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Wishing everyone here a very Happy Valentine's Day
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Happy Love day everyone.... Hugs,Toni
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friends relapse
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i have a friend who has really been there for myself and my son, in times of trouble..my son has tried to committ suicide a year ago and was nearly successful, its been quite a journey getting him all hooked into mental health professionals ect. this guy gave me rides to the youth psych ward..came over wh...
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Encouraging members of opposite sex in A.A. / do my motives have to be pure as snow?
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I do my best to avoid members of the opposite sex in A.A. that I am attracted to, because I am trying to follow suggestions and don't trust myself to do the right thing. But something that happened yesterday made me question myself. Someone who came into the program around the same time as me (last April...
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Daily Reflections ~ Taking Action & 24hrs a Day
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Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us--sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 One of the most important things A.A. has given me, in addition to freedom from booze, is the ability...
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Made A Mistake!
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Don't know where else to go to confess this. I'm too ashamed to go to my AA group with this. They are all so proud of me. Today I started a week off vacation from work. I have 80 days of sobriety under my belt. Well, didn't I think that I could handle wine again!!! Just two glasses with dinner to celebra...
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An oldie but a goodie
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A recovered alcoholic was telling a friend that on awakening each morning he prays to God for another day of sobriety, and that each night before retiring he thanks God for having granted him a day of sobriety. "How do you know it was God who gave you the day of sobriety?" the friend asked. &qu...
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Question...
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How do some of ya'll feel after a meeting? I always feel emotionally drained (from all the intense listening, I guess), but mentally stimulated & at ease after a meeting. I like to follow a meeting with a quiet meditation to reflect on the gems of the meeting (A.K.A. 30-minut nap). Peace, Rob -- Ed...
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White Flag
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At one of the groups I belong to we study the 12 Traditions. It used to be just a step study group until one day I realized that the essays in my 12 and 12 on the steps were all highlighted and pages were torn and splattered with coffee rings, but the section on the traditions was completely unharmed. Of cou...
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Planning the Drink
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Hi...with all due respect, comments about all drinking being planned is a scientifically disproven old myth, based on the limitations of past knowledge. When alcoholism used to be viewed, mistakenly, as a psychological problem, the brain mechanisms were not yet sufficiently studied as to know...
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sober & separated
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Dang!! (Can ya tell I don't really wanna talk about it...just need some a virtual hugs!)
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Cause you'll listen
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This isn't a major concern, just a TGIF for me. The folks in town have been pounding lately(NOT ME Though, pounding the booze, or them pounding on me). Working in the restaurant has been fine while working the program and has also been helpful in a weird way. The way the bar is set up, we don't get many s...
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StPeteDean [asked] me to introduce myself
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Greetings, I am new to this site, but I have been sober a number of years. I cut my teeth on AA while in treatment. My story is not so remarkable in retrospect, but at the time I was terminally unique. I came by alcoholism quite honestly, another in a long line from each side of my family. Factor in some c...
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Simple and true
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I had heard this line before, but never in an AA meeting. At a meeting last night I heard a guy say "You gotta stand for something or else you'll fall for anything, and if you fall for anything, you won't make it" The way I thought of that was, 'is believing in a HP and in AA so bad? if I don't/can't/...
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Dodsworth
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please assure me that I'm not a lost cause
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I went to my fist AA meeting last Thursday. I found a group that really stresses that "god" is whatever we understand him to be, which is important to me because I am not a religious person. I have always viewed AA to be really religious-centric, which is a turn-off for me. I was scared to death...
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me!
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just so you know, the pic is of my son and myself at our local alano club. We both volunteer down there. my teenage son has been coming to meetings with me since he was a baby..he has had his own troubles and program has helped us both..now he quotes stuff at me and shocks the heck out of me at times!! out of the...
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cindy
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Career Suicide and the steps?
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If a person has no career aspirations, but yet still put's their foot in it, is it still career suicide? And more to the point, in the grand scheme of things, does it matter? I was at a whole team meeting at work on Thursday, in Birmingham. (West Midlands, UK, not Alabama). Around 200 of us, with some senio...
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Anybody see the recent article on Good Housekeeping?
