelings, (Preview) Howdy, Once the booze and dope was removed I started feeling, feelings. I felt so many new ones I did not even have a name for a lot of them. I got to be afraid of feeling my feelings. Booze and dope and lust and crime kept all those feelings buried. AS the steps removed the things I used to keep myself h...	Toad	9	1812	Dec 17, 2009 by jj
	Having a rough time but getting through (Preview) Hi All, Have been a bit down lately, and craving alcohol again, that really disappointed me, because I hear members at meeting share that they lost that urge quite quickly, every morning I wake up and ask my hp to keep me from a drink today, I do the same thing at night and sometimes I have to constantly kee...	newcomer	15	996	Dec 17, 2009 by pinkchip
	Reaching again... (Preview) Especially from the old timer but open to the whole group...Share with me your awarenesses and experiences with denial as you understand it. Please... Mahalo in advance.	Jerry F	9	1140	Dec 16, 2009 by jonijoni1
	Alive and well Coming up on my 36th Anniversary (Preview) After so many 24hrs... sober finding myself on a tropical Island on the Pacific side of Panama...my sobriety comes first with me its not about meetings but trying to practice the principles in all my affairs Crossed the Panama canal in my own boat...readying it to cross the Pacific to Australia 10,00...	Tomas	4	785	Dec 16, 2009 by jonijoni1
	Anxiety or Alcohol? (Preview) I'm curious how you all differentiate between feelings of anxiety and a desire to consume alcohol. I have a LOT of anxiety right now about a long trip I'll be taking in January (without my family), worried that I'll miss them too much and vice versa. Anyway, I am also six days into a thirty day alcohol-fr...	runnergirl	12	1322	Dec 16, 2009 by jonijoni1
	Daily Reflections ~ A Priceless Reward & 24hrs a Day (Preview) . . . . work with other alcoholics. . . . It works when other activities fail. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 89 "Life will take on a new meaning," as the Big Book says (p. 89) This promise has helped me to avoid self-seeking and self-pity. To watch others grow in this wonderful program, to see them i...	Sobrietyspell	0	597	Dec 16, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Picked up my 90-Day chip today! (Preview) Picked up my 90-Day chip today! Yay! Could never have done it alone. Love y'all. Glad yer here. Keep coming back.	jasperkent	17	1434	Dec 16, 2009 by Dodsworth
	Things that make me go "hmmmmmmm........." (Preview) I just finished watching a documentary on Mike Tyson. To be honest, I used to just think of that guy as a pig. After watching the documentary I see him as a tortured soul.....a guy who's made alot of mistakes and who's perception is way off kilter. He touched on his drug and alcohol abuse and how he has atte...	soberjulie	10	1008	Dec 16, 2009 by StPeteDean
	It's Denial (Preview) Thanks for the responses to "Reaching"...the problem is denial which has its roots firmly planted in my subconscious. I am being reminded of how I got here, what happened and what hasn't been done and why. I understand and need to understand more because of the current situation. So I...	Jerry F	5	1179	Dec 15, 2009 by lukin
	I am new (Preview) Hey there! This is one of the most difficult posts I have ever made. I am a alcoholic and I am ashamed of it. I had my last drink on Thursday and I attended my first AA meeting Friday night. Today I woke up and soo desperatly wanted to run to the store but I didn't. I am a stay at home mom and once the kids left fo...	foof	20	1182	Dec 15, 2009 by carlasober
	Smart Recovery: It doesn't work if you work it... (Preview) My Veteran's Administration psychologist is really pushing this thing in our group sessions. I urged her to read the Big Book and she gave me a blank stare. Kind of unusual for a PHd who's advanced in years...	Glenns	13	1451	Dec 15, 2009 by jonijoni1
	HAPPY TWENTY YEAR SOBERVERSARY, DICKSON! (Preview) Congratulations on TWENTY yrs 1Day@aTime, Dickson. (I can't count!) And a BIG BOARD WELCOME from all of us@MIP. It is great to have you here. I'm glad you posted in time for us to say Hi! & Well Done. Thank you for your sobriety. May it be a joy to all who know you too. Even if they don't know the secret of...	Sobrietyspell	7	1045	Dec 14, 2009 by Just Toni
	H.A.L.T (Preview) Hungry, angry, lonely, tired. I'm all of those things today. Ive eaten a handful of ritz crackers and some coffee. Not the wisest choice but I just dont feel energetic enough to make myself something. Angry....heck yeah! Hubby is working, yet again. Most days I am able to keep my hands off his program a...	soberjulie	4	855	Dec 14, 2009 by Aquaman
	Daily Reflections ~ Reaching Out & 24hrs a Day (Preview) Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked with you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 When I come into contact with a newcomer, do I have a tendency to look at him from my perceived angle of success...	Sobrietyspell	0	764	Dec 14, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
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