Alcoholics Anonymous

Robert · Robert

just checking in, having a fun evening in just me and the dog! nice to know im not one of them active drunks who are being rowdy on the bank holiday weekend.

Quetzal · Quetzal

Take time every day to do something silly. -- Philipa Walker Spring fever may bring out our longings and our sense of unfilled needs for attention, play, or laughter. We may be afraid to express these needs because they are not often taken seriously, but thought of as childish. We may even be afraid our...

Fear · Fear

We are attempting to publish a book on how people like you have walked through your wall of fear and what you found on the other side. Our wish is to inspire people to look beyond their paralyzing fears (Divorce, Financial, Health, Children, etc) with your help. So if you have an inspiring short story an...

Quetzal · Quetzal

When we do not know which way to turn, let us not be too proud to ask for directions. We have found our way to a program, which can guide us out of the confusion and into an ordered, satisfying way of life. In our program, there are people who can give us the directions we need, if we will ask for help. There is m...

ally02 · ally02

((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))) Since the MIP athon, I have been reading all your posts... I am Not a Recovering Alcoholic....I am in Al-Anon Recovery programme... And I must confess... You lot crack me up....lol I have sat reading all these tonight and you are all nuts.(lmao).... I am Scottish...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ All alcoholics have personality problems. They drink to escape from life, to counteract feelings of loneliness or inferiority, or because of some emotional conflict within them, so that they cannot adjust themselves to life. Alcoholics cannot stop drinking unless they find...

Doll · Doll

A LIFETIME PROCESS We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn't control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn't make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem to be of real help to other peop...

Quetzal · Quetzal

How sick and tired we may become of people telling us to be patient or to learn patience. How frustrating it can be to want to finally have something, or to move forward, and then not have that happen. How irritating to have someone tell us to wait while our needs have not been met and were in the midst of anx...

miller2 · miller2

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Bryan39 · Bryan39

I intend to ask my doctor about this but thats a week or two away so i just wanted to know are mood swings normal I go from happier than i've been in years to sad to nervous to craving with reallly no reason or warning don't get me wrong much of the time i feel good then are thos other times

Doll · Doll

TRUE BROTHERHOOD We have not once sought to be one in a family, to be a friend among friends, to be a worker among workers, to be a useful member of society. Always we tried to struggle to the top of the heap, or to hide underneath it. This self-centered behavior blocked a partnership relation with any one...

LisaF · LisaF

"He has a positive genius for getting tight at exactly the wrong moment, particularly when some important decision must be made or engagement kept." Man arrives at DUI hearing drunk

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People often ask what makes the A.A. program work. One of the answers is that A.A. works because it gets people away from themselves as the center of the universe. And it teaches them to rely more on the fellowship of others and on strength from God. Forgetting ourselves in fell...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Detachment is a key to recovery from codependency. It strengthens our healthy relationships - the ones that we want to grow and flourish. It benefits our difficult relationships - the ones that are teaching us to cope. It helps us! Detachment is not something we do once. It's a daily behavior in recov...

LisaF · LisaF

Thought I'd post some pics of green acres... haha... here's our critters, and our old farmhouse... Our old farmhouse... it's not much... lol 100 years old... only 3 main rooms, well, there's a bedroom upstairs but the roof needs to be fixed and stuff before we could use it... lol Chickies... walked ou...

Wren · Wren

April 4, 2007 Redefining Your Priorities Your Last Breath Procrastination is an almost universal human habit and one that infiltrates nearly every aspect of our lives. Modern existence is so complex, and much of what we long to do is left to wait by the side. We know what is important but tend to let the...

ShelBell · ShelBell

Hi all I usually post on the Alanon board, but have a question that I think can be better answered by AA folks. I understand from step 9 that not all amends should be completely direct and honest, and it specifically says especially where a third party is involved. So my struggle is regarding an affair t...

miller2 · miller2

I do some writing now and then. I have a piece I wrote a few weeks back about the life of an alcoholic and recovery. Its rather lengthy, but if anyone wants to read it, Ill post it.

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ When I came into A.A., I found men and women who had been through the same things I had been through. But now they were thinking more about how they could help others than they were about themselves. They were a lot more unselfish than I ever was. By coming to meetings and associating w...