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My friend told me about it, but I've yet to see it... I think it's about mommy-drunks. Anyway, curious what issue it's in... if you know, fill me in.
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I'm in trouble
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I have been sober for over a year, since then I have started smoking and overeating. At the beginning of my recovery I suffered depression and fatigue, this is still the case. I don't understand what is happening to me or what I can do
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Daily Reflections - We Can't Think Our Way Sober + 24hrs a Day
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To the intellectually self-sufficient man or woman, many A.A.'s can say, "Yes, we were like you--far too smart for our own good.... Secretly, we felt we could float above the rest of the folks on our brain power alone." AS BILL SEES IT, p. 60 Even the most brilliant mind is no defense against...
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Spoken word on the olympics...
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Not sure how I feel about this. (Need to add a bit of levity to my night...)
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I finally discovered how to drink like normal people!!!!!
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I just make sure there's no alcohol in my drinks! Gotcha!
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Public Information Service
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Aloha Family...anyone here done service in their district with Public Information? I need support, ESH, mentoring, sponsorship in this area. Yes I have asked locally and have hitched up with Literature and more and a live voice to listen to would also fill in the contrast. At your convenience and...
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When do you feel the "need" to go to a meeting?
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I planned on going to a meeting at noon. Not feeling the need for one. Now, after struggling trying to get the car out from under the snow, I'm stuck! I need to go to the store, etc & now I'm pi$$ed off at the world! Had to come back in & take a deep breath & accept that I get to sit at home all day...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Limits of Self-Reliance & 24hrs a Day
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We asked ourselves why we had them [fears]. Wasn't it because self-reliance failed us? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.68 All of my character defects separate me from God's will. When I ignore my association with Him I face the world and my alcoholism alone and must depend on self-reliance. I have never fou...
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I had a spiritual experience!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hey all. Gonna give you an update over the past few days. This is great! As you all know I was struggling. In a huge depression. Thursday night I had prayed to God to take me off this planet. I didn't care how, all I know is that I couldn't take this pain anymore and I didn't want to drink over it. Friday mornin...
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Ramblings from an admitted Neurotic
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This is a disease of the body and mind. It's a mental obsession + a physical addition that causes an allergic reaction. It's classified as a mental disorder and it's the only disease that tells you that you don't have one. I used to attend a very popular meeting in Va. affectionately called "...
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Daily Reflections - Getting The "Spiritual Angle" & 24hrs a Day
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How often do we sit in AA meetings and hear the speaker declare, "But I haven't yet got the spiritual angle." Prior to this statement, he had described a miracle of transformation which had occurred in him -- not only his release from alcohol, but a complete change in his whole attitude towa...
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Daily Reflections - I Don't Run The Show + 24hrs a Day
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When we became alcoholics, crushed by a self-imposed crisis we could not postpone or evade, we had to fearlessly face the proposition that either God is everything or else He is nothing. God either is, or He isn't. What was our choice to be? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.53 Today my choice is God. He is every...
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Well Informed or Mis-Informed
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I got a funny story for you. Well, it's got a message buried in it too. I been sober quite some time now. I used to know how many days but I stopped counting them. I still go to a fair number of meetings, but not because I need to. I go because the newcomer needs me to. There's this one group I go to, they meet 5 tim...
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New to the fourm
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Hey everyone my names Joe and i fear that i am an alcoholic. I first noticed this in high school when we would do the normal high school party thing . It started out just being friday and Saturday . Then grew quickly to Fri,Sat,Sun Then Fri,Sat,Sun,Mon and so on. But i realized that my friends and i wou...
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Feeling stressed
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Hi All, Have been getting a lot out of all the posts. Am a bit stressed over the last few days and have to practice handing it over. I am on step 4, but sometimes I vacillate between three and four. I am going through a lot of changes at the moment but am careful to listen to my HP as he guides me through some of th...
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Hi I'm new!
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Hi there, I am a newly signed up member and would really like to succeed in becoming sober. So far today I have not had a drink......a good start for me. Here's to another day of sobriety tomorrow. Here's to all of you who have succeeded.
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Doris
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This is February and today is the 8th
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and that means that 31 years ago both the Jekyll and the Hyde in me screamed "Enough, I'm done...sick and tired of being sick and tired" and the journey began. Every step and every minute has been a miracle for me...every bit of it HP directed, planned and desired. My HP didn't like what I had...
