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Today's Gift 3/22
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We are only human . . . paying attention to our growthTrusting our partner has a lot to do with trusting ourselves. When we feel confused, unsure, or in conflict about our own direction, we may shift our attention outside ourselves. Even when we feel unsure about our self-worth, our negative feeling m...
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Stinking Thinking (lol)
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In an hour and a half I will again enter court, called there because I don't conform to local law. Local law is not Hawaiian Law...it is considered state law and state law is u.s. law. I have no need to be offensive to anyone and ask HP to remind me of that when the anger rises. Hawaii is not a state and has...
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Tough Spots
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Every rough spot I have gone through has added a muscle to my emotional constitution. Heard this today and just wanted to share.
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Time to Post
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Hi All, It has been a very long time since I have posted. I am still in sobriety November 8th 2015 was my last drink and I am proud of my achievements. I have started recently thinking about having a drink but I always quickly dismiss it and carry on. I have missed a few meetings as grew tired of some of the con...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 21, 2016Quote of the Week"I learn to stop trying hard, and learn to try different." We alcoholics are a stubborn lot. When I entered the program, there was only one way to do something - my way. And if that didn't work I would just try harder. Bolstered by a seemingly limitless supply...
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Sunrise Quote
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Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul. ~Henry Ward Beecher
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Today's Gift 3/21
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Our Spiritual JourneyWe begin our spiritual journey at different times in our lives but most of us reach the same place eventually where we accept the guidance of a Power greater than ourselves. A Power that cares for us and accepts us just as we are. A Power that guides us, teaches us, and grants us just...
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Short Share
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"My eyes are ever toward the Lord, for He shall free my feet from the snare" Psalm 25:15 Peace, Mema
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Today's Gift 3/20
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If you have a dream, give it a chance to happen. ~DeVos, Richard M. on Dreams
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Today's Gift 3/20
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Love cures. It cures those who give it and it cures those who receive it. --Dr. Karl Menninger Love is no mystery, but its results are magical in many ways. It's generally accepted that many illnesses are psychosomatic. Because we often feel anxiously alone, lonely, fearful, and unloved, we expres...
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Sunrise Quote 3/19
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Never claim as a right what you can ask as a favor. ~Collins, John Churton on Advice
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Today's Gift 3/19
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Hope and patience are two sovereign remedies for all, the surest reposal, the softest cushions to lean on in adversity. --Robert BurtonIt is just as easy to think, "I can" as it is to think, "I can't." Both attitudes are habitual orientations to life that can become automatic w...
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Sunrise Quote 3/18
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We are here to change the world with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily rather then with one great breakthrough. ~Rabbi Harold Kushner
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Today's Gift 3/18
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You're never too old to grow up. --Shirley ConranA child's view of adults is that they have arrived at some fixed point where they are emancipated and have all the tools necessary for life. An adult knows that we never stop growing. Many of us have been stuck in an immature level of development. Our life...
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Today's Gift 3/17
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You have three choices: keep on fighting, ignore each other, or make up and be friends. --John KnoblauchOnce there were four sixth-graders - two boys and two girls - who started to fight even though they'd been friends for years. One morning at the bus stop, the boys started playing keep-away with the...
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Remembering Why?
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I've spent a decent portion of my life accompanied by a pretty wicked urge to drink. I had an angry at myself, disgusted with the world, sick of it all, drink to die sort of urge. The universe was doing a fine job demonstrating a serious lack of control even without my participation, and when I wasn't doin...
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Ever hit the stage where you just can't get drunk anymore?
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Where you can drink a 26oz of hard liquor yet you feel basically sober? It's an expensive proposition for anyone wanting to continue getting drunk.
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Today's Gift 3/16
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I've started to realize that waiting is an art, that waiting achieves things. Waiting can be very, very powerful. Time is a valuable thing. If you can wait two years, you can sometimes achieve something that you could not achieve today, however hard you worked, however much money you threw up in the ai...
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Why does Shit Happen?
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Well, ShitHappens because Forrest Gump said so... But that ain't reason enough to go get drunk, now is it? I'm glad you agree. :) Was bored and felt like posting something silly. Marc
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Great moderator Pappy.
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Sunrise Quote
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If you are losing a tug-of-war with a tiger, give him the rope before he gets to your arm. You can always buy a new rope. ~Max Gunther
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Today's Gift 3/15
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On any journey, we must find out where we are before we can plan the first step. --Kathy BoevinkOur lives in all aspects are a journey toward a destination, one fitting to our purpose, our special gifts, and our particular needs. Each day contributes to our journey, carrying us closer to our destinati...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 14, 2016Quote of the Week"God's message to me is 'stay out of the way, but be ready!'" This quote made no sense to me for many years. I mean, in the beginning the whole concept of "turn it over" and "surrender" was as foreign to me as speaking another language. I fo...
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Today's Gift 3/14
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I always entertain great hopes. --Robert FrostIn our honest journey, we must admit life is often difficult and painful. But these facts do not describe all of life, and they do not determine how we respond. The sun rises warm and bright after a cold and dark night. The open, generous smile of a small chi...
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"How old were you when you had your first drink and/or became an alcoholic?"
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This is a question I always got asked by the nurses at the detox and rehab facilities and by the doctors when seeking treatment at the chemical dependency center. I would say 4 years old. They'd look at me as if they didn't believe me. Until I explained. Yes, 4 year old alcoholic (unless you count in the...
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Largely Anonymous...
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Recently, I was hired on as a contractor with a local firm. Actually, it's more of a liaison position than actual contracting work. I'm kind of like a mediator of sorts or what they call a go between, if that word still exists. Anyway, I do a good amount of traveling for work. So a few times each month I pack...
