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hey im new
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hey all im new here and just needed to vent i guess so here is my story and i guess i am looking for someone that has been in the place i am right now just to share some words on what helped them if that makes sense so to be 100% honest i am i guess a mean drunk ( never to my wife or kids ) just people around me i gues...
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Jealousy: character defect - need help
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Need help.../ advice/// reached out to a few ppl I know, not had any response A sponsee of mine and my boyfriend are becoming very friendly. (he's also AA, been around for a while but very much a newcomer) My jealousy is consuming me///// I think boundaries are being crossed and their friendship is not a...
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Grapevine
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September 10 "We who live in the haven of AA cling together with an intensity of purpose which the outside world seldom comprehends. The anarchy of the individual melts away. Self-love subsides and democracy becomes a reality. We begin to know true freedom of the spirit."
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Today's Gift
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Real love pours itself out upon the object of its affection, without demanding any return. --Florence Scovel Shinn Loving another wholly, purely, with no strings attached promises ecstasy, and yet seldom do we dare chance it. Often we want the promise of love in return if we're to offer it. Our fragi...
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Grapevine
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September 9 "When I'm willing to pay the price for top-shelf sobriety, 'action' is still the magic word."
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I am not a nice person
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So , I came up with the brilliant idea to quit smoking 3 weeks ago. I wonder now if this was a mistake LOL. I am irritable, depressed, anxious, resentful, angry, bitter, lonely... Pretty much runs the gamut of emotions associated with withdrawals. My maturity level has dropped down to about the age of 4...
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Sunrise Quote
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"A true commitment is a heart-felt promise to yourself from which you will not back down." - David McNally
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Well Lance Armstrong, Bradley Wiggins et all don't have anything to worry about.........................this year!
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US alcoholics tend to have really good ideas and tend to act on impulse. April this year I had a really good idea - I bought a pedal cycle. First couple trips out less than 2 miles each, ended with me vomiting by the side of the road. But I perservered, because I wanted one day to go to a meeting on my pushie. In...
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Boy meets girl...
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Boy meets girl on AA campus is a analogy in the AA Big Book, which points out that rarely does early recovery love relationships work out... here is why, I call it my version of Step 13.Boy; "She looked at me from across the hallway before the meetings started, I think she wants my body!"Friend; "have you...
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The untamable tongue
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Good morning and blessings of this day! I must have missed something here in the communications of this forum(I come here often) but reading through the posts this reminds me of one of my favorite spiritual readings. For me, one who in the past, could not utter a sentence without an expletive or som...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Wanting something is not enough. You must hunger for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way." - Les Brown
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Recovery Day
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In many parts of Canada, cities have proclaimed September 8th to be Recovery Day and hold big rallies. This is I believe the second year of this movement: http://www.recoveryday.ca/ Happy Recovery Day, everyone!
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RubyTues
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Don't Forget About the Traditions... Tradition 1...
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I posted this in a response and just thought I'd share it as a new topic. Sometimes we get so caught up in the Steps we don't remember the Traditions. Tradition One- Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity. To me this tradition is very important in that "P...
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The many different parts of this program
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I didn't go to a meeting for a couple of weeks. Almost three weeks, truth be told. It was a combination of an extremely busy time (I know, who isn't busy), a couple of illnesses, and some travel. I went to a meeting tonight and it was - of course - exactly where I needed to be. I shared, I met some great new peop...
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Today's Gift
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A.A. Thought for the DayLet us consider the term "spiritual experience" as given in Appendix II of the Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous. A spiritual experience is something that brings about a personality change. By surrendering our lives to God as we understand Him, we are changed. The...
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It's a new day!!!
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Friday, September 6, 2013You are reading from the book Today's GiftI never lose sight of the fact that just being is fun. Katharine Hepburn The first good news each day is that we wake up. We are breathing. Our hearts are beating, our minds working. The adventure of living begins. What does the day hol...
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Want a Little Humor to Start Your Day ???
