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Still sober ~15 days
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Just checking in. Day 15 - ~10 meetings I've tried out some discussion groups, some open groups and a women's group. So far, I enjoy the discussion groups the most and the one women's meeting resulted in me getting pretty honest with myself for the first time. I'm not really enjoying the open meetings w...
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Senior member scared.
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I'm a senior member? WO! Cool! I feel so honored, but, how did I become one??? LOL And should I not be a Senorita??? Driving home tonight, on the slushy/snowy Wisconsin roads, I had a moment of sheer horror at all the awful things that I've done. My drinking days were loooong and plentiful. But...
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123 Days may not SEEM like much...
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But it's my longest HONEST stretch of sobriety in 32 years, the last 4 of which were in The Program. Thank You. All of You. You are blessings for which I am grateful. Best - Rob
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God Calling - Claim Your Rights
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"In everything by prayer and supplication let your requests be made known unto God." But do not beg. Rather come as a business manager bringing to the owner the needs, checks to be signed, and so on, and knowing that to lay the matter before him means immediate supply. I long to supply, but t...
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Eyes
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I read along time ago that the eyes are the window to the soul. -- Edited by chester on Tuesday 21st of February 2012 08:33:46 AM
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I drank. Yes I did. And I proved something to myself.
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Drinking sucks. Please take me back everyone... I can do this right. I know I can do this! I proved a very important thing to myself. AA is right for me. Drinking is very very wrong for me, and I don't even like it anymore! After being sober for a month and a half, it was pure misery to feel how I did on V-day and...
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Family History
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Hi everyone, I don't really know why I'm sharing this here, but it really means a lot to me so here I am. As many of you know I ran away from home at the age of 12 years old and didn't have any contact with family for over 20 years. When I reunited with family for the first time as a part of my recovery process, I d...
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AA Meeting
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I was going to attend my first meeting today at noon but I chickened out! My town is very small and I dont know what to expect from these meetings or if they expect me to say anything!
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Can we keep a "member" out?
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Weve had a guy coming to our meetings for years now who continually tells us that we are stuck with him. He tells people that the steps will get them drunk, no need to look at the past. He shares how he believes in willpower and positive thinking. He takes anti-depressants and sleeping medication. He nev...
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How/When/Why do I select a Home Group ?
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Hi All - I'm at 17 days sober and have attended meetings almost daily. I've been to 7 different groups so far and am liking some better than others. There is one group that I would not consider missing. It is a smaller, closed discussion group that meets once a week. I really like it - although I've only att...
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God Calling - Endure
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"Meet all your difficulties with love and laughter. I am with you. Do not fail Me. I cannot fail you. How many of the world's prayers have gone unanswered because My children who prayed did not endure to the end. They thought it was too late, and that they must act for themselves, that I was not g...
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Hello newbie
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Hey all. I am new to the board. Never knew it exsisted. So glad I found it. I am not new to AA. Been in and out of the Rooms since 2010. My new sobriety date is 2-10-12. Currently I am in IOP. (Instense Out Patient) treatment. I am learning indeed that this disease is progressive. Keep me in your prayers! Gla...
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God Calling - Let Me do it
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"Never miss these times. It is not what I reveal to you so much as the linking up of your frail natures with the limitless divine powers. Already, forces are set in motion. Only My will is coming to pass. And now God is blessing you very richly. You think that there is much to "do" in a c...
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New here....
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I don't know if this is even appropriate to post here, either it's gonna be totally frowned upon, or you guys will "get" it. I am not sober. I want to be, yet I am not...yet. So, Somehow I sort of always knew. (Sorry if that sounds totally cliche.) I mean even as a child, I think I knew what I would t...
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Daily Reflections ~ Our Paths Are Our Own & 24hrs a Day
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there was nothing left for us but to pick up the simple kit of spiritual tools laid at our feet. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 25 My first attempt at the Steps was one of obligation and necessity, which resulted in a deep feeling of discouragement in the face of all those adverbs: courageously; completely;...
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Please pray for me
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I am dealing with constant sounds in my head. They go on 24 hours a day, seven days a week. I also have disturbing dreams and horrible instrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are terrible things/visions you see in your mind or words that just pop into your head. I have never thought these things before...