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Sunrise Quote 3/13
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You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however. ~Bach, Richard on Dreams
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Today's Gift 3/13
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We wonder, "How can I ever say this?"We need to be free to talk about anything in our intimate relationships. Some things are very hard to say - an old secret we have never told before, a feeling or an observation our partner does not want to hear, a mistake we made that calls for confession. We...
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Sunrise Quote 3/12
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A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart. ~Heather Pryor
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Today's Gift 3/12
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Comparing my insides to other people's outsides causes me problems. --Joan RohdeFor most of our lives we felt inferior. Others seemed smarter, wittier, and more attractive. We felt inadequate every time we compared ourselves to others. Getting sober hasn't freed us from this behavior, at least n...
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Binge drinking
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I'm new, only two weeks sober. It's hard for me to admit that I'm in alcoholic because I can go for weeks or months without drinking. I can go out to dinner and have one or two glasses of wine with my friends and be satisfied. Then once in a while, I'll go out and have nine drinks, blackout, pass out, & e...
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Sunrise Quote 3/11
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All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope. ~Churchill, Winston on Simplicity
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Today's Gift 3/11
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The love, the acceptance of other persons makes me into the unique person I am meant to be. --Peter G. van Breemen, S.J.Our destinies are fulfilled through our loving involvement with the men, women, and children sharing our experiences. It is not by accident but by design that we've been drawn toget...
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Sunrise Quote
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Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth. Tame the dragon and the gift is yours. ~Noela Evans
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Today's Gift 3/10
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Good Grief"The strangest thing happened," said my friend, a lovably neurotic, very obsessive businessman in his mid-forties. "I was watching one of those afternoon TV talk show. This one was about problem kids. A parent comes on. She talks about how out of control her child is. The...
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Me the unholy alcoholic!
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"If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it--then you are ready to take certain steps." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS How many organisations do you know of that will put their members through that type of scrutiny. Our spiritual life demands of us to live o...
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Today's Gift 3/9
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Blame and CriticismAm I bored? Highly critical? Fearful or anxious? If the answer to any of these questions is "yes," I may be suffering the effects of procrastination.If I am plagued by boredom, I may not be seeking or initiating constructive changes in my life. By refusing to ask questi...
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Today's Gift 2/29
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Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations. --Faith BaldwinWe are learning as we go, and the experiences shed light on our own plans for proceeding. The steps we are taking in unison as well as on separate but parallel paths enhance the particular movements of us all.We often expect perfectio...
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Sunrise Quote 3/9
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Let us learn to appreciate there will be times when the trees will be bare, and look forward to the time when we may pick the fruit. ~Seller, Peter on Appreciation
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 7, 2016Quote of the Week"My sanity today is directly proportional to my honesty." Before recovery it was hard to keep my story straight. As my drinking and using increased, my omissions turned into half-truths, and these turned into little white lies. After a while I couldn't r...
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Today's Gift 3/7
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Being alone and feeling vulnerable. Like two separate themes, these two parts of myself unite in my being and sow the seeds of my longing for unconditional love. --Mary CaseyHow easily we slip into self-doubt, fearing we're incapable or unlovable, perhaps both. How common for us to look into the fac...
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Today's Gift 3/8
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Love it the way it is. --Thaddeus ColasIt's easy to love people who are like us, who may have been raised the same way, educated the same way, share the same values, or have had many of the same experiences. It's not as easy to love people who seem different. But if we are to fulfill God's plan for us, we shou...
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Atheist Alcoholics vs. Alcoholics Anonymous (GTA Intergroup)
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This Toronto atheist alcoholics vs. AA intergoup problem keeps bubbling up. Doesn't seem like there's a solution, though if there is one, it'll probably come from a sensitive reading and application of the Traditions. I haven't seen anyone do that yet. I have empathy for both sides but each side's...
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Sunrise Quote --- This One Spoke Volumes (to me)
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The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. ~Anna Quindlen
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Hi people
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My name is melissa. I'm really new at this. I have been trying since the last of the summer. Only to fall back off the wagan. I tryed to quit drinking on my own however I always turn back to drinking. My family and friends are worried. They try there best to help me out. But I lie and hide from them. I'm just so t...
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new comer
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I've never used this before,I've had some ups and downs and now have finally put the drink down ,I have an amazing sponsor,best friend and good group support,anyone have any suggestions on how they are coping in recovery?
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Tetox question
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I was drinking a lot very consistently. Tapered to about a 6 pack a day pretty quickly. The first 32 hours has been a cake walk. Does that mean it will likely be OK the rest of the way. I am reading scary things about detox especially 48 to 72. What is the likelyhood of encountering sever symptoms late i...
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Time for some Comic Relief???
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A police recruit was asked during the exam,"What would you do if you had to arrest your own mother?"He answered, "Call for backup." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ A cop pulls a guy over for weaving across two lanes of traffic. He walks up to the driver's window and asks, "You...
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Dialing in...
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Even after its inception, A.A. - with all its glowing endorsements - still remains a work in progress. As the largest recovery outlet for the last 80+ years, AA still manages to provide a welcome relief to countless victims around the globe. AA will, of course, have its detractors, here and abroad, ye...
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Today's Gift 3/6
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I can change only myself, but sometimes that is enough. --Ruth HumleckerHappiness is more fleeting for some of us than for others. We may ponder this notion but fail to grasp the reason. However, careful attention to how "the happy ones" go through life will enlighten us. We will note how s...
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