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i am back
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hey everyone . its been ages since i posted internet access been a prob in my neck of the woods but thank god i am up and running again :) life is good for me i am so grateful to be sober. im a 2 yrs living in my new town and i am well settled now in my aa groups made lots of friends and feel part of again! please god i c...
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Past Friends....
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I was told from the beginning of my recovery that you cant hang with your old friends. I thought ok.....makes sence that you wouldnt want to hang with the people you were with while self destructing. I have 2 friends who have stuck by me and love me for who I am. They still drink, how much? Not sure. On...
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Did life get better?
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After 15 months, I went back out. I post this reluctantly, and admittedly, still intoxicated. And I am sitting in my basement, asking myself, did life get better. It's been a week, not crazy, just drunk, for a week, every night. Only nights, not days or mornings like before. But finding old behav...
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Holiday time! (That's vacation time to my colonial cousins!)
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well now, three days working in Newcstle upon tyne, achieved far more than I estimated, then a productive targets and objectives setting meeting today in Birmingham, a meeting every night this week, an unexpected pay rise and an unexpected bonus payment. Management have agreed that I can self mana...
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Daily Reflections ~ Release From Fear & 24hrs a Day
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The problem of resolving fear has two aspects. We shall have to try for all the freedom from fear that is possible for us to attain. Then we shall need to find both the courage and grace to deal constructively with whatever fears remain. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 61 Most of my decisions were based on fear. Alcoho...
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Do not feel unworthy of your HP.
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I have a friend that is struggling. I am not his sponsor as he is a long distance buddy and is in NA. From what I can gather, his HP has laid down a red carpet of welcome, but for some reason, he is missing the signs. It really seems like he feels unworthy or even afraid of accepting the help. Its almost lik...
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Daily Reflections ~ A.A. Regeneration & 24hrs a Day
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Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: strength arising out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of ones old life as a condition for finding a new one. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 46 A thousand beatings by John Barleycorn did not encourage me to admit defeat. I believed it was my moral obligation to con...
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Time to head for the hills
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My Buddy + our Prayers = Result!
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Gypsy Steve is over the worst and has been released from in patient to out patient tonight. Still not out of the woods, undergoing chemo at the moment, but things look a little promising. He really had one foot in the grave a couple of weeks ago. Thanks people. Sorry got that wrong. It's not chemo it's som...
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High School Reunion
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After some thought and prayer, I have decided to go to my high school reunion (30+ years) and since I've never been to one before, I'm a little nervous. I am traveling in with friends, and they are social drinkers (they can take it or leave it) and there will probably be some drinking going on. I've been a...
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My Prayer
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One of the things my sponsor taught me was a very important concept of prayer. He said to me the hallmark of every good recovery is gratitude. As I learnt to pray, my prayer turned from one of petition to total gratitude to God. I now find more of my prayer is for others than myself. I get such tremendous ful...
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God Calling ~ Wait
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"The world has always seen service for Me to be activity. Only those near to Me have seen that a life of prayer may, and does so often, accomplish more than all the service man can offer Me. If man lived apart with Me and only went out to serve at My direct command, My spirit could operate more and acc...
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Conscience is, in most men, an anticipation of the opinions of others
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: Conscience is, in most men, an anticipation of the opinions of others. -- Sir Henry Taylor We are no longer in doubt about the right actions to take toward others. The program's Steps clarify what is appropriate behavior. Thus we know that doing any injury - physical...
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Possible Surgery Looming
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Hi My regular Doctor and Physical Therapist somewhat agree that I may need to have the Knee surgery done. Will not know for sure until I see the Ortho on July 8th. More tests need to be done, x-rays and another MRI, plus more intense therapy. So no some ways I have been in a downer mood. It is the not knowing...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Fellowship of Freedom & 24hrs a ay
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. . . if only men were granted absolute liberty, and were compelled to obey no one, they would then voluntarily associate themselves in the common interest. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 50 When I no longer live under the dictates of another or of alcohol, I live in a new freedom. When I release the past and all the ex...
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A new vision.
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We are on pension street working on our ministries that God has given [AA & Alanon]. No stress, no fuss. For the 1st time all our cares are for those we sponsor & teach. We are not overwhelmed by their problems but exalted by God to see what a challenge He has placed before us. Our ministry does not...