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YoooHooo....
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Just popping in to say hello..... logging on from library as I just moved and internet not hooked up at home yet.... so glad I remembered login info!! LOL Talk to you all soon, gotta run for now.... :)
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Site is down....
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Our web site, 12stepforums.net is down for the time being, not long, but a short while. I am working diligently to get it back up and running asap. John
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Daily Reflections ~ Taking Action & 24hrs a Day
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Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among ussometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 One of the most important things A.A. has given me, in addition to freedom from booze, is the ability to...
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God Calling - In My Presence
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"You do not realize that you would have broken down under the weight of your cares but for the renewing time with Me. It is not what I say; it is I Myself. It is not the hearing Me so much as the being in My presence. Gradually you will be transformed, physically, mentally, spiritually. All who see...
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God Calling - Inspiration, Not Aspiration
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"The world does not need supermen, but supernatural men. Men who will persistently turn the self out of their lives and let divine power work through them. Let inspiration take the place of aspiration. I have always plenty of work to be done and always pay My workpeople well, as you will see, as...
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God Calling - Never Ruffled
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"Be still. Be calm. Wait before Me. Learn of patience, humility, peace. When will you be absolutely unruffled whatever happens? You are slow to learn your lesson. In the rush and work and worry, the very seeking a silence must help. In bustle so little is accomplished. You must learn to t...
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Second meeting today!
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Again everyone was very welcoming! One guy tried to invite me to the big table (I was sitting on the out skirts of the room) I told him maybe next week. lol. One of the ladies came and sat with me and asked me if I had the big book, I told her I didn't so she went and got one for me and told me that her and another wan...
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The Iron Lady
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Saw this movie the other days. It was pretty good. Interesting subject matter and Streep just doesn't do average performances. Anyway at one point Maggie was explaining her personal philosophy: Watch your thoughts because they become your words. Watch your words because they become your actions...
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Thank you members old and new.
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It's such a blessing to be on this forum. The recent posts by both our older members and especially our new ones has been such an inspiration to me personally. Thank you all. Alone I will perish no matter how long I am sober. God has been good to me by giving me the gift of you. I have been blessed just by the ho...
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how do online meetings work?
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i am new to this site. i'm trying to find out about the 9pm online meeting tonight. i can't bring up the info when i click on it. what about my paper that needs to be signed for court? i don't understand. please explain. help! thank you.
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Something Im seeing...
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Ive been sober for 69 days . Im starting to see something I havent seen in years and its something the promises state about gaining interest in our fellows. Im really noticing how good of a feeling it is to care for someone else or just want to brighten someones day which has really gotten me thinking a...
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Dead Parent Advice Please
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Saturday was my father's mother's 90th birthday. Everyone was there. All of my 7 surviving aunts and uncles, and their family. It was gigantic. For the begining, I was more distracted that I didn't know most of the people there, but then, my sister and I stood by the poster board of the pictures of my gra...
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Barisax and Flyn S. Happy Sobriety Birthday!
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I want to say "Congradulations" to Barisax and Flyn S. who both celebrated double decade sobriety birthdays this month. I wish you both many more sober 24 hours!
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John
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God Calling - Meet Me Everywhere
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"Life is really consciousness of Me. Have no fear. A very beautiful future lies before you. Let it be a new life, a new existence, in which in every single happening, event, plan you are conscious of Me. Get this ever-consciousness and you have eternal life. Be in all things led by the spirit of...
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When it gets Dark, AND IT WILL!!
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Hello and blessings of this day! Welcome to all newcomers, those just coming around and those just coming back, WE are glad your here. Welcome to those continuing their daily journey, a day at a time,working in the "solution". I am still in physical recovery from a long sickness(for me) bu...
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God Calling - Drop Your Crutch
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"Just go step by step. My will shall be revealed as you go. You will never cease to be thankful for this time when you felt at peace and trustful, and yet had no human security. When human support or material help is removed, My power can become operative. I cannot teach a man to walk who is trustin...
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The disease marches on!
