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Meeting
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Are we having a meeting tonight?
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Career change
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I posted about this before. I was going to do part time work in substance abuse....working in IOP. Nothing panned out. Well, now it panned out. Submitted 2 week notice at my current job to start a job working in a rehab. I know a large part of this is motivated by the 12th step but I also am wary of havin...
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Life on life's terms
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I thought all the slogans and rituals and people reading and holding hands was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooo cheesy when I first started. I mean really - did they have to make it so uncomfortable for MEEEE??? LOL - oooo I can change the font and stuff... and actually see what I'm typing lol yeah - small joys : ) An...
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Tragedy strikes
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I'm spinning out - as I just got the very worst news I've ever gotten in my life. So here it is: What recovery looks like when the real trauma hits... and actually... I prepared myself for falling apart (as I would have done in the past). I started isolating. I started expecting to shut down... but none of t...
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Are you lucky today?
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Let's share what you are feeling for today - Lucky or Unlucky Please don't break the format. You have to tell two things - Mood (lucky or unlucky) and Reason (Description). Mood: Lucky Reason: I got my cash for my 1 month of Internet marketing work from my 7 clients. Now it's your turn guys _____________...
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Dysfunctional Family Dynamics
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Does it ever really stop? Fractured families, inappropriate boundaries, loving people who we really don't like or wouldn't choose to be around on a regular basis? I find myself in a difficult situation. Between loving my family members, who are still practicing our disease, and maintaining m...
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Weary.
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For all of us who are weary and heavy laden, I just want to say that God is with us. I was like that a few days ago. I found that gentle prayer and subtle meditation gives me rest. I am fortunate to have many of you brothers and sisters on this board who give so freely of themselves.
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gonee
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Today's Gift 07-06
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There is nothing permanent except change. --Heraclitus Most of us don't like change very much. Getting sober is like stepping into a rushing river of change that will take us to new places in our lives. We sense that. We are learning to trust it more each day. But even though life keeps getting better fo...
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Thought for the day
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You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go Near the Top I know you're tired. I know you feel overwhelmed. You may feel as though this crisis, this problem, this hard time will last forever. It won't. You are almost through. You don't just think it has been hard; it has been hard. You have been...
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Bad Tuesday got fired ...no meeting.... woke up feeling ......
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GREAT! So I've been working as the head chef at a resturant by my house. Yesterday I walked in and I was informed that the resturant was going to close for renos for 6 months and that I would be hired back on when the Reno are done. I was a bit upset because I was enjoying the position but apperently even tho...
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My son's birthday.
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He was 2 years old when I sobered up in AA. 27 now and involved in church ministry work and AACA. I could have written a different story without AA's 12 steps of recovery. Last year my first sponsor's 30 year old son committed suicide after being on drugs for a long time. My sponsor relapsed after 8 years of...
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gonee
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Thought for the day
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Friday, July 5, 2013You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go Survivor Guilt We begin recovering. We begin taking care of ourselves. Our recovery program starts to work in our life, and we begin to feel good about ourselves. Then it hits. Guilt. Whenever we begin to experience the fulln...
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justadrunk
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Craziness
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So last night I go to check on my 11 y/o son after he had still been alone for the last 7 hrs all day and now the wife was at a Alanon meeting. He had already bugged his Mom at a meeting telling him he was scared when are you coming home. So she asks me to check on him until she gets home. So I say ok. She tells me she's...
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PAW
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I just wanted to Thank Dean for posting PAW It was a big help for a friend of mine . Russell
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What is up with the mobile site?
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Not sure where to post this. Do not like.the new format..Light blue font on white background is very.difficult to see. Is it just me?
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Today's Gift 07-05
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A.A. Thought for the Day People often ask what makes the AA program work. One of the answers is that AA works because it gets us away from ourselves as the center of the universe. And it teaches us to rely more on the fellowship of others and on strength from God. Are these things keeping me sober? Medita...
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Pythonpappy
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Never Goin' Back Again
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I had Pandora running in the background a little while ago and I don't know why, but the song that came on stuck me right about where I am in recovery at this point ... it's by Fleetwood Mac and a happy sort of tune ... When the phrase 'You don't know what it's like to win' came across, I was thinking about 'win...