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Subject: Lance Armstong Its terrible and disgusting how everyone has treated Lance Armstrong, especially after what he achieved, winning seven Tour de France races while on drugs. When I was on drugs, I couldn't even find my bike." ...
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Sunrise Quote
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"If you limit your actions in life to things that nobody could possibly find fault with, you will not do much." - Charles Dodson
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Sunrise Quote
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"When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable." - Walt Disney
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Today's Gift
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Complacency breeds old behavior and unnecessary problems."The Promises," as suggested in the Big Book, clearly indicate that we have work to do if we want the rewards that are guaranteed in this program of recovery. Getting complacent, not using the tools that the program has taught us...
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Why We Were Chosen
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Why We Were ChosenGod in His wisdom selected this group of men and women to be purveyors of His goodness. In selecting them through whom to bring about this phenomenon He went not to the proud, the mighty, the famous or the brilliant. He went instead to the humble, to the sick, to the unfortunate. H...
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Spiritual Tooth Brushing
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I woke up this morning feeling like crap because last night I wanted a beer so bad that I actually fantasized about walking to the store, buying one, and savoring it in the bathroom in secret. It was totally absurd and unacceptable. I got up, started reading the literature, and spent a good amount of tim...
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Today's Gift --- This one is exceptional, don't miss it!
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As we think, so we become. We can enrich our interior monologue. We can seek the company of people who inspire us with a loving approach to life. We can absorb the written thoughts of writers who encourage our positive emotions. We can decide to be cheerful and optimistic, just for today. Whom would yo...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Friends are essential to success; they are still more essential to happiness. To establish place, power, honor and happiness, begin by assiduously and unselfishly winning friends.." - B.C. Forbes
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Being Creative
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I run a lot of business ads on Craigslist, Ebay and a few other directories on the internet. They don't cost anything, and keep my business out there for people to see. I actually get about 70% of my work this way. Pressure Washing and Painting is not something homeowners do very often. Pressure Was...
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One requirement? List of "must" in the the big book.
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Must, strongly suggest, had to, requirement, you'd better... The list could go on. The only requirement to join membership is a desire to stop drinking. But is that all I want? What if I want to join the thousands of men and women who have recovered? I hear there are no rules, no musts, noting excep...
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I Just Learned a New Word --- (humor)
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I love this new word - I even like pronouncing it!!!
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Forgiving of one self
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24 years last week and for the pass 4 years I been engaged in alcoholic behavior the (ism) lying, cheating not being honest . This is all passed me now and I have made some amends the problem is forgiving myself it was hard to see how easy it was for me to be that addict again without alcohol or drugs. what w...
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Still Here
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Hi all. I just wanted to put a note out there saying that I'm still here and very actively reading posts on a regular basis. I've been largely absent because I started a new job and moved six weeks ago, and since then life has been a whirlwind of transitioning. I'm enjoying it very much, but transitions ar...
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RIP Tipsy McStagger
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I hope that you all will forgive my years dickish behavior and let me try to make a fresh start.I don't know for certian that I wont slip up and act like a jerkoff again but I do know that if I do you won't let me get away with it.I need that :) Peace.
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Advice appreciated.
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Hello I wonder if I could get some clarification and advice about AA? I've been going AA for just over 3 months and today is my 87th day without a drink. I'm working on step 4 at the moment. My problem is that my sponsor is doubting my commitment to the programme and is making me feel like I'm not doing enoug...
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Not worth it
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Seems I've veered away from the most important people in 'the room' and become focused on myself again when will I ever learn? There are some brand new posters here to MIP! Brand newbies to AA too. You are the most important to us. If you are new here to this forum, please excuse our recent rants. T...
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justadrunk
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Grapevine
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September 6 "I felt myself move with a new power, courage, and faith that, by the grace of God, I have acquired as a result of working the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous."
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how do you decide your "sobriety date"?
