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God Calling ~ Prayer without words
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"Spend much time in prayer. Prayer is the linking up of the soul and mind and heart to God. So that if it is only a glance of faith, a look or word of love, or confidence, and no supplication is expressed, it yet follows that supply and all necessary are secured. Because the soul, being linked to God...
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Daily Reflections ~ Readiness to Serve Others & 24hrs a Day
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. . . our Society has concluded that it has but one high mission to carry the A.A. message to those who dont know theres a way out. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 151 The Light to freedom shines bright on my fellow alcoholics as each one of us challenges the other to grow. The Steps to self-improvem...
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Sober member who died b4 our meeting
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We are waiting for the funeral. His family had little or nothing to do with him due to his past. He had many years of sobriety and he referred to us as his family. Every meeting seems to come back to our lost member. We all are grateful he died in sobriety. He lived the way he wanted to. He was retired and...
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A HAPPY VETERAN'S DAY WISH FOR PEACE OF MIND AND GOOD HEALTH...
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To the Men and Woman here that are Veterans, With a humble Heart, THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL!! hOPE YOU WILL ACCEPT MY APOLOGY FOR MY TARDINESS, AND BEING A DAY LATE AND A DOLLOR SHORT. TONI -- Edited by Just Toni on Tuesday 31st of May 2011 10:02:16 AM
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not much on coincidences!
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I have been praying dilligently for some time now asking my Higher Power ,whom I choose to call God, for direction in what I'll term my "4th quarter" of my life, but I am in no conflict with this being God's call and hopefully they'll be some overtime periods:) :) Anyway my wife wants to mo...
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The steps.
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Once we know the truth about alcoholism from the AA book it is dangerous not to practice the 12 steps in our life, because God himself has given us a lifeline & we have rejected it. In my own life my AA spiritual growth was stunted because, I had not shown any diligence as far as the actual practice of th...
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Sleeping Through at last
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Since 19th April I've been only getting about 4 hours sleep a night. Been like the walking dead round here. I've tried herbal remedies, like Sominax, to no avail. i've tried working myself to exhaustion to no avail I've tried a mug of cocoa at night to no avail But then, three days ago, I got some inform...
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Tings are good today
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Hi eveyone thanks for all the replayes that you sent me it did help me a lot to know that you were there and i could tell somone other than famliey.Sorry about spellings i am not very good at writting so i hope you can work out what i have been trying to say. I hope you are all well and not to cold as its very cold...
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Got a Man Cold - watch out for the meds!
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Yep, I've got a man cold, don't know if I'll survive to teh weekend. Seriously though, I found a bottle of Beechams all in one cold remedy and two packs of all in one tablets.....which to have? Not the liquid, it's nearly 20% ABV! check the labels.
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Absolute Gratitude
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It has been a difficult 2 weeks here in Indianapolis. It's race time here and nothing but party, party, party. Every other commerical on TV is an alcohol ad. Race time for me has always been party, party, party. There's Fast Friday, Carb Day and of course the Indy 500. Why am I so happy then? It's sim...
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I am Powerless...OVER Unbearable Pain
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Hi My Friends, Don't know, only hoping and Praying to God that by sharing this, -- Edited by Just Toni on Friday 27th of May 2011 07:35:02 AM -- Edited by Just Toni on Friday 27th of May 2011 07:37:58 AM
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Seems like Light years between Saturday Nights!!
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Saturday night, another day lucid and aware,feeling spiritually fit and blessed as I watch our little Jaelyn(38 days young)sleeping ,my daughter staying with us for weekend while her husband works overtime, my 25 year old son , still clean from his Heroin addiction and just left for his house and my...
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Daily Reflections ~ Our Primary Purpose & 24hrs a Day
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The more A.A. sticks to its primary purpose, the greater will be its helpful influence everywhere. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p.109 It is with gratitude that I reflect on the early days of our Fellowship and those wise and loving foresteppers who proclaimed that we should not be diverted from our primary purp...
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SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION 'BIG TIME'
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Hi Guys/Gals Just wonder if any you people have ever combated DEPRESSION ? Any good therapists here in Vegas anyone might know who knows what their doing ? Question(s) How if any of you got - over their depression ?
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I smoke...this seems like just another way to harm ourselves and hide...
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Do a lot of you smoke? When I'm smoking I'm thinking, "this is a lot like drinking...an addiction, harming myself, out of control from the addiction, something I don't want to do and isn't good for me or anyone else, something I run to that distracts me from my pain or stress, something that may be k...
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God Calling ~ Forget
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"Regret nothing. Not even the sins and failures. When a man views earth's wonders from some mountain height he does not spend his time in dwelling on the stones and stumbles, the faints and failures, that marked his upward path. So with you. Breathe in the rich blessings of each new day - forget...