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Pythonpappy
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Independence Day
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Happy 4th of July! First and foremost as we all celebrate today in our respective ways, let us remember those brave men and women, both past and present, who have valiantly fought so that the people of the USA could enjoy so many wonderful freedoms! Thank a soldier they deserve the honor! My very ow...
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12 Steps to Insanity
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Twelve Steps to Insanity We admitted we were powerless over nothing - that we could manage our lives perfectly. We could also perfectly manage the lives of those around us. Came to believe that there was no power greater than ourselves and that the rest of the world was insane. Made a decision to have ou...
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Bob K
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Just thought I'd share this.
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(J. C. Philpot) By five minutes real communion with the Lord . . . we learn more, we know more, we receive more, we feel more, and we experience more than by a thousand years of merely studying the Scriptures, or using external forms, rites, and ceremonies. One truth written by the Spirit in the heart, wi...
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gonee
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Today's Gift 07-04
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Independence, like honour, is a rocky island without a beach. --Napoleon BonaparteWho hasn't taken pride in doing something that no one thought could be done? It gives us satisfaction to do something difficult, to lift our head high and say, "I did this alone." We take pride in being the b...
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Pythonpappy
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Getting What I Deserve?
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I think most of us have an idea of what to expect when we take certain actions throughout any given day ... I, for one, have become accustomed to practicing the principles of AA in pretty much every area of my life ... over time, great changes have occurred in my life that are so good, I couldn't have imaged...
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Happy 4th, Everyone!
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To my American friends out there, happy 4th of July! To all my non-American friends, what the heck, happy 4th of July, as well! In our country, this is one of the big party holidays of the year, and I'm gonna be partying hard by staying home, watching the *"Leave It To Beaver" marathon, and eat...
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I am not a social being.
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Kathy here... 11 months June 30th. I am sober. I feel relatively good. Some looming sadness. I just keep heaping pressure on my self to be MS. AA Totally not my personality. I work two jobs, sometimes three. Now I have nothing to do because its summer. I'm off. I am afraid of people, to get invol...
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Acceptance
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My spouse is always flirting with other men. I talked to her about it and she says she will not stop flirting or going out with men as friends on dates 1 on 1. I've known about this as of recent. I can't Change or control another. I accept the situation but don't like the behavior. I forgive but am hurt becaus...
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Personalities and sensitivity
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I will go to my regular home group meeting in a half an hour or so. Today there will be a meeting of trusted servants after the meeting to the group to address someone lingering after the meeting and groping one of the employess of the center where the meeting is held (this will be done with the "offe...
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Ugh, another gratitude meeting, zzzzz....
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OK, this is just me, but I generally avoid Open Discussion meetings because they tend to be all over the map. It's just my personality, but I prefer Big Book and Step meetings because I feel like I get more program out of them: we read the texts and the comments tend to stay on topic. I like the classroom fee...
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Today's Gift 07-03
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There are really only two ways to approach life - as victim or as gallant fighter - and you must decide if you want to act or react, deal your own cards or play with a stacked deck. And if you don't decide which way to play with life, it always plays with you. --Merle Shain Being the victim is, or was, uncomfor...
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Pythonpappy
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Sober in Italy
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Hey All,
So... just a quick check-in while I have a brief chunk of Internet. I wanted to share that for the past seven days I have been in Italy with my in-laws and my wife, sober. This is my first time in Italy (first time in Europe in 9 years, actually). As a gift to us, my wife's parents told us we could tag...
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Grapevine
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July 3 "On a daily basis I choose not to drink - or to fear, hate, be angry, or indulge in any other defect that's raising its ugly head. They're all there waiting, and when given a chance they charge into the center of my life and try to take over. But when I work Step Seven I find that my life is filled w...
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Mike B.
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Reconnecting
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Hi All, Long time, no post! I just wanted to reconnect because I have been away for a while and have suffered as a result. Long story short is that I was visiting my in-laws for the past week and I had no access to internet. In addition to that lifeline being taken away, my in-laws are all extremely heavy dri...
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AdamMoz
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Good Morning Everyone!
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Just wanted to come on and let everyone know that yes, I am still alive and yes, you are being thought of!! I have had to recently deal with anxiety attacks that were whipping' my butt, and some physical medical stuff related to both the anxiety and my thyroid. Seem to have the anxiety in check for the mos...
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John
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Simple definition of prayer.