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gonee
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A small thing that can cause tremendous damage
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Today in my interactions with others I will remember that like a small bit that can turn a 2000 lb horse and a small rudder that can turn an enormous ship ,so too the tongue ,a small part of the body can cause enormous damge.I will remember my tongue relects whats in my heart, I will work to ensure this po...
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Twenty Four Hours A Day
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Friday, June 17, 2011You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours)A.A. Thought for the Day We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one lifetime. One life of drunkenness, failure, and defeat. Then, through A.A., another life of sobriety, peace of mind, and use...
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Peace...
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Often I will use an online searchable Big Book and look up a word. I will read what it says and use it as a point of mediation throughout the day. Today I searched for the word "Peace", and this is one of the places it is used in the Big Book. Chapter 4 Pg 50 Here are thousands of men and women, worldly indee...
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John
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Daily Reflections ~ Deep Down Within Us
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We found the Great Reality deep down within us. In the last analysis it is only there that He may be found . . . search diligently within yourself . . . With this attitude you cannot fail. The consciousness of your belief is sure to come to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 55 It was out of the depths of loneline...
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sobriety celabrations
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Just a quick questions. A lady was refused a 32 yr medalion because she had missed 3 business meetings in a row. Would like some feedback on this. And is it a general practice to always provide a medalion on a persons sobriety date when birthday begins with year one.? What other ways are sobriety bir...
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Acceptance as a way of life.
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"..the serenity to accept.." That was our AA meeting theme tonight. We don't need strength, to accept the things we cannot change, but serenity from God. He will give us the peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr Bob says that our heavenly Father will never let us down.
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Thanks to God.
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I enjoyed a wonderful day of fellowship & fun with my children & their friends. We had so much laughter & fun with kids in their 20's. No drugs, no alcohol, just pure joy of being together & sharing. The fruits of the program is now materializing in my children. God has done a great work i...
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ALREADY tired of feeling like I need to make OTHERS FEEL OK ABOUT MY SOBRIETY
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! It's only day 3 and I'm already tired of feeling like I need to smooth over the idea of my sobriety to everyone else (friends and family). It isn't a big deal for me, why is it a big deal for them? Yes I get cravings but I am going to meetings and even only on the 3rd day it has been way ea...
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Daily Reflections ~ Openmindedness & 24hrs a Day
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We have found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To us, the realm of spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to all men. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 7 Open-mindedness to concepts of a Higher Power can open d...
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God Calling ~ Glory, Glory Dawneth
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"I am planning for you. Wonderful are My ways beyond your knowledge. Realize My bounty and My goodness more and more. The wonder of being led by Me! The beauty of a guided life! You are overcoming. You are counting all things but loss if you can win Me. And the promises to him who overcomes are...
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Anyone having thoughts about Weiner?
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Anyone recognize the signs of addiction in this sad story? I really do not like this guy but the signs are classic. I am just really glad his last name was not "Vagina".
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New to Site
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Been reading alot of good recovery; thanks. Been in and out of the program for a decade or more. What is different this time is the realization that the program works when I grow spiritually. Glad to be here.
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new to the forum
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Just wondering how this all works? i have an issue and need help
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Just a short note...
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All: I just wanted to share a teeny bit here tonight. I was feeling lower than whale doodoo tonight for some reason. Not really sure, but all day today, I've been in a funk. I feel like if I tried to explain why I am feeling so low that I will start crying. My high school reunion is this Friday through Sun...
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coincidences?
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so listen to this for a cnain of coincidences. I'm in another city 120 miles from home. Went to a ,meeting last night and met a lad from sheffield (just down the road from home) another man whois relocating to another city where a friend of mine lives, so I could pass his details on, same guy got the job thro...
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WE need advice. I cheated, we love oneanother. Alcohol & Xanax addiction.
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This is the first time for me. After being booted out of the Al-Anon posts (when I already feel like an outcast), I am reluctant to repost TOM, but I need advice. I Have been drinking since I was 16. Heavily since I was 18. I'm now 28. Was addicted to pain pills (and alcohol) after I graduated college (2005...
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New. Still Drinking. Want to Stop.
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I am new here. I have never admitted that I am an alcoholic. The truth is, I am an alcoholic. I live in a very small town and am afraid to attend meetings because I am well known. I have a copy of the Big Book and just began reading. I have so much work to do and yet I'm terrified of exposing myself. I've tr...