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is it from your last drink? over time i have seen every kind of addiction you can imagine in the "rooms", putting down the drink is not enough for a lot of us. however i know that denial runs deep and it can take awhile to see a problem in our lives whether it is gambling, sex, prescription drug...
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Advice on Withdrawal?
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Hi guys, I don't know if I'm in the correct forum, I see so many different threads on here, but I figured I would give this a try anyway. I'm a man in my early thirties, and I have been drinking(but not actually getting drunk all the time) on a daily basis for six years. The reasons for why I wanted to give up...
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??? athiest , serenity prayer ???
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You should accept the things you can't change You should change the things you can't accept Th tricky bit Knowing which is which stolen from "Baby John"(th original 11 10 Men)
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Today's Gift
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Sometimes a majority simply means that all the fools are on the same side. --Claude McDonald If we're to stay straight, we have to be prepared for peer pressure. If anyone tries to get us to use or do what we know is wrong, we have to be prepared. Whether we're prepared to walk away, say "No thanks,&q...
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Grapevine
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September 5 "My Higher Power works incognito, defying definition and requiring faith."
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A stop along the way.....
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AA has led me on a spiritual journey, in search of a greater understanding of who I am and what my core values and beliefs are. Currently I am reading a book entitled "My Spiritual Journey", by the Dalai Lama. All of my life I've heard and read many of his quotes and affirmations, and when I saw t...
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You are where you are suppose to be.
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I use the line "you are where you're suppose to be" ALL. THE. TIME. It's my self talk - it's the talk I say out loud. It's my faith. My dear friend who is brilliant, and one I've known since my freshman year in college - is now a doctor and is terribly ripped apart these days with PTSD, and nearly s...
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Sunrise Quote
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"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it's about learning to dance in the rain." - Vivian Greene
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Why bad things happen to good people - an opinion
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I certainly wouldn't expect anyone else to find this to be their truth as well; in fact, I'd be quite surprised if anyone did. There has been conversation recently, not for the first time I'm sure, about why 'God' allows bad things to happen to good people. Pappy had explained his view within the thread...
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A FINE LINE BETWEEN ACCEPTANCE AND DENIAL
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It's a well known fact that I'm a bit slow on the uptake, but I've never understood that passage in the stories section of the big book where "acceptance is the answer to all my problems..everything is as its supposed to be" I shudder when I hear it and I guess that's because I have only ever hea...
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Today's Gift
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We are giving birth to ourselves. Let's be midwives to one another through this difficult, yet exhilarating, process. --Dudley Martineau Helping each other survive the traumas of our lives strengthens us. We can't be overwhelmed by any experience if we rely on each other for support as we walk thro...
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Diana Nyad Never Gives Up
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http://www.foxnews.com/world/2013/09/01/us-swimmer-nyad-looking-very-good-after-...
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Eyup, s'meeeeee
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Thought I'd better check in - been a bit busy, moved house, joined the property owning classes again - at my age! It's been stressful - broadband was down for two weeks - I've had a joiner working for me for a couple of weeks. Although I could do it myself, it's more efficient to get someone in who does this f...
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Grapevine
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September 4 "AA is spiritual, is the eye of the hurricane, is my refuge and my comfort."
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Mike B.
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More About Alcholism
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Here's an interesting WaPa article I came across about alcoholism in America. The magnitude of the problem is enormous (behind only smoking and obesity in life-threatening consequences).But science is making some strides in addressing the problem, both in concert with AA and separate from. Of p...
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Layers of sanity - The Flapjack Syndrome
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Good Morning! A few recent posts here and events at work and home got me thinking. It feels to me like this new life, with my Higher Power and step guide for living, comes in layers. baby steps at work, gradual moves up, all with AA principles providing the power for them better relationships with wife, d...
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Today's Gift
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A problem well stated is a problem half solved. --Charles F. Kettering Denial never really goes away, it creeps into everyone's life. We may admit we're powerless over alcohol and drugs but still believe it was the school's fault that we were suspended. Denial is especially dangerous for us, becaus...
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