Cooperation seems simple: working together toward a common goal for the benefit of all involved. But amazingly it can be quite challenging, even when we have so many successful examples all around us. Human society is based upon the concept of cooperation, but finding a balance to ensure the good of all members of society is difficult. In nature, symbiotic relationships form between unlikely allies: a bee and a flower, a bird and a rhinoceros, small fish and sharks. Yet nature also shows us instances of constant competition in which only the strongest survive. Given the choice, it seems most people would choose the more peaceful path of cooperation. Intellectually, we know that together we can create something greater than what one could do alone, but cooperation still seems to be one of the greatest challenges people face. We don't always agree on how goals can be reached. Our priorities may be different, or our methods, but in the end, cooperation offers the best chance for success.

So how can we learn to cooperate with each other? We can gain greater perspective by trying to understand one another's point of view, perhaps even putting ourselves in their place. We can search for commonalities as well as differences, and look for the good in different approaches. There is always more than one way of doing things, and some approaches are better suited for certain situations than others. All this is easier when we let go of the necessity to be right and to call others wrong. More important, we must believe that there is a solution that benefits all involved, not just one side. ~OM

I hope and pray that I remember that this is a "We" program, and that I can set my judgemental self aside, and make room for allowances and acceptance while we all work together for the common good--which in this case, is our Sobriety. Sometimes, I sit and wonder at the relevance some things have to AA; until I remember (not often enough, believe me) that what is not relevant for me in my recovery is absolutely relevant to the recovery of another. I need to relax back and acknowledge that we all have our diversities, our ways of getting along on our paths to recovery, and that there isn't always just one way to reach the goal. Again, it's me setting my accursed, snotty ego aside, and just "allow" others to be who they are...Wren