Doll · Doll

CRYING FOR THE MOON "This very real feeling of inferiority is magnified by his childish sensitivity and it is this state of affairs which generates in him that insatiable, abnormal craving for self-approval and success in the eyes of the world. Still a child, he cries for the moon. And the moon,...

Phil · Phil

The ability to allow people, places, or things the freedom to be themselves. Holding back from the need to rescue, save, or fix another person from being sick, dysfunctional, or irrational. Giving another person "the space'' to be him or herself. Disengaging from an over-enmeshed or depend...

destinydreamer · destinydreamer

hi SJ... i just saw you wrote on a different post and you are new here... I am sure everyone agrees that only you can determine if you are an alcoholic and I am glad you are recognizing that you may have a problem... welcome and i hope you keep posting!!!

Wren · Wren

"The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones." -- William Faulkner Longing for a miracle that will transform your life? Miracles happen, and if we dont want that magic to disappear on us, we need to learn from each epiphany -- to integrate it, apply it, and build on it...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ When I was drinking, I was absolutely selfish, I thought of myself first, last, and always. The universe revolved around me at the center. When I woke up in the morning with a hangover, my only thought was how terrible I felt and about what I could do to make myself feel better. And the...

miller2 · miller2

Hello again... I visited here a while ago when I first got sober ( well actually, a LONG while ago)... I just picked up my two year medallion Thursday. What an amazing journey it has been. Without the program and AA, I would not be here to visit this board again. Im sure for those also in the program, I don...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace. -- Amelia Earhart We have learned from experience that a wave of peacefulness washes over us after we have successfully finished a task that was difficult to face. Courage has its reward. However, from time to time, and from task to task, we fin...

Doll · Doll

ACCEPTING OUR HUMANNESS We finally saw that the inventory should be ours, not the other man's. So we admitted our wrongs honestly and became willing to set these matters straight. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 222 Why is it that the alcoholic is so unwilling to accept responsibility? I used to drink because of th...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Nobody can change my thoughts but me. The first of the Twelve Steps asks us to admit we are powerless. Our first question might be, why? Shouldn't we try to change the conditions in our lives? Shouldn't we try to influence others to change too? If we put ourselves in good hands in this fellowship, we will...

Doll · Doll

CHARACTER BUILDING Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion.... TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 44 When I uncovered my need for approval in the Fourth Step, I didn't think it should rank as a character defect. I wante...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving towards my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? D...

destinydreamer · destinydreamer

So I met a nice woman about a week and a half ago and we talked for awhile after the meeting... she answered some questions I had and gave me her number. She mentioned that she would be a temporary sponsor for me - but that was it. I didn't respond to that comment and we just kept talking. I know that you can cal...

Tina · Tina

I know it's been a few days since my last post, just lettin the process sink in and letting things go and puttin my son in god's hands. He is adjustin well, to the livin in toronto and kept in contact with him. He has made some progress and improvements and I'm glad that there is a chance of him becoming a bet...

Wren · Wren

"The first and worst of all frauds is to cheat one's self." -- Phillip James Bailey Are you hiding in some way from your own inner light? I wouldnt dream of stealing things but I do steal from my own potential. I can be a master at rationalizing, at justifying why its not the right time to do so...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experiment. It is...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Forgiveness is all-powerful. Forgiveness heals all ills. -- Catherine Ponder Getting mad at someone, a friend perhaps, is normal. Everybody gets mad sometimes. But when we stay mad for very long, it ruins all the fun we'd planned on having throughout the day. Staying mad multiplies. Sometimes it s...

LisaF · LisaF

Hey everyone... well... seeing a new doctor on Tuesday, thankfully it's a lot closer than driving into Lincoln... still in quite a bit of pain... at times my back seems to be a little better, then it gets worse again. And it's always worse at night, sharp pains and twinges. Been taking the Aleve as presc...

Doll · Doll

For my ex husband.......I had such hi hopes that court appointed AA would somehow get into his head. Instead, he spent his time there sharing about OUR DRINKING DAYS TOGETHER and all the fun we had (what he didn't mention was how MOST of those days turned into knock down drag out fights) - I had to stop g...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

Is it common to lose most of ones old friends. One friend clearly doesn't get why I'm doing this he was heavy drinker and he was able to walk away from it, I lied even to my former and current drinking budies about the extent of my drinking and he believes my lies over the truth even now . another friend w...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

There is some great info here I found some a little while ago I that I didn't even know I needed. I was craving something I was very antsy, I couldn't decide if it was a liquor craving or even a cigarette craving ( I quit those a couple months ago) or what. Its a rainy saturday where I'm at so I was reading pos...

Phil · Phil

by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001(originally published at BodyTalk Magazine.com, Aug. 2001) Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other peoples needs before...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I don't always get to know why. I may find myself caught up in wondering why something happened while asking myself, "What did I do wrong?" or "Why did this happen to me?" If the situation is something I can change, I can plan how to change it. I can look at my options or ask someone el...

ally02 · ally02

((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))))) I have a question for you. been to an AA meeting the last two weeks. It is NOT a closed meeting. And I have been welcomed by every member I have spoken to. Given hugs and shaking hands. This has been good for my recovery. Listening to the shares has helped me to unders...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics Anonymous Accepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn&...

Doll · Doll

NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], "Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

This is day 6 of sobriety for me . I've been to a meeting every day since monday and I already feel my life changing I have hope again and I love it. I like message boards I knew there had to be some like this and I'm glad to have found it

Tina · Tina

Put up a few posts in regards to my situation with my son, and well he seems to be adjusting well and gettin on his feet. Just one thing that concerns me a little bit, Yes he has lost considerably amount of weight and well didn't look to good when he left. Spoke to him tonite and he seem a little excited...

Doll · Doll

OUR GROUP CONSCIENCE ". . . sometimes the good is the enemy of the best." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p. 101 I think these words apply to every area of A.A.'s Three Legacies: Recovery, Unity and Service! I want them etched in my mind and life as I "trudge the Road of Happy Destiny&...

Moon · Moon

So I'm very interested in "hearing" your replys. When or do you tell people you're an alcoholic even if it's a recovering or non-drinking alcoholic. When I get offered a drink at a social function and I say "NO". People look at me weird. I mean it would be much easier to take a...

TLH · TLH

Hi there! Been busy working, writing, etc... But just wanted to pop in and share something. Things are good, totally cool with being the sober guy. Eating a lot of cookies and milk, reading a ton. Going to meetings, etc... Haven't got a sponsor yet because I'm being my usual remedial self, but...

abcd · abcd

I haven't completely quit yet, but cut down drastically since last week and my blood pressure has gone up. Is this common should I be worried?

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	hiya (Preview) just checking in, having a fun evening in just me and the dog! nice to know im not one of them active drunks who are being rowdy on the bank holiday weekend.	Robert	2	354	Apr 7, 2007 by destinydreamer
	Unfilled Needs (Preview) Take time every day to do something silly. -- Philipa Walker Spring fever may bring out our longings and our sense of unfilled needs for attention, play, or laughter. We may be afraid to express these needs because they are not often taken seriously, but thought of as childish. We may even be afraid our...	Quetzal	0	419	Apr 7, 2007 by Quetzal
	Walk of Fear (Preview) We are attempting to publish a book on how people like you have walked through your wall of fear and what you found on the other side. Our wish is to inspire people to look beyond their paralyzing fears (Divorce, Financial, Health, Children, etc) with your help. So if you have an inspiring short story an...	Fear	0	345	Apr 7, 2007 by Fear
	Asking Directions (Preview) When we do not know which way to turn, let us not be too proud to ask for directions. We have found our way to a program, which can guide us out of the confusion and into an ordered, satisfying way of life. In our program, there are people who can give us the directions we need, if we will ask for help. There is m...	Quetzal	3	341	Apr 6, 2007 by Eddie
	LAUGHTER IS A SIGN OF RECOVERY (Preview) ((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))) Since the MIP athon, I have been reading all your posts... I am Not a Recovering Alcoholic....I am in Al-Anon Recovery programme... And I must confess... You lot crack me up....lol I have sat reading all these tonight and you are all nuts.(lmao).... I am Scottish...	ally02	7	368	Apr 6, 2007 by ally02
	24 Hours a Day ~ 6th April 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ All alcoholics have personality problems. They drink to escape from life, to counteract feelings of loneliness or inferiority, or because of some emotional conflict within them, so that they cannot adjust themselves to life. Alcoholics cannot stop drinking unless they find...	Sobrietyspell	0	402	Apr 6, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Apr 6 (Preview) A LIFETIME PROCESS We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn't control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn't make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem to be of real help to other peop...	Doll	0	304	Apr 6, 2007 by Doll
	Patience (Preview) How sick and tired we may become of people telling us to be patient or to learn patience. How frustrating it can be to want to finally have something, or to move forward, and then not have that happen. How irritating to have someone tell us to wait while our needs have not been met and were in the midst of anx...	Quetzal	0	314	Apr 6, 2007 by Quetzal
	A Prayer (Preview) **************************************************************	miller2	0	345	Apr 5, 2007 by miller2
	mood swings (Preview) I intend to ask my doctor about this but thats a week or two away so i just wanted to know are mood swings normal I go from happier than i've been in years to sad to nervous to craving with reallly no reason or warning don't get me wrong much of the time i feel good then are thos other times	Bryan39	9	1626	Apr 5, 2007 by Roderick
	Daily Reflections Apr 5 (Preview) TRUE BROTHERHOOD We have not once sought to be one in a family, to be a friend among friends, to be a worker among workers, to be a useful member of society. Always we tried to struggle to the top of the heap, or to hide underneath it. This self-centered behavior blocked a partnership relation with any one...	Doll	3	322	Apr 5, 2007 by Phil
	But what about the real alcoholic? (Preview) "He has a positive genius for getting tight at exactly the wrong moment, particularly when some important decision must be made or engagement kept." Man arrives at DUI hearing drunk	LisaF	6	768	Apr 5, 2007 by Moon
	24 Hours a Day ~ 5th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People often ask what makes the A.A. program work. One of the answers is that A.A. works because it gets people away from themselves as the center of the universe. And it teaches them to rely more on the fellowship of others and on strength from God. Forgetting ourselves in fell...	Sobrietyspell	0	447	Apr 5, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Detaching in Love (Preview) Detachment is a key to recovery from codependency. It strengthens our healthy relationships - the ones that we want to grow and flourish. It benefits our difficult relationships - the ones that are teaching us to cope. It helps us! Detachment is not something we do once. It's a daily behavior in recov...	Quetzal	1	373	Apr 5, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Pics... Off topic... just wanted to share :) (Preview) Thought I'd post some pics of green acres... haha... here's our critters, and our old farmhouse... Our old farmhouse... it's not much... lol 100 years old... only 3 main rooms, well, there's a bedroom upstairs but the roof needs to be fixed and stuff before we could use it... lol Chickies... walked ou...	LisaF	13	553	Apr 5, 2007 by Laura
	Priorities (Preview) April 4, 2007 Redefining Your Priorities Your Last Breath Procrastination is an almost universal human habit and one that infiltrates nearly every aspect of our lives. Modern existence is so complex, and much of what we long to do is left to wait by the side. We know what is important but tend to let the...	Wren	2	336	Apr 5, 2007 by timverton
	Step 9 question (Preview) Hi all I usually post on the Alanon board, but have a question that I think can be better answered by AA folks. I understand from step 9 that not all amends should be completely direct and honest, and it specifically says especially where a third party is involved. So my struggle is regarding an affair t...	ShelBell	3	569	Apr 4, 2007 by miller2
	writing (Preview) I do some writing now and then. I have a piece I wrote a few weeks back about the life of an alcoholic and recovery. Its rather lengthy, but if anyone wants to read it, Ill post it.	miller2	14	441	Apr 4, 2007 by miller2
	24 Hours a Day ~ 4th April 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ When I came into A.A., I found men and women who had been through the same things I had been through. But now they were thinking more about how they could help others than they were about themselves. They were a lot more unselfish than I ever was. By coming to meetings and associating w...	Sobrietyspell	0	341	Apr 4, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Apr 4 (Preview) CRYING FOR THE MOON "This very real feeling of inferiority is magnified by his childish sensitivity and it is this state of affairs which generates in him that insatiable, abnormal craving for self-approval and success in the eyes of the world. Still a child, he cries for the moon. And the moon,...	Doll	0	308	Apr 4, 2007 by Doll
	What Is Detatchment? (Preview) The ability to allow people, places, or things the freedom to be themselves. Holding back from the need to rescue, save, or fix another person from being sick, dysfunctional, or irrational. Giving another person "the space'' to be him or herself. Disengaging from an over-enmeshed or depend...	Phil	2	404	Apr 4, 2007 by Laura
	hi SJ (Preview) hi SJ... i just saw you wrote on a different post and you are new here... I am sure everyone agrees that only you can determine if you are an alcoholic and I am glad you are recognizing that you may have a problem... welcome and i hope you keep posting!!!	destinydreamer	4	341	Apr 4, 2007 by Laura
	Transformation (Preview) "The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones." -- William Faulkner Longing for a miracle that will transform your life? Miracles happen, and if we dont want that magic to disappear on us, we need to learn from each epiphany -- to integrate it, apply it, and build on it...	Wren	0	322	Apr 4, 2007 by Wren
	24 Hours a Day ~ 3rd April 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ When I was drinking, I was absolutely selfish, I thought of myself first, last, and always. The universe revolved around me at the center. When I woke up in the morning with a hangover, my only thought was how terrible I felt and about what I could do to make myself feel better. And the...	Sobrietyspell	2	432	Apr 3, 2007 by DavidS
	hello again (Preview) Hello again... I visited here a while ago when I first got sober ( well actually, a LONG while ago)... I just picked up my two year medallion Thursday. What an amazing journey it has been. Without the program and AA, I would not be here to visit this board again. Im sure for those also in the program, I don...	miller2	9	334	Apr 3, 2007 by Roderick
	Courage (Preview) Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace. -- Amelia Earhart We have learned from experience that a wave of peacefulness washes over us after we have successfully finished a task that was difficult to face. Courage has its reward. However, from time to time, and from task to task, we fin...	Quetzal	1	356	Apr 3, 2007 by Eddie
	Daily Reflections Apr 3 (Preview) ACCEPTING OUR HUMANNESS We finally saw that the inventory should be ours, not the other man's. So we admitted our wrongs honestly and became willing to set these matters straight. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 222 Why is it that the alcoholic is so unwilling to accept responsibility? I used to drink because of th...	Doll	0	286	Apr 3, 2007 by Doll
	Thoughts (Preview) Nobody can change my thoughts but me. The first of the Twelve Steps asks us to admit we are powerless. Our first question might be, why? Shouldn't we try to change the conditions in our lives? Shouldn't we try to influence others to change too? If we put ourselves in good hands in this fellowship, we will...	Quetzal	0	316	Apr 3, 2007 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Apr 2 (Preview) CHARACTER BUILDING Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion.... TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 44 When I uncovered my need for approval in the Fourth Step, I didn't think it should rank as a character defect. I wante...	Doll	1	305	Apr 2, 2007 by Phil
	24 Hours a Day ~ 2nd April 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving towards my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? D...	Sobrietyspell	0	838	Apr 2, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	sponsor (Preview) So I met a nice woman about a week and a half ago and we talked for awhile after the meeting... she answered some questions I had and gave me her number. She mentioned that she would be a temporary sponsor for me - but that was it. I didn't respond to that comment and we just kept talking. I know that you can cal...	destinydreamer	7	414	Apr 2, 2007 by psychoktty
	Mornin just checking in (Preview) I know it's been a few days since my last post, just lettin the process sink in and letting things go and puttin my son in god's hands. He is adjustin well, to the livin in toronto and kept in contact with him. He has made some progress and improvements and I'm glad that there is a chance of him becoming a bet...	Tina	1	348	Apr 2, 2007 by Quetzal
	Self-Deception (Preview) "The first and worst of all frauds is to cheat one's self." -- Phillip James Bailey Are you hiding in some way from your own inner light? I wouldnt dream of stealing things but I do steal from my own potential. I can be a master at rationalizing, at justifying why its not the right time to do so...	Wren	1	478	Apr 2, 2007 by Quetzal
	Experiment (Preview) Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experiment. It is...	Quetzal	3	335	Apr 1, 2007 by Moon
	Forgiveness (Preview) Forgiveness is all-powerful. Forgiveness heals all ills. -- Catherine Ponder Getting mad at someone, a friend perhaps, is normal. Everybody gets mad sometimes. But when we stay mad for very long, it ruins all the fun we'd planned on having throughout the day. Staying mad multiplies. Sometimes it s...	Quetzal	1	336	Apr 1, 2007 by Moon
	hey y'all... (Preview) Hey everyone... well... seeing a new doctor on Tuesday, thankfully it's a lot closer than driving into Lincoln... still in quite a bit of pain... at times my back seems to be a little better, then it gets worse again. And it's always worse at night, sharp pains and twinges. Been taking the Aleve as presc...	LisaF	3	307	Apr 1, 2007 by LisaF
	Prayers Please...... (Preview) For my ex husband.......I had such hi hopes that court appointed AA would somehow get into his head. Instead, he spent his time there sharing about OUR DRINKING DAYS TOGETHER and all the fun we had (what he didn't mention was how MOST of those days turned into knock down drag out fights) - I had to stop g...	Doll	4	362	Apr 1, 2007 by Phil
	friendships (Preview) Is it common to lose most of ones old friends. One friend clearly doesn't get why I'm doing this he was heavy drinker and he was able to walk away from it, I lied even to my former and current drinking budies about the extent of my drinking and he believes my lies over the truth even now . another friend w...	Bryan39	10	507	Apr 1, 2007 by Bryan39
	Great Advice (Preview) There is some great info here I found some a little while ago I that I didn't even know I needed. I was craving something I was very antsy, I couldn't decide if it was a liquor craving or even a cigarette craving ( I quit those a couple months ago) or what. Its a rainy saturday where I'm at so I was reading pos...	Bryan39	5	384	Apr 1, 2007 by Wren
	People Pleasing..Having Trouble Saying No? (Preview) by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001(originally published at BodyTalk Magazine.com, Aug. 2001) Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other peoples needs before...	Phil	3	891	Mar 31, 2007 by LisaF
	I don't always get to know why (Preview) I don't always get to know why. I may find myself caught up in wondering why something happened while asking myself, "What did I do wrong?" or "Why did this happen to me?" If the situation is something I can change, I can plan how to change it. I can look at my options or ask someone el...	Quetzal	3	330	Mar 31, 2007 by Moon
	GOT A QUESTION (Preview) ((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))))) I have a question for you. been to an AA meeting the last two weeks. It is NOT a closed meeting. And I have been welcomed by every member I have spoken to. Given hugs and shaking hands. This has been good for my recovery. Listening to the shares has helped me to unders...	ally02	6	370	Mar 31, 2007 by ally02
	Accepting Powerlessness (Preview) We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics Anonymous Accepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn&...	Quetzal	3	3254	Mar 31, 2007 by Bryan39
	Daily Reflections Mar 31 (Preview) NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], "Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you...	Doll	0	265	Mar 31, 2007 by Doll
	Day 6 (Preview) This is day 6 of sobriety for me . I've been to a meeting every day since monday and I already feel my life changing I have hope again and I love it. I like message boards I knew there had to be some like this and I'm glad to have found it	Bryan39	8	358	Mar 31, 2007 by TLH
	Inquirin minds (Preview) Put up a few posts in regards to my situation with my son, and well he seems to be adjusting well and gettin on his feet. Just one thing that concerns me a little bit, Yes he has lost considerably amount of weight and well didn't look to good when he left. Spoke to him tonite and he seem a little excited...	Tina	6	399	Mar 30, 2007 by jeannie
	Daily Reflections Mar 30 (Preview) OUR GROUP CONSCIENCE ". . . sometimes the good is the enemy of the best." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p. 101 I think these words apply to every area of A.A.'s Three Legacies: Recovery, Unity and Service! I want them etched in my mind and life as I "trudge the Road of Happy Destiny&...	Doll	0	323	Mar 30, 2007 by Doll
	Telling people (Preview) So I'm very interested in "hearing" your replys. When or do you tell people you're an alcoholic even if it's a recovering or non-drinking alcoholic. When I get offered a drink at a social function and I say "NO". People look at me weird. I mean it would be much easier to take a...	Moon	9	1987	Mar 30, 2007 by LisaF
	Rambling.... (Preview) Hi there! Been busy working, writing, etc... But just wanted to pop in and share something. Things are good, totally cool with being the sober guy. Eating a lot of cookies and milk, reading a ton. Going to meetings, etc... Haven't got a sponsor yet because I'm being my usual remedial self, but...	TLH	4	346	Mar 30, 2007 by Moon
	high blood pressure? after quitting? (Preview) I haven't completely quit yet, but cut down drastically since last week and my blood pressure has gone up. Is this common should I be worried?	abcd	9	3652	Mar 29, 2007 by cooncatbob
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