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Jerry F
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Alcohol withdrawal effecting my life - Help
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I stopped drinking alcohol 10 days ago, only drank 4-5 days a week 12 pack of beer for 9 months. I am under very bad stress, major financial problems, I have been having very bad anxiety, and panic attacks. How do I stop the anxiety, worry and panic attacks without drugs? What can I take naturally the wi...
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Its been a long time.
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Hello everybody. Well its been a long time since ive been here, too long in fact but im back to say hi and update you all on my life. Im still sober and have been for 3 years in December. I have been really really poorly, in and out of hospital and having tests done. I was diagnosed with lung disease in Dece...
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We are not saints...
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If we were, we would be playing in the superbowl today. Have a safe superbowl sunday everyone! Mark
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Great moments in sobriety
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I had one yesterday. Long story short, it's a friend at work's leaving drinks at a pub. I really wanted to go to this one to see this guy off: he really has been a good friend and colleague. I think that it ticked all the boxes in what the Big Book says about us going to drinking situations. So I went. I had a ton...
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Daily Reflections - Convincing "Mr Hyde" & 24hrs a Day
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Even then, as we hew away, peace and joy will still elude us. That's the place so many of us A.A. oldsters have come to. And it's a hell of a spot, literally. How shall our unconscious--from which so many of our fears, compulsions and phony aspirations still stream--be brought into line with what we actu...
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Is anyone else here from Oregon?
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If so where? Im in Newberg.
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A great passage...
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From the 1944 Witter Bynner translation, from Perigree Books, of the Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu, Chapter 10. Can you hold the door of your tent wide to the firmament? Can you, with the simple stature of a child, breathing nature, become notwithstanding, a man? Can you continue befriending with no prejud...
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Hey!
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I know I haven't posted in a while...Just want to stop by and say, I'm still here, still in the fight. I check the site often and learn alot. I just don't think my input will help much, I just feel so "negative." Anyway, my prayers are always with you!
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You know who you are... A simple Thank You.
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A few weeks back I asked the members of Miracles In Progress for financial help so the needs of the newcomer into the MIP Recovery Homes could be better met by Rose and I during such a trying economic time. I believe in accountability and transparency in such matters. To say the very least, I was absolut...
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AA Alanon Event
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If anyone from AA or Al-Anon happens to find themselves in Dartmouth, Nova Scotia with nothing to do on the weekend of Feb. 19-21, feel free to drop in to the Holiday Inn on Wyse Road for the 32nd annual midwinter roundup. Its gonna be a blast.
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This One's For Freddie
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This is a parable I heard once in a meeting. I have modified it slightly but I'm sure you've heard it before. One day I was walking along the beach. I saw an old man walking toward me. Every so often, he would kneel down, pick something up and study it for a moment. Then, he would either put it back on the beach...
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Getting out of a slump
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Hello my friends. It's been a while since I've really posted much, but I'm still around, lurking in the shadows. Things are going well for the most part, and I'm still enjoying my new sober life today. The past few days have been a little rough, and I was hoping to get some ESH from my friends here. Depr...
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Reffner
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Sponsorship in the Field of Alcoholism
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Without a sponsor, I doubt I ever would have recovered. I am equally as doubtful that my sobriety will continue if I do not sponsor others. After all, our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety. I have sponsored many alcoholics in the twelve years since I recovered...
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Wolfie
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Daily Reflections ~ A Path to Faith & 24hrs a Day
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True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was able to see my pas...
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My Enemy
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Greetings, Just for today it may bid me well not to be my own worst enemy. Ride Easy, Toad
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Struggling
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Hey all. Some serious stuff going on today with our friends on the board. I have to look back and remember all the pain and where everyone is at today. It wasn't that long ago that I could not stop drinking. Took divine intervention (going to jail) to stop me in my tracks. When I think about spiritual princ...
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On the lighter side...
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Most people, and the medical community agree that alcoholism is a disease...but people don't react to it like they do other diseases. You can call in to work after your vacation and say, "I got bit by a mosquito in Brazil and I got malaria. I won't be in to work for a few days," and your boss will...
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