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One of my friends who came into AA with me, lost his son. This child was in Alateen, spoke at conventions and an altar boy in church. Some one apparently spiked his drink at a club and he went into a coma and died. He was married with 3 children, one of whom is 5weeks old. This was a sad funeral to see a sober fat...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Root of Our Troubles & 24hrs a Day
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Selfishnessself-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of all our troubles. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 How amazing the revelation that the world, and everyone in it, can get along just fine with or without me. What a relief to know that people, places and things will be perfectly okay without my...
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Sometimes I have to remember The Beginning...
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This is the second half of my son's 8th grade year. He's 13. So was I, I think. It started when my cat got killed by a car outside the apartment and my sister, ten years older and broken inside, gave me a vodka & OJ to "make me feel better." It was Mother's Milk. I got drunk. I felt whole, and saf...
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Brand Spankin New, With a question.
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My question: I have an account on the NA message boards, just for support, a supplement. And now I have an account here. I think that the NA meets in my area are a joke, all about slap and tickle BS. I thought I could go to AA, they are more focused, and I don't mind not including drugs in the actual meeting. I w...
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AA Traditions
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I am very confused and a bit sad right now about something that is occuring in my home group and was hoping to get a little input from folks here. There is a male member who has been coming in & out of the hall I go to for the past year, about the same amount of time I have been going there. He identifies him...
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Whitney Houston Dead at 48
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Sad to think its most likely addiction related.. RIP
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4 months without a drop today!
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I am very grateful! Its amazing how good it gets... a bit scary but I am humble and grateful for this gift :)
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23 Years Today!
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Unfortunately didn't make it to a meeting - I'm in the hospital again. But grateful for 23, and being in generally good health in between kidney stones and complications thereof. Barisax
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Contempt Prior To Investigation
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Last night at a meeting I was asked to share. The topic was "Contempt prior to investigation". While others before shared I kept thinking about contempt of ethnic and minority groups, the OTHERS, not so much the concept as it applies to religious or spiritual concepts. It is so appropo...
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Rage while drunk
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Hello AA message board, I am a normal poster on the Alanon boards but thought I would jump over to get your insight. My husband is an alcoholic/addict, he is currently in the thros of his alcholosim. This has been a problem since our marriage (8 years ago). He drinks in secret, lately when he is drinking h...
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God Calling - The Voice Divine
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"The divine voice is not always expressed in words. It is made known as a heart-consciousness." 365 One-minute Meditations from God Calling
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30 awesome days today!
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Hi everyone, 30 days today for me; have had to do some hard praying this week to my HP due to some challenges; not so much that I wanted to drink but had some things come up that historically would have been an excuse to drink but kept reminding myself that a drink never fixes anything and the problem would s...
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The joy of the poorest in AA.
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I gave a lift back home to 3 members who came to the meeting in the back of a truck. They are 3 of the humblest people I had come into contact with. The one sister is 1 year sober and she lives in a shack. She has such a love for God and fellow members. She earns a living washing clothes for people. The one brother...
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God Calling - On Me Alone
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"I am your God, your supply. You must rely on Me. Trust to the last uttermost limit. You must depend on divine power only. I have not forgotten you. Your help is coming. You shall know and realize My power. Endurance is faith tried almost to the breaking point. You must wait and trust and hop...
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New here
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Hi, My name is Melissa. I joined 3 days ago and have just been lurking. I have been with my husband for 23 years, we have 2 beautiful girls. I started drinking beer about 6 years ago. It then progressed to tequila and wine and a few other things. My mom passed away about a year and a half ago and I have been drin...
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God Calling - Another Start
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"Take courage. Start a new life tomorrow. Put the old mistakes away. I give you a fresh start. If My forgiveness were for the righteous only, where would be its need? Why do you fret and worry so? I wait to give you all that is lovely, but your lives are soiled with worry and fret. I can only bles...
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AA Meeting/ Chat room
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I have tried several attempts to sign into the chat room here on this board and it says I am not registered. Do I need to sign up a new account for the chat here at MIP?
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Daily Reflections ~ A Path to Faith & 24hrs a Day
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True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was able to see my pas...
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