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I thought I would share this with you. It was so simple yet so effectively expressed. That's how I reached out to God in my time of need."For prayer isn't getting on your kneesprayer is the elevation of the heart to God. That's all a man needs. You can pray in a prison, you can pray in an airplane, you c...
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Im new here
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This is the first time I have ever sought help for alcohol. Can anyone give me advice as far as to navigate this site, what is helpful on this site and what have you done that has helped you. Ive always drank but 4 years ago my daughter passed away and I have spiraled down every since. Thank you
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Think you're spiritual?
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If you can live without caffeine, If you can be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains, If you can resist complaining, If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time, If you can take criticism and blame without resentment, If you can ignore a friend's limited education and neve...
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Today's Gift 07-02
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Procrastination Higher Power, it was so easy to put things off during my addiction.I pray to remember that postponing facing up to reality is really self-pity in action. When I procrastinate about solving problems, I am only making the problems worse. Let me remember that solutions come from taki...
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Pythonpappy
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Grapevine
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July 2 "I no longer pray to have my fear removed. Today, I pray that my love grows bigger than my fear and that my humility becomes greater than my shame."
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Mike B.
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Walked out of a meeting today
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I'm not sure what was going on. This guy brought up 'personal hygeine' as a topic, and then commenced to share on that topic in very very graphic detail. It was not good.
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I am new please help
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How do I get to the 12 step program? Or is all I am seeing it?
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Still around...
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And sober. The last week has been one of the most trying times of my life. On the 25th my Future(unknown to us at the time) Son-In-Law died in an industrial accident. He was unbanding some steel coils and one fell on him. There are many reasons why this should had not occurred. But it did. God's will. T...
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A Soldiers Prayer
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I asked God for strength, that I might achieve. I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey. I asked for health, that I might do greater things. I was given infirmity, that I might do better things. I asked for riches, that I might be happy. I was given poverty, that I might be wise. I asked for power th...
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Bob K
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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Quote of the Week "Don't ruin an apology with an excuse." Before recovery, I was full of excuses. I didn't do this because... I acted this way because she did that. He deserved it so I gave it to him, etc. On the rare occasion when I was cornered and couldn't justify my behavior, I'd make an...
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Pythonpappy
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Today's Gift 07-01
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He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help. -- Abraham Lincoln Our negative judgments of others very frequently inform us of our own shortcomings. In other words, what we dislike in others are often those things we hate about ourselves. Much better than criticizing another's abhorrent...
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Pythonpappy
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Thought for the day
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Monday, July 1, 2013You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go Receiving Here is an exercise. Today let someone give to you. Let someone do something nice for you. Let someone give you a compliment or tell you something good about yourself. Let someone help you. Then, stand there and take...
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justadrunk
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Grapevine
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July 1 "I go to lots of meetings. I get there early and help set up. I stay late and help clean up. I extend my hand as it was extended to me ... I've been given a second chance and I'm here to be of service."
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Mike B.
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Praying advice?
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Hey everyone, I'm new to AA, I have 68 days today! I've found a sponsor and of corse will be talking with her about this soon, but I thought I'd try online too. I have always believed in a higher power. I haven't had bad, or good experiences with any of it. But, I'm just having troublefor some reason praying...
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The prayer answered.
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All our prayer is recorded by God and answered. However we are not ready to accept the answer to our prayer because it is not in line with our expectations. This is where meditation is required. We have to meditate on the truth of the situation. Continued practice and prayer will eventually enable us: t...
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Got set up this morning....
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and I'm grateful to HP for it. Aloha Ohana...hope you're all doing good and are not too hot. I'm sitting next to an open windown enjoying the breeze blowing off of the Pacific Ocean which is soooo nice. I ain't taunting...seriously...just enjoying a freebee from HP.Got up early this morning and...
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Thought for the day
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Sunday, June 30, 2013You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go Accepting Change One day, my mother and I were working together in the garden. We were transplanting some plant for the third time. Grown from seed in a small container, the plants had been transferred to a larger container;...
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Today's Gift 06-30
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People have always wanted to talk to me about their problems. I guess I'm a good listener. Maybe I have something to contribute after all. --Joann ReedNo one is without value in this life. Maybe we haven't discovered our unique purpose or special gifts, but we each have a place in the universe or we woul...
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