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Daily Reflections ~ Making A.A. Your Higher Power & 24hrs a Day
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. . . You can . . . make A.A. itself your higher power. Heres a very large group of people who have solved their alcohol problem. . . . many members . . . have crossed the threshold just this way. . . . their faith broadened and deepened. . . . transformed, they came to believe in a Higher Power. . . TWELVE STEPS A...
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First steps.
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Hi there. I am coming to this forum in desperate need of help, I have 40+ days without a drink and am doing ok with that facet of the program. where I am floundering ENORMOUSLY is in being able to get out of my own head and deal with the real problem my mind. I have been unable thus far to get out of the lieing,...
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Relationships
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I have read today's Daily Reflections several times now and today has been, mostly, no different then the other times. I can go on and on about how, before A.A., I was incapable of having *any type* of true and meaningful relationship. But, I'm guessing most of us can.
What I seem to focus on is the qu...
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Daily Reflections ~ When the Going Gets Rough & 24 hrs a Day
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It is a design for living that works in rough going. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 15 When I came to A.A., I realized that A.A. worked wonderfully to help keep me sober. But could it work on real life problems, not concerned with drinking? I had my doubts. After being sober for more than two years I got my answe...
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I am new to the online blogging, can someone help me with my fears?
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I am haveing trouble finding the route of my fears in the second column please someone message me so i may discuss it more openly.
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New member: Seeking similar stories
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Hi, I'm a new member here and would like to make contact with someone that shares a story similar to mine. I am in agony at this moment that I have made the mistake of drinking again, yet my path has been different from most of the alcoholics I've known. I began drinking at the age of 18. It was binge drinking...
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First Post
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Hi I'm Milo. I'm not new to AA by any means, I've been to several meetings over the past 3 years. And all of them have gave me wonderful support. I never really had the will power or tenacity to continue or make a change, I always would go through phases of quitting make it through a few days and go back to dr...
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Daily Reflections ~ Living Our Amends & 24hrs a Day
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Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is to some extent, ill. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 122 It is important for me to realize that, as an alcoholic, I not only hurt myself, but also those around me. Making amends to my family, and to the famil...
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stressed out - I am a gom
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Dear All, Today I put diesel into my petrol car and had to get towed home. Two good things, had automobile cover which paid for that and was just after a meeting so fairly well grounded, am still a bit stressed though, so am just going to chill now.
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new to forum....Help!
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What can I say....I'm a functioning alcoholic...my husband is also an alcoholic..... He's struggling...health issues...HE IS STRUGGLING...been to the ER twice via rescue I'm trying to help him yet I'm trying to save me.... I feel that I'm the one with the life preserver, staying afloat...someti...
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Request for help...
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Hello everyone, As many of us already know, the economy is taking a toll on so many people, so hard that life as we once knew it has changed. So it is with me. As I write this post I am struggling to just keep my head above water, but the water is rising very fast. And I am reaching out for help. At one time, th...
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Hard Drinker vs. alcoholic?
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Hi everyone, I am 35 yrs of age. I grew up in a home with a functional alcoholic father. I began drinking around 18 yrs of age mostly social situations. As I went to college/grad school, I seemed to drink faster and more than everyone else around me. I would have occasional blackouts, but nothing reg...
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Daily Reflections ~ Forming True Partnerships & 24hrs a Day
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But it is from our twisted relations with family, friends, and society at large that many of us have suffered the most. We have been especially stupid and stubborn about them. The primary fact that we fail to recognize is our total inability to form a true partnership with another human being. TWELVE S...
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AA UK 2010 Survey
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just received the results of the AA UK Survey 2010 - makes interesting reading. How did you hear about AA 31% via exisitng member, 20% out the phone book, 14% from their doctor, 13% via Treatment Centre, 5% Internet, 4% returning member, 2 % each Radio, newspaper, Leaflet, Probation and 1% other notic...
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Happy B day AA
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http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2011/06/10/happy-birthday-alcoholics-anonymous/
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turninggrey
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Confused
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i am very confused. i am 6 days sober now and confused on the relationship thing. i have been in a relationship for 7 months now.. i have decided to quit drinking. this was a big part of our relationship. he brews beer and enjoys it very much. to support me, he has been sober for 5 days now. he does not howeve...
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Please mention my buddy in your prayers tonight
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The first man I met in the fellowship was a guy from my home village. I was always scared of him as he had a violent reputation. Of course now I know him better I'd trust him with my life and liberty. Gypsy Steve has been sober since Adam was a lad. A couple of years ago he was diagnosed with a form of Leukemia. Y...
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