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Daily Reflections ~ True Tolerance & 24hrs a Day
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The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 139 I first heard the short form of the Third Tradition in the Preamble. When I came to A.A. I could not accept myself, my alcoholism, or a Higher Power. If there had been any physical, mental, m...
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Physical and mental changes after quitting
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Hi Everyone, It's been two weeks for me. This site helps, because it's still not easy. I was wondering what changes you all noticed within yourselves at the beginning of quitting and then later on. I've noticed deeper thinking...glimpses of the truth. I've noticed some physical changes too and just...
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Daily Reflections ~ Equal Rights & 24hrs a Day
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At one time or another most A.A. groups go on rule making benders. . . . After a time fear and intolerance subside. [and we realize] We do not wish to deny anyone his chance to recover from alcoholism. We wish to be just as inclusive as we can, never exclusive. A.A. TRADITION: HOW IT DEVELOPED. pp. 10, 11, 1...
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God Calling ~ Test Your Love
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"A great love knows that in every difficulty, every trial, every failure, the presence of the loved one suffices. Test your love for Me by this. Just to be with Me, just to know I am beside you - does that bring you joy and peace? If not, then your love for Me, and your realization of My love, are at fa...
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Something Only an Alcoholic Would Say
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I'm watching the movie "Blue Valentine" and this choice little bit of dialog was something I just had to share with you all... CINDY: Id like to see you have a job where you didnt have to start drinking at 8 oclock in the morning to go to it. DEAN: No, I have a job that I CAN drink at 8 oclock in the mo...
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Member dies in AA meeting right B4 meeting
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One of our very special home group members had a heart attack before our meeting while fellowshiping in meeting place. I had just arrived before ambulances got there. I was very close to him. I talked to him daily about working the program. He was a wonderful and inspirational member of our group....
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God Calling ~ Roots and Fruits
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"Remember the lesson of the seed in its sending a shoot down so that it may be rooted and grounded, while at the same time it sends a shoot up to be the plant that gladdens the world. The two growths are necessary. Without the strong root it would soon wither, as much activity fails for lack of growth...
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Sobriety
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Hello, this is my first time on this website, and looking forward to making new sober friendships. The road to recovery was a messy wreckage I left behind. I began drinking Wild Turkey shots for my teeth pain I was going thru and didn't have Dental Ins. But that 1-shot turned into 6-years of destruction...
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God Calling ~ Claim More
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"You are doing your claiming as I have said, and soon you will see the result. You cannot do this long without it being seen in the material. You see others manifesting so easily, so readily demonstrating My power. But you have not seen the discipline that went before. Discipline is absolutel...
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Never give up, but protect yourself too.
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I'v heard it said and I believe it to be true. Never give up on something good you can't go a day without thinking about. if it's meant to happen, it will, if not, it won't, but whatever, it'll happen in God's time, not mine. But finally, never make someone your priority if you're only an option for them.
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Repairing relationships destroyed through alcoholism
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Hi guys! Its week 3 for me sober and I find the most difficult thing for me to deal with now is the emotional hurt of having destroyed a relationship with someone I truly loved through the effects of my alcoholism. After many drunken fights, lies about drinking, saying many mean things that I never rem...
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Six months down - a lifetime to go.
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Hello fellow travellers, As of the 19th of May I have been six months sober and I feel great. AA has given me some great tools to not only stay sober but to be happier. The buggy things in life don't get to me anymore because most of them I can't change so I just ignore them, and the ones I can change usually inv...
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Relationships- very difficult
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Where to go. I've been praying more than ever, but my patience is wearing thin. My wife and I: married 16 years, 2 kids 14 & 12, I've been sober 3 + years, she had an affair for a year during the first year of recovery. This was done discreetly. Sounds text book huh.... We were going to mediate a d...
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Releasing the Giant within
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The other day on the radio I heard a story about a Catholic priest in Melbourne in the '50's and '60's who was one of the first progressive priests of the time. He wasn't interested in doctrine or even what religion you followed as he saw them all a different paths to the same end. What he wanted to do was (in...
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My ass hurts
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Just wanted you all to know that. I have been cramped into small airplane seats all day and I thought you all needed a shocking new topic. Tom
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Daily Reflections ~ Progressive Gratitude & 24hrs a Day
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Gratitude should go forward, rather than backward. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 29 I am very grateful that my Higher Power has given me a second chance to live a worthwhile life. Through Alcoholics Anonymous, I have been restored to sanity. The promises are being fulfilled in my life. I am grateful to be free fro...
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32 days ago I died in the ambulance...
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Yesterday, at 30 days my son turned 3. Today went to my regular meeting house and got my chip. My new second home.
After all these years of trying it on my own it took dying with a BAC of .54 to wake me up. Talk about a spiritual awakening. I know other have had the same, and I know others for whom death made no...
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Your anonymity is not automatically protected here. (From John)
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Hello folks, Someone has eluded to the idea that they thought their anonymity was automatically protected here, but this is a public message board. It can be crawled by google, yahoo, and another search bot that roams around the internet. If you are using your full name in your registration, inste...
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Daily Reflections ~ Happy, Joyous and Free & 24hrs a day
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We are sure God wants us to be happy, joyous, and free. We cannot subscribe to the belief that this life is a vale of tears, though it once was just that for many of us. But it is clear that we made our own misery. God didnt do it. Avoid then, the deliberate manufacture of misery, but if trouble comes, cheerfu...
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God Calling ~ Abundance
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"Get a feeling of bounteous giving into your being. I give with a large hand and heart. Note the draught of fishes. The net broke; the boat began to sink with the lavishness of My gift. Lose sight of all limitations. Abundance is God's supply. Turn out all limited thoughts. Receive showers a...
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What happened to contrition?
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What happened to contrition? Hardly ever heard in meetings nowadays. That was the hallmark of Dr Bob's recovery. My contrite heart refused self pity & resentment. That's what refused to divorce my wife when she got mad with me. That's what refused to leave my employer when he scolded me when I wa...
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God Calling ~ Accomplish Anything
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"There will be no limit to what you can accomplish. Realize that. Never relinquish any task or give up the thought of any task because it seems beyond your power, only if you see it is not My Will for you. This I command you. Think of the tiny snowdrop-shoot in the hard ground. No certainty even t...
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I've been f**king up
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Got nine months and then racked up 4 lapses. No "oh my god, where's Dad? It's been two days!" benders, but though a failure to maintain my spiritual; connection with my higher power I have allowed my character defects to get the better of me and old habits behaviors being what they are' I'm an...
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God Calling ~ Little Frets
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"Your lack of control is due not to the big burdens, but to your permitting the little frets and cares and burdens to accumulate. If anything vexes you, deal with that and get that righted with Me before you allow yourself to speak to or meet anybody, or to undertake any new duty. Look upon yourself...
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God Calling ~
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Win Me, Win All "You will conquer. The conquering spirit is never crushed. Keep a brave and trusting heart. Face all your difficulties in the spirit of conquest. Rise to greater heights than you have known before. Remember where I am is victory. Forces of evil, within and without you, flee...
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examining one's motives.
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it's something thqt of late I've realised I do afer the fact most times. Basically I lie to myself and dress my motives up in something more palatable to me. A couple of weeks ago I needed to go to two banks. I convinced myself to go to the ones across the mall from where my son works. I felt uneasy so talked to...
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One day at a time........
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......this being one of those days that must happen. It's not a good day for me. I don't know what to do to change it, or more rather to change the way I'm looking at it. Gratitude List - well I'm still sober, still don't want to drink, got friends, people who care, I can show love, I can accept love, I can help...
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Nothing but...
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...gratitude today. I was reading through recent posts and somewhere someone said something about making a gratitude list that had nothing to do with yourself. Well, I tried, but I could not. It did not take more than a few entries to realize that even if I was expressing and feeling genuine gratitude...
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Meetings are crucial and I don't ask why.
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The longer I am sober the more crucial the meetings become. The relapse begins with complacency & self satifaction. One slip is all it needs for the entire structure to collapse. The speaker's story tonight spoke of just that. What's frightening is that the family are just as sick. They were will...
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Thought/Meditation of the Day
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ SELF-ACCEPTANCE We know that God lovingly watches over us. We know that when we turn to Him, all will be well with us, here and hereafter. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 105 I pray for the willingness to remember that I am a child of God, a div...
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Todays Meditation
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ WHAT WE KNOW BEST "Shoemaker, stick to thy last!" . . . better do one thing supremely well than many badly. That is the central theme of this Tradition [Five]. Around it our Society gathers in unity. The very life of our Fellowship requires the pres...
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AA Thought For The Day
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A.A. Thought for the Day
The A.A. way is the way of sobriety, and yet there are slips. Why do these slips occur? Why don't we all accept A.A. and stay sober from then on? There are many reasons, but it has been proved without exception that once we have become alcoholics we can never drink successfull...
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Thought/Meditation of the Day
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Be A Sponsor*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ GLOBAL SHARING The only thing that matters is that he is an alcoholic who has found a key to sobriety. These legacies of suffering and of recovery are easily passed among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our gift from God, and its bes...
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Daily Reflections ~ As We Understand Him & 24hrs a Day
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My friend suggested what then seemed a novel idea . . . "Why don't you choose your own conception of God?" That statement hit me hard. It melted the icy intellectual mountain in whose shadow I had lived and shivered many years. I stood in the sunlight at last. It was only a matter of